Pearl - June 18, 2026


How I Got Redpilled： Alpha Widows

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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

167.71

Word count

1,416

Sentence count

34

People

Also mentioned:
Rolo Tomasi Lauren Southern Tate

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

15

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Hate speech

22

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about how I became a red pilled on alpha widows and how to get over them. I also talk about why women are hypergamous and why the white pill is a bad idea.

Transcript

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00:00:00.560 What's up guys, welcome to my coffee talks. Today I have lemonade, so I don't have coffee.
00:00:07.360 This is actually the zero sugar lemonade, so if anyone cares, please put how it's going
00:00:13.240 to kill me later in the comments. So anyways. All right, today I want to talk about how
00:00:18.580 I got red pilled on alpha widows. So I have an athletic background. So I basically, from
00:00:24.560 the time I was like 12 years old until two or three years ago, I was on a team with 10 to maybe
00:00:31.300 up to 18 women at a time playing volleyball, basketball, whatever it was. And one thing I
00:00:41.420 noticed from a young age is that all women seem to have one guy that they just can't get over. 1.00
00:00:47.560 Now, there's a couple instances. I don't want to get too much into it, but when I was younger, 0.99
00:00:52.200 I had that as a personal experience and also there was a girl on my team who you know I saw
00:01:01.400 her cheat in like the most brutal way ever she was dating a new guy and basically while she was at a
00:01:07.960 party and the new guy was coming she cheated with her ex-boyfriend in the bathroom isn't that
00:01:14.080 incredible so and then the new guy like showed up at the party had no idea and I just kind of
00:01:21.840 witness stuff like this like over and over and over again where you know women would have an
00:01:26.400 ex-boyfriend they would just go back to and this wouldn't really vary between my less slutty
00:01:31.780 friends and my more slutty friends like women would just always have that one guy like I would
00:01:37.880 always say in college every girl just has a one guy that they can't get over and it wasn't until
00:01:43.760 I watched Rolo Tomasi's video and I think I'm just gonna pull up the actual article because
00:01:48.660 you know he always says i don't quote him correctly or blah blah blah but um
00:01:54.060 i saw rollo tamasi talking about alpha widows and basically how once a woman has had
00:02:02.940 a certain level of men
00:02:05.040 basically okay i'm gonna read it to understand the phenomenon of an alpha widow we must look 0.56
00:02:11.660 at women's evolved mating strategy hypergamy a woman's intrinsic desire to balance the best 0.65
00:02:17.840 quality sexual reproductive male with the best provisioning and parental parentally invested 0.96
00:02:22.540 male since a woman's mating strategy centers on quality long-term partners quality and long-term
00:02:29.160 partners women tend to focus on ideals and men the imperative drive for mate quality exceeds 1.00
00:02:34.120 extends to both sides of women's hypergamous equation the best genetic sexual experience and 0.99
00:02:39.760 the best long-term security potential only women are hypergamous and hypergamy never seeks its own 0.99
00:02:45.760 level, it always seeks a better than merited exchange in SMV compared to her own. When a 1.00
00:02:53.080 woman misses the opportunity to consolidate on a confirmed high SMV male, that man becomes the 0.92
00:03:00.520 new standard for what she believes she can attract as a potential mate. Basically, I had an eight 0.97
00:03:04.880 SMV guy before. So no future man will, um, below an eight will do. And when I heard this video,
00:03:16.100 it was kind of like, um, cause he had a video explaining this. It just made everything I'd
00:03:21.240 seen in my life, like make sense. And also as a woman, um, this is why I say these are the best
00:03:26.380 men on the planet. Even Rolo hates me and I still love them. And it's because, um, I just know
00:03:31.960 they're doing God's work because they're the only ones being honest about these imperatives and the
00:03:38.000 things that are happening but as a woman if you hear this um I mean I don't know how high you went
00:03:44.840 you know what I mean that you got alpha widowed but you can get over it by just finding someone 0.94
