Pearl - Do Christian Men Like Public Humiliation？

00:00:00.000 what is up my net my net it's that joke getting old i think it's getting old what's up guys

00:00:11.660 welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network um today i have the show

00:00:18.280 for you but usually when i start the show i just tell you guys about my life not sure why you guys

00:00:25.100 seem to like that part of the show. I always thought, you know, who cares? But it just

00:00:34.060 seems like you guys always leave comments about what I'm doing. So, you know, I'll keep

00:00:38.340 going as long as, you know, the people demand it. So anyways, today we're going to talk

00:00:43.680 about Christian Sims. And this is something I've covered extensively because I really

00:00:49.200 did grow up around this um i was sick the last few days so i'm sorry that i haven't really

00:00:55.860 been at my best in terms of producing content i always try to put something out for you guys but

00:01:01.860 i'll tell you what if you guys saw my coffee talk friday i almost i like passed out right

00:01:06.860 after that and slept for like five hours and i'm not a napper you know um then i'd already signed

00:01:15.000 up for a volleyball tournament this weekend maybe it was like i shouldn't have been playing well

00:01:18.800 um but it was incredible because we played one of the days i played against um

00:01:26.000 i mean it was just like a sore throat stuff you know as you know but we played against um

00:01:32.780 it's a team in dallas called the dallas pulse

00:01:36.180 and i was in a women's tournament it was on um sunday and this women's tournament um

00:01:44.880 it i normally play co-ed at my gym okay they're getting rid of the basketball court in my gym

00:01:52.760 it's the last week but i normally will just play co-ed i'll be at the gym it's um it's incredible

00:01:59.240 right and i play with guys that usually have like maybe i have about 20 years of experience

00:02:04.540 in playing volleyball um but the guys i play with i would say have maybe up to like

00:02:10.340 five years max of experience playing volleyball. And anyone that's a volleyball player knows when

00:02:17.660 you pass, like sometimes their passes have really bad form, but it's kind of incredible

00:02:22.160 how even with bad form, like men can still excel at a very technical sport.

00:02:30.560 To the point that this weekend when I played in the women's tournament,

00:02:34.220 I actually felt like the game slowed down for me. I kind of thought I was going down in my level of

00:02:40.280 play because i was playing co-ed but the guys had like no experience um but when i played with

00:02:45.140 women's i'm like this is actually kind of slow like my passing was like the best it had been in

00:02:50.040 years and i had the funniest idea okay and i need you guys if anyone knows anyone i think that my

00:02:59.220 rec team i wouldn't even play i think that the guys at my gym that have only been playing for a

00:03:05.700 few years could seriously beat the professional volleyball team because we played against a few

00:03:16.340 pro players. And when I was thinking, I'm like, their hits are not as hard as the guys I play

00:03:22.660 against that literally are just rec players. And I think it would be so funny to have the guys at

00:03:29.560 my gym play against the professional dallas women's team and i would bet on the guys at my gym

00:03:35.780 so um gen z men they're different they are not um messing around like you know they are not

00:03:48.560 messing around with this um like millennial men i would say treated women special like they don't

00:03:55.540 want to play too hard against women um but gen z men they will beat your ass they don't give a

00:04:01.600 fuck like they're like look if you want to play against men we'll show you how to play against

00:04:05.320 then. Promise to God they will. Promise to God. I need peptides. What peptides am I supposed to do?

00:04:28.500 No, I don't think I have an ideal facial width to height ratio. I don't. I think it's actually

00:04:34.120 unideal i think i've done the looks maxing.org and caitlin jenner was ranked above me and i'm like

00:04:39.880 wow you know you can't win them all i should take out my gum i should take out my gum sorry guys

00:04:50.520 unprofessional unprofessional woman

00:04:55.320 yeah i don't know gen z i'm two months i'm a millennial woman but barely i like barely made

00:05:01.240 millennialism i was kind of i was born in november and if i was born in january i would

00:05:06.200 have been gen z so close yet so far i like gen z women better than millennial younger the better

00:05:12.360 am i right or am i right like they're really um liberal sure but they still have youth in your eyes

00:05:19.640 in their eyes

00:05:20.280 all right so trying to think let me let's go through my twitter before i get to the topic

00:05:33.960 today which is mainly the twitter and then oh a couple updates where if you want to donate to

00:05:41.080 the stream it's best to use gofundme right now we are we do have an app um but the problem was the

00:05:48.220 app they just kept raising the prices on me to the point it was ridiculous so now we're swapping a

00:05:54.300 new app but we're kind of like we're gonna migrate everybody but it's just we're waiting for it to be

00:06:00.220 done so anyways um so if you want to donate to the divorce documentary which um we're kind of

00:06:10.620 finalizing the people we're going to interview for it now so you know if you have a good story

00:06:15.900 feel free to email me all right let me go down um let's see oh i thought this was this is one

00:06:25.980 of my old clips that i saw on twitter and i just thought was really funny i was kind of chunky

00:06:31.100 there my favorite tradcon women talking points i'll pray for you we know you're not

00:06:42.940 praying for shit you never tell me you'll pray for me when things are going good when i'm having a

00:06:48.140 great time and we're getting along fine you never say you'll pray for me but how crazy is it that

00:06:53.500 whenever you're mad that's when you're gonna pray in a convenient how how using god to be passive

00:07:01.900 aggressive they're my my face yeah okay okay here we go

00:07:12.380 oh apparently clavicular is um pressing charges against this woman which is pretty funny

00:07:21.020 do you really believe women don't before right

00:07:25.260 that's kind of a fucked up thing to say right

00:07:27.900 right? You said you don't believe women deserve rights? Like which ones? Like all women. It

00:07:36.400 says all women deserve rights. What is wrong with you for that? Like which one? You're

00:07:40.400 married as hell. Well like can you clarify what you did? You were raised by a mother.

00:07:46.900 You know all women deserve rights. I'm just fucking you. Like which one? Like which right?

00:07:52.900 oh i gotta stop playing this i'm gonna get copyright i i might have to edit that out later

00:08:10.260 or clip it um let's see what else oh okay rock climbing anyone ever done rock climbing in here

00:08:26.980 this rock climber basically started he never lifted before and he started lifting with pro

00:08:32.720 bodybuilders and like these guys are way bigger than him but the rock climber is just as strong

00:08:38.240 if not stronger and it kind of makes sense because when i was a kid we did crack climbing

00:08:43.040 and that was so hard here we go guys let's see uh replays on the first day

00:08:49.680 no way it's not even a struggle though are you kidding me this video should be seen by

00:08:55.280 every bodybuilder in the world look at all the bodybuilders and it's just so easy though

00:09:00.800 He's doing the same number of reps as us with the same amount of struggle too, but you could have been more reps.

00:09:10.800 I want to stop when the forum goes down kind of.

00:09:14.800 All right, we're not exaggerating for the camera. That's genuinely mind blowing. You're 165.

00:09:20.800 165 you've never 160 never done this in your entire life a single rep and you just did the

00:09:28.000 same working weight and reps as us with more reach emotion and with good form and with what

00:09:34.000 he just said he just said he stopped and the form went away every bodybuilding coach in the world

00:09:37.520 just wants to give you a hug right now they're all just like god we love this i like how the

00:09:42.240 bodybuilders are humble though they're like giving him his props

00:09:45.360 what there's a one arm what is this girl oh we got to turn off the sound what is she doing

00:10:06.760 oh my god

00:10:07.960 oh my god wow yeah i've done rock climbing before it's pretty hard you you're really sore the next

00:10:16.580 day so yeah i mean that's a hard sport that is hard sport let's see what's going on before we

00:10:23.120 get into the topic an uber driver oh my gosh an uber driver picks up a cop during the middle

00:10:28.160 of a foot pursuit to help him catch a suspect.

00:10:58.160 oh my gosh oh my god this is like the uber drivers playing like a real life video game

00:11:14.140 stop stop get down get down get down it's my bag it's my bag put the phone down

00:11:24.780 lay down on your stomach lay down on your stomach black people like incredible he's like my bad

00:11:32.140 what the what the that's hilarious i bet that uber driver is going to tell that story forever

00:11:40.540 um apparently taylor frankie paul loses lost custody of her son after the disturbing dakota

00:11:47.980 Morton sin fight video surfaced. It's probably a good thing. Um, coach Greg Adams says women

00:11:55.440 cannot drive saying men get in more accidents is not proof of our poor driving. Many of the

00:12:00.320 accidents happen in the rear view mirror of many women. She has no clue of the car that she's

00:12:05.860 creating behind her. That is so true. Actually, I got a new car accident recently. Oh my God.

00:12:13.020 it was the dumbest thing. I was like, Oh my God, I was a fender bender. And, um, oh my gosh,

00:12:20.920 I just, I backed up into a girl and I didn't even hear it. It was so weird. And the girl was so

00:12:26.480 pissed. Like she comes up and she's like yelling at me. And it was kind of crazy because

00:12:32.220 like I had nothing. I'm just like, yes. Um, I was wrong. And that was really stupid and I'll pay for

00:12:42.020 it do you know what i mean like it was like i think she was expecting me to like blame her in

00:12:48.100 some way or i don't know but i i do you know what i mean yeah i would be i yeah you know

00:12:57.780 there was no like i wasn't arguing i was like oh god that was i haven't gotten into an accident

00:13:05.300 in like since i was 16 and i'm 29 so you know i haven't even

00:13:13.040 and i yeah and then she calmed down and i was like i was just but i i was just like look um

00:13:25.000 i was wrong you were right i'll pay for it i'm so sorry yeah you want to go call the cops to log

00:13:32.460 get insurance do you want to like we can we can we can do whatever i'm like this was um

00:13:40.460 i was in the wrong i got i literally got nothing for you yeah and then i paid for it so she got

00:13:46.380 it fixed i paid for it um it was it was stupid um cost me like 800 bucks so

00:13:53.100 i mean it was what was i gonna do do you know i'm like you know what i mean because they're

00:14:02.280 like oh you were wrong and i'm like yeah i was wrong i i felt bad you know i didn't mean to

00:14:08.520 ruin her day you know but i don't know i don't know if anyone's had that situation where someone's

00:14:14.640 so pissed i did look behind that's the worst part i did i was looking behind but i don't know why

00:14:22.240 like in the mirror she just looked further than what she was you know

00:14:28.720 like it just i don't know like in the me i don't know like it was just weird because i was really

00:14:34.320 convinced that i was not it was so it was so stupid and um now i'm talking about it on live

00:14:41.600 and just letting people know my incompetence i think a man would never tell anybody but i'll just

00:14:46.880 i'll just own that i mean

00:14:52.240 yeah okay I know the objects in the mirror are closer than they appear like

00:14:58.780 I don't know it was okay look I've backed up before I've backed up a million times and never

00:15:09.560 had that problem do you know what it was I had I was kind of sick and I had a bad reaction to

00:15:14.780 something so i think i was just a little out of it you know yeah just

00:15:19.880 yeah you know it was it was stupid i was wrong it was stupid yeah

00:15:28.920 yeah i mean it was i mean but that's that's what happened she was like oh i'm like i could just

00:15:37.100 tell she was starting she was yelling at me and pissed and that was fair i was like oh my god

00:15:42.600 but then she calmed down and then i gave her my number and then i paid for it so

00:15:53.560 i do not drive worse than an 81 year old karen okay i'm like i don't really okay um

00:16:04.520 let's see luca donix x is filing for child supporting california despite living in

00:16:09.800 sylvania which luca claims is an attempt to secure a bigger payout um yeah so this woman's trying to

00:16:16.440 put this guy in child support she's known him since he was 12. this is what i mean so many

00:16:21.800 couples think i was just talking to this guy the other day he's like oh i've known my girlfriend

00:16:27.000 since middle school she would never do that and i told him i'm like well you never really know

00:16:35.720 what a girl's gonna do because i've met women and then he kind of just looked at me all awkward and

00:16:41.800 i'm like do i need to shut up maybe i should just shut up more he's like oh she would never

00:16:50.040 Like people ask us for relationship advice and I'm like, well.

00:17:06.260 Oh, this girl, this is kind of funny.

00:17:10.180 I saw this girl that was like Arizona babysitting group.

00:17:14.420 And hey, everyone, I'm looking for a family to take on part time.

