Pearl - Feminism and Chores： Callers Go Off

00:00:00.640 but really um feminists we are feminists are spoiled brats they're brats you know what up 1.00

00:00:06.720 doug mpa hey how's it going good how are you i'm fantastic i love this topic yeah you know 0.97

00:00:14.800 i just have these observations um and this is where i get frustrated on these shows when they

00:00:21.440 just scream source at me every five minutes i'm like what source do i need i have eyes

00:00:27.520 that's true i mean i i understand the importance of sources but how do i put it like there's some

00:00:33.920 things like women's over women spend too much money it's like did you have a sister did you 1.00

00:00:38.960 have a wife like what do you mean i need to prove that like do you not advise you know

00:00:45.520 um so what do you have any observations that i missed um we talked about this earlier we talked

00:00:52.080 about the whole you know emotional labor at home thing that's one of the worst things that

00:00:56.400 feminists are trying to push because it makes what women are doing seem a lot more important 1.00

00:01:02.240 what men are doing and here's the thing guys a woman will vacuum the floor and will what did 1.00

00:01:09.040 i say earlier i said women do chores around the house to do them and get credit for them 1.00

00:01:16.480 men do the chores around the house to get them done and once they're done we don't think about

00:01:21.120 them anymore that's the biggest difference between it it's just like in an argument a man will argue

00:01:26.960 to a solution a woman will argue until she feels she's done and half the time women like not that 1.00

00:01:34.320 i tell people what to do but if i was to recommend it the man should be the one making the plan for

00:01:40.320 how to cook and how to clean the house and you should teach that to the woman because if you put 1.00

00:01:44.960 the woman in charge of that she's just going to find the most time wasting inefficient way to do 1.00

00:01:50.560 it you got to think even if you can't do it yourself you got to think it through the best

00:01:54.240 way for her to do it do you know what i mean yeah i'm like you got to get the plan from the guy

00:02:00.320 because i'll even i'll even see to myself i'll think of one way and i'll think it's the best

00:02:06.000 way of how to do something and you know nuke will just give me a better plan by 10 000.

00:02:11.440 it like you know god think about this okay men we don't have okay women will do this 1.00

00:02:18.980 emotional labor thing by keeping tally of everything they do in the house well i did

00:02:24.400 this and this and this men we want to get it done we don't have as much time as women do so we don't 0.98

00:02:30.520 have time to um to keep tally and keep track it's like ladies if you have enough you should even 1.00

00:02:37.720 have enough time or you should be solving things so efficiently that that you don't have time to

00:02:42.840 think about emotional labor and who's doing what because that's what men do men have so many

00:02:48.120 problems to solve we have to keep the world safe that we don't have time to see what our wife's be 0.97

00:02:53.560 doing or girlfriend is doing compared to what we're doing women have too much time on their 1.00

00:02:58.200 hands and then try to make it seem more important if you have time to to keep track and try to

00:03:03.560 tally who's doing what you have too much time on your hand that's true all right let's see asmund

00:03:09.880 ds asmodius i'm gonna remove you till you figure out your audio you gotta stop the looping um

00:03:19.400 steve you are in the chat you're backstage but your your device is not connected you have to

00:03:24.920 connect your audio the other thing too is we get dogs we can't afford and we can't even take care

00:03:31.080 of ourselves like really most women like don't know how to take care of ourselves 0.99

00:03:37.000 and i was thinking about how like women will like brag about taking care of a man right 1.00

00:03:43.960 um but it's usually women that just take credit for how the structure the man like gives to her 1.00

00:03:51.080 life yep like she wants the credit she's like oh and i'll see these women in my comment section 1.00

00:03:56.440 and they're like oh well i do this this this this for my husband but it's like yeah but he probably

00:04:01.480 built the house in a way that's easy for you to do it or like organize the house in a very structured

00:04:07.560 way yeah um or think about this women will ask for assistance on what's going on with the house 1.00

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00:04:24.440 home and help the woman with her problems at home but she can't go to the guy's work and help him 0.99

00:04:29.240 with the stress at work so the the expectation is you have to give more emotionally mentally

00:04:36.120 physically to help a woman with the chores around the house when most women do don't work the same 1.00

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00:06:18.800 like kind of that's a big one yeah we don't so like we come up with inefficient ways to do things

00:06:24.260 and we think it's better so all right well because all they have to do is is feel like it's the right

00:06:30.180 way yeah as modius welcome to the show is there something i missed that you have noticed hey pearl

00:06:39.780 uh can you hear me now i can hear you perfectly where what are you calling out of uh i'm in

00:06:45.220 washington dc okay cool um are you what industry are you in uh so i work in govcon finance so

00:06:56.260 government contracting are you do you have an accent am i hearing that right are you from

00:07:00.900 somewhere else um i mean i'm from washington dc but i have a little bit of uh boston acting

00:07:07.860 coming from uh some relatives up there oh okay okay i can hear the boston okay i i thought it

00:07:14.100 was asian it was really off well i'm also asian so there's that oh my god all right i'm better

00:07:20.420 than i thought okay so um what have you noticed um and where have you noticed it i mean the biggest

