Pearl - April 19, 2025


Have You Ever Slept With Your Boss? (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily


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We don't party like we used to. We don't dance like we did in the 90s. We used to party like the old days. Now we're in the 80s and 90s and it's hard to find people who are willing to dance.

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00:00:00.000 we don't party like we used to all right this is working back to 1992 everybody's acting brand
00:00:09.040 self-producing today we're not looking across the room everybody is looking down on their phones
00:00:18.160 no one's around yeah we used to tear up the town now i don't hear a sound
00:00:26.320 people don't dance because somebody's watching drink too much everybody's talking we used to
00:00:35.540 Rage like there was no stopping
00:00:37.620 So put your hands up, everybody's walking
00:00:40.920 Put your phone down and get on the dance floor
00:00:44.340 Shake that booty like you never did before 0.99
00:00:47.560 Look real silly, yeah, raise your hands 0.99
00:00:50.640 Let's get together, baby, just dance 0.99
00:00:54.740 Does this work?
00:01:05.540 We used to snap a Polaroid
00:01:08.620 Now the whole night's on record
00:01:11.700 I used to know who my neighbor was
00:01:15.340 Now we really don't do that stuff
00:01:18.360 We used to go out and ding-dong ditch
00:01:21.680 Now that ring cam is the biggest snitch 1.00
00:01:25.380 Now all these young kids do a stream on Twitch
00:01:28.340 2020s are the biggest glitch
00:01:31.620 People don't dance
00:01:34.860 Cause somebody's watching
00:01:36.480 Drink too much
00:01:38.140 Everybody's talking
00:01:39.680 Used to rage
00:01:41.400 Like there was no stopping
00:01:42.920 So put your hands up
00:01:44.680 Everybody's rocking
00:01:46.160 Yes, this is my next kid
00:01:47.940 Put your phone down and get on the dance floor
00:01:49.660 And shake that booty like you never did before 1.00
00:01:52.900 Look real silly 0.99
00:01:54.340 Yeah, raise your hands 0.98
00:01:55.940 Let's get together
00:01:57.700 And maybe just dance
00:02:00.060 what up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily thanks for bearing with me i'm
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00:06:27.260 okay. So today, um, welcome to another episode of Pearl daily. Um, sorry, the chat, if you're
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00:06:57.080 welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. So there was a time where many couples did meet at
00:07:03.680 work. You would see the lawyer date and marry the paralegal, the doctor marry the nurse and the CEO
00:07:09.860 marry his secretary. But now those days are gone. You know, dating at work was on the decline before
00:07:16.160 the Me Too movement in 2017. Now it's rare to see co-workers fraternizing. You know, men have had to
00:07:24.220 learn to protect themselves from false accusations that could ruin their careers. Despite this, you
00:07:30.700 know, some people still choose to sleep with their co-workers. Knowing of all the dangers that are
00:07:36.280 involved you know many men meet a woman at work that might seem nice and there might be a real 0.86
00:07:41.800 attraction but you know the problem is everything changes after the man smashes after he hits
00:07:48.500 women always change up at work after the sex happens and there is no way to predict what 1.00
00:07:55.480 happens after some men will sleep with a co-worker find out she's crazy and then have to placate some 0.75
00:08:00.920 crazy woman at his job you know some men uh sleep with a woman and then have to worry about 1.00
00:08:05.940 rumors being thrown around or false accusations being put against them. In general, it's a smart 0.93
00:08:12.920 mood to avoid sleeping with your co-workers. But let's look at an example of what happens before
00:08:17.400 you sleep with a co-worker. Now, you guys are not going to see the article on screen. And the reason
00:08:25.200 being, I simply don't know how to do it. I don't. And I don't feel like figuring it out. It's just
00:08:32.020 for today. This is the last day we're dealing with this. Okay, so somebody said, so you slept
00:08:39.140 with a coworker. Now what? What do you do? What do you do when you bang, right? Because you can't
00:08:46.700 ghost a coworker. It's easy to ghost. We're in 2025. It's the movie plot that herded Bridget
00:08:52.920 Jones' diary to cult classic status, but the ebb and flow of emotions that arise from sleeping
00:08:59.000 with a coworker aren't restricted to fictitious film sets. In the eyes of some people, it's a
00:09:06.460 part of life and a rite of passage. If I had a dollar for every time I acted on a work crush,
00:09:11.500 well, being a heterosexual woman, oh, you horned dog, working in a female-dominated industry, 1.00
00:09:19.320 I can't say I'd be living on lobsters and caviar. I didn't see where that was going. 0.90
00:09:22.860 But that's not to say many others don't have a wealth of romantic workplace interactions under their belts.
00:09:31.920 You know, but even more affections of an office rendezvous can struggle to navigate the post-sex debrief. 0.92
00:09:39.980 To make up for my inexperience of professional hookups, I decided to ask Christina Kjolfias, a relationship counselor who's guided her fair share of diverse relationships to communicative bliss. 0.99
00:10:01.080 Why do we sleep with our colleagues?
00:10:02.800 As a product of a capitalist society, we are programmed to hold great value in our careers.
00:10:13.020 During regular business hours, we wouldn't dare so much as ask for a phone number for
00:10:17.800 fear of jeopardizing our shiny job titles.
00:10:21.140 So why is it that when Friday night rolls around and we're unwinding with colleagues
00:10:26.440 over a jug of ambiguous tap beer, we push our shrewd inhibitions aside.
00:10:33.700 Of course, the ill-fated beer goggles may play a role,
00:10:39.040 but according to Christina, the mystery of a colleague is an endearing factor
00:10:43.960 with respect to workplace sex.
00:10:45.860 We tend to only see the side of people, the powerful, productive, warm, professional side
00:10:51.800 that can be very appealing.
00:10:53.520 It's also appealing to be attracted to someone and want to see their softer or sexier side.
00:10:59.640 There's some mystery in there, she explains.
00:11:03.120 Similarly, relationship expert Nancy Carbone says that sometimes workplace attraction can be built on a fantasy.
00:11:13.520 What happens is workers will form an emotional bond or what I call a fantasy relationship with someone.
00:11:18.860 they aren't close with that work and as they feel they can be themselves and be more open she
00:11:24.260 reveals. It's actually a fantasy of what they've conjured up in their head about the person that
00:11:29.080 creates the illusion of close connection. So what happens when we do? As Monday morning comes around
00:11:36.000 after a weekend of anxiety inducing torment we tend to revert to a primitive fight or flight
00:11:41.980 decision when it comes to addressing the situation. Some of us will face the embarrassment head-on
00:11:47.500 by marching to the photocopier and blurting out a nervous jumble of can we just pretend Friday night.
00:11:53.120 Others will take the flight route, glue their eyes to the carpet and their headphones to the ears,
00:11:57.820 avoiding any prospect of the post-sex debrief.
00:12:01.260 According to Christina, no matter how frivolous the interaction is, addressing a work hookup is vital
00:12:06.160 if you want to avoid awkward or inappropriate work mishaps.
00:12:11.620 Like with any intimate relationship, you should be respectful of the person and yourself
00:12:16.620 by letting them know where you stand so yes addressing the hookup briefly will help to make
00:12:23.020 clear what each other's expectations are she says and she says addressing a hookup doesn't have to
00:12:30.580 be as daunting as the aforementioned mentioned after mentioned parade to go to the photocopier
00:12:36.960 even a brief text where you don't have to deal with the face-to-face awkwardness can go far in
00:12:42.840 clearing the air, she suggests. Respect yourself and your colleagues as well as the workplace team.
00:12:48.760 Be honest, but you know, keep it short and sweet. But what if I feel a strong connection with a
00:12:55.600 colleague? Of course, a tipsy one-night stand isn't the only type of workplace to ever occur.
00:13:03.740 Maybe you've shared several nights of passion and trying to gauge whether the butterflies you're
00:13:08.860 feeling are reciprocated. Plenty of people meet at work and have long and fruitful relationships
00:13:14.540 Christina says but if you do find yourself in a relationship with a co-worker boundaries in
00:13:20.240 communication need to become paramount. Talk openly about how you want to work how you want
00:13:26.660 things to be so you are both on the same page. Set time away from each other to maintain your
00:13:31.360 independence and identity as individuals she offers and when it comes to the touchy subject
00:13:36.840 of company promotions christiana christina says the same communication rules apply
00:13:42.960 should communication change when there's a power structure and put in place maybe women just want 1.00
00:13:49.160 to be like movies maybe like bridget jones it was your boss who you did the deed with leaving you to
00:13:57.160 feel extra confused and a bit weird about where you stand in the case of sleeping with your
00:14:02.440 superiors christina says expectations respect and consent are key if you sleep with your boss you
00:14:10.760 need to reflect on the power dynamic in the relationship and both of you need to be clear
00:14:15.540 on consent and what is appropriate yes fellas if you sleep with someone below you you better get
00:14:23.240 her you better get her consent on camera you don't want this workplace sexual harassment is 1.00
00:14:29.580 a serious issue and it happens all the time, often going on reported for fear of losing one's
00:14:34.480 job. So yes, communication is so important. And if you're not sure, ask. No matter the fine print
00:14:39.840 of your workplace fling, Christina says, reflecting on the underlying reasons behind
00:14:45.220 your relationship is incredibly important to maintain a healthy work-life balance.
00:14:49.640 If sleeping with a colleague is a recurring pattern, it can be harmful and it's best to ask
00:14:55.080 yourself why am i do why am i doing this um is this to fill desire loneliness boredom she shares
00:15:02.740 notes always leave time for reflection and think about it if you continue to hurt or be hurt it's
00:15:08.340 probably best to reflect and take a break there's no doubt uh sex between two consenting adults is 0.91
00:15:16.560 one's life one of life's primary joys but sometimes it's best to say your drunken goodbye in time to
00:15:23.560 make the last train and save the prospect of love and sex for situations where the stakes aren't
00:15:30.260 quite as high that's actually not bad okay so next we're gonna watch a video oh we know next
00:15:39.440 is we got 11 rules to follow for sleeping with a co-worker so if you're gonna do it here are the
00:15:45.920 rules according to business insider a surprising oh my gosh i didn't know it was that high
00:15:52.040 oh my gosh am i the minority
00:15:58.180 a surprising 54 of workers had a romantic encounter with someone at the office according
00:16:09.160 to a survey of 1 500 business insider readers it's kind of the natural evolution of the bond
00:16:15.960 you've already made in the workplace, says Stephanie Loss, co-author of The Official
00:16:20.960 Mate, your employee handbook for romance on the job.
00:16:24.340 Since you have a 50-50 chance of this happening to you, it's important to be prepared.
00:16:29.140 Here are some tips from Lucy and a couple other sources on how to manage hooking up
00:16:35.020 or dating someone in the office.
00:16:37.460 One, make sure you have more than work in common.
00:16:40.560 Yeah, if you're going to do it, I say don't half-ass it.
00:16:45.140 If you're going to go sleep with your coworker, go hard or go home, but have a second job ready to go.
00:16:52.540 Often, people confuse solidarity against a mean boss with something more.
00:16:58.140 It's a lot like what happens to battle-scarred comrades in wartime, says Lucy.
00:17:03.180 Don't just talk about work together and make sure you get out with other people other than your colleagues.
00:17:10.240 Shop talk can be a good way to build rapport, but it's definitely not enough.
00:17:15.140 to last you long-term. If you go for it, calculate your risk and move slowly. I don't know. Fellas,
00:17:23.640 if you sleep with someone at work, make sure it's a job you don't need that bad.
00:17:28.840 Don't get intense too quickly. Get to know the person you're interested in. In an article,
00:17:34.080 I betted my boss stories of sex in the workplace. In the examiner, one woman talked about giving 1.00
00:17:40.000 into a co-worker's advance after rebuffing a few times. She went out with him a couple times and
00:17:45.440 eventually slept with him. And how did it turn out? Huge mistake. After that, I just wanted to
00:17:50.160 forget it. Be honest with yourself. Otherwise, you could be on the road to destruction. While
00:17:56.620 relationships can go south without much notice, you shouldn't see your career tank alongside if
00:18:02.200 you start off responsibly. Acknowledge that no relationship is guaranteed to last and discuss
00:18:08.200 how you'll handle yourselves if one ends. I would get a new job. That's what I would do. Yeah,
00:18:17.360 sorry. I can't take L's. I'm going to take the L somewhere else. Know your game plan. Reports
00:18:24.040 here is the city. Sorry. If probably when your relationship fails, your personal stress test,
00:18:34.100 Have an exit strategy already in place, an internal move, jumping ship to a rival.