00:17:20.040 and i didn't think this would get the traction it did but this girl's like beautiful right

00:17:24.600 and i'm i'm just thinking you guys are playing with fire hiring a woman this hot

00:17:30.420 they're gonna hire her and they're gonna she's gonna be like where are the kids and he's like

00:17:34.980 just sit you're fine pearl you don't know anything about christian men shut your mouth

00:17:43.440 then why do you guys keep proving me right every day it's like i you know

00:17:48.200 clavicular exposed a mother for cheating on stream and going viral and then apparently he said that

00:17:56.220 my wife is a grown woman who i've been with for 21 five years she can do what she wants

00:18:00.380 love you sweetie i don't know if that's true like i don't know if this is real so i'll just keep

00:18:06.880 going oh if anyone cares about what i'm eating this week um you guys seem to like this

00:18:12.380 um so this is my meal prep I just had a drumstick before the show to be honest this rice I normally

00:18:24.740 make really good rice I don't know why I messed this up um I took a picture of it because it looks

00:18:30.340 cool but honestly I died through it away because it was weird it was like soft on the outside and

00:18:38.260 hard in the middle and i've made rice a million times it's never done that before so i don't know

00:18:44.400 what i did um but the other stuff was really good these granola bars and i don't want to hear the

00:18:51.580 judgment and in the comments because sometimes sometimes when you cook and you try different

00:18:57.600 things every week sometimes you mess it up like it's just part of life so you know i know the

00:19:04.580 presentation was good for this but it was actually trash so i threw it away um then i did drumsticks

00:19:09.920 um then i did these granola bars which are pretty good and then i switched this with sushi rice

00:19:17.980 because that turns out okay for me so apparently um the owner of only fans died and um this guy

00:19:29.260 says rip king thank you for giving the single moms a chance in this big mean world and letting

00:19:33.760 us see their buttholes yeah i think only fans is a good thing because it reveals female nature

00:19:41.120 and nobody else is going to teach you that

00:19:48.800 women are incredibly evil but is this kind of valid i got the ick because he texted me

00:19:53.120 how was your weekend i actually liked him but now i have to ghost yeah

00:19:58.080 um i don't know if this is true but i just want to believe it's so bad seven dogs were stolen

00:20:07.320 from their owners and have gone viral after after escaping their captors and making their way home

00:20:12.260 this group is believed to have traveled 17 kilometers together and led by a corgi across

00:20:17.660 the highway and fields like that is the cutest thing i've ever heard all right here we go

00:20:25.060 all right we are getting into the topic today like the video if you want to pay me right if

00:20:34.140 you want to pay me to support if you want to support me you can donate um somebody's got

00:20:41.280 to call out these simps whores and 304s um and you know somebody's got to do it it might as well be

00:20:49.360 me so feel free feel free yeah i'm just saying i'm just saying feel free i like money but i don't

00:20:56.800 need it to do what i do because i do do this for the love of the game okay so twitter has erupted

00:21:03.480 because christian simps are gonna sit now i have covered this topic extensively and i'm gonna give

00:21:10.920 you my credentials to talk about christian the christian topic and you guys can decide

00:21:16.600 if you think I'm credible. And if you don't think I'm credible, you can exit now. You don't have to

00:21:22.820 listen. You can just write off my opinion. You can say, Pearl, your opinion is stupid and just

00:21:28.900 bounce, right? Now, the number one place that I get my opinions from is my upbringing. And I grew

00:21:34.940 up in a Catholic family and I went to Catholic school for 20 years. I would say my family went

00:21:43.520 to mass most Sundays, not all Sundays, you know, sometimes we drank too much. Right. But most

00:21:49.440 Sundays on top of that, um, when I went to college, um, I didn't really know what I believed.

00:21:56.280 So I did experiment with a lot of different church churches. That's not the only way I

00:22:01.020 experiment. Um, but I went to a lot of different churches. Um, and I found myself after school

00:22:09.060 in a non-denominational church um i wasn't really sure what i believed i remember like mapping out

00:22:15.220 um all the different religions and i remember thinking jewish would be cool i know the spurgs

00:22:20.640 are gonna come out but i remember thinking i wish i could believe that because the miracles are just

00:22:25.040 a little bit hard for me to fathom like i don't know if i like the parting the red sea i'm like

00:22:29.700 that just seems a little bit like did that really happen you know um but i remember thinking i

00:22:38.940 believed catholic the most and the reason at the time i believed catholic the most

00:22:43.480 um was because i'd been in a non-denomination sorry it was because i felt like there needed

00:22:51.800 to be an authority figure um so that all the churches didn't run wild because i spent two

00:22:58.760 years in a non-denominational church and in the non-denominational church although i did make a

00:23:04.880 lot of friends. If any of you are watching this, sorry, I loved some of you, but there was just a

00:23:10.880 lot of, you know, nonsense. And I couldn't really articulate why it bothered me. I couldn't figure

00:23:18.380 out why, but something just seemed off. And I think a lot of people have that feeling in church,

00:23:23.900 but they just, they cannot articulate why everything feels so off. Since then, I don't

00:23:33.640 really know what I believe because the non-denominational churches have gone off the

00:23:37.760 rails. But I've also seen Catholic churches go off the rails. Now, I know what they're going to

00:23:46.460 say, right? I know they always come back and they say, it's always kind of a gaslighting, right?

00:23:51.060 They say, no, that's just the church you went to. And it's always people that have believed for

00:23:55.380 less of a time. It's like, I spent 20 years in Catholic school going to church for 20 years

00:24:02.560 and now your experience of like four precedes mine I don't know I don't know like it's just

00:24:10.540 um and it seems like and again I'm not the most educated person on this so you can tune out

00:24:19.800 if you know but I'm not like it just seems like whenever you argue religion people want to be

00:24:27.440 right so bad like they just it's like they want to be right more than they love god or more than

00:24:34.160 it's like and then they just start shouting verses at you and it's kind of the same way i feel when i

00:24:40.000 i quote like when i do debates and they quote studies right i almost feel like your religion

00:24:46.480 should make sense without you having to quote scripture because if we go back and forth i've

00:24:51.520 I've been to like three different churches that can quote scripture a different way, you know, and it's the same thing with like interpreting data.

00:25:00.820 I'm just kind of a pattern noticer. Right. And this is just the patterns I see.

00:25:08.020 And I'm sorry, but I really did not see the Catholics not like growing up.

00:25:17.260 I never really heard a sermon on women being addicted to social media, not banging their husbands, not getting fat and just overall being cunty.

00:25:25.040 When I hear when I go to a church and I hear the pastor or the priest or whoever the hell is in the front demonize female sin the way they demonize male sin, I think I'll believe it.

00:25:37.380 um but again i i did 20 years and i'm like and there's always just this gaslighting you get

00:25:46.260 from christians and it's like the eternal gaslighting they've all been christian for

00:25:51.760 five minutes which by the way the average religion timeline is eight years um so i actually would like

00:26:00.900 to implement and I'm, I'm going to, I'm going to implement a rule that I think I'm going to offer

00:26:07.840 to the Christians that I, I think all of you, whatever your religion is, I think you would

00:26:14.320 gain a lot of credibility. You'd gain a lot of credibility. If you implemented this rule,

00:26:22.580 you cannot tell me anything about anything ever until you have been practicing in your faith

00:26:34.360 for a decade 10 years that's a big chunk of your life that means you'd start at 20 and you can't

00:26:44.060 nag me about it till you're 30 doesn't count if you were raised in the religion

00:26:48.040 I need 10 years of adult choices that you made.

00:26:59.360 Yes.

00:27:00.580 And yes, your actions have to match.

00:27:04.260 Now, I'm not saying you can be perfect.

00:27:06.560 You have to be perfect.

00:27:08.320 But I think there's some sins that we can just all agree,

00:27:13.880 I don't think are the most difficult to not make.

00:27:18.040 Um, and you know, like, I'll give you an example. I think as a woman dressing modestly is very easy. That's not a difficult thing to do.

00:27:48.040 Now, again, I'm a sinner. I'm not even coming at this from a holier-than-thou. I'm not even coming at this from a, I think I should be the last person lecturing about scripture.

00:28:09.320 But I think this implementation of a decade before you can nag, you can lecture, you can debate, but like you can't be a representative of your church.

00:28:20.160 I don't know.

00:28:20.780 I think that the men should take this and run with this and find a better system, right?

00:28:26.220 But what seems to happen is everybody gets better.

00:28:29.680 Okay, I made a, hold on.

00:28:30.700 I made a little thing I want to read.

00:28:34.640 It's the Jesus cycle.

00:28:38.800 Step one, I changed five minutes ago and now I believe in God. Step two, throw a party. Some

00:28:46.060 people think of this as baptism, the sacraments, etc. Okay, throw a party. Next, lecture everyone.

00:28:56.980 So there's a psychological phenomenon that when you lecture everybody about everything, it's

00:29:02.260 because you miss that thing more than anything. It's like the way I lecture fat people about food.

00:29:06.860 It's because there's a part of me that I could just be a 500 pound bitch.

00:29:11.580 I could be, I have that in me.

00:29:13.580 I fucking love food, right?

00:29:16.100 And that's why I lecture about it, right?

00:29:18.360 But it's important to understand the psychological phenomenons that we can fall victim to, or

00:29:24.200 maybe not victim to, but we do without knowing maybe, but you can also identify them in other

00:29:28.960 people.

00:29:30.520 So the people that lecture everybody usually want it really bad, right?

00:29:34.800 they want it um so again they lecture everybody as if they are better

00:29:43.120 when they themselves have only been christians for like five minutes sorry one year two year

00:29:48.240 even five years like that's kind of a baby christian when you think about it like

00:29:52.960 if this is a lifelong journey five years really like not not that long

00:29:58.800 wrong. The same way, like if you've been working a job for five years, you're actually kind of

00:30:05.320 competent, right? But like even me, I've been doing YouTube for five years. And you could say

00:30:12.640 like, okay, I'm pretty good at it. But you know, Megyn Kelly probably knows more about media than

00:30:18.240 me because she's been doing this like 20, right? They then use God to manipulate people. So they

00:30:33.140 use Jesus, um, to build their following online, um, to get attention from either men or women,

00:30:39.780 to signal purity or to get money.

00:30:46.080 Then they get caught doing the same thing as everybody else.

00:30:53.620 And then everybody acts shocked.

00:30:56.740 And then more people leave the church than they converted.

00:31:00.820 So there's a big argument that says,

00:31:03.620 oh, well, I mean, at least they spread the good word.

00:31:06.360 I would say no.

00:31:07.080 i would say elijah schaefer sarah stock you people um because you were using god for your

00:31:15.720 self-interest right uh you you've led more people away from church than to it and i'm really kind

00:31:22.660 of getting sick of the religious people not you got to call out you got to call out these grifters

00:31:27.880 okay um they're using like didn't jesus flip tables

00:31:32.920 okay now going back to my personal experience growing up we had i went to catholic school

00:31:48.200 and in catholic school we had chastity speakers every single year

00:31:53.740 let me find this and one of them that came to my church was Jason and Christiana Everett

00:32:09.040 and this was a couple and it was kind of the same old same old this is Catholic couple

00:32:14.180 so I don't I don't want to hear it the orthodox I don't have enough experience in orthodox

00:32:19.260 to give examples for you guys. I probably could find it. But I once had an Orthodox priest

00:32:25.720 join one of my spaces and tell me that women don't sleep with their husbands because he doesn't like

00:32:33.060 pay attention to them or some bullshit. And I'm like, yeah, okay. You guys all, every church is

00:32:39.080 going to do the same thing. Now, and the reason I'll give, I'll give a reasoning. The reason this

00:32:51.140 stuff grinds my gears, I think, is because I think it's despicable, um, to use people's belief

00:32:58.660 against them. Cause I would say there was one, there was a time when I was a practicing Catholic,

00:33:02.560 right there was a time when i was more religious but um there's nobody that hates you more

00:33:11.120 than someone that was fooled right like and i think a lot of people feel like and that's why

00:33:19.040 i've always i've always died on the assertion that you don't meet a lot of intelligent men

00:33:24.000 over a certain age probably 40 that still go to church because they've just seen this cycle too

00:33:29.680 many times. They've seen the same cycle. Orthodox priests are also prone to be out of touch and not

00:33:42.160 mention skew things in the defense of women. I have never, of course I've been fooled. What do

00:33:48.460 you think? Yes. How do you think I became the way I am? What the fuck? I have never seen a church

00:33:58.100 that doesn't default to group programming and it's i don't know so it seems like the best religion

00:34:04.420 is just the religion that's at your house with nobody else involved where the man just interprets

00:34:10.420 he can read the bible and interpret it and then tell the woman what to think that seems like to

00:34:15.940 be the best way because men naturally seem to seem to find reason on their own that would be

00:34:21.700 I don't know. Like it just, I've never seen groups not be used against when like not be

00:34:28.260 used against the guy. Okay. But let's, let's watch the testimony that I heard when I was in high

00:34:32.960 school. What is love? Well, for me, my father left when I was, and I was surrounded by an

00:34:42.020 uncle's and even my grandmother who was divorced. So for me, love, love was temporary and it wasn't

00:34:49.340 forever thing so that carried into my relationships when i was about a sophomore in high school i had

00:34:55.340 my first serious relationship and after while dating we thought we were in love and everything

00:35:00.220 was great i don't know why this sounds like ai but and slowly the pressure started to set into

00:35:05.500 the relationship okay is this a different okay hold on let me christiana and jason i don't know

00:35:17.420 know why that sounds weird testimony uh whatever this will work this this is what she said what

00:35:32.580 is love well for me my father left when i was and i was surrounded by and you said this is ai okay

00:35:39.420 how do i see the how do i get the translation off huh okay because i was like that i know that's

00:35:49.580 like the testimony she said but i don't know why it sounds like that hold on uh let's do this guy

00:36:02.940 but i remember every speaker we had it was like oh here we go here we go this don't work

00:36:09.420 I'm coming from a completely different angle than Jason here.

