Pearl - Do Women Make a House a Home Or Just Buy Useless Stuff on Amazon

00:00:00.000 what's up my triggers

00:00:09.360 what's up my

00:00:11.640 some people call me a wick

00:00:17.840 I don't know what they're talking about I don't know why you showed up to my house

00:00:39.840 I don't know, yeah, it's been so long, sometimes you know that it feels wrong, and I don't

00:00:51.720 know where I'm going, but I know that my drew colors are showing, so baby, let's pretend

00:01:03.280 and where we've been doesn't matter and then we'll climb up the corporate ladder

00:01:15.680 give me a word okay i'll write a song on it

00:01:18.240 Okay, I need a word, chat.

00:01:35.080 Let's be helpful here.

00:01:39.600 Subconscious.

00:01:40.960 Okay, so the way I think of it.

00:01:48.240 I don't like red, you did. I don't like steaks, you did. I don't like the fall, you did.

00:02:04.540 But tell me why I'm subconsciously

00:02:08.660 Oh, that kind of fit

00:02:11.180 Tell me why I'm subconsciously

00:02:14.140 Doing it all

00:02:17.680 Oh, you must be in my subconscious

00:02:22.980 That's kind of bad

00:02:27.100 Oh, you must be in my subconscious

00:02:32.100 You must be in my, deep down in my dreams

00:02:38.040 You must be there unconscious

00:02:43.740 Yeah, you know we made the greatest team

00:02:49.260 And I know that it's been a couple years

00:02:54.360 A lot of fights and a couple tears

00:02:59.240 But subconsciously I still miss you

00:03:05.240 And all the things that we've been through

00:03:09.820 But figuratively, literally

00:03:16.980 Subconsciously we're supposed to be together

00:03:22.880 figuratively literally we're supposed to make it forever

00:03:34.540 they said radiator you were my gladiator

00:03:40.540 always fixing the radiator

00:03:45.940 but i fucked it up you know that's what i do

00:03:51.820 Nobody can replace me and you

00:03:57.820 304's gotta do what they gotta do

00:04:11.820 Ho's gotta ho, that's how I met you

00:04:16.820 304's gotta do what they gotta do hoes gotta ho that's how i met you

00:04:29.300 and the future is bright we can't shake it the future is bright they can't take it

00:04:40.420 yeah they think that we're a bunch of degenerates

00:04:46.820 baby i love you so much i'd sign a prenup baby i love you so much i'd do all that stuff

00:04:57.000 baby i love you so much i'd sign a prenup you know that i would do that stuff

00:05:11.860 hey young nugget keep giving me words

00:05:14.620 holy shit get your pitch up bitch i'm trying

00:05:20.360 let me see you do it better yeah you're lying

00:05:25.440 always the critic but you can't do it yourself

00:05:31.040 okay thank you young nugget our wedding day we came to play

00:05:39.260 Look at all our friends and family

00:05:43.420 We're in love, it feels like a drug

00:05:49.600 I can't, I'm gonna spend my life with you

00:05:56.320 Too good to be true

00:05:58.840 You

00:06:01.100 You're like the beef wellington on top

00:06:06.660 That's why I give you that glock glock

00:06:12.020 If you ask me male birth control is a scam

00:06:19.900 So is this whole damn world with our end

00:06:24.940 Our first dance, last chance

00:06:28.920 Our first dance, last chance

00:06:33.020 That's how we do it

00:06:35.520 There's something a little bit sinister to it Our first dance but last chance, let's do it

00:06:45.520 There's something a little bit sinister to it They don't want us together forever

00:06:56.520 Toe-tod, toe-tod, they said the princess kissed the frog.

00:07:15.040 Chat, you gotta keep up with some words.

00:07:17.460 What are you doing?

00:07:19.120 Okay.

00:07:21.340 We were together and now we're not.

00:07:26.520 I guess that's what you call a breakup

00:07:30.260 But breakup, makeup, that's just how we do

00:07:35.800 I can't help but fall in love with you

00:07:53.360 Alright

00:07:53.960 That delicious food on our wedding day

00:08:01.580 That orange in the flower, yeah, that bouquet

00:08:06.580 James Saxon is a lawyer, hopefully we don't need him

00:08:12.000 There's potential, that's when you see him

00:08:17.700 You can do it, show the people up

00:08:21.160 I forgot how I loved you from above, men, what the, men in cold meningitis, okay, I don't

00:08:33.100 know what that means, men in cold meningitis, men in cold meningitis, I know that I'm kind

00:08:41.880 of frightening heartfelt and genuine consistency oh oh oh okay all right all right i don't know

00:08:58.740 no yeah yes yes i'm waiting for my contract i know i mean it's in the mail it's in the mail

00:09:07.780 my um my music contract is in the mail i'm just waiting but don't let it you know what

00:09:17.460 sometimes influencers i'll tell you what i couldn't really play piano at all until about

00:09:23.220 a year i started in january of not this past but the year before and um to the point i'm at

00:09:31.220 it's taken me like pretty much lessons every day yeah don't sign with a major record label

00:09:36.580 Screw you. If they ask, I'm going. Yeah, I'll take zero money. I don't give a fuck.

00:09:45.180 I would, I would, I would do it for basically for, I would take the poverty contract just to tour.

00:09:50.760 I mean, I don't know how to run a tour. Do you know what I mean?

00:09:54.240 Either Doug MPA is my manager or I'm signing it. That's it.

00:10:00.400 But every day, my goal is I want to be a really good pianist. I'm hoping, I think it'll take me

00:10:06.500 I always think I'm going to be done sooner. Um, but I, I'm just taking the test for the second

00:10:13.160 book and I'm almost finished with it. I'm probably going to pass it. Um, the third book I start,

00:10:20.740 uh, I start, I'll probably start it like in the next week. And usually it takes me like six to

00:10:29.280 eight months to do a book. Um, and we kind of agreed that it would take, like, I would spend,

00:10:35.140 like for both piano and guitar, I'd get through three books. Although sometimes I get through it

00:10:42.600 and then I want to learn more. I'm kind of like that. So, cause I really think I got, but I love

00:10:52.200 music and I just know if I could get, if I could, my brain like hears songs, but I can't play them.

00:11:00.060 And there's just like a gap. Like I hear them in my head. I can't play them on the piano.

00:11:05.140 and I know one day I'm going to figure out how to mix on the computer and write the songs on the

00:11:11.340 piano, and I'm going to produce music, but usually, like, women have men do that for them.

00:11:19.080 Well, men are teaching me, right? But at some point, I'm going to get a producer in here to

00:11:24.480 teach me how to produce, too. I know guitar. Do you guys want to... Fuck it. Let's do guitar

00:11:33.120 today too. No, no, no, no, no. Okay. I know how to play guitar though. So I'm almost through the

00:11:41.120 theory. Let me, let me, I have it on my goals sheet. I have a goals sheet that I just keep

00:11:47.120 as a working Google doc personally, but I kind of see it as an investment into the show because

00:11:53.260 I'd like to, I'd like to not torture you guys as much in the intro. And I would love to bring

00:12:01.940 other celebrities or like internet celebrities in here? Like imagine if I could have Nick Fuentes

00:12:08.000 produce a diss track in here. How funny that would be. Maybe it can't be him because he's

00:12:12.280 too controversial, but like imagine Megyn Kelly, Tucker Carlson, Candace owns her beef. And I'm

00:12:16.480 like, guys, why don't you come in here and do a diss track? You know what I mean? Wouldn't that

00:12:26.480 be pretty cool. So, um, a goal sheet. Well, I don't know. I just like to get through certain

00:12:33.180 stuff. So I've gotten through, if anyone cares, I'm going to tell you anyway. So

00:12:38.960 I've gotten through anyone that knows music theory. Wait, let me find it.

00:12:45.280 I swear I had it in a Google Doc. Well,

00:12:57.880 maybe it was in my notebook. Hold on. Yeah, these are my books. Every day I get up,

00:13:07.020 I do a lesson. Men are smarter than me. They can teach themselves.

00:13:10.640 um me not as oh here it is ha ha ha so i want to get through majors minors harmonic minors

00:13:18.580 melodic pentatonic blues scales um i'm on harmonic minors um but everyone gets easier to do i guess

00:13:27.560 oh my god harmonic minors were like the death of me anybody that knows music theory

00:13:32.440 that was so hard for me the freaking skipping oh my god backwards alphabets my guitar teacher

00:13:39.580 asked me if I was dyslexic. And I'm like, I don't think so. I think I'm just retarded.

00:13:52.680 Yeah.

00:14:09.580 train my ears well i don't know well i think that we're gonna have that in

00:14:16.060 i've made your minors and blues that's all you need

00:14:20.480 okay well i i appreciate your opinion but you're just a random person on youtube do you know what

00:14:27.460 I mean. So anyways, so I view it because I'm like, if I learned

00:14:57.440 the theory then i'll know it forever that's my thought i understand you don't need to know it

00:15:02.280 all to do like pop songs and stuff but i just think it's like better to know it now and then

00:15:07.660 i'm done with it and i'm done with this bullshit um i'm also a rock star who was taught by a hall

00:15:18.180 of famer it's like well how do i know that do you know what i mean like i'm an astronaut i would

00:15:27.120 anyone can say things guys anybody can say anything do you know what i mean it's like okay

00:15:34.320 are you gonna come teach me no all right then what's the like what what is your opinion help

00:15:40.400 me are you gonna teach me whatever like the quicker way to do it no you're not here oh

00:15:47.520 just your opinion all right well you know anyone can say anything it's just like

00:15:57.120 I've been working on my Facebook marketplace. That's pretty exciting. I sold a few things.

00:16:04.000 A lot of people said people will say they're on their way and they don't come. I haven't had that

00:16:09.160 experience yet. Let's see. Oh, would I take, I'm selling a dresser over there. If anyone's in

00:16:16.380 Dallas. You know what I mean? Um, when are you jumping into politics? Why would you want a woman

00:16:39.500 to run for office? I'm still a woman. Like, I mean, this is what I can tell sometimes that

00:16:45.980 guys in the chat, you're not there yet. There's no such thing as a special woman. If the word is

00:16:55.560 woman, do you want me to have the nuke button on my period? Really? Is that a good idea?

00:17:07.060 Is that a good idea? Let's give Pearl when she's pissed on her period, let's give her

00:17:14.600 the nuke button. Let's give her the button to nuke another country. Hold on. I'm going to.