00:18:39.720 In extreme cases, a tour of duty abroad might hold an appeal.
00:18:44.980 When you're at work, you're at work.
00:18:46.600 Maintain your regular office routines.
00:18:48.700 That goes for email and phone, too.
00:18:50.880 Consider one engaged couple, says Cheryl Crane, and 101 ways to make Gen X, Y, and Zoomers
00:18:58.460 happy at work who publicly embarrassed each other in front of staff members.
00:19:02.580 My suggestion was that they consider not working together in the company, says Crane.
00:19:08.980 Since one of them found another job, things have calmed down.
00:19:14.380 Don't tell anyone about it if you're serious.
00:19:17.340 That's important. 0.99
00:19:19.080 Yeah, you don't need HR up your ass, okay, fellas? 0.98
00:19:22.600 When you're committed, make sure you're ready for the whole office to know, according to Bnet. 0.98
00:19:27.200 And remember that once something's on Facebook, it's probably impossible to take it back, Lucy says, which can get embarrassing.
00:19:35.660 You might not care that co-workers can see when you get it together, but do you really want them to know when you go from interrelationship to single?
00:19:45.580 Keep your enthusiasm about your relationship off the internet.
00:19:50.580 If you've decided to keep things secret and get caught anyway, own up to it.
00:19:55.180 be prepared to own up to it when the time comes. If you're executing a high-risk trade and your
00:20:01.340 boss finds out, don't lie or offer to end it all, but have a risk management strategy in reserve.
00:20:07.600 Think about it and think ahead about it, mitigating, minimizing, and managing all the known
00:20:13.620 risks. It says, here is the city's doctor love. If this is more than a momentary fling, arrange for
00:20:20.700 a really uncomfortable meeting with your boss. Disclosing personal information with your boss
00:20:26.020 might be daunting, but it is a necessary step. The most senior of the two of you or the person
00:20:32.340 who's been there longer should initiate the conversation, says Luce. Go into the conversation
00:20:37.680 confidently. Be mature and say what you need to say, but definitely don't say too much, she says.
00:20:44.420 these rules are kind of funny guys whatever you do respect your colleagues
00:20:49.560 right not to know every detail of your personal personal life gosh I can't talk today
00:20:55.620 daddy why is your username daddy do you know I am a good woman I cannot be calling somebody
00:21:05.720 daddy in the chat do you know what I oh I'm gonna call you d okay like 0.74
00:21:11.380 like why is that the username d in the chat says if she didn't enjoy the sex expect an essay
00:21:21.780 lawsuit you can't trust a woman to handle herself gracefully afterwards and nobody thinks of these 1.00
00:21:28.880 things beforehand um stay professional inside the office this includes keeping up on your working
00:21:36.300 relationships with other colleagues. Broadcasting romance is a bad idea. Stop laughing, guys. Stop
00:21:42.940 it. Yeah, I'm going to call you zaddy. I don't even feel like that's better. I'm going to call 1.00
00:21:52.680 you D. Oh my God. I'm just going to keep reading the article. Hit the like button. No, I'm not
00:22:07.100 going to call them big D. It's not funny. This is not funny. Broadcasting the romance is a bad
00:22:16.420 idea. I mean, think about it. Would you want to see a couple canoodling in their cubicle? 1.00
00:22:22.240 stop laughing. Stop it. Ask Chandra Prasad in her book, Outlawing the Job Market, Everything
00:22:29.680 You Need to Locate and Land a Good Position. If the two of you share projects, attended the same
00:22:35.020 meeting, or otherwise interact during office hours, you'll want to be cautious about how you
00:22:39.480 behave around each other. Be careful about your superior subordinate relationships. If you're
00:22:45.140 smart, these relationships are some of the most successful. Twice as many marriages develop from
00:22:51.420 superior subordinate relationships and other pairings yeah because women love effing their 1.00
00:22:57.180 bosses when women f the people that work for them it's just not the same right um tv spitfire 1.00
00:23:06.960 chelsea handler told pierce morgan she doesn't regret sleeping with her boss chelsea handler 0.99
00:23:11.660 would say that even though it didn't work out between them i don't think it really matters if
00:23:16.880 you are in love with somebody and i was and it had nothing to do with him being my boss she said
00:23:21.460 It's just how we came together.
00:23:22.860 I mean, people are going to say whatever.
00:23:25.720 Do we even need to say it?
00:23:26.900 Avoid one-night stands.
00:23:28.540 Yeah, because if you're going to go for it, I say go for it. 0.81
00:23:31.200 You might as well get sex for a couple months. 1.00
00:23:33.940 If you need a little instant gratification, look beyond the cubicle next to yours, says 0.98
00:23:38.380 Luce.
00:23:38.920 It might seem obvious that a one-night stand with a co-worker is a bad idea, but after
00:23:43.720 work, happy hours and good conversations have been known to influence bad judgment.
00:23:49.140 Do you really want to go to work every day feeling too embarrassed to make eye contact
00:23:52.560 with the person sitting across from you at meetings?
00:23:55.100 We bet not.
00:23:57.320 Stay away from married co-workers. 1.00
00:23:59.300 Yeah, I mean, you guys are going to get shot if you keep sleeping with these women at work. 1.00
00:24:04.680 This one goes beyond for rules for the office.
00:24:08.120 The repercussions are not worth the risk.
00:24:09.940 Even so, in a Volt survey, 53% of office workers said they're aware of at least one married
00:24:15.940 co-worker who's had an affair in the office.
00:24:18.600 Someone in the chat said, are there men in this country who haven't slept with Chelsea Handler?
00:24:23.640 I don't think so.
00:24:25.020 I worked for two Fortune 500 companies for years, flying all over the country for meetings and events.
00:24:31.100 One survey participant told Vault it was almost a common practice with many of the men in highly responsible leadership roles
00:24:39.900 to be having side affairs with people they either met on the road or office people they met while traveling.
00:24:45.800 Some affairs lasted a short time where others went on for years.
00:24:50.300 But not everyone follows these rules.
00:24:52.920 That's the last comment.
00:24:53.960 Well, at least they know.
00:24:56.320 All right, we're going to watch a video.
00:24:58.660 And before I do, I need to make this full screen.
00:25:01.680 So bear with me.
00:25:03.560 You're going to have to hold on.
00:25:10.380 I need to make this full screen.
00:25:13.380 and i think it was i need you guys as help to tell me if this is the right um hooked it with
00:25:18.980 my co-worker don't i up i hooked it with my co-worker okay i need you guys to tell me
00:25:26.420 if this goes full screen i think it's cam four but i just want to make sure
00:25:38.980 can you guys see the screen
00:25:42.420 why is this live on the website i couldn't figure it out i'm sorry guys um let me see if this is
00:26:03.140 it's full screen okay now i can put on my headphones
00:26:07.540 yeah but no sound not yet because i haven't turned it on okay
00:26:12.420 All right, now we're going to watch. 0.90
00:26:15.320 I f***ed up. 0.97
00:26:16.140 I hooked up with my co-worker, dot, dot, dot, and I'm engaged. 0.98
00:26:21.780 My fiancé, let's call him Brian, and I are having a wedding in September.
00:26:26.100 However, in January, a new guy started at work.
00:26:29.060 Let's call him Sam.
00:26:30.580 And from the second I met him, I felt a spark.
00:26:33.020 Sam sits behind me in the office, so we'll often turn around and have office chat,
00:26:36.960 and it never felt flirty until a few weeks ago.
00:26:39.180 we were out at work at work drinks and ended up spending the whole night chatting and the two of
00:26:44.220 us closed down the bar from that night on i've been dreaming about this boy i don't really believe 0.99
00:26:49.100 that dreams have much meaning but to be dreaming about the same boy every night must mean shit 0.98
00:26:54.940 shit we had another work social where once again he and i spent most of the night chatting to each 0.99
00:27:00.380 other but this time he was more overly flirty we both left at the same time to catch the train and 0.98
00:27:07.180 And while we were on the escalator, he kissed me.
00:27:09.400 I guess my question is now, what do I do now?
00:27:11.480 I hooked up with Mike.
00:27:13.440 What would she do?
00:27:15.360 Should she just end it at this point, fellas? 0.85
00:27:19.220 All right, let me see back to, is it back on me now?
00:27:23.820 Pearl Reads, can we super chat here?
00:27:26.380 Yeah, you just put Pearl Reed. 1.00
00:27:28.020 I'm reading this chat.
00:27:29.000 I'm sorry, guys.
00:27:30.800 You just, this is the last day.
00:27:32.360 You just got to bear with me.
00:27:33.580 Um, sounds like Chelsea took the slow train from Philly. 1.00
00:27:40.700 Yeah.
00:27:41.480 Um, okay.
00:27:42.940 Next. 1.00
00:27:43.460 She just wants to have sex with a coworker. 1.00
00:27:47.000 All right. 1.00
00:27:47.840 So I remember this lady.
00:27:51.500 I really want to hook up with a coworker.
00:27:54.800 We've kind of had like an in-office flirtation for a while.
00:27:58.260 I love it.
00:27:58.720 And, but I'm not sure if the vibes are there and I want to make it very clear. 0.97
00:28:01.940 i do not want to date this man i just want to have sex with him for sure um i love that and 0.99
00:28:07.540 i've put it out there like i got really drunk and i texted him titties out thinking of you 0.99
00:28:14.180 wait i love that what was the context of that i was in france and i i don't know i've been
00:28:20.180 single for a while and i don't really like most people and i asked my friend's husband
00:28:26.100 what should i text this man that i just want to hook up with but i want him to know i don't want
00:28:30.340 want to like date him right and he said text him teddy is out thinking of you and so i did i texted
00:28:35.120 him teddy is out thinking of you and what did he respond he was like oh i'm booking my flight to
00:28:39.680 france right now oh great great so flirty but nothing ever came from that and i like to put
00:28:45.280 my on the table when it comes to this kind of stuff love but i just am not sure
00:28:50.160 should she do it fellas what do you think what are we thinking should she do it 0.99
00:28:57.800 all right now we got one more am i the asshole for sleeping with a co-worker and then i'm an 0.99
00:29:06.000 asshole for sleep god help me we're gonna do a call-in show god help me please please god 0.99
00:29:13.480 make this work i i promise nothing this is the last day i have to do this thank you god 0.90
00:29:20.060 okay otherwise i might have to do
00:29:23.320 sleeping with my co-worker i've been working at this company for about five years now
00:29:29.020 and i overall really like it recently i started to get kind of close with the co-worker i was
00:29:32.740 working on a project with i didn't know much about his home life or really much about him
00:29:36.660 but i just started to get a little bit of a crush we'd always go to dinner after work and get drinks
00:29:40.540 and we started to hook up pretty often we would always go to my house and never his which i
00:29:44.960 thought was really weird well his wife found out that we were sleeping together i had no idea that 0.69
00:29:50.500 had a wife either the next day my boss gets a call from his wife demanding that he fire me
00:29:56.260 for ruining their marriage and i guess going against company policy i really have always
00:30:00.740 loved this job and now my boss is super mad at me and is even thinking of firing me i find out 0.99
00:30:05.460 in a couple days if i am fired so am i the asshole in this situation i'm an ass cooked cooked okay 0.97
00:30:12.500 guys, I'm going to play a video for you guys to watch while I figure out this equipment. 0.99
00:30:30.980 It's going to take me a second. So what do I want to play? Maybe I've thought about one of these
00:30:38.600 days, but you guys need to pay me to do it. Look at this. Look at how many of these essays there
00:30:43.820 are on me on the internet. And that's nuts. Look at this. If I look up my name, essay,
00:30:49.700 this person had two hours on me. This one hour and 30 minutes. I'm like, do you guys have like
00:30:58.120 this girl? Wait, where are we at? I mean, H3, you guys saw that. Oh, here's another one. Two hours
00:31:07.660 in 20 minutes i'm like damn all i do is say my opinions on the internet it is not that deep uh 0.95
00:31:15.100 pearly things let's do um pre-game show let's see if there's an old clip we can play oh 0.75
00:31:31.660 actually no i don't want to play with youtube with that one
00:31:33.900 oh here we go you don't well i'm gonna we're gonna play this while i i get the zoom link going
00:31:41.720 do you but i'm not assuming that i'm not earning any money at this point and he's like i'm also
00:31:46.420 working and providing like equal yeah but men don't care about your money it's like nothing to 1.00
00:31:51.620 them yeah but we're talking about my opinion on it not their opinion no no but i'm saying you just
00:31:56.880 said that you would be working too and i'm saying to the guy like they wouldn't care
00:32:00.300 okay do you not do you not care I'm a little bit I mean I've been quite
00:32:05.760 fortunate to date girls that earn a decent amount of money especially when 1.00
00:32:09.000 I've been younger it is nice but it's not like I put it's not a it's not a
00:32:14.280 major deal do you mean like I could happily date a girl that works at 0.96
00:32:17.420 McDonald's if she was a nice girl okay what do you guys think that men look
00:32:22.380 for so if you had to list like five things that men look for what would you
00:32:25.920 say god I've really been out the game for a while so I think I'm not the right
00:32:29.300 has to ask. Yeah you're in it now so what do you, if you want to get this guy right you got to know
00:32:38.180 your target. I don't really care right now. Your mark or whatever. It's too soon. I'm working on me.