00:36:13.600 When I was about a sophomore in high school, I had my first serious relationship.

00:36:18.640 And after a while of dating, we thought we were in love and everything was great.

00:36:22.940 And slowly, we started to get very physical.

00:36:26.720 And slowly, the pressure started to set into the relationship.

00:36:31.020 And it came to a point where he said,

00:36:33.060 Girl, if you really love me, you truly love me, you prove it to me.

00:36:37.200 You show me just how much you love me.

00:36:39.420 so i needed advice so i went to my girl now she's blaming okay so this testimony right

00:36:45.880 she's blaming the man already and saying that can you guys hear this okay

00:36:50.600 she's blaming the man and saying i wasn't horny he was horny and i i just like just because i

00:37:00.200 wanted love that's why i had sex with him christian man eat this up well he kind of wants to do this

00:37:06.620 with me and he wants to be that and they said well if you aren't doing this with him if you

00:37:12.020 aren't doing that with him i mean well i don't think the villain it goes any higher than this

00:37:18.080 i can try to find another

00:37:21.420 i might have to go back to the ai one hold on

00:37:29.800 because this doesn't go any higher i don't think

00:37:35.600 yeah I don't know

00:37:38.500 that's the highest it goes let's try this

00:37:40.580 one

00:37:40.940 then act like

00:37:44.660 they're kidding

00:37:45.120 alright what do you guys think system volume

00:37:48.760 um

00:37:52.160 it doesn't

00:37:54.680 go higher than this

00:37:56.080 like I'm even

00:37:57.620 oh my gosh ellie

00:38:07.360 go to volume mixer look i can't

00:38:15.320 my bad

00:38:24.460 uh some some people are wanting me to mess with the settings and i'm letting you know

00:38:30.340 there's no way in hell i'm going to be able to do it i always mess it up um

00:38:35.380 Crystallianas. I'm sure I'll find a better video, though.

00:38:42.500 Crystalliana.

00:38:47.300 Testimony.

00:38:53.480 It's the same. Oh, my God.

00:39:02.580 I'm so irritated this isn't working.

00:39:04.820 I don't know if she talks about the story.

00:39:29.500 Essentially, this couple, though, it's kind of the same old thing.

00:39:32.220 She was a whore. Here we go.

00:39:36.960 Oh, here's a letter.

00:39:45.940 Okay, wait, let me see. I think this works. Let me share.

00:39:52.040 Let's try this one.

00:39:54.020 Instead, I wrote another letter, and every single time I was tempted to go back to that lifestyle,

00:39:58.940 sophomore in high school, I had my first serious relationship.

00:40:02.220 And after a while of dating, we thought we were in love and everything was great.

00:40:06.380 And slowly, we started to get very physical.

00:40:10.000 And slowly, the pressure started to set into the relationship.

00:40:13.760 And he said, well, girl, if you really love me, if you truly love me, you prove it to me.

00:40:18.500 He's blaming it on him like you didn't want to throw it back to you.

00:40:21.440 Shut up.

00:40:23.100 Shut the fuck up.

00:40:28.160 You show me just how much you love me.

00:40:31.020 So I needed advice.

00:40:32.220 so I went to my girlfriends and I said well he kind of wants to do this with me and he wants to

00:40:37.000 do that and they said well if you aren't doing this with him and if you aren't doing that with

00:40:43.520 him then I mean well what's wrong with you everybody that's kind of true um I mean let's

00:40:49.240 let's be honest um when you like a guy you're not really waiting that long you know he's doing it

00:40:56.500 you love him right and I thought well yeah I love him they said well then what's the problem

00:41:01.880 so with the age of 15 i lost my virginity thinking it was going to cause this huge great emotional

00:41:08.240 bond between us we are going to be on cloud nine and so in love and in all actuality it eventually

00:41:14.880 destroyed any love in the relationship and all respect was just thrown out the window because

00:41:21.040 if i couldn't even respect my own body how is he supposed to respect it and after a while of dating

00:41:27.380 again like she's blaming the problem and this is what the churches do they blame the having sex as

00:41:33.760 the problem not being an insufferable woman which is way more likely to be the problem

00:41:38.980 and this is a big cope fest it's like oh men marry women they fucked on the first night

00:41:44.800 all the time but it's when she was likable and charming you know it's not when she was annoying

00:41:50.920 and bitchy and um controlling you know he didn't want to spend time with me anymore he was basically

00:41:57.360 spending the time with my body now when a girl is being used she knows it she knows it in the

00:42:04.200 depths of her heart she may deny it she may ignore it but she knows it and i knew it and after a while

00:42:09.600 we were constantly fighting he was cheating on me and we broke up and went our separate ways

00:42:14.880 now i will never forget the day when he walked away from me for the very last time and as he

00:42:21.980 walked away from me all why did he walk away from you you know what did you do and how crazy is it

00:42:27.180 can you imagine being the guy that took this girl's virginity and she's giving um speeches on

00:42:32.700 it for like 20 years later with her husband isn't that like wouldn't you kind of feel like you're

00:42:38.340 that i could think about was that guy's taking something with him that never belonged to him

00:42:46.100 in the first place but i can't get it back right what's the point it's already gone so there i was

00:42:51.560 in the cafeteria talking with my girlfriends and i came to this conclusion okay if a guy can date

00:42:57.720 me for about six months without sleeping with me then he must love me so now she's raising her

00:43:05.840 price not the value you know she could have like offered more value outside of sex this is why i'm

00:43:11.820 telling you it's so cooked and these are churches they don't tell women any way to offer value

00:43:17.940 outside of sex they make sex the end-all be-all right it's not really when you have sex it's how

00:43:25.840 pleasant like you can have sex with a woman early and she's a wife you know you can just tell

00:43:31.760 hold on then i'll sleep with him and i think now six months six months is the price that i put on

00:43:42.920 my body if he gives me just well you got to have some price right I mean like uh what I mean you're

00:43:51.780 not he's not looking for a friend right a little bit of that time and just a little bit of that

00:43:57.780 attention that's the definition of love and I carried this mentality all through high school

00:44:03.500 he was the first guy that I slept with but he wasn't the last because it starts a vicious cycle

00:44:09.260 And after a while, I was pretty deep into it.

00:44:12.100 Now, I'm not standing up here pointing my finger at you guys saying, you guys, you're the problem.

00:44:16.540 No, I happen to believe that you guys will be as much of a gentleman as we ladies require.

00:44:24.260 Now, I wasn't acting like a lady back then, nor dressing like a lady back then.

00:44:28.680 Therefore, they didn't feel the need to rise up and act like a gentleman around me.

00:44:32.660 and what seems to happen sometimes is that girls will give guys sex for the sake of getting the

00:44:38.720 love from them and guys will give girls the love for the sake of getting the sex from the girls

00:44:43.980 do you know if anything i think men get more attached from sex a lot of times than women

00:44:50.140 and i'm just being honest look attractive women i knew in high school i'm telling you were not

00:44:56.620 that attached from sex the less attractive ones with leftist choice would bang a chat and get

00:45:03.940 attached but like the women with multiple chat options they're like all right see you going to

00:45:08.920 school in arizona like if anything the men were more attached to the women at 19 than the women

00:45:19.240 attached to the men women only get attached like when we got to we're like ah ah

00:45:30.040 and it can go both ways now with this lifestyle i got into the party i got into the drinking i

00:45:36.760 got into the clubbing you name it i was into it and granted at the time yeah i thought it was a

00:45:41.160 lot of fun it was very attractive and i know what that's like but i also know what it's like

00:45:47.480 to wake up the next day when that party's over when those friends are gone and when i was there

00:45:53.800 by myself and i remember waking up thinking i can't believe i did that last night i hope i

00:46:00.680 don't have to see his face in the hallway at school on monday what if he tells everybody what

00:46:05.800 we did last night what if i'm pregnant what am i going to tell my mom what if i just abort it

00:46:11.320 let's be on let's keep it a buck here i mean

00:46:14.360 again like throwing it back isn't um it's there's nothing wrong with it if you're doing it with the

00:46:23.440 same guy but how many you know what i mean it's like how many were you disease now what am i

00:46:27.620 gonna do all of these things constantly going through my head and the night before my friends

00:46:32.360 would always say to me oh it's all fun and games don't worry about it it's not a big deal

00:46:37.420 but I can promise you and stand up here today and say the next morning the fun and games was over

00:46:43.460 and I woke up hating myself and I woke up with nothing but disgust and regret and I knew deep

00:46:49.120 in my heart it wasn't worth it there was a girl that came up to me after one of our talks

00:46:54.440 and she said you know during the talk I was thinking all the hooking up with guys all the

00:46:59.840 going to parties doing this and that she goes I realized I was just a prostitute who wasn't

00:47:05.040 getting paid and it hit her it hit her heart now after a while of living this lifestyle my mother

00:47:11.700 you see how like okay

00:47:13.040 isn't that resent like can you imagine she she was more mad that she's not getting money that's what

00:47:21.920 the girl's mad about oh my god that's incredible that's incredible mother had an idea what was

00:47:29.440 going on in my life. Most parents have an idea what's going on in your lives. As much as I thought

00:47:35.720 I was fooling my mother, I was really fooling myself. And she came up to me one day and she

00:47:40.120 said, Kristalina, there's a talk on relationships this weekend and you're going to it. I said,

00:47:46.060 a sex talk. Are you kidding me? I'm not going to go listen to some dork talk about sex. Thanks,

00:47:50.720 but no thanks. She said, no, you're going. I don't care if you like it or not. And I thought, fine.

00:47:54.220 okay i'll go to her little talk i'll sit in the very back of the room for 15 minutes and i'm out

00:48:00.200 of there i have a party to go to i have friends to see i don't have time and in that 15 minutes

00:48:05.900 that i sat there my life was changed there was a guy who was very honest blunt and real he talked

00:48:12.860 about all of the girls all of the sex all the pornography all of the partying he had but he

00:48:18.020 was hot she listened to him because he was hot been into and he just laid it out and i felt like

00:48:23.700 that guy, he had grabbed my hand out of the audience and he walked through my life. Like he

00:48:29.580 could see the things I was most ashamed of in hiding. And I thought, well, what's the difference?

00:48:34.480 He's done the same exact things I've done. And I just watched him and he just had this peace,

00:48:40.280 this joy, and this confidence that he carried about himself that I didn't see that in my friends.

00:48:46.260 I didn't see that in the places I went to. And I definitely didn't see that in the guys I was

00:48:50.600 dating and i wanted it but he had one quality above all of them that i wanted more than anything

00:48:56.680 he wasn't ashamed of himself i sat in my seat trying to figure out one again this is what

00:49:04.140 she's telling us they keep giving the worst people microphones and you know what i was at i went to

00:49:09.560 the pool this weekend it's kind of fun actually after we played a volleyball tournament then we

00:49:14.140 went to the pool and um i i just can't stop arguing i need to shut up more i need to stop

00:49:19.920 telling people they're wrong right i need to just chill i need to chillax because who likes the girl

00:49:25.180 at the pool that's telling these christian guys they're simps you know what i mean but this guy

00:49:30.760 starts asking me like christian the stupid leading questions like do you think he was like do you

00:49:36.040 think that if you died tomorrow you would go to hell and i'm like yeah probably i mean the scripture

00:49:43.700 didn't it say like the road to heaven is narrow like why would i assume wouldn't that shouldn't

00:49:50.180 i assume i'm the rule like why isn't it kind of arrogant to assume you're the exception

00:49:59.380 right and this guy and this guy is like yeah and he he starts asking me these stupid questions

00:50:08.340 where they're like oh well like what's the purpose like these stupid questions christian guys that

00:50:13.860 are trying to evangelize like ask these questions that are very broad and then they just scream at

00:50:19.700 you scripture i mean he was he was a nice guy i'm over exaggerating he was a nice guy but like

00:50:26.980 bruh you know what i mean like anyways um and he like had a cross thing on his on his neck

00:50:35.220 on his like necklace or whatever and um i'm just sitting there and he's he's trying to evangelize

00:50:43.140 or do whatever and i told him about the 10-year rule and i'm like how can you lecture me about

00:50:48.500 anything when you have been um like apparently you were doing all these sin in like a year ago

00:50:59.620 i'm like

00:51:05.220 I mean, because I don't know what you did before that, like, now.

