Pearl - She Has No Idea How A Player Works

00:00:00.000 The reason I would not date a promoter is because why are you outside every single night?

00:00:03.980 They're going to be outside partying with girls in the section with girls every night.

00:00:07.520 I'm just bound to cheat on you.

00:00:08.940 What up, guys?

00:00:09.800 Welcome to my reaction series.

00:00:11.440 Today, we are going to listen to women talk about their biggest L, which is who we date. 1.00

00:00:18.260 And now women maybe have learned something. 1.00

00:00:20.860 I doubt it.

00:00:21.400 But they're going to at least tell us the types of men that you should never date.

00:00:26.300 The types of guys you should never, never, never, ever, ever, ever date under any circumstances.

00:00:31.080 I don't care what he tells you.

00:00:32.260 I don't care how he tries to twist his words around.

00:00:34.320 I don't care what he tells you he's safe, sanctified, holy ghost feel, reform, change, and, you know, forever a new person.

00:00:41.540 Club promoters.

00:00:42.640 Listen, listen to me and listen to me carefully.

00:00:44.720 If he's recently divorced, don't date him.

00:00:47.100 Okay.

00:00:48.000 If he has more than one baby's mother, don't date him. 0.99

00:00:50.480 Okay, I agree with that one.

00:00:51.820 That one is credible.

00:00:53.280 um occasionally i mean uh there's some exceptions though like men with ex-wives but like black men 0.95

00:01:00.800 oh god with baby mom no no no if he has any addictions i agree don't date him oh my gosh 0.94

00:01:06.460 i'm agreeing with the women women love drug addicts though so that won't stop them if i saw 1.00

00:01:11.900 this i saw this video about um appalachia or whatever where everyone's addicted to crack and

00:01:17.560 literally all of those guys have girlfriends isn't that incredible like you're single but

00:01:23.060 a guy on crack and i think it was math has a girlfriend had addictions and he says he's now

00:01:28.540 clean don't date him i agree okay if he has a record don't date him i agree if he lives

00:01:35.620 with his parents and this should go without saying but no sometimes i know a lot of actually

00:01:42.060 decent men that live with their parents because they're saving money like one of them that lived

00:01:46.360 with his parents for like four years, just bought a house. So I don't know. That one,

00:01:51.540 you have to get to know the guy. Don't date him. If he had goals and aspirations that he never met

00:01:57.900 and he is not seemingly settled with those experiences, don't date him. Okay. If he speaks

00:02:06.140 negatively on all the other women he ever dated in his past and can't say one nice thing about any

00:02:11.020 of them don't date him if he talks incessantly about politics don't date him to be fair as

00:02:16.680 someone that's political people that are overly political or generally there's a deficit in their

00:02:20.960 personality somewhere and i would say that as i think there is a deficit in my personality

00:02:25.340 so you know it takes one to know one it's like yeah usually they're a little weird let me keep

00:02:31.080 going can't come through for you when you need him don't date him if his actions don't match his

00:02:35.660 words don't date him if he doesn't listen well when you speak to him don't date him if you tell

00:02:40.840 him something and he doesn't remember what you told him don't date him he's not really listening

00:02:45.080 to you when you talk if he verbally tells you okay i mean men are like designed to tune us out

00:02:50.440 out loud how much he likes the attention that he gets when you all are together when you're next to

00:02:55.440 him he's using you for your looks don't date him i mean all men use you to your looks for some to

00:03:01.060 some degree half of these are decent though if he tells you you're good for business don't date him

00:03:05.640 he's only dating you because of how you make him look in front of other men he might even be deal 0.93

00:03:10.200 yeah but women also do that like they date men for status i mean people date people for like 1.00

00:03:16.780 superficial reasons up front but a lot of times if you're a good person and compatible it grows

00:03:22.400 into something because he's trying to impress other men versus trying to focus on impressing

00:03:26.740 you sorry these are good y'all if he doesn't show genuine interest in your life and what you enjoy

00:03:32.840 don't date him if he tells you that he doesn't think he's good enough for you don't date him

00:03:37.880 you're setting yourself up to be mistreated and you're setting yourself up to be humbled by him

00:03:42.960 if he tells you that he likes you but he doesn't know where things are going he just wants to see

00:03:47.020 where things will go don't date him um that depends it depends how quickly that like a month

00:03:52.660 in you can give it a few months and see where it goes um okay if you catch him lying to someone

00:03:58.300 else in your presence don't date him he'll be lying to you next that's true if he hasn't already

00:04:02.860 if he's a people pleaser don't date him that means he'll sacrifice even time with you in order to

00:04:08.380 please other people if he deems them more important than you it also means he can't lead you well

00:04:13.080 because he's going to only be able to lead you as far as um he can make decisions that will be seen