00:03:49.780 better and then because what women tend to do right is they get alpha widowed and then they 0.99
00:03:56.000 never want to feel that pain again and so they just go lower and that's why they end up cheating 1.00
00:04:00.220 on their husbands because you went for an eight. Well, one, if you're at four, you shouldn't have
00:04:05.600 went for an eight to begin with. But the market is so inflated now, guys, like ladies, there should 1.00
00:04:11.580 be a white pill out there because even if you're like a four as a woman, you can go way higher than 1.00
00:04:17.140 you just because like American women are big fat sled whores. The problem is we just never, 1.00
00:04:25.420 we never stop but like within reason right so um how to explain this
00:04:32.120 for me personally this was like a freeing uh read because you kind of realize okay it's not
00:04:40.840 over if you can't get over somebody you just have to find somebody that solves your hypergamous like
00:04:46.380 question or doubt than before so and it does go away I'll just say that for the ladies
00:04:54.800 so the reason i think it's so important these guys are doing this stuff um basically the red
00:05:03.520 pill is just men that have studied women's behavior and tried to explain it and they're
00:05:08.460 not moral so a lot of times these christian like dorky guys will say that the the red pill guys 0.84
00:05:16.540 are degenerates or whatever but um the truth about female nature is kind of degenerate uh that women 1.00
00:05:22.580 don't want to be with one guy for life that women are big fat slut whores that women given the 1.00
00:05:27.600 opportunity will uh will try to do better than you so none of this is um comfortable but anyways 0.99
00:05:36.080 when you get the right and the accurate information sometimes it does black pill you
00:05:44.000 and the world is kind of black pilling but i think it helps you solve the problems in your
00:05:49.680 own life a lot better because you're operating on real information. And that's why I don't
00:05:54.620 appreciate the conservatives that say not all women are like that or, I don't know,
00:06:01.740 they just try to downplay and pretend that women are not the way they are. And I think it's because 0.99
00:06:07.240 a lot of these men, they were not the guys that alpha widowed their wives and they just cannot
00:06:12.480 accept that. They cannot accept that they're being used for their resources, that their wives don't
00:06:18.460 love them in the way that they love their wives. So there's all these information campaigns
00:06:27.540 that completely try to discredit them, these stupid documentaries, these stupid women calling 1.00
00:06:33.580 them incels or whatever, when I would argue that the men that are red-pilled love women more than 1.00
00:06:40.220 the men that lie to them constantly. Because the men that are red-pilled are at least being honest 0.94
00:06:45.560 about what men want and what women want where these blue-pilled beta simp ass like cucks 1.00
00:06:51.260 um they're in a transgender marriage or in transgender relationships meaning they let 1.00
00:07:00.160 the woman lead the relationship and run it and they they're miserable and so they want you to 0.99
00:07:05.300 join they want you to like join their misery so I really think that um those guys are really doing 0.89
00:07:17.660 a lot of good and honestly and I don't know in all my years of working with them I've never had a
00:07:24.800 weird like I just think it's so funny that Lauren Southern's coming out and saying all these things
00:07:30.220 about Tate and all these guys when really I've worked with all them for years and I never had
00:07:34.880 a problem um because i never chose to put myself in the circumstances that she did as an adult 0.99
00:07:41.500 woman like how stupid can you be this girl goes to a hotel room with them and then wonders that 0.97
00:07:46.860 they want sex like nobody put a gun to your head and made you bang these guys so anyways um my two 1.00
00:07:54.500 cents on getting red pilled on that lastly um go to the audacity network um dot com because we are 0.95
00:08:03.600 actually going to start doing dinners once a month where we can actually meet up with people
00:08:07.980 and fans. And so you have to be on the email list and we have to figure out some filtering system
00:08:13.260 that I don't get like anybody crazy or anything. So we'll, we'll figure that out. But, um, if you
00:08:19.920 could get on the email list, that'd be great. The audacity network.com, the links in the description.
00:08:24.300 Thanks for watching. Like the video. I'll see you next time.