00:51:08.960 And the stuff they were into, it's never, like, I lied.

00:51:12.700 Like, me, like, if I was going to give my testimony, I'd be like, I gluck, gluck 9,000.

00:51:19.340 I gossip more than I should, you know.

00:51:21.740 But it's, like, these people will be, like, I cheated on my wife, did drugs, did every drug and magic.

00:51:28.740 Like, it's, like, so far, you're, like, all right, I didn't need God to not do that.

00:51:33.720 like they're like i did like 70 gang bangs and i did porn and i'm like okay i didn't need g i did

00:51:41.780 not need a book to tell me not to do that i'm like i'm not saying i'm and then they're like

00:51:47.580 well yeah but you you don't have sit you sin too and i'm like that's true

00:51:52.500 but i don't know like in catholicism we had venial sins and mortal sins and like you know

00:52:02.220 and then they, they try to do false equivalencies. They're like, yeah,

00:52:08.300 have you gossiped? It's the same way.

00:52:11.220 It's the same thing as me cheating on my wife like a million times.

00:52:15.020 And I'm like, I don't know.

00:52:25.280 I don't know. Do you know what I mean? I'm like,

00:52:27.080 it was the same thing when sarah stock called into my show she's like i'm making better life

00:52:36.880 choices than you and it turns out she was banging her married boss while making her

00:52:41.700 cuck husband wait and i'm like look i've made a lot of bad life choices um i'm sure someday there

00:52:49.180 will be things that come out you know and you know things i'm not proud of i'm i'm you know i'm but

00:52:55.760 i don't know i've never banged married god do you know what i mean like

00:53:03.020 that's just a little a little dicey for me for me you know like that's like okay you know

00:53:11.540 yeah you know gluck luck 9000 with your man versus extreme porn you know it's like i did

00:53:23.580 I did extreme porn yeah and that's what I don't even like because I know I don't live like a good

00:53:33.920 enough life to really lecture people I think you know I you know I even feel a little weird and

00:53:42.640 uneasy um do you know what I mean but it's like these people that have been saved for like two

00:53:52.100 minutes, you're lecturing me? Like, it's like a porn star. You are lecturing me. And again,

00:54:06.300 I'm not, you know. And the worst part is they never take accountability for it.

00:54:17.520 Like, look, if I got caught gluck glucking or some bullshit, right? You know what I mean?

00:54:21.940 And if they were like pearl gluck locked or whatever, I would just say, look, I was horny.

00:54:27.600 I'm sorry.

00:54:29.160 I just, do you know what I mean?

00:54:30.440 I really just, I wanted, you know, like sometimes I just, you know, I, that would be my answer.

00:54:40.120 It sure as hell isn't going to be, oh, he used me.

00:54:46.020 he

00:54:48.780 I just wanted love

00:54:54.360 so I had to gluck gluck

00:54:56.180 it's like

00:54:56.860 really

00:54:58.800 it's like look

00:55:02.840 sometimes you know

00:55:03.980 I mean sometimes you know

00:55:09.920 that's at least more honest

00:55:11.480 it's like the Elijah Schaefer thing

00:55:12.880 Elijah why didn't you just say look

00:55:15.020 that punani was amazing. Like that was like the best punani ever. And I wanted to have my cake

00:55:25.620 and eat it too. Not, Oh, well I wasn't saved at the time. It's like. Okay. And then you know what

00:55:38.860 they'll do? They always lecture me after they've been doing it like a year. I can do anything for

00:55:44.560 a year. Like, okay. I did no desserts for a year and I'm a dessert addict. Okay.

00:55:54.300 If anything, like I actually think it's more of a red flag if you can't indulge a little bit.

00:56:00.320 Because when I, when I abstained from dessert for a year, it was like all or nothing. Like

00:56:06.080 if I eat a little bit of it, I'm going to go crazy. Right. I'm going to go crazy.

00:56:14.560 and i think that's the same thing with like the whores when they're like

00:56:19.600 oh i can't have any sex now like if you can have sex and then put it away don't you excerpt like

00:56:25.260 more self-control than the people that can't do it at all it's like the same thing i have

00:56:29.880 no self-control when it comes to sugar right am i tripping

00:56:36.900 someone said what's a gluck gluck you might be in the wrong street you might need to find a

00:56:43.100 different stream grandpa and they always they always come at you and they say well are you saved

00:56:53.060 and it's like oh my god the n-word would just fly so well right there n-word you don't even know if

00:57:02.140 you're saved they said the and it's such an arrogance they're like well i'm going to heaven

00:57:06.620 it's like are you really i mean you were gluck glucking on camera 10 minutes ago ma'am

00:57:15.900 you are confident you're going to heaven because you got dunked in water

00:57:20.940 and what i've realized is a lot of religious people are really lazy like they want all of

00:57:27.580 the credit without doing any of the work right so i say hey and i actually think to to this woman's

00:57:34.460 credit i do think she stuck out this grift for over a decade so i'm gonna give her props

00:57:39.500 um but before they accept the jesus dollars like before you're gonna make money off of the religion

00:57:45.820 i think you need like 10 even 20 years of good behavior we don't make somebody the ceo of a

00:57:51.580 company without 20 years of you know work experience but we keep giving these ladies

00:57:58.540 microphones or these even the men microphones um with no work experience now that's the other

00:58:08.540 thing they come back at me they say we're all sinners and i'm like look can we just be honest

00:58:14.140 like there's levels to this shit and that's a very woman thing to do because when women like

00:58:20.620 women don't like hierarchy and again this is just my observations women don't like like women are

00:58:28.360 the ones that get rid of first place second place third place when it comes to sin there's got to be

00:58:33.520 first place second place third place right there's got to be first place um you are sinning less than

00:58:40.880 the rest of us um like my father would get a first place um i'd get maybe like a third place

00:58:49.980 and elijah schaefer and sarah stock wouldn't even make the board and so it's like you guys aren't

00:58:55.560 even on the board so get the fuck out of here like or like you know if you're if you were in

00:59:01.980 a hundredth place let's not hear anything at all from you ever until you get to like third place

00:59:10.060 and if you can never do that like if you can't live a life if you can't live a life that's good

00:59:15.320 enough to be ranked then I don't want to hear from you the same way I don't really want to hear from

00:59:20.360 you know um fat people giving personal training advice like they're the equivalent of fat people

00:59:27.320 giving personal training advice and see this is another thing they say let he without sin cast

00:59:35.200 the first stone um and i think that's a very different argument i'm not casting the stone

00:59:42.260 i'm not saying i'm better than her i don't hate her in any way i'm just saying get off the stage

00:59:47.620 I'm saying get to the back of the church, lady.

00:59:50.660 I'm saying I don't want to hear from you.

00:59:53.940 Those are very different things.

00:59:56.160 I'm not saying you're going to hell because I'm not even confident I'm going to heaven.

01:00:03.040 Right?

01:00:03.860 I don't know.

01:00:05.020 Like, I'm not God.

01:00:09.700 But I'm saying get, get, I don't want to hear your testimony because you're a whore.

01:00:15.180 Right?

01:00:15.380 like I want to hear the testimony of you don't be great I'd love to hear the testimony from a

01:00:21.860 woman who did none of that it could be verified and she married a Chad because you really got

01:00:26.800 to show to the women that you're only going to get Chad if you you know act right you're only

01:00:32.200 going to get a husband you can't tell women that you can act awful and get a husband why would they

01:00:38.680 not act awful like you see you this is doing more harm than good and whenever she goes back

01:00:47.240 to gluck gluck 9000 um it's gonna the same way sarah stock and elijah schaefer there's got to

01:00:55.940 be some anger from religious people where it's it's like you guys are deterring people from

01:01:01.420 converting if you think sarah stock and elijah schaefer didn't deter people from converting

01:01:06.040 you're out of your fucking mind um i'm telling you the guys that i know that live the most moral

01:01:12.760 lives over the age of 40 they're not in church because they're they're just sick of the you

01:01:17.880 know they're sick of the circus riley reed got married i know god help us that's terrible

01:01:26.280 marketing for religion god help us okay date that i hadn't been ashamed of myself after i'd started

01:01:33.800 living that lifestyle i couldn't find one a single day of just true peace and joy not worried what

01:01:40.200 i'd done prior that night prior that weekend prior that month never any peace always worry

01:01:45.880 and i realized yeah the good women you described don't go out of their way to celebrate themselves

01:01:51.080 or put themselves in front of others that's true that's true in that moment i needed to get my

01:01:59.400 standards out of the gutter and raise them as high as i possible again i need to raise my standards

01:02:04.760 but not my value possibly could and i need to start respecting my body for once and i went home

01:02:10.680 that night and i wrote down every single thing that i had done which was a lot and it was very

01:02:15.960 overwhelming then i wrote down everything this guy had said to me and i put it in an envelope and i

01:02:21.560 hid it in my bedroom because i knew that weekend that temptation was going to be there and i can

01:02:27.720 promise each and every one of you those temptations will always be there but god always promises a way

01:02:34.520 out and in a sense that letter was mine and sure enough that weekend there was that party there

01:02:40.440 were my friends there were those guys and i ran to that letter and it was a very harsh reminder

01:02:46.440 what was there waiting for me and i didn't do it again instead i wrote another letter and every

01:02:51.080 single time i was tempted to go back to that lifestyle i would read my old letters and write

01:02:55.240 a new one. So now I have this huge stack of letters of all of the no's that I've said in my

01:02:59.940 life. Now, Jason here has waited 27 years for his future bride. In two weeks, we're getting married.

01:03:08.060 I can't stand up here and say on those Friday nights, on those weekends, I was out partying

01:03:14.420 with my friends. I held myself back for love of him, that I was respecting my body for love of

01:03:22.260 my future husband because i wasn't and that's a lie and i can stand up here and i can look in your

01:03:27.780 eyes in your eyes all of your eyes but every day for the rest of my natural life i will look into

01:03:34.420 those eyes and it tears me so do you hear how she's talking that's like emotional language i can always

01:03:40.820 tell who a church is catered to kind of based on how they talk doug mp if you got any egregious

01:03:46.660 religious clips feel free to send feel free to send we could we could watch those two for shits

01:03:52.240 and giggles today up that i allowed someone to rob him of a gift that was meant solely for him

01:03:58.240 and no other now jason knows everything i've done in my past he knows it all and he accepts it all

01:04:04.200 and remind you that's women see men as beta bucks they tell everything to because they're not afraid

01:04:08.660 to lose you a woman with a chad look at can the chads in the chat please stand up the chat if you

01:04:16.520 let a woman view you as a Chad. She will lie to no end. It's the beta books. They're like,

01:04:34.560 here, I did all of this. Chad's care less about a woman's past. That's not really true. I know

01:04:44.240 a lot of guys that slay that still care um but a woman is not gonna tell him especially over a

01:04:52.340 certain age okay but he loves me for the person that i've become and that's what matters most

01:04:57.220 but when i turned my life around a lot of my friends they didn't get it they thought it was

01:05:02.580 some big joke they just constantly made fun of me they're like well what do you approve now what

01:05:07.820 are you too good for us what's your problem they just couldn't get it and they were just constantly

01:05:12.900 making fun of me. And I went home one day and I told someone what was going on. And the best

01:05:17.160 advice they could give me was, oh, don't worry about it. Just ignore it. You're doing the right

01:05:22.460 thing. Well, I tell you today, if anyone makes fun of you for living out a lifestyle of chastity,

01:05:29.960 of purity, of respect. I'm going to make fun of you right now. Yeah, you can't stop me. Yeah. And

01:05:36.420 I'm going to make fun of you because, you know, it's like, why do you have to throw it in

01:05:39.560 everybody's face you hoard out and you still got a cute husband okay um you hoard out you still got

