Pearl - November 15, 2025


For Once Modern Women Give OK Dating Advice!？

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8 minutes

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1,809

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Misogyny

14

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode, we are reacting to a recent article that I read about women pushing their men away until it's too late because they don't have what it takes to be a successful woman in today's dating world.

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00:00:00.080 these women give terrible dating advice so i'm going to be shocked if they have a clip of good 1.00
00:00:05.040 anything good what up guys welcome to my reaction series so today we are reacting to something i
00:00:10.880 never thought i would see in my lifetime i didn't think this existed good dating advice from women 0.99
00:00:18.480 pushing their man away until it's too late but notice it's no it's only old women that have 1.00
00:00:23.040 good advice it's never young women it's never when we're young and hot where we care most women might 0.99
00:00:27.200 not even realize that they're pushing their man away until it's too late until he's gone here's
00:00:31.920 how you notice it's not always cheating that drives men out it's disrespect constant negativity
00:00:37.600 emasculinizing him belittling him and making him feel like no matter what he does it's never enough
00:00:43.280 when yeah because we just tend to nitpick we need everything to be perfect and when you're
00:00:47.520 nitpicking someone else you're you're you think that you're perfect like that's kind of the
00:00:51.680 impression you're giving like you're so perfect and feel drained instead of inspired they don't
00:00:56.560 explode they retreat they stop opening up they stop putting in effort they stop fighting for the
00:01:02.240 relationship and then the women play the victim acting blindsided when he finally leaves but the
00:01:07.520 truth is you created an environment where he couldn't thrive where his presence felt like how
00:01:12.720 many times men get fat and lazy because they're dealing with a woman that just is so draining like 1.00
00:01:17.760 hell on earth is not a divorce hell on earth is living with a wife that drains you that is way worse 0.95
00:01:23.360 than losing money burden instead of a blessing and men will not stay where they feel unvalued unseen
00:01:29.280 unappreciated so if your man is pulling away they will stay they say all the time okay stop pointing
00:01:34.480 the finger at him and look in the mirror you might be the reason respect him admire him build him up
00:01:40.560 instead of tearing him down because the moment he realizes peace exists without you he'll never come
00:01:46.000 back yeah that's that's a hard truth a lot of guys women don't want to hear a lot of guys don't um
00:01:52.400 they don't how do i put this they don't realize they can do better men always have more options than
00:01:57.200 they think and then you think literally the best dating advice i've probably have ever heard in my life
00:02:02.400 truly is the person you're dating would you want to trade places with them like the person you choose
00:02:09.280 to date should be somebody that you aspire to be like or at least they should have qualities that they
00:02:14.720 possess that yeah here's here's the problem again we love the men we hate we hate that we love the
00:02:20.880 men we hate we hate it you want to possess within yourself because there are so many people i see
00:02:27.200 that date other people and it's like if you look at the couple you're just like what the what is that
00:02:32.160 like what are you thinking what are you doing and it's just so interesting because it gave me so much
00:02:36.240 perspective when you are selecting a partner choose somebody that you would like to be more like okay
00:02:42.240 that you would aspire to be more like and vice versa because when you're connected to somebody that you
00:02:48.080 wouldn't really aspire to be number one there's probably not that much respect there than you
00:02:52.480 think and two there's so much misalignment than you're aware of because the person you date can
00:02:57.520 either make you or break you so you better choose somebody who you aspire to be more like and and
00:03:02.560 reverse and when you do that you guys will always be challenging each other in a very healthy way to
00:03:07.360 to grow into an elevated version of yourselves girls want to date an entrepreneur until they see
00:03:12.720 what comes with yeah because a lot of a lot of times women want rich men but we have high attention 1.00
00:03:17.520 needs men cannot that work a lot really can't be with women that have a high need for attention and 1.00
00:03:23.840 validation sometimes it's why men pick career women because they're like oh they're busy yeah they might 0.99
00:03:28.720 bang the boss but then they don't have time to bang tom dick and harry it's just harry and they're like 0.99
00:03:33.440 well i guess that's better than the alternative who has like a whole roster being with an entrepreneur 0.99
00:03:38.400 you think for one second that dating an entrepreneur especially one that is successful
00:03:44.080 means you get freedom take it from me i'm sitting at the office of the entrepreneur right now
00:03:51.120 where he's getting two jobs for the price of one he's 24 7 and i'm out here being 24 7 with him
00:03:56.560 when i started dating my fiance he basically god help him you're with him 24 7 oh no
