Pearl - Making the case for single mothers

00:00:00.000 what is up my ninjas welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network um

00:00:08.100 last time i was down here my audio was a little funky so i need one in the chat if you can hear

00:00:12.480 me as you guys know i do self-produce meaning um there's probably going to be issues i'm just

00:00:18.280 gonna i want to i want to put some disclaimers about my show okay i want to put some disclaimers

00:00:26.780 so we can just get through it

00:00:28.860 and I can get through the complaints, right?

00:00:32.720 Oh my gosh.

00:00:35.700 Okay.

00:00:36.580 Number one.

00:00:38.420 There's going to be audio issues constantly.

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00:00:49.900 Yes.

00:00:51.580 Constant audio issues.

00:00:53.220 constant ramblings, constant problems, but there's going to be one consistency, all right? 1.00

00:01:07.280 Hoes are going to ho, keep it on the low. Now look, here's another one. 1.00

00:01:16.600 constant wait for it immaturity do not come to my show and think wow i hope i get a mature

00:01:26.680 take from pro it's going to be immature it's going to be simple why make it difficult when

00:01:35.120 it can be easy right can we can we get a one in the chat if you can hear me one in the chat

00:01:44.480 The lows are gonna hold

00:01:58.580 Keep it on the low

00:02:03.120 Lows are gonna hold

00:02:08.160 Everybody know 0.99

00:02:14.480 Now I ain't saying it's right or it's wrong, but I keep singing these damn love songs. 0.98

00:02:20.500 I know that I'm going too long, but maybe my soul, la, la, la, la. 0.97

00:02:28.020 Alright, how we doing?

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00:02:42.640 Alright, let's start the show.

00:02:44.480 So my disclaimers, immaturity, whatever.

00:02:49.380 So I want to talk about a couple things I've been thinking about recently. 0.56

00:02:54.380 And one of that is I'm so happy to have a white male audience. 0.58

00:03:01.420 My audience is now about, according, I can actually look up the Google form to get the most accurate version. 0.79

00:03:08.020 But I have a Google form in the description where I get data on my audience.

00:03:10.840 and according to that my audience is like 70 percent white and male and at one point in my

00:03:17.780 career I think I had a black audience which was heavily black I don't know how black but like 0.99

00:03:22.420 it was a mix it was a decent amount of blacks okay and it became hell on earth because black 1.00

00:03:30.380 people don't reward honesty right they don't reward good behavior so it's like a terrible 1.00

00:03:36.680 incentive structure and this incentive structure is kind of everywhere in society because women 1.00

00:03:43.000 um constantly reward bad behavior instead of black people right we got to look at what do 0.96

00:03:48.320 black people worship criminals young thug um what was that guy in the 90s who got shot whatever the 0.99

00:03:57.820 hell his name was that's a guy that's worshipped by black people the one that jada tupac right 0.99

00:04:03.940 who do women worship call her daddy lindsey clancy um now we weren't worship the cornell 0.95

00:04:12.460 seven woman so it seems to me that if you get money from women or black people you have to 0.94

00:04:20.040 sell your soul and lie in order to get ahead and i experienced this firsthand i love talking about 0.99

00:04:26.680 myself so I experienced this firsthand when I had a black audience because um I had on Nick Fuentes 0.52

00:04:34.840 Nick Fuentes I had an interview with him um and when I had this interview I had a pleasant interview

00:04:43.820 I liked Nick but I received a lot of pushback and this was from my employees this is from people

00:04:49.100 that I was friends with and it kind of felt like the world was caving in on me where I'm like what

00:04:54.580 did I say that was so wrong in this interview with Nick Fuentes even the guy I was dating at

00:04:59.220 the time was like oh you shouldn't have him on and I'm like what what is the I guess I guess

00:05:04.560 I'm a disobedient woman but I just felt like nobody was giving this guy a fair shake right

00:05:10.640 um and so I had a good faith interview with him and where I talked to him and like heard him out

00:05:19.960 kind of what I do right as an interviewer and everyone gave me pushback and I remember at the 0.98

00:05:24.720 time I totally bowed down and apologized uh to black people basically for having them on

00:05:31.200 and I remember like my producer everyone at the time I remember sitting in this room and saying 1.00

00:05:37.220 I said nothing wrong and everyone in the room saying yeah but so what like you need to apologize

00:05:41.860 and I totally did it was so embarrassing and then I took it back later which is like the worst thing 1.00

00:05:46.800 you can do but I realized at that moment I'm like in order to get money from black people you have 1.00

00:05:54.620 to lie and I really pride myself I'm a woman right so I think at times I do over exaggerate things 1.00

00:06:03.260 and I but I really do my best to be as honest as humanly possible I'm not gonna pretend I'm honest

00:06:09.460 all the time I'm not right but I realized um just I've had a few friends kind of going through some 0.97

00:06:16.400 stuff um drama basically working for women and i think i thought to myself you know it seems like

00:06:22.180 the only money that's honest money in society is the money you get from white guys because they

00:06:27.200 reward good behavior except when they simp so that's that's the roundabout but they actually 0.59

00:06:33.700 reward honesty they reward good behavior not all obviously unless they have the mind of women you

00:06:40.000 so i don't know 0.89

00:06:55.360 you want me to hire you yeah yeah let me just let me

00:07:10.000 but i don't know when you get old in life you learn lessons that's part of life but

00:07:17.660 and i keep thinking about how white guys like to own things and they like to take care of what

00:07:23.340 you have and there's a lot of life lessons that you learn in owning things taking care of what

00:07:27.140 you have keeping expenses low not caring about status or money which is all like white guy

00:07:32.080 traits women and black people tend to care a lot about status so all these white guy traits 1.00

00:07:39.900 um but as soon as you gave women and black people credit cards then they owned the economy 0.73

00:07:46.460 and they basically controlled the purse strings of society so i'm really happy here i just want 0.83

00:07:53.540 money from white guys and i'll take less money but not have to not have to cater right and and

00:08:00.080 i get to be honest and that's why i'm so grateful for this platform in all honesty

00:08:03.780 is that i get to be honest and i'm rewarded for it and it's the only place in society where

00:08:12.840 honesty is rewarded uh to to a degree right you got to go to just pearly things.com

00:08:18.460 slash donate if you want to support me because i do get kicked off but everywhere else honesty

00:08:23.460 is punished and i think this is a simulation right and i thought about this i think god made

00:08:29.600 this simulation, right? And he said, do you love me humans? Do you love me God? And you said, God,

00:08:38.100 yes, I do love you. You're like, okay, well, if you love me, that means you love me more than money.

00:08:44.080 Right? And you're like, yeah, of course I love you more than money. Well, you love me more than you

00:08:48.340 want love. Right? And you're like, yeah, of course I love you more than I want love. Well, you love

00:08:53.120 me more than you want X, Y, Z, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then you said, yes. Right? And then he's

00:08:58.600 like okay well we're gonna test it i'm gonna reward on earth i'm gonna give this earth to 0.94

00:09:02.900 the devil women right and they're only gonna reward terrible behavior and i'm gonna see if 0.79

00:09:09.920 you guys really love me are you gonna do the right thing are you gonna sell out for money

00:09:16.820 and most people sell out for money or they lie to get money and um or popularity

00:09:23.900 so

00:09:26.740 so yeah

00:09:34.720 alright

00:09:36.180 the main event

00:09:38.960 the main event

00:09:40.340 so today

00:09:51.000 I'm going to make the case for dating 0.93

00:09:53.000 single mothers 0.87

00:09:53.900 now before i talk about um the reasons that single mothers are good right i need to first go 1.00

00:10:06.980 through why single mothers are terrible

00:10:11.180 and i'd like to give a disclaimer this isn't saying that you should date a single mother right

00:10:18.080 this is not a recommendation. Only you as a man have consequences for your life and you get to,

00:10:24.380 you know, you get to move accordingly. However, um, I saw a clip by Joshua Lysak or a tweet or

00:10:33.620 something. And he was talking about why you should date a single mother. And I couldn't,

00:10:39.080 I couldn't help but think this ninja has a point. Now I'm not a single mother, right?

00:10:45.420 Nor do I think there's virtue in being a single mother.

00:10:49.660 Right? 1.00

00:10:50.320 I don't think you're necessarily a good person because you're a single mother. 1.00

00:10:53.780 I'm not here to worship single mothers. 1.00

00:10:55.820 I'm not even saying they're a good choice. 1.00

00:10:59.800 But in a society full of terrible choices, sometimes it's the lesser of two evils, right? 1.00

00:11:10.220 So the reasons you shouldn't date a single mother. 0.99

00:11:12.800 Number one, you're raising another guy's kid. 1.00

00:11:15.000 she left the last guy.

00:11:18.460 So what is to say that she won't leave you, king?

00:11:22.920 The last guy she divorced, she left, right?

00:11:26.160 And now you have to put your money, your time, your attention,

00:11:30.260 your resources into another ninja's offspring.

00:11:36.720 That's awful, right?

00:11:38.060 Let's go through it.