01:05:47.820 a cute husband you won why don't you shut the fuck up and sit in the back of the church we do not want

01:05:54.680 to hear from you we don't we want to hear from anybody else literally anybody else i would like

01:06:01.520 to hear from my dog before i hear from you so in your body and you get made fun of

01:06:09.500 for that, you remember it. You remember every single word they say to you. Go home, make a book

01:06:17.100 of it, write it all down. Because when you stand in front of your bride or in front of your husband

01:06:23.360 on your wedding day, you tell me, where is the laughter? Where is the mockery? Did you know who's

01:06:32.920 mocking the laughter and the mockery is going to be all of your exes that you smashed on the first

01:06:38.000 date laughing at your husband that you made weight i mean that's where the laughter and the mockery

01:06:43.120 is going to be that's i mean you should just assume the woman's banged like a bajillion dudes

01:06:50.560 and you should have a quiet ceremony that nobody knows about who is going to be making fun of you

01:06:57.840 then nobody there will be complete silence chads chads are going to make fun of you in that place

01:07:05.360 on that day and any of those people that made fun of you would pay a million bucks to be in your

01:07:09.760 shoes no no they wouldn't no they wouldn't this is why i'm sick of hearing that this is not a problem

01:07:22.000 in catholic church orthodox church you guys all of your different versions of this stand up there

01:07:27.600 you will say i will honor you and i will cherish you all the days of my life well today's the day

01:07:33.920 of my life and today right now is the day of your lives so keep that in mind and take it to heart

01:07:40.400 because your lives are going to be so much more than these four walls in this high school and

01:07:44.800 it's going to go way and far beyond that for those of you in the audience that are virgins

01:07:50.320 i have the utmost respect for you and i think that is just awesome and don't ever be ashamed

01:07:56.880 of that but people see all those guys they're pitying the husband do you see these guys they're

01:08:03.040 like they're like oh that poor man why are you doing this to yourself proud of that because i

01:08:11.680 know plenty of people who would love to trade places with all right let's keep going let's

01:08:16.320 keep going for your honesty appreciate it okay thank you guys thank you

01:08:26.400 all right so let's let's move on um doug mpa's got a clip for us

01:08:30.880 a mormon girl who's a born again virgin and look at this isn't a bad deal for some of you guys

01:08:37.120 some of you guys are ugly chopped right and that's your only way to go is to go to church

01:08:43.120 pretend to be a religious and then get a girl out of your league right and unfortunately it

01:08:47.440 would be a girl in your league but um because of the options that women have which are like crazy

01:08:54.400 it would kind of be out of your league does that make sense that makes sense okay let's go i think

01:09:00.160 i've ever officially told you guys that i'm a born again virgin i'm waiting to marriage again

01:09:03.760 i literally just recorded a whole podcast episode about this but i grew up mormon right like i grew

01:09:08.160 up in the lds religion a huge emphasis in that religion is waiting until marriage okay so that

01:09:13.200 had always been my goal in life even when i left the church at 17 i was still like no like i'm

01:09:17.120 still gonna wait like that's something that's genuinely really important to me and then i moved

01:09:23.600 out to college and i had a situation where i didn't get away till marriage if you catch my

01:09:28.800 drift and then from that yeah she whored out you know point on i was like you know what i don't

01:09:32.560 even care anymore like i tried my darndest to wait that caught taken from me so i literally just went

01:09:38.160 and slept notice like look at that got taken from me it's not something she didn't enjoyed i mean

01:09:42.960 come on like can we not the early sex is like the most exciting some of the most exciting sex you

01:09:48.960 have you know like let's just let's just keep it a buck i know she's a mid but we're in america and

01:09:55.360 america's fat so she's treated as above mid here with like guys this is crazy that i'm telling you

01:10:01.800 this on the internet but i literally slept with three different guys within that two days two

01:10:05.700 day time period like that why did you say that oh my god i was like screw it i'm i can't do this

01:10:14.000 anymore it was just very much a shame spiral and that's the situation where i got herpes and

01:10:18.780 chlamydia at the same time so like a week after that i oh my god i was feel something was off

01:10:25.520 something was weird and i like went down this whole google spiral i was like oh my gosh i think

01:10:29.380 i have an std went to the urgent care i got the diagnosis i thought my life was freaking over now

01:10:34.320 here's what the story gets crazy the guy who r-worded me kept showing up at work i had gotten

01:10:38.520 laid off and now she was raped okay of course of course from like my full-time job so i got like a

01:10:43.300 random retail job and he kept showing up at my work and asking for me and i was having the craziest

01:10:48.060 panic attacks one of the reasons i ended up moving out of my home state i was like i literally cannot

01:10:52.120 be here anymore when i was 19 i packed up all my stuff and i had this whole breakdown where one

01:10:56.580 night i was like i have to leave i have to move and within a month i moved out of utah i moved to

01:11:01.540 austin texas and it's been three years since i left utah so for two of those years i'm still

01:11:06.300 pretty sexually active and then i start hearing myself saying oh all men want is all they want

01:11:10.960 is to just like hook up and they want to be physical and then they leave and i start noticing

01:11:14.920 see myself becoming very jaded and i had to look at myself and say beth we're not complainers we

01:11:19.340 don't sit here and complain and go oh i'm the victim what are you going to do about it you

01:11:22.960 notice this pattern of guys are you going to sit here and complain that guys suck or are you going

01:11:26.700 to take this into your own hands and set a boundary for yourself around this time i also had an

01:11:30.520 experience with someone named utah boy who showed me what it was like to have experiences with

01:11:35.820 someone you actually love and i was like oh my gosh this is what it's supposed to feel like last

01:11:40.620 April is when I finally made the decision I had a guy sleeping over and I was like I can't I can't

01:11:45.880 do this anymore like I literally never want to do this again in my entire life you imagine you're

01:11:49.840 about to bang a girl with herpes and she turns you down it's got to be incredible what an experience

01:11:55.840 life until it's my husband the next person that I am giving myself to like in this intimate way

01:12:01.580 they're going to be literally contractually obligated to love me for the rest of the

01:12:05.720 freaking lives okay they are i can't do this anymore i cannot be meaningless anymore i need

01:12:11.180 depth i need connection i need comfort i need safety here's what's so vulnerable is i don't

01:12:16.260 know what's normal anymore like i don't know what it's supposed to feel like i don't know like what's

01:12:21.940 normal but what i do know is that intimacy is supposed to equal safety not just lust that was

01:12:27.560 a hard lesson to learn that took a lot a lot of pain but with the amount of like traumatic experiences

01:12:32.440 that I've had with intimacy in order for me to start healing I gotta take a step back first I

01:12:38.480 need to remove myself from that situation and then allow that person who was going to be that safety

01:12:43.080 that comfort that person they're gonna have to wait there I'm gonna put them for the freaking

01:12:46.740 ringer okay if they want to literally touch me and like there's a wall here show me first show

01:12:51.820 me who you are show me I'm safe with you first and that's why I'm waiting again and whenever I

01:12:55.880 say that people are like oh why not just like wait until you're dating someone or wait until

01:12:59.260 of your fiance because my heart okay because of my tender little heart because of myself yeah so

01:13:05.220 again they never tell her it's not about the sex like the sex like it doesn't really matter that

01:13:13.460 much when you give a guy sex if you're a good woman you know 17 year old self who first lost

01:13:23.480 that first experience when she was r-worded when she was 17 and then again when she was 18 and then

01:13:28.740 a myriad of other experiences where I'm like no I am putting my foot down for my past self and for

01:13:35.560 my future self just out of like protection and out of love for myself yeah okay cooked here's

01:13:40.020 another one my husband and I waited for marriage girl I do not regret it I'm gonna take you on a

01:13:44.680 little story time okay he had been saved since he was four I had been walling out in the trenches

01:13:50.340 of the world he had been a virgin his whole life I had been far from okay that's where we're

01:13:56.040 starting. We got together when I had been saved for about a year and he had been single for about

01:14:00.320 10. I had been single for about three minutes. It wasn't three minutes. It was longer than that. I

01:14:04.320 had a single season with Jesus, but it wasn't very long. Okay. And so when we got together,

01:14:08.060 the Lord had to put his hand so graciously on our relationship and give us strength because your girl

01:14:12.760 was not so fond of patience. You know, from the time we started dating until the time we got

01:14:19.580 married was literally less than six months. The Bible says, rather you marry than burn with less.

01:14:23.980 just so you know the quick marriage usually signals uh not many options per both one or

01:14:30.300 both parties and we said say no more but for real we both had confirmation from the lord that we

01:14:35.320 were going to get married we knew very early on a week into our relationship that we were going

01:14:39.020 to be husband and wife so we start dating we start loving each other okay i don't need to

01:14:44.100 hear the rest of this we already know where this is going to go okay this woman's not going to get

01:14:48.200 the point i feel comfortable talking about this on social media but i woke up with the

01:14:52.840 urge to share it and that is if you and your boyfriend have made the notice this guy says

01:14:58.760 if only she had a dad i know women with and without dads that have poured out it's the woman's choice

01:15:06.600 not the man's choice it's the woman making a choice to wait till marriage stick to it there

01:15:13.800 are so many podcasts and pastors and youtube videos and interviews you can listen to about

01:15:19.240 how to be successful in that and they all say make firm boundaries and when they say that

01:15:25.560 they mean it we heard that my boyfriend and i and we kind of took it with a grain of salt

01:15:31.800 we went a year without having sex and then once we moved long distance that like

01:15:36.920 rush of emotions when you see each other if you don't have the right boundaries

01:15:41.080 put in place it will win and it did and we fell and it took us a while to see notice we fell like

01:15:49.160 look every time in my life i have gluck gluck 9 000 i wanted to gluck gluck nut there is no

01:15:58.760 there is no falling i mean it's like you get horny and you get naked do you know what i mean like

01:16:03.640 how did you how the did you guys fall how did you fall into on the day like do you know what i mean

01:16:08.760 it's like bruh get out or i'm not saying get out like it was like you know something like jail

01:16:20.240 but it's like why don't they just go to the courthouse go to the courthouse skip the wedding

01:16:23.940 get married boom boom done done done but the woman she wants to one of them still wants to

01:16:31.160 explore their options like you can go to the courthouse in a week and get married it feels

01:16:36.100 like jail when you are not supposed to be having sex with your partner and you already have that

01:16:40.820 conviction it really does complicate um it can complicate the relationship there's reasons why

01:16:48.640 i want to show you guys um a slideshow i made called the god economy okay it's very important

01:16:57.800 so we have modern dating meet online at school at a bar in a social setting

01:17:03.080 have sex within three dates situationship for a couple months date for three years get married

01:17:08.000 one to two kids divorce after eight years traditional dating is an arranged marriage

01:17:12.600 marry young before 25 and even that's kind of pushing it really before 22 but you know for

01:17:19.020 shits and giggles have kids before going to school stay home with the kids have four plus children

01:17:23.580 obey your husband and all things um in the church economy you tend to have the pimps which are the

01:17:29.680 pastors um usually um they're either super simps or pimps and they will bang the congregation

01:17:37.280 the future hoes these are like the lauren chens who like just you know very obviously want a

01:17:43.500 so bad but married young so they're like but they very obviously want it really bad

01:17:49.420 the born again virgins um these you know heavy makeup still have whore tendencies but they wear

01:17:56.300 Jesus cross now simps naive men we got Crowder there we love you Crowder I am Crowder and I

01:18:04.160 are pals I'd like to say but you were unfortunately making my simp he's a pimp now you know what I

01:18:11.300 mean he he's um he he's he's dating a bad bitch I'll tell you what but you know back then simping

01:18:20.220 for a mid um michael knolls these this guy um they tend to use god to build their brand clout

01:18:26.920 um not that crowder did that so much but knolls does this guy does even though they've only been

01:18:32.320 like quote unquote saved for like five minutes um the prodigal daughter theme they found christ

01:18:39.340 but it's not they can never check if it's genuine there's no barrier to entry which you know my 10

01:18:43.720 years would be a barrier to entry simps make money off of jesus and conversation conversion stories

01:18:49.300 and also need seats in the church filled so they pander to women here's the karens these are ex

01:18:54.420 whores who also married or had kids late they did modern dating and then want to nag everyone else

01:19:00.260 not to do it um they always pretend that they're virgins but you know nobody really believes that

01:19:07.140 there's the occasional couple that merit that makes it and married young and has no idea what's

01:19:11.460 going on this blondie here found her christian chad and you know stayed married um the god

01:19:18.180 economy as the pastor is hooking up with the born-again hoes the karen and the simps are

01:19:22.480 shaming men's behavior while giving women a pass the simp church elders take women's side for

01:19:27.660 everything tell the women they are amazing and simp for eternity the simps and born-again hoes

01:19:32.540 find each other and when the divorce she calls him abusive and the church takes her side

01:19:37.900 there is brett cooper with her tits out um whatever this girl's called

01:19:45.280 I don't know. These are just e-girls whoring, which is what we do best, honestly.

