Pearl - Fat Woman Is Perplexed Why Guys Are Not Into Her

00:00:00.000 i find myself beautiful in a lot of ways to women though they don't they're not everything to women

00:00:04.960 but they're a lot they're probably like 80 to men up front so you know they hear you you they hear

00:00:09.840 you getting rejected twice you know and they don't see you putting any work you know they they see

00:00:14.720 you're super overweight for your age with like a ring and they're thinking like you haven't put

00:00:20.160 any time into studying what men want so like why can you be mad about the results that's how men

00:00:25.280 are gonna see it i'm not saying it that way but i'm saying that's why it went so viral because

00:00:30.320 you're saying you want something you know but your actions don't match it yeah but they also don't

00:00:34.720 know much about me um i spent three years on and off on tinder going on dates all the time and i i've

00:00:41.920 been rejected more than twice i go out like if i see somebody at a restaurant on a waiter i'll hit on him

00:00:47.200 um you know maybe that's not great because they're working but i'm not afraid i'm not afraid to get a

00:00:51.520 rejected that's not the problem at all um it was at that time i just had been feeling a certain type

00:00:55.920 of way and harder than it normally would have but i do put myself in position of getting rejected and

00:01:01.680 usually i don't take it very personally i know but i'm not i'm not saying the approaching again the

00:01:06.560 number one thing men look for is beauty right so again if you can't control your eating like the way

00:01:15.120 men are going to see it is you kind of deserve what you get you know and they're not it's not you know

00:01:20.000 i'm not trying to judge you because i've been overweight i get it but you know i would say that

00:01:25.120 should be your number one priority right now is losing weight 1200 calories a day baby i did it

00:01:32.240 it's it's not too bad once you get past the cut i usually i even eat less than that at this point um

00:01:37.840 some some days i don't even eat and that's not healthy either but i don't the thing is is i don't

00:01:42.800 want to attract the men that you're talking about i don't want them um well i would say that's all men

00:01:49.040 all men prefer thinner women some some some might um some men might go for bigger women because

00:01:56.640 they're easier so they kind of the way that a lot of guys see it is bigger women are just easier to

00:02:02.880 get so they might not want to go through the trouble of getting like a super attractive girl

00:02:09.200 it's the same thing for me i would say i'm pretty average looking there's more beautiful women

00:02:13.120 some some men might go for an a more average looking girl because they view the beautiful

00:02:18.240 women is too hard to get it's like too difficult but they're always going to prefer the more beautiful

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00:04:04.480 looks matter um looks do matter but looks aren't everything and you know i i find myself beautiful

00:04:12.400 in a lot of ways to women though they don't they're not everything to women but they're a lot they're

00:04:18.400 probably like 80 percent to men up front you know it's okay that i'm having such a hard time dating

00:04:23.680 because i am trying to find the exception when it comes to men i am not looking for someone who just

00:04:27.760 judges me based off of my appearances because in general there are a lot of men who say beauty is in the

00:04:32.640 eye of the beholder as well um the people that are attracted to your page yes they they guarantee

00:04:38.400 they are looking for just looks but it's not all men there are a lot of men that i've met that don't

00:04:42.720 just include looks and there are a lot of men who are attracted to me just exactly the way i am why

00:04:49.120 why do you go about it that way because i was in your position no no so i was in your position and

00:04:55.920 instead instead of um like why argue with me about what men want when you know you know deep down

00:05:04.160 on some level that men are more attracted to thin women why not just you know say i'm gonna lose the

00:05:09.920 weight like why argue why be combative why not just lose the weight and then problem solved um that's a

00:05:17.440 deep-rooted question and i would have to say it's because i've met good men i've met good men so they're

00:05:23.440 they're bad if they prefer thinner women that's what you're implying i've met i mean the guy you

00:05:30.880 the guy you went for was tall right i don't think you're bad if you prefer tall men you're five nine

00:05:37.040 you know i i prefer tall men i do too yeah so why is it wrong for men to prefer thinner women

00:05:44.320 like why use the shaming language it's because i don't want to because when you get older naturally

00:05:52.960 you do usually gain weight you usually get wrinkles you usually get gray hair and those are

00:05:57.360 the type of men that'll leave me for someone younger i don't want that i want somebody who

00:06:01.680 prefers who you are as a person no but what they see it is you're irresponsible and you lack discipline

00:06:09.520 because if you're overweight you do lack discipline you can't stop you like there's no reason you should

00:06:13.600 be that big at your age there's no re like that that like do you know how many cat like 10 pounds is

00:06:19.680 35 000 calories that means um for years you've had to eat in a calorie surplus and do nothing about it

00:06:26.960 to get to that point so and and i was in that same position so again i'm not judging you i understand how

00:06:32.960 it happens but when it happened to me i knew that i lacked discipline so men see that as a character flaw

00:06:40.720 and it is i did lack discipline in that yeah category um and one of the things is i didn't

00:06:49.920 lack discipline in every facet of my life i got my bachelor's degree i'm in school i have a job i make

00:06:56.240 mo i make more money than most men i meet on the dating apps most men i meet on the dating apps live

00:07:00.960 with their moms right but most men don't care about that that doesn't make you attractive because you make

00:07:06.960 money that makes them attractive to us um and the way they're gonna see it is you're probably overpaid

00:07:13.520 because most women are overpaid for their work because men's jobs are traditionally harder so like

00:07:20.160 for example you probably you probably out earn like a logger you probably i am a lot of a lot of blue

00:07:27.120 collar men that do way more difficult jobs than you i do not get paid nearly as much as blue collar men

00:07:35.360 and you know what as a teacher who works you make more than 45 000 don't you uh loggers log yeah i

00:07:41.920 know so loggers in um chicago i'm from illinois so they make like 45k so you you make more than a logger

00:07:49.360 maybe in illinois but not in california i know but what's with the arguing like what's with the you

00:07:55.280 just said you make more money than most men you meet on the data gaps

00:08:05.840 you

Pearl - November 04, 2025

Fat Woman Is Perplexed Why Guys Are Not Into Her

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