00:32:45.860 But you didn't learn anything about like what your husband liked if you were married that long?
00:32:50.180 Well not me. You didn't learn anything? How long were you married? Ten years. You were married to a
00:32:57.780 for 10 years you didn't learn anything about men clearly not because he left so um
00:33:06.420 i don't know i don't have to answer that question okay uh what do you think men want i think they 0.75
00:33:11.140 want a woman that gives them space to be them um i also think they were all right guys so we're
00:33:19.460 having a problem i don't know if this is gonna work um however i'm gonna see if i can find a
00:33:25.380 workaround i'm gonna try something right now i know i was a baby it's like two years ago okay um
00:33:35.860 i'm gonna see because
00:33:38.580 do you know what i think we're just i'm gonna do something weird i'm gonna make a google calendar
00:33:46.000 invite now the audio isn't gonna pick up all right guys i'm so sorry i don't know if this
00:33:55.220 is going to work. It's like the, my mouse, it's like not going to the other screen and I can't
00:34:03.360 get it to move. Um, let me see. I'm going to try one thing and if this doesn't work, we're just
00:34:11.520 cooked, cooked. Hmm. How can I do this in a different way?
00:34:25.940 all right doug mp i want you to go on this first to just see if this even works
00:34:32.900 i'm gonna send this to you
00:34:46.580 okay because if this audio works okay i'm gonna send it to your email
00:34:50.580 then i'll see if this like if you join and i'm going to see if the audio works because all we
00:34:59.860 need is audio i don't care as much about video um continue without using microphone and camera
00:35:07.740 i don't know if this will work yeah i need tech help um let me see
00:35:16.640 all right um
00:35:20.720 hey okay i can hear you but i don't think you're gonna be able to hear me
00:35:30.280 um do you want hello
00:35:33.680 allow this time hello can you hear me
00:35:38.160 can you hear me
00:35:41.120 hmm okay wait wait i might have a workaround because we can hear him i can't hear you on
00:35:48.680 the call though okay let me let me try this workaround i think i may be able to do it
00:35:55.380 from my phone for the audio so let's let's see where you are there's an echo echo i can
00:36:08.060 hear you now yeah but it's still not gonna work not gonna work because now we have two now we have
00:36:14.600 two okay that didn't work let me try can you guys hear if i put it on my phone
00:36:23.620 all right we talk now doug mpa hey can you guys hear me yeah okay i think this is just
00:36:32.420 we're gonna have to do it today um can you guys hear can you guys hear in the chat if we can do
00:36:39.460 it this way then we can use this link and then you guys can join this way if you can hear her say
00:36:46.820 like a good neighbor state farm is there oh my god i like dread the days i have to do these
00:36:54.900 um so how would people join then well i can use the same link there's like a google invite link
00:37:02.420 hold on i think i can do it i can do it now put in the chat so what's your have you ever slept
00:37:07.680 with anyone at work doug mpa um yeah i waited tables for eight years on and off and you know
00:37:16.080 guys i'm the one i told pearl about don't let your daughters work in a restaurant when they're young 0.99
00:37:24.380 if they're 18 19 20 21 they're gonna be getting banged by the servers and the cooks
00:37:30.040 yeah i was one of those two years at one time you didn't wife them after no no heck no uh a boss 0.82
00:37:39.860 so let me tell you a story so one of my my first job out of college was for um i worked for a state
00:37:49.160 agency in my home state and um we had a christmas party and i had my boss and then my um assistant
00:37:58.260 the supervisor and my assistant supervisor was this blonde girl that was like five foot two 1.00
00:38:03.320 but she had lost a bunch of weight through weight watchers and uh i mean she was like a five but she 0.99
00:38:10.300 was older she's like late 30s and i was like 28 right so we're at this christmas party and i go
00:38:17.880 to the bathroom this is when i had just got hired into this job it was like two three months in and
00:38:24.580 i'm i go to the bathroom and then i'm washing my hands and she because we had all been drinking
00:38:33.100 and stuff she comes into the assistant supervisor comes into the bathroom and closes the door 1.00
00:38:39.900 behind her and is looking at me now i had just started this job right so i was like hey and i'm
00:38:49.560 washing my hands and she's like hey and I just washed my hands dried them off I moved her out 0.99
00:38:55.840 of the way I opened the door and I left oh that has to be the most humbling moment of her life
00:39:04.300 yeah and so my good friend was like we saw this girl go in there while you were in there what
00:39:11.540 happened I said nothing I've only been working here two three months you know how hard it is 0.92
00:39:16.380 to get him with the state to get a state job i'm not messing up for her are you crazy and 0.97
00:39:22.860 it was actually turned out to be a good thing because she was a complete psychopath but yeah 1.00
00:39:27.340 she went into the bathroom after i was in there expecting something to happen i just moved her 1.00
00:39:32.240 aside and uh i left so who ended up doing it because somebody was gonna do it right
00:39:39.080 uh i didn't say long enough to find out oh okay
00:39:43.560 um do you know what i'm trying to think if i've seen
00:39:49.400 i don't think i've ever seen i mean i wasn't in like a traditional work environment very long
00:39:55.880 but i don't think i've ever seen like affairs or anything at work
00:39:59.240 i'm not saying they didn't happen i'm sure they did but i didn't know about it if they did
00:40:04.440 my um uh my twin brother aj's rants and raves he worked at at this retail store when we were
00:40:13.880 20 like a big one and the store manager was was 38 years old and was trying to sleep with all the
00:40:23.320 like teenage all this 18 19 17 year old boys and she and she bagged like three or four of them
00:40:29.320 before they ended up transferring her out of the store but she had her own apartment so she'd invite
00:40:34.260 all the young kids over and you know but she did her best to try to sleep with all the young um 1.00
00:40:39.220 all the young boys i think that women are more predatory than men yeah especially in 2025 100 1.00
00:40:46.700 true yeah 100 because there was a week there was a weekend last year where six women across the 1.00
00:40:54.720 united states the teacher they were all in positions of some kind of authority so teachers
00:40:59.380 coaches they all in one weekend you got arrested for sleeping with underage boys six in one weekend 0.98
00:41:06.800 holy shit yep guys in the chat call in let me know if you ever slept with a boss 1.00
00:41:16.660 we're dying to know do you think it's more common for women to sleep with male bosses 1.00
00:41:22.320 or men to sleep with female bosses uh i would say women now female bosses yeah i say female 1.00
00:41:33.340 bosses because men really have to be careful especially with social media and stuff but
00:41:37.920 people still don't believe that women do guys keep saying remember feminism women are nothing's 1.00
00:41:49.060 gonna be fair for men ever right so feminism is fighting for women to have their lives just as 1.00
00:41:55.140 unfair for them as it is for men right and so the next 10 15 years we're gonna see women crashing 1.00
00:42:04.320 out just like men the biggest problem though is we still have this weird thing where we see
00:42:10.200 uh stories of women being criminals and the news or predators we still have this well we have to
00:42:16.660 understand why she did that you know oh i can't believe she does a mom puts her kid in the 1.00
00:42:23.680 microwave and turns it on we have to understand why she did how could she do such a thing 1.00
00:42:29.320 a woman's engaged to be married and gets pregnant by her 15 year old student we have to understand
00:42:35.300 where she's coming from no we don't we're just as evil if not in 2025 i'd say women have as much 1.00
00:42:43.780 if not more of a proclivity to commit evil acts
00:42:47.180 because they are empowered to be like men,
00:42:49.260 but no one holds them accountable.
00:42:53.700 There's a clip going viral right now
00:42:56.000 that just I thought about when we were talking.
00:42:58.580 A Chicago woman led the police on a 40-mile-long chase 1.00
00:43:03.180 and then the cops flirted with her during questioning. 0.91
00:43:08.000 One cop even jokingly offered to drop the charges
00:43:11.720 after finding out she had a following on tiktok do you want to see it should i show it or no
00:43:18.700 should i wait different show okay okay okay i'll show it let's watch all right
00:43:25.160 10-15 years you can see more women positions of power politicians ceos and it doesn't matter 1.00
00:43:32.800 your gender race background positions of power people are tempted to abuse it and this myth
00:43:39.980 where women will just automatically be better in positions of power than men 1.00
00:43:43.960 because the women is a farce. 1.00
00:43:46.000 It's a farce.
00:43:47.140 Guys, if you want to call in, the link is pinned.
00:43:50.060 And I'm going to play this clip.
00:43:52.780 And then, yeah, I'll bring you guys up.
00:43:55.780 So just go in the waiting room, and then I'll let you guys up.
00:43:59.660 All right, Doug MP, I'm going to play this.
00:44:01.260 You're not going to see it on your thing.
00:44:02.960 You have to go to the stream.
00:44:05.260 Yeah, I'm on the stream.
00:44:06.500 Okay.
00:44:06.680 Space to the suburb.
00:44:07.960 Sky Fox captured the chase when it hit the Dan Ryan around 545 last night.
00:44:12.880 Police say Ebony Collins was driving the car and was caught after she pulled over on the shoulder of the highway.
00:44:18.620 You have the right to remain silent.
00:44:20.160 Anything you say can will be used against you.
00:44:23.520 In the court of law, you have the right to talk to a lawyer.
00:44:25.680 Have him or her present, right, while you're being questioned.
00:44:29.320 If you cannot afford a high lawyer, I want to be appointed to represent you before the questioning if you wish.
00:44:33.380 You understand those rights?
00:44:34.520 All right.
00:44:35.300 What's wrong with you?
00:44:36.680 Doug, you got to mute.
00:44:40.080 Doug and PA, you got to mute yourself.
00:44:43.240 Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
00:44:44.160 I want everyone to hear me.
00:44:46.020 Okay, hold on.
00:44:47.960 Stop saying that.
00:44:49.240 That's Doug and PA saying it.
00:44:51.020 I know.
00:44:51.620 She's kind of cute, though.
00:44:52.700 I see why they're falling. 1.00
00:44:53.980 I mean, 22-year-old, you know, 22-year-old pussy does a thing, 1.00
00:44:58.880 says, like, strange things to a man. 1.00
00:45:01.640 They're like, I would never do that until a 22-year-old flirts with them.
