Pearl - Conservatives BROKE Traditional Marriage

00:00:00.080 What's up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we're reacting to Joshua Lysick talking

00:00:05.120 about how conservatives actually are the ones who broke marriage. But before I start, guys,

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00:00:31.560 if you can click the link in the description all right let's get started i'm gonna talk about this

00:00:35.840 subject you people make it go viral so i'm just gonna keep talking about it i'm gonna do so on

00:00:40.880 video we are in a very strange period in history where separation of church and state has resulted

00:00:49.260 in and obviously this video is about the discourse and you know what i mean by that

00:00:54.460 We're in a strange place right now in civilization where civil marriage, secular marriage, civil

00:01:02.160 secular marriage, and religious marriage are wholly distinct.

00:01:07.460 If one were to look at Ephesians or 1 Corinthians or any number of New Testament passages that

00:01:13.580 describe what biblical marriage is meant to be like, you realize that not only you can't

00:01:20.500 enforce the roles of husband and wife, it's actually illegal. And I get a lot of heat from

00:01:28.280 the traditional conservatives, social conservatives, the alpha husbands, let's call them, okay,

00:01:34.300 where it's all about like holding your frame with your wife and, you know, putting her in her place

00:01:39.920 in this kind of language. And so it points in this video, I'm going to sound like a radical feminist,

00:01:46.240 and in other parts, I'm going to sound like some kind of a red pill pick up alpha goo or whatever

00:01:50.120 the heck okay and this is the strange place we find ourselves in so i'm going to also i'm going

00:01:55.320 to sound like i'm oscillating and it's going to sound paradoxical uh if not yeah and that's why

00:02:01.860 i think people get confused by me too because i'm just a little odd like i think traditionalism is

00:02:09.300 best for society uh but in 2026 i mean look at personally i know two men that took the traditional

00:02:15.620 route and both are absolutely cooked right now cooked naseki nada donezo so yeah brain breaking

00:02:23.180 okay so stick with me here for a minute but when one reads the bible one understands that this

00:02:29.620 business of men being in charge women submitting to and obeying their husbands that that's what

00:02:36.400 biblical marriage that is specifically what it says and in response men sacrifice okay uh that's

00:02:42.660 what men men are to do so how things are to do now when those commands were given and all other 0.99

00:02:48.900 commands i ought to say uh in asia minor and the roman empire more broadly women didn't have rights 0.97

00:02:56.180 that that was not a thing they did not have legal rights they did not have financial rights they did 0.99

00:03:00.260 not have workplace rights they had no kinds of rights they didn't even have the rights to bodily 1.00

00:03:03.960 autonomy i miss those days okay you know what it is because women we have this like rape fantasy

00:03:09.780 and maybe it's because back in the day we just got raped all the time sounds kind of lit i'm just 1.00

00:03:16.820 messing i just mess i'm just messing don't clip don't clip that damn it women were effectively 0.93

00:03:22.840 men's property okay children were as well by the way at this at this time and so what the apostle 0.96

00:03:30.460 paul was telling christian men to do in the first century he was appealing to their mercy recall

00:03:36.900 also that Paul told Philemon, the slave, to be a very good slave to his master, and that might

00:03:45.480 convince him to convert to Christianity. He didn't condemn slavery, but that's a whole other can of

00:03:50.340 worms we should probably open in another video, see if that can pop off, go viral, and create some

00:03:55.340 rage bait. Now, coming back to this business of marriage, that's what Christian marriage is 0.99

00:04:00.100 supposed to be, and that's what it is, okay? Now, you get a piece of paper, suppose you get a marriage

00:04:05.080 contract as a christian separation church estate means you even though you are making these vows

00:04:11.080 before god okay her duty to you in the christian marriage relationship you can't enforce that in

00:04:19.080 any way shape or form yeah and that's because of the duluth model um which basically says any way

00:04:23.940 that a man would enforce anything like yelling or telling her to do something or making her feel

00:04:29.140 like she has to do something uh is essentially banned you can't do it so it's illegal right

00:04:35.900 my wife disobeyed me and so she's broken her vows well this is domestic relations court sir

00:04:43.280 try enforcing that and then people you know and then again the the you know masculinity christian

00:04:49.940 masculine christians whatever they call themselves nowadays you know they will talk about the

00:04:55.200 importance of male chastity and whatnot and how important it is to you know forgive your uh spouse

00:05:03.440 for her sordid past but it was really really important for you to maintain sexual purity 0.81

00:05:07.460 when wait a second men can't be virgins all these guys they can't be virgin it's so true

00:05:14.240 it's so true um and men i don't know i think men like they can always still bond with a girl they 0.94

00:05:21.520 just want to like the problem is when women get through hoeing right we want to be done with the 0.82

