Pearl - November 21, 2025


If This Is Our Healthcare System Then WE ARE SCREWED!


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

195.51006

Word Count

1,585

Sentence Count

34

Misogynist Sentences

21

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

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Nursing is one of the most toxic places in the world and I m here to talk about it. I m a nurse in ICU and I ve seen first hand how toxic it can be in the nursing industry.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 had a really long day yeah like is this is this her saying i didn't do a good enough job um and
00:00:05.280 when i got feedback i crashed out wow guys welcome to my reaction series when talking about different
00:00:12.400 professions today in terms of i guess low quality women we've talked about only fans we've talked
00:00:18.080 about sex workers we've talked about you know jobs that don't um that obviously are not ideal
00:00:23.360 for a relationship because they're uh but one job that's really not brought up enough are nurses
00:00:29.600 nurses are very um they're known for being cheaters toxic and it's crazy because the one woman i know
00:00:35.840 that had an affair growing up she actually was a nurse so i guess they've always been this way
00:00:40.480 but let's see what the nurses are saying about nurses the nursing culture is so toxic let's
00:00:44.720 talk about it nurses love to gossip about each other and the people that they work around
00:00:49.040 yeah because here's the thing you put a bunch of women together we just tend to make evil things
00:00:53.520 happen we just tend to not be nice women are brutal to each other in terms of reputation
00:00:58.800 destruction when you have a group of women um i mean even speaking from personal experience all
00:01:04.320 the women will just stop talking to you and it's very awkward you can tell you don't know why but
00:01:08.880 there's always some woman that you pissed off behind the scenes that's telling everyone not
00:01:12.480 to talk to you and you're like i'm just gonna kill myself like talking about you behind your
00:01:15.920 back and you don't even oh god there's a reason i picked male dominated industries no thank you
00:01:20.560 god working with women oh my god so the more information that you give them about your
00:01:26.480 personal life the more they're actually going to be talking about you when you're not around
00:01:29.840 it's never good things about you i was a new ground nurse i didn't know any better so everyone knew
00:01:33.680 everyone's business and there was always some sort of fabricated drama or something yeah women when
00:01:38.720 we're younger we share more when we get older we share less because there's we people don't tend
00:01:43.680 to change until there's a consequence for staying the same and the older you get as a woman the more
00:01:48.880 you see that women are evil um beings and you just can't tell them anything you didn't like somebody
00:01:54.320 And so they wanted you to have this perception that this person wasn't a good person to work
00:01:58.720 with.
00:01:59.120 When you're new and people share these not so nice things about other co-workers, you'll
00:02:03.320 get heavily influenced and also think the same thing.
00:02:06.180 As I've gotten older, I've just.
00:02:07.460 Yeah, you really got to take people at face value.
00:02:09.740 You got to question more about the person that tells you the gossip than like the person
00:02:13.540 that's being talked about.
00:02:14.480 Become more reserved about how I interact with my co-workers because you shouldn't trust
00:02:18.540 everyone.
00:02:18.960 You need to be hyper aware.
00:02:20.340 I'm sharing all of this because I recently just got back into nursing and somebody reported
00:02:23.860 me to hr because i record tiktoks haven't violated anything also shared nothing about my personal
00:02:28.780 life i haven't shared that i made tiktoks the closest people in your circle are preying on
00:02:33.380 your downfall and you don't even know who that is now that i'm older i purposely don't participate
00:02:38.260 and then she keeps making tiktoks that's kind of funny in work gossip i don't talk about people
00:02:44.740 i don't talk negative about them i i mean i doubt it come on just keep my thoughts to myself and to
00:02:50.080 be quite frank, it's not nice. It's not kind. And they always say small minds gossip, big minds
00:02:56.080 talk about ideas. Don't ever take it personally. But all women have to do is gossip because we
00:03:01.360 don't have any ideas. The only ideas we have are men's ideas. 100% be self aware. There are going
00:03:07.780 to be co workers that you become friends with for the rest of your life. But there are going to be
00:03:11.240 people that are secretly jealous of you. I feel like in nursing is one of the most toxic places