00:11:38.980 That's terrible. 0.55

00:11:40.120 another reason to not date single mothers 1.00

00:11:45.120 a lot of them are on benefits 0.99

00:11:50.580 food stamps and child support and alimony

00:11:54.480 if she put the last king on child support and alimony

00:11:57.820 why would she not put you on child support and alimony 0.82

00:12:10.120 number three you might fall in love with that kid and have to give it back later right you could 0.99

00:12:27.480 raise this kid see it as your own and then have to return it and never see the child again this

00:12:34.580 can be detrimental and horrible for the adult, right? This can be such an L. I mean, another

00:12:45.780 reason not to date a single mom, how many times has another man been up in those cheeks? 1.00

00:12:50.580 And now you have to see another man's face to be reminded that he was up in your bitch's 1.00

00:12:55.620 cheeks. Terrible. Um, it shows a level of irresponsibility, right? She, uh, a level of 1.00

00:13:04.740 poor decision-making on her, on her part. A level of, um, evilness, right? She broke

00:13:13.180 up a family. Put it in the chat. Why would you not date a single mother? Why would you 0.99

00:13:18.420 be above dating a single mother. It says it's like cooking food and someone else eating it, 1.00

00:13:27.620 but backwards, right? You're cleaning up her mess. She made a choice, right? In a way, 0.97

00:13:47.940 as a single mother, you know, purchaser, you're, you're an enabler. You're fixing a poor choice. Is

00:13:58.040 that, um, is that good? No, you want your own kids, right? You don't want someone else's kids.

00:14:17.940 The standards they have, right? 1.00

00:14:35.500 Single mothers have high-ass standards. 1.00

00:14:37.840 They expect you to be better than their baby daddy. 1.00

00:14:41.980 That's a terrible way to live.

00:14:47.940 i've googled right why men don't want to date single mothers obviously men often worry they 0.90

00:15:09.780 won't come first that a mother's children come first which can leave the husband

00:15:17.940 Feeling like a second priority.

00:15:36.060 The involvement of the ex, right?

00:15:38.380 You have to navigate relationships with another ninja.

00:15:41.700 you have to navigate the relationship 0.99

00:15:45.600 with another guy who may be able to screw your wife at any time

00:15:53.140 there's emotional and time constraints 1.00

00:15:56.280 single mothers don't have a lot of time for you 1.00

00:15:59.720 you have to work around her schedule 1.00

00:16:01.180 not only her schedule but her kids' schedule

00:16:03.080 you have to babysit

00:16:04.520 you could bond with the child and have to leave

00:16:10.220 right you don't want to be a replacement father

00:16:27.560 you know i mean it's kind of awkward like some other guy was the dad and now you're just stepping

00:16:34.240 in. You don't want the financial pressure. You don't want to have to discipline the kid.

00:16:41.400 How do you discipline another man's kid? Right. You don't want, you know, other men kind of

00:16:50.700 look at you as a cuck, you know, when you're a stepdad. No man is going to look at you and

00:16:59.240 say, wow, I'm so jealous that you got a single mother. No man, right? No. 1.00

00:17:11.820 What if you and the kid don't get along? I mean, the kids want their dads. What if

00:17:15.300 the kid hates you?

00:17:16.100 however

00:17:22.820 there's always a case to be made now my disclaimer this is not advice

00:17:33.940 this is not advice

00:17:39.860 but you know i've beat up a lot on single mothers on this show 1.00

00:17:43.740 I've beat up on them 1.00

00:17:46.380 I've said they're big fat slut whores 1.00

00:17:48.400 They're selfish, they're bitches 1.00

00:17:50.320 They're evil, they're destroying society 1.00

00:17:53.180 Okay, I've said all those things 0.83

00:17:54.920 I've said it

00:17:56.600 And you know, everyone says 1.00

00:17:58.820 Pearl, Pearl, do you hate women? 1.00

00:18:01.240 Yes! 1.00

00:18:02.500 I do, right, I do 0.99

00:18:04.200 Do I hate single mothers? Kind of, right? 1.00

00:18:08.280 Especially 1.00

00:18:08.800 Single mothers 1.00

00:18:10.100 That try to tell me what to do 1.00

00:18:12.660 Bitch, get the fuck out of here. 1.00

00:18:15.160 If you're a single mom, don't want to hear it. 1.00

00:18:21.360 Right?

00:18:22.220 They say, Pearl, do you hate them?

00:18:25.620 Yes, I do. 1.00

00:18:26.840 Do you think they're the scum of the earth? 1.00

00:18:28.540 Yes, I do. 0.99

00:18:34.240 Do you think that what they did was evil?

00:18:38.140 Of course.

00:18:39.520 Do you believe them when they say, oh, my ex was abusive?

00:18:43.080 Of course I don't believe any of them.

00:18:51.620 Do you, I mean, do I believe a word they say?

00:18:54.840 No.

00:18:55.160 Do I think they're good people?

00:18:56.360 No.

00:18:58.360 Do I think that the stepdad isn't a simp?

00:19:01.460 Of course not. 1.00

00:19:04.040 Do I think it's a good idea?

00:19:06.000 Of course not.

00:19:06.840 but we're in a society where all ideas are terrible. There is no good option. But Pearl,

00:19:18.040 but Pearl, this is a terrible option. I know, but sometimes, you know, I might give single mothers 1.00

00:19:26.600 their due. I might make the case. I'm not saying to do it. Don't go. If you guys go date a single

00:19:33.020 mother and then it doesn't work out. It's not my fault. I'm just making the argument

00:19:36.860 today.

00:19:40.640 I'm just making the argument.

00:19:48.080 I'm not responsible for any of the events

00:19:50.920 that partake after this broadcast.

00:19:52.880 However, I do think, and I hear what you guys are saying, I'm not adopting, I'm not adopting

00:20:10.120 another man's case. 0.88

00:20:10.960 Okay.

00:20:11.540 I hear you.

00:20:13.220 All I'm saying is there is a case to be made.

00:20:18.580 Now, number one, we got to reframe this.

00:20:20.640 here's your option in the modern dating market you could go with a young girl right a young woman

00:20:27.580 between 18 to 25 now let's talk about the pros and obviously they're the best option i'm not

00:20:32.260 i'm not here to pretend they're not the best option but not only you qualify for that let's

00:20:38.180 just keep it a buck you're competing with athletes entertainers and celebrities for the 18 to 25

00:20:43.520 You're not only competing with celebrities, you're competing with Drake, yacht parties, events, all of these opportunities, both socially and financially, that you are competing with, with a woman 18 to 25.

00:21:02.700 Even the women that say they want families 18 to 25, there's nobody we can lie to better than ourselves, right? 0.79

00:21:09.600 Nobody. 0.99

00:21:13.520 So when you go with the 18 to 25-year-old women, right, number one, 1.00

00:21:19.740 going to be terrible on your sleep schedule. 1.00

00:21:22.620 Awful, right? 1.00

00:21:23.960 Those women are up all night. 1.00

00:21:25.500 They don't know how to do anything. 1.00

00:21:27.960 They don't know how to cook.

00:21:29.240 They don't know how to clean. 1.00

00:21:29.940 Now, I'm not saying the single mothers will, right? 1.00

00:21:33.400 I would guess there's a higher chance. 1.00

00:21:38.640 I would guess, right?

00:21:40.000 I don't know. 0.99

00:21:43.520 You know, again, today, instead of shitting on single mothers, I'm going to make the case where in a world of terrible choices, when every choice is a terrible choice as a man, except surrogacy, but you white, you white Kings aren't willing to do it. 0.99

00:22:12.240 right? I say, Hey, white Kings, are you going to get a surrogate? Oh no, I can't do that. Well, 0.99

00:22:17.460 all right. Now, now we're in 2026, baby. Hey, I'm going to make the case for single mothers.

00:22:23.280 And now, you know, the guy who came up with this, obviously I stole this from a man, right?

00:22:28.640 Um, I'm going to have him on possibly. I told him I'm going to go live and I'm going to send

00:22:33.440 you the link when I feel like it. And you know, all the white guys are like, what time, what time?

00:22:38.840 i don't know man it's the time i feel like going i can't i can't tell you when my inspiration is

00:22:45.060 just gonna cut that's why i don't like collabs because they all want to go on a schedule and 0.98

00:22:49.440 i'm just i'm not that type of bitch you know 0.98

00:22:51.580 i understand the men in the chat they're saying but single mothers i mean they see you they see 1.00

00:23:05.720 you, they didn't make that other guy marry them. Right. And now they're going to make you jump

00:23:09.480 through all of these hoops and they see you as, as a bailout plan. Right. However,

00:23:16.860 becoming a bailout plan is, is a choice. Don't do it, Pearl. Don't do it. Look, 0.79

00:23:24.180 I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to make the case for single

00:23:29.980 mothers today. I'm going to do it. And I'm not saying it's a good idea, but it's an idea.

00:23:35.720 Number one, single mothers are more likely to be on a sleep schedule that fits with your schedule as a man. 0.97

00:23:45.920 They got to get the kids to school, right? 1.00

00:23:50.300 So you got to, you don't have to be up all night.

00:23:53.640 I know you guys are white guys, right? 0.59

00:23:55.880 You are white males. 0.61

00:23:58.300 There is a white guy sleep schedule. 0.78

00:24:01.160 And that's get up at 5 a.m., right? 0.57

00:24:03.820 6 a.m. 1.00

00:24:05.400 No 18 to 25 year old bitch is going to be up at 6 a.m. 1.00

00:24:09.900 No. 1.00

00:24:11.160 But the single mothers, they're up. 1.00

00:24:14.520 They're getting little Timmy ready for school. 1.00

00:24:17.500 Right?

00:24:19.440 Hey, hey, hey.

00:24:22.280 Number two.

00:24:24.660 It's cooked anyway.

00:24:27.620 Now a lot of you ninjas, you say to me, but Pearl. 1.00

00:24:34.660 but Pearl, why don't I just go to a younger single woman? Because now hear me out. You're 1.00

00:24:41.700 going to have to put in, if she's 20, you're going to have to wait like five to 10 years for a kid. 0.99

00:24:47.160 Oh, but Pearl, I'm just going to, I'm going to be Chad and she's going to meet me and just want 0.97

00:24:51.940 a kid right away. Yeah. Right. I mean, like how old, how soon do you want a kid?

