Pearl - Women Have NEVER Been Homemakers

00:00:00.000 you when most mothers bring problems into the home they bring their emotions everybody has to 0.97

00:00:05.680 like tiptoe around the mother's like let's talk about women making a house a home so the last few 1.00

00:00:11.520 years i have been trying to find anything women are better than men at anything and my journey

00:00:16.880 started a few years ago um when i sort of realized and you don't realize this as a woman and i think

00:00:22.880 men must realize this earlier than women that women have a lot of useless jobs and essentially 1.00

00:00:28.160 i i had to go through a red pilling of my life and a lot of women go through this actually they 1.00

00:00:33.200 don't because they're delusional but where i realized that most of my accomplishments in life

00:00:38.400 were merely because i was a woman not because i was that talented important or special

00:00:44.960 now i could go early into my life i was really into sports right and so i actually i went to

00:00:50.320 state for volleyball when i was a sophomore my senior year we went to super we were one game

00:00:55.280 away from going to state we were regional champs for basketball i went on to play volleyball in

00:01:02.080 college i got freshman of the year all conference for volleyball i transferred to another school we

00:01:07.200 made it to the ncaa's twice made it to 19th in the country for division three i ended up going

00:01:12.320 overseas playing semi-pro volleyball semi-pro basketball also um and so i obviously spent

00:01:19.120 hundreds and hundreds of hours of my life playing volleyball and basketball i really cared about the

00:01:23.200 sport. And I think there was things that were good for me, you know, about it. Um, it taught

00:01:29.200 me to follow instructions. It taught me to get along with people. It taught me to work towards

00:01:34.280 goal. But there was a day when I woke up and I realized all my brothers are more athletic than

00:01:39.420 me, but they have less accolades because I'm in a fake league. It's all fake, right? It shouldn't

00:01:45.260 exist. If we really were having sports based on merit, none of this would be here. And I also

00:01:52.320 had to reflect back on my sales career. I wasn't even not the best at sales, but I remember like

00:01:58.560 kind of walking into the office and some of the men making comments that I was getting special

00:02:03.740 treatment. At the time, I thought that I was just super smart and hardworking because I do work hard

00:02:08.800 and I do try. I think it's apparent to the audience that I do try at things if you've been watching me

00:02:13.340 for a while. But in all honesty, I don't think I would have been given the best sales territory at

00:02:18.220 the time if i wasn't a 22 year old hottie i don't mean i may say so my i was a little chubby hottie

00:02:23.420 but i was still a hottie you know what i mean who's not a little hot at 22 22 you know as a

00:02:28.640 woman so i kept going right i kept going and i went overseas i played volleyball semi-pro and

00:02:34.620 i had one of the biggest youtube channels in the united states when i started my youtube i got on

00:02:39.500 pierce morgan i got but i started kind of looking at my male um counterparts right and my male

00:02:46.200 counterparts like one let's say is terrence pop he covers a lot of the same issues as me

00:02:50.240 i've made more money online than terrence even though terrence is a 30 year war like he's a

00:02:56.120 veteran he is not he doesn't just talk about the system he's lived it right he his ex-wife killed 0.97

00:03:02.500 this fucking dog who knows more about these issues than terrence and a lot of times he'll help me out 0.98

00:03:08.940 he'll give me like we he helped me prep for my debate with anna and a lot of the best lines were 0.99

00:03:14.200 really from him or from nuke right so you know there's a point where i'm like do you know what

00:03:19.480 i think a lot of the it's not really fair but as a young woman you're entered into the high status

00:03:25.320 and men just have to work 10 times as hard to get the same things that you do and it doesn't mean

00:03:30.840 we hate women um it doesn't mean we can really change the system or you shouldn't accept 0.99

00:03:34.840 opportunities that come your way but we do have to be real about the fact that as women we're just

00:03:40.920 kind of given things you know and this kind of goes for all the i'm going to use conservative

00:03:45.960 commentators just because i'm in this industry and i know all of them candace owens not nearly

00:03:50.920 as smart as ben shapiro her male counterpart right she's um kind of lost in this conspiracy

00:03:56.760 theory nonsense even if you're kind of buying that um you know ben shapiro had to be a high-end