00:17:34.140 Oh my God. I'm not going to be tolerant. I had the same attitude when I started

00:17:44.360 playing okay like are you gonna are you gonna teach me or no that's like that's my question

00:17:49.240 i do not you don't need to learn it it will come with playing believe it or not i'm giving you the

00:17:53.720 shortcuts i wish i had okay but the thing is like you have to teach me the shortcuts it's like all

00:17:59.240 right yeah you gotta i don't know like are you in texas are you gonna teach me no uh

00:18:14.360 you play a guitar on a piano theory is not well i don't know i'm i'm just trying to get through

00:18:23.720 i feel like i can get through this stuff in like six months and then

00:18:28.280 like i don't know we'll see we'll see we'll see my other goal is i'm trying to hit my splits

00:18:34.760 i recently started training like um these weird muscles to try to get my splits and

00:18:41.880 it might help i'll keep you posted

00:18:51.480 i'm teaching you put the book down put on music train your ear to play what you hear

00:18:55.720 i don't know if i could do that i could try but oh my god

00:19:04.920 i don't know i feel like there's no downside to learning right

00:19:11.880 Okay. We're getting off topic. You, you, you, I'm very interested in this music stuff.

00:19:21.960 I'm very interested in the music stuff. So my thought, hold on.

00:19:30.720 Well, I'm pretty much, ow. Oh my God. I hit the, oh, oh my God. Okay.

00:19:39.140 here we go. I hit my chair. We're going to redo this room soon. We now have a music studio in

00:19:52.980 this room, which is very exciting, but we need a chair. So we're going to redo a few things.

00:19:58.660 I'm very excited for it. There are no serious musicians that don't know music. See, now they're

00:20:07.520 fighting in the chat. You see, I don't know. Um, you can, okay. Well, I I'm, I'm already three

00:20:18.660 books into guitar. So I'm, I'm doing like the review now. Um, like basically we go through the

00:20:26.300 books and then we review this, this stuff. And then like, if he says it's good enough, then I,

00:20:31.960 I can like, I take a test on the book and then if I pass it, then I'm done. So

00:20:35.820 right now i'm doing the review on the third book for guitar

00:20:39.700 so i've kind of made it um i've made it through

00:20:45.560 uh and i'm on the second i'm about i'm taking the test on the second book for piano so i'm like i

00:20:57.620 made it this far i might as well just finish the three books you know what i mean

00:21:01.060 i don't know i just feel like i'm too close to getting through these scales

00:21:28.700 you guys are gonna i love talking about music i love talking about music so um

00:21:34.940 you're gonna you're gonna draw me back in you're gonna draw me back in

00:21:39.100 like okay the major minor and harmonic to me i i kind of understand the concepts of oh i've done um

00:21:48.860 yeah i like i feel like i've gotten through the hardest major like the major minor harmonic

00:21:55.640 Melodic, pentatonic, and blues scales aren't that different than the other three.

00:22:04.480 I don't know.

00:22:05.640 I don't know.

00:22:06.100 You guys are kind of drawing me in.

00:22:08.100 Okay, I'm devastated.

00:22:09.820 So I love my gym, right?

00:22:11.520 My gym is like my happy place.

00:22:13.980 I love going to the gym.

00:22:15.920 My gym is kind of like a club at certain hours.

00:22:18.500 I'm not even going to lie to you.

00:22:19.420 Sometimes it's like naked women and a DJ and a billionaire that go to my gym.

00:22:24.860 but that's not why i like it um i mean it's like a good bonus right who doesn't like naked women

00:22:29.580 one in the chat if you like naked women right a lot of women complain but as long as there's

00:22:33.820 no kids around i really don't have a problem with women being naked i think there's environments

00:22:37.980 where it's like well you know yeah so but the reason i picked the gym is it is everything i

00:22:52.060 like. Okay. It has, um, I personally weight lift, but I don't do anything too complicated. So it

00:23:00.140 doesn't have a ton of like weights. Um, but it has the stuff I need, which is, you know, deadlift,

00:23:07.800 hip thrust, um, squat racks, hack squat, you know, um, sometimes I have to wait for a machine,

00:23:16.800 but i don't really mind the reason i picked my gym is it is a basketball i love

00:23:25.440 i love basketball and volleyball and it has both at my gym and they play in the middle of the day

00:23:31.760 which is way better because i can i can go at like noon i can do my sport and come back right

00:23:38.080 on top of that if i want there's i can get my hair cut there's a stretch place if i want

00:23:44.320 I don't do Pilates, but it's there.

00:23:47.840 I like that the option's there.

00:23:49.280 There's classes.

00:23:54.620 Yeah, there's coffee.

00:23:56.440 I think, I don't, there's, I don't, I love that gym.

00:24:00.260 And today, but the main reason I love the gym is the basketball court.

00:24:03.860 Because I can play basketball and volleyball.

00:24:05.800 Those are my two favorite sports.

00:24:06.980 And today I got devastating news.

00:24:09.700 I'm devastated.

00:24:12.900 Guess what they're taking away?

00:24:14.320 put in the chat guess what they're taking away

00:24:17.680 they're getting rid of the basketball court and adding more weights why

00:24:31.320 why would they do this to me i know this is first world problems you're probably thinking

00:24:38.200 pearl we don't care i'm gonna complain anyway i'm going to complain and there is a sauna i don't

00:24:44.900 really use it but i know i know i'm like now i'm i have to do the treadmill

00:25:00.880 women at the gym are why i don't go to the gym i understand that honestly i look around and i'm

00:25:09.740 like i'm at the gym and i'm like i understand why men don't like they avoid the gym i really do but

00:25:16.540 i love that gym it is my favorite adult daycare for women i love it i love it nobody's gonna

00:25:23.780 nobody's gonna shame me into not loving that gym but now i'm sad

00:25:30.020 yeah because there's like it's not a cheap gym it's like an expensive gym so

00:25:34.340 yeah because when you go to outdoor gyms that's when tyrone shows up and tyrone like smells like

00:25:41.540 weed and you know they get the ghettos i'll start arguing i mean sometimes the ghettos make it into

00:25:47.380 the nice gyms i see that at times usually with money they don't have right but there's still

00:25:54.820 some barrier you know it's like a ghettos that you know made money right

00:26:03.860 now i wouldn't say tyrone's really my type it's more like um

00:26:09.380 what what is it what is like the black nerd

00:26:11.700 like uh nerdy nerdy what do you call it malcolm probably malcolm that's more my type um

00:26:22.020 what's wrong with smelling like weed well that's the problem

00:26:28.340 urkel yeah

00:26:35.000 Clarence. Yeah, you guys are coming up with some names.

00:26:55.980 No, I'm never coming back to the UK. I'm sorry.

00:27:00.420 Yeah, there's too many Muslims there for me.

00:27:05.000 no thank you i should have left way sooner if i'm being honest

00:27:11.860 $20 super chat okay big balla thank you thank you um today i got chipotle so i didn't continue

00:27:29.240 my cooking thing but god the burrito after i played basketball for a bit and it just hit

00:27:34.580 the spot you know men are so nice um men are just like the nicest people right so i was playing

00:27:40.460 basketball today um i was playing basketball and i'm i'm taking shots whatever and it's so nice i

00:27:51.220 i really i never insert myself into basketball i only really try to do it if there's they need a

00:27:56.620 person but um you know like guys like to play with guys so i i think it's actually nice of them to

00:28:03.580 let me play right because it's mostly dudes if there's I wish there was more girls there that

00:28:08.980 knew how to play because I'd love to go up against a girl right um but so anyways I'm I'm playing

00:28:16.700 basketball and I actually had a few shots today and I'm going up for a layup and I see this um

00:28:21.820 this giant this giant guy he's like the 6'4 mega giga chad right whatever at my gym and I see him

00:28:31.840 coming behind me for the layup. And I'm like, I'm about to get my shit rock. He's about to knock

00:28:37.280 the ball out of my hand, like this layup. There's no way I'm going to get this up, you know, because

00:28:42.300 I stole the ball and I'm like going. And he didn't end up, I saw him slow down and let me get the

00:28:49.160 layup. And I thought about it. What happens is women, that happens. Me, I'm grateful that he

00:28:54.780 didn't rock my shit, right? Because he absolutely could have just rocked my shit. Like, oh my God,

00:29:00.820 I was so, I was going up and I'm like, ah, you know what I mean? I'm going up and I'm like,

00:29:07.880 I'm out, no, I don't want to. You know how it is when you got to steal and you're going for

00:29:13.660 the layup, but another $20 you shouldn't have. And that's happened to me before. Like one time

00:29:22.140 I, I have learned, okay. I've, I've played pickup with guys and I've learned, um, there's a certain

00:29:30.100 level of play i'm gonna sit out okay if there's two or three like if there's up to four giga chads

00:29:37.220 on the on the court and this is like six two plus built men that play okay i am not playing if

00:29:46.900 there's more than like four okay but like i can kind of keep up against the less like athletic

00:29:55.380 guys um i mean they're probably being nice like let's just be honest they're probably just like

00:30:00.900 the giga chad was but and but if i go onto the court and i see too many giga chads i just think

00:30:09.380 oh no i'm not i'm not getting hurt today and it's because one day i'm gonna tell you i

00:30:13.700 around and found out it's happened a few months ago so a few months ago i went into basketball

00:30:22.660 I went into a basketball game. And again, the way I rate it, I can usually keep up with men

00:30:30.540 that are a little bit older or didn't actually play. I can usually somewhat keep up, right?

00:30:35.880 They didn't play in high school. They kind of, you know, the Indian guys, like, let's just be

00:30:40.500 the Pajit's. I can kind of, I mean, come on, I can go on one-on-one with a Pajit, you know?

00:30:44.340 So I forgot what I was talking about. Oh my God, this is so bad. Why do I do this for a living?

00:30:58.880 Oh, so, but this is before I learned my limits and I'll tell you how I learned my limit.

00:31:05.000 So I played in a game and this game had one former NBA player in it, a few giga chads, right?

00:31:12.860 and i'm going up against i'm guarding the old guy a 50 what the hell you guys are like generous

00:31:18.360 today i'm i'm guarding this um old guy so it's like fine right because i'm going up against the

00:31:24.560 old guy but even when you're in a game with a bunch of giga chads you know you set or when you

00:31:29.660 set screens or at least i was a center trained as a center so um i learned how to set screens

00:31:36.600 and um that was like that's actually what i was best at in school i would set like a mean screen

00:31:42.760 I would be a freaking wall like I used to box girls out and they would just like fall right

00:31:49.020 so anyways um I set this screen um for this like our best player but our best player is obviously

00:31:58.360 being guarded by a giga chad because obviously your best player like is going to be guarded by

00:32:04.020 the and um so I'm setting the screen to get him open and this guy I don't think he saw that it

00:32:10.600 was me right I don't think he saw that I was the one screening him because men like they just tend

00:32:17.320 to take it easy on women right they just tend to they don't really want to hurt you it's like kind

00:32:23.240 of a lose-lose that's why I really now um I only I only there's only certain games I'll insert

00:32:31.360 myself into because what happened was I set this screen and I got my shit rocked I this guy hit me

00:32:40.040 so hard. I like bounced. I'm going to, I'm going to send, I'm going to, I think I tweeted this

00:32:49.200 video. Oh my God. It hurts so bad. I just got up and I was very intentional to say I'm fine. I'm

00:32:55.620 fine. But what I wanted to say was this hurt so bad. And I literally did not play basketball for

00:33:02.760 like two months because it was so painful. Oh my God. It was so painful. I fucked around and found

00:33:12.100 out. I had no one to blame, but myself. I had no one to blame, but myself. You want to play with

00:33:16.640 the boys. This is what happens when you play with the boys. It's tough though. As a girl that really

00:33:21.160 enjoys sports, I prefer playing against women. I don't enjoy, like, I don't want to play against

00:33:27.980 men. I have no interest in playing against men, but women just, they don't want to just hang out

00:33:33.920 and play basketball. They want to hang out and get coffee. Do you know what my life is like?