00:05:26.560 guys we hoed with we want to destroy on the way out men want to keep them i don't mind getting 0.99

00:05:31.940 cooked by their wives and they still kind of wish their wife was in their back pocket they just want 1.00

00:05:35.840 to keep their toys it's like their women are like toys in their toy box they want to keep and then 0.98

00:05:40.920 their toy goes away and they're like no my favorite toy not my favorite toy there's no such thing as 1.00

00:05:48.320 a male virgin because the male body doesn't work that way. And I can't believe I'm the first person 0.66

00:05:54.280 to have to tell you this. In my professional ghostwriting experience, in that world, I meet

00:05:59.160 a number of people who are trying to BS themselves. And I think we all have a tendency to cope.

00:06:05.440 Cope, cope, cope, cope, cope, cope. I look at, I love coping.

00:06:08.260 Cope about everything. Most of us are lying to ourselves about most things most of the time.

00:06:12.660 mostly and i i think on this subject we're we're no different there's no better liar than someone

00:06:19.860 to themselves the bible says one thing about a marriage and you know you go and you get married

00:06:26.340 and there's expectations for her role but but legally like you guys need to look up your state

00:06:34.720 and every state is different every county is different but you really need to look up what

00:06:38.280 you're getting. And then there will be the libertarian Christians, you know, who are all

00:06:42.260 about, like, let's get government out of the business of marriage entirely, okay? So to them,

00:06:47.920 I will ask, okay, so when you got married, you didn't get a marriage license. You just went to

00:06:51.200 a church, right? Oh, no, we got the marriage license. Okay, so even you are not keeping

00:06:55.960 government out of the business of your own marriage. Isn't that interesting? Oh, well,

00:07:02.040 let's put the tax benefits in. Oh, okay. It's about money, really. You're going to throw away

00:07:06.800 your faith for 30 pieces of silver you're gonna throw away your faith well you know technically 0.73

00:07:11.300 even legally like i can't enforce marriage in the marriage contract anyway because i can't make her

00:07:16.220 tell me what to do or whatever right this is what i tell people the christian marriage is illegal

00:07:20.640 it's gaslighting i love this phrase christian marriage is illegal i love that that's a great

00:07:26.620 reframe there is no reality where a husband can force his wife to obey him even though that is

00:07:31.960 specifically what the bible says just read your just read your budget open open the bible read

00:07:36.840 the bible open the bible i don't know what it's not just open the bible okay not that hard people

00:07:40.780 the pushback that i get on this matter parallels to the pushback i also have been seeing from my

00:07:47.920 viral uh rage bait people call it on the matter of single moms and on stay-at-home moms and here

00:07:56.460 is where there's a there's a bizarre oscillation between the two extremes i talk about i sound

00:08:00.520 like the radical feminist you know joshua turf lysick and then over there i'm like uh okay so

00:08:07.880 you're basically rollo jr or something like that uh think about this for a second if you as a guy 0.95

00:08:14.080 if you want to have kids and you feel like you may have missed your boat a single mom is a woman who

00:08:20.200 has demonstrated fertility successfully isn't isn't that what you want if you're concerned that 0.86

00:08:25.200 this boat has passed you by and now you have a chance in your 30s maybe even 40s and here's 1.00

00:08:29.500 maybe a slightly younger woman who has some runway 1.00

00:08:31.660 left, so to speak? Would you not? 0.96

00:08:33.820 I mean, that's just...

00:08:35.600 And have a look at how many 1.00

00:08:37.160 single mothers are there still 1.00

00:08:39.620 of childbearing age? Guys.

00:08:42.080 And they're hotter, right?

00:08:43.980 Stepdad. Reframe.

00:08:45.780 Dad who stepped up. Also

00:08:47.540 on this matter, there is a stay-at-home mom

00:08:49.580 discourse where conservatives,

00:08:51.960 and when I say conservatives, I mean those people

00:08:53.620 who are platformed by conservatives

00:08:55.480 and they are the conservative networks,

00:08:57.480 the newscasters, anchors, people in the Trump administration, frankly,

00:09:01.200 those who are elevated.

00:09:02.980 And there's a bizarre situation, and all of this will come back to,

00:09:07.600 the difference between religious and marriage.

00:09:09.280 And I don't know exactly how to find a way forward here,

00:09:11.420 but I'm going to think about it.

00:09:12.460 Pearl Davis, who is just incredible content.

00:09:15.160 Thank you.

00:09:15.380 She asked me a question earlier tonight, and I'm still thinking about it.

00:09:18.740 Maybe I'll find an answer to it by the end of this video.