01:20:05.380 So what inspired this talk today? We're going to read.

01:20:09.860 not this not this trevor sheets my wife was formerly promiscuous i was a virgin

01:20:20.780 she was then radically born again committed to the church evangelized constantly puritan books

01:20:27.460 in her bedroom prayer journals grief over past sexual sin we got to know each other for well

01:20:34.800 over a year dated four months engaged for two and a half and didn't sin sexually with each other

01:20:40.960 and our first kiss with each other was at the altar on our wedding day we've been married over

01:20:46.240 five years and she's been the most wonderful and godly wife mother to our three children

01:20:51.760 and homemaker you could imagine she's more pure than most virgins as biblical purity has less to

01:21:00.320 do with past sins and more to do with one's current posture of the heart and daily decisions

01:21:07.200 to honor the lord we're quick to forget the story of the woman labeled as a known sinner

01:21:13.280 who was washing jesus's feet with her tears while kissing them too the pharisees were shocked that

01:21:19.120 jesus let a public sinner do this jesus responded with a parable about debts being forgiven and

01:21:25.920 ended with this powerful conclusion. Her many sins have been forgiven. That's why she's loved

01:21:30.780 so much. But the one who is forgiven little loves little. Everybody seems to highlight the benefit

01:21:37.060 of virginity and it is certainly a blessing. But we forget to highlight the benefit of being

01:21:41.900 forgiven much as well. My wife knows the depths of Jesus's forgiveness more than the people

01:21:47.340 enabling her to live more easily out a life of passionate love for her savior. A woman or man

01:21:54.200 sexual sins matter. But what matters far more when it comes to deciding who to marry is if the person

01:21:59.720 is truly born again, if their repentance is real, if they truly have a heart for Christ, if they

01:22:05.680 truly follow Jesus and obey his commandments. God has chosen what is foolish in the world and shame

01:22:11.760 the wise, and God has chosen what is weak in the world and shame the strong. God has chosen what

01:22:16.980 is insignificant and despised in the world, what is viewed as nothing, to bring to nothing what is

01:22:22.120 viewed as something so that no one may boast in his presence it is from him that you are in

01:22:28.420 jesus christ's sanctification and redemption in order that as it is written let the one who boasts

01:22:35.180 boast in the lord therefore if anyone is in christ he is a new creation the old has passed away and

01:22:41.420 the new has come yeah now we got this chick so amid right the big nose

01:22:48.140 oh my god

01:22:51.960 now this has erupted twitter

01:22:59.460 leonarda says this has to be rage bait

01:23:04.100 oh tristan tate responded he said you know when you've never driven a car before and you

01:23:17.600 scrape money together for an old shitty vehicle and you think you're in pretty good condition

01:23:21.480 because you've never driven another car i remember that feeling mine was a vw golf and the engine

01:23:27.040 didn't even fire from one of the cylinders the salesman told me it had been reworked and was as

01:23:32.220 good as new i didn't know it wasn't i had no point of reference now this isn't about a physical

01:23:37.160 driving sensation that was enjoyable enough despite the wear and tear but the reliability of

01:23:42.160 the soul of the vehicle was expanded it went through numerous breakdowns one day you will

01:23:46.840 think back on this analogy. Nonetheless, I wish you both well. Tristan, I appreciate you sharing

01:23:52.720 this and your gentleness in this response. While Jesus's mercy certainly grants forgiveness of all

01:23:58.620 sins, past sins, and also negative effects on the present. But even these challenges

01:24:04.420 are all for good. So they both look like they're like under 40. And again, this is a guy because

01:24:11.220 what always happens is the pastors want to market. He's got like a little YouTube channel. He's trying

01:24:15.860 to market his YouTube brand and so they use the whore um to market their YouTube brand and they

01:24:21.780 say oh I'm doing this for God but it's like why are you using your wife for marketing people log

01:24:26.700 into this app every day and post personal things that you could not waterboard out of me not

01:24:32.080 everything needs to be put on social media just saying this has to be rage bait it's only Monday

01:24:37.340 Monday and we have a contender for the most cringe post of the week not too late to delete this

01:24:43.000 actually it probably is

01:24:45.860 she may be forgiven in the eyes of god but that doesn't change the fat but that her

01:24:51.540 pussy was still a dump by the time you got to it god bless both of you

01:24:56.200 pray with jason oh my god praise jesus you guys just want to get bamboozled

01:25:08.160 oh my god here we go let me keep going back

01:25:17.760 all right so we're going to go through some of the responses on this

01:25:22.040 i just want you to know that posting shit like this will turn more young men away from the

01:25:35.160 church than it'll ever attract. Emily Saves America. My wife was a former hoe post is crazy.

01:25:41.640 The average meet your future wife at church story, which is true.

01:25:48.000 If you managed to turn a hoe into a housewife, you should probably keep it to yourself.

01:25:55.240 Your marriage may not be perfect, but find solace that your husband didn't call you a whore on X

01:25:59.880 today. Oh, here's another one. Sam Frank used to do OnlyFans. And now look at her.

01:26:08.820 Nobody can say that God didn't save me from OnlyFans. God, nobody can say that God didn't

01:26:16.040 save me from my addiction of marijuana. Nobody can say that. Nobody can take that away from me

01:26:23.760 either. So I thank you, God, that you're so good that you saved me out of the captivity of the

01:26:28.660 enemy that you like she's got lash extensions lip filler a face full of makeup and you're you

01:26:35.080 like forgive me if i don't think god's your priority here ma'am of addiction on my life

01:26:40.500 and that you are the one and only savior for me i thank you god that you've led me on this path

01:26:45.680 to be able to talk about you on my platform and that i can give all the glory to you at the end

01:26:50.680 of the day okay if the glory is to you then take off the makeup you know what i mean all right um

01:26:57.020 this is her ex-boyfriend

01:27:02.620 they couldn't stop laughing after finding out

01:27:26.920 his ex went from selling $4.99 OF subs to $200 Bibles. Gina, there's no sin. Christ can't wash

01:27:35.880 away. But that doesn't change the fact that this kind of post is another reason why so many young

01:27:39.800 men are turned off by marriage. This is not an appealing display of union between a husband and

01:27:44.180 wife. Shouting about your wife's sexual past seems like a humiliation ritual to young men who are

01:27:50.000 already struggling to find virtuous women. And probably a good time to remind everyone after

01:27:55.680 saint mary of egypt renounced her promiscuous ways she retreated to the desert for 40 years

01:28:00.640 in repentance not took to the public square to share unnecessarily intimate details about her

01:28:06.920 past sins oh this is another one my wife was formerly promiscuous i was a virgin she was

01:28:13.200 radically born again committed to church evangelized constantly puritan books in the

01:28:17.860 bedroom prayer journals grief over past we got to know each other well for over a year dated for

01:28:22.680 four months okay this can't be real um all right then we got the simp if andrew tate preys on

01:28:35.340 women and lives a pagan lifestyle he's born he's sitting in the right direction because boys will

01:28:39.720 be boys but if we're born again a woman has sexual sin in her past she's damaged goods

01:28:43.600 this is anti-woman ideology but it's because we're not the same right and i you know like

01:28:49.640 i'm tired of christians who are supposed to believe in a natural order in the world right

01:28:55.440 they're supposed to believe god men women children men and women aren't the same but

01:28:59.700 when it comes to sexual sin they keep pretending they are you know um dad what should i do if i

01:29:06.600 want to have a good marriage well son my first piece of advice is to avoid calling your wife

01:29:11.080 a whore reformed or otherwise to strangers on the internet oh my god

01:29:17.640 yeah he's cooked he's cooked i think that's oh here's another one

01:29:26.100 godly sweet get such a godly sweet loving servant-hearted husband after being with

01:29:38.640 so many horrible men after being with so many horrible men i was with so many horrible men

01:29:45.440 in my past i can't even count how many men i've been with i can't even count how many men i've

01:29:50.480 been with my past before i was a christian and they're all horrible to me and of course that

01:29:56.800 all changed once i became a christian because godly christ-like men are like jesus like jesus

01:30:06.080 i wanted a genuinely godly christian man and i found him at church

01:30:10.800 get such oh yeah cooked so cooked

01:30:19.120 nick makes fun of men who want to get married

01:30:25.540 you can make me get married you can't make me like it okay i'm not gonna i'm not gonna be

01:30:35.500 doing the best man speech

01:30:37.840 where he makes fun of me

01:30:39.360 in a funny way.

01:30:43.180 But seriously,

01:30:44.640 you two are the happiest couple

01:30:46.800 I've ever met.

01:30:48.300 At least one half of them is.

01:30:50.280 But seriously,

01:30:51.480 like, we're not doing that, though.

01:30:54.160 If it's like that,

01:30:55.720 it's going to be some serious...

01:31:00.440 It's going to be like

01:31:01.420 the Kill Bill wedding.

01:31:03.040 If the best man is giving

01:31:04.620 a speech like that it's going to look like the wedding and kill bill so yeah anyway but i love

01:31:12.440 when the super chats come in they're like i'm praying for you and it's like it makes me want

01:31:16.880 to kill myself that people actually think what kind of person do you think i am actually

01:31:23.080 people think i finished the show loosen my tie and i go huh when do you think i'm gonna find the

01:31:32.360 one when do you think i'm not gonna have to spend my days alone when do you think my house will be

01:31:37.960 filled with the female laughter and the laughter of children when do you think i'm gonna get to

01:31:44.120 lay down all right let me keep going um assume all women are promiscuous before marriage avoid

01:31:50.760 embarrassment by not announcing it to the world the over explanation just says you want to convince

01:31:55.000 yourself that your bad decision was a good one oh here we go this is a good one

01:32:02.360 and here's the gist of the post. She's a whore. She's a total whore. She's a born-again whore.

01:32:08.520 He goes, she was promiscuous when we met, but then she found the Lord, and she grieved over

01:32:15.760 her sins, and she's so sorry for being a whore. He goes, and I'm a virgin, and we dated for four

01:32:25.100 years and i never even kissed her let alone touched her he goes and we got married and now

01:32:33.340 she's more holy than a than a virgin and we shared our first kiss when we got married the other day

01:32:39.560 and it was officiated by some mexican the officiant the pastor whatever you call it

01:32:49.020 was some fucking mexican and it's like this is it like it's like that rachel maddow clip

01:32:55.480 no you're not having a horrible horrible dream

01:32:58.560 you haven't died and gone to hell you're not having a horrible horrible nightmare

01:33:05.520 this is real this is our lives this is our lives now

01:33:10.860 you have to laugh because otherwise you'd have to kill yourself it's like this is our lives

01:33:21.640 so this girl who's not even hot by the way and she looks jewish not that that matters i guess

01:33:28.120 but this girl she literally sleeps with 6 000 guys this this whore literally sleeps with 500

01:33:37.480 different football players and is a total slut. When she's beautiful, when she's young and

01:33:43.000 beautiful, this is it. Women are at the peak of their looks when they're 18. Don't let anyone

01:33:49.600 tell you otherwise. Don't let them gaslight you. That's prime fucking age. And everybody knows

01:33:56.460 that I can't live a lie anymore. It's true. So when these girls turn 18, they're all whores.

01:34:06.220 When they're the most beautiful, that's when they whore out.

01:34:10.120 And they sleep with 500 football players that are 6'7".

01:34:15.200 You know, they're the captain of the football team.

01:34:17.740 They're the point guard.

01:34:18.880 You know, who we...

01:34:21.980 Yeah.

01:34:24.700 Yeah.

01:34:27.560 I can go through the Nick clips.

01:34:29.840 Okay, so I took some notes.

01:34:31.500 And then I think people can call in for a little bit.