00:33:38.520 Here, I have a video of it. All right, here, I'm going to, I'm going to show this. This was me

00:33:45.480 fucking around and finding out. Okay. All right. So here I am. I'm, if you see, I'm on the right,

00:33:55.020 this is from an iphone so this is the giga chat you see this is like a six four giga chat

00:34:01.180 i'm trying to get this guy open

00:34:05.500 yeah i was like i'm fine but oh my god that hurt

00:34:14.880 yeah and it wasn't like if you look see this guy's older like it wasn't like um

00:34:25.020 that like but i learned my lesson okay the giga chads i get the fuck out of their way

00:34:31.500 i if there is if they're driving in the middle of the court for a layup go right ahead sir

00:34:37.460 do you want did you want right or left side did you want which way did you want to go

00:34:43.120 the old guys i mean i'll i'll go up with the pajits i'll go up against but nope

00:34:49.260 uh

00:34:51.800 uh

00:34:55.600 Nope.

00:34:56.220 I don't think he saw it with me.

00:34:57.620 I'm going to be honest.

00:34:58.700 I don't think he saw it with.

00:35:00.080 Yeah.

00:35:00.940 Did you see how big that dude was?

00:35:02.900 Because I'm six feet.

00:35:03.920 So, like, if I'm six feet and that guy is that much bigger than me,

00:35:09.940 that's a big dude.

00:35:11.280 No.

00:35:18.240 Thank you, Phil.

00:35:19.680 Thank you.

00:35:23.720 Yeah, I mean, that hurt.

00:35:25.020 that hurt like a mofo, like, so there's certain levels that I just, yeah, today I fell too. I

00:35:35.220 think there's like a, a bruise coming in, but it was okay. It was, it was not that bad.

00:35:41.660 It was not the giga chads, the giant ass dudes. They can just go right ahead.

00:35:49.880 you can go right ahead. I mean, left, left, left hook, right hook, what you want.

00:35:56.780 It's not like I could stop you anyway. I might as well just get out of the way anyways.

00:36:02.220 You know what I mean? All right. Let's go through my Twitter. Let's go through my Twitter today

00:36:08.040 before we get into the topic that I wanted to rant about. You know, I'm a ranter. You know,

00:36:16.100 ranting is cute on stream but can you imagine day to day sometimes i just want to rant about things

00:36:23.380 and i have nobody to listen to me and the people that do listen to me it's like they're like why

00:36:27.860 are you talking this long i'm like oh apparently this woman i didn't know i was pregnant but at

00:36:36.020 least my baby got to midnight sun before i aborted it so like you know a lot of times they say women

00:36:42.980 have abortions because they're so broken what that you guys are are like balling my dad passed

00:36:48.660 on christmas eve i think about him every day he is my hero like my dad is to you two days later

00:36:52.580 his ex-girlfriend claimed they were married to try to take his retirement women isn't that incredible

00:36:58.180 i fear the day that happened i know i will most likely outlive my father but sometimes i hope

00:37:03.620 i i die first because i i think i'll be utterly i can't even

00:37:08.580 i get um i get like emotional thinking about that i can't even i don't even like the thought

00:37:16.440 you know whenever that happens i'm gonna be dead i'm gonna like i probably will just be

00:37:23.100 like destroyed um performance and you killed it after the performance isn't that incredible

00:37:30.560 yeah so um women again don't have to be brainwashed into having abortions they just

00:37:37.320 want to do it. RFK apparently is announcing that HHH has a new initiative to teach Americans how

00:37:43.980 to cook again. Every American can feed themselves cheaper than fast food. Many of them don't have

00:37:49.160 the cutlery. They don't have the pots and the pans. They don't have the cutting boards and

00:37:52.860 they don't know how to shop. One of the things that we're talking about now of HHH is to use

00:37:57.400 the commission corps or other groups within our agency to go out and actually teach people how to

00:38:01.740 cook I actually would love this I mean there's not really an excuse I didn't know how to cook

00:38:08.060 a few years ago and now I've come to be like a decent cook but if we're gonna be honest it's all

00:38:13.520 on YouTube um so like because the thing is like my mom I mean her cooking was like Costco meals

00:38:27.900 reheated right she would cook for like big events but day to day she didn't she didn't teach me any

00:38:32.620 like female skills because my mom was gone a lot right she kind of gave us to nannies to like raise

00:38:37.420 us and um you know you know but i you know it's so crazy when i say that i can like hear her in

00:38:45.100 my head saying no i didn't i'm like well like i could hear you know isn't that isn't that crazy

00:38:52.700 you could hear your mother like in your head gaslighting you. Like, isn't that crazy? Like,

00:38:59.960 even when you're an adult, you still hear your mom in your head gaslighting you.

00:39:07.200 Anyways, but I honestly feel like cooking kind of changes your life.

00:39:16.100 It's like kind of a great space. You can just chill out. You can eat healthier. It's just

00:39:22.500 Every American can feed themselves cheaper than fast food.

00:39:26.860 One of the challenges that we're facing and that we're working on all kinds of innovative devices to solve is that Americans have forgotten how to cook.

00:39:37.580 The convenience of fast food is one of the things that attracts them.

00:39:41.660 And many of them don't have the cutlery.

00:39:44.180 They don't have the pots and pans.

00:39:46.760 They don't have the cutting boards.

00:39:48.620 And they don't know how to shop.

00:39:50.100 and one of the things that we're talking about now to hhs is to use the commission core or other

00:39:56.620 yeah because sometimes you just want someone to sit down and teach it to you

00:40:01.520 you know i would love that i would i would i would take that i want someone to teach me how

00:40:06.860 to chop better because i just my chopping skills i just cannot chop super fine groups within our

00:40:13.920 agency to go out yeah because what we're seeing is you know they they act like the women like

00:40:19.620 boomer women were really actually not that great of mothers they a lot of them threw us in daycare

00:40:25.460 they wouldn't be stay-at-home moms they wanted to do all this instead of watch their kids

00:40:31.380 so none of us knew like none of us it's crazy because most men have life skills because their

00:40:36.180 father taught them stuff but most kids don't have like women's job life skills

00:40:42.420 chloe kardashian basically admits that she just wanted a sperm donor not a father look

00:40:47.540 what's the hardest part of co-parenting the hardest part of co-parenting is i'm sure this

00:40:54.100 is gonna sound nuts but like i just think they're mine like i'm like i have to run this by someone

00:41:01.460 else and get permission like because i in my head like obviously that's the right thing to do and of

00:41:07.300 course my kids have a dad but in my head i'm like but i'm the mom like i would never do anything to

00:41:14.740 hurt my kids put them in harm's way like that's how i think and tristan knows that and tristan

00:41:21.220 is like great with like trusting me with like he knows who i am as a parent but it's still

00:41:28.420 a struggle for me sometimes that i have to remind myself oh yeah i have to ask for permission oh

00:41:33.940 okay i have to get this letter signed because he is the dad if i want to take them out of the

00:41:39.460 country. He has to like sign a waiver. It's just like, they're mine. Like, that's just how I feel

00:41:44.780 in my head. So for me, that's the hardest part. Hold on. All right. Yeah. So yeah, women don't

00:41:58.080 want fathers. They want sperm donors. Okay. So this is a WNBA player admitting that she spent

00:42:06.800 more than her wnba salary on getting a cook and this is kind of what i'm predicting is the high

00:42:12.800 status women are just going to hire things that they can't afford for basic life skills they don't

00:42:19.040 have i had a chef that was period no that was way too do you want to know what she was charging me

00:42:24.160 for one month how much seven grand i know absurd ring absurd for two people for benjamin and i for

00:42:35.280 three meals or just i mean no not even for three meals she was like shopping at air one though

00:42:41.200 that was that was the issue stay away from air one that place actually i love air one sorry

00:42:51.440 yeah so she's high status right and so she's gonna spend all of her like she's probably making

00:42:56.160 social media money and then on top of that like wnba money so now she's like an influencer so

00:43:02.160 now she's and she's good looking right so she's high status um and while she's high status she's

00:43:08.080 gonna have servants you know so i well i'm like that's a treat for me though i'm like my contract

00:43:14.960 is 70k we cannot be doing that is more that is more than my salary that is more than my salary

00:43:23.040 that's insane no and it was we started right when i got hurt she's a great person by the way you're

00:43:29.600 like ma'am i have a membership at costco like i'm gonna go to cost i'm gonna go to in and out

00:43:34.160 i'm not i need i'm on a weight gain program anyway so let's just go to in and out

00:43:40.240 i'm gonna wake up yeah okay

00:43:47.840 all right so that's kind of validating what i was saying one of the people at my gym does

00:43:52.080 a car detailing service and i was like see you and my gym is expensive you gotta make

00:43:56.800 decent money to go there so um i told my grand girlfriend i wanted three kids to have a legacy

00:44:05.840 legacy she asked me to name my great grandparents oh my gosh

00:44:15.680 gen z women 74 of gen z women read books the category breakdown um 70 of consumption is

00:44:23.200 romance is the top for ages 18 to 24 40 plus engagement fantasy 40 to 50 thriller and crime

00:44:31.480 is leading overall contemporary literacy and memoirs is rising especially on women and girlhood

00:44:38.180 non-fiction 20 to 30 percent mainly psychology self-help and personal growth overall women

00:44:44.720 read fiction 47 percent rate versus men's 28 percent rate uh basically women are checking out

00:44:51.480 checking out of dating and checking into fantasy porn books, AI boyfriends, online attention,

00:44:56.360 vibrators. I know they talk about sex bots for men and I'm like, do you know what? Women have

00:45:02.620 the big sex bots. Women have vibrators. Like, isn't that kind of a sex bot? Okay. Well, all right.

00:45:10.400 That's all I got on Twitter today. Maybe I'll, should I read your comments from last show?

