Pearl - August 21, 2025


If JAY CUTLER Can Get Divorce Graped Then It Can Happen To An Average Guy Like You


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4,403

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4

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37

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10


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00:00:00.000 a boot camp uh-huh it's actually one of the hardest classes i've ever done
00:00:05.040 i think our level of what's hard is a little bit different what are you gonna do like the ego we
00:00:12.320 get as women i got the audacity it's like men can be kings on the field but they're never treated
00:00:18.560 like kings at home buy a house today what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting
00:00:26.160 to steven crowder is taking the red pill so as you guys know we as an audience have reacted and watched
00:00:33.040 steven crowder go from blue pill to red pill and on this channel we covered his awful divorce as you
00:00:40.320 guys know crowder found his virgin trad wife and unfortunately it didn't really go too well for him
00:00:47.360 now we are watching him actually take the red pill and just see how deranged some of these ladies are
00:00:54.320 so i guess jay cutler is also um taking the red pill also so let's see what's going on with him
00:01:02.160 insinuate that there was zero dollars split during the marriage that each side got
00:01:12.400 it's insanity and it's a completely false completely completely untrue i have never gotten a penny from
00:01:19.440 my ex-husband no one's saying pennies we're saying millions what about the house for 7.5 million dollars
00:01:24.800 hey here's nine days ago she's posing in cabo oh my god ram how do you afford that with not a penny
00:01:34.080 people talk about you know in the red pill sphere uh and then you have um people sort of the more
00:01:38.800 traditional sphere tradcon and then you have feminists there's this kind of war brewing um and
00:01:44.720 young men are checking out of the dating sphere that's just happening i think the estimate is by the
00:01:49.120 year 2040 something it's like over 50 percent of women will be single and that's largely due to men
00:01:54.240 saying hey marriage is a risk that i don't want it's not um that's still a blue pill mindset yes men
00:02:03.280 are tired of women that's true but more men want to get married than women do it's it's because women
00:02:10.720 don't want to get married a take here's the problem i think that marriage is foundational to western
00:02:17.200 civilization i think it's the bedrock of society i think it's an important covenant and i also think
00:02:21.440 that the state is antithetical to the biblical covenant and so young men are assessing risk also
00:02:28.640 often men are told if you just tried a little harder but this is proof that if you are effectively
00:02:34.320 a multi-millionaire tier a athlete
00:02:41.200 i know crowder's like crowder's one of the biggest conservative commentators and he also took the l
00:02:46.880 the request from many women is still more so jay cutler who was a famous uh quarterback i was told
00:02:53.840 uh a famous ish he just he was on a podcast and finally spoke his side of this celebrity divorce
00:03:01.680 regarding his ex-wife who is famous for um a reality show on mtv it's irresponsible i think it's
00:03:09.840 reckless i think she said she was left with nothing i should give you that context that's clear yeah
00:03:14.240 okay go ahead it's irresponsible i think it's reckless i think it's borderline slander to
00:03:20.480 insinuate that there was zero dollars split during the marriage that each side got it's insanity and
00:03:32.720 it's a completely false completely i want him to be in my divorce documentary does anyone know him
00:03:39.920 he would be the perfect person to be in this divorce documentary because you have to get a main
00:03:46.000 character that men and women like to elicit any sympathy
00:03:52.320 and unfortunately women don't like most men but women do love athletes so i'm like you'd be perfect
00:03:58.320 completely untrue it is it just is i've got a divorce degree i've got something that's signed by
00:04:04.080 the judge it's like 67 pages or something says exactly says the number breakdown um i'm not going to
00:04:10.080 get into those exact numbers but i can guarantee you it's definitely not zero dollars is enough to
00:04:16.240 live comfortably for the rest of your life on when i say comfortably very comfortably got it out all
00:04:21.840 right without an absolute doubt yeah i know how that goes how about sorry i don't mean to laugh at