00:24:56.080 i mean you know she just popped one out she's done it before she could just pop you out another 1.00

00:25:07.020 right now i hear what you're saying but pearl i don't want a mixed family well your family's 1.00

00:25:12.980 probably going to be mixed anyway you could get that 25 year old right let's say you knock her 0.95

00:25:16.860 up at 28 now at 34 she's going to leave you and go have a kid with tyrone cooked cooked either way 0.91

00:25:23.200 single mothers with six kids figures in their bank account is greater than a hot 25 year old 1.00

00:25:28.220 with a hundred thousand dollars of student debt yeah another one student debt right 1.00

00:25:32.840 the single mother has the ex baby daddy to pay for all the shit right 1.00

00:25:41.060 so he's paying for it in a way you're the ultimate tyrone because he's paying she took his house 0.99

00:25:51.880 He's paying, right?

00:25:55.880 Now, you can come in and get kid number two for free.

00:25:59.020 I'm hearing a discount.

00:26:01.440 I'm hearing a discount. 1.00

00:26:04.820 Lots of teen moms out there.

00:26:06.840 That's just statistically not true. 1.00

00:26:11.520 Next, the single mothers are usually hotter, right? 1.00

00:26:18.240 They're better looking. 1.00

00:26:19.600 usually there's a reason that last man shot up in the club you shot you shoot up in the club

00:26:27.320 for the best genetics possible you don't shoot up mids in the club the mids single and childless

00:26:36.080 now if you're 50 right let's say you want to pop out one real quick or you're 40 0.95

00:26:43.300 you want to pop up that single mother is ready to go she's not getting invited to parties

00:26:49.540 they say they she says oh i gotta find a babysitter for my kid ghosted right you're 0.62

00:26:57.320 not competing with parties events or anything cool because that ship has sailed that ship 1.00

00:27:04.340 sailed she's probably got an extra 20 pounds from the first kid so if you want her to stay 0.80

00:27:10.780 home like let's say you want her to stay home with the kid you're like hey you know the the 0.73

00:27:17.200 young woman, right, she's like, oh no, I don't want to stay home, I have to go do all this 1.00

00:27:22.400 stuff, I have my friend group, I have this, the single mother has already been ostracized

00:27:28.860 from her friend group, she's already been ostracized because she has a kid and all those 1.00

00:27:35.160 bitches don't, now again, I'm not saying this is a good idea, right, but at some point, 1.00

00:27:47.200 I'm just making the case. 1.00

00:27:51.540 I'm making the case.

00:27:52.820 Somebody's got to make the case because, look,

00:27:55.440 there are men out there that do this every single day,

00:27:58.500 and I need to articulate the environment.

00:28:02.280 Men, white men in particular, they're logical beings.

00:28:09.420 Oh, but, Pearl, it's a terrible idea.

00:28:11.400 How did you guys figure out it was a terrible idea?

00:28:13.580 Did you date one?

00:28:14.540 Oh, I know.

00:28:15.260 You did.

00:28:15.680 they all they're all criticizing me as if they've never dated a single mother

00:28:21.480 now we gotta we gotta explain why the men do it

00:28:30.140 because it's not like they do it for no reason

00:28:39.820 now one reason men say they don't want to date single mothers

00:28:44.140 is, well, you don't, you know, we, I don't want her to be your second priority. 0.53

00:28:52.260 Do you really need to be your first priority? Do you want a woman 1.00

00:28:56.220 ruminating all day and what you're doing, who you're around? The single mother doesn't have 1.00

00:29:03.740 time for that. The single mother, right? She doesn't have time 1.00

00:29:10.860 to be on your shit 1.00

00:29:14.020 because she's watching her kids. 1.00

00:29:23.580 Now, the problem is 0.98

00:29:25.160 you guys keep marrying single mothers. 1.00

00:29:28.240 I didn't say to marry 0.97

00:29:30.920 to get legally entwined in a single mother. 1.00

00:29:35.200 But, hear me out, right? 0.96

00:29:37.800 You're older, she's older,

00:29:39.580 you got your house, 1.00

00:29:40.380 she's got her house, get that bitch pregnant, why not, you know what I mean, get her, knock 1.00

00:29:48.380 that bitch up, she's already gotten knocked up once before, right, and say, ma'am, pay 1.00

00:29:58.060 for your own house, you make your ex baby daddy pay for it, you know, you make your 1.00

00:30:07.020 X, whatever, you know? 0.94

00:30:14.840 Now, the next, you know, case for why you should date a single mother, 0.98

00:30:18.880 you could, right? You could. I'm going to say could. 0.98

00:30:24.680 Humble, right? There's a level of humility that

00:30:28.360 single mothers can have. Now, I'm not saying that single mothers 1.00

00:30:32.580 do have this. There's a lot of arrogant single mothers, right? 1.00

00:30:37.020 But some single mothers do have a little bit of humility. 1.00

00:30:46.320 A little bit. 1.00

00:30:52.040 Number four, she didn't abort that kid.

00:30:56.200 You know, you don't know.

00:30:57.440 Look, again, every choice is a bad choice on the dating market. 0.91

00:31:01.680 Now, women have kids 28 to 35, right, nowadays. 0.79

00:31:05.220 That's the age most women, oh, Pearl, my woman is not going to be a statistic. 1.00

00:31:09.540 It's probably going to be a statistic, right? 1.00

00:31:11.360 That's the age. 1.00

00:31:12.580 At that age, the other women have had abortions. 0.99

00:31:16.080 Is that better?

00:31:19.480 STDs, student debt, all of these are terrible choices.

00:31:24.740 In this dating market, every choice is a bad choice.

00:31:31.200 Right? 1.00

00:31:31.720 And at least with the single mothers, you see that, oh, she didn't kill her kid. 0.99

00:31:39.280 That's good to know nowadays. 0.69

00:31:45.660 Yeah, it's better today's single mother than a mother with a husband, right?

00:31:49.520 Some of you guys are side dudes.

00:31:58.620 Right?

00:32:01.720 Now you have a case study. You can see firsthand how good of a mother is she. Now most single 0.90

00:32:10.580 mothers are going to be terrible, right? But on the off chance that she actually cares 1.00

00:32:15.760 about her kids, you have a case study. You have a proof of concept. When you're investing

00:32:23.000 in a business, it's always good to have the most information. You could figure out who

00:32:27.600 the exes and talk to him. How is your experience with this single mother, right? Go get his side 1.00

00:32:33.840 of the story, King. You can never get the ex's side of the story. There's no attachment to the

00:32:38.720 bitch's ex-boy. You know, you're getting a 28 to 35 year old. Do you get to talk to her ex-boyfriend 1.00

00:32:47.120 of three years, five years, ten years, no, no. Number four, what if the baby daddy is

00:33:01.960 cool? You know, what if he's, what if he's cool to hang out with? You know, you could

00:33:06.820 find a new friend, right? And then, right, whenever she's giving you shit, you get that 1.00

00:33:12.840 other baby dad would be like, look, ninja, shut up. Shut up. You know. 1.00

00:33:33.960 Now, again, I'm not saying to date single mothers, right? I'm not saying to date them. 1.00

00:33:42.840 I'm not a single mother, right?

00:33:44.820 I don't have a reason to say this.

00:33:47.240 But you have to ask, you know, there's so many men that do it.

00:33:50.380 Why would they do it?

00:33:51.760 You know, there has to be a reason. 0.93

00:33:54.860 Men don't do things for no reason.

00:33:56.900 So maybe this is me trying to understand their point of view.

00:34:03.120 A lot of you guys in the chat judging me for this stream

00:34:06.180 have yourself dated single mothers.

00:34:10.900 What was the cost-benefit analysis going on in your head? 0.96

00:34:15.400 Right?

00:34:15.740 There had to be one. 1.00

00:34:20.720 Next, single mothers always have snacks. 1.00

00:34:25.660 They have snacks. 0.96

00:34:27.400 You go to their house, they got snacks stocked up.

00:34:31.740 Right?

00:34:32.700 You can go over there and she can bring you a juice.

00:34:35.300 you get every other weekend that she's all isn't it wouldn't it be kind of nice to focus on your 1.00

00:34:42.480 stuff and only be able to see a bitch every other weekend isn't that kind of convenient 1.00

00:34:47.560 right that's a little bit convenient you know the 18 year old woman is going to be begging you for 1.00

00:34:54.360 your time your attention your money the single mother gives you snacks and every other weekend 1.00

00:35:01.800 right

00:35:12.540 they have snacks but also an ex-husband that's true but look at at least the ex-husband you know 1.00

00:35:19.080 who he is every bitch has an ex something right so before you know it was some guy that you don't 1.00

00:35:27.180 know and he could sneak in the back door at any time at least the the ex you can talk to him 0.99

00:35:32.460 you can't talk to an ex that's psycho i disagree i think you should talk to the ex see what he's

00:35:39.140 about right because she's gonna say all this terrible stuff about him and it's not gonna be

00:35:43.500 true so you should just go talk to him and be like hey man i want to date your you know your

00:35:48.020 ex-wife and i really want us to get along can i hear your side of the story because i know she's

00:35:51.620 going to tell me this stuff and then you get his like side of the story and then you can at least

00:35:57.460 see like what's coming right maybe you can even get some tips you know easy sex a single mother 1.00

00:36:04.240 is not going to be that hard to get sex from right depending on the kid's age she can bring 0.74

00:36:13.300 you bottled milk yeah look at i'm not saying that you should but there's a reason my men do 0.83

00:36:18.580 you can look at her and say

00:36:30.040 is she a good mom

00:36:30.960 now I know what you're thinking 1.00

00:36:35.800 but Pearl single mothers are terrible 1.00

00:36:37.760 most of them are right 1.00

00:36:38.980 but again Lindsay Clancy had no kids 0.99

00:36:42.100 no tattoos and came from a two parent home 1.00

00:36:44.320 and she murdered her kids 1.00

00:36:47.220 in broad daylight like at least you can look at this and say well she didn't she didn't murder