00:45:14.200 let me see if there's any copy I want to read

00:45:18.080 eggs is a great breakfast you're singing destroyed my life all right rude

00:45:24.900 Rockefeller didn't brainwash women he gave them an excuse and reason to act how they wanted

00:45:32.100 torches for freedom smoking campaign they just need an excuse yeah the no wheel thing has more

00:45:37.660 to do with the lack of domesticatable animals. I can barely read. That's so sad. For example,

00:45:45.540 the Ancus had wheels only for their children's toys because the largest domesticable animal

00:45:54.560 was the llama. They had nothing to pull the wheel. These people will not stop calling me.

00:46:04.760 Leave me alone. I'm not buying a house. I'm not buying a house. Stop calling. Stop calling me.

00:46:19.000 You guys liked the history lesson. They said the guy sounded like an alien, but he's smart.

00:46:25.280 That's what I love about men. Men can like overcome. Women, if you sound weird or look

00:46:29.860 off or whatever, they just criticize you till the end of time. But the guys are like, oh,

00:46:33.740 you're pretty smart. Pearl, don't quit your day job to be a rock star. I support Pearl,

00:46:47.540 the morning person. Early bird catches the fly. I get up at 5 a.m. without fail if I go to bed late,

00:46:53.200 which is rare. I'm usually in bed by 9. I've been doing this since 2016. I love the quiet

00:46:59.480 and unhurried yet productive mornings and then the chill slowly winding down in the afternoon.

00:47:06.280 Okay. All right. That's, that's all I got for the comments from last. Okay.

00:47:13.320 Let's talk about women making a house a home.

00:47:19.320 So the last few years I have been trying to find anything women are better than men at.

00:47:24.040 anything and my journey started a few years ago when i sort of realized and you don't realize

00:47:30.680 this as a woman and i think men must realize this earlier than women that women have a lot

00:47:35.880 of useless jobs and essentially i i had to go through a red pilling of my life and a lot of

00:47:40.760 women go through this actually they don't because they're delusional but where i realized that most

00:47:46.600 of my accomplishments in life were merely because i was a woman not because i was that talented

00:47:52.920 important or special now i can go early into my life i was really into sports right and so i

00:47:59.320 actually i went to state for volleyball when i was a sophomore my senior year we went to super

00:48:04.440 we were one game away from going to state we were regional champs for basketball i went on to play

00:48:10.840 um volleyball in college i got freshman of the year all conference um for volleyball i transferred

00:48:16.280 to another school we made it to the ncaa's twice made it to 19th in the country for division three

00:48:21.400 I ended up going overseas, playing semi-pro volleyball, semi-pro basketball also.

00:48:27.340 And so I obviously spent hundreds and hundreds of hours of my life playing volleyball and

00:48:31.780 basketball.

00:48:32.300 I really cared about the sport.

00:48:34.120 And I think there was things that were good for me, you know, about it.

00:48:39.660 It taught me to follow instructions.

00:48:41.680 It taught me to get along with people.

00:48:44.380 It taught me to work towards goal.

00:48:46.340 But there was a day when I woke up and I realized all my brothers are more athletic than me,

00:48:50.680 but they have less accolades because I'm in a fake league. It's all fake, right? It shouldn't

00:48:56.380 exist. If we really were having sports based on merit, none of this would be here. And I also had

00:49:03.640 to reflect back on my sales career. I wasn't even not the best at sales, but I remember like kind

00:49:09.880 of walking into the office and some of the men making comments that I was getting special

00:49:14.880 treatment. At the time, I thought that I was just super smart and hardworking because I do work hard

00:49:19.940 i do try i think it's apparent to the audience that i do try at things if you've been watching

00:49:24.260 me for a while but in all honesty i don't think i would have been given the best sales territory at

00:49:30.580 the time if i wasn't a 22 year old hottie i don't mean i may say so my i was a little chubby hottie

00:49:35.780 but i was still a hottie you know what i mean who's not a little hot at 22 22 you know as a

00:49:40.900 woman so um i kept going right i kept going and i went overseas i played volleyball semi-pro and

00:49:48.980 i had one of the biggest youtube channels in the united states um when i started my youtube i got

00:49:55.460 on pierce morgan i got but i started kind of looking at my male um counterparts right and

00:50:01.860 my male counterparts like one let's say is terrence pop he covers a lot of the same issues as me

00:50:07.060 i've made more money online than terrence even though terrence is a 30 year war like he's a

00:50:12.180 veteran he is not he doesn't just talk about the system he's lived it right he his ex-wife killed

00:50:19.460 this fucking dog who knows more about these issues than terrence and a lot of times he'll help me out

00:50:25.860 he'll give me like we he helped me prep for my debate with anna and a lot of the best lines were

00:50:31.140 really from him or from nuke right so you know there's a point where i'm like do you know what

00:50:38.580 I think a lot of the, it's not really fair, but as a young woman, you're entered into the high

00:50:44.040 status and men just have to work 10 times as hard to get the same things that you do. And it doesn't

00:50:49.900 mean we hate women. It doesn't mean we can really change the system or you shouldn't accept

00:50:53.960 opportunities that come your way. But we do have to be real about the fact that as women, we're

00:50:59.920 just kind of given things, you know, and this kind of goes for all the, I'm going to use conservative

00:51:05.060 commentators just because i'm in this industry and i know all of them candace owens not nearly

00:51:10.900 as smart as ben shapiro her male counterpart right she's um kind of lost in this conspiracy

00:51:16.660 theory nonsense even if you're kind of buying that um you know ben shapiro had to be a high-end

00:51:21.860 lawyer she just was a black girl with conservative ideas you know and that's kind of brett cooper

00:51:28.180 same thing you know all the women in media i'm not special or different all women it's just you

00:51:33.060 know it's like a different it's kind of like the special olympics everyone knows we're not as good

00:51:37.940 but it's still kind of inspiring to see women go you know it's kind of inspiring to see the

00:51:43.220 guy with the one leg like hobble across the finish line do you know what i mean like it's

00:51:48.020 still nice to see you know so i'm not saying we eliminate it completely but we have to be aware

00:51:53.780 that that's where we're at in life you know this isn't to hate women it's not to say that some

00:51:58.660 women aren't there because of merit um but it's really just the only women and i was thinking

00:52:04.660 about um trump's press secretaries the only press secretary i thought was that good was that fat

00:52:10.100 ugly one do you know what i'm talking about i was like you know what she might be there on merit

00:52:14.580 but if they're not fat and ugly i mean look at this you know you know

00:52:24.660 i mean

00:52:28.660 you're probably being given special treatment, you know. And again, it's, it's really, it's not

00:52:34.300 to say that we, there's no talent. It's just to say that, you know, we're kind of being given help.

00:52:41.620 And just over the years, I've kind of, all the things they say that women are good at,

00:52:46.460 I've just sort of kind of tackled them one by one. So, you know, when I first got into the space,

00:52:52.280 everyone said women are great mothers and they're really nurturing and they just have this special

00:52:58.000 attachment to children. And I thought about it and I'm like, well, if women love children so much,

00:53:04.140 why do they keep sending them to daycare? And why do women keep signing up for anything else

00:53:09.820 rather than be a mother? Women would rather solo travel than be a mother.

00:53:16.260 Women would rather travel for work than stay home with their kids. Women would rather like,

00:53:20.920 i mean like being abuela like i know a woman that shows being a nanny to other people's kids

00:53:28.400 and putting her kids in daycare do you know what i mean i'm like

00:53:31.540 why is it that i don't really see women get joy from watching kids what i see them get joy from

00:53:40.000 is the attention the kids get you know what i mean like you ever like with your mother when

00:53:46.100 people come over then all of the sudden she's like very loving with you when you're like

00:53:50.440 bitch bitch what the fuck do you know what i mean it's like you know you're like posing for your

00:53:59.240 mom's facebook and you're like why don't i get this attention off camera like do you know what

00:54:08.360 i mean it's like the mothers will be bitches to you behind the seat then they'll pick up the phone

00:54:13.260 and they'll have a completely different voice and the kids are like my

00:54:17.560 And so, you know, it's just not what I'm seeing.

00:54:22.540 And I started looking into the stats and it turns out and it didn't shock me at all.

00:54:26.520 Mothers are more likely to be negligent towards their kids, abuse kids.

00:54:31.340 Mothers are more likely to like, I just don't really think women seem to be like loving in any way.

00:54:37.880 Like even to their boyfriends and their husbands, women just, they tend to like the wedding.

00:54:42.820 And that's why, you know, I don't really care about women being married.

00:54:46.440 I think people just like having status. So all it is is status. It's like fighting for status.

00:54:53.260 Because I'm like, what's the point of marriage if most of the women getting married aren't even

00:54:57.220 wives? Like they're like terrible wives. Because I just don't think women really have like love to

00:55:02.020 give. Do you know what I mean? Like I just don't see it. I don't see women like loving towards

00:55:08.580 their dogs. I don't see women being loving towards their children. And everyone fights.

00:55:13.340 they say it's just the women you know. And I'm like, well, where do you want me to go? Because

00:55:18.740 pretty much every girl I knew growing up, their dad was way cooler than their mom.