00:03:16.220 that you can be a part of and i would say like i wouldn't trust everyone at all it's it's female
00:03:22.380 dominated industries uh god i would not want to be in one um i wonder if modeling's that toxic
00:03:28.940 because i i wonder if it's just ugly women are more toxic than beautiful women but then there's
00:03:34.780 the hot crazy scale i don't know i don't know many models i'm a mid mids no other mids you know i'm
00:03:40.780 an ICU nurse and I've been working in my ICU for almost a year now and this really bothers me about
00:03:46.520 some ICU nurses. I'm talking about the nurses who are condescending and mean and not supportive
00:03:55.560 to other staff, particularly new staff. It sometimes feels like there is a bit of hierarchy
00:04:02.020 in ICU and when you're new you have to like work your way up for people to trust you but along the
00:04:09.300 way people can be really hard and condescending to you in your journey. I notice this the most
00:04:20.420 when you give report to somebody and they tear you apart at your report because you give a really
00:04:29.160 detailed report in ICU and usually you have one or two patients and often the report entails
00:04:35.680 everything and this is their chance to nitpick you if you missed something or if you did something
00:04:43.280 yeah again feminism is like women eating itself so women have so much to say about men but
00:04:48.700 men love us for who we are they understand even with our negative traits they like love us and
00:04:55.460 that's the great thing about men you know I always talk about my dad on this channel and
00:05:00.700 he always told me to just not worry about what you're bad at and focus on what you're good at
00:05:06.540 um and if i ever said but dad i'm not like dad i'm not this i'm not that he's like so what
00:05:12.080 and that's a great thing about men they're like so what figure it out women will just nitpick and
00:05:18.500 they have no solution oh my gosh it's just i am here to ruin your existence and just let you know
00:05:26.140 you're a bad person wrong or they question as to what you did and sometimes they just make you feel
00:05:33.500 like shit and this really bothers me because one you aren't doing this to help them you are just
00:05:41.560 doing it to make them feel bad about themselves and yes yes that's that's the worst part of female
00:05:48.980 criticism is it's never useful like men generally when they give you criticism they're giving you
00:05:54.820 something to improve on. And that's as a woman, if you're like in a relationship, that's you have
00:06:00.560 to realize men when they tell us things, it's not to nitpick at us. So we shouldn't get offended.
00:06:05.660 It's really to help us. Two, you're not showing leadership by pointing out their mistakes and
00:06:11.820 making them feel like crap. You're just taking an opportunity to show your seniority, your
00:06:19.020 experience and prove that you are somehow better than these people it really rubs me the wrong way
00:06:25.580 when people tear you down in report because some days it's after hearing women because you never
00:06:31.280 know what's true because women are also offended by everything um so you don't know if it's the
00:06:36.100 woman being overly offended or the because women are also bitches so it's like is the woman being
00:06:40.400 a bitch or is the woman offended by everything fellowship you just had a really long day
00:06:44.820 Like, is this is this her saying I didn't do a good enough job? And when I got feedback, I crashed out. And I think I'm entitled to doing bad work. Or is she does she have a female boss who's a bitch?
00:06:57.000 And when people treat you like this, you just don't want to come back to work.
00:07:01.740 People don't look up to these kinds of people and think, wow, I want to be just like them.
00:07:07.500 They think, wow, these people are miserable.
00:07:10.400 And they look at people who show leadership qualities, who are nice to others, who help others.
00:07:16.440 And those are the people that they want to be.
00:07:19.000 If you treat people like this, they do not look up to you.
00:07:21.540 people look up to those who are nice to others who help others who take the time to explain things
00:07:28.420 who support people who show leadership i can't tell if the other girl's a bitch or if she's slow
00:07:33.480 i don't know and you are not one of these people yeah that's my little rant and no i don't think
00:07:40.520 i'm a perfect person i've that's so funny that you know her boss is probably like you need to
00:07:46.520 to hr you know anyways guys um let me know what you think in the comments please make sure you
00:07:52.120 like the video and subscribe to the channel do you think that she is um can't take feedback or
00:07:57.960 do you think the other women are i bet if she was hot or you guys would definitely take her side
00:08:04.040 Anyways, like the video.
00:08:05.500 I'll see you next time.