01:34:35.880 let's see all right so the reason people go to church now is either for love they want a whore

01:34:44.840 or a simp um and they do find each other they want they let me say it again the reasons people

01:34:53.000 go to church now is for love they want a whore or a simp and they do find each other social media

01:34:58.040 they want to put a bible verse in their bio and signal purity and status or for popularity and

01:35:04.200 and community very little do i see is it about scripture um it just has become a social club

01:35:10.680 just like my gym but my gym is honest you know um they torment you with this they say

01:35:18.120 do not do as i do to get what i got so they'll out and then get a husband and

01:35:25.400 then say but you can't out to get what i got and this leaves a lot of men um never

01:35:31.320 going to find a wife because they're going to be autistic and have zero social skills to get the

01:35:36.600 young hot women because the young hot women are going to whore with somebody and they're not going

01:35:40.680 to pick um virgin men sorry fellas they're just not so the only way to really get the virgin women

01:35:46.760 is to leonardo dicaprio their asses and pick one that stays um they use their redemptive story for

01:35:53.160 clout so forgive me if it doesn't seem that genuine if you guys are using your redemptive

01:35:58.920 redemptive stories to build your brand they use emotional language they use god for clout money

01:36:06.440 or status which even though i'm not religious just seems despicable the jesus cycle is i have

01:36:11.960 changed five minutes ago let's throw a party in the lecture everybody get caught doing the same

01:36:16.440 thing everybody acts shocked the arguments that these people give back is you did not pick a

01:36:23.560 godly woman when even when they picked a woman that was literally in church um you need to

01:36:29.960 forgive her past even though if you don't have a good future she's not going to forgive that

01:36:35.560 they say it's about a relationship with god which is kind of gay right that's kind of just like a

01:36:39.960 gay thing to say um it's not about doing good it's about a relationship it's like okay what are you

01:36:45.640 a woman um the men also say they're on a journey um they you know in order to avoid be doing any

01:36:51.400 of the hard work like not gossiping and not sinning they just say i'm on a journey and that's

01:36:55.800 their get out of jail free card ellie stop stop yeah they use emotional language and say you're

01:37:04.280 not forced to marry them and then the church is and then they're like the men go to church and

01:37:09.160 they're like who else do i have to pick from you got any 18 year old virgins they're like no i got

01:37:12.920 a 29 year old hoe and they're like okay is she gonna put out and they're like no and then they're

01:37:18.200 like well can i date from another church can i date atheist young women that are

01:37:23.000 whoring at raves and they're like no there you can't need to date a non-godly woman get this

01:37:27.320 29 year old whore and they're like well i want the young hot women yeah so just you know keeps going

01:37:33.000 back to that then they gaslight you and say my church is different and it is almost undoubtedly

01:37:38.760 always the same i saw someone in the chat saying the muslim women are different and i can concur i

01:37:43.960 I lived in Muslim area.

01:37:45.640 They also love to whore.

01:37:48.440 So anyways, I'm going to put the link in the chat.

01:37:52.860 And if you guys have any thoughts, you can come in and give your thoughts.

01:38:00.400 I'm going to pin it.

01:38:09.460 Yeah, they say alcoholics go through the same thing when they stop drinking.

01:38:12.900 they suddenly want everyone else to stop yeah and it's like it's because they miss it right

01:38:18.720 i miss sugar i'm miserable i miss just eating a tub of freaking ice cream i miss it so i'm

01:38:27.260 going to talk about it every day so what's up my guy how's it going my friend how are you

01:38:36.460 hi uh i'm really glad you you're talking about this subject and i think the the chat is too

01:38:44.060 because everyone's saying that they want to call in so so pro drop the call in links so let's get

01:38:48.000 it let's click that link guys uh the precedent has been set pearly um whore out you know go to

01:38:55.600 college whore out open only fans all that stuff and then hopefully these women will cash out and

01:39:01.600 then find themselves a simp in church uh that is the blueprint going forward and and remember guys

01:39:10.580 what's the statistic pearly one in ten or one in nine women under 30 are on only fans or some type

01:39:16.740 of sex work site this is the blueprint going forward yeah um also guys when you call in

01:39:28.020 you can give a general statement about the topic if you have a story that relates to this feel

01:39:35.300 free to call in if you banged some whore that now is a pastor some bullshit call in tell us

01:39:40.160 and and how about this um what would you marry one of these women and what would the criteria

01:39:48.880 be like what would she have to what scenario would you take an ex-whore also um please if you

01:39:58.880 have audio or video issues i just don't have a lot of patience i'm probably going to kick you

01:40:02.560 you got to figure that out um i figured it out before i was a youtuber you can too

01:40:08.380 um if you are given good commentary i may ask you to stay on the panel um just have a general

01:40:14.980 conversation about it um don't be discouraged if i don't you can just try again next time um but

01:40:22.020 yeah that guy's post pearl it's so weird because most of the time women um post and take l's like

01:40:32.260 that on social media but it's so weird when guys do it like women overshare but when men do it

01:40:38.100 is so much worse yeah because um it's you know what because it's like you're acting like a woman

01:40:51.780 yeah but the constant what's okay what's a bigger l if she would have posted that

01:41:00.420 saying she was an ex-whore and her husband is holy for marrying her or him doing it

01:41:07.220 what's a bigger l it's him because he's proud of it obviously he's gonna be proud of that like

01:41:14.580 that's keith but if he he's proud of it oh no all right what's going on mac um what did you

01:41:22.100 want to add to the topic hey hey hey how y'all doing um i just wanted to say you know is that

01:41:29.140 like a lot of these girls is gonna lie but you know just to get in the relationship or you know

01:41:36.420 they like to conceal how many bodies they had in the past but you know what i don't know if you

01:41:43.620 heard about the new app 304 facts that's faqs they keep track of all that stuff and the guys have

01:41:49.940 been talking to each other on this app so they can't even lie no more yeah it has an image search

01:41:57.380 and like if you're dating a girl and she goes to another city it keeps track of the city that

01:42:04.900 she came from and it has like active city feature so if she bang like 10 dudes in hollywood

01:42:12.900 and try to move to like new york how do they verify the bodies like how does anyone just say

01:42:19.300 that you have to keep track uh what you call it you it the app keeps track of the conversations

01:42:27.620 you have to be able to prove that you dated her before and then a lot of the stuff that they write

01:42:33.620 on the site it's like trademark allegedly allegedly kind of like you when you're doing

01:42:38.020 your shows they allegedly allegedly not all not all i see they're gonna get that women will get

01:42:43.760 that taken down if it's not like they can't they i mean they got the t app and that's still going

01:42:50.680 so yeah i don't really see a point in like a guy version of the t app or kind of keep track of

01:42:59.740 women because especially after a certain age honestly after a woman's like 25 or 30 what's

01:43:05.980 the point dude you know like women women are gonna hoard up well actually i think you you're better

01:43:12.540 off just keeping track of a girl's social media than trying to track her on an app because women

01:43:16.960 can't shut up remember yeah well the thing is you know they be they be lying when they're not telling

01:43:23.680 on themselves and so i think it's useful not so much in the case of how many bodies a girl has

01:43:28.860 because she's never going to tell you the truth about that anyways but it's more useful in the

01:43:32.980 case where like she's like a gold digger or if she's like abusive or if she like steals your

01:43:39.000 stuff and she's moving from city to city i think it's more more for that i think that maybe guys

01:43:44.680 should do that for like women that constantly try to marry guys and divorce them or something like

01:43:49.700 that or yeah they have that they have that women that try to hide the fact that they have kids

01:43:55.900 because guys i i don't know who's left on dating apps right now but like single mothers don't even

01:44:01.260 put the fact that they have kids on their dating apps and and i've heard guys especially guys you

01:44:07.420 know that are high value will date and can only see women a limited amount of times a week will

01:44:12.780 have been smashing a chick for like months and not even know she had a kid yeah well that's that's

01:44:19.820 one of the things it has is it's um like parental abuse that keeps a history and then the other one

01:44:26.780 that i think is really useful is the the um so it's got different categories ones for like gold

01:44:34.220 digging you pay like 50 bucks you get the report the other one is for like abuse like psychological

01:44:41.180 abuse other one is financial like it's got every type of category like um false false what you

01:44:47.820 you call it parental fraud i think that's like the big big big one that is very helpful that if she

01:44:54.000 if she was a girl that that did paternity fraud on you you can put her in that app and there'll

01:45:00.080 be a record of it that way anybody who's trying to date her now will see well i'm not the first

01:45:06.020 guy that she did this to she's got a history of it yeah they'll still do it though you see that

01:45:11.800 There's 22 men that lined up to date that girl on The Bachelor.

01:45:16.860 Yeah.

01:45:17.220 That's crazy.

01:45:18.180 Did you see that?

01:45:18.860 I think.

01:45:19.700 They're all good looks and conventionally attractive, good.

01:45:22.440 I mean, they don't cast ugly guys for that.

01:45:25.340 Bunch of desperate dudes.

01:45:26.980 They're paying them to do that.

01:45:28.260 Can't no attractive guy be lining up to go date no whore back.

01:45:32.680 Well, but you know what it is?

01:45:34.020 Here it is.

01:45:34.860 It's on TV.

01:45:36.800 Because here's the thing.

01:45:37.460 we're at the age where men and women

01:45:39.720 will both do anything to get on TV

01:45:42.080 even try to date a whore

01:45:43.580 yeah I mean that's why do you think the guy

01:45:46.000 is telling the story he wants clout on the internet

01:45:48.240 yeah yep

01:45:49.580 God sent me

01:45:52.400 alright welcome to the show

01:45:54.000 y'all take it easy

01:45:56.320 God sent me

01:45:59.380 that was a good call nice and short

01:46:01.960 welcome to the show

01:46:04.660 okay I need you to get out of bed

01:46:06.740 i need you to get out of bed sorry there's just got to be a minimum like it's i can't be talking

01:46:15.840 to people laying in bed it's just not a i'm i'm putting a link in the private chat that that i

01:46:22.940 want you to play it's it's a guy talking about what we just talked about give me one it is in

01:46:29.380 the private chat of uh of stream yarn or or i can put it the other spot oh that guy's funny i've

01:46:39.740 seen his stuff here let me share

01:46:45.020 ever since i competed on the bachelorette always said that the show was a humiliation ritual

01:46:54.720 but this takes it to another height. You tell me y'all flew out 22 men to compete for a 31-year-old

01:47:02.360 divorced baby mama? Domestic violence history? ABC playing in these guys' faces, man.

01:47:10.580 There's no way. There's no way. I honestly think this is social programming because you're trying

01:47:15.960 to make men settle. Out of all the qualified women in America, you're telling me right now

01:47:22.000 The best option for you to provide a handful of men is a 31-year-old divorced baby mama of three?

01:47:31.080 Not one, not two, but Tress.

01:47:35.340 That's crazy work.

01:47:37.240 And then she regular work.

01:47:38.380 That's some Midwest work.

01:47:39.880 Not even like Miami work.

01:47:41.980 No, that's not even on New York work.

01:47:43.520 That's some Midwest work.

01:47:45.200 I'm trying to tell y'all, gentlemen, if you look at what the media is doing, they're literally training men to settle.

01:47:50.700 This is trying to make it seem as if every woman is just still high value.

01:47:55.760 I don't care what prior status she had before.

01:47:59.040 She is still a 31 year old divorced baby mama of three.

01:48:05.560 Come on, man.

01:48:06.960 You have to have some form of standard.

01:48:09.700 And I feel bad for the gentleman competing.

01:48:12.300 I don't know if they found out before if they got there.

01:48:15.000 I don't know.

01:48:15.800 But I'll tell you this.

01:48:18.440 I need a refund.

01:48:20.000 I'm telling you right now, listen, if I would have gotten to the show and they would have told me it's a baby mama with three kids, that's divorced.

01:48:27.460 Man, send me back home, man.

01:48:29.080 I'm on the first flight back home.

01:48:30.780 Keep that rose.

01:48:32.000 Keep it.

01:48:33.040 Keep it.

01:48:34.320 Nonetheless, it's trust fund baddies only.

01:48:36.360 If you're struggling with your dating life, you're trying to align with high value women.

01:48:40.100 I want you to click the link in the bio.

01:48:42.200 Okay.

01:48:43.300 Look at the comments.

01:48:44.920 Let's go fast.

01:48:45.740 you see the one of the comments says straight men don't watch the the bachelorette and that's

01:48:52.280 true but the problem is your girl does these women are that's the problem men don't have to

01:48:58.800 watch it women watch it and start absorbing all this garbage dude my buddy is one of the

01:49:04.180 contestants of this specific season he made it really far and they don't know during casting

01:49:08.200 who's the bachelorette until the contracts are signed uh well after casting is complete so they

01:49:13.460 have no idea who she is oh brutal yeah of course of course all right let's bring up uh jc hey it's

01:49:22.220 been a while hey how you been man we haven't talked in a while oh i've been really busy man

01:49:26.920 just been grinding working uh back in college at night and going to the gym cool so uh what are

01:49:33.820 your thoughts on the topic oh i really didn't i mean my thoughts are i hate it but i had like

01:49:39.600 three different stories of like from churches where i've seen i have this is a old old problem

01:49:45.920 i saw this back when i was a teenager when i was like a 18 19 year old kid just got back from the

01:49:51.200 you know i was on leave for the for the military there's this 28 year old chick in my in my um

01:49:58.720 church started hitting me up i didn't know no barrels 18 19 ish and she had three kids but

01:50:04.560 she was still inviting me over to come crash over at her house after after the kids went to sleep

01:50:08.720 yeah and that sex was crazy huh oh my god

01:50:18.080 she couldn't even she it's like if you got three kids you got a gluck look 9 000.