00:55:24.540 Like not even close, not even close. Like their dad was just, even if the mother did like their

00:55:31.760 best to like kill the dad's reputation. I remember there was one girl, my mom would always tell me

00:55:39.360 like her dad was an alcoholic and abusive and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. The mother of this

00:55:45.060 girl ended up cheating. Right. But even before that, you know, I'd met the mother, met the

00:55:49.680 father. The dad was so chill. He was so chill. And I'm like, what did this man do? You know,

00:55:56.440 the mother was kind of chill too, but like, you could kind of see how she would, cause women,

00:56:02.800 it's like, they're kind of chill, but like, they're also, you're like, oh, I could see why

00:56:06.680 you're like the worst ever do you know what i mean like i could see why you torture everybody

00:56:10.040 behind closed doors the right good path a little something towards your new house down payment

00:56:14.800 pearl women are better at saying a lot at one time that mean absolutely nothing yeah that's

00:56:20.960 another thing like i'm really tired if even myron says this and i'd like to someone should clip this

00:56:26.640 and tag myron because i think i've heard you know myron say that women are more socially aware

00:56:32.480 i don't agree i don't agree at all because when i look at women um women maybe say more they're

00:56:41.140 less like afraid to say things but it's because we have tits and men men let us get away

00:56:46.900 with more i don't think women are socially superior i think men are better at reading a room

00:56:52.900 i think men are better at like picking up on signal like have you ever seen a woman flirting

00:56:57.700 with a guy who's just not interested like i think men pick up on a woman not being interested way

00:57:02.820 faster than vice versa um maybe when men are younger they don't pick up on it but usually

00:57:08.420 another dude will be like hey what the fuck like she doesn't like you you stupid simp you know and

00:57:14.500 then guys will learn five dollar super thank you thank you and you know over the years i just kept

00:57:22.500 hearing these things that women are like good at and every one of them i just keep going through

00:57:28.820 and i'm like i don't think so like they say women are better at accounting well if women are better

00:57:33.380 like they would say you should have a woman i think i've heard aaron clary say that women are

00:57:37.860 better at accounting they're better at details i don't think so if women were better at details

00:57:43.700 like i've never really known women that budget they wouldn't have so much debt right

00:57:47.460 i i can't i'm i'm i'm out of luck i got nothing i have nothing i can think of that we're good at

00:57:58.040 so you know back in london you know i would ask a lot of women what they bring to the table in

00:58:03.320 relationships and i wish i was as good at cooking now because a lot of women said they could cook

00:58:09.340 back even i said i could cook back then but it's not until you learn to cook that you realize you

00:58:13.080 couldn't cook at all before. I thought I could cook cause I could cook like three meals. Now I

00:58:18.800 could cook like 20 meals. Right. And, um, I'm like, I couldn't cook at all, but I'm still getting

00:58:24.600 there, but you know what I'm saying? So, um, I kept, I kept going. Right. And this one thing

00:58:33.940 I heard is that women make a house, a home. And I'm like, what does that mean? A woman,

00:58:40.960 you make a house a home. Okay. Most mothers bring problems into the home. They bring their

00:58:51.680 emotions. Everybody has to like tiptoe around the mother's emotions. Like even earlier, I was

00:58:57.500 thinking about it. I'm like, I can't even say that I was raised by nannies, right? That my mother

00:59:03.120 worked and the nannies did that job without being scared of my mom. Isn't that crazy? Isn't that

00:59:09.160 and then saying, it's like, well, I can't even talk about it. So that's really what mothers do.

00:59:15.880 They bring in, and it's all women, right? I, I, I certainly bring my emotions home too. I'm not

00:59:21.320 special. I'm not different. Right. But sometimes even I observe myself where I'm like, damn,

00:59:27.340 but I just try to call, like, I call, try to call it how I see it. So making a house a home.

00:59:35.460 And I was thinking about when women decorate houses, like, it's just usually a bunch of useless shit that we don't need. It's like a bunch of kitchen appliances women don't need. It's a bunch of throat pillows we don't need. It's ways to decorate and make things look better, even though it serves practically the same purpose, right? Practically the same purpose.

01:00:01.880 um and so i saw this guy on instagram and he basically builds a man's dream home

01:00:13.140 and i just thought to myself i think that kids would like this house better than anything a

01:00:20.720 woman would design okay okay wait let me hold on

01:00:26.740 keep going if you remember kitchen appliances that are never used

01:00:33.740 feel free to add in black women being argumentative and coping again thank you for proving my point

01:00:44.740 it's just yeah it's it's it's just incredible thank you i love it when black women come in and

01:00:54.320 argue. They like come in, right? The black women come in and they say, not all women. You're just

01:01:01.600 talking about yourself. You're talking about yourself. And I'm like, really? Argumentative

01:01:06.580 black woman. Right there. Right there. Thank you for proving my point. We do need those damn

01:01:12.620 pillows. Women don't even realize when men aren't interested. Yeah. Like I honestly, I don't, I

01:01:18.940 don't think women read the room better. I don't think, I don't think anything, right?

01:01:27.940 I don't think anything.

01:01:36.700 So anyways, I saw this thing on Instagram and I'm like, if women make a house a home,

01:01:43.840 then men make a house a fucking kingdom or a castle because this is way cooler and this is

01:01:50.360 actually my dad designed something similar to this and um this is like the coolest thing ever

01:01:56.720 okay complicate everything and men keep things simple barnum names are simple and don't let a

01:02:01.460 woman try to convince you that she wants to move out to the country that's a lie why you want some

01:02:04.960 eggs you want to build you a fancy chicken coop rachel is that what it is and please don't get

01:02:08.100 me started on horses horse and horse stalls uh-uh men want big shops like this we want piranha

01:02:12.940 iron workers plasma tables you want fork trucks like by the way i am forklift certified tell your

01:02:17.740 mom and did you know that the average vet bill for a horse is a thousand dollars are you kidding me

01:02:22.460 listen if michelle de chavel needs a new motor in her and your horse has a broken leg i'm putting

01:02:27.340 your horse down and why are women always washing towels i don't get it i'm clean it's clean it's

01:02:33.900 basically clean forever who's with me on this one women want a formal dining room for what what a

01:02:38.620 a waste of space and don't ask me if i make my bed i keep that thing in ready position tell your mom

01:02:43.180 it's exactly how i rolled out of it this morning it's exactly how i'm getting back in and i've got

01:02:46.620 the perfect pillow to blanket ratio i don't have to kick off a bunch of decorative pillows at night

01:02:51.100 only to put it back on in the morning that makes no sense guys what am i missing put it down in

01:02:55.020 the comments like subscribe and share this with your friends hold on he's gonna he has more videos

01:03:00.540 this wasn't the one i thought it was here getting divorced time to build that barn dominion let's

01:03:05.660 face it guys she was never gonna live out in the country or a tin can like this much less let you

01:03:09.260 have a half acre pond with a death trap 1991 vintage jet ski hide your moms a full-size gym

01:03:15.100 and not a crossfit gym we might be divorced like let's just be real what what would a kid rather

01:03:20.860 have right what would a kid rather have would a kid rather have um

01:03:26.140 would a kid rather have throat pillows or the stuff this guy's gonna show of course but we're

01:03:36.000 still straight smoky old fashions at 10 a.m cheers oh and her new boyfriend chad i guarantee he

01:03:43.740 doesn't have a 4 500 square foot shop with all the room for activities and toys right bigfoot

01:03:49.700 so if you like this kind of lifestyle maybe it's a sign to build a barn dominium or maybe it's just

01:03:55.020 major sign that you're a raging alcoholic and you have been the problem the entire time and maybe

01:03:59.340 you should get some major counseling medication even but just remember it takes two to ruin a

01:04:03.820 marriage it's usually her and her mom but let her know as many times as you can whenever you

01:04:07.980 get the opportunity actually it does help so if you like this kind of content like subscribe

01:04:13.500 look at this guy commented he said i love my wife i love my wife how long will it take to fill up

01:04:18.220 this pond let me give you some details rim to rim on the length we're 250 foot and on the width we're

01:04:23.820 80 foot on the deep end we're approximately 10 foot deep and on the shallow end women want these

01:04:29.700 huge ass houses right and that take forever to maintain and take care of men just want the

01:04:37.600 simplest thing like they say women are neater than men i don't even think that i don't think

01:04:42.380 women are neater because if we were neater like i think women will waste time cleaning things that

01:04:49.160 don't need to be cleaned the black girl saying i'm not just black well the black is showing

01:04:57.160 the black is showing right you don't need a lot to to have the behaviors you know

01:05:06.680 yeah

01:05:11.240 oh you're on one and we're about four foot deep but the surface area comes out to about 20 000

01:05:16.920 square foot. That's about a half acre. And in the upstate of South Carolina, we have an

01:05:21.180 evaporation rate of about 4,000 to 9,000 gallons a day. That's a lot. A well at about 11 gallons

01:05:27.960 per minute. A real important factor is that we will not be losing any water to ground because

01:05:32.820 we will be using this 36 millimeter liner. Now that's about 2,800 pounds. It got delivered on

01:05:38.140 a semi truck. Had to lift it off with the telehandler right there. And I have no idea

01:05:42.680 how we're going to unroll it. Harambe or punch? Which was the sadder story? Who cares? I built

01:05:49.440 this Barnabinian for less than $400,000 and I wasn't abandoned. The number one question I get,

01:05:54.760 gosh, this thing is annoying to carry. No wonder why your mom got rid of you.

01:05:58.200 The number one question I get is about the floor plan. Everybody wants to see my floor plan. Guys,

01:06:01.920 I didn't have a floor plan. I drew this on the back of a napkin, made a ton of mistakes. I've

01:06:06.500 got 4,500 square foot out there in the shop. That's where I run my business, Fabtech Solutions,

01:06:10.440 and i have 3 000 square foot on the living quarters it's two stories by the way i got a

01:06:14.820 full gym on this side on the other side is my office area upstairs two studio apartments let's

01:06:20.240 go take a look at mine if you're new to the channel and you haven't seen my 750 square foot

01:06:24.440 executive suite tell your mom here it is tongue and groove on the ceiling stained tongue and groove

01:06:29.860 black on the wall love it got the king size bed got the full kitchen over here got the bathroom

01:06:35.700 got plenty of loft space up there but listen guys i post like imagine being a kid and you

01:06:40.760 get to go in the loft i'd like i think kanye's kids were saying they liked his apartment better

01:06:47.220 than kim's house these videos to be totally transparent and help you with your build and

01:06:59.700 help you live life on your terms to be happy and help others so if you like this kind of

01:07:06.260 If she's a nurse, paralegal, or a school teacher,

01:07:08.740 she's definitely cheating on you.

01:07:10.420 Let me show you your future.

01:07:11.500 Come on, buddy, it'll be okay.

01:07:13.140 So while she's secretly looking for an attorney,

01:07:15.180 you should be looking for land.

01:07:16.420 Time to build that barn dominium.

01:07:17.660 The first thing you're gonna do is clear out the land,

01:07:19.460 kind of like she's clearing out

01:07:20.420 your joint bank account right now.

01:07:21.900 Barn dominiums are the most versatile way to build

01:07:24.100 because of that wide span, just like your mom,

01:07:26.220 but there's really no secret to a barn dominium build.

01:07:28.500 The only real secret is that credit card

01:07:30.060 you don't know about that she has maxed out to $8,000.

01:07:32.860 That's marital asset, by the way.

01:07:34.300 And if she's posting pictures like this at the gym all of a sudden, she's already found an apartment.

01:07:39.220 So build yourself a badass gym and your own apartment.

01:07:42.560 An apartment that has no pictures on the wall, just animal heads, big screen TV, and some guns.

01:07:47.140 And how amazing, you could go to a family event and not have to take a bunch of pictures.

01:07:53.460 Oh my God, wouldn't that be amazing?

01:07:57.200 Oh my God, for the, like, I don't know.

01:08:00.440 I'm so pro-surrogacy.

01:08:01.920 It just sounds like heaven on earth.