00:07:27.620 thing that i would say i noticed is that i mean from uh from what i've seen from feminists i think 1.00

00:07:32.260 think they focus on bullshit um i think the uh overall it's a lot of people who they have so 0.71

00:07:39.780 much time on their hands and everything's honestly really fucking peaceful it is just a point where 0.97

00:07:45.280 like they are trying to find something to bitch about yeah um have you seen that like at your 1.00

00:07:51.520 work or at home or like have you seen this in real life too or is it i've seen it in real life

00:07:56.660 for sure i mean i've seen it with my some of my maybe not direct family but like family-in-laws

00:08:01.260 um luckily now i work with basically everyone i work with in my team is guys thankfully so i

00:08:09.280 don't have to really worry about that i say i would say before in my prior jobs for sure there

00:08:14.100 was a lot of uh i would say there's a lot more politicking when the department was ran by women 1.00

00:08:21.080 versus like if it's ran by a guy you know the guy's more boots on ground knows what's going on 0.56

00:08:28.420 isn't you know trying to bullshit like he knows what's going on yeah like the other one's like 0.76

00:08:33.080 oh i'm trying to find a way to advance my career yeah yeah because the the woman's more she cares 0.99

00:08:38.680 more about how she looks where the guy wants to get the work done yeah that would i would say 1.00

00:08:43.600 that's probably true but i mean there was one observation i mean i made this uh i said this to

00:08:49.280 one of my in-laws and i think i pissed him off but i don't really care but i told him you know

00:08:52.940 a lot of the people that a lot of the things that people care about they were realized that that 0.87

00:08:57.200 shit doesn't matter then you know the minute that they had a face of like uh a critical crisis like 0.99

00:09:03.240 a war like world war ii for example i feel like back then everybody had their shit in a row because 1.00

00:09:08.380 they realized oh we might be conquered you know we might lose our land you know they may rape out 0.98

00:09:14.900 you know our wives our kids and shit like that and you know they're like they're legitimately 0.98

00:09:19.000 a risk and so people weren't you know they didn't care about you know what color hair they decided 0.59

00:09:24.740 wear that day or whatever you know there's a lot more important things to care to worry about and

00:09:29.300 so i mean i know you said before that you know you don't think that women should have to write 0.95

00:09:33.860 the vote i have a little bit of a different take on it but it's kind of the same vein sure um i i

00:09:40.260 think voting should be and this is gonna be a hot top this is gonna be a hot button subject but i

00:09:44.980 think number one there should be a two-year mandatory um armed services for anybody who

00:09:50.740 want like especially men i mean we're already in simple service anyway but i think two years of

00:09:56.180 mandatory military service and i think that military service after that will be the deciding

00:10:01.380 factor on what on whether or not someone votes um because i think that if you have like if honestly

00:10:07.060 if you're going to make a decision to run the country you should have a stake in it and know

00:10:11.780 like what actual like um threats foreign we're actually facing instead of maybe just consuming

00:10:19.380 it on the news and getting it secondhand and you know that we can't trust the news anything like

00:10:24.180 that yeah yeah okay well thanks for calling in we're gonna go to the next caller right

00:10:30.260 yep for hold on real fast so i see la plunda either hit the link and call in or i'm blocking 0.81

00:10:36.900 you you got like you got like three minutes because you're talking on all this trash 0.98

00:10:41.860 i'm debating but not but you're a strong woman all you do start cussing hit the link and say 1.00

00:10:47.380 it to pearl space i'm giving you two minutes if you don't hit the link i'm blocking you because

00:10:51.940 all you're doing is trolling so anyway go ahead i don't even know what she's saying i didn't see it

00:10:57.060 but yeah what's going on matt yeah my brother from the white white north how you doing oh i know i

00:11:02.420 miss you please take me down south where it's cold this week so you mentioned uh okay uh how

00:11:11.700 women buy dogs that they can't afford have you ever noticed how i've come across a lot of women 1.00

00:11:19.380 who do not know how to take care of animals properly and yet they want them all in and i

00:11:25.140 can and i've got like two stories okay really mind-blowing so i went uh okay so i've been a

00:11:34.900 couple years ago i've actually learned how to ride a horse but before i got to actually riding i did

00:11:39.540 like four years of research on on these animals and so by the time i actually go to ride a horse

00:11:48.200 there was this one girl who um had canadian horse association training and all sorts of shit like 1.00

00:11:55.500 she was a certified trainer and all that and i noticed a couple things about how she was handling 0.90

00:12:01.800 these animals and like she was handling horses all her life and then a couple times when okay

00:12:07.240 someone in the forest i've taken one of their animals out and i've never ridden a horse before

00:12:13.720 until like now and i know it's like we get to one particular spot where they have this bridge

00:12:20.760 and for whatever reason the horse that she was using leading it just wouldn't cross over this

00:12:26.280 bridge so she takes out this rope she's got this rope on her on her uh belt and she's just whipping 1.00

00:12:33.880 the shit out of this horse to make it move and it will not not move and i and i'm just like and 0.91

00:12:40.440 she's a horse trainer she's a horse trainer yes okay and i'm sitting there she's just whipping 1.00