00:04:01.880 lawyer she just was a black girl with conservative ideas you know and that's kind of brett cooper

00:04:08.200 same thing. You know, all the women in media, I'm not special or different. All women, it's just,

00:04:13.140 you know, it's like a different, it's kind of like the special Olympics. Everyone knows we're not as

00:04:17.860 good, but it's still kind of inspiring to see women go, you know, it's kind of inspiring to 1.00

00:04:22.900 see the guy with the one leg, like hobble across the finish line. Do you know what I mean? Like,

00:04:27.860 it's still nice to see, you know? So I'm not saying we eliminate it completely, but we have

00:04:32.900 to be aware that that's where we're at in life. You know, this isn't to hate women. It's not to

00:04:38.220 say that some women aren't there because of merit. But it's really just the only women. And I was

00:04:44.560 thinking about Trump's press secretaries. The only press secretary I thought was that good was that

00:04:49.900 fat, ugly one. Do you know what I'm talking about? I was like, do you know what? She might be there 1.00

00:04:53.660 on merit. But if they're not fat and ugly, I mean, look at this, you know, you know, I mean, 0.96

00:04:58.900 you're probably being given special treatment, you know. And again, it's really, it's not to say

00:05:04.260 that there's no talent. It's just to say that, you know, we're kind of being given help. And just

00:05:10.380 over the years, I've kind of, all the things they say that women are good at, I've just sort of kind 0.85

00:05:15.820 of tackled them one by one. So, you know, when I first got into the space, everyone said women 0.99

00:05:21.220 are great mothers and they're really nurturing and they just have this special attachment to

00:05:27.440 children. And I thought about it and I'm like, well, if women love children so much, why do they 1.00

00:05:32.700 keep sending them to daycare? And why do women keep signing up for anything else rather than be 1.00

00:05:38.640 a mother? Women would rather solo travel than be a mother. Women would rather travel for work than 1.00

00:05:43.900 stay home with their kids. Women would rather like, I mean, like be an abuela. Like I know a 1.00

00:05:50.920 woman that chose being a nanny to other people's kids and putting her kids in daycare. Do you know 1.00

00:05:56.220 what i mean i'm like why is it that i don't really see women get joy from watching kids what i see

00:06:02.960 them get joy from is the attention the kids get you know what i mean like you ever like with your

00:06:08.120 mother when people come over then all of the sudden she's like very loving with you and you're 1.00

00:06:12.880 like bitch bitch what the fuck do you know what i mean it's like you know you're like posing for 1.00

00:06:18.980 your mom's facebook and you're like why don't i get this attention off camera do you know what i 1.00

00:06:24.720 mean it's like in the mothers will be bitches to you behind the seat then they'll pick up the phone 1.00

00:06:29.520 and they'll have a completely different voice and the kids are like my so you know it's just not 0.89

00:06:34.560 what I'm seeing and I started looking into the stats and it turns out and it didn't shock me at

00:06:38.680 all mothers are more likely to be negligent towards their kids abuse kids mothers are more likely to 0.67

00:06:45.680 like I just don't really think women seem to be like loving in any way like even to their boyfriends 1.00

00:06:51.960 and their husbands. Women just, they tend to like the wedding. And that's why, you know, I don't 1.00

00:06:56.540 really care about women being married. I think people just like having status. So all it is is 0.74

00:07:02.480 status. It's like fighting for status. Because I'm like, what's the point of marriage if most

00:07:07.420 of the women getting married aren't even wives? Like they're like terrible wives. Because I just 0.98

00:07:11.540 don't think women really have like love to give. Do you know what I mean? Like I just don't see it. 1.00

00:07:15.960 I don't see women like loving towards their dogs. I don't see women being loving towards 1.00

00:07:21.940 their children and everyone fights there they say it's just the women you know and i'm like

00:07:26.900 well where do you want me to go because pretty much every girl i knew growing up their dad was

00:07:33.220 way cooler than their mom like not even close not even close like their dad was just even if the

00:07:41.300 mother did like their best to like kill the dad's reputation i remember there was one girl my mom 0.99

00:07:48.020 would always tell me like her dad was an alcoholic and abusive and blah blah blah blah blah the mother 0.53

