Pearl - January 30, 2026＂What Is An Anti-Feminist？＂ Pearl Schools Ian Collins
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In this episode, we discuss feminism, divorce, and why women should be able to have equal rights with men. We also discuss the role of women in society and why they should have equal pay with their male counterparts.
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A lot of people are fascinated when somebody calls themselves anti-feminist.
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And if you had to write that out as a paragraph, what would it look like?
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And right now, feminism has given women a lot of power in society,
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You can see this just in, like, the behavior of women in society.
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it kind of assumes you can do something about it,
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and the world's kind of going the way it's going,
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So many would just simply say, no, hang on, Pearl, this is equality.
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Years ago, you go back to the 60s, you can go back further than that.
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women stayed at home now women have careers and this is of course you know in our lifetimes that's
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now the norm i don't really like that view of history because when you think about it you know
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we always talk about how women um don't have like they always say my body my choice right
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but historically men had no choice what to do with their body if they were drafted
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right i mean like they would literally be rounded up and sent to die in war so i don't know why we
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have this idea that women um like in a way we were a protected class because we didn't have to fight
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and die to maintain civilization men had to do that yeah like you could argue men were more
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oppressed than women um you know because like what our oppression is cooking and cleaning
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really and that's really what like that's really what i'm getting at is um it's just to the point
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where women are spoiled brats i i did a show the other day and i'm just like what more do feminists
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want you don't have to cook there's uber eats you have every reproductive right like in the uk you
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have abortion up to six months how much more time do you need ladies that's insane that's crazy um
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and they say it's about equality but then why don't men have equal rights when it comes to
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their kids yeah why why don't why isn't it 50 50 custody of no child support no alimony is that
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still the same in the states as well because certainly over here there's big issues around
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yeah i mean it's everywhere i've done interviews on that topic in like ireland um here uh i've had
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there's a guy in india who actually filmed like a 60 minute video detailing how he was going to
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kill himself and he was doing it because of family court like this happens everywhere um
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so essentially feminism what they want to do is they want men to fund their lifestyle and so they
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do that either through the government benefits through taxes child support alimony and then they
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still claim and say that they're oppressed so yeah it is that it's a curious claim to make
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isn't it after a man's just lost his children it's rather sort of bizarre but you're right i mean it
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is definitely tilted in a in a curious direction um some would say however you know nonetheless
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it all comes back to yes if you want to be a housewife and a homemaker as i think the the
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the fancy phrase now is then then what's wrong with that you know that's great if you want to
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but if you don't want to what's wrong with that as well well there's nothing wrong with it necessarily
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but the challenge is women tend to make their problem everybody's problem so if you want to
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work and work for a lifetime that's fine but women make 85 percent of consumer buying decisions
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and when you think about it that's especially insane because we're close to equal on the pay
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gap so we spend money we don't have and so essentially like what women do is they run out
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of money in their late 20s early 30s they have college debt in the u.s then they marry a guy to
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pay it off divorce him and then he pays for the rest of their life yeah a man never ever picked
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his own kitchen right he never i don't know that term literally picked his own kitchen you said
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women make most of those kind of consumable decisions um and that would be true and i guess
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also across other areas of a relationship things like divorce which is another element that i know
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you've talked about divorce should be divorce should be illegal did you really say oh yeah i
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did i did update my opinion um mostly because so many men are tortured in marriage um where they're
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not getting sex their wife has gained a ton of weight um she's just kind of being a bitch right
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and so i was like do you know what i don't think those men should be tortured for a lifetime
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yeah but if you here's the thing i mean just in my experience a lot of times the men are kind
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kind of held back by the women because um like the women tend to have worse eating habits than
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the men um it's partially because they have higher testosterone or men have higher testosterone
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so women crave sugar more right so they're the ones bringing the uber eats into the house so
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they're bringing ones like women bake men don't really bake so it's uh it's a basic issue then
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of so that's a physical visual thing right i mean that's a uh some would say a superficial issue if
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a woman is it has put on weight uh but you still love her does it matter if she's a little bigger
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than she was when you first met well it doesn't matter um to men men kind of get wife goggles to
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be fair but women are the ones divorcing so it's not even a reason for divorce really what about
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um the voting issue because i know you've talked about this before about women um having the women
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never used to have the vote some men never used to have the vote either where do you still stand
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on that paul um well i'm an egalitarian so i'm i say give women women have been complaining for
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50 years for equality so give them the equality that they asked for um and that goes with voting
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in the united states um men are fined 250 000 if they don't sign up for selective service
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and women don't have to do that so unless the reason women didn't vote historically is because
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men were expected to go to war and be drafted you're voting for your commander in chief
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so if you're not 50 percent of the military and 50 percent of the front lines
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you're not really equal are you what about the future then of all of this i mean you know do you
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part of what you said at the beginning sounded like that you were resigned to the fact that
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the battle that you believe needs to be fought has kind of been lost so yeah i mean conservatives
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lost it's cooked we're done um i don't like to sell hope um i watched a lot of conservatives
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do that the past decade and in my lifetime only fans has become normal like so you're obviously
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not winning if i think it's like 10 of women between 18 to 25 are on only fans um if you
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include women that do are on sugar baby websites if you include you know like straight prostitution
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websites um i have people that have estimated it's like 25 of women under 25 wow i do find
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how can i say how can i say we're winning well i was going to talk about social media but i do find
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it interesting that we live in this kind of bizarre world of conflicting messages where
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we're talking you know don't objectify women and we've never don't you know to to look at a woman
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where we've never seen more people take their clothes off.