00:36:53.860 her kids so I guess that's good they're not too busy I mean what is this whole oh I want to be

00:37:00.720 I want her to be obsessed with me do you really I mean I can understand it right the ego but just 0.92

00:37:06.720 from a practicality and convenience don't you have better things to do than to worry about a woman

00:37:12.600 who's obsessed with you wouldn't it make more sense for her to be obsessed with her kids and

00:37:16.820 then just bring you sex wouldn't that kind of be ideal do you guys really are you women like

00:37:21.460 women like spending time together do you guys really like hanging out with us that much 0.96

00:37:25.760 now you're saying well what if the ex did everything to scare me off well then you

00:37:38.200 got to find a new single mom there's a lot of single moms that are amicable with their exes 0.99

00:37:42.020 and maybe you don't like you maybe you want like now you have a proof of concept what did she do 1.00

00:37:47.620 to her ex how much child support is he on now you kind of know what you're in for right well she did 0.86

00:37:54.000 that to the last guy i'm not special she'll do that to me single mothers at least up front are 1.00

00:37:59.740 letting you know you're not special she would have a kid with another dude women without kids are 1.00

00:38:05.460 still gonna sell you the dream right they're gonna sell you the dream that you're special 1.00

00:38:12.380 Single mothers let you know up front that you're not, right? 0.72

00:38:16.760 They're letting you know up front it's transactional. 1.00

00:38:20.120 Young women pretend it's not, you know? 1.00

00:38:24.800 You've never met a good single mother. 1.00

00:38:26.720 Okay, I understand, right? 1.00

00:38:30.240 I understand they're mostly awful, terrible, you know? 0.87

00:38:34.960 single mother is easier to leave right you have a lot less guilt

00:38:44.580 do you really feel that guilty about leaving a single mother 0.84

00:38:48.940 do you care 0.63

00:38:53.660 what would happen if all men stopped serious relationships with modern women if they engaged

00:39:00.660 in hookup culture and only married virgins with a dowry that'll never happen 1.00

00:39:04.520 they'll do that for a decade then get tired at like 29 and pick a ran through bitch i mean this 1.00

00:39:12.060 is what it is i mean look this is what it is 0.99

00:39:15.440 you can look at what lawyer she used right and all the tricks she used on her ex-husband and

00:39:31.940 prepare accordingly. You can look at how long they were together, what mechanisms she used,

00:39:38.300 right? And just prepare for her to do that for you. No dreams sold, nothing. Know what you're

00:39:47.840 getting into. If you want her to be a stay-at-home wife, right? She's ready to go because she's 1.00

00:39:56.020 probably kind of stressed, you know. You could require, right, that she gives the kid to 0.85

00:40:03.380 the dad. All right, my brother's calling me. I'm going to take a quick commercial break.

00:40:08.360 Hold on. Hey, how's it going? Yeah.

00:40:26.020 Okay.

00:40:40.140 Okay.

00:40:47.560 Okay.

00:40:48.580 All right.

00:40:49.200 Thank you.

00:40:49.780 Love you.

00:40:51.500 Bye.

00:40:53.480 Sorry.

00:40:54.060 I gotta get my brother.

00:40:56.020 You don't know I have a brother?

00:41:10.080 I have like five brothers.

00:41:11.400 That's kind of my favorite one.

00:41:14.240 I'm not even going to lie to you. 0.99

00:41:26.020 but yeah i'm not i'm not saying that you should date a single mother right there's a lot of issues

00:41:36.160 but you could this is a choice

00:41:39.400 now they're saying you know um well what about the eggs they're going to be older right well the eggs

00:41:49.460 are going to be older anyway oh but pearl i'm not going to be a statistic well

00:41:55.360 I've heard that one before you know what I mean

00:42:00.360 do what Aaron Clary did get the snip

00:42:06.340 use protection and have fun don't get serious well yeah okay you know

00:42:10.300 and I totally agree with you however men want kids

00:42:14.500 most men want children

00:42:16.120 men that don't want kids are an anomaly men that don't want love are an anomaly

00:42:22.260 right most men want to be fathers and they want kids

00:42:28.420 single moms don't get clingy right they cling to their kids 0.98

00:42:33.380 they cling they'll you know you don't even have to feel bad about dumping her she has her ex 1.00

00:42:37.940 baby daddy to comfort her right a young woman is gonna crash out

00:42:42.900 Thank you.

00:43:12.900 Amen. 0.99

00:43:42.900 yeah the 19 year old girl she's probably talking to 25 different guys

00:43:49.660 the single mother is probably talking to four right we're not going to live in fantasy world

00:43:56.880 and say she's not talking to other men of course she's talking to other men 1.00

00:44:00.040 that's the biggest cope like i oh my god one of the biggest copes fat women get matches on dating 1.00

00:44:07.560 apps. Yes. And they're better than you. Yeah. No matter who you are. Yeah. The 19 year old 1.00

00:44:18.260 talking to 25 guys, 19 of them are influencers, two celebrities, one of them Trump and two

00:44:23.560 of them are politicians, right? Like the 19 year old is just really competitive nowadays.

00:44:30.560 lawsuits are the new divorce because men won't marry that's true 0.95

00:44:39.600 right but that's what i mean at least with the single mother you have a proof of concept you

00:44:45.340 know exactly what she's gonna do people have habits they have patterns i'm just making a case 0.99

00:44:51.840 and if especially if you can get a rich a rich single mom maybe with a rich baby daddy 1.00

00:44:57.900 He could pay for it. 0.95

00:45:01.440 Now little Johnny, your little Johnny can, instead of him cucking you, you cuck him right back. 0.94

00:45:08.100 Cuck him, you know? 0.86

00:45:10.860 I'm sure he's thriving ever since she left.

00:45:20.240 She's got his house.

00:45:21.800 Now you don't have to buy her a house.

00:45:23.620 is this the worst idea i ever had 1.00

00:45:29.800 i mean look again i'm not saying you should date single mothers but there's a reason 1.00

00:45:37.380 why people do you know people do it for a reason

00:45:42.120 you could get her to spend the child support on you king the alimony on you king

00:45:51.100 I've seen three single moms date the stepdad and then turn 18 and she breaks up the relationship 1.00

00:46:02.020 making him waste 10 years no no that's because you looked at it the wrong way right make her

00:46:08.500 pay for her own kid you don't pay for that kid right now hear me out hear me out 1.00

00:46:13.860 understand that she's gonna leave like she is leaving anyways that bitch is going she's gone 1.00

00:46:24.920 wasting 10 years you got 10 years of poonanny was she sleeping with him 1.00

00:46:36.040 right i'm not saying this is the best option but it's a option and there's a reason men do it you 0.57

00:46:41.180 know. Now, right, you got 10 years and he can go for a younger woman. Yeah, all relationships

00:46:51.860 have an expiration date. No responsibility. They do spend on the new guy. I've been there

00:47:00.060 and done that. Yeah, I know. But you can have her spend his money on you. And then if she's

00:47:06.840 that responsible bounce king bounce what are we doing

00:47:14.380 now they're calling me cucks in the chat right and i guess you know i guess that's kind of fair

00:47:22.400 this is a little bit of a cucked conversation 0.57

00:47:25.240 this is kind of i'm not even going to pretend but all men are cucked right your mistake is thinking 0.90

00:47:36.040 that you're not going to be cucked in 2026 does your girl have access to social media are you

00:47:42.460 planning on spending all the time to monitor it and make sure she's not cheating and do all that

00:47:47.920 that is too much time are you planning on not having kids right most men want to have kids on 0.60

00:47:55.740 some level right and maybe you know the 18 to 28 year old women are you're you're competing with

00:48:01.960 celebrities you're probably not gonna get that you know so now we kind of we gotta like we gotta 1.00

00:48:08.820 see what we are gonna do with the chessboard we keep trying to you know someone said what if we

00:48:14.300 only wait for virgin wives it's cooked it's done what are we supposed to do well you got to come

00:48:20.500 up with your own plan I'm just all I'm doing is giving you choices because you know I've seen men 0.99

00:48:27.260 get the virgin trad wives and have them screw them. Actually, right now, the two worst divorces 0.99

00:48:33.720 that I've seen, ooh, the top four, three were virgin trad wives out of four. No, sorry, two 0.98

00:48:42.560 were virgin trad wives. One was not a virgin, but was pretty religious. So three out of four

00:48:48.680 of the good on paper girls, you know, both of the women going viral right now, the one that did the 0.90

00:48:55.700 gangbang and lindsey clancy no um i i guess the the gangbang girl did have tattoos to be fair 1.00

00:49:03.340 but lindsey clancy no tattoos good job 1.00

00:49:06.440 you know 0.96

00:49:10.480 it's all cooked fellas and you know you guys in the chat you want me to pretend it's not

00:49:31.720 cooked i'm saying this is a choice because really realistically you're gonna get

00:49:36.240 uh no kids bunch of student debt i don't know no kids student debt and an std

00:49:43.200 um i don't know past the gang bangs imj doe um single mother right

00:50:00.080 as you age you come to the realization you're not going to get a woman without kids i know

00:50:04.020 instead of just assume why are you assuming you know you're saying she'll cheat with the baby

00:50:16.420 daddy why are you assuming she's not gonna cheat why are you assuming that she's not like why are

00:50:26.180 you going into this not just accepting that pearl you need to contact me via pearl university get

00:50:32.660 my story in your documentary eight-year divorce half a million dollars in legal fees 10 reports

00:50:37.660 to cps totally wild story possibly um i don't know we have a lot of pretty wild stories in the doc

00:50:43.220 already so i don't know what this story would be that's different than like i don't know i've i

00:50:49.340 already have reports to cps i have really high legal fees i have like

00:50:54.320 so i don't know but we're i'll tell you when the next round of interviews are

00:51:06.160 it's not we gotta do some stuff first um

00:51:09.500 yeah she's not yours it's just your turn 0.99

00:51:13.900 hold on let me let the dog out hold on

00:51:19.540 You're getting multiple people

00:51:48.780 to lose their licenses and face jail time oh that's kind of cool how are you doing that

00:51:53.600 she's not yours it's just your turn i know and now now okay everyone's saying she's not yours

00:52:04.020 it's just your turn and when you date a single mother your turn is last and that's completely 0.95

00:52:08.380 true but everybody gets a turn like is a turn really that special okay you get to go first 0.85

00:52:16.760 Is the sex first really that different from the sex she has with the guy that's second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth, tenth, eleventh, twelfth?