01:08:03.260 bathroom with an enclosed shower so nobody can hear you cry keep your closet and your laundry

01:08:08.060 in the bathroom because it just makes sense that that sounds amazing hey divorce sucks i hear you

01:08:14.140 bud but listen when she comes home drunk at 3 30 a.m and you got a problem with it that's considered

01:08:18.940 controlling you better watch yourself bud so if you like this kind of content like subscribe and

01:08:23.420 share this with that one guy that's always liking all right so you guys can call in today my dog

01:08:29.820 i have to let her out in a second so i will i will do um

01:08:37.340 i will do the commercial when i go get her in a second um

01:08:44.380 how do women make a house a home how do women do women or do you agree with me or disagree

01:08:51.260 i don't think women make a house a home i think we got to take that off of the list

01:08:55.420 because i think that

01:08:59.820 i i think that this barn dominium seems way cooler to live in than any

01:09:06.960 bullshit that a woman would put together

01:09:08.680 truly

01:09:11.380 all right we're gonna have doug mpa maybe doug mpa could talk

01:09:25.380 to the audience doug mpa you want to talk to the audience while i let ellie out

01:09:30.160 yeah yeah sure okay well i'm not i'm in two minutes i'm gonna go but tell me tell me your

01:09:37.880 take first so okay um i was arguing with these broads at my day job about this whole house home

01:09:47.460 thing right because um i said women they don't make a house a home they make a house their prison

01:09:58.200 what happens is so they're talking about all the unpaid labor and how like i said look

01:10:09.920 i've lived with multiple women in my life and what and i do the laundry because i'm obsessive

01:10:16.140 oof with laundry i back in the floors i do the dishes because i've never met a woman the that

01:10:21.520 makes sure that all the socks are rolled or put all of the um all of the clothes all the shirts

01:10:29.660 on the hanger in the same spot in the closet or they leave clothes in the dryer or leave clothes

01:10:35.920 on the bed so i'm like i do the laundry period don't touch it right it's the same with dishes

01:10:43.680 right so i said that's how i don't get nagged when it comes to um living in a house with a

01:10:52.100 woman guys if you choose to live in a house with a woman don't let her be the arbiter of reality

01:10:58.100 in the house see women complain about how much stuff they have to do um around the house but

01:11:03.560 then uh one of the ladies that she said well i feel like i have to do all the work in the house

01:11:10.300 because if someone comes over the house and the house looks messy it's a reflection of a woman

01:11:16.140 not the man because i said the problem is you take over everything and men we love women so much that

01:11:22.680 we let women have everything around the house and then they come at us later saying oh you need to

01:11:28.480 do this you need to do that and then complain that you can't do it the way they do it and and they

01:11:35.780 also fixate on useless things like i remember once my mom and my dad we were like cleaning his garage

01:11:42.500 and my mom slowed us down so much because she was cleaning every single paint can and like wiping

01:11:47.300 it down for what like let's just like because my dad had a ton of paint cans like and i'm like do

01:11:55.860 you know how long that's going to take when they're just going to get dusty again in a week

01:11:59.700 like let's just do the floor you know we appreciate it but that's that's kind of useless right women

01:12:04.580 have structure they set the foundation for a home are you are you delusional i mean you have you

01:12:11.300 lived with a man have you maybe you're dating like these bum black i don't know i don't know

01:12:17.220 who you're dating i keep telling her to bre breona carter i said your name i'll give you clout come

01:12:25.060 over to the youtube i put the link on x come over and click on the link and say it to pearl space

01:12:31.700 okay i'm gonna i'm gonna um you can talk to the chat they can call in so um you can bring them

01:12:38.740 up but i'm gonna go let my dog out really quick cool guys make sure to like the video if you

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01:13:00.820 bryoni bryoni carter come over to youtube click the stream right and call in

01:13:08.100 you're saying a lot in the chat come on up so guys anyway guys once again all this unpaid labor

01:13:15.240 stuff women feel like the home directly reflects them right and actually i saw this article

01:13:22.740 it was online and this woman was talking about how her husband was a software engineer who quit

01:13:29.760 his job to start a software company with his friend so he lived in Connecticut and he worked

01:13:36.720 in New York right and she was a nurse or something and she stepped away from working to raise their

01:13:41.360 two sons right so he works like 12 hours a day with their software startup he was on the way home

01:13:49.200 right and she said hey I need you to pick up some ground beef because I want to make spaghetti he

01:13:55.280 He's like, okay, I'll stop by the store, and I will get ground beef.

01:14:00.220 So he stopped by the store, came home, and he got some, like, 50-50 ground beef instead of the 80%, 20% lean ground beef.

01:14:12.160 So she looked at the ground beef and looked at him and said, what is this?

01:14:15.660 He said, it's ground beef.

01:14:18.140 She's like, yeah, but it's not the right one.

01:14:20.080 He's like, what?

01:14:21.320 So then she literally wrote an article.

01:14:23.460 why didn't he pay attention

01:14:25.900 to the kind of ground beef I normally get

01:14:28.020 apparently he must not care

01:14:30.020 about me

01:14:30.500 so she's scolding her husband

01:14:34.020 over this ground beef

01:14:35.060 and they have an 8 year old son

01:14:38.080 and she looked at her son

01:14:40.060 when she's scolding her son

01:14:42.240 her son has this look

01:14:44.100 on his face because he's little

01:14:45.400 he doesn't know what's going on

01:14:46.580 her husband has the same look on his face

01:14:50.140 like what the heck is going on here

01:14:51.680 then she realized

01:14:53.460 why am i yelling at my husband over ground beef he works at a soft work start up 12 hours a day

01:15:01.140 so she doesn't have to work to be at home with their sons he's a good man provides for his

01:15:06.500 family and she's yelling at him over ground beef guys women don't make a house a home women make

01:15:14.660 house a prison okay i'm gonna bring up esteban

01:15:21.780 esteban what's up buddy hey what's going on doug pa

01:15:25.460 what's going on pearl how you guys doing i'm good how are you

01:15:29.460 i can't complain can't complain um all right so how do women make a house

01:15:35.620 a home um that's a very good and interesting

01:15:40.900 question i would say first and foremost um

01:15:44.660 hopefully they themselves grew up in a home or house you know house home meaning hopefully they

01:15:52.440 had the stable nuclear two-parent home and the father well she asked the question I'm answering

01:16:01.860 you know that's what you would like ideally like specifics though like actively doing like how do

01:16:08.300 women make a house a home? Well, first and foremost, they have to be obedient and submissive

01:16:15.800 to their husband. That's first and foremost. Okay, so, but Pearl Andrew Klavan said women

01:16:22.540 make a house a home and make him a better man overall, and he owes a success to her.

01:16:27.420 Okay, guys. Maybe I'm phrasing. Maybe I should say it better.

01:16:33.300 how are women currently making houses homes

01:16:37.860 how have you seen how did your mother if if if this is something they do

01:16:44.200 okay we're gonna bring up sean

01:16:47.840 sean you there

01:16:52.620 sean

01:16:55.480 sean

01:17:00.000 debt and drama yeah so like a good answer would be how a woman should make a house a home

01:17:10.580 she should be able to cook and provide sustenance for the for the husband and the children

01:17:16.360 she should keep the home neat and tidy right um she should be able to you know

01:17:24.700 um uh keep track of whether something's gone out you know like um you know if uh if something needs

01:17:33.960 to be fixed because if the man's usually too busy you know if she sees like a a pipe leaking or you

01:17:40.300 know a water stain from the ceiling she should be able to point that out just to her husband

01:17:44.840 you know that's the type of stuff that would a woman could do to make it it still doesn't offset

01:17:51.420 the emotional chaos like i don't think like women even the good women one of the best women i know

01:17:58.120 is still so chaotic like and she really obeys her husband in all things but she still drives

01:18:03.900 everyone nuts like i just don't think like i think even like the best women still bring chaos

01:18:14.060 i don't think it offsets you know what i'm saying yeah 100 well that's why

01:18:21.340 i told you i like this whole new stance you have on like guys imagine to you guys who

01:18:30.220 who come from a two-parent household who had a great father how much better it would have

01:18:35.020 been if your mother wasn't there i just peace on earth heaven

01:18:42.460 daniel how do women make a house a home do you think they do what is your opinion on the topic

01:18:49.980 so hey pearl hey doug so this idea is that women make a home because they do the cleaning

01:18:58.020 and the cooking and things like that but these days women say that they're tired so a lot of

01:19:04.700 times they'll sit around when they get home and then as soon as you start doing something like

01:19:09.940 doug was saying she'll or one of the kids she'll get up start yelling that they're not doing it

01:19:15.920 right so this idea of like a happy home uh gets instantly sucked out of the air and then she gets

01:19:24.580 mad at you for being mad about it and mad at the kids because now they're like sitting around sad

01:19:30.300 not saying anything and depressed and then she plays his victim role like oh it's my fault then

01:19:36.540 she'll start crying and all this kind of stuff so it's just a lot of emotions going on from not

01:19:42.620 taking accountability of being lazy and she could have just when she got home been like hey i'm

01:19:48.840 tired will you help me uh clean up and it's like why why won't she just uh say that you know

01:19:56.980 that's kind of where i'm at on it yeah yeah i agree i i would also argue guys look um this

01:20:06.800 making a house a home thing is just another trope because remember guys women want okay

01:20:13.860 the modern woman playbook is to find a successful ambitious competitive man when she gets with him

01:20:21.580 have him set everything aside that made him him to help her achieve her own selfish desires and

01:20:29.100 they'll do anything to be able to do that shame insults guilt and this whole women making a house

01:20:34.000 home thing it's just it's just another trope it's another way for the woman to be able to manipulate

01:20:40.160 the man in his house the other thing too that i noticed a lot of women that would say that on my

01:20:45.920 show would have heavy makeup and like fake nails and all this stuff but that takes a lot of time

01:20:52.240 like if you go to the nail salon especially if you have the long fake ones that takes like four hours

01:20:57.520 you get your nose like your both like on top of that your botox like that's all going to take a

01:21:03.440 lot of time i'm like are you really spending the time making a house a home looks like you're like

01:21:08.720 when i see women when i think of women that actually did try their best to make a house a home

01:21:14.400 they look like they don't they don't have like a lot of the fake stuff because they're busy

01:21:20.960 you know i'm saying like the housewives i know they don't look like um they don't have the botox

01:21:26.640 the fake they don't have all that stuff because they're busy making a house at home do you know

01:21:30.560 i'm saying my following yeah but yeah even even but even even the ones like i'm thinking of that

01:21:36.640 were better than like most they still brought chaos like nagging complaining like like it's

01:21:45.120 just like the deep lying you know even if it's lying about stupid stuff that's still like chaos

01:21:51.520 you know also um it it used to be that coming from like a humble background uh used to be

01:22:02.240 you know something you could respect but it seems like a lot of women these days are kind of on this

01:22:07.520 like cruise ship type of mentality so like they'll get into a relationship and it'll it'll go good

01:22:15.120 for a few years like you know it'll be like one day i'll cook because you're tired and i don't