00:12:46.120 the shit out of them get get going get going get going you know whatever it is and um and i'm just 0.92

00:12:51.880 i'm like okay that's it so i just i just get off my horse and i grab and i grab the lead on my horse 0.94

00:13:00.520 and then i go walk up to her and i grab her lead while she's still on it and i walk the horse

00:13:06.680 across the bridge flawless okay you know how to train the horse better than the woman who is a 1.00

00:13:13.480 horse trainer yeah imagine that yeah and actually it doesn't shock me at all like we again we find

00:13:21.000 the most inefficient ways to do things oh my god like this is this isn't and then a couple times

00:13:26.760 it like i don't know how many times i've seen her actually walk her dog in her car you know she's

00:13:31.800 kind of going to give a little bit of air with him like like come on you know and like this and

00:13:38.920 she's telling me one day she had the pro she has a cat day and uh with her roommate and she was

00:13:45.480 total goes and runs off and they're trying to find this cat or whatever it is and

00:13:50.440 And she tells me about how she got it.

00:13:52.820 And I'm like, it's not hard to get a cat, okay?

00:13:57.160 All you got to do is just sit there, zen out, nice and calm, and they'll come to you.

00:14:04.060 You know, it's that simple.

00:14:06.360 You know, my mom had lost our cat on the highway one day when she was going to the cottage.

00:14:16.500 And somehow, I don't remember how it happened.

00:14:18.980 And my cat managed to jump out of the box out of the car and ran off into the bush.

00:14:22.620 And my mom is just hysterical trying to get her cat back. 1.00

00:14:27.380 So my dad and I walk out there.

00:14:29.900 You've got to hurry it up, Matt, because we have like five people on the line.

00:14:32.800 But go ahead.

00:14:33.060 Yeah, sorry.

00:14:33.940 And she just couldn't get it.

00:14:35.620 So I just sat back and said, look, I just said, sit on the tree.

00:14:40.160 And the cat just walks up.

00:14:41.760 And it's just like, it's not hard to work with animals, you know.

00:14:44.580 And I find that a lot of women just can't do it. 1.00

00:14:47.700 no do you know what i've even known like my dog listens better to men than to me

00:14:53.880 you know what's crazy if you see videos of people whose dogs attack people it's normally a woman's 1.00

00:15:02.980 dog oh yeah i go to if i see a pit bull with a woman i'm like yeah run not today cool all right

00:15:11.460 buddy we're gonna move our next caller because this person i was telling the call is calling in

00:15:16.140 so always good to talk to you my brother see ya yeah see ya who's okay who is it this acela

00:15:23.980 esplenda yeah you got to turn your camera on lady we got to make sure you're real 0.80

00:15:29.740 yeah camera on and off for a second for a second okay i mean stay with your chest like

00:15:36.780 is she was saying a lot of stuff yeah because they can always do it behind a like a screen

00:15:41.980 but like if you got something to say say it with your chest you know um i'll go to borders while we

00:15:49.820 let her you know all right how's it going pretty good how about yourself good um is there something

00:15:57.420 that i didn't mention this stream that you have noticed when it comes to women doing 1.00

00:16:01.580 things really inefficiently sort of i mean look at ronda rousey yep yeah just it's inevitable

00:16:09.180 like it's her so-called my sisters were in football if they were in sports but you know 0.99

00:16:14.540 what they didn't do like they didn't they didn't compete with me my my sister wrestled with me 1.00

00:16:22.300 like i've never i've never had a woman versus men argument the only argument that i've had is that

00:16:28.780 i mean like the argument that you've kind of had kind of a way but like they really do just

00:16:35.500 want to take away from what we have to offer in competition i mean you guys have competition

00:16:41.340 you're a professional basketball player like you've been in college you've done the thing

00:16:45.980 it takes effort it takes a lot of work yeah but like when dudes are laying dudes down versus when

00:16:53.500 women are laying men down i mean you gotta you just have to you gotta split it it's gotta be 1.00

00:17:01.020 it's got to be one way you have to you have to tell like it is yeah i mean my rest my sister

00:17:06.860 doesn't wrestle me and she doesn't compete with me like but we have an understanding like we both

00:17:13.020 have fun because it's fun sports are supposed to be fun i thought it was about i thought it was

00:17:18.060 about fun yeah thanks for calling having fun anymore nobody's having fun anymore everything

00:17:24.300 Everything has to be decided.

00:17:26.820 Everything has to be decided.

00:17:28.420 Everything has to be, you know, one of you, I'm like, dude, like, what am I doing?

00:17:32.540 I thought we were having fun.

00:17:34.160 You played basketball.

00:17:35.160 We both, I mean, I played basketball.

00:17:38.660 We've been in sports.

00:17:40.140 We can have fun.

00:17:41.140 All right.

00:17:42.140 But you know what we don't do is do the one thing that we're going to do.

00:17:46.180 Yeah.

00:17:47.180 Thanks for calling me and I got to go to the next one.

00:17:49.180 All right.

Pearl - January 29, 2026

Feminism and Chores： Callers Go Off

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