00:52:25.000 Like, okay, you're so special because you got in there third.

00:52:27.700 Okay, you know what I mean?

00:52:30.740 The betas are getting the kids nowadays. 0.99

00:52:33.620 Nowadays, alpha fucks, you know, betas are getting more kids than alpha fucks, you know? 0.98

00:52:41.260 So you could use this. 0.99

00:52:42.920 This is, you know, I'm trying to help you.

00:52:45.980 Think about it differently, right?

00:52:48.500 This is a game you can't win.

00:52:50.840 You're not going to win.

00:52:52.420 So you might as well get, you know, you could get a second kid.

00:52:55.320 You could be the second baby daddy. 0.72

00:52:57.700 You could go through a few single mothers.

00:52:59.960 Be a couple second baby daddy. 0.94

00:53:15.980 just is what it is

00:53:23.260 it is what it is

00:53:27.640 you know

00:53:28.120 come on keep giving me your objections

00:53:34.120 keep giving me your objections

00:53:35.880 and I'm going to object your objections

00:53:38.020 you'll never be first

00:53:40.620 you're not first anyway

00:53:43.240 yeah now you get your turn right now you know what'll be great is she'll pretend like she had 0.96

00:53:56.320 that failure of the divorce right and now she has to pretend she's not a failure so she'll be little

00:54:01.540 she'll be really nice to you for a little bit not a lot of bit and again I'm not even encouraging

00:54:07.780 this. I'm not even encouraging this. I'm just saying a case can be made. A case can be

00:54:20.740 made. Oh, but Pearl, I want a woman with a low body count. You're not getting a woman 1.00

00:54:28.280 with a low body count. What's a low body count to you? What incentive do women have 1.00

00:54:37.160 to be honest about the body count? Why would she be honest with you? But my girl's different. Men 1.00

00:54:41.820 and their egos, right? Men and their egos, right? Oh, I want a girl that's 18 to 25. Well, are you

00:54:52.240 going to get it? No, probably not. I mean, you might smash, but are you going to get the 18 to

00:54:56.400 25 year old to give you a kid? Probably not. Now, but the great thing is you can get your single

00:55:03.480 mother put a kid in that and then when she inevitably leaves you you can go put your kid 1.00

00:55:10.240 in another bitch right put your kid in another bitch yeah you know you can't have a serious 1.00

00:55:26.480 relationship with single moms you can have a serious relationship with anybody 1.00

00:55:30.220 oh but pearl the single mom's gonna be terrible of course she's gonna be terrible right is the 0.94

00:55:37.360 single woman gonna be better i mean single mother woman on antidepressants women with this 0.53

00:55:42.360 like single mothers are less on their phones right because they they have to well they should be right 1.00

00:55:47.900 i mean who knows but hypothetically right if you find a good single mom she has to watch her kids 1.00

00:55:53.940 and therefore has less internet brain rot. 1.00

00:55:57.100 When you're 18 to 25,

00:55:59.540 do you know how many celebrities are hitting you up all the time,

00:56:01.960 how exciting your phone is?

00:56:03.540 You're never leaving that thing.

00:56:10.260 You're never leaving that thing.

00:56:16.120 Pearl, it's a bad deal.

00:56:17.720 I know.

00:56:20.960 But they're all bad deals.

00:56:22.580 and i'm saying you know you could you could structure it right just we're making the case today

00:56:27.860 like imagine so you find your single mother right and you say

00:56:37.940 you in that house over there

00:56:41.780 daycare for all the men knocking her up you know because you don't have to buy her a house 1.00

00:56:48.500 her ex-husband bought her the house 1.00

00:56:52.580 She stole that house. 1.00

00:56:56.180 Now, I mean, why would you have to buy her a house if she already stole his house? 0.67

00:57:03.100 You could be the beta bucks guy, right?

00:57:05.400 But you could work it in a way that benefits you, right?

00:57:10.720 I grew up with a single mother household.

00:57:13.100 And whenever she had a new hubby, they would pretend to like me. 0.94

00:57:15.560 And I could tell they're only acting to score points with the mother.

00:57:18.600 well mothers hate their kids so much you don't even have to pretend to like her kid

00:57:22.880 just say single mother right you can pay for it look at your you got the child support maybe 0.52

00:57:30.020 how can we use how can we how can we manipulate her into oh you know what i need you to be 0.99

00:57:36.960 financially responsible right and um you know now we can both have it because women actually go on 1.00

00:57:42.880 social media and say how they like their space and they want their own house right so you can 1.00

00:57:48.520 say, you know what? I don't want to impede on your space. Now, hear me out. You get this girl

00:57:53.680 pregnant, right? You get her pregnant. Now, hear me out. Now, you only have to see her every other 1.00

00:57:59.020 weekend, right? Four days of, like, you know, this whole idea that's like, oh, I want her to be

00:58:07.420 obsessed with me. Don't you have better things to do than deal with a bitch that's obsessed with you? 1.00

00:58:11.400 she was obsessed with baby daddy number one you're just here to get your kid and bounce 1.00

00:58:18.440 that's it you know

00:58:21.600 tyrone will pay child support you know in five to ten years

00:58:30.240 i keep telling you guys to get surrogates but no the white guys don't want to do that so it's like

00:58:39.340 okay. If you don't want to get a surrogate, I gave you guys the best option. Even the gay men

00:58:46.580 came to that conclusion. The gay men in a way are very practical. The gay men come in and say, 0.79

00:58:52.200 we're not dealing with women. They're too much. It's you white guys that say, I must provide. 1.00

00:58:59.680 I must do the right thing. I cannot buy a bitch. I cannot buy a surrogate. Well, 1.00

00:59:05.900 now we have to now we have to go through the subpar options remember all options are subpar 1.00

00:59:13.160 i know a woman right and it was crazy she actually looked like me i had a college roommate people 0.97

00:59:18.180 thought we were sisters so if you're into this kind of thing there's a twin of me out there

00:59:22.480 people thought we were twins we were the same height um we were within like five pounds of

00:59:26.900 each other and we would go around campus she's my college roommate i shouldn't provide this many 1.00

00:59:32.100 details um but okay but but hear me out most frugal woman but our college was expensive 1.00

00:59:41.800 right our college was so expensive she had no kids right not overly like you know out there 1.00

00:59:48.460 because there's a small school I guess you could do you could do a gangbang at a small school right

00:59:52.820 but you better do that out of state or something you know because everyone would know and we had

00:59:59.180 like 4,000 people at our school. It was not big. That would get out. But, you know, now she has

01:00:05.460 all the debt. But hear me out. The single mother has child support coming in from someone else.

01:00:14.160 You could beta bucks your way into alpha fucks in a way. When you want to hit, 1.00

01:00:20.900 you can make the baby daddy watch the kids. You just got to use this to your advantage.

01:00:29.180 I don't want to marry a single mother. 1.00

01:00:31.120 Well, why'd you... 1.00

01:00:31.800 I didn't say marry, right?

01:00:34.040 I didn't say marry.

01:00:35.080 I didn't say marry. 1.00

01:00:37.360 I said knock that bitch up. 1.00

01:00:40.740 Knock that... 1.00

01:00:41.840 You went to a small school.

01:00:45.720 I'm not saying they don't happen.

01:00:49.880 I'm saying that's a pretty high risk.

01:00:51.940 Okay, maybe she did gang bangs in her free time and I didn't know about it.

01:00:55.660 I don't know.

01:00:56.800 I'm not looking.

01:00:57.500 I'm not saying. 0.91

01:00:59.680 I'm just saying, look, there's a reason why men wife up single mothers.

01:01:04.260 Men don't do anything that's illogical.

01:01:06.220 So I'm not saying it was a good reason.

01:01:07.920 I'm not saying it was the best reason, but men always have a reason, right? 1.00

01:01:13.080 And today, you know, I've been beating on these single moms for years. 1.00

01:01:18.240 Years I've been saying they're terrible. 1.00

01:01:20.020 They ruin society.

01:01:21.520 They're the source of all the problems.

01:01:23.260 But they could be your solution, King.

