00:00:00.000just because it is that doesn't define the entire relationship i am getting to know a person but
00:00:06.720it's still transactional so just because i say it's transactional doesn't mean that i'm not
00:00:11.680willing to get to know the person finally so i can move this forward there's something called
00:00:17.280a social battery that is means that when people socialize with someone they're transacting so much
00:00:24.000they may get tired some people will get tired earlier some people's social battery is longer
00:00:29.440This pretty much tells you that when they socialize, whether it's with a man or a woman, your friends, your man and a man, that there is some sort of energy time aspect that is happening here that makes a person tired or less willing to do it.
00:00:44.920If I'm sitting at home in my pajamas at 9 p.m. and my friend says, male friend, hey, you want to come out?
00:00:52.540I'm automatically going to go, do I want to be out till 2 in the morning?
00:00:55.640Do I want to spend time with these people?
00:01:06.560And I think where you're messed up is that you think that I'm talking about women being some sort of gold digger.
00:01:12.220When I'm saying that, all aspects of communication in people is transactional.
00:01:17.980What people think and get offended by is that when I add the woman, you want to put on your superhero cape and go super seance simp and think I'm attacking women.
00:01:26.580When I'm actually trying to show men that there's going to be a transaction nonetheless.
00:01:31.180Yeah, so first of all, I'm a simp for him.
00:01:41.200okay okay well i'm not defending me i'm not going to defend you because i don't think you're a man
00:01:45.440but with that being said well you think um with that with that being said sir um here's what i
00:01:50.080think here's what i think can i finish now because i'm obviously i don't care what you
00:01:53.760think about are you going to let me finish all right i'm defensive you're the neck it's my turn0.76
00:02:01.920i can't see your neck with your with your white beard you look like santa claus all right santa
00:02:06.400class, calm down. Don't freak out. Look at your face. Look at your face. You're a five foot tall Hercules. Be quiet. Are we done? Are we done? I bet you want me to take my clothes off. I bet you. We got my revenge. Look at your chest. I want both of you to look at me for a moment. I know we're having fun.