01:50:22.960 were the snacks good though were the snacks and the cabinet good it was all right yeah i mean i

01:50:27.760 did i did i i dipped out early enough in the morning before the kids were awake i was like i'm

01:50:32.560 I'm not, uh-uh, uh-uh.

01:50:34.100 You did that with a Capri Sun and some freaking goldfish crackers?

01:50:38.920 Before I hear the word dada, I'm like, nope, nope, got the, nope, uh-uh.

01:50:43.180 Okay, so what happened with this girl?

01:50:45.200 I mean, nothing.

01:50:46.180 I spoke to her for a little bit, and I used the military as an excuse to dip on out there.

01:50:50.320 You're talking about, I wasn't taking her with me?

01:50:52.900 God, dude.

01:50:53.920 The church and conservatism doesn't hold women accountable.

01:50:56.820 they say the half truth that their sexual past is forgiven but tread lightly on her new cross to bear

01:51:02.860 and expect men to accept them as wives yeah and then when i was about 22 i went to this other

01:51:09.500 church and the the pastor was a total chad and he was looking for his he was divorced and he's

01:51:16.280 looking for now his second wife so he went through about half the church women single church women

01:51:20.980 to uh find one and he claims claims he didn't do nothing physical with him but i'm like dude

01:51:27.020 you full of shit we're like we you know being becoming friends i'm like no you lie you're

01:51:30.900 lying through your teeth don't lie to yourself now don't lie to me and then later like a year

01:51:38.380 later i ended up getting with one of the chicks from church and she had like a she was a single

01:51:44.140 mom had a kid like 17 18 um she had a bad attitude angry all the time ended up being abusive ended up

01:51:54.780 like throwing stuff throwing stuff at me like like she ended up uh spanking my kid one time when i

01:52:02.140 was at home um with with a belt of bruises she was absolutely nuts and okay okay anytime someone

01:52:10.300 calls and says a theory with a single mother i'm gonna ask them to to rate the sex and the snacks

01:52:16.460 so this girl the crazy one rate the sex the sex and the snacks on on one to ten um

01:52:25.900 i say the the i say the uh the regular sets was like mid but the the best uh as pro says the best

01:52:34.300 glug luck ever what about the snacks were you able to get some freaking fruit snacks and some

01:52:43.020 she made good food i ended up dating her for a while she made good pretty good food

01:52:46.860 she she could do that she could she could cook and she could you know

01:52:54.300 that but yeah that i i've not seen when we when we ended up breaking up the pastor took her side

01:53:01.260 the pastor was like yeah look she's just she's just done she's over with it i'm like

01:53:06.060 she's over with it she got cps called on us what do you mean

01:53:14.220 she did she did my kid went to school with some whooping marks on her

01:53:19.420 wait okay so are you out of this single mother phase or or or are you oh no yeah yeah you have

01:53:25.580 a kid right so so yeah i'm on my second kids i'm on my second marriage and uh my second wife did

01:53:31.660 not have any kids got her and now we have a kid together okay cool so you're out of these streets

01:53:38.140 then oh yeah oh i was one of the streets after that i was like uh-uh in fact my my cousin called

01:53:46.300 me the other day he's like yeah man i really love this girl god she got like two sons i'm like uh-uh

01:53:50.860 i don't think you do it that you do it like he is and i know i'm like one

01:53:57.820 one one kid and like i say this one daughter maybe you can maybe like be a good father fitter

01:54:03.980 to the daughter i say single mothers with sons that's like uh-uh because the boys are going to

01:54:09.180 eventually grow up and be teenagers and they're going to buck against you so looking at the long

01:54:13.340 term that's not you might get some static from the mother and the son it's just it just ain't worth it

01:54:19.460 Yeah, I agree.

01:54:21.420 Thanks for calling in, J.C.

01:54:22.500 Thanks for calling in, J.C.

01:54:23.300 Yeah, that was awesome.

01:54:26.160 Welcome to the show, Budda.

01:54:27.980 What do you have on the topic?

01:54:32.860 I think that as men, we tend to be harder on women.

01:54:39.420 All right, Anthony, you got to fix your audio, Budda.

01:54:42.160 I can barely hear you.

01:54:43.740 Anthony, welcome to the show.

01:54:45.280 What are your thoughts on the topic?

01:54:48.620 anthony hello yeah we can hear you anthony what's going on

01:54:55.860 somehow i logged into uh her uh to the show i'm live with you guys what's going on how's

01:55:04.520 everything all right what are your thoughts on the topic anthony hear her okay now you're not

01:55:10.100 on the show anymore so okay yeah you guys gotta get your audio or whatever you gotta

01:55:17.640 he has his camera on anthony we can barely hear you yeah no i need to i'm kicking both of you

01:55:24.760 i don't yeah so try to come back on but guys you know audio guys i said no single mothers ever

01:55:32.120 don't sleep with them don't date them don't marry them but then i'm also both ways you know women

01:55:37.720 with kids women without kids why are you dating guys with kids why i just let the people with kids

01:55:43.800 i totally disagree with that go ahead no way you're in your late 20s guys with kids are great

01:55:50.680 options they're more likely to marry one they're way more likely to remarry than guys with no kids

01:55:55.960 if you're between like my age 25 to 35 i would act i would seek out guys with kids

01:56:02.600 they because they're usually marrying types yeah but the biggest problem is

01:56:06.680 of the use okay you see more because single fathers have to worry about the the the father

01:56:17.160 of the child of the single mother but women are getting worse when it comes to the the myth they

01:56:24.260 had a kid with moving on and having another woman you see all these crash outs so what it says

01:56:31.160 nothing to do with you you see the kid the kid the dad doesn't get custody so if you date a guy

01:56:36.000 with a kid like it doesn't really affect you like yeah the kid's there every other weekend it's like

01:56:41.520 four days a month okay but then you you'd have to deal with a man who who's one whose baby's mother

01:56:50.120 could feel some type of way about him moving on and make his life hell he could right but guys

01:56:56.880 will always well if he's an attractive guy he's gonna have an ex that's gonna try to make his

01:57:00.960 life hell oh yeah that's true i guess it's gonna be hell either way i don't know i'm just speaking

01:57:07.120 from like i i'm telling you like if you want to get married guys that have kids are more likely

01:57:14.260 to remarry they like it's like i forgot what's the time frame they remarry in i don't know why

01:57:19.800 they love torture but it's like they're more likely to be the marrying types so i don't i

01:57:27.640 think if you're under a certain age like maybe women under 26 27 maybe go for guys without kids

01:57:34.300 but if you're over a certain age as a woman i i'd i'd include single dads um but back to the

01:57:43.320 christian stuff all right anthony welcome to the show what are your thoughts on the topic

01:57:49.180 have you have you seen something similar like have you did you watch the show actually i just

01:57:57.760 jesus christ dude

01:58:02.120 all right jackson hey working pearl yeah it's working now excellent excellent sorry i just

01:58:12.500 did it muted just so that's all right go ahead so what are your thoughts on the topic

01:58:17.100 Well, my thoughts on the topic are, it's amazing how many false equivalences I'm seeing for the

01:58:23.100 people arguing for this guy's post and why it's a good post or a noble post. For example,

01:58:29.920 a lot of these women, they just bring up, well, what about the men that look at porn?

01:58:33.620 Or what if the man is not a virgin, et cetera? What I think would actually be a fair equivalent

01:58:40.300 on the other side, given how dangerous it can be for a man to get married, especially to a woman

01:58:45.920 with a higher body count with divorce and all of that would be like oh these women would need to

01:58:53.440 forgive a a man who like let's say he was as abusive past he was a woman beater in the past

01:58:59.040 but then he became a christian and then um that's that's behind him and you're self-righteous if

01:59:06.080 you're a woman and you don't want to marry this guy that's what i feel like really would be on

01:59:11.200 on the other hand of this would actually be an equivalent, which no one says that.

01:59:17.100 What about a pedophile?

01:59:18.840 Yeah, well, that'd be even more extreme for sure. But you have the right idea, right? Like

01:59:23.820 none of these women are even, and simps who are defending this post and this guy,

01:59:30.280 none of them are even considering at all that this could actually be a very risky thing for

01:59:34.960 his future and all of that with divorce, with all of these things. And to them, they can only

01:59:40.700 see it as like see any objection to it as being like this uh self-righteous finger pointing and

01:59:47.680 that's really a huge error i would say yeah i agree um is that all you have on the topic or

01:59:55.900 did you have anything yeah that's all i have i can i can leave thanks thanks for coming jackson

02:00:00.440 appreciate it that was a great call yeah he was always a good call good talk to you buddy

02:00:04.460 did buddha already come on he he was a guy with the where his volume was really low

02:00:10.740 i buddha we're gonna let you up but you gotta have your volume fixed okay buddha welcome to

02:00:17.440 the show what are your thoughts on the topic oh no okay it's okay we're about to hit the two hour

02:00:24.520 mark anyways um you know my final thoughts on the on the topic is water is wet the sky is blue

02:00:31.340 So Christian men love being cucked and whores are whores and whores love

02:00:36.000 Christianity all for anything.

02:00:39.320 And I think that Christians should implement a 10 year wait period,

02:00:43.880 10 years of being active in the community and good choices.

02:00:50.220 Cause how long do you think someone can live a double life?

02:00:52.860 I think 10 years is tough.

02:00:54.360 You're older than me though.

02:00:55.560 So what do you think?

02:00:56.240 you like the double life of a whore yeah especially with social media and stuff

02:01:05.960 and how simpy these church guys are yeah that's that's a tough question but 10 years is a good

02:01:15.000 amount i think that like you said i would add to the only thing i would add to what you said about

02:01:20.620 it would have to be 10 years you have to study the bible you have to sit in the back of the

02:01:25.480 church and you have to shut up 10 years is too long well that again people say that that want

02:01:32.900 to not do work so i think 10 years like in a company i would say that's about how long it

02:01:39.280 takes to make really good money right i mean i don't know you've maybe worked your way up in

02:01:43.460 companies well i mean i've been on youtube but like how long would you say it takes to work

02:01:48.440 your way up into like the c-suite in a company yeah i'd say 10 years the there's a one of my

02:01:54.560 favorite youtube musicians i'm not gonna say his name but he's like a genius at the base guitar

02:02:00.320 and he said to be a true master of an instrument it takes you 10 years like to to do enough where

02:02:07.120 you can get like a million or two million subscribers on youtube on an instrument or

02:02:12.960 you know it takes 10 years so uh yeah i would say 10 years is good yeah that's fine well doug mpa

02:02:22.800 you got any final thoughts on the topic yeah i mean the church the church is just gonna get worse

02:02:30.160 and worse less it's funny because you're gonna see less men going to church over the next 10

02:02:35.280 15 years while more are gonna go there so like it's just weird thing where you're gonna have

02:02:43.280 church simpy nerd guys have access to run through beautiful women they're gonna have their pick

02:02:48.480 isn't that crazy to think about well it's kind of already happening i mean it's already happened

02:02:55.440 like you know that's i mean that's the chastity speakers i had growing up

02:02:59.920 so so like you know imagine being you know a eligible bachelor simpy virgin dude in like one

02:03:09.800 of these major churches and you have all these ex only fans whores coming after you and he's

02:03:15.260 probably thinking oh yeah look she's paying attention but little did she know how much

02:03:19.980 she gave to men before him for free and he has to pay the ultimate price to get some run through

02:03:26.380 ran through pussy yeah i think yeah women start banging men on the first date and the churches

02:03:31.840 i mean you might as well just gift him with the punani and lie later so thanks for calling in

02:03:36.720 Doug MPA. Yeah, guys. All right. That's all I got for you guys today. I thank you guys for calling

02:03:53.240 in and giving your thoughts on the topic. And thanks for being patient with me. I've been sick

02:03:57.100 the last few days, so I think I'm on the other side. Make sure you guys like the video and

02:04:02.940 subscribe to the channel. Thanks so much for watching, and I'll see you next time.

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Pearl - March 24, 2026

Do Christian Men Like Public Humiliation？

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