Pearl - November 04, 2025


Fat Woman Is Perplexed Why Guys Are Not Into Her

Is there hope for lonely women？ Lilliana Gomez joins Pearl Daily. Is Marriage In 2025 Still Worth It？

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

192.6

Word count

1,566

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

sentences flagged

Hate speech

2

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

In this episode, I am joined by my good friend, and we talk about the secret weapon being used to keep men in check. We talk about what men are really looking for in a woman and how to get them.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 i find myself beautiful in a lot of ways to women though they don't they're not everything to women
00:00:04.960 but they're a lot they're probably like 80 to men up front so you know they hear you you they hear
00:00:09.840 you getting rejected twice you know and they don't see you putting any work you know they they see
00:00:14.720 you're super overweight for your age with like a ring and they're thinking like you haven't put
00:00:20.160 any time into studying what men want so like why can you be mad about the results that's how men
00:00:25.280 are gonna see it i'm not saying it that way but i'm saying that's why it went so viral because
00:00:30.320 you're saying you want something you know but your actions don't match it yeah but they also don't
00:00:34.720 know much about me um i spent three years on and off on tinder going on dates all the time and i i've
00:00:41.920 been rejected more than twice i go out like if i see somebody at a restaurant on a waiter i'll hit on him
00:00:47.200 um you know maybe that's not great because they're working but i'm not afraid i'm not afraid to get a
00:00:51.520 rejected that's not the problem at all um it was at that time i just had been feeling a certain type
00:00:55.920 of way and harder than it normally would have but i do put myself in position of getting rejected and
00:01:01.680 usually i don't take it very personally i know but i'm not i'm not saying the approaching again the
00:01:06.560 number one thing men look for is beauty right so again if you can't control your eating like the way
00:01:15.120 men are going to see it is you kind of deserve what you get you know and they're not it's not you know
00:01:20.000 i'm not trying to judge you because i've been overweight i get it but you know i would say that
00:01:25.120 should be your number one priority right now is losing weight 1200 calories a day baby i did it
00:01:32.240 it's it's not too bad once you get past the cut i usually i even eat less than that at this point um
00:01:37.840 some some days i don't even eat and that's not healthy either but i don't the thing is is i don't
00:01:42.800 want to attract the men that you're talking about i don't want them um well i would say that's all men
00:01:49.040 all men prefer thinner women some some some might um some men might go for bigger women because
00:01:56.640 they're easier so they kind of the way that a lot of guys see it is bigger women are just easier to 1.00
00:02:02.880 get so they might not want to go through the trouble of getting like a super attractive girl
00:02:09.200 it's the same thing for me i would say i'm pretty average looking there's more beautiful women 1.00
00:02:13.120 some some men might go for an a more average looking girl because they view the beautiful 0.97
00:02:18.240 women is too hard to get it's like too difficult but they're always going to prefer the more beautiful 1.00
00:02:23.680 and the thinner as most of you know i have been fighting on the front lines of the simp epidemic
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00:04:04.480 looks matter um looks do matter but looks aren't everything and you know i i find myself beautiful
00:04:12.400 in a lot of ways to women though they don't they're not everything to women but they're a lot they're
00:04:18.400 probably like 80 percent to men up front you know it's okay that i'm having such a hard time dating
00:04:23.680 because i am trying to find the exception when it comes to men i am not looking for someone who just
00:04:27.760 judges me based off of my appearances because in general there are a lot of men who say beauty is in the
00:04:32.640 eye of the beholder as well um the people that are attracted to your page yes they they guarantee
00:04:38.400 they are looking for just looks but it's not all men there are a lot of men that i've met that don't
00:04:42.720 just include looks and there are a lot of men who are attracted to me just exactly the way i am why
00:04:49.120 why do you go about it that way because i was in your position no no so i was in your position and
00:04:55.920 instead instead of um like why argue with me about what men want when you know you know deep down
00:05:04.160 on some level that men are more attracted to thin women why not just you know say i'm gonna lose the 1.00
00:05:09.920 weight like why argue why be combative why not just lose the weight and then problem solved um that's a
00:05:17.440 deep-rooted question and i would have to say it's because i've met good men i've met good men so they're
00:05:23.440 they're bad if they prefer thinner women that's what you're implying i've met i mean the guy you 1.00
00:05:30.880 the guy you went for was tall right i don't think you're bad if you prefer tall men you're five nine
00:05:37.040 you know i i prefer tall men i do too yeah so why is it wrong for men to prefer thinner women 0.94
00:05:44.320 like why use the shaming language it's because i don't want to because when you get older naturally
00:05:52.960 you do usually gain weight you usually get wrinkles you usually get gray hair and those are
00:05:57.360 the type of men that'll leave me for someone younger i don't want that i want somebody who
00:06:01.680 prefers who you are as a person no but what they see it is you're irresponsible and you lack discipline
00:06:09.520 because if you're overweight you do lack discipline you can't stop you like there's no reason you should
00:06:13.600 be that big at your age there's no re like that that like do you know how many cat like 10 pounds is
00:06:19.680 35 000 calories that means um for years you've had to eat in a calorie surplus and do nothing about it
00:06:26.960 to get to that point so and and i was in that same position so again i'm not judging you i understand how
00:06:32.960 it happens but when it happened to me i knew that i lacked discipline so men see that as a character flaw
00:06:40.720 and it is i did lack discipline in that yeah category um and one of the things is i didn't
00:06:49.920 lack discipline in every facet of my life i got my bachelor's degree i'm in school i have a job i make
00:06:56.240 mo i make more money than most men i meet on the dating apps most men i meet on the dating apps live
00:07:00.960 with their moms right but most men don't care about that that doesn't make you attractive because you make 1.00
00:07:06.960 money that makes them attractive to us um and the way they're gonna see it is you're probably overpaid
00:07:13.520 because most women are overpaid for their work because men's jobs are traditionally harder so like
00:07:20.160 for example you probably you probably out earn like a logger you probably i am a lot of a lot of blue
00:07:27.120 collar men that do way more difficult jobs than you i do not get paid nearly as much as blue collar men
00:07:35.360 and you know what as a teacher who works you make more than 45 000 don't you uh loggers log yeah i
00:07:41.920 know so loggers in um chicago i'm from illinois so they make like 45k so you you make more than a logger
00:07:49.360 maybe in illinois but not in california i know but what's with the arguing like what's with the you
00:07:55.280 just said you make more money than most men you meet on the data gaps
00:08:05.840 you