00:04:30.640 your pain crowder i don't i don't yeah but that was an l we're in pants i think kirk is next to be honest
00:04:39.360 uh you can't and i know this is hypocritical but you can't marry these influencer chicks you can't we're
00:04:44.560 crazy we're insane i mean the stories i could tell you that i've even gone through throughout the years it's
00:04:50.640 like it's it's either it's either the influencer women get married and torture their husbands and stay
00:04:59.680 married or um they get divorced like three times like meg and kelly or however many times
00:05:11.280 i agree i don't i don't like too many shorts especially on planes when their knees touch you
00:05:16.960 i didn't sign up for it what plan are you taking thank god you put me in the front yes spirit spirit
00:05:22.960 i take spirit he went on to explain why exactly uh i think her name is kristen cavallari yes her claim
00:05:30.000 she's yummy her claim well it was a price tag that he gave her nothing and by the way a lot of people
00:05:36.800 believe this for a very long time and you'll still have people who believe what she said he specifically
00:05:41.280 uh sort of addressed why the claim is is nuts in the state of tennessee if we went to the judge and
00:05:47.760 been like hey he's going to keep every single dollar over the past seven years and you're going to get
00:05:54.320 nothing there's not a judge in the state of tennessee that would have signed that they would
00:05:59.360 be like no this isn't this isn't right this isn't legal not happening so there's that b she has a
00:06:06.960 lawyer i have a lawyer is her lawyer really going to be like fine you get zero dollars
00:06:13.040 he paid for all the money that was made over the seven years absolutely not that's that's completely
00:06:18.720 false um no child support sure whenever you're dealing with this kind of type of settlement there's
00:06:25.360 not going to be a because the number is large a couple thousand dollars a month yeah this this number
00:06:30.560 is it's a very very big number and accompanied of it which was which was which was hers which was
00:06:37.840 also a marital asset because it was okay um i looked up did jay cutler remarry
00:06:46.240 and um literally he's engaged it's like men love torture they really love being tortured
00:06:53.680 who is he getting married to so this is i've seen the sex wife she's got a podcast but this is the
00:07:04.880 new gal now yeah i think he went down a little bit in looks i don't know she might be as hot i can't tell
00:07:11.680 um yeah i mean some men just like you had a kid with a reality star feminism and social media have
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00:09:24.400 oh yeah i've seen her welcome in to let's be honest how is everybody doing it is a gloomy kind of gross
00:09:38.720 day here in tennessee so that kind of backfired also it was like 30 oh my gosh okay so i guess she's
00:09:47.200 saying that she got nothing okay so we can kind of see women's reputation destruction in real time
00:09:57.360 you know it's like men will get robbed and they're like let me get robbed again why not
00:10:03.440 let's do it created during the marriage yeah and here's the thing for that yeah did he get half of
00:10:10.080 that i mean that'd be interesting he has he had to pay her lawyer to sue himself and likely uh a pr
00:10:17.680 company that released these lies about him and i know here's the thing i know what people are going
00:10:22.080 to say well in the christian churches that you should make better decisions i get it a reality
00:10:26.160 show girl and i did a reality show together i under but so did
00:10:31.840 he picked a trad wife look women are women cheat yes so that's a wash yeah but shouldn't you make
00:10:36.960 better decisions throughout the process as well i mean that's that's part of the problem here
00:10:40.960 right the one side just goes out and lies and says all these things that you can't verify and
00:10:45.440 the court basically comes down heavy-handed on him if he does anything if i was jake cutler right now
00:10:49.440 and this comes out i'm like here's the divorce decree page 74 whatever he said there's the number
00:10:54.800 yeah what's the court really going to do we found out through you know anecdotal experience of course
00:11:00.560 the court does nothing when these things get out nothing
00:11:04.320 and you can't prove how much money they cost you or does nothing to protect reputation so it's up to
00:11:11.360 you men to be able to protect your own reputation and listen what do you go to court fine slap me on
00:11:15.360 the wrist whatever i don't care yeah just do it you could be a billionaire with a 12 inch schwanson
