Pearl - May 29, 2025


Four Guys Break Up With Me Live On Air


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

159.40561

Word Count

2,360

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss how to break up with someone you care deeply for and how to deal with the aftermath of a breakup. We also talk about how to handle a breakup and what to do about it.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 okay but wait wait i can change i can change i'll do better you've had three months to do it
00:00:07.080 i haven't seen any change sorry yeah can you guys can you guys um dump me on stream i want
00:00:13.320 to see how you guys would do it can i get like you guys is dumping speeches
00:00:18.260 okay so the scenario is it's just not like um i don't know what's the
00:00:29.980 you're not cheating but you're just she's just not putting out no no putting out not cheating but
00:00:35.240 you're just like over it's who i am as a person go ahead how about this how about this she wants
00:00:41.640 she's spending too much time at your house and she's like no no she's putting too much time at
00:00:48.820 your house and she doesn't like your interest so she's starting to put herself at odds with your
00:00:54.760 with your business time and your hobbies how about that okay yeah let's do it
00:00:59.740 shiv you want to go shiv you want to go first yeah so for me i i just don't give women reasons i just
00:01:05.440 break up with them so i just be like hey like i found out like my grandma's really sick and like
00:01:10.720 i might have to go to india for four months oh don't worry wait wait but but i'll wait for you
00:01:16.660 i'll wait for you no you don't understand like you deserve so much better i don't you're the no
00:01:23.100 you're the you're the one for me don't worry i'll be there for you
00:01:26.900 girl i'm gay i'm gay
00:01:29.300 i'm asexual i identify as a girl
00:01:38.580 okay then can we just be can we just be friends
00:01:47.260 and still hang out it's against my religion i i changed so i'm a scientologist now
00:01:53.860 okay all right glenn you're next dump me i'm ready let's say i want to say that once again she
00:02:03.220 she's she insists on coming to your house so you you haven't had alone time in like a month a month
00:02:09.920 and a half because she wants to spend every waking second with you and when she comes over
00:02:14.380 she doesn't like you on your computer she doesn't like you watching football
00:02:18.380 i want to do something glenn yeah what do you want to do and then you're naming things off so i
00:02:23.740 don't want to do that why do we have to do what you want to do if you okay this is how would you
00:02:28.040 come here come here let me show you something i'm gonna show you something in the bedroom
00:02:30.460 um oh wow i'm excited do you see um what's next to the bed is that one night stand
00:02:37.900 yeah you are supposed to be just like that one night stand okay okay but it worked out i'm so happy
00:02:46.540 yeah so one night stand you have turned into a 30 day stand and um yeah but it's not gonna work
00:02:56.120 out like it's just it's just doesn't why but why um i fucked your sister
00:03:02.760 she's 15
00:03:07.240 i don't know what to tell you i'm just kidding
00:03:12.440 it's just like i i'm i'm going after your mom okay like your mom is the business like she makes the
00:03:25.100 biscuits okay you you burnt the biscuits you know it was one time i'm getting dumped over one time
00:03:33.820 i'm sorry but could you tell me could you just tell me why what did i do
00:03:38.300 can you tell me please your mom uses no teeth okay i told you the teeth thing is a problem
00:03:46.700 okay well can we can i just get some closure yes the door will close on the way
00:03:55.100 okay sean you're next how are you gonna do it
00:04:02.380 hey can i talk to you for a second pearl yeah what's going on
00:04:08.780 so you know and this is an open conversation it's a two-way street
00:04:14.300 as we always have communication and conversations um it's not only my opinions it's yours too and so i
00:04:21.340 would like for you to say anything there will be no consequences no negative things it's open
00:04:25.740 to end discussion i was looking on the internet and i found these clips of you being a colonizer
00:04:34.300 and i wanted to ask you about that because you know i'm pro-black you know and i'm i'm for the
00:04:40.300 community and uh you know what do you have to say about these things i'm gonna have to break