01:01:25.180 they could be your solution king

01:01:30.700 now again if you're leonardo dicaprio if you're that ninja go get you the 18 to 25 year old 1.00

01:01:39.820 bitches but good luck convincing them not to go to coachella and have your kid 1.00

01:01:45.280 good luck you're gonna you're gonna tell the 18 to 25 year old bitches don't go to university of 1.00

01:01:51.980 Arizona. Don't, you know what? No, just stay with me, your high school sweetheart, and don't go 1.00

01:01:57.940 party with Drake. When you get the single mom, she's already done all that. She's had her fun. 0.99

01:02:06.380 Easier to cheat on, right? They're busy. She already had her fun. You can go have yours,

01:02:14.940 king. You can go have yours. Have fun watching your kids. My advice, don't do it. But all of

01:02:26.820 you did it, right? Where is that advice coming from? You all did it, right? That's why you're

01:02:33.160 here. Oh, I would never do that. I can't. Men. You know, I shit on women and I love shitting

01:02:41.780 on women, but I need to shit on delusional men. I've seen so many of you for one hot 1.00

01:02:49.660 poo nanny. Look, I've seen it. And you say that you have all these standards until a 1.00

01:02:56.660 woman bats her eyes at you. And then they go away. I've seen it so many times. Even

01:03:05.380 the red pill ninjas get caught with women. You know what? Red pill ninjas get caught 0.98

01:03:11.440 with single mothers. They can't even, we do this for a living. And we get caught with 1.00

01:03:19.260 single mothers. It's like asking women not to whore, right? These e-girls get caught 1.00

01:03:25.300 doing the most debaucherous, diabolical stuff. Asking men not to white knight, it's not going 1.00

01:03:32.420 to happen? Asking women not to whore? It's just, it's a matter of time. Well, you lost 1.00

01:03:40.220 your house. Well, if you dated a single mother, you could live in another guy's stolen house. 0.99

01:03:48.700 She's got a house. 1.00

01:03:57.280 You were born red pill. Do you know what? I got a brother and this brother, I'm telling

01:04:02.340 you he is a naturally red pill ninja his whole my whole life okay i'll tell you we me and him

01:04:08.820 fought we fought like crazy when we were young until the day i would say this i realized he was

01:04:13.340 smarter than me and i realized you know how humbling that is as a woman to realize my little

01:04:18.280 brother is smarter he's smarter than me right and when i realized he was smarter than me

01:04:26.380 I started listening to him more. Then we got along. We've been best friends,

01:04:30.900 but I've seen him like this brother used to bring bitches over from Tinder to my parents' house 1.00

01:04:37.720 and my mom would yell at him and he just didn't give a fuck. Like he's a naturally red pill. 1.00

01:04:44.480 It was so funny. He would be like, Oh, let me help you with this stuff, Hannah. And then the

01:04:51.620 girl would just be sitting there. Like he would make the girl on this date, just sit there and 0.99

01:04:55.280 then smashed. My mom would be mad. He didn't care. Like, I've seen him throw a party in 1.00

01:05:00.100 front of my mother. Do you know how red pill you have to be to throw a party in your parents'

01:05:05.060 house with them yelling at you? And even he'll fold for a pretty bitch. Do you know 1.00

01:05:10.960 what I mean? Yes. Your problem is expecting you're not going to fold. Why would you expect

01:05:17.940 that. You're gonna fold. Okay. And no, even red pill ninjas can't resist single mothers. Why are

01:05:28.040 you better? How many bitches have you smashed in the last year? If you open it up to single moms, 1.00

01:05:34.300 you know, do you know what? She'll bang you like her life depends on it because it kind of does. 1.00

01:05:41.580 it's kind of like a bitch banging you for a green card her life depends on it 1.00

01:05:50.340 yeah yeah it depends on it so you have no like she's gonna make it so easy for you to smash 1.00

01:06:01.420 these 18 to 25 year olds want dinner i've heard they're charging men to go on dates with them 1.00

01:06:07.260 a single mother who will get on her knees if you know what I mean 1.00

01:06:11.680 she'll beg for now and you can just look at the ex-husband right and be like what did she do to 1.00

01:06:19.100 him and then prepare accordingly you have a template for exactly how long I would divide

01:06:25.320 however long she stayed with him her pair bonding's worse now so divide that in half that's how long

01:06:30.100 you got with her and just prepare for the divorce king prepare get ready

01:06:35.900 all right so this show was inspired um by um a a guy I've been reacting to um Joshua Lysak he's a

01:06:47.920 ghost writer he's written like a bajillion books I don't remember how many but a lot

01:06:52.140 and um you know he actually kind of inspired this stream i couldn't get out of my head

01:07:00.120 the last few days because you know i've seen him make some out of the box arguments like for going

01:07:08.040 for women that are older like the opposite of everything you think right he's like go for an 0.54

01:07:13.160 older woman with a few years of fertility get you your autistic kid king 0.99

01:07:18.200 and I thought about it and I'm like yeah because you know I feel like men when they're ready they're 1.00

01:07:25.080 ready right and so you get a young woman she's dragging you she's dragging you right across 1.00

01:07:31.180 she's like nagging you into marriage begging you you get an old woman you don't even have to marry 0.97

01:07:36.500 her she'll just get fucking pregnant skip a step that's good for you Kate right so and I kept 0.98

01:07:43.040 thinking these arguments just kind of made sense. Like in a weird roundabout way. So today I'm going 0.99

01:07:50.160 to bring them on the show to make the case for single mother. You know, I've been making the

01:07:54.540 case all night and everyone's been calling me crazy. Right. And I do shit on single mothers a

01:08:00.240 lot. I do shit on them. Like I have years of shitting on them. So I know what you're thinking. 1.00

01:08:05.200 just grifty things just grifty just so i understand that but i just couldn't 0.87

01:08:11.760 i couldn't help but think do single mothers make sense so we have an expert analyst coming on

01:08:19.720 we got joshua lisek welcome to the show king thank you pearl it's good to be with you again

01:08:26.920 it's time i i always come prepared okay so i want to know you're the first person i've heard

01:08:36.980 say in my life i've never heard a man a white man in particular you know because on its head

01:08:44.640 a single mother is a terrible idea right awful like on its head um and you hear this pushed right 1.00

01:08:52.380 By women and black people. 1.00

01:08:54.660 Like they're like date single mothers, right?

01:08:57.120 But now I've learned one thing about white guys is that you guys can make anything work.

01:09:04.640 Yes. 0.67

01:09:05.340 And you guys can find a way to pragmatically think through any problem.

01:09:10.180 So let me hear about what is your case for single mother chat. 1.00

01:09:15.780 We're going to put them on trial. 1.00

01:09:18.020 Yes. 0.90

01:09:18.600 So let us discuss the single mother question, the SMQ.

01:09:22.380 So this is something that I did not come up with myself.

01:09:26.840 Rather, it's something that I have gleaned over the years.

01:09:29.900 I have lived many lives inside my one own via all the memoirs and the nonfiction books, the autobiographies, et cetera, that I have lived.

01:09:38.160 And this is sort of a collective wisdom that has been given to me by men who have experienced a number of different relationship styles, format demographics, and structures.

01:09:49.300 And this is what I have gathered from the single mom question.

01:09:53.700 And it goes like this.

01:09:56.880 What is it that you are looking for in a mother for your children?

01:10:02.220 And it's going to be, is she relatively young?

01:10:06.980 Now, this is not all single mothers, but let's consider the demographic.

01:10:10.800 Is this woman relatively young?

01:10:13.480 So she's so she's not in that like thirty five to thirty nine or above bracket where it's like she's had her fun all these years or she's been she's growing her career, getting that jobby job promotion, the email job, et cetera.

01:10:26.240 And then like suddenly something happens in her life where she realizes my carton is almost empty.

01:10:32.840 And now it's like the mad scramble to get the provider husband husband type.

01:10:37.280 She's already had her kid.

01:10:40.240 We're talking we're talking about single mother situation.

01:10:42.180 So we'll, we'll, we'll get to that for a second. So this is what's, there's no scramble, right?

01:10:46.520 Is that what you're saying? Not almost, almost. So we, we want to go, this, this is what, this

01:10:52.620 is what I have, I have gleaned. So single mothers that I know who got wifed up and has been

01:10:59.100 successful. We'll talk about that. There's also the unsuccessful and we can talk about that too.

01:11:02.560 It was, the father was divorced and had three kids with his previous wife and he was,

01:11:06.760 he's 20 years older than her so the single mother that my this is my friend my client or a client's

01:11:14.720 client that i'm writing about let's say and it just happens to come up like wait that was your

01:11:18.840 i meet let's say i meet his wife you know i'm like but that was that was your wife bruh

01:11:25.880 it's she looks like she's the same age as your oldest daughter like i got them confused a little

01:11:31.820 oh yeah just a couple years older i'm like king right but she's relatively young let's say so

01:11:39.740 we're like 10 to 20 years younger okay category right so she in this in this case she has she 0.99

01:11:49.340 has that going for she gets the green check mark over here she's a mother if you want more children 1.00

01:11:55.900 she has demonstrated her fertility i mean what other social proof could you possibly want to 1.00

01:12:03.760 look for we hear of all these stories of of of women who have waited too long let's say where

01:12:08.620 they've done a lot of waiting and they're they're ivf maxing okay and that's tens of thousands 0.98

01:12:16.700 dollars a pop and it has very low likelihood of success you know she's she's 39 she's 41 she's

01:12:22.380 42 maybe she's already 30s there's a pcos situation okay maybe there's something going on

01:12:27.620 does it cyst okay whatever the case may be and you're you might be looking at a situation where

01:12:35.560 you're going to have eight miscarriages with your wife and you don't know if there's fertility here

01:12:39.500 we all know multiple people who have had horrific infertility journeys they don't talk about this 0.98

01:12:45.660 but um i interviewed a doctor who said every time bitches get chlamydia it reduces their fertility 0.99

01:12:52.120 by 10 percent so a lot of times when women are infertile it's because they've been in the streets 1.00

01:12:56.620 and they've gotten chlamydia or gonorrhea too many times so next time you hear fertility issues just

01:13:02.040 ask um yes so i i know i know men in their 40s 50s 60s i know men in the 40s 50s 60s who have

01:13:10.180 been able to kind of live live the young hot while i'm again because he went to the pool of

01:13:16.000 of of of women who we're going to come to this one here in just a second who who were looking for 1.00