00:11:21.200 who's done nothing wrong never cheated never raised a hand never raise your voice and she can get bored
00:11:26.480 and this can be you that's the law we're not talking about the covenant and what it should look like
00:11:31.680 and then add a multi-billion dollar divorce industry and by the way this was in response to
00:11:36.800 what she wrote she wrote our revenue is close to 50 million a year but because i was obviously a wag
00:11:42.160 athletes wives or girlfriends if you're not familiar people love to say that everything i have in my
00:11:46.800 life is because of my ex-husband and that my ex-husband funded uncommon james but i am to this day 100
00:11:53.200 owner doesn't mean he didn't fund it and i i be never taken outside any funding so i'm willing to
00:12:00.720 bet he helped with the uh he helped with the copy that was written for the company i have never gotten
00:12:05.440 a penny from my ex-husband no one's saying pennies we're saying millions i didn't get any money from
00:12:10.560 our divorce so let's just clear that up we'll clear it up clear it up by the way his earnings 129 million
00:12:15.840 dollars during the marriage about 90 million dollars and let me just be clear here because a lot of people
00:12:20.240 believe that you know we went through this with trevi trevor bauer this could easily be you
00:12:24.080 she doesn't appear to be hurting for money and i don't know why this isn't taken in the equation
00:12:27.600 and i say this because women it would help if you maybe listen so maybe you could understand why men
00:12:31.920 are afraid to take that risk because that's not a good thing for anybody what about all the earnings
00:12:36.000 during the marriage that doesn't count right in the law what if she spent 20 30 40 million dollars
00:12:41.440 during the marriage shouldn't that count if it's money that he earned he had earned tens of
00:12:45.360 millions of dollars before she's not hurting for money what about the mercedes-benz
00:12:49.920 180 000 suv she was driving around they're so ugly what about the house that's a toaster
00:12:55.360 no what about the house for 7.5 million dollars hey here's nine days ago she's posing in cabo
00:13:02.240 for the gram how do you afford that with not a penny
00:13:08.160 she does have a company that's very successful that i think she started while they were married
00:13:12.560 yeah it should be a marital asset like he said yeah maybe sure maybe he got a little piece of that
00:13:18.000 doesn't seem like it went that way from our research and she cited irreconcilable differences
00:13:22.000 which is you know what happens uh when there's really no reason used to be called abandonment
00:13:26.720 and uh those irreconcilable oh my gosh oh my god yeah crowder is so done he is done with this bs
00:13:34.560 valuable differences used to be referred to as arguments did show up from time to time on their show
00:13:39.120 what's up i got a haircut this morning it's exciting that's a big day i feel like for you
00:13:47.600 are you like trying to mock me i kind of understand yeah it's a huge activity what do you have today
00:13:52.560 well i'm about to go work out with kelly a boot camp uh-huh it's actually one of the hardest classes
00:13:57.840 i've ever done i think our level of what's hard is a little bit different what are you gonna do
00:14:04.480 like the ego we get as women i got the audacity it's like men can be kings on the field but they're
00:14:15.680 never treated like kings at home i'm gonna buy a house today think about that for a second and i
00:14:23.360 get it that it's scripted it's like hey you are a top and i don't know how great he was but he still
00:14:28.880 he made it to the nfl with a major wasn't great he wasn't he was right in the realm of
00:14:34.160 on earth right of human beings on earth good he's the elite of the elite there's yes there's
00:14:39.200 adequate really good in high school there's make the scholarship to college there's d1 and then
00:14:44.080 there's getting a multi-hundred million dollar contract with the pros maybe he didn't win a
00:14:47.920 super bowl but think of that and then when that guy is not doing the body destroying training that he
00:14:53.760 goes through in the season so he's getting a haircut and taking it easy and buying a house she
00:14:57.840 immediately denigrates i'm like well that sounds really busy for you yeah as opposed to selling
00:15:01.360 makeup well she didn't actually
00:15:09.440 he cites selling makeup she cited going to a hard boot camp workout and he's like yeah i'm
00:15:14.640 a professional athlete or our definition of hard is a little bit different and he's right 100 but