00:04:47.020 up with you actually because i can't i get it i get it and that's where we just have to separate you
00:04:54.060 know and i get it you know i still care about you and still be friend will still be close friends i
00:05:01.820 wish you the best this is the best breakup i've ever had
00:05:05.500 i don't want it to be negative i don't we had 80 percent of our time together was great yeah you
00:05:13.740 know and the last guy shut the door in my face so this is great no the door closed on itself self
00:05:21.100 closing doors i wouldn't i wouldn't do that to you yeah the other guy's okay look i'm not gonna do that
00:05:29.660 to you probably i'm not gonna lie to you oh you're so nice i'm gonna miss you okay yeah i'll miss you
00:05:35.500 you rather you hate to see her go but you love to watch her leave already
00:05:41.980 well
00:05:45.100 i'm sorry my colon i'm sorry my colonization was a problem
00:05:50.060 it's cool some people needed to be colonized sometimes but it's okay yeah so you didn't do it
00:05:55.420 i just have to stand with the community yeah i understand doug mpa you're next are you gonna dump
00:06:03.180 me so so i would set it up where so example i i'm a punctual person pearl and i work together and she
00:06:12.220 knows how much i can't stand it when she's late to calls and stuff like that so but when i'm with
00:06:16.780 somebody i i'll do something like if we're supposed to be somewhere at two and i know the person is
00:06:22.460 always late i'll tell her like 1 15 right and so there are things i will do to mitigate the things
00:06:30.300 that she does to piss me off right and what i'll do is i'll stop doing those things so she's doing
00:06:37.980 things that annoy me so i'll say you know the last couple of last month or two you're always late
00:06:46.620 always it's because you don't respect me do you i don't think you do and and so i'll start keep
00:06:56.220 you're not supposed to keep um keep tally or keep track but i'll change certain behaviors and start
00:07:01.740 keeping tally and track of where she's deficient and then use that to break up with her you're always
00:07:07.260 late you i i'll pay for all the days and all the food and then i'll say you you never pay for dates
00:07:14.540 you just want me for my money i thought i thought wait you told me you wanted to pay
00:07:21.420 yeah but you know what you should have at least offered
00:07:27.260 but you hate it when people offer yeah i you know what i i would set it up like that
00:07:33.980 where i would find reasons where she's deficient and use those to break up with her
00:07:38.860 like you know what you you're late all the time okay but wait wait i can change i can change i'll do
00:07:47.340 better you've had three months to do it i haven't seen any change sorry here's my question have you
00:07:54.620 guys ever used like pointing out other chicks to make her feel like she's like you're like you're not
00:08:00.860 even into her like she's not your type i did that she made she broke up with me it was great i didn't
00:08:09.340 have to go through any of it you know she's like i just don't think i really don't think i'm your type
00:08:14.780 i'm like the the the smallest thing i've used to break up with a girl that i didn't want to um to see
00:08:25.180 anymore was the type of underwear she she wore she she wore these like they just were just these
00:08:32.220 i forgot what kind they were but they just were a jack and i'm like why do you wear that underwear
00:08:36.940 like i don't like ruffles yeah i don't like lacy yeah i don't like that freaking granny
00:08:43.260 pain looking underwear like what it's just not attractive it's not and then you used to you use
00:08:48.140 that you use a deficiency and then snowball it into all sorts of other other small things and build a
00:08:52.700 the case as to why you don't want to see her again i really liked my colonizer breakup the best
00:09:01.500 that was so good sean like wow yeah bring up something that would make me want to dump you
00:09:09.580 that was great that was great no i'm sean i'm changing up my game now thanks
00:09:15.980 no problem man i've been doing it for a while
00:09:17.660 so he's like the professional breakup you know like yeah that was great like hr they would bring
00:09:25.900 somebody in to fire you all you got to do is get sean to come over and break up with your with you
00:09:32.140 you'll handle it all but you'll wait can we give him another still at the end can we give him another