00:04:01.760 because women we're just naturally annoying so it's like yeah i think men need time away from us
00:04:08.800 from the get-go i want to end up with someone that supports me and my goals and my dreams that's
00:04:12.960 one thing i'll never give up i was like oh that sounds easy enough no i'm out here in the and now
00:04:21.280 and now she's complaining on the internet about it we can't help ourselves crunch it if you want
00:04:27.680 to be with someone that's uber successful you need to know that you will most likely come in a lot of
00:04:32.960 seasons second to the business and you need to be so okay with that like so for real okay with that
00:04:38.000 you might even lose some friends over this because some of your friends will not be able to relate if
00:04:42.880 they're with someone that's in a nine to five and you're with someone that's actively building a
00:04:47.120 business they will not understand your suffering and let me tell you another thing these guys these guys
00:04:52.000 don't have social lives because you have to understand like if you have an extra let's say
00:05:00.640 20 hours a week that you spend socializing or 15 hours a week um times that by four that's 60 hours a
00:05:08.640 month times 12 that's 720 hours like you're you just you kind of got to give up your social life if you
00:05:16.640 want to outwork have competition especially when you're competing with men competing with women you
00:05:21.440 could have a social life because women you know but men know such high expectations of you more than
00:05:28.080 you have for yourself as their partner you need to level up and the reason why is because there's going
00:05:32.240 to be a lot of hard days and you're going to be out there in the trenches with them as literally god's
00:05:37.600 strongest soldier what does that mean like you're in the trend women give our give ourselves i mean 0.98
00:05:42.560 i'm sorry i know maybe i'm too critical but i'm like we just give ourselves way too much credit
00:05:48.160 like what does in the trenches mean of all this let's just add the fact that they love delayed
00:05:53.360 gratification so the moment they achieve their goal they're going to kick the ball down the road
00:05:57.440 and they're going to have another goal to achieve these guys because my dad is one of these guys
00:06:02.560 he had a big company and you would be shocked at how much they can get done in a day it is actually
00:06:08.560 unbelievable it's never ending so you just better get used to the cycle i feel so blessed to be with
00:06:14.560 someone that has goals and dreams and is so ambitious i want him to achieve all those things
00:06:18.560 and i want to be right there to support him all i'm saying is if you want to have a life with leisure
00:06:22.560 go find a man in finance because i'm telling you right now these guys finance they're not going to see
00:06:27.040 you either no they're hardwired differently the hunt is better than the kill they're always on the chase
00:06:32.480 so best of luck to you out here yeah she's in her sexual competition she doesn't want to compete 1.00
00:06:39.520 these women give terrible dating advice so i'm going to be shocked if they have a clip of good 1.00
00:06:45.040 anything good don't ask do you want to hang out say i want to take you out when are you available
00:06:50.240 when are you available does tuesday night work for you okay perfect booking the place yeah making the
00:06:55.120 plan do not wait until if you make plans earlier in the week let's hang out sunday and then you know
00:07:00.160 why even though maybe this is correct i just hate when women say it 1.00
00:07:06.080 oh they're like they're you know what they say they say pearl you can't don't attack the person
00:07:10.800 saying it i can't help it wait until sunday morning to say hey let's hang out at five o'clock
00:07:16.880 today it's that space that's just a little bit disrespectful um it definitely raises flags feels
00:07:23.120 awkward makes a girl i think that if the woman's not willing to meet you within three days she doesn't
00:07:27.920 like you that much generally generally speaking i'll feel devalued it's just not good yeah you
00:07:34.480 don't want to make a girl wait around till the day of that's i love that you say that because that is
00:07:39.120 a red flag yeah yeah you text her in the night before a couple nights before i can't wait to see
00:07:44.560 you i'll be there too that's terrible advice okay tomorrow at this now they just they're just training
00:07:49.440 simps they need beta bucks time this goes without saying but i'm just gonna say it don't ask her to go for
00:07:54.480 a drink at a bar don't i don't know because i don't get p why'd you put this in here you know
00:08:02.560 drinks at the bar is the number one way men get laid this is terrible don't ask her to go ahead
00:08:07.440 stung we love you but oh no but for a drink at a bar don't ask her to go to the biggest red flag
00:08:13.120 it is the biggest red flag don't ask her to go smoke some weed i don't know if anyone's doing that 1.00
00:08:17.920 it's just not a good idea like seriously don't ask for a smoke i'm sure the stoner chicks when they're 1.00
00:08:23.760 young i mean these rave girls you'd be surprised what they'll bang damn near anything especially 1.00
00:08:28.080 when there's drugs involved anyways guys um let me know what you think did you think it was good
00:08:32.320 dating advice or bad make sure you like the video and subscribe to the channel bring that notification
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