01:22:20.880 mind doing the laundry she does the laundry this that and the other but then they get to a point

01:22:25.600 where the women start to take advantage of it and they just start not doing anything and then they

01:22:30.400 get mad because the man when the man get home when the man gets home he's like screw this i'm just

01:22:35.680 going to go out there and like ride my riding lawnmower even though the grass doesn't need to

01:22:39.760 be cut what they do is at the beginning of the relationship in the beginning of the marriage

01:22:44.800 they're doing stuff for you but they're keeping tally right oh right they're building up credit

01:22:50.640 and they're going to cash that in later that's true yeah they'll remember oh it'll be 20 years

01:22:57.440 later remember all that stuff i did at the beginning so then you owe me for all this now

01:23:01.920 now that you've become a man if now you make all this money i should be able to spend it because

01:23:06.320 i used to wash your underwear when we first got married it's like his wife she was an assistant

01:23:14.240 she like did the front desk and now she's entitled to half his company here's the thing

01:23:20.240 so my mom is in her 70s right and there was a generational shift so like most of our mothers

01:23:27.440 were part of the generation where they were obsessed with stuff so like like they had kids

01:23:33.920 got a house your mom and dad and they filled it full of stuff right but right around my age

01:23:39.120 i'm 45 right and the women got less obsessed with stuff and more obsessed with like a lifestyle and

01:23:46.400 things which is why women traveling and doing doing all these things and the problem with getting

01:23:53.840 with these women and as they get older is that the price tag of that lifestyle

01:23:58.080 increases guys yeah they will expect you to pay for it sean what are your thoughts on the topic

01:24:08.080 so shout out to you and shout outs to the women as far as amazon goes i'm a stockholder and it's

01:24:14.320 been marvelous since women have actually assumed the position they assumed in society so as an

01:24:20.800 amazon stockholder i love them but as i said in the chat it's just drama dating coup de tas

01:24:27.520 that's about it like that's what they create in the household and then i would i would say like

01:24:33.040 i like how you always go back to the past a bit and kind of check us on that because if you really

01:24:37.520 go back to the past daddy's was going to the bar spot they wouldn't come back home those guys went

01:24:43.680 to brothels they went to the little jimmy joints around the corner to get away from women like

01:24:51.600 there was exactly there was articles what's his name stroppenhiger or something i don't know

01:24:56.800 there's some philosopher from the 1800s who had i cannot he's like a german guy but he had an

01:25:03.280 article about how terrible women are like this is like this has been going on for all of time you

01:25:09.360 you know? Facts. And if the home was ever good and she made a home, then why did the guy have

01:25:14.920 to create a cave inside the home? I'm going to say this the most appropriate way, but remember

01:25:25.060 that women would actually have doctors that they would go to because the men wouldn't even be there

01:25:31.000 and the doctors would, well, they would, they would, you know, make him happy and then they

01:25:36.080 go back home yep yeah you got the pool boy you got the mailman you got roofalins you got boxes of

01:25:45.200 wine i mean there's proof in the pudding back when they were household wives they were just

01:25:51.440 medicating themselves too much that was a whole big thing that's why even what was the roofies

01:25:57.040 they got like x'd out because housewives were just overdosing on those drinking and filling

01:26:02.800 up with those so i remember in the early 1900s you could order all sorts of designer drugs

01:26:14.480 what about those guys who used to come to the doors and knock and then sell tupperware to your

01:26:19.440 wives or what about the qtc when they used to have the hands and they would show like man shorty's

01:26:25.040 always been buying up and had consumerism so e-commerce is not to blame yeah and do you know

01:26:31.040 know what i was thinking about it i don't mind you know because they always say pearl like you're so

01:26:35.580 hard on women but i just like to be accurate you know i'm just trying to be accurate here and if

01:26:42.180 if there was anything i could think of that we did better than men i would say it i just can't

01:26:47.280 think of anything and recently i think my next show is going to be on women lying i don't think

01:26:52.040 we're that good of liars i really don't i think when you pay attention um because the men i know

01:26:57.800 i don't know if you guys ever know like a serial cheater that's that's a guy that's a he is a good

01:27:03.240 liar oh my god they will die on the hill women start crying like our biggest tell is we just

01:27:08.840 start crying you know what i mean that's the reason we get to get out of jail free card because men

01:27:13.480 feel bad when we cry but i don't think like our lying is that good like i just i you know i think

01:27:21.880 it's like whether we have these tics i think it's just men like see the tits or something

01:27:26.520 and forgot bring up an example of talking about guys who whoever's been divorced or has gotten

01:27:33.240 out of a long-term relationship and she did something to end the relationship guys remember

01:27:39.880 that feeling when you you used to think this woman had something that nobody else had you know she's

01:27:46.760 shown like an angel from heaven then she cheated on you or she spent a bunch of your money and stuff

01:27:52.120 and you found out and the magic was gone she's saying the same things to you but the magic is

01:27:59.420 gone understand i'm saying that's what pro's talking about men let our women let women lie to

01:28:08.640 us we literally let them do it and once that magic is gone they can't lie to you anymore

01:28:15.900 like you're telling me men could invent civilization but they couldn't they can't

01:28:21.360 lie well if they really put their minds to it problem is men have like a conscience so they

01:28:25.940 don't want to do that you know what i mean like but if men didn't have consciences i mean i think

01:28:33.060 they would lie to the moon i mean they they you know in a way they do lie to us all the time they

01:28:38.340 never tell us the truth but it's like in a nice way you know well well if you say they're the

01:28:44.300 greatest liars or they're very good at it i would say they are in a factor that uh when she gets off

01:28:50.300 the strip stripper pole and then friends try to tell don't marry that girl the guy often says but

01:28:55.340 she's different she's changed so men lie to themselves they're the greatest liars to themselves

01:29:00.140 i believe i think pearl you just see through the veneer you see through the veil so most of it

01:29:06.460 you're like damn women suck at lying but men don't see it men don't see it one bit unfortunately not

01:29:13.420 yet i think i think women just lie more like men lie better like i'm telling you i i was asking i

01:29:21.100 know like some of the puas right this guy goes to like 100 women a year it's like incredible

01:29:26.380 and i'm like and i've seen him i've seen him take home like three or four different women in a

01:29:30.860 weekend and he'll always have three or four different girlfriends i don't know if you guys

01:29:34.620 have ever met a demon like that but it's like you know the type and i asked him i'm like what do you

01:29:41.500 say if like they do this he has like a protocol in his head for oh if they say that i say x y and z

01:29:49.660 like he has a whole and he sat down and explained the system i'm like i don't know how anyone would

01:29:55.340 figure that out like if you get caught by this this dude you're just done like no one's gonna

01:30:00.860 figure this out i mean men men lie so less that 90 of people know when a man is lying

01:30:08.220 yeah yeah and you know what i agree with the quote the other guy said is that like men do

01:30:16.760 lie to themselves and and part of that is like you know for a lot of men it's very hard to find

01:30:23.060 a quality girl so once you find her and she starts acting up like you start like telling

01:30:27.760 yourselves different things because you're like trying to fix it you're trying to get it to work

01:30:31.440 because you don't want to go back out there and have to deal with the other 99.9 that are trash

01:30:35.980 like you know that doesn't work and so you're trying to get the thing that you're working with

01:30:40.420 to work and you're just lying to yourself and you know just like doug said you know it's not until

01:30:44.900 you know you guys end up splitting and she leaves does your house go back to a home right

01:30:50.080 because all that drama is just out the window and you're just like man i feel really good again

01:30:54.380 what is your thought on the do women make a house a home i mean my thoughts on that is i mean she

01:31:01.100 basically has to be from like the 1930s or the 1940s like you know like she has to be very

01:31:05.560 traditional or in today's society she basically has to be amish like that's the only way i see

01:31:10.940 it really working and like those types of women like you know i had a mother who was like that

01:31:14.860 and but you know she's from another country from another culture but like in her mindset is like

01:31:19.900 her role in the house is to make the house to serve the best interests of her husband and her

01:31:25.440 children first and foremost so she will not buy things for herself she asked herself is like how

01:31:31.480 does it make the other people feel are they going to feel calm cool collected when they get to the

01:31:36.220 house like so it's not very materialistic if you look outside the house and i have neighbors in

01:31:41.620 their 90s who are from a traditional christian background who think very similarly you walk

01:31:46.080 into their house it's like you went back to the 1970s like there's no remodel this there's no

01:31:51.660 you know new furniture that it's just whatever is in the house is to make their their husband

01:31:58.180 or their children feel warm and welcome when they go into that right but you look at most modern

01:32:03.760 women today it's like their their home looks like a hotel you know what i mean like it's all

01:32:08.180 aesthetics it's nothing else and even look how they raise their kids right you might have people

01:32:13.100 in the same room but they're all on different devices yeah how is that a home yeah so true

01:32:18.980 and so you know it just becomes very performative and decorative and i'll agree it's you know amazon

01:32:24.960 has made a lot of money off of that right no doubt but you know the reality is it's more like museum

01:32:30.080 like aesthetics than it is anything that's actually like welcoming for you to want to come to

01:32:37.280 wow that's actually a really good point because it does kind of look like like a lot of homes today

01:32:43.280 look like influencer houses they don't look like anyone lives there like when people when you

01:32:48.000 actually spend a lot of time in the main areas there's going to be a little bit of a mess it's

01:32:51.920 It's going to look a little worn, you know?

01:32:56.000 Yeah, I mean, a woman's car.

01:32:57.840 Looks like MTV Crips, right?

01:32:59.520 So the cars are even worse than their hours.

01:33:03.080 All the crap that they leave in their cars is insane.

01:33:06.300 Yeah.

01:33:07.760 I wanted to go ahead.

01:33:10.280 I wanted to refer back to what Doug was saying about what you said, Pearl.

01:33:14.320 I think that at least over half of the inventions that men have created for our world was because they were chasing, trying to get women to see that they were great or make them happy or whatever, because there are rare women like this.

01:33:33.680 But I think most men kind of find joy out of taking time to build things or do things and appreciate all the, you know, little things around it that are created to, you know, create something as a whole.