01:13:21.800 more than a boy toy fling you know mommy's boyfriend type of gross you know situation 1.00

01:13:29.080 that we often see among the underclass unfortunately but we have you know you're 0.71

01:13:34.740 you're 50 and your hot young second wife is 23 okay you know she's got like a four-year-old

01:13:41.340 right from the from the from the college boyfriend that didn't work out or whatever

01:13:44.680 he's out of the picture say with jail whatever okay but we've got some action here we've got

01:13:50.540 demonstrated fertility in case you want to have more more kids or or your or your first kids

01:13:54.480 let's say and then proven what do i mean here what do i mean here right before one of the reasons i

01:14:02.540 was a little bit late is i was interviewing a woman for my my channel my my content a mother

01:14:07.360 herself she was a single mother a divorced mother and she got remarried to an absolute chad and a

01:14:13.000 half absolute chad and a half also a father divorced single father and they're an excellent

01:14:19.480 match. When they met, they were both adults. Something about parenthood taken seriously

01:14:26.860 makes you grow the fuck up as a human being. And the bad habits and foibles that you might have,

01:14:35.300 they are kind of forced out of you by adulthood, let's say. And they were an easy match from early

01:14:46.000 on see the the fella the man he had had so many bad experiences with various women who were kind 0.97

01:14:53.920 of living in a fantasy land you know wanting like the trad wife dream life where i have the perfect

01:14:58.040 provider husband who does everything for me and i and i and i do nothing but just starfish him

01:15:01.820 once a week okay not a good situation but with this she had to demonstrate competence in all

01:15:11.080 areas of life. She's like, wow, I'm a single divorced mom. I know that men on the market

01:15:18.000 have access to, let's face it, a lot of far less challenging situations than I would present.

01:15:24.640 So I got to lock in and dial in. I got to look good naked. I got to be ultra competent and

01:15:31.000 supportive of the men that I want to have a husband. And I have to prove myself to him

01:15:36.540 every single day that I am the most valuable woman he could possibly have.

01:15:43.340 Is this all? I'm going to do a Pearl impression. Not all, not all, not all, not all. Okay. Not all 0.80

01:15:49.400 single mothers. By the way, my favorite Pearl impression, I had this on repeat. I would love 0.98

01:15:53.320 to have Akira the Dawn do like a Pearl Davis one where you go, lazy, lazy. And I just, I repeated

01:16:02.760 that section that was last tuesday's uh your live stream last tuesday i think that was the

01:16:06.600 i i'm like i'm laughing and probably looked hysterical to nearby drivers but that's some

01:16:10.040 of the best content i've ever seen just a lazy just draw out that long eight again now not all

01:16:17.000 single mothers fit this profile but but for the ones who do you're you're you're gonna know you're

01:16:24.280 gonna know now what are gonna be some what are gonna be some knocks on the single mothers we're

01:16:29.160 We're going to, we're going to talk about this.

01:16:30.520 We're going to talk about a couple of big, the big, the big red ones.

01:16:33.840 There's still in, there's still awkward,

01:16:36.520 let's say awkward entanglements with the ex. Okay.

01:16:39.140 Awkward entanglements where, where the former baby daddy is, is,

01:16:42.960 is showing up and he's a very obviously a fistful influence on the child.

01:16:47.520 Like your, your, your, your stepchild. That's like, that's,

01:16:50.080 that's not going to be a good situation. You know, like, Hey,

01:16:52.300 I'm going to go take you to see your dad. He just got out of jail. Okay.

01:16:55.180 yeah and if if we are in a um let's say if we're in a tyrone situation for a tyrone situation has

01:17:04.740 this i am working on a divorce book i'm doing i'm going to be doing that here soon

01:17:12.620 and we look at when we look at the data what what do we find what are the relationships that have

01:17:18.100 the highest risk uh cover your ears pearl what are the highest risk of of divorce and breakup

01:17:24.760 in poor relationship between between mother and father that is likeliest to create a single mother

01:17:29.160 situation the way that i've outlined i need nice to say nothing more and everyone knows what i mean

01:17:34.360 all right so that that might be considered a knock sort of a situation here okay against our against

01:17:41.560 our single mother but if we've got if we got these dialed in if she's like 23 she just got her mba 0.99

01:17:49.640 working next to whatever it takes to like take care of herself and be a competent adult you

01:17:53.560 You have a question, Pearl? 1.00

01:17:55.020 Could you, let's say she divorces you and is trying to ruin your life. 1.00

01:17:58.900 Could you and the baby daddy number one team up to get her, like, could you both drag her to court at the same time? 0.90

01:18:05.820 Like, is there any camaraderie that could potentially happen if you're both getting screwed by the same woman?

01:18:12.040 Just, you know, if it does go that way.

01:18:14.040 You've written the divorce books.

01:18:15.940 Oh, that sounds like a, it sounds almost like a metaphorical Eiffel Tower situation.

01:18:22.440 No, no, no.

01:18:23.560 oh no i i'm i'm being i'm being i'm being i'm being metaphorical with that regard like

01:18:27.800 men team men tag teaming on a woman yeah that's not yeah that's not instinctual for men to do

01:18:34.260 that is not that is not i suppose you could the coronel seven you've done something like that

01:18:38.460 okay like women you know what i mean like whenever women want to want to take down i'll tell you

01:18:43.640 what so i i had an ex-boyfriend that caught a case and he by his next girlfriends or whatever

01:18:49.800 and they both reached out to me and were like did he hit you did he do this i never got hit so i

01:18:54.600 don't know what they're talking about right so like that's what women do i realized in that moment

01:18:59.660 that's what they do they like tag together to take down the man you know um because all i would 0.99

01:19:05.480 have had to do was say yes now hypothetically could they both go to court and i don't know

01:19:11.820 like is there a way they could use the legal system against her but by like coming together 0.99

01:19:16.100 because women do that all the time we get together to take down the guy you know um so could the men

01:19:22.520 do that to a woman is that possible I I suppose so you know they um they might have 1.00

01:19:29.420 I drag you both try to put her on child support at the same time you both call CCS on her ass 0.99

01:19:38.840 ever ever the ever the pragmatist bro ever the pragmatist so something else that you talked 0.98

01:19:45.060 about uh with regard to the personal financial situation we need to talk about so i i have

01:19:50.580 experience with this i have in my in my past years uh i have dated single mothers in the past

01:19:55.700 and there's something that you were absolutely correct about that we're gonna write we're gonna

01:20:01.660 write down we're gonna i i i love our internet our late internet dad scott adams by the way

01:20:06.740 i remember that one reply that you had him back and forth about like you want to have him on your

01:20:10.960 showing like it didn't work out in 2023 that that's like that's what my biggest regrets in

01:20:16.040 life is not exceed seeing that uh that that crossover episode the pearl scott episode so

01:20:20.880 we're gonna pull out some scott adams right now he was on my show he was yeah really i have to go

01:20:26.000 back and look because i'm i'm reading a back and forth where like you you said your your dms aren't

01:20:30.860 open or something like that okay i'll have to go back and look that i well i have to find it

01:20:35.320 somewhere but okay because i do you having a conversation about having a conversation i never

01:20:40.080 saw the conversation maybe i'll re-upload it i'll find it it's on okay because i've looked i've

01:20:45.340 looked i've asked i've asked rock did they ever do a crossover episode yeah we did okay well that's

01:20:50.220 going to be uh uh essential viewing but anyway so we're gonna i get these new markers and they're

01:20:55.460 not working properly all right we're gonna do we're gonna do scott adamsism for the let's see

01:21:00.300 can we see that oh that's just the worst one hang on with with regard to the personal financial

01:21:07.780 situation of the uh where's my markers over here with regards to the personal finance situation

01:21:16.100 is this a chisel point now this will have to do all right i think we can see that right can you

01:21:20.820 see the u yeah all right so we're going to the scott adams usual frame versus reframe on the smq

01:21:30.980 the single mother question.

01:21:33.420 I'm going to write it out here.

01:21:35.760 All right.

01:21:36.660 And having been,

01:21:39.780 having dated single mothers in the past, 0.97

01:21:42.520 not marrying them, 1.00

01:21:45.600 as I think that's some of the things

01:21:47.000 that you talked about,

01:21:47.700 that maybe they're

01:21:49.960 a hot and heavy type of personality

01:21:53.340 where they haven't been getting any for a while, 1.00

01:21:55.060 and they're going to go freaky on your ass 0.99

01:21:57.000 for however long it takes to get you to commit 0.99

01:21:59.340 in some way.

