Pearl - June 16, 2026


How I Got Red Pilled： High Value Men Cheat

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Kevin Samuels Lauren Southern Elijah Schaefer Louis Theroux Andrew Tate Jay Waller Donovan Myron
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8 minutes

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1,293

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35

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3

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12

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7

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In this episode, I talk about how I became red-pilled on cheating and men exercising their options. I also talk about my experience with the Red Pill and how it has impacted my dating life in general.

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00:00:00.000 All right. What's up guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. Um, today I want to talk about how I got
00:00:07.100 red pilled on high value men, uh, cheating and men exercising their options. Um, so when I first
00:00:14.540 got into the red pill, um, one of the people I found was Kevin Samuels. Now, if you didn't know
00:00:20.580 Kevin Samuels had a call-in show and on his call-in show, he had a show titled high value men
00:00:26.640 cheat. And when I first saw this show, I thought to myself, that's not true. And he, Kevin Samuels
00:00:33.400 listed like six feet, six figures, six inch. It was something like that, right? Like if a man
00:00:39.240 has a certain amount of accomplishments that he can exercise options. Now, um, I kind of took this
00:00:47.640 as triggering because my father was, you know, women, we take it personal. My dad, best man I've 0.99
00:00:52.440 ever met and he I knew my dad never cheated like I just knew he's not that type of person he's not
00:01:01.120 the type of guy and I'm like I'm like I'm tired of these red pill guys you know saying that my
00:01:06.360 dad's a cheater yada yada yada taking it personal but what I came to realize is that there's a
00:01:13.480 divide between men over 40 and men under 40 and men under 40 had to do far more to develop an
00:01:20.480 ability to get women that men over 40 didn't have to. And once men under 40 have that skill,
00:01:26.580 it's very difficult for them to put it down or there's not as much as an incentive, especially
00:01:31.880 with social media. There's kind of an unlimited supply of women turning 18 every year. And I 0.80
00:01:37.720 learned this being in the right-wing conservative media space, because there would be times where
00:01:46.580 i would debate someone on my show uh who proclaimed he's guy and he proclaimed that he
00:01:53.260 was conservative christian etc and come to find out he's banging or like in a situationship with
00:01:59.340 three different women from the show women talk you know what i mean i'm like i interviewed a
00:02:04.780 thousand women in this city do you not think things get back to me whatever but regardless
00:02:10.700 what I realized is all the men moralizing and saying that men shouldn't cheat they either never
00:02:16.960 cultivated that ability so they have no idea if they would cheat or um they would just do
00:02:25.540 situationship so like do you know what I mean like they would technically on paper not be cheating
00:02:31.720 but it's kind of the same thing do you know what I mean I'm like okay or um I even met one guy who
00:02:39.700 said cheating was wrong. And I knew for a fact that him and his girlfriend did like threesomes.
00:02:46.900 So she would recruit other women. And I'm like, all right, most guys don't have that choice,
00:02:53.300 my ninja. So when what I wanted to be true, which is that not all men cheat, um, collided with my
00:03:03.820 real life experience, which was, you know, I'd been cheated on. Um, the men that said they didn't
00:03:11.580 cheat weren't good with women or couldn't like weren't attractive enough to cheat. And the ones
00:03:17.080 that were typically did. I realized that Myron, um, Donovan and all of these guys, um, were the
00:03:28.800 only one's being honest and that's why I really hate the Louis Thoreau like what a stupid simp 0.98
00:03:34.640 um he made a documentary trying to make the men in the manosphere like look bad and I think maybe 0.98
00:03:40.780 to some degree it kind of worked because a lot of people associate like red pill in the manosphere
00:03:46.580 with negative traits but all I can speak to is like my personal experience and I've said it before
00:03:57.740 the least creepy men are men that have abundance I've never been made to feel uncomfortable by
00:04:05.760 any of the men in the red pill um sure like I've had disagreements with some
00:04:12.640 but overall it's a really good group of guys and some of the guys in the red pill they're not even
00:04:20.900 trying to you know their goal like the reason they found the red pill was to fix their
00:04:27.620 marriage, it wasn't to spin a bunch of plates or any of that stuff. Like, again, I kind of said
00:04:34.900 this last video, I think men that are PUAs are actually like, they have the balls to tell you 0.98
00:04:45.600 if they're interested and not do sneaky fucker game, which is basically men that are nice to 0.97
00:04:52.860 because they want to sleep with you or they want like a relationship with you um and they'll do 0.92
00:04:57.880 anything to associate so they do creepy you know we I guess weird things um when instead of asking
00:05:05.340 you out or having the balls to do that they work or like I don't know um I don't know if I'm being
00:05:12.100 clear enough but just in my experience they've all been so respectful kind and polite to me 1.00
00:05:19.240 and all the women that are like like Lauren Southern and all these bitches that are coming 0.98
00:05:24.820 out and say like you know Lauren Southern saying that Andrew Tate raped her when she went back 1.00
00:05:30.200 with him to his hotel room what did you think was gonna happen you know what I mean
00:05:38.520 and even if you're in a hotel room together like you can sit on the other side of the room
00:05:45.160 I don't know. So it really grinds my gears when all these people are saying the manosphere guys
00:05:57.680 are degenerates when really the truth of the matter is most of the most your husband at home
00:06:03.220 probably couldn't cheat. He probably couldn't get another bitch. And those guys, if they're in that 1.00
00:06:12.120 type of situation, they're at least honest about it. Like I saw them talking about Jay Waller
00:06:19.420 because he's in like a one-sided open relationship. And I'm like, okay,
00:06:25.220 how many men cheat on their wives like Elijah Schaefer while claiming to be Christian and
00:06:31.440 virtuous men? At least he's not pretending to be something he's not. Do you think Louis Thoreau
00:06:37.360 really could get a bunch of bitches to replace his wife like really really that's the 1.00
00:06:43.160 so it's just men like dick policing other men so I wanted to believe that not all men cheat 1.00
00:06:52.120 to this day I will say there is a small percentage of men that don't cheat but 0.90
00:06:56.240 you really can't say what you would do in a situation until you've been given that opportunity
00:07:02.140 And most men just haven't like it's too hard. Even me, I used to judge really harshly women that took yachts to Dubai and like met all these billionaires and got flown out to F1.
00:07:13.280 But in all honesty, I thought about it and I'm like, do you know what?
00:07:17.760 When I was 18, I was not pretty enough to get on any of those yachts to get invited or I didn't know the right people.
00:07:25.180 I've never been invited to those places, so I can't say what I would do in that situation.
00:07:29.980 and it's the same thing with cheating you know you can judge the guys that cheat or step out but
00:07:35.360 until you have the amount of choice that they have you can't really say what they would do
00:07:40.360 and morally grandstanding means nothing when you're like you don't have that choice you know
00:07:45.960 so anyways that's how I got red-pilled on cheating um was watching all these conservative
00:07:52.040 influencers say they didn't cheat uh while banging a bunch of women on the show so anyways
00:07:58.600 all right guys i love you thanks for watching like the video subscribe and i'll see you next time