01:33:49.820 you know what i don't understand is like men have created so many different inventions and devices

01:33:58.280 for household appliances to make making a home so much easier like it used to be you know 50 60

01:34:05.980 years if you had to wash your clothes maybe a little bit before that right it would take a

01:34:10.640 very long time you had to do it by hand you know whether it's you know drying things stuff like

01:34:15.420 that like all household appliances have built been built by men over the last 60 70 years

01:34:20.220 and despite how easily it is to do it now women will still complain that they either don't want

01:34:26.260 to do it they want to outsource it to a maid or they're expecting the man to you know do his

01:34:30.560 quote-unquote fair share of the laundry and and this that and the other and it's like they don't

01:34:36.840 even want to do the job of making it into a home even when we've made it easier that's the part

01:34:43.140 that just perplexes me and the sad part about it is a lot of the stuff that they

01:34:46.820 that they have to do to make a house a home is the stuff that they'd have to do

01:34:51.060 whether the man was there or not okay they just want to do a period well they view it as beneath

01:34:57.960 them that's what it really comes down to i'm looking at the this girl on youtube just like

01:35:04.040 the titles of it says five tips to make your house a home one yeah okay i can um

01:35:13.240 i think this has been shapiro's sister um but i was just reading this

01:35:20.860 yeah it says um yeah i think this is the sister be intentional choose colors wisely

01:35:29.600 have a mixture of inherited pieces put up wall decor and keep your house clean i'm like three

01:35:34.240 out of the five of these men i don't think care about like i don't think they care about wall

01:35:38.320 decor i don't think they care that much about colors as long as it's like not rainbow right

01:35:45.680 yeah i was just thinking i know what would you guys say is the most useful thing

01:35:54.720 a woman could bring into your life

01:35:58.960 um like day to day give me give me three doug you can start um uh like obedience

01:36:12.160 just no it has to be like no not it has to be like a like a thing yeah a skill um

01:36:19.360 um uh honestly like um active listening like i'm one of those people where it helps me solve my

01:36:33.620 problems if i just say them out loud because because i'm working through as i'm talking to you

01:36:38.400 so like even if you don't care just listen that's a big one um i would say honestly like i like when

01:36:46.320 woman cooks food and serves on a plate so for me cooking does work and then three would be um

01:36:55.920 uh what listening cooking uh

01:37:04.960 i would say cleaning but i clean better than most of the women i know and i was like you just said

01:37:10.640 laundry and dishes that's like half the battle like what yeah sweeping i guess but no you said

01:37:17.600 you vacuum too yeah i mean i just do that so i mean i'll just keep it at chief right now honestly

01:37:23.440 active listening and cooking daniel what about you sewing uh ability to work together um and

01:37:35.520 I would say kind of like what Doug said, just kind of like being able to listen outside of the way that you think.

01:37:51.220 So I won't put too much on it, but like if I come home and I'm having a bad day at work and I tell you what happened,

01:37:58.340 like I don't want you to be my mom and be like, oh, well, you should have listened.

01:38:01.700 And it's like, I wouldn't do that with you.

01:38:04.500 Why would you do that with me?

01:38:08.400 You know, I guess.

01:38:09.680 But that's my opinion.

01:38:13.120 Okay, Sean, what about you?

01:38:15.340 Yeah, I mean, for me, I would say, I mean, obviously peace and quiet.

01:38:19.520 But, you know, putting that one aside, you know, just being friendly and bubbly, even if she's not feeling it.

01:38:24.520 Like, even if she has to fake it, because she knows it's going to make you just happier to be around her because of that.

01:38:31.200 Because what I've noticed is for a lot of guys, they'll come home to a girl who, you know, had a bad day at work, and then she takes it out on that guy.

01:38:38.920 Or she's just very, like, depressed thing to be around or very unhappy and bitter.

01:38:43.560 Like, guys don't want to come to a home that has just turned into a house.

01:38:46.920 Like, they'd rather just come to a home that's empty than come to a home with a girl who's bringing her drama from work.

01:38:52.780 You know, but we would prefer her to be very friendly, warm, and bubbly.

01:38:55.700 So I would say, even when she's not feeling it, just being in a very friendly and bubbly state.

01:39:01.380 I would say, yeah, cooking and cleaning, that's very helpful.

01:39:04.280 And then just being appreciative and grateful.

01:39:07.300 Like, I think guys just really want that.

01:39:09.120 Like, the floor is so low these days, because most guys are pretty much single.

01:39:12.940 And we've learned to take care of pretty much everything else ourselves.

01:39:16.180 That if we can find a girl who can cook and clean, be friendly and appreciative, those three things.

01:39:21.480 for most guys, I think that

01:39:23.260 covers pretty much 90% of what they want.

01:39:27.360 What about you, Sean?

01:39:29.140 What was the question again? I just want to make sure I got it right.

01:39:32.000 What are things that a woman

01:39:33.800 can bring to your life? Like

01:39:35.340 skills. Like three things that would be

01:39:37.760 useful to you. Okay.

01:39:39.780 Be a robot.

01:39:45.660 Bubbly great energy. Like the last

01:39:47.840 person said, shout outs to Sean.

01:39:49.240 and then also on top of being the robot cook food with tlc

01:39:55.840 that's it those are some things that would be added value because i had a chef before and then

01:40:02.740 you know it's cool and everything but that would be the last point and the other two is basically

01:40:07.720 be a robot and treat me like you're daddy and the king that would be it if you can't do that

01:40:13.740 you got to get out can i add in one more per yeah go ahead um the positive low maintenance

01:40:25.260 that that is helpful as far as like no maintenance like what is a good one like how much makeup you

01:40:31.660 need you know how much you you know do you you don't have to have the you know the five thousand

01:40:37.580 dollar couches do you or or how about be be able to get ready in 15 minutes or less

01:40:45.820 right right to where i don't have to lie and be like oh the movie starts at two but it really

01:40:51.820 starts at 3 30 and then you get mad because you realize you think i manipulated you but it's like

01:40:57.100 no i just know how long it takes you to get ready yeah yeah that was a good point yeah so basically

01:41:03.740 be financially literate and financially competent that's that's number one actually that's number

01:41:10.780 one well yeah be a robot and then be financially competent robot is number one boston dynamics type

01:41:21.020 nice i would also add you know and this maybe wraps up within low maintenance but be

01:41:26.220 self-sufficient like anything you you know need to do like take care of yourself like

01:41:31.820 Like, yeah, men can solve certain problems, but like solving your petty stuff from day

01:41:36.800 to day or like, you know, where you need to get your makeup, stuff like that.

01:41:40.400 Like, you got to be able to take care of that stuff yourself instead of like pulling men

01:41:43.780 to the outlet mall every time.

01:41:45.080 And, you know, how does this outlet make me look good?

01:41:47.600 Like, we don't want to be involved in that.

01:41:50.320 Women are to set the tone of the home, providing peace, respect, and submission.

01:41:53.960 However, it can be just as bad by bringing chaos, challenge, and defiance.

01:41:59.720 Thank you for the super chat.

01:42:01.060 well that's all i really have on the topic so that'd be um do you guys have anything

01:42:06.340 else you wanted to add before we close out the show doug mpa

01:42:15.140 i'm sorry go ahead oh i just said that's all i got on the topic is that i

01:42:20.020 i don't really think most women make a house a home i think men i think men make a house a home

01:42:26.900 and women can listen if they want but they usually don't i think that's if the woman in the home is

01:42:34.260 mad everyone has to suffer if the man in the house is mad no one notices or no one cares

01:42:40.500 yeah a hundred percent a man will be mad at the world going through all the stresses of life

01:42:45.380 but will put the emotional needs of others in the house over his and you won't even know what's going

01:42:50.500 on with them but every little i'm telling you women modern women make a home a prison for

01:42:57.300 for their husbands and their children and she's the warden yeah i would i would add to that yeah

01:43:05.220 definitely as you said pearl they don't right now but i think never have that type of mindset

01:43:11.380 like at the end of the day i create the happy home because there's no home if the mortgage is

01:43:16.260 not getting paid. There's no home if there's no food in the refrigerator. So at the end of the

01:43:21.440 day, I think men, you always have to be in charge and you never say, oh, this is your box. This is

01:43:26.740 where you're in charge. Okay. She's going to take over and it's going to be tyranny, right? A woman

01:43:31.020 leading will lead you into destruction. So at all times you are inside my house, but I make the home

01:43:37.320 a happy home because I create everything. Yeah. Yeah. Men make the home, the happy home and women

01:43:43.820 can either try to ruin it or listen you know i think i think women need to uh learn personally

01:43:54.740 how to deal with um being happy even though things aren't the way that she wants them and not take

01:44:01.600 every little thing that happens to her every day personally whether at work or at home or whatever

01:44:06.760 yeah that's never gonna happen dude

01:44:10.780 well it's only gonna get worse and worse enjoy the decline fellas thanks for coming on

01:44:18.640 yeah you know i just

01:44:23.980 this is just my thought process i just all the things that we say about women i just keep

01:44:31.220 questioning i keep thinking i'm like it doesn't make any sense

01:44:36.760 i have a friend who the the day she realized her her dad wasn't the bad guy her mom told her

01:44:43.560 it was because her mom ran away for like two weeks

01:44:47.380 and it was the best time of her life she was like every night we had dinner

01:44:53.480 we'd all hang out in the kitchen it was amazing

01:44:57.100 and um yeah i think that's kind of how it is

01:45:01.200 um i wanted to ask george farmer sean said from the back how does candace owens make a house a

01:45:09.540 home while talking about massad agents and egyptian plans yeah and that's what you kind

01:45:15.280 of have to realize and i'll just say this to the youtubers out there you being in the news cycle

01:45:21.840 is just not good for our mental we can do it right like i can but mentally i don't i don't

01:45:30.040 think being like i enjoy my shows more when i just talk about what i see in real life versus

01:45:35.320 like online because the news is always going to be like the worst stuff possible you know

01:45:41.020 um so i have a hard time believing most of these trad influencers

01:45:48.900 can make their house a home while covering like the worst things going on in society

01:45:55.240 i just have a hard time because we're not really built to see that information

01:45:59.980 you know and i personally i think my show's better the last i'd like stay in the news cycle

01:46:05.440 you know and the more i just talk about what i see

01:46:08.460 and i think you could be in a better mood about anyways my two cents

01:46:13.520 but i'm always like whenever the women are like yeah i'm like a great wife and i'm great at this

01:46:19.160 and i do it all i'm like do you because i have a hard time like i have a hard time with it you

01:46:26.280 don't struggle at all because sometimes like social media addiction is a real thing you know

01:46:30.580 it does affect you so nine can you tell me a woman who you think is a nine angelina jolie

01:46:36.020 and you're a nine yes i have symmetrical eyes i have full lips those of you watching drag a window

01:46:44.940 and put a angelina jolie's face like right next to her face can you turn your face that way

01:46:52.500 more more more more and then turn your face the other way

01:46:57.180 angelina jolie caliber everybody holy yeah all right i just thought that was funny okay guys um

01:47:07.380 let me know what you think of the comments did your mom make a house a home i'll read them next

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01:47:21.620 sometimes when i hear the simping i just gotta i tune out so anyways like the video

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Pearl - March 05, 2026

Do Women Make a House a Home Or Just Buy Useless Stuff on Amazon

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