00:04:19.460 as acceptable in the eyes of other people if he's shorter than you don't date him well how tall is

00:04:23.700 the girl if he has bad hygiene don't date him if his hygiene is better than yours you might watch 0.96

00:04:30.760 just watch and see i don't know if you need to date him or not if he likes shopping more than

00:04:34.520 you do don't date him if he never buys you gifts or shows you romantic gestures giving you flowers

00:04:39.520 things like that just things you like whatever they may be don't date him i mean if he's unkind

00:04:46.360 to servers wait staff people in the service industry do not date him i agree with that

00:04:51.720 if he only wants to take you on dates to places that he wants to go but he's never interested in

00:04:56.540 going anywhere you want to go don't date him if he doesn't have a relationship with god if he's not

00:05:01.100 if he has not mastered himself as a man if he's still half the time it's single mother say okay 0.99

00:05:05.920 this is way too long of a list searching for himself you're gonna be by your damn self and 0.91

00:05:10.420 he has not found his place in the world yet some of these i agreed with but jesus christ it just 0.99

00:05:15.300 keeps going his previous girlfriend oh my god look 10 times worse than you or look like a mud 1.00

00:05:20.420 duck don't date him i might come back with more later let's talk good there's gonna be more all 0.95

00:05:25.080 let's see this girl's gonna put the five types of men she would never date um that means she's 1.00

00:05:29.560 dated all of them if you catch me dating one of them i've either gonna say it or somebody has a

00:05:32.840 gun to my head because no number one promoters this could be a party promoter promoter any

00:05:37.240 type of yeah i agree i will never date and this is coming from a girl that knows a lot of promoters

00:05:41.720 first of all the promoters he's a few promoters knows that i'd be around they are very much

00:05:46.760 friendly and not only are they friendly most of the time if you look good they're gonna try and

00:05:50.360 talk to you try to do something it's so annoying but that's not even the annoying part about being

00:05:54.440 promoter the reason i would not date a promoter is because why are you outside every single night

00:05:58.920 they're gonna be outside partying with girls in the section with girls every night like they're

00:06:02.600 just bound to cheat on you yeah that's just gonna be annoying much yeah you can't be mad at them

00:06:07.080 because that's their job so it's like i just can't be with them number two photographers i don't give

00:06:11.720 a damn i am not dating photographers them guys that do those photo shoots guess who goes to 0.99

00:06:15.400 photo shoots pretty girls and guess what they try to talk to the girls that they take pictures of 0.99

00:06:19.480 and i know this because i've had a photographer try and talk to me mind you he has a whole girl

00:06:23.800 that he posts all the time i ain't beefing with him though i ain't saying no names because i still

00:06:27.480 need him to take my pictures but i am not dating a photographer for that exact reason number three

00:06:31.880 djs because they be at every other function too don't even get me started these are actually

00:06:35.880 pretty good photographers i don't know enough i didn't model i know it's shocking but i did not

00:06:41.640 model so i don't know djs i like to have girls in the booth with them because now you're too friendly 1.00

00:06:46.840 and then you make a music yeah that that environment that girls is shaking they 1.00

00:06:50.680 too like you just too lit you in the parties too much i can't date you number four scammers and 0.62

00:06:55.560 drug dealers look i am a grown i am a 23 year old woman and i am a nurse i already know i'm going to 0.99

00:07:00.400 attract them but i will never date a scammer or a drug dealer i do not he's definitely fucked one 0.98

00:07:04.500 of them i have the time to be your alibi he's definitely why do you know like i never i've 0.93

00:07:09.340 never dated a scammer a drug dealer and so i never would have even thought about an alibi you know i

00:07:15.240 wouldn't even know that you know i'm not pleading the fifth if you get arrested and i'm not holding

00:07:19.560 you down if you go to jail number five baby daddies i am so sorry but if you have a baby i do not want 1.00

00:07:23.460 to be with you because let's yeah that changes when you get a little older really be for real

00:07:26.840 baby daddies be loving their baby mothers because when you're okay like she's 23 22 i probably

00:07:31.140 wouldn't have at that age but when you hit like 25 to 30 then men with kids become a choice maybe

00:07:38.400 not baby daddies but like ex-husbands they're never leaving that woman they kind of become on

00:07:42.040 the table alone they're always going to have an attachment to that woman and then every time they

00:07:45.400 do their little job ups they talking like i miss you with this and that no i'm not doing it and

00:07:49.840 i'm gonna respect that relationship you have with the mother of your children but because of that i

00:07:53.340 cannot be with the baby daddy plus i want to have my own family with my own man that don't have 0.88

00:07:56.720 babies already so those are the five types of men i will never date yeah okay who's next let's see 0.99

00:08:00.920 this lady you should never date i'm certified and qualified so i know what the fuck i'm talking 0.99

