Pearl - January 29, 2026Feminism and Chores： Callers Go Off
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the differences between women and men when it comes to household chores, emotional labor, and emotional labor in the home, and why women should be expected to do more than men in order to be a better housewife.
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but really um feminists we are feminists are spoiled brats they're brats you know what up
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doug mpa hey how's it going good how are you i'm fantastic i love this topic yeah you know
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i just have these observations um and this is where i get frustrated on these shows when they
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just scream source at me every five minutes i'm like what source do i need i have eyes
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that's true i mean i i understand the importance of sources but how do i put it like there's some
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things like women's over women spend too much money it's like did you have a sister did you
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have a wife like what do you mean i need to prove that like do you not advise you know
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um so what do you have any observations that i missed um we talked about this earlier we talked
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about the whole you know emotional labor at home thing that's one of the worst things that
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feminists are trying to push because it makes what women are doing seem a lot more important
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what men are doing and here's the thing guys a woman will vacuum the floor and will what did
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i say earlier i said women do chores around the house to do them and get credit for them
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men do the chores around the house to get them done and once they're done we don't think about
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them anymore that's the biggest difference between it it's just like in an argument a man will argue
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to a solution a woman will argue until she feels she's done and half the time women like not that
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i tell people what to do but if i was to recommend it the man should be the one making the plan for
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how to cook and how to clean the house and you should teach that to the woman because if you put
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the woman in charge of that she's just going to find the most time wasting inefficient way to do
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it you got to think even if you can't do it yourself you got to think it through the best
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way for her to do it do you know what i mean yeah i'm like you got to get the plan from the guy
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because i'll even i'll even see to myself i'll think of one way and i'll think it's the best
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way of how to do something and you know nuke will just give me a better plan by 10 000.
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it like you know god think about this okay men we don't have okay women will do this
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emotional labor thing by keeping tally of everything they do in the house well i did
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this and this and this men we want to get it done we don't have as much time as women do so we don't
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have time to um to keep tally and keep track it's like ladies if you have enough you should even
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have enough time or you should be solving things so efficiently that that you don't have time to
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think about emotional labor and who's doing what because that's what men do men have so many
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problems to solve we have to keep the world safe that we don't have time to see what our wife's be
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doing or girlfriend is doing compared to what we're doing women have too much time on their
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hands and then try to make it seem more important if you have time to to keep track and try to
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tally who's doing what you have too much time on your hand that's true all right let's see asmund
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ds asmodius i'm gonna remove you till you figure out your audio you gotta stop the looping um
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steve you are in the chat you're backstage but your your device is not connected you have to
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connect your audio the other thing too is we get dogs we can't afford and we can't even take care
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of ourselves like really most women like don't know how to take care of ourselves
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and i was thinking about how like women will like brag about taking care of a man right
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um but it's usually women that just take credit for how the structure the man like gives to her
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life yep like she wants the credit she's like oh and i'll see these women in my comment section
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and they're like oh well i do this this this this for my husband but it's like yeah but he probably
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built the house in a way that's easy for you to do it or like organize the house in a very structured
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way yeah um or think about this women will ask for assistance on what's going on with the house
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where women work less stressful jobs they make less money and they complain so a man has to come
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home and help the woman with her problems at home but she can't go to the guy's work and help him
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with the stress at work so the the expectation is you have to give more emotionally mentally
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physically to help a woman with the chores around the house when most women do don't work the same
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dangerous stressful jobs that men make they make less money well and the problem is we just don't
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like kind of that's a big one yeah we don't so like we come up with inefficient ways to do things
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and we think it's better so all right well because all they have to do is is feel like it's the right
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way yeah as modius welcome to the show is there something i missed that you have noticed hey pearl
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uh can you hear me now i can hear you perfectly where what are you calling out of uh i'm in
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washington dc okay cool um are you what industry are you in uh so i work in govcon finance so
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government contracting are you do you have an accent am i hearing that right are you from
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somewhere else um i mean i'm from washington dc but i have a little bit of uh boston acting
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coming from uh some relatives up there oh okay okay i can hear the boston okay i i thought it
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was asian it was really off well i'm also asian so there's that oh my god all right i'm better
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than i thought okay so um what have you noticed um and where have you noticed it i mean the biggest
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thing that i would say i noticed is that i mean from uh from what i've seen from feminists i think
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think they focus on bullshit um i think the uh overall it's a lot of people who they have so
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much time on their hands and everything's honestly really fucking peaceful it is just a point where
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like they are trying to find something to bitch about yeah um have you seen that like at your
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work or at home or like have you seen this in real life too or is it i've seen it in real life
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for sure i mean i've seen it with my some of my maybe not direct family but like family-in-laws
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um luckily now i work with basically everyone i work with in my team is guys thankfully so i
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don't have to really worry about that i say i would say before in my prior jobs for sure there
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was a lot of uh i would say there's a lot more politicking when the department was ran by women
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versus like if it's ran by a guy you know the guy's more boots on ground knows what's going on
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isn't you know trying to bullshit like he knows what's going on yeah like the other one's like
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oh i'm trying to find a way to advance my career yeah yeah because the the woman's more she cares
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more about how she looks where the guy wants to get the work done yeah that would i would say
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that's probably true but i mean there was one observation i mean i made this uh i said this to
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one of my in-laws and i think i pissed him off but i don't really care but i told him you know
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a lot of the people that a lot of the things that people care about they were realized that that
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shit doesn't matter then you know the minute that they had a face of like uh a critical crisis like
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a war like world war ii for example i feel like back then everybody had their shit in a row because
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they realized oh we might be conquered you know we might lose our land you know they may rape out