01:22:00.460 maybe it sticks you tend to see the single and divorced parents when they both have that

01:22:06.980 situation that that sort of experience they tend to lock in together better they tend to have

01:22:12.200 compatibility i like i like teal swan a lot of people don't like teal swan i understand that

01:22:17.360 i like to quote her a lot she she points out that love is not enough attraction is not enough

01:22:23.780 you must have compatibility and given the seriousness that both the mother and father

01:22:30.900 having had children previously maybe separately they they tend to click better because they just

01:22:36.500 they just get it they know what that's they know what's that like that that's like especially if

01:22:40.900 you've got like she feels like she she finally has the kind of man in her life that she already

01:22:46.420 that she's always wanted and like the person i talked to here previously in the interview

01:22:49.800 She said that after having the one relationship with her son's father,

01:22:57.020 getting back out of the market, kind of being self-aware,

01:23:00.400 self-awareness in a woman is very attractive. 0.80

01:23:03.020 Having that self-awareness of like, 0.98

01:23:04.620 I have to beat women that are 15 years younger than me 1.00

01:23:08.660 if I'm going to get and keep a great man that I want. 1.00

01:23:11.940 Having that self-awareness and then making herself into that,

01:23:14.600 controlling what she can to become that is just, frankly,

01:23:19.380 impressive and she and the husband they they both have the experience of experiencing heartbreak

01:23:26.420 loss being divorced survivors both of them themselves like they just they just get it

01:23:30.980 they're kind of like old souls in that regard and that they have they've both seen some you

01:23:37.220 know what i'm saying yeah and they click they say you know pair bond like because okay the one thing

01:23:43.300 the more partners that we've had or whatever the pair bonding goes away and i'd imagine with the

01:23:48.260 a kid it's worse however maybe pair bonding you know the harder if she can't fall as deep for you

01:23:55.520 the fall out won't be as bad you know what I mean so like if she can't love you on a 10 you know

01:24:03.700 because when you're 18 you fall in love with the first guy that talks to you it's like crazy but 0.85

01:24:09.100 you know maybe a little bit of numbness and a woman is good to let that dream die prince charming is 0.99

01:24:15.660 not coming you're such a you're such a black pillar you're such a black pillar my goodness 0.98

01:24:24.540 yeah yeah well i know i'm a reframer okay okay okay all right so so the usual for it so i i have 1.00

01:24:31.720 i have been this guy i have been this guy so i know this so it's a usual frame child support reframe

01:24:37.800 boyfriend budget

01:24:44.480 boyfriend budget usual frame child support reframe boyfriend budget

01:24:51.720 that child support hits and my girlfriend at the time she was taking me out to the the best places

01:25:00.460 she was she was taking me out she was treating me with her with uh with with baby daddy's money 1.00

01:25:05.780 while grandparents were watching her kids she's got a house and yes that's right that's that's

01:25:11.500 right so she might your ex might have taken your house you could take hers back yeah it's just it's 1.00

01:25:19.660 um hey don't ever move into a woman's house well then she can't steal your you could steal her

01:25:25.560 house king steal it yeah if you live in one of those cohabitation law states where like you live 0.52

01:25:31.960 there for more they live together for more than what is it three 90 days or six months or a year

01:25:35.880 depending on your place or maybe a number of years.

01:25:38.540 Yeah, you now have tenants' rights.

01:25:43.020 Yes.

01:25:43.720 Now, this is a black pill.

01:25:45.620 This is a real black pill.

01:25:47.800 But every day, are you the one who originated the phrase, 1.00

01:25:52.240 the answer to the solution of feminism is more feminism? 1.00

01:25:55.100 Is that you? 0.99

01:25:55.780 I don't think I came up with that.

01:25:57.480 I think I heard it somewhere and thought it made sense.

01:25:59.580 I say it a lot, though.

01:26:00.920 Okay, yeah, yeah.

01:26:01.660 I think I have a new record of saying it more times per day

01:26:04.280 uh then there's more recitations per day than you do certainly um i always quote you though

01:26:09.320 i always quote you don't worry why i wear a house when you could steal her baby daddies

01:26:13.740 and you know what it's great because i bet he made all these improvements on the house 0.86

01:26:20.180 i bet like it was probably a white guy who's the ones that get divorced right because again 0.86

01:26:24.340 mexicans go start second families black guys go get milk they didn't even take her down the aisle 0.91

01:26:28.740 to begin with so the white guys you guys are the ones that bailed so you know i hear me he's 0.99

01:26:36.580 probably made all of these improvements to the house and it's probably in a very nice area so

01:26:41.940 you can move into that nice area that you can never steal a house again yeah well i i will i

01:26:48.420 will say that the the men that i know who have who have done who have done the single mom game

01:26:54.120 and it's like worked out

01:26:56.960 it's worked out

01:26:58.760 I think having kids making you more

01:27:01.020 mature is exception not the rule

01:27:02.280 this is why we did the recitation of the

01:27:04.300 of the Pearl Davisism

01:27:06.020 not all not all not all not all 0.81

01:27:08.080 are there any other sub optimal women

01:27:10.920 that you recommend dating 1.00

01:27:12.180 I think

01:27:16.240 the passport bro thing is a bit

01:27:19.120 risky frankly

01:27:20.380 for the same reason that sugaring

01:27:23.100 is risky

01:27:24.120 and and it's very simply goes like this we both know what this is

01:27:29.240 and so with that in mind

01:27:33.380 if if if you're not a you know i think it might might be workable for for maybe bottom 50 percent

01:27:43.700 let's say of of men and and we can be self-aware we can we can we can be honest i have a i have a

01:27:49.240 friend she's she's filipina or half filipina i should say um so her her father married her

01:27:54.660 mother he was 40 years older so he was 61 white man obviously 61 years old and his filipina wife

01:28:03.440 was 21 he had never had any children but has always wanted to had have kids right so i think

01:28:08.700 i think he had two kids together right and now that obviously the you know the father has passed

01:28:14.140 on unfortunately that's that's what you get when you have kids at that age but right a male a male

01:28:18.720 fertility window is is is you've got range you've got you've got op you've got options there

01:28:23.320 so there's that also other things that i think are a real concern is is a student loan debt 1.00

01:28:33.120 situation right now a lot of women are like i want you to pay off my student loan you just got you 1.00

01:28:39.480 got to run those numbers you got to run those numbers if it was law school let's say what is 1.00

01:28:43.660 her earning potential. We've talked about this before, where with the frame being solution to 0.75

01:28:49.520 feminism is more feminism, well, then assisting her to get to the position where she's out earning 1.00

01:28:57.000 you. And women out earning men increases the risk of divorce. And it's still her filing. 1.00

01:29:03.580 I want to talk to you about this. I want to talk to you about this.

01:29:05.940 a lot of men say well the you know 70 percent of women filing for a divorce well more men would do

01:29:14.060 it if it wasn't so financially expensive it wasn't so costly i think that is cope i think that's cope

01:29:21.020 because with the 70 percent again 70 divorce filings are the women when the woman outhurns

01:29:29.980 her husband when she's the one who's financially at risk of having to pay the alimony and child 1.00

01:29:33.940 support i guess girlfriend budget in that case she's more likely to divorce her husband even 0.77

01:29:42.020 though it's going to be costly to her financially she's going to lose the house i think i told you

01:29:45.900 about my friend in other city right she she lost the house in in the marriage um i think they might

01:29:52.120 have shared custody but she doesn't get to see them but every other weekend because she works

01:29:55.320 like 60 hours a week right and her husband's like a part-time employed and you know barely barely

01:30:00.120 employee, like freelancer or something like that, a house husband, right? And the more money that

01:30:06.300 she earned over the years, and she did pay off her student loans, by the way, given the high 0.99

01:30:10.560 power job that she has, she's living like the divorced dad life where she's, you know, with 1.00

01:30:16.140 the mattress on the floor type thing. And she's probably happier because we love being big fat 1.00

01:30:20.700 slut whores. So she needs to go whore out, right? I'm not going to call my friend a big fat slut 1.00

01:30:26.300 horrible and then on top of that i mean just like let's just keep it a buck like what how old is she 1.00

01:30:33.260 40s i think yeah i mean numbers wise you got to be a big fat slut it's all right i say it with love 0.99

01:30:39.360 you know you say how do you say that with love with a smile oh with a smile okay okay so i'm not 1.00

01:30:46.300 i'm not laughing at you i'm laughing with you you got to be a big fat so it's all right you know

01:30:50.960 sometimes everyone's i mean i guess you know she can relive college days relieve her 20s or maybe 0.98

01:30:55.220 have the 20s that she never had i suppose that's a thing in some major city banging the hot guys 1.00

01:30:59.620 in that city right so win-win she used to be with the alpha fucks and then on top of that she doesn't 0.98

01:31:04.900 have to watch the kids women hate kids so everyone's happier men love kids right so oh yeah we love 1.00

01:31:12.820 men love kids they love young women so if you get a high earning woman she's more likely to divorce 0.78

01:31:18.660 you which is great because she's oh i just remembered one that reminds me that reminds me

01:31:22.420 pro can i interject i don't need to interject let me the single the single mom thing okay go ahead

01:31:27.500 the single mom because this is a green check mark so you and others have pointed out that

01:31:32.860 the postpartum experience is post that clarity for women that is that is correct and it's because 0.79

01:31:37.840 it is because her her hormonal profile changes in a way that she's never experienced before in

01:31:45.020 her entire life and because of the the the interconnectedness between personality and

01:31:50.200 expression and mood with hormones it's it's like a new she's a new person after each pregnancy 0.93

01:31:59.320 so what you are getting if you marry a woman without children you don't know how she's going 0.51

01:32:05.720 to change after that kid but if she already has a kid what she sees what you get how is she raising 0.81

01:32:12.280 the kid you know yes absolutely you can see that too behavior like i want there's a lawyer that

01:32:18.600 came on the show that came on to cook me because i was cooking these single moms and he's like

01:32:22.760 i would absolutely date a single mother and i'm like you you've like so much go why would you date

01:32:26.520 a single mother and he's like look it depends on the kid he's like one of the best women i've ever

01:32:31.080 dated had a 16 year old kid who was a captain of the football team i hung out with that kid it was

01:32:35.960 awesome oh yeah yeah this is something interesting is like once they're 16 and he was like it was

01:32:43.320 great for me because i don't know if i want kids so she could have the kid she could not like a

01:32:49.160 young woman is gonna resent you based on how long you make her wait right so like you know if the 0.99

01:32:55.720 clock's ticking no matter i mean and especially if her friends like small like i'm in the south so 1.00

01:33:01.760 like there's like a race to the altar right so there's gonna be all this nagging the single mom 1.00

01:33:06.840 she's already messed up her life we're on your time now king she already had her wedding she 0.98

01:33:13.180 already did all that so yeah so this is with the with the with the with the with the proven

01:33:18.720 now this could be proven good or proven proven very very very very bad okay yeah no proven very

01:33:24.780 good very