00:09:37.500 business here can we give him another scenario oh i want another one yeah okay come on try to touch
00:09:44.540 my game okay i got i got one i got one go ahead let's say she's insecure and she's accusing you of
00:09:52.300 leaving dick imprints on the counter okay she thinks you're cheating on her and she thinks that she
00:10:02.300 sees your dick imprint on the counter and you know you're following all these girls um i'm not doing
00:10:09.820 that but you're liking all these pictures and i'm just i'm freaking out and she knows your instagram dms
00:10:17.580 are full of titties yeah i need you to follow uglier women please
00:10:23.020 yeah right no i understand that one all right hey pearl can we have a conversation yeah let's go
00:10:35.260 guys always tell you you're gonna have communication with your girl that's more
00:10:40.220 superior than her ability to communicate so you have to make time for it so pearl um i know you've
00:10:46.540 been having issues or speaking about ig and first first of all i don't want to get it wrong so tell me
00:10:59.740 if there are any issues or things you want to talk about what is it what's the well you're just you're
00:11:05.660 always like you you're always following these girls and liking their picture like you never follow men it's
00:11:12.060 always just women on instagram always you know and your friend she wants to sleep with you i can just tell
00:11:19.820 i think you're cheating on me
00:11:23.180 no don't forget the print i'm not saying that
00:11:30.780 it's on the counter as far as the girl in particular right we're friends and we've been friends
00:11:37.260 for a while and pearl i never lie i'm not going to lie to you i'm too old to be doing that i went to
00:11:44.220 war i've been in combat i'm not scared of you i'm going to tell you the truth i'm going to tell you
00:11:50.060 what you need to hear even if you don't like it have i not done that in our relationship already
00:11:56.060 yeah you have i guess i was over blowing it
00:12:00.540 that's okay people get
00:12:01.820 that's okay people get their ideas and the number one most important part is you communicated to me
00:12:08.220 and we had the time to talk about it if you didn't then that would be a problem right because
00:12:12.780 possibly it would build resentment and other things like that so i appreciate you bringing that to me
00:12:18.540 is there anything else that you had issues with no you're the best i'm so glad this is working out
00:12:24.380 i think it would work out if we transition this relationship
00:12:37.260 i'm serious bro because at the end of the day i might not be the guy that you need
00:12:44.300 i could be a great friend for you i think we know no i need you but like we're
00:12:49.340 i've never i've never been with anyone better what you need yourself that's number one
00:12:58.940 i can't you know that's inside you you have those feelings right you believe i'm cheating you believe
00:13:05.580 that this idea is right or wrong i never so you don't about yours but so you don't
00:13:11.980 you don't want to be with me anymore i want to be your friend i want to support you
00:13:17.580 i've always done it and i'm okay with that most of our relationship was good pearl it's not a bad
00:13:25.420 thing but everything in life doesn't last forever there's time limits but you said you wanted to marry
00:13:31.420 me someday and you said that you have an issue with these things and we don't want that in a marriage
00:13:37.980 imagine our kids having to deal with this if we had kids together would you want that for your
00:13:42.860 children i don't think you would no i wouldn't and i think you need someone who won't give you those
00:13:49.500 type of issues that don't follow women on instagram i get it and it's not a cool thing for your
00:13:55.420 perspective and i respect your perspective it's important i'll always be here for you pearl that's
00:14:02.860 for sure for sure really especially at 2 a.m john man holy
00:14:14.140 yo man you need to seriously like teach a course on pearls freaking yeah we need them in the course
00:14:21.740 we need to have these skills so we see less videos on social media about women breaking up their
00:14:33.900 you know busting out their windows and going to their work and yell and scream bro seriously you
00:14:39.180 need to like put something together man and just yeah that was beautiful that was i that was i really
00:14:46.300 really enjoyed that breakup