00:45:06.680 they've been dating these old broads they forgot what that's like you know what i mean 1.00
00:45:10.800 where where um this cop pulled this woman over who was attractive and the they were he was driving
00:45:22.180 her into the police station she's flirting with him the entire time so he pulls the car over and
00:45:28.160 he goes to get in the back seat to maybe do something and he locks himself inside the back
00:45:33.480 of the car with the woman and has to call backup and they have to let him out i haven't seen that
00:45:39.740 one you can find it next show maybe we could do a reaction series of like women getting arrested
00:45:48.020 okay hold on i want to play this again
00:45:51.060 oh my god the chat's like she didn't do nothing wrong guys get the f out of here 0.99
00:45:58.960 wait what'd you say what'd you say oh i watched body cam footage
00:46:28.680 all the time yeah because their channels where all they do is subpoena body cam footage and go
00:46:36.460 through it and post it online yep how how long ago did they start body cam footage
00:46:41.340 uh i'd say at least the last 10 years yeah 10 15 years at least to do a show
00:46:49.440 okay hold on yeah grab that photo over here done that before or is this just a first time skill
00:46:56.800 beginner's luck yeah i got that impression you remember us we're the initial two officers to
00:47:06.160 try to pull you over when you pull out of alta you're dating or something okay so they let you
00:47:16.320 borrow this car you took it out you're doing whatever you were doing did you say something 1.00
00:47:21.960 doug mpa oh no i said that you're gonna be um reacting to some female cops being idiots i call 1.00
00:47:31.240 them the ponytail patrol she's got a great body though i see why he folded 1.00
00:47:39.000 they black women really do have the best bodies like the waist to hip ratio 1.00
00:47:44.200 they really got it you know what i mean all right let me play the rest 0.96
00:47:47.640 I got to give you a little check over, but I'm not going to punch you anywhere.
00:48:15.000 sorry sorry you got to say it again i can't always i have the headphones on so i can't always hear 0.99
00:48:34.120 when you talk go ahead oh i said most of the time female police officers are kind of useless 1.00
00:48:40.520 but this is a time where you need one because these guys you need a female cop to pat this 1.00
00:48:45.480 woman down so these guys can can protect themselves yeah oh yeah because if they 0.99
00:48:51.560 do something yeah they'll catch a case yeah okay hold on
00:49:10.520 I'll sit in the back with her.
00:49:13.440 You'll sit in the back?
00:49:14.200 Yeah.
00:49:14.580 Okay.
00:49:17.140 Yeah, we'll go back.
00:49:19.900 Go to back.
00:49:21.160 We'll be like, listen, your honor.
00:49:22.940 We don't even think that he did it.
00:49:25.140 I mean, she did it.
00:49:26.980 We don't even...
00:49:27.480 Sorry, what'd you say?
00:49:30.060 What did she get arrested for?
00:49:31.460 A high-speed chase?
00:49:32.260 Yeah, for...
00:49:33.280 I think it says a 40-mile-long chase.
00:49:37.520 so she dragged these cops around for 40 miles and they're not even like taking it seriously
00:49:43.440 i'm not nuts
00:49:46.320 okay let me play again even the thing she did you know what i mean that's usually what we
00:49:52.960 start with because we give everybody the benefit of the doubt and i don't even think you did it
00:49:56.160 i mean i know you did it but i didn't get it i don't take time what are you doing first of all
00:50:03.080 Hold on, what'd you say? I said we should go to the call-in portion because it is I can't hear the sound. Can you?
00:50:11.600 Yeah, I can hear it. Okay, maybe they can do okay
00:50:21.740 Don't tell me
00:50:25.500 So they're talking about our tik-tok followers now
00:50:33.080 10 000 on tick tock whatever it doesn't you know it could be boxed but if they're organic if they're
00:50:38.680 real people it's real i have two words for me for you child i love china man i love tick tock
00:50:51.880 yeah so they're they're asking her about the oh my gosh i forgot to change the cameras but
00:50:58.200 But, I mean, you guys get the idea.
00:51:01.280 Women don't have consequences for anything. 1.00
00:51:05.140 Guys, call in, though.
00:51:06.420 Let me know your boss stories.
00:51:08.640 The link is pinned in the chat.
00:51:14.800 I want to see, have you guys slept with a boss?
00:51:18.160 And it's all audio today because it's on my phone.
00:51:21.500 Tech issues, man.
00:51:23.780 I do the best I can.
00:51:25.500 This is the last day.
00:51:28.200 um doug mpa since we're on um on the topic i'm just curious your thoughts on the did you see
00:51:42.160 the what do you call it the track meet thing where the kid got stabbed at a track meet
00:51:47.560 yeah uh-huh what are your thoughts on it um so the guy was sitting on the opposite team's
00:51:59.700 bleachers and he had a weapon on him so he has no case and the black community is hopping on 0.99
00:52:07.480 this kid's side they shouldn't well you really shouldn't you don't think that because it's
00:52:15.100 politicized he could get off well he he's gonna serve time but not as much as he should yeah
00:52:23.980 he's not gonna get off he's gonna get like a reduced sentence but and then if this were the
00:52:31.480 other way around it would be all over the place it would be just nuclear but it's a but there's
00:52:38.020 there's a double standard in this case and and just like that um you have the naacp and all
00:52:44.660 of people hopping behind the wrong person what do you what do you think the length of his sentence
00:52:51.600 will be he's probably gonna get eight to ten i'll bet okay yeah you heard it here but yeah
00:53:00.100 the whole thing you know guys most of us have gotten bullied in high school but we sucked it
00:53:06.300 up there's no excuse especially when you're in high school to freaking uh to take somebody out
00:53:13.560 no reason guys nothing should be worthy your freedom i i remember you my dad when i was young
00:53:21.480 because we just got watching so we just got done watching some movie and i told my dad i was like
00:53:27.020 hey dad what would you do if you came home and you saw mom cheating with with another guy my dad
00:53:32.080 said i'd pack my stuff up and i'd leave and i was like oh you wouldn't you know beat the guy up and
00:53:37.980 whatever my dad's like no and go to jail for that and that should be a general rule in your life
00:53:44.860 guys nothing should be worth your freedom and this kid made that mistake just take a picture for court
00:53:53.820 take a pull out your camera say thank you i'm gonna go file today
00:54:00.860 if he was getting bullied like that you know there's so many different avenues nowadays he
00:54:05.420 he could have started going to school online he could have gone to a different school
00:54:09.820 you know or he could have entered a situation without a weapon on him
00:54:15.500 you know what i'm saying but when he brought a weapon over sorry premeditated
00:54:26.460 cooked i'm not getting any other callers
00:54:31.260 oh wait we got someone
00:54:32.620 Oh, what's going on, Dustin?
00:54:37.740 Oh, it's fast.
00:54:38.560 Hey.
00:54:38.980 Hey, Pearl. 0.89
00:54:40.660 I know you've hooked up with a boss.
00:54:43.160 I just know it.
00:54:44.880 I just...
00:54:45.620 What are you doing, buddy?
00:54:48.240 It's the best form of job security.
00:54:54.520 So you said hooking up with a boss is the best form of job security.
00:54:59.540 Yeah.
00:55:00.020 like yeah like obviously i don't think all the time but yeah probably in like the service industry
00:55:07.140 but i've had some really cool jobs like um i was a mall cop for a minute and what how was that
00:55:16.380 dude it was like it's real silly because i'm wearing like this fake
00:55:21.020 uniform you know but for some reason the other gives a flashlight
00:55:28.040 yeah pretty much dude they give me a good place and i worked at this this mall in a place called
00:55:35.080 harrisburg which is over in pennsylvania yeah i've been there like hood city rough and um harrisburg
00:55:44.360 was the murder capital of the united states like three years in a row and like the early 0.57
00:55:48.280 like the late 2000s or something like that it was crazy go ahead because uh it was kind of
00:55:52.200 boas street but yeah like and my dad my dad's actually a cop over there and so that's how i
00:55:58.120 got into the whole mall cop gig and uh even though the uniform is fake oh thank you thank you um
00:56:10.840 the people that work in the stores think like oh a uniform is something great
00:56:17.000 so you know i went through like the girls that worked at these little clothing shops and stuff 0.57
00:56:21.960 you know and then i actually i had like i've had you asked if you think men sleep with female bosses 1.00
00:56:32.040 more or girls sleep with the male bosses more and then hang on okay hey oh it's because he's hungry
00:56:42.920 sorry my daughter caught a bug and she's freaking out about it but um uh i actually had i've had
00:56:49.960 like problems with female bosses that i had this boss and i worked at dairy queen that made things 1.00
00:56:56.680 so uncomfortable that other people complained about it like i thought it was really strange
00:57:03.880 but i was like she's just an old lady like if i like i didn't really take it seriously but she
00:57:10.440 would say some pretty vulgar things what would she say she would be like dustin will you just 0.97
00:57:17.160 run away with me and like we can just be together forever type stuff and um like she grabbed my 0.96
00:57:24.440 she grabbed my butt once like man i i say hey man like every now and then like you know i've wanted 0.90
00:57:31.480 to cop a few before on some other people but i never did but you know i said if you're like 50 0.98
00:57:36.280 and she does it i'm not i'm not like mad like if this is the best part of her day you know good for
00:57:41.240 her but you know that's just what i that's how i felt at the time and um that went up to like
00:57:49.880 corporate and stuff and i was like it made me feel uncomfortable i didn't do anything about it i i
00:57:55.240 didn't think she should have been punished so like she kept her job and and then i got a raise so it 0.69
00:58:01.080 was cool so did you ever sleep with a female boss like what job was it i slept with it was 1.00
00:58:10.920 was when i was in a casino and then i worked at victoria's secret seasonally one year and i got
00:58:18.200 that go man that must have been you bro it was it was down bro okay so they don't let men on the
00:58:25.880 floor there's only one store in the victoria's secret brand or franchise that where men measure
00:58:32.580 the women that's in new york city that that i don't know if it still is but it used to be an 1.00
00:58:36.760 all-male store so i was only in overnight and uh there was a manager who was the bra specialist
00:58:46.200 that i was with for a period of time and then i moved to washington state so that relationship
00:58:53.160 ended but um uh yeah that was victoria's secret was cool because obviously you're with beautiful 0.57
00:59:00.360 women all the time and they were beautiful then hang on hang on yeah not so much anymore now they 1.00
00:59:06.680 have whales yeah dude they hire they hire like they hire guys they like they don't have their
00:59:13.980 team anymore we'll say so have you ever been in a situation where you slept with someone at work
00:59:21.660 and it went wrong oh yeah i was i was bartending at this little at this little tap house on the
00:59:30.940 waterfront over here in Vancouver.
00:59:33.640 And there was a girl that like, um, what is she, she like really came on to me.
00:59:43.480 And then I was like, okay, but I was like, I did like her.
00:59:48.700 I just didn't want to be in the relationship she wanted to be in.
00:59:52.360 And she would, she got like hostile at work and she started like after work,
00:59:57.120 she would just be real aggressive and she would like play hit me but she hit me hard and like not 1.00
01:00:04.240 that it hurt but i was like you know when someone's playing with you and then when someone's
01:00:08.040 like trying to prove a point right like and it uh so that was actually the reason i left that job
01:00:15.760 was i was like this woman it just it was it was so strange so and uh what are your rules you know
01:00:24.540 I haven't slept around at work.
01:00:26.060 Do you have rules you recommend for guys where if you're going to sleep around at work, what would you, would you say don't do it?
01:00:33.720 Would you say if you do it, make sure you have this in place or what?
01:00:37.840 I'd say if you do it, make sure you got a, make sure you got a big jaw on.
01:00:41.060 Because if you got a small one, it's going to travel.
01:00:43.760 That's it.
01:00:45.480 There's going to be rumors about you and no one's going to like you.