00:15:20.160 this is like the very limited time that nfl players are not killing themselves either physically
00:15:26.000 or mentally trying to prepare for the season that they caught him in yeah and the life expectancy
00:15:30.160 is very low for it is especially lineman if uh you said it was scripted if they were funny at all when
00:15:35.600 he said that our definition of hard is probably different she goes you're telling me yeah yeah
00:15:40.400 that's what i'm saying then he'd smack her like a soprano exactly hey i get this i'm on board mtv
00:15:45.920 you hit her with a wine bottle for a good show show me the ray rice reality show that only takes
00:15:51.600 place in an elevator exactly that's what i want just call it battle brown rice yes thunder vader
00:16:01.200 and then you know like you have p diddy come in and hit her with a folding chair while the
00:16:04.640 ref's looking away by the way just so you know this and all the references are available this is
00:16:08.960 this is no small thing as a matter of fact i think this is probably the biggest issue of our time
00:16:11.920 i've talked about it women in this country in the lowest estimate you can find women initiate 70
00:16:16.800 of the divorces and i know what you're saying a lot of feminists have said this is to correct what
00:16:20.560 used to take place okay cheating infidelity physical abuse are not amongst the top reasons
00:16:26.480 at all the top reasons for 70 of the divorce filings are unmet emotional needs work-life balance
00:16:33.360 and then you got infidelity which by the way is often accused and doesn't necessarily mean that it's
00:16:37.840 true yeah abuse i think was like number five or six on this list yeah five yeah five physical and
00:16:43.360 emotional violence hold on so physically they should separate they should
00:16:50.320 anything's emotional violence the comment section emotionally violated me today you guys i
00:16:56.560 should sue you all for abuse separate that thank you i'm not saying that they're not he just did
00:17:01.920 his emotional violence he was talking down to me he suggested that my booty boot camp was not as
00:17:08.000 hard as the combine man comparing and contrasting boot camps and nfl or rather football is kind of a
00:17:14.480 thing lately yeah but why is there is there something you want to because they make fun of me because i
00:17:20.400 i wasn't comparing serving in afghanistan to going through two a days and so you kind of were but i wasn't
00:17:26.480 i wasn't and so you end up what you do you end up with two worlds you end up with the the pr world
00:17:30.960 yeah right you end up with the world of what people believe and the reason that people file for divorce
00:17:34.880 or the reason that we have this dating problem that we have and then men are accused of being incels
00:17:39.520 and then you end up with the real world in that real world the court record which is where she
00:17:43.440 petitioned for full custody and she doesn't have full custody which should tell you something yeah
00:17:48.080 that should tell you something very if if she does an evil woman right she's she's trashing him
00:17:55.280 she's saying i i don't attribute any of my success to him and she tried to steal his kid what an evil
00:18:01.920 woman doesn't have full custody as a general rule that means there was no abuse and there's no danger
00:18:08.240 just just to be clear and if a man has primary custody boy she could be smoking crack in the
00:18:14.720 kid's bunk bed and she just needs to go to rehab and she'll get back to at least split custody that's
00:18:18.960 the way the court system is designed and a lot of young men are reticent to even get involved
00:18:22.640 also keep in mind in 2022 uh cavalry she used the buzzword right not gaslight uh toxic on the podcast
00:18:30.480 call her daddy where she was surrounded by equally positive influences so here's my only thing because
00:18:35.520 i have three kids with him i'm very careful about what i say are you and i didn't have microphones
00:18:41.360 she is not in fact careful about what she says that's the gaslighting we talk about on this show
00:18:48.880 it just it never ends it's like they will gaslight you to eternity eternity
00:18:54.480 it's in front of us i'd tell you but you know that's their dad and my oldest googles us now and
00:19:01.920 i just want to be very careful my mom never said anything bad about my dad growing up
00:19:07.120 and i really respected that and i want to be that kind of mom and even if i don't say anything the
00:19:12.640 headlines will say i've trashed him somehow so i just you know it was toxic i think period end of
00:19:18.960 story that's all i kind of need to say oh let's just throw out the voice he's wrong right like