00:07:54.260 of this girl ended up cheating right but even before that you know i'd met the mother met

00:07:59.140 the father the dad was so chill he was so chill and i'm like what did this man do you know the

00:08:04.740 mother was kind of chill too but like you could kind of see how she would because women it's like 1.00

00:08:09.540 they're kind of chill but like they're also you're like oh i could see why you're like the worst ever

00:08:14.100 do you know what i mean like i could see why you torture everybody behind closed doors the right

00:08:18.180 good path a little something towards your new house down payment pearl women are better at 1.00

00:08:23.140 saying a lot at one time that mean absolutely nothing yeah that's another thing like i'm

00:08:28.580 really tired if even myron says this and i'd like to someone should clip this and tag myron

00:08:34.340 because i think i've heard you know myron say that women are more socially aware i don't agree

00:08:39.940 i don't agree at all because when i look at women um women maybe say more they're less like afraid 0.97

00:08:46.420 to say things but it's because we have tits and men men let us get away with more i don't think 0.99

00:08:53.300 women are socially superior i think men are better at reading a room i think men are better at like 0.98

00:08:58.580 picking up on signal like have you ever seen a woman flirting with a guy who's just not interested

00:09:03.460 like i think men pick up on a woman not being interested way faster than vice versa um maybe

00:09:09.460 when men are younger they don't pick up on it but usually another dude will be like hey what the 1.00

00:09:14.020 fuck like she doesn't like you you stupid simp you know and then guys will learn five dollars 1.00

00:09:20.100 super super thank you thank you and you know over the years i just kept hearing these things that 1.00

00:09:26.020 women are like good at and every one of them i just keep going through and i'm like i don't think so 1.00

00:09:32.260 like they say women are better at accounting well if women are better at like they would say you 1.00

00:09:36.820 you should have a woman. I think I've heard Erin Clary say that. Women are better at accounting. 1.00

00:09:41.160 They're better at details. I don't think so. If women were better at details, like I've never 1.00

00:09:46.700 really known women that budget, they wouldn't have so much debt, right? I can't, I'm out of luck. 0.99

00:09:53.460 I got nothing. I have nothing I can think of that we're good at. So, you know, back in London,

00:09:59.740 you know, I would ask a lot of women what they bring to the table in relationships. 1.00

00:10:03.020 and I wish I was as good at cooking now because a lot of women said they could cook back. Even I 1.00

00:10:09.020 said I could cook back then, but it's not until you learn to cook that you realize you couldn't

00:10:12.300 cook at all before. I thought I could cook because I could cook like three meals. Now I could cook

00:10:16.600 like 20 meals, right? And I'm like, I couldn't cook at all, but I'm still getting there, but

00:10:22.540 you know what I'm saying? So I kept going, right? And this one thing I heard is that women make a 1.00

00:10:30.120 house a home and I'm like what does that mean a woman you make a house a home okay you when most

00:10:37.400 mothers bring problems into the home they bring their emotions everybody has to like tiptoe around

00:10:43.440 the mother's like even earlier I was thinking about I'm like I can't even say that I was raised

00:10:48.960 by nannies right that my mother worked and the nannies did that job without being scared of my

00:10:55.140 mom. Isn't that crazy? Isn't that insane? It's like, well, I can't even talk about it. So that's

00:11:00.640 really what mothers do. They bring in, and it's all women, right? I certainly bring my emotions

00:11:06.540 home too. I'm not special. I'm not different, right? But sometimes even I observe myself where

00:11:11.180 I'm like, damn. But I just try to call, like, I call, try to call it how I see it. So making a 0.98

00:11:18.440 house a home. And I was thinking about when women decorate houses, like it's just usually a bunch 1.00

00:11:24.780 of useless shit that we don't need. It's like a bunch of kitchen appliances women don't need. 1.00

00:11:31.920 It's a bunch of throat pillows we don't need. It's ways to decorate and make things look better,

00:11:38.480 even though it serves practically the same purpose, right? Practically the same purpose.