01:00:47.660 so uh i had so when i was an undergrad i waited tables at an applebee's and now i like tall women 1.00
01:00:56.640 and and i like redheads right and and so i met this girl who was six foot tall 1.00
01:01:04.820 and she was half irish and half korean so she was six foot she's pale but no freckles 0.99
01:01:12.400 she had the asian eyes but her eyes were green and she had that thick coarse asian woman hair 1.00
01:01:19.000 but it was like stark red right she's like yeah yeah she was a hostess while i was a server right 1.00
01:01:26.700 and then we were to the same school together and she was the first person where all my friends had
01:01:32.500 to say doug and pia you guys start bringing her around she's crazy because when we were at my
01:01:37.260 house and in bed everything was good but every other part of my life she set on fire we worked 1.00
01:01:42.700 together and we went to school together so she'd start fight at the beginning of the shift and then 0.99
01:01:47.520 trying to punish me by not seating people in my section right
01:01:51.660 where she would um where she would skip her classes at school and way outside my classes 1.00
01:02:00.160 crazy man yeah yeah i worked there for seven months before i moved on to a better restaurant
01:02:06.660 but i we were together for four and a half five months i had to let her go i was like 0.93
01:02:10.980 because my friends were like you you gotta let her go man she's crazy absolutely crazy but she 1.00
01:02:15.940 was absolutely gorgeous though was it worth it in hindsight though like because she was that hot 1.00
01:02:21.860 no oh you wouldn't it it was a tough couple of um i was i worked two jobs i went to school full time
01:02:32.740 and and i used to go to the gym five days a week so i'd only see outside of work i'd only see her 1.00
01:02:37.700 like two days out of the week so two days of sex for that hell oh man i don't know it wasn't worth
01:02:43.540 it at all nope so i mean the bible says like you can't it's you can't follow like a contemptuous 0.63
01:02:51.620 woman or something yeah it's better to live on the roof than in a house with a contentious woman 1.00
01:02:58.180 and uh they are dude they because we always think it's worth it in the moment and we'll never be
01:03:04.980 able to look back and be like in the moment we're not thinking like five years from now
01:03:08.660 i'm going to think this was ridiculous you know yeah
01:03:11.220 that's how it goes any other stories you got for us dustin
01:03:19.420 um well i mean i got plenty of stories pearl but there's there's like uh
01:03:27.320 I don't want to spoil the apple, you know.
01:03:32.280 Okay.
01:03:32.800 I'm going to leave on a good note.
01:03:34.500 All right.
01:03:35.320 Go ahead.
01:03:36.460 I'm going to write a book one day and sell it.
01:03:39.020 So he doesn't want to give away all this stuff before the book is written, right?
01:03:44.080 Yeah, actually, I do.
01:03:45.300 I write poems about women after I sleep with them. 1.00
01:03:48.080 That's one of my selling points is I say I'll write a poem about you, but you got to get in bed with me.
01:03:51.940 Wait, do you really?
01:03:53.920 Yeah.
01:03:55.100 Wait, show us a poem.
01:03:56.700 Show it.
01:03:57.320 oh okay i mean i really can oh thank you who is this guy
01:04:07.160 okay yo these palms are fire um
01:04:17.080 there's be a second i gotta pull it up because i used to i used to have this thing called a wattpad
01:04:23.000 that i would write and put things out there um but then i was like poetry is just
01:04:29.720 comedy without a punch line so i don't know if it's really good you know
01:04:35.080 okay i can't believe uh all right oh my gosh dude
01:04:43.240 i can't believe i'm gonna share one of these oh man i have a folder in my drive called
01:04:49.240 stories about women so i got i got plenty but let's go
01:04:55.600 this one's my favorite
01:04:59.740 so i i like i i was shagging this chick that had a real nice voice that it just felt good you know
01:05:07.840 and you heard it some people just have real nice voices so i wrote a ray of sun forces through
01:05:13.040 slits of faded white blinds giving light to the aloe plant on the sill above my kitchen sink
01:05:19.400 almost having a watchful eye the aloe plant is generous it says take from my arms i will take
01:05:25.040 your burns and rid you of your cuts if there was such a thing called a soft knife i would use it
01:05:30.040 to remove the light green skin of the aloe leaf to brush the healing gel from its body as i
01:05:34.940 graciously apply what is willfully given i whisper thank you and that was one
01:05:40.160 it's just called al in my kitchen and do you read these to the woman oh no 0.98
01:05:48.460 i do if i'm trying to get laid again and they like kind of like leave me
01:05:53.220 oh that's so funny it's probably like 20 oh man only 20 is maybe maybe they're like
01:06:10.000 i didn't like my poem i was dating this chick from angola that was from uh like she was just 1.00
01:06:22.560 a stunner dude and i wrote this poem about how like her body was so beautiful and it like uh 0.98
01:06:31.200 it related to like a desert or something and i gave that one to her but then she became a stripper 1.00
01:06:38.200 and moved to florida okay but yeah i mean if guys ever want to get laid there's two things
01:06:49.720 you should probably do is you need to learn a little bit of another language
01:06:52.700 and then you need to write some poetry
01:06:56.760 wow i'm sure the men in the chat appreciate that
01:07:02.820 what language do you recommend well just because there's a lot of spanish people over here
01:07:10.520 um i i know a good bit of spanish but i know okay i know i know i know a lot of french
01:07:18.380 like french is french is my favorite language and people are more impressed by french anyways so
01:07:23.320 guys if you have a story make sure you click the link it's a google link so you need a
01:07:33.760 gmail account or something i think
01:07:36.160 all right okay i'm gonna go get your bottle okay well thanks for calling in dustin you're
01:07:42.640 hilarious as always call it anytime thank you guys have a great have a great night i'll just
01:07:48.600 keep listening bye bye
01:07:53.320 how likely is it that so if a guy wrote you a poem pearl like
01:07:59.880 oh it would work would that get in brownie points with you yeah it would work it would be
01:08:03.980 you guys are like pearl pearl pearl but you say all this stuff about women aren't you a woman yes
01:08:13.260 how do you think i know
01:08:17.260 so so are you a flowers person girl like you like receiving flowers and stuff
01:08:25.600 no not really not flowers i'm like a normal woman we don't like flowers
01:08:31.000 yeah all women like flowers come on now no we don't we like tell that's how we 1.00
01:08:36.140 filter for betas because like only the betas are dumb enough to do it and then we break up with you 0.99
01:08:41.140 i don't think it's conscious but like women always dump the guys that get them flowers 1.00
01:08:49.880 like it's true i could say like the most like financially extravagant date i've ever like
01:08:56.500 been on i ended that relationship so you know i cannot argue with you there yeah
01:09:03.940 what what what do you find works the best on women um 1.00
01:09:11.580 so well listening we keep a woman talking about herself guys oh that's so true if you go out on a 1.00
01:09:24.600 date don't talk about yourself ask her questions and let her go on and on and on the that's a big
01:09:31.760 one and then um what's worked for me is getting dragged to something that if you if she shares
01:09:42.480 her passion with you and you fake with being interested I had a woman on a third date drag 1.00
01:09:49.900 me to a book convention that would work on me yeah so I had to spend all day at this book
01:10:00.600 convention and there were these authors like doing interviews and talking and I had no idea
01:10:05.580 who these people were and it was seven hours of my life I couldn't get back but then we went to
01:10:12.120 dinner and then I got laid that night so it was totally worth it yeah that word that's that's
01:10:19.560 probably the best one you've ever said especially if it's a hobby that like other people think is 0.95
01:10:24.660 stupid and you get like okay tell me as a guy would it work if the because i feel like men 0.75
01:10:33.340 like they kind of want to like i almost feel like if you tag along to your guy's hobby that he does 1.00
01:10:40.680 with other guys like you kind of drag it down like no guy wants his girlfriend at video game night
01:10:46.080 you know with the boys or do you disagree yeah well you know why right right it's because women 1.00
01:10:53.140 expect they go into a space expecting the space to accommodate them they don't want to accommodate
01:11:01.060 into the space so example you have um you know every sunday night you and your boys get together
01:11:08.260 to watch you know the freaking seahawks or the steelers and then you start bringing your girl 0.69
01:11:14.360 and all of a sudden the tv is too loud why does he have to smoke a cigar in here what kind of
01:11:20.860 beer you guys why do you drink so much so then all of a sudden everything has to change has to
01:11:26.860 start changing around that's why guys don't like when women come because women want to change 1.00
01:11:33.720 everything around that's why yeah hold dog i don't know what to do next we don't have any other
01:11:41.320 callers what do you think you should be on the show or what yeah yeah yeah i think so sorry for
01:11:49.040 the tech issues today guys if if my producer can come in tomorrow i might do an extra show tomorrow
01:11:54.880 just because um of the issues we had today but oh oh we got one
01:12:04.160 gabe what's going on man
01:12:14.320 you don't have to put a camera on just unmute
01:12:19.080 i'll do it for 15 more minutes i mean it's fine i could go another hour
01:12:26.820 but you guys just gotta call in i can't you gotta help me help you here
01:12:32.220 we can hear you gabe okay what's the topic gabe have you ever slept with a co-worker or a female 0.99
01:12:42.120 boss hell fucking no and why not 0.99
01:12:48.640 i just didn't want to cross that line have you ever seen someone that's done it at work no 0.99
01:13:02.220 okay you've never seen it nope okay the opportunity has never presented itself
01:13:12.560 nope most of my co-workers have all been boomers
01:13:17.600 okay well thanks for calling one last thing okay go ahead go ahead that that suit and that red tie
01:13:28.320 that you've seen me wear before i call that my uh feminist repellent suit because of the red tie 1.00
01:13:35.360 and navy blue cool yeah okay it actually works really well well keep repelling them gabe thanks
01:13:44.280 so much for calling in man all right all right good to see you buddy
01:13:47.920 i was like i was waiting for the story
01:13:57.540 i'm like well i guess not um go ahead what's been your favorite reaction that you've done so far
01:14:05.880 this week um do you know oh i have a reaction idea but but i do think that um the the women 1.00
01:14:21.680 getting divorced and regretting it was pretty funny but i was thinking we should react to
01:14:27.280 muscular women who ruin their bodies wouldn't that be a good one like like like a string of 1.00
01:14:34.140 tiktoks of women coping that their muscles look good do you know i'm talking about when they get 0.97
01:14:38.680 super jacked yeah yeah because there's so i was showing pearl the difference between a bikini
01:14:48.240 competition and like bodybuilding because i said that pearl should try it and do like a bikini 1.00
01:14:52.800 competition but she's like oh they all look like men and she's showing all these bodybuilding
01:14:57.840 photos i was like no that's not what bikini competition who we got john all right good how
01:15:07.000 are you
01:15:07.600 so did did you did you hook up with your boss or someone at work you got a story for me
01:15:16.960 i do have a story for you all right um
01:15:22.480 you gotta realize bro i'm a little older
01:15:27.660 can you come a little closer to the mic if possible there's no video so don't worry about
01:15:36.320 that but if you can get a little closer to the microphone okay can you hear me now i can't it's
01:15:42.320 a little muffled is it are you on your phone no i'm in my office oh okay okay keep going oh there
01:15:50.320 you go okay go ahead okay so basically when i first started working everybody used to date everybody
01:16:02.240 okay and so what ended up happening
01:16:12.320 go ahead oh you muted on accident i think what what what industry are you in
01:16:20.960 i am in i'm in the event in the what i'm in the event well at the time i was in outdoor
01:16:28.800 advertising okay oh sales people oh yeah okay keep going okay so um my story was one day i actually
01:16:39.360 we walked into one of the other bosses' office
01:16:42.600 and caught him and his secretary doing the thing.
01:16:50.580 And what happened?
01:16:52.380 Did anything, like, any lawsuit?
01:16:54.240 Did they stay together?
01:16:56.880 No lawsuit.
01:16:57.820 In fact, they...
01:17:02.820 Okay.
01:17:05.040 Go ahead.
01:17:05.920 We can hear you.
01:17:06.640 Go ahead.
01:17:08.560 All right.
01:17:09.020 So, I mean, I'm getting two or three different lines or something.
01:17:21.220 You might have the show running in the background.
01:17:25.160 Oh.
01:17:25.960 So you might want to ask out of the show if it's, like, running.
01:17:29.680 On YouTube?
01:17:30.480 Yeah, if YouTube's still going.
01:17:32.500 If you're here, too, that's probably why.