00:09:21.120 Forked tongue messaging from traditional social conservatives

00:09:25.380 is something like being a stay-at-home mother is the hardest thing you can ever it's not that hard

00:09:32.240 it's just so hard mentally emotional it's hard hard hard it's hard to make yourself like a guy

00:09:38.620 that you hate right do you know what i mean because you can't really negotiate how you feel

00:09:42.920 about things now people and so the issue is they're trying to negotiate liking someone they

00:09:49.320 hate and they just hate them so it's just sorry fellas we don't like men that much so wonderful

00:09:54.460 that you can do that and just but not many women have the opportunity and that's a good thing

00:10:00.800 actually because women need to be in the workforce and contributing and have a be a strong woman 0.98

00:10:07.120 female role model next generation of girls and be visible and be strong and you can be a mom and you 1.00

00:10:13.040 can have it all you can do all the things but the most important job in the world is a mother and 0.99

00:10:18.700 sacrificing and and being at home with your kids is the most it's the most important job in the

00:10:23.720 world except for the job you have outside your home which is really important to contribute to

00:10:28.300 society and be accepted that that's your home with your kid you see what's happening here 0.99

00:10:33.260 and i'm not even exaggerating you know look up any any any female content creator who carries

00:10:40.020 the label of conservative and you will see both of these things happening at once i think there 0.99

00:10:44.220 are women who have who have struck a balance and i think a lot of women were able to do that

00:10:49.540 actually through COVID-19, where with work-from-home business, there were women who were

00:10:54.100 able, like, for the first time to do a little bit of both, actually. And that's also. And the

00:11:00.560 rise of self-employment and side hustles and multiple streams of income and multiple gigs,

00:11:06.140 I think, has allowed for greater balance. There's not anything like work-life balance.

00:11:10.780 I talk to you all about my family and my relationships and my experiences.

00:11:14.820 I don't have anything like work-life balance

00:11:17.940 That's not a thing

00:11:19.200 I don't do that

00:11:20.540 A couple of mornings ago

00:11:22.160 I was up until 5am in the morning

00:11:23.960 Working on something

00:11:25.020 And then the next night

00:11:27.420 I don't think I went to bed until 2am

00:11:29.160 Because I was doing stuff with my kids

00:11:30.180 And I had to prep for this

00:11:30.960 And then that and the other thing

00:11:31.820 And then I was up at 7 or whatever

00:11:33.580 In the morning

00:11:34.160 And haven't gotten 8 hours of sleep in a row

00:11:36.700 And I'm recording this video

00:11:37.960 And I still have more stuff to do

00:11:39.020 And then it's just not a thing

00:11:41.260 This work-life balance business

00:11:43.020 And I think so much of our expectations about what should be are are based on very brief windows of marketing.

00:11:52.960 1950s, early 60s of the American dream and what that meant.

00:11:57.980 I think we need a new American dream that takes into account that. 0.67

00:12:01.920 Oh, you're a feminist, Joshua. Everything is feminism. Everything is feminist. 0.86

00:12:06.500 No, it's true. You cannot not be a feminist in this society. 1.00

00:12:10.400 every social system, legal system, academic system, political system, court-based system, 1.00

00:12:15.020 every economic system, every educational system, every social system, every sexual system, 0.82

00:12:20.740 all of them are feminist. If you live in the West, unless you've done the Waco hermit thing, 1.00

00:12:27.340 you're a feminist, right? Even the men who say they're not. Even the men who say they have a 1.00

00:12:31.560 traditional biblical marriage, you know that that's not legal, right? It's literally illegal

00:12:34.940 to be in a marriage, the Christian definition of marriage, where the man tells the woman what to 0.77

00:12:39.000 dude that's that's what the bible says a christian marriage is and the man sacrifices for his wife

00:12:44.260 oh that part's allowed oh yeah that part's not but this whole obedience and submission thing

00:12:48.640 in all things yeah and i went to all the churches that they said were special

00:12:51.960 and got ran out of the churches for asking if women should obey their husbands oh but pearl

00:12:56.980 pearl it's the way you asked it get out of here ninjas if i said okay should men love their wives 0.51

00:13:04.020 they would they would welcome me with open arms but if i said should women obey their husbands 0.77

00:13:08.080 they scream crash as in all things you submit to innovate your husband from all things there 0.95

00:13:13.680 is no exceptions uh but do you know any christians who have that kind of relationship

00:13:17.160 no they're all cooked anyways guys um let me know what you think in the comments um i love

00:13:22.820 his channel if you want to follow it it's joshua lisek and daily persuasion with uh joshua so i

00:13:28.760 think here yeah so if you want to follow it go follow him he's cooking if you can like the video

00:13:34.820 and subscribe to the channel on your way out

00:13:36.700 and I'll see you guys next time.

Pearl - October 06, 2026

Conservatives BROKE Traditional Marriage

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