00:11:45.660 um and so i saw this guy on instagram and he basically builds a man's dream home

00:11:55.000 and i just thought to myself i think that kids would like this house better than anything a

00:12:02.560 woman would design okay okay wait let me hold on keep going if you remember kitchen appliances 0.96

00:12:08.240 that are never used feel free to add in black women being argumentative and coping again thank

00:12:14.540 you for proving my point it's just yeah it's it's it's just incredible thank you i love it when 0.90

00:12:21.180 black women come in and argue they like come in right the black women come in and they say 1.00

00:12:25.160 you not all women you're just talking about yourself you're talking about yourself and i'm 0.99

00:12:30.520 like really argumentative black woman right there right there thank you for proving my point 1.00

00:12:35.180 we do need those damn pillows women don't even realize when men aren't interested yeah 1.00

00:12:40.760 like i honestly i don't i don't think women read the room better i don't think i don't think 0.99

00:12:48.360 anything right i don't think anything so anyways i saw this thing on instagram and i'm like if 0.85

00:12:55.220 women make a house a home then men make a house a fucking kingdom or a castle because this is way 1.00

00:13:02.000 cooler and this is actually my dad designed something similar to this and um this is like 0.99

00:13:08.520 the coolest thing ever. Okay. Complicate everything and then keep things simple. Barnabas are simple

00:13:13.820 and don't let a woman try to convince you that she wants to move out to the country. That's a lie. 1.00

00:13:17.500 Why you want some eggs? You want to build you a fancy chicken coop, Rachel? Is that what it is? 1.00

00:13:20.540 And please don't get me started on horses, horse and horse stalls. Men want big shops like this.

00:13:25.500 We want piranha ironworks. There's plasma tables. We want four trucks. Like by the way, I am

00:13:29.540 forklift certified. Tell your mom. And did you know that the average vet bill for a horse is a

00:13:33.960 thousand dollars are you kidding me listen if michelle the chevelle needs a new motor in her 1.00

00:13:38.280 and your horse has a broken leg i'm putting your horse down and why are women always washing towels 1.00

00:13:43.400 i don't get it i'm clean it's clean it's basically clean forever who's with me on this one women want 1.00

00:13:49.160 a formal dining room for what what a waste of space don't ask me if i make my bed i keep that

00:13:53.480 thing in ready position tell your mom it's exactly how i rolled out of it this morning it's exactly

00:13:57.400 how i'm getting back in and i've got the perfect pillow to blanket ratio i don't have to kick off

00:14:01.640 a bunch of decorative pillows at night only to put it back on in the morning that makes no sense

00:14:05.800 guys what am i missing put it down in the comments like subscribe and share this with your friends

00:14:10.680 hold on he's gonna he has more videos this wasn't the one i thought it was here getting divorced

00:14:15.880 time to build that barn dominion let's face it guys she was never gonna live out in the country 1.00

00:14:19.720 or a tin can like this much less let you have a half acre pond with a death trap 1991 vintage

00:14:24.520 jet ski hide your moms a full-size gym and not a crossfit gym we might be divorced like let's just 1.00

00:14:30.120 be real what what would a kid rather have right what would a kid rather have would a kid rather

00:14:36.440 have um would a kid rather have throat pillows or the stuff this guy's gonna show of course but

00:14:43.560 we're still straight smoky old fashions at 10 a.m cheers oh and her new boyfriend chad i guarantee

00:14:50.280 he doesn't have a 4 500 square foot shop with all the room for activities and toys right bigfoot so

00:14:57.080 if you like this kind of lifestyle, maybe it's a sign to build a barn dominium, or maybe it's just

00:15:00.880 a major sign that you're a raging alcoholic and you have been the problem the entire time. And

00:15:05.100 maybe you should get some major counseling, medication even. But just remember, it takes

00:15:09.040 two to ruin a marriage. It's usually her and her mom, but let her know as many times as you can 0.66

00:15:13.380 whenever you get the opportunity, actually. It does help. So if you like this kind of content,

00:15:18.280 like, subscribe. Look at this guy commented. He said, I love my wife. I love my wife.

00:15:22.740 How long will it take to fill up this pond? Let me give you some details.