01:17:34.280 okay i i lost you i can hear you oh yeah okay so what ended up happening was
01:17:48.540 these people you know everybody was doing everybody and it was no big deal
01:17:59.820 and so when did you notice that the culture shifted
01:18:03.300 oh geez the cult the culture started to shift in the late 80s and at that time there was a big case
01:18:14.900 in southern california uh that's where i lived and it was of a female boss if you can believe that 1.00
01:18:21.480 who you know threatened a guy with his job you know if he didn't do the deed with her of course
01:18:28.220 she did and then i guess she finally fired him when she got tired of him and then it was a big
01:18:34.580 court case but after that the you the attitudes in the workplace started to change you know and
01:18:42.120 then guys started getting fired because guys welcome to go ahead okay and people started
01:18:50.320 getting fired and that's when the attitudes changed and now i mean you i wouldn't even think
01:18:58.420 of dating somebody i work with that's like a big no-no i mean i don't even quite honestly even
01:19:05.740 though there are a lot of really attractive women around here you know i can't talk to them 1.00
01:19:10.620 unless i have a business reason to talk to them i'm so scared of a lawsuit happening um
01:19:18.760 you know i i am in the event in the event business and we produce shows and and we have a big sport
01:19:26.860 book and so there have been some issues with some of the professional football teams that we do
01:19:32.460 business with uh you know where somebody just looked at somebody wrong and we had to have you
01:19:40.460 know an hr meeting and uh sexual harassment training and we had to confirm with our vendor
01:19:47.360 or a customer that you know everybody is is compliant with the new training so yeah i
01:19:54.580 would never ever in a million years consider dating somebody i worked with
01:20:00.160 and did you ever see it go wrong for anyone around you like dating someone at work
01:20:06.840 uh yes i have uh in fact um the smart thing okay i'm gonna share this with you so
01:20:19.260 you know i hire and fire most of the people that work at this this company i'm the chief operating
01:20:26.000 officer and so it came to my attention that a project manager and one of the technical crew
01:20:33.700 you know we're having a relationship and I go relationship be more specific and you know then
01:20:42.160 they just laid it out you know that they were doing the deed and so I ended up having I call
01:20:49.340 our insurance company who recommended they asked me well are they bought a supervisor subordinate
01:20:57.060 and I said no because well that's that's that works in your favor he goes what you can do
01:21:03.020 is you can have them both sign a relationship agreement basically absolving the company of any
01:21:10.620 wrongdoing so i did i actually had our lawyer drop a relationship agreement which basically stated
01:21:19.340 that nobody got that they didn't enter this relationship because they were going to get a
01:21:24.060 raise or they were going to move up in the company and that these two people decided
01:21:28.380 to enter into this relationship on their own accord so the funny part about it was
01:21:35.900 they didn't think that anybody at the company knew and so i had each supervisor bring the
01:21:43.100 people into uh the conference room and and pearl if you could have seen the look on their faces
01:21:51.900 it was it was beautiful i mean i almost i it was everything i could do to keep myself from
01:21:59.660 busting up laughing you know i had to be professional about this so we're sitting
01:22:05.800 there and like this poor girl i felt bad for her her she was the project manager and the guy just
01:22:11.980 threw his hands up and sat down i just they knew and i just said okay it's come to my attention
01:22:18.940 that the two of you are having a relationship uh what you do on your own time i really don't care
01:22:24.860 i go but when you're in the workplace it can have an effect on people and so i need you to
01:22:30.780 to sign this relationship what do you mean a relationship agreement well basically the two
01:22:36.060 of you entered into this relationship of your own free will and that the company had nothing to do
01:22:41.180 with it you're not getting a raise or anything like that i said this is the best thing that i
01:22:46.780 can do versus terminating both of you and that's what you know the attorney uh our our law labor
01:22:54.380 attorney he told me i should fire both of them immediately but then of course that creates a
01:23:01.040 whole nother cascade of issues especially when you when you're in the state of california which
01:23:08.480 is so litigious so yes do not date somebody you work with and so what ended up happening 1.00
01:23:17.320 they signed it and it was all good or what okay you're this it gets even better okay so
01:23:25.820 if it gets better why are we stopping the story all right so anyways they both signed this
01:23:32.560 agreement word spreads around the company they're all embarrassed you know the guy's kind of like a
01:23:38.800 hero for the younger crew guys okay all right man you got big lizan her name was uh how how old was 1.00
01:23:45.900 the guy and the girl uh she was probably in her late 20s and he was he was in his mid-20s so she
01:23:55.300 was almost 30 and he was about 25 okay and they were both really attractive people you know i mean
01:24:02.080 if i was a girl i would have wanted to have dated him um and you know she was very attractive she 1.00
01:24:08.000 was half german and half filipino so she had that eurasian thing going um and so finally he leaves
01:24:19.580 the company and then she starts i don't know one day she had an emotional breakdown at work and 0.61
01:24:25.820 came into my office crying oh my god you know she started crying and telling me about all the stuff
01:24:32.900 that's going on in her life and i'm like i really don't want to well i didn't say that but this is
01:24:38.760 what i'm thinking i don't want to hear this yes and so you know i said listen and you seem very
01:24:45.260 upset why don't i just take you home you know i'll drive you home you know you can call up an uber
01:24:51.920 the company will reimburse you you can come back pick up the car later she goes okay okay
01:24:57.920 so i put her in my car and i drive her home and i go do you want me to is there anything
01:25:04.480 else i can do for you she goes yeah um you know my fiance is inside that house so
01:25:13.040 he's probably gonna wonder why you're bringing me home i said your fiance
01:25:17.600 she's like yeah i go but you're in a relationship with i'm just gonna use an an acronym this jordan
01:25:27.840 she goes yeah i know this girl was a total mess here she is having a relationship with one of 1.00
01:25:35.200 our workers and she's engaged to be married living in this guy's house well no wonder she was going 1.00
01:25:41.040 nuts but um so yeah that was the end of the story and she has it on paper like agreed that there is
01:25:49.620 a did the fiancee know or no uh no he did not know um and nor did I ever get a phone call from
01:25:58.040 him asking me why'd you bring Lysanne home uh you know I don't know what she told him or what
01:26:05.020 happened i just i just thought to myself that poor guy you know i this is why i never you know i never
01:26:12.780 got married and you know everybody you know back when i was in your age group people used to think
01:26:20.140 oh what are you gay like no i'm not gay i go i just i just don't see the value in being married 0.90
01:26:28.860 anyways i was kind of ahead of the curve on that in that regard i suppose um because what what's 0.91
01:26:38.620 funny is all the people i grew up with they're all now divorced and how old are you if you don't mind
01:26:46.060 me asking i'm 63. and do you know anyone that isn't divorced and like you would say happy
01:26:55.180 okay i i know two people
01:27:00.860 from my high school from my senior high school class that are still married but i don't know
01:27:10.060 that i would classify it as happy i uh they put on a very good face
01:27:16.300 um and you know like their facebook page is this that and the other but i i've learned from my
01:27:23.940 experience in life that you know when people make a a point to show how happy they are they're not
01:27:31.540 that leads me to believe that they're miserable and they're yeah exactly and by the way pro i
01:27:37.900 love your show and thank you for being an advocate for men well thank you so much and thanks for
01:27:44.360 calling in um this is a hilarious story so please call in again um go ahead i will i will and by the
01:27:51.620 oh i love the one that you i especially love the stuff you you were doing about um women in the
01:28:00.620 church yeah that's my favorite topic well you i got a fun well if you want me i'll give you a
01:28:10.040 couple more minutes and tell you a fun story about that sure so there's a church in southern
01:28:16.500 california it's called mariner's church and
01:28:24.340 you know i i grew up in the church i grew up in a pentecostal evangelical church went to
01:28:32.180 christian high school you know this is why it's so funny because everybody in my christian high
01:28:37.860 school class just about they're all divorced except for two people um and they're all saying
01:28:43.620 you're the smartest one in the class there was a reason i was valedictorian anyways um
01:28:51.940 so i go to this church because i kind of went full circle you know in terms of walking away
01:29:01.860 turning my back on my faith and just living in the world and doing what only to find out
01:29:07.540 i don't know i come full circle i'm back in the faith so i thought well i need to go find
01:29:14.100 myself a good christian girl to get married to right wrong okay so um you know i end up
01:29:26.260 they they had this uh just imagine a big hall like a basketball gym size hall and we had this
01:29:37.540 bible studies that we had in there and it was called micah 6-8 and um so they had men men groups
01:29:49.340 and female groups and they're you know everybody in there would be studying the same curriculum 0.79
01:29:54.680 and then afterwards it was like a big social hour and so you know they elected me to be social
01:30:02.540 director i was like okay i'll be social director what what girls do you guys want to meet because
01:30:08.980 i'm pretty i'm pretty aggressive pretty assertive and so i would go around whatever table had the
01:30:18.520 girls the guys wanted to date in our group i went to and arranged what they called uh i don't know
01:30:27.020 what you i forget what they call but basically those two groups will get together and have an
01:30:31.720 outing if you will so like all the guys and girls would have an opportunity to chit chat and get to
01:30:37.700 know each other you know possibly strike up a relationship and so through that i ended striking
01:30:48.140 up more than one relationship um which you know i felt bad about and so you know i broke it off
01:30:56.260 with the one girl but then the other girl found about it then all of a sudden I had this reputation
01:31:01.780 that I was a wolf amongst sheep and it just got it was it was bad and so how many girls did you
01:31:11.020 date in the two oh that's it yeah oh I thought you were gonna say so you dated two women 0.91
01:31:18.000 and they get that gave you a wolf reputation i would have thought like five
01:31:23.700 well i could i had the opportunity to do that but there were two girls i was trying to decide 1.00
01:31:31.260 which one i liked better so i was kind of and they were all in this micah 6-8 thing so
01:31:37.580 yeah i had to leave the church eventually but um so what ended up
01:31:44.920 so there was a handful of guys in there that weren't afraid to go up and talk to women
01:31:52.340 and then there were a lot of i guess you would call them betas you call them simps
01:31:59.400 you know i could i just i used to call them caspar milquetoast i don't know if you're
01:32:06.600 familiar with caspar milquetoast uh caspar milquetoast is a comic from the 50s about a guy
01:32:14.860 who had a yellow a yellow streak and everybody walked all over him it was just kind of a you
01:32:21.160 know a humorous thing so i used to tell him you guys are caspar milquetoast so these guys so a
01:32:27.800 lot of these women weren't getting asked out and so they brought all everybody in there and they 1.00
01:32:34.480 brought they brought the assistant pastor in there and he was giving all us men a talk and
01:32:40.960 this and that and blah blah blah i raised my hand and i said whoa i can i say something
01:32:48.200 and they go sure john what do you have to say i said i go what i'm saying is that
01:32:55.620 the reason that these guys aren't asking these girls out anymore is because they get pounded on
01:33:03.340 because they say no because one we're in newport beach they don't make enough money
01:33:08.420 and they only want the you know the five or six guys that got cash so how is that any different
01:33:16.120 from the women out in the world that created such a hoopla but i wasn't you know my feeling was i'm
01:33:26.040 not going to be pushed around i don't care if it is the pastor of the church or the assistant
01:33:30.880 wait so what did they say oh it created a big scene you know and you know
01:33:37.700 come talk to him he said john he goes you know i know you're a good guy and you know you love the
01:33:45.540 lord and all this i go but you can't be saying that kind of stuff in church i go but it's true
01:33:50.400 i go the reason that the guys these other guys don't ask these girls out anymore
01:33:55.740 is because, you know, they want somebody that's driving a Porsche,
01:34:00.160 you know, wearing a Rolex, and, you know, sporting seven figures.
01:34:06.280 And I go, and I said, and I'm going to ask you,
01:34:09.500 how is that any different than the world?
01:34:11.120 Well, now they don't even need money.
01:34:12.940 They just need clout, so it's too bad.
01:34:15.280 Wrong era, right?
01:34:16.120 That's way easier.
01:34:17.220 Just buy some followers.
01:34:19.920 So, well, I believe in my faith.
01:34:24.180 i think that a lot of women in the church i think you're absolutely correct that they're hiding 0.99
01:34:30.760 behind this guise of uh the proverbs 30 is proverbs 39 have you read the book of proverbs
01:34:39.260 i'm not that religious but i i i mean i've read parts of it sorry god i'm gonna recommend
01:34:49.640 uh you know what i'll send you a p.m when i find the check there's a chapter about what
01:35:00.200 what the godly woman is and of course the women today aren't any of those things 1.00
01:35:06.480 which is funny so um and anyhow i just personally believe that our society or
01:35:16.600 or as I should say, the social engineer elitists
01:35:20.060 have made it almost impossible to have a relationship.
01:35:25.980 I mean...
01:35:26.540 We're cooked.
01:35:28.840 I don't know. What do we do?
01:35:31.120 Nothing. I can't change society.
01:35:34.380 I don't sell hope like these other people.
01:35:37.800 I'm going to stop 100 years of trends.
01:35:40.920 I can't do that.