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you know our wives our kids and shit like that and you know they're like they're legitimately
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a risk and so people weren't you know they didn't care about you know what color hair they decided
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wear that day or whatever you know there's a lot more important things to care to worry about and
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so i mean i know you said before that you know you don't think that women should have to write
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the vote i have a little bit of a different take on it but it's kind of the same vein sure um i i
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think voting should be and this is gonna be a hot top this is gonna be a hot button subject but i
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think number one there should be a two-year mandatory um armed services for anybody who
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want like especially men i mean we're already in simple service anyway but i think two years of
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mandatory military service and i think that military service after that will be the deciding
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factor on what on whether or not someone votes um because i think that if you have like if honestly
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if you're going to make a decision to run the country you should have a stake in it and know
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like what actual like um threats foreign we're actually facing instead of maybe just consuming
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it on the news and getting it secondhand and you know that we can't trust the news anything like
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that yeah yeah okay well thanks for calling in we're gonna go to the next caller right
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yep for hold on real fast so i see la plunda either hit the link and call in or i'm blocking
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you you got like you got like three minutes because you're talking on all this trash
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i'm debating but not but you're a strong woman all you do start cussing hit the link and say
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it to pearl space i'm giving you two minutes if you don't hit the link i'm blocking you because
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all you're doing is trolling so anyway go ahead i don't even know what she's saying i didn't see it
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but yeah what's going on matt yeah my brother from the white white north how you doing oh i know i
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miss you please take me down south where it's cold this week so you mentioned uh okay uh how
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women buy dogs that they can't afford have you ever noticed how i've come across a lot of women
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who do not know how to take care of animals properly and yet they want them all in and i
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can and i've got like two stories okay really mind-blowing so i went uh okay so i've been a
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couple years ago i've actually learned how to ride a horse but before i got to actually riding i did
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like four years of research on on these animals and so by the time i actually go to ride a horse
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there was this one girl who um had canadian horse association training and all sorts of shit like
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she was a certified trainer and all that and i noticed a couple things about how she was handling
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these animals and like she was handling horses all her life and then a couple times when okay
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someone in the forest i've taken one of their animals out and i've never ridden a horse before
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until like now and i know it's like we get to one particular spot where they have this bridge
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and for whatever reason the horse that she was using leading it just wouldn't cross over this
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bridge so she takes out this rope she's got this rope on her on her uh belt and she's just whipping
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the shit out of this horse to make it move and it will not not move and i and i'm just like and
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she's a horse trainer she's a horse trainer yes okay and i'm sitting there she's just whipping
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the shit out of them get get going get going get going you know whatever it is and um and i'm just
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i'm like okay that's it so i just i just get off my horse and i grab and i grab the lead on my horse
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and then i go walk up to her and i grab her lead while she's still on it and i walk the horse
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across the bridge flawless okay you know how to train the horse better than the woman who is a
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horse trainer yeah imagine that yeah and actually it doesn't shock me at all like we again we find
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the most inefficient ways to do things oh my god like this is this isn't and then a couple times
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it like i don't know how many times i've seen her actually walk her dog in her car you know she's
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kind of going to give a little bit of air with him like like come on you know and like this and
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she's telling me one day she had the pro she has a cat day and uh with her roommate and she was
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total goes and runs off and they're trying to find this cat or whatever it is and
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And I'm like, it's not hard to get a cat, okay?
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All you got to do is just sit there, zen out, nice and calm, and they'll come to you.
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You know, my mom had lost our cat on the highway one day when she was going to the cottage.
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And my cat managed to jump out of the box out of the car and ran off into the bush.
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And my mom is just hysterical trying to get her cat back.
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You've got to hurry it up, Matt, because we have like five people on the line.
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So I just sat back and said, look, I just said, sit on the tree.
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And it's just like, it's not hard to work with animals, you know.
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And I find that a lot of women just can't do it.
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no do you know what i've even known like my dog listens better to men than to me
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you know what's crazy if you see videos of people whose dogs attack people it's normally a woman's
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dog oh yeah i go to if i see a pit bull with a woman i'm like yeah run not today cool all right
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buddy we're gonna move our next caller because this person i was telling the call is calling in
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so always good to talk to you my brother see ya yeah see ya who's okay who is it this acela
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esplenda yeah you got to turn your camera on lady we got to make sure you're real
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yeah camera on and off for a second for a second okay i mean stay with your chest like
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is she was saying a lot of stuff yeah because they can always do it behind a like a screen
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but like if you got something to say say it with your chest you know um i'll go to borders while we
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let her you know all right how's it going pretty good how about yourself good um is there something
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that i didn't mention this stream that you have noticed when it comes to women doing
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things really inefficiently sort of i mean look at ronda rousey yep yeah just it's inevitable
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like it's her so-called my sisters were in football if they were in sports but you know
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what they didn't do like they didn't they didn't compete with me my my sister wrestled with me
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like i've never i've never had a woman versus men argument the only argument that i've had is that
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i mean like the argument that you've kind of had kind of a way but like they really do just
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want to take away from what we have to offer in competition i mean you guys have competition
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you're a professional basketball player like you've been in college you've done the thing
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it takes effort it takes a lot of work yeah but like when dudes are laying dudes down versus when
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women are laying men down i mean you gotta you just have to you gotta split it it's gotta be
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it's got to be one way you have to you have to tell like it is yeah i mean my rest my sister
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doesn't wrestle me and she doesn't compete with me like but we have an understanding like we both
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have fun because it's fun sports are supposed to be fun i thought it was about i thought it was
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about fun yeah thanks for calling having fun anymore nobody's having fun anymore everything
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Everything has to be, you know, one of you, I'm like, dude, like, what am I doing?
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But you know what we don't do is do the one thing that we're going to do.
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Thanks for calling me and I got to go to the next one.