00:08:05.520 about first yeah women that put their ring and not the man um generally just like having a ring 1.00

00:08:12.420 for status and to tell people that they're better than everyone else this one has to be dating an 0.94

00:08:17.180 older man he thinks i'm like mature for my age yeah he says that to all his victims do you want 0.56

00:08:22.800 to be next nine times out of ten that man is a loser and that's why he can't pull anyone his own

00:08:27.880 age or he can see that you lack dating experience and you're naive and impressionable no i mean i 0.77

00:08:34.420 don't think so i think i think like 10 to 15 years is a nice age gap easier to manipulate a lot of

00:08:41.620 older men it's true some players do um like young women i mean men like young women regardless but 0.62

00:08:48.400 some of them it is because when you get older you can kind of see through bullshit a little 0.80

00:08:52.880 bit more when you're young you're like innocent so yeah go after younger women because the women 1.00

00:08:57.940 their age will not even put up with their behavior he has like a car and a job yeah he's 25 you're

00:09:04.980 only impressed because you're not at that stage yet stay away from the men that left a relationship

00:09:09.540 to get with you i took her man like her man wanted me more why are you valuing male validation a man

00:09:16.480 will literally get with a jar of peanut butter saying it like a flex as if he wouldn't do it

00:09:21.340 to you too is actually crazy you honestly will always lose them how you get them next one has

00:09:26.860 to be not always i actually i've seen a lot of um ex-wives steal it depends i mean so it depends 1.00

00:09:34.220 why they're cheating if they're cheating because the woman's being insufferable then sometimes 1.00

00:09:39.400 they will leave if they're cheating because you know they're cheaters i know people like to

00:09:45.600 criticize it but there's two different types there's men driven to cheat and men that are

00:09:49.100 cheaters man with the corn addiction like he's always on corn sites his follower list consists 0.88

00:09:54.480 of a lot of ig baddies his tiktok consists of a lot of thirst traps it's honestly crazy women 1.00

00:10:00.920 that say this will be following like 10 fitness dudes just a sickness you will always look inward

00:10:07.400 because he cannot stop looking at other women and you're gonna cause yourself to compare yourself to

00:10:12.660 those women and feel like you're never enough please never damage your mental health because 1.00

00:10:17.500 of a man because a man cannot control his needs dating off potential are you trying to be the 1.00

00:10:22.860 therapist for fur they would never do that shit for you you think men date and see women and think 0.99

00:10:28.220 oh i could really build her up no i would never do that for you but you're out here men do that 1.00

00:10:33.660 all the time actually um they want they'll take a like a chubby chick and try to get her to lose 1.00

00:10:38.740 weight she usually won't she usually gets fatter so it's kind of a bad plan uh wait hold on trying 0.81

00:10:43.900 to fix a man okay i honestly can never i agree with that you can't uh like men you know trying

00:10:51.600 to fix a guy or build a guy up there there's a difference between investing and potential when

00:10:56.460 a guy has certain traits and you believe in those traits so you got him young versus trying to make

00:11:01.440 a man into something he's not and usually when they say build a man it's like making him into

00:11:05.320 something he's just not or imagine teaching a man how to treat a baddie just so when y'all break up

00:11:10.400 he can treat another baddie better than you next one has to be a mama's boy or dating a man who you

00:11:16.740 know his family doesn't like you and he doesn't correct them let's believe you will always be

00:11:21.440 second to his mother or his family it's cute that he loves his mom but he's gonna call her for every

00:11:26.800 decision let her disrespect you puts her before you as if he was dating her not you competing with

00:11:34.320 his mom next one has to be a love bomber because what do you mean y'all just met but y'all are out

00:11:39.700 here naming your future kids you're my wife you're my future wife how many other future wives do you 0.99

00:11:46.100 got because i don't know because a man saying i love you within the first this is why men don't

00:11:50.860 like older women or women that are ran through because i mean do you see how she sounds some of 0.98

00:11:55.160 it's true right but like you know part of falling in love is like kind of believing the bullshit a 0.96

00:12:01.640 little bit and not saying oh you say this to every girl of course he does but when you're young it's 0.87

00:12:06.280 like oh teehee really when you're old you know it's this bitterness two months of dating a little

00:12:12.320 bit scary you don't think so you may think that you know this man but you really don't fast love

00:12:17.480 will always be fake so queen if he does any of these things please leave immediately you deserve

00:12:23.020 so much better maybe even date me this is my finished makeup look i will all right um yeah

00:12:29.680 usually when women talk about this stuff it just means they've banged that type of person so 1.00

00:12:33.820 don't be fooled when women say don't date these types of men generally speaking um they have 0.97

00:12:39.800 dated and are currently dating those types of men so let me know what you think in the comments guys

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Pearl - March 04, 2026

She Has No Idea How A Player Works

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