00:15:25.860 rim to rim on the length we're 250 foot and on the width we're 80 foot on the deep end we're 0.95

00:15:31.600 approximately 10 foot deep and on the shallow end women want these huge ass houses right and 1.00

00:15:38.340 that take forever to maintain and take care of men just want the simplest thing like they say 0.99

00:15:44.920 women are neater than men i don't even think that i don't think women are neater because if we were 0.98

00:15:49.880 need her like i think women will waste time cleaning things that don't need to be cleaned 1.00

00:15:56.300 the black girl saying i'm not just black well the black is showing the black is showing right 1.00

00:16:01.380 you don't need a lot to to have the behaviors you know yeah are we wrong one and we're about

00:16:08.820 four foot deep but the surface area comes out to about 20 000 square foot that's about a half acre

00:16:14.280 And in the upstate of South Carolina, we have an evaporation rate of about 4,000 to 9,000 gallons a day.

00:16:21.160 That's a lot.

00:16:21.940 A well at about 11 gallons per minute.

00:16:24.100 A real important factor is that we will not be losing any water to ground because we will be using this 36 millimeter liner.

00:16:31.160 Now that's about 2,800 pounds.

00:16:32.820 It got delivered on a semi truck.

00:16:34.580 Had to lift it off with the telehandler right there.

00:16:37.180 And I have no idea how we're going to unroll it.

00:16:39.280 Harambe or punch, which was the sadder story?

00:16:42.040 Who cares?

00:16:42.500 I built this Barnabinian for less than $400,000 and I wasn't abandoned. The number one question

00:16:47.480 I get, gosh, this thing is annoying to carry. No wonder why your mom got rid of you. The number

00:16:51.880 one question I get is about the floor plan. Everybody wants to see my floor plan. Guys,

00:16:55.260 I didn't have a floor plan. I drew this on the back of a napkin, made a ton of mistakes. I've

00:16:59.840 got 4,500 square foot out there in the shop. That's where I run my business, Fabtech Solutions.

00:17:04.080 And I have 3,000 square foot on the living quarters. It's two stories, by the way. I got

00:17:08.040 the full gym on this side on the other side is my office area upstairs two studio apartments let's go

00:17:13.700 take a look at mine if you're new to the channel and you haven't seen my 750 square foot executive

00:17:18.340 suite tell your mom here it is tongue and groove on the ceiling stained tongue and groove black on

00:17:23.920 the wall love it got the king size bed got the full kitchen over here got the bathroom got plenty

00:17:29.800 of loft space up there but listen guys i post like imagine being a kid and you get to go in the loft

00:17:35.380 I think Kanye's kids were saying they liked his apartment better than Kim's house.

00:17:40.300 These videos to be totally transparent and help you with your build and help you live life on

00:17:44.680 your terms to be happy and help others. So if you like this kind of... If she's a nurse,

00:17:49.000 paralegal, or a school teacher, she's definitely cheating on you. Let me show you your future. 1.00

00:17:53.280 Come on, buddy. It'll be okay. So while she's secretly looking for an attorney,

00:17:56.880 you should be looking for land. Time to build that barn dominium. The first thing you're going

00:18:00.040 to do is clear out the land, kind of like she's clearing out your joint bank account right now. 1.00

00:18:03.440 Barn Dominiums are the most versatile way to build because of that wide span, just like your mom,

00:18:07.960 but there's really no secret to a Barn Dominium build. The only real secret is that credit card

00:18:11.760 you don't know about that she has maxed out to $8,000. That's marital asset, by the way. 0.95

00:18:16.060 And if she's posting pictures like this at the gym all of a sudden, she's already found an

00:18:20.220 apartment. So build yourself a badass gym and your own apartment, an apartment that has no

00:18:25.280 pictures on the wall, just animal heads, big screen TV, and some guns. And how amazing,

00:18:29.980 you could go to a family event and not have to take a bunch of pictures oh my god wouldn't that

00:18:36.940 be amazing oh my god for the like i don't know i'm so pro surrogacy it just sounds like heaven

00:18:43.420 on earth bathroom with an enclosed shower so nobody can hear you cry keep your closet and 0.75

00:18:48.060 your laundry in the bathroom because it just makes sense that that sounds amazing hey divorce sucks 1.00

00:18:53.260 i hear you bud but listen when she comes home drunk at 3 30 a.m and you got a problem with it

00:18:57.740 that's considered controlling. You better watch yourself, bud.

Pearl - March 05, 2026

Women Have NEVER Been Homemakers

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