Pearl - November 20, 2025


Reacting To A "BASED" Women Giving Solid Advice Before Marriage


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

189.25726

Word Count

1,528

Sentence Count

34

Misogynist Sentences

9

Hate Speech Sentences

3


Summary

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In this episode, we are talking to a woman who shares what you should ask your partner before you get married. Do you agree or disagree with this advice? Do you think it's a good idea to ask these questions before getting married?

Transcript

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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 when we say we have faith we still divorce so i don't think that matters what up guys welcome to
00:00:05.600 my reaction series so today we are talking to a woman um asking she's a base woman apparently
00:00:12.240 according to this title shares what you should ask before you get married ends to ask your partner
00:00:18.800 let me see if i agree or disagree before you decide to marry them because you're locked in
00:00:23.760 for life my friend so buckle up people love to you're not locked in at all not with these women
00:00:28.720 not with these women you are not locked in even in the slightest romanticized marriage but what
00:00:33.200 actually keeps it together isn't love it is alignment shared values emotional maturity
00:00:40.320 and i don't think it's anything because i think most people end up hating each other so it's just
00:00:44.160 making the choice to stay i think that's pretty much and my observations it's not like the people
00:00:49.120 married 50 years are super in love half the time they hate each other they're just like yeah i'm
00:00:52.960 gonna stick this out ability to have uncomfortable conversations before the ring ever hits the
00:00:58.400 finger question one how much debt do you have and why don't skip this fine yeah that's a good
00:01:05.920 question but it's really more of a question for men not women because men men men when men have
00:01:12.480 debt it's not the woman's problem when women have debt it becomes the man's problem finances break
00:01:16.400 more marriages than infidelity ever will and if you're a man you need to ask her who do you think
00:01:22.480 is responsible for that debt and what is your plan to pay oh she's saying for the guys to ask the
00:01:27.920 girls okay i i really agree with this because debt debt is something that keeps women single you got
00:01:34.560 to pay off your college debt guys off because if her answer is you or if she avoids the question
00:01:39.760 entirely you've just met your first red flag my friend money is a mirror of discipline mindset i
00:01:46.240 know somebody that dumped a girl over her credit card debt because he just felt like he didn't he
00:01:52.560 didn't want it to be his problem you know accountability and you cannot build a future
00:01:57.200 with somebody whose finances are reckless. Question two, what are your political values?
00:02:03.520 You might think it doesn't matter until it does. Politics shape worldview. They determine how
00:02:09.020 somebody sees leadership, gender roles, family, and morality. So if your values completely oppose
00:02:15.220 each other, you will never build a team. You're setting up a debate stage in your own home. If
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00:05:15.260 um i i heard a story of a guy who went on a date right and the date was with a girl that was an
00:05:22.060 antiva activist and he got her to eat meat or like bone broth on the first date when women like you
00:05:28.620 they'll just forget about the politics sees the world through the opposite lens question three
00:05:34.140 what are your religious or spiritual beliefs how strong is your faith is going to church important
00:05:40.140 to you do you pray meditate or believe in energy or god because when life gets hard and it will
00:05:46.300 faith is often yeah again i don't i don't know women having faith is that important because
00:05:52.940 even um even when we say we have faith we still divorce so i don't think that matters
00:05:59.500 an anchor that holds people women can say things like just what we say that we believe something
00:06:04.060 it doesn't matter because we're saying it and we're women and we just lie so together if one
00:06:08.860 person believes deeply and the other mocks it or minimizes it you're in for a lifetime of friction
00:06:14.700 and tension this is not about perfection it's about shared direction and question four are you
00:06:21.980 open to a prenuptial agreement most i think that's a good one emotionally mature adults see the
00:06:28.700 practicality of a prenup it's not about expecting divorce okay it's not it's about it's just in case
00:06:35.180 it happens yes i agree because then if she can be mature about that that's a good sign detecting
00:06:40.220 what existed before love entered the picture a prenup doesn't mean you don't trust your partner
00:06:45.740 and on the contrary it means you both are secure enough to have adult conversations
00:06:49.740 about reality if somebody gets defensive or turns it into a why would you plan for failure
00:06:55.260 that's not romance that is yeah and men uh because i mean i've gone on some conservative
00:07:00.300 shows and the men will say that like you can't have a prenup like michael knowles and i'm like
00:07:05.260 what are you a woman like are you do you think like a woman go an ego destroys marriages faster
00:07:12.540 than money ever will so man we gotta be pragmatic in case it happens you're a good man you lead with
00:07:18.060 integrity if she can't handle this talk without spiraling run for the hills that is not partnership
00:07:23.900 that is emotional instability marriage isn't for the faint of heart guys it is not a fantasy
00:07:29.660 far from it it's a contract between two people who are willing to face the truth
00:07:35.100 not avoid it so before you say i do make sure you've already said let's talk about these four
00:07:40.860 things because the couples who last aren't the ones who avoid these hard conversations
00:07:45.340 they're the ones who have them before they walk down the aisle i agree with two of them to them
00:07:51.520 not really i mean if he's that guy he can just bang the liberal out of her i've seen it happen
00:07:55.460 anyways guys um let me know what you think in the comments please make sure you like the video and
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00:08:03.740 you next time