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So this allows everybody to raise the price of everything.
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because even if it's six figures of college debt, women will still buy it.
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So then what happens is the women, we rack up a bunch of debt,
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And based on women's choices, women would rather be sex workers than wives.
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Do you think social media, just to extend that,
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I don't know whether we would call OnlyFans social media,
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but it's a form of, I guess, under a similar umbrella,
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how do you where do you place social media as a general thing in terms of how it's influenced
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the society we currently live in yeah well it's a pipeline so the challenge is young women
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now um you know sorry there's a ambulance going by um the the challenge you get is when women have
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social media followings which is kind of it's pretty normal that's the new world um they have
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the opportunity to start an only fans and make a bunch of money not all of them do um but it's
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also a funnel into sugar babies um getting clone out and just like promiscuous activities um and
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you see this a lot when women's social media careers are you know dwindling you see them
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dropping only fans so um can society be saved then i mean are you still pearl the uh the flag
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waiver for the change that you crave and are you someone who isn't all of the things that you
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clearly detest well i can't change the way society is i don't have political power right i'm not a
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politician i'm not in the government so um i don't i just don't predict it's going to get better i
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don't see any indication that the trends are going to change but do you think as a woman
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But I was going to say, do you think as a woman that you should be, you know, is your place in the home?
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Is your place as a homemaker? Is your place to please your husband?
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Is your place to be the person that spends but doesn't earn? Is that your disposition?
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It doesn't matter what it is or isn't. Right. What my place is or is and there should be like should is just make a wish.
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And we have the society that we have. But what is your wish?
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um i i think that's a waste of time so i this is the way society's going so we've lost your
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your battle is lost is that what you're saying yeah unfortunately you gotta you gotta think of
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another job then i mean well you gotta oh no i'll be employed forever because i mean i'm gonna cover
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this stuff yeah but just like you will but here's the the challenge women make 85 percent of consumer
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buying decisions meaning all of the companies have to think do i want to make eight dollars
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or do i want to just want to make two dollars everybody's going to pick eight nobody's going
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to stop or they're going to say i want to make two dollars out of virtue no so that's going to
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make everybody have to lie to women um in order because in order to like when you lie women buy
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you know you'll be young forever here's botox right here's the here's the here's the clothes
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here's i mean it's actually incredible um that we spend 85 like 85 percent of consumer buying
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decisions are women even though we make less than men like think about think about that
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do women make much less money do women make much less than men these days but we spend way more
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that's the point it's very close but we spend way more and you can see it come on you know i don't
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know if you're married but like every married guy knows his wife runs his credit card more than he
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does well that's why i mentioned that's why i mentioned the kitchen point earlier that i don't
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think you quite picked up on that you know when it comes to spending out money then yeah you will
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normally find that that the woman of the house will select which kitchen you have in terms of
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well i think that's that's arguably true well i'm trying to feed into what you're saying are
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So the map, so now you're contradicting yourself.
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If anything, I see more men that can cook now than women.
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I mean select the kitchen that you want to buy for your house.
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I'm struggling with the kitchen reference here.
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It's got a cooker and a counter and stuff in it.
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So in terms of where you go next, you continue this fight for a more conservative world or you just talk about how we never got there, despite all of the voices who are anchoring for it, the late Charlie Kirk, people such as that that have done the rounds, have huge media followings, who would agree with much of what you say.
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The battle is lost and your job now is just to talk about how it's lost.
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I mean, I can't in good faith sell that dream. And a lot of them are part of the problem in a way. I mean, a lot of a lot of them are platforming women that are not really like instead of platforming smart, intelligent men, like they've had porn stars on their platform.
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uh nikki minaj i think is in the white house now what credibility does she have to be there but
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they have to pander to women when you start to see like influencers enter a niche or space
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it usually means they're pandering to women because men care about men that are competent
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where women care about who's popular so they're they're part of it um and i'm i can't in good
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faith sell that dream i can't no i hear you uh pearl listen uh great to have you on with us
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Enjoy your day, Pearl Davis, host of Just Pearly Things