01:35:42.920 I don't know. I just want to tell you, though,
01:35:45.080 i mean i've seen you take on a lot of other women so i'm just curious what what motivated you to
01:35:56.000 become an advocate for men you just felt bad for the simps 0.97
01:36:01.160 um i had a i had a family member go through something so
01:36:07.560 like with women so oh yeah i know you gotta be are you still in the states yeah i'm in america
01:36:18.840 okay because for some reason i thought i heard you say you were in the uk
01:36:23.160 i was um for like three years but now i'm back thank god it's a fallen city
01:36:30.060 not that i'm i'm in chicago not that that's any better but chicago's pretty fun in the
01:36:36.380 summer so we have three months of just don't get don't get robbed or shot but if you can avoid that
01:36:42.160 it's pretty fun well i don't know i actually um for business we were doing the major league soccer
01:36:50.180 all-star game uh and it was in chicago and so when i was up there um i you know it was the first time
01:37:01.580 i've been in chicago if you can believe that and you know i had never you know we're sitting walking
01:37:06.780 along near where soldier field is i go look at this man this looks like an ocean and you know
01:37:12.220 one of the guys goes hey man let's go into the yacht club and yeah maybe we can get reciprocity
01:37:18.380 if we tell them that we're a member of the newport beach yacht club which of course i'm not but um
01:37:25.420 so we went in there and we actually got reciprocity and got the opportunity to go into the
01:37:30.300 i i guess it would be the chicago the chicago yacht club or something like that it was a really
01:37:36.780 nice place i don't know anyone with a yacht so well are you originally from the midwest
01:37:43.300 yeah but i wasn't from the city i'm like an hour from the city and i just don't know i don't know
01:37:49.200 anyone that's got a boat downtown maybe maybe i should look for a friend with one but right now
01:37:53.820 i don't know well let me just say this if you're ever out in southern california feel free to look
01:37:59.660 me up you can find me at code four okay code four what's that four is the name of the company
01:38:06.800 that i work oh okay okay cool and uh we you know we put on a bunch of shows we have an air show
01:38:13.780 that we put on you put on an air show that's pretty cool we're in the air show yes we're in
01:38:19.540 the air show business uh and there was a oil spill a couple years ago that then our show got closed
01:38:26.380 down and or the mayor closed it down and there's been yeah it's been a lot of fun since then but
01:38:34.060 you know kind of put us on the map a little bit when's the next air show um well interestingly
01:38:40.460 enough the next air show is going to i think it's either the first weekend in october or the last
01:38:47.180 weekend in september you can find us at pacific airshow.com no female pilots right 0.97
01:38:56.380 uh actually we've had some female pilots yes oh no well i mean uh we had this one woman who was 1.00
01:39:04.780 a badass pilot that's all i can say uh she was part of she was one of have you seen these guys
01:39:11.340 that do the crazy flying or the biplanes and they're doing you know loops and yeah all that
01:39:19.020 kind of crazy stuff uh she did that too and she's a hell she's an excellent pilot but no we we don't 1.00
01:39:26.060 have any d there's no dei hires in our show oh cool just making sure i don't want to if i go i
01:39:32.540 don't want a casualty you know no just let me know in advance um uh i'll get you into show center and
01:39:40.860 the vip area oh cool and um yeah you'll actually have a good time um there man you get an opportunity
01:39:49.820 to meet the pilots from the thunderbirds and let's see who's the lineup this year uh you know
01:39:57.900 we usually have like um the canadian snowbirds but you know given all that's going on i wonder
01:40:04.220 if they're gonna come down um um but it's funny because you know everybody out here has got to be
01:40:14.220 all on their a game you know there's um that's why we have these events where we have parties
01:40:26.540 for you know the pilots and whatnot i don't even go to them because i don't want to risk
01:40:34.700 having one or two drinks and saying the wrong thing getting sued yep and getting misconstrued
01:40:42.140 it's yeah i mean although there have been some people that have said a few things i might add
01:40:48.940 um but they're women it doesn't count yeah well thanks so much for the invite john and thanks so
01:40:55.980 much for calling in calling anytime okay the stories were hilarious so i would pay to hear
01:41:01.740 the church i would pay to video of the church one i wish you could have been there it was you know
01:41:08.780 i wasn't looking for notoriety and nor was i looking for anything really i just like why did
01:41:18.040 you guys stop pounding on the men yeah they were they were telling them that they needed to step
01:41:24.700 up to the plate and ask these girls out and you know they're good christian women well some of 1.00
01:41:31.500 them are good christian women i gotta i gotta move to the next caller though okay john okay i'll talk
01:41:37.940 to you later okay thanks all right frank we got franken next well you can just call me michael
01:41:47.880 okay how's it going michael thanks for calling in pretty good uh been watching you since i think
01:41:55.820 since day one you're doing a great job um ever since you started so um but uh yeah i got stories
01:42:05.140 of work man i'm retired now okay what industry before you go so uh i don't know if you could
01:42:14.940 call it entertainment because i'm going to talk about two jobs one was a venue that's all over
01:42:22.380 the united states where they have concerts and a restaurant i don't want to say a name because
01:42:27.780 you know i don't want to put them down but they're very popular and they're they they have all the
01:42:33.820 biggest acts at their at their venue and then also the other place is a an amusement park
01:42:41.800 the oldest one in california and when i worked there it was during
01:42:48.480 the halloween season where they have like haunted houses and all that stuff
01:42:53.420 but dang man the the sleeping with each other with the you know the the bosses it was out of
01:43:02.700 control at both of them i couldn't believe it like um so for example my uh the venue with the
01:43:11.800 concerts and all that so we we would have uh female supervisors and they would full-on like 1.00
01:43:20.560 out in the open this is this is 20 years ago they would full-on what out like have sex out 0.78
01:43:26.040 in the open hit on people out in the open they would hit on uh me and other other employees
01:43:33.480 and uh one of them hit on me pretty bad and then she uh she got um she got fired on new year's eve 0.98
01:43:44.580 because she handed out um champagne to all the the employees that night and then had sex with 1.00
01:43:51.400 some random guy in the elevator oh that'll do it yeah was it on like camera like how did they find
01:43:59.420 out back then they didn't have cameras in the venue i heard they have them now but yeah back
01:44:06.060 then they didn't have them but they uh the word got out and she got fired up days later cooked 0.53
01:44:11.840 but ironically she got fired by the you know the head manager there but he was sleeping with the 0.99
01:44:18.620 waitresses yeah but you didn't get caught right he didn't get caught but it was like
01:44:25.440 I was just I was amazed because everyone was like just hooking up with everybody left the right
01:44:31.300 nobody cared if they were married nobody cared if they had boyfriend girlfriend nothing 1.00
01:44:37.220 and and when when I when I was there I asked I asked a girl out that I worked with
01:44:46.140 and so we went out and and then we were in a parking lot near the venue and and you know i
01:44:53.980 guess she wanted me to do something i did i just wasn't i was gonna take it slow you know 0.83
01:44:59.320 and then the next day she told everyone kept saying we heard you were gay are you gay
01:45:06.600 i'm not gay what are you talking about everyone kept coming up to me saying you're getting
01:45:11.700 and the girl they said they said that girl quit that day so she was like super mad at me that 0.99
01:45:20.340 that i didn't get together with her or whatever but uh oh my god oh and then also um customers
01:45:30.160 would just because i worked at different jobs there security everything restaurant whatever 0.97
01:45:35.620 but but get grabbed dick get grabbed everything by customers same with the amusement park so 0.85
01:45:45.200 god and i just said no one believes no one hardly anyone believes me when i tell them all that stuff 0.98
01:45:53.080 i don't know why did you ever like is it the same now or did the culture change over time
01:45:59.260 it's kind of changed a little bit because i i talk to people that still work at those places
01:46:08.240 and they say that it's too dangerous because um people are going to get fired
01:46:15.120 right or people people get like reprimanded really quickly for anything even hugging and
01:46:22.600 stuff like that right but when i was there it was like what the hell like i couldn't believe it
01:46:29.200 the stuff that would just go on did you ever see it go back like by really really bad
01:46:35.460 did i see what did you ever see it like something go really wrong like a lawsuit or anything like
01:46:41.840 that uh i didn't see the lawsuits like i saw some firings um
01:46:51.140 like they would say like oh a guy touched this girl did it but it wasn't so those guys i know
01:47:00.820 those guys and they weren't trying to you know molest those women it was maybe maybe they touched
01:47:06.760 their shoulder or something like that and the and the woman got really freaked out and and the thing
01:47:13.120 is uh everything that you talk about i've i've experienced like all the crazy stuff that you
01:47:19.380 talk about like men and women dynamics and like for example the one guy that i know got fired from
01:47:26.400 the venue job he had he was all upset because a couple of minutes before he got fired he was
01:47:35.600 because he was guarding uh he was guarding the band backstage and so um one of the servers was 0.88
01:47:42.980 female and she one of the female security was grabbing her boobs from behind like like like 1.00
01:47:50.100 playing like and then and then he he thought it was funny and then that same server came over to 0.74
01:47:56.580 him and asked him a question about something and then he touched her waist and said oh yeah i'll
01:48:03.220 help you and she she started screaming like oh yeah i can't believe you talk and so the thing
01:48:09.700 that that that relates to all the stuff you say it's kind of like like the whole double standard
01:48:15.860 thing like he didn't it was because he wasn't attractive that's that's why she went crazy 0.97
01:48:24.740 because he wasn't he was he was like a dude he looked kind of dorky and like
01:48:28.820 big he was big and buff but he wasn't attractive right and i think i think that um
01:48:33.700 Um, if he was a hot guy, I don't think she would have done that because, because there
01:48:41.660 were a lot of good looking people that worked at my, my work and, and there was like touching
01:48:48.380 and there's all kinds of stuff and no one, no one got mad.
01:48:51.800 Like, it was just cause he wasn't attractive.
01:48:54.060 That's what I think happened.
01:48:55.560 Yeah.
01:48:56.660 I'll do it.
01:48:57.960 Well, thanks so much for calling in.
01:49:00.680 Appreciate the stories.