00:19:24.800 because toxic yeah toxic be both ways you didn't look like the nicest most loving most down-to-earth
00:19:30.240 person she cited i think there was a work-life balance was cited as one of those do you think
00:19:34.400 maybe why would you date an athlete if you want work-life balance it's not the person to date played
00:19:42.080 into it unmet needs yeah like irreconcilable differences unmet needs you think maybe it played
00:19:46.960 into the fact that he was an nfl quarterback and she was starting a company yeah and maybe
00:19:50.400 there were two ships passing in the night why not say it just didn't work yeah about something called
00:19:55.520 the prenup yep no i mean what are you kidding me that's what it was invented for it uh avoid all
00:20:00.880 this crap well here's the problem too is then men are guilted if it's that he's planning for it to fail
00:20:05.280 okay if he's worth a hundred something million dollars you don't send one you're planning on
00:20:08.400 fleecing it can go both ways it's a wash thank you it's an app it's a wash what let me this is a genuine
00:20:13.760 question how do you solve it how do you fix it because we can women can scream until they're
00:20:19.040 blue in the face who do we trust um well i'll tell you jay cutler got uh 23 reps uh with 225 and uh
00:20:24.560 cavallari zero so you know what i think that makes it up right did he do it in jeans actually and you
00:20:30.880 know what would offend so many hey does that seem like let's be honest here that seemed like a submissive
00:20:35.520 wife that seemed like that seemed like a wife who hey gotta oh i think we can use this term high value man
00:20:42.640 a professional athlete high leverage who's tall and but no she's still mocking him for taking a day
00:20:49.120 off oh her needs aren't met well then you know what pick the construction worker next to you who can do
00:20:55.760 it who can clock out and come home they were all around right but they're not going to finance your
00:21:00.480 your foundation company also do me a favor i mean yeah yeah guys a lot of times finance their women
00:21:07.040 leaving them they'll send them to college or to work and then you're like financing her next move
00:21:12.000 she builds house when you have three children they were married for seven years i think something
00:21:16.000 like that is that something in that ballpark i think three kids how about this i'm not sure the
00:21:23.520 timeline of when you did the uh the reality tv how about not doing the reality tv show and spending
00:21:28.640 time with your family to try to work on things how about not berating your husband and messing with
00:21:33.120 him on a reality tv show in front of the entire country by the way oh it's a tough day for you
00:21:38.240 like how about how about how about working on making sure that you are the very best not not
00:21:44.240 for him for your kids yeah how about this i'm going to take it one step further how about the
00:21:49.680 fact that he was worth 90 million when you married him you don't need your little pet project makeup
00:21:54.080 company because you signed up to be a wife and you shouldn't be paying someone else to raise your
00:21:57.200 kids how about that about that how about you leave the relationship with what you came in with i think
00:22:02.960 that would be fair but that's how men abuse women because then they control them with the 180 000
00:22:08.640 mercedes and 7.5 million dollar house yeah i mean ah damn they can control me it's like
00:22:16.720 you know what's funny at the bed i i had a conversation once with a couple guys back in
00:22:22.320 london and i was like would you guys date oprah if you had to like hook up with her but she's like
00:22:27.920 paying for your lifestyle they're like yeah why not it sucked by the way those they look so bad
00:22:34.480 to me if i yeah first on the planet that things yeah that ugly real real aerodynamic yeah i know
00:22:39.520 i'm a friggin toaster oven with wheels i know they're so bad i mean if they brought them if they
00:22:43.920 brought that out to the right they'd be like okay come on we want sleep crimes i did emotional i have
00:22:49.360 two robots on the line he can design oh i'm sorry he can design a car okay it's not rocket science you
00:22:55.360 take a little heat bug put the engine in the back okay we're fine yes that's done it's like a hearse
00:23:02.560 yeah i like it get me a time screw you tim get me the gremlin or the pacer i'll take that over this
00:23:09.120 i trust this should be guessed now did you know you know the comedian jeff died don't you yeah yeah
00:23:15.440 you get the idea crowder is officially red-pilled um uh you know