01:49:01.840 please call in any time okay okay yeah yeah just keep keep doing what you're doing and and uh
01:49:08.600 you get a lot of hate and you don't deserve it i think that um you're doing a good thing
01:49:14.240 well thank you i try my best so see ya okay bye
01:49:21.240 doug mpa you still there yeah i'm sorry what'd you think of the callers
01:49:30.440 yeah it's always good to hear from you know they're both older gentlemen so it's always
01:49:38.780 good to hear how the culture has changed because a lot of them a lot of the older people would say
01:49:42.980 oh yeah back in the day this behavior was okay but nowadays i would never do that i'm 28 um i had
01:49:50.700 do you know what oh i did know two people that hooked up at work but they got married
01:49:56.140 so i did i did forget about this there i totally the copier company i worked at they're at a
01:50:04.240 different branch but yeah they were like both sales people but they got married so
01:50:10.260 like i kind of forgot that they met at work but yeah uh when i was young i worked at a um
01:50:18.800 a big retail hardware store and this couple met at that hardware store and they ended up getting
01:50:25.580 married that's how it used to be you used to just be able to go into an industry and then marry 0.78
01:50:31.840 like your boss it's not a bad plan you know if you want to like you want to go marry a doctor 0.98
01:50:39.780 go be a nurse but now nurses are like the hospital prostitutes instead yep oh we got another one 1.00
01:50:47.520 matt how's it going oh hello again my brother from the great white newark what's going on man 0.99
01:50:55.520 oh you're on mute yeah you got on mute matt sorry about that yeah there you go hello how's it going
01:51:04.440 tell me i i know you've slept with a boss i just know no no but i've got uh i got such i got 0.52
01:51:13.280 sexually harassed by a woman on my job okay what was the what industry was it military 0.99
01:51:20.460 actually no it was um it was actually the hog industry of all things the hog like pig okay
01:51:30.740 yes the hog industry so what i okay so when i was fresh out of college okay okay i did an electric
01:51:37.360 i did i got i've got two associate degrees right now and they're all both in engineering i'm working
01:51:42.200 on my third one too i'm one class away from third and then i can work on my fourth a lot of
01:51:46.360 engineering stuff there's all very specific path and like i'm kind of heading down so um in order
01:51:52.920 to get my certified engineering technologist titles i had to go and do some industry related
01:51:58.560 jobs and one of the things that i was involved with was working with installing control systems
01:52:06.680 in hog barns and building uh you know electrical panels and stuff like really sophisticated stuff
01:52:13.120 so i knew one of my best of friends i met one of my best of friends in this company
01:52:21.160 good company but there was this 0.99
01:52:24.160 there was this one girl i had fucking enormous tits and all that shit like i'm like okay this 1.00
01:52:33.200 girl is pretty hot okay i will i will give her that but the problem is she's the hr's director's 1.00
01:52:42.240 niece okay so whenever you mention the word hr
01:52:52.080 it's not gonna go over very well okay okay and um and so i can tell she's always kind of
01:52:59.760 it was always kind of looking at me across her desk and stuff she was on processing a lot of
01:53:04.720 paperwork and stuff and i would be in the shops working coding and circuitry and all sorts of
01:53:11.520 shitty and every now and then she would come by and you know i want to talk and want you know want 0.68
01:53:18.240 to be you know with you and all that and i'm just and i was just like uh-huh okay expressionless
01:53:25.120 because i know where the this is going okay i really do that um you know and then the long
01:53:33.920 story short i've had this one girl one day actually flash me right i'm like right at my 0.79
01:53:38.640 fucking desk with no bass there and i'm just like you know what you got to go is that what you said 0.93
01:53:44.840 yeah you gotta go because i can tell you right away like look this is at 2008 okay this is 0.98
01:53:52.580 actually 2009 2010 ish okay this is at the height of the mass stock market crash of 2008 okay it i 0.72
01:54:00.920 might my employment had been completely fucked all right so i have to 0.96
01:54:05.540 keep on a straight and narrow because i'm about to lose everything okay 0.87
01:54:10.220 so and i had i and she she she flashed me and went and there's just like listen you gotta go
01:54:17.240 and then and then one day she wanted to go to school and do doug you're gonna love this one
01:54:24.660 she went to the university same universe i'm going to do native studies oh yeah okay okay 0.96
01:54:32.420 i gotta add that one to the list okay so in canada okay well you know how you know how it is with 0.99
01:54:45.580 black people oppression shit in the united states right okay so you know how you know how that 0.99
01:54:50.800 culture is right well in canada it's all about the aboriginals there it's it's like if you were 1.00
01:54:57.180 to swap places in canada in the united states all you got when you go up north it's all about 0.55
01:55:02.460 aboriginals and not black people you go to the united states you replace aboriginals with black 1.00
01:55:07.780 people you get the same fucking shit okay it's that so she went to school to do native studies 1.00
01:55:14.640 and i'm just like oh my god and i okay i've also worked on in the province flying around from 0.99
01:55:24.360 airport to airport to install control systems all around the fucking airports after i was after this 0.97
01:55:28.880 job when i got laid off from it and so i know i know the behavior of some of these women and it 1.00
01:55:36.240 is bad okay all right but the word is she she tries to come in there and she uh and she's just
01:55:44.720 like wondering trying to make up conversation with me it's just like look i know what you're
01:55:48.680 you know she's she's there with the and this is the girl that flashed you yes and so she's like
01:55:54.780 trying to be around you too even after you told her now oh okay i know i i think it's getting
01:56:00.660 worse because i keep ignoring her oh yeah that just makes us want you more it's like i know
01:56:05.640 exactly you hate us we have to prove you wrong uh and i can't and i can't like i'm at a point 1.00
01:56:10.980 where i'm ready to tell her to go fuck herself like fuck her right off okay but then i'll get 1.00
01:56:15.680 then i'll get pulled into the hr office okay so everywhere everywhere i go this is a lose lose 1.00
01:56:22.240 hr has got me on speed dial okay oh my god okay like don't even get me started with a
01:56:27.360 government job i had okay god damn it there's a special special speed dial key on the hr's 0.57
01:56:35.440 stuff just for me every two weeks okay but i will regress that's different story but 0.94
01:56:40.480 here i'm trying to ignore her and all that she's trying to have a conversation it's like i'm telling
01:56:45.120 her to off okay and we're getting ready to tell her that she just went back and you can tell
01:56:49.760 that she's been around she's got the fuzzy coat you know the and the and the furry fuzzy boots 0.87
01:56:55.920 okay like you know that this is a classic 304 and she had she likes to show her cleavage in the 1.00
01:57:02.880 office i'm just like why why is nobody putting a leash on this woman like god sakes but yeah i know 1.00
01:57:12.400 like i can tell she she even made irregular stupid comments to me one day she came up with a pair of 0.98
01:57:19.120 fucking jumper cables and i says like hey matt i know you like to work with electrical how much you 1.00
01:57:24.320 how much you use these on my nipples and i'm like 0.99
01:57:29.040 what get out of my office get the out of my office okay like i don't know what the hell 0.99
01:57:38.320 is going on through some of these women girl like i just don't it's like do you not understand no
01:57:42.240 like i want to keep my job i don't want anything to do with you especially for especially a woman 1.00
01:57:50.320 so easily to behave like this god knows where the hell she's been okay all right and there's
01:57:57.040 no like i do not like i don't know about the united states but i do not trust any woman up 1.00
01:58:01.360 here in manitoba um with that kind of behavior because we've got a hepatitis a and b problem
01:58:08.880 here and we've got yeah yeah we've got and and there's been lots of notices all over downtown
01:58:15.280 winnipeg about syphilis okay like we have a syphilis outbreak um across canada and you go
01:58:27.200 further north you go you got you got hepatitis problems all right there is there is no there's
01:58:33.600 no thinking this through um and quite frankly as much as this is i don't want to mix with that
01:58:41.840 culture okay there's a lot of problems with the behavior of that culture um i'm not saying it is
01:58:50.640 like but you know if you ended up with uh with a girl like that squealing on you like you couldn't 1.00
01:58:59.440 You could easily pull the race.
01:59:01.880 Yeah, you know how to look at that.
01:59:03.140 Can you pull the essay?
01:59:04.160 You can pull the race.
01:59:04.880 Oh, no.
01:59:05.780 I didn't even think of that.
01:59:07.500 Yeah.
01:59:08.320 Yeah.
01:59:08.880 He colonized me or something. 1.00
01:59:11.020 Bullshit. 1.00
01:59:11.800 Yeah. 1.00
01:59:13.060 Or it's, you know, it's the white men. 1.00
01:59:15.080 They raped all our women and took all our land. 1.00
01:59:18.600 Oh, my gosh. 1.00
01:59:20.120 Yeah, I'm not kidding.
01:59:21.160 I'm not kidding when I say this.
01:59:22.560 It's called proclamation.
01:59:24.180 So every year, you know, even in some of my classes in university, 0.99
01:59:28.020 would have to say we are sorry for taking the aboriginals and i'm like fuck you no we have this 0.98
01:59:38.980 we have this problem right now uh and you still see it on some of the lawn signs here in my area 0.98
01:59:45.940 about every child matters okay i don't know if you ever heard of this but okay and sure every
01:59:53.000 child matters i don't have a problem with that they're right okay no problem you know look after
02:00:00.880 kids and stuff but the foundation of the lie happened in vancouver bc where they had uncovered
02:00:09.300 a bunch of or i guess so they there was this building that was claimed to be uh what hell
02:00:17.160 they call a residential school okay so there's a claim that residential schools had abuses and
02:00:22.980 stuff and i don't know all the details because i don't care about the whining and complaining
02:00:27.860 but um and all these abuses are took place and so what ended up happening was there was an
02:00:34.740 accusation that there was a mass grave somewhere in bc of a thousands of different um aboriginal
02:00:42.020 children and one of and then what ended up happening was um an anthropologist did a dig
02:00:49.540 they found nothing the rcmp were involved they found nothing and it's now canada is one of the
02:00:57.060 world as a laughing stock of the world because all they ever found was rocks and it was just
02:01:04.740 conjecture that's been political hype that we have all these mass graves of aboriginal children
02:01:11.460 um running around that they're dying because they were in residential schools when there's 0.99
02:01:16.260 all and literally and not nothing was found up and it was just bones and we're the fucking 1.00
02:01:22.040 laughingstock of the world right now with this bullshit that doesn't exist okay so and then 0.99
02:01:28.260 people are not buying don't even know about that that it's all a fucking lie so we have and now 1.00
02:01:33.900 now the and it's all about stealing land and you hear all the bullshit stories on on the radio like 0.99
02:01:40.420 when i'm in ontario when i go to my lot there about story about how little johnny escaped a 0.97
02:01:45.840 residential school and walked 10 miles through the snow barefoot and then and then died and i'm like 0.97
02:01:52.060 fuck off like where's the where's the death certificate you know prove to me little johnny 0.99
02:01:57.420 even exists like stop with the media hype okay i don't buy it just don't believe it but that's 1.00
02:02:04.420 that's the problem now now that's shit yeah and so so it would have been a bad situation if you 0.85
02:02:10.140 went there absolutely so what what ended up happening in the end did you leave the job did 0.96
02:02:14.420 she stop like what ended up happening well they had the company had a mass layoff yeah they're
02:02:20.580 saying in the chat did he bang his boss or what after she left were you down well i would have 1.00
02:02:29.920 i would have liked to the tits were nice huh the boot like they were she's fucking big okay 1.00
02:02:38.900 and swim body too and everything but the problem is you're a good guy huh you really wanted that 0.99
02:02:44.780 job i want i don't want to go to jail yeah that's true i don't want i don't want to go to jail for
02:02:53.160 something that that's so not worth it you know yeah yeah well thanks so much for calling in
02:03:00.160 you know men have a lot more restraint than women apparently well you kind of have to yeah 1.00
02:03:08.120 All right, thanks, Matt.
02:03:11.060 I'll have to talk to you, buddy.
02:03:12.540 Yeah, bye-bye.
02:03:15.860 All right, I think that's going to be our last caller for the night.
02:03:20.920 We got some good callers, though.
02:03:22.480 Thanks for calling in, guys.
02:03:24.620 Do you have any final thoughts on bosses at Doug MPA?
02:03:27.840 Well, just coworkers in general, guys, stay away from women at work. 1.00
02:03:33.860 Don't even eat lunch in the lunchroom.
02:03:36.260 Eat your lunch in your cubicle.
02:03:38.120 keep your head down do your job go home no happy hours you know don't hang out with any of your
02:03:46.140 co-workers at their houses just keep it all professional do your job go home because you
02:03:51.700 can't afford any mistakes in 2025 you just can't do it so don't date co-workers don't sleep with
02:03:57.040 none of that you heard it here first guys thanks so much doug mpa and you know what i just thought
02:04:05.560 of when he was talking we should do a show on men being afraid of women so like you know they say
02:04:13.040 like men aren't intimidated by women or like women will say like a man intimidate like is
02:04:18.500 intimidated by me and it's not necessarily like men definitely aren't intimidated but i didn't
02:04:25.020 realize how much like fear um men had of a like a relationship going wrong and like
02:04:31.320 like how much they have to placate to a crazy woman so she doesn't ruin their life
02:04:36.760 yeah because that's the thing so yeah men are not intimidated in the traditional sense of the word 0.99
02:04:42.720 by anything that can't kick our ass or eat us alive right but we can be intimidated by the 0.98
02:04:48.840 circumstances around a certain woman or what a woman can bring into your life that's what we're 0.99
02:04:54.160 intimidated by not the woman herself but the chaos that comes along with the woman yeah cool 0.96
02:05:00.460 i was thinking that could be a good topic um but okay this right now okay all right thanks so much
02:05:07.700 for um tuning in i'm gonna hang up doug mpa thanks for calling yeah you too
02:05:14.640 well guys thank you so much for supporting me you guys are the best um i also realized in the
02:05:21.760 beginning of this stream i didn't say if you wanted to be a youtube client where to go um
02:05:26.500 just pearly things at gmail.com put i want to be a youtuber in the title um and just email me
02:05:33.460 and please god if you can't tell me your budget i know that's like annoying up front i hate it 0.85
02:05:40.260 it's not even to rip you guys off it's just it's not cheap the stuff we do but it works very well
02:05:46.320 um please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel
02:05:52.180 you guys are the best as usual and i'll see you guys next time bye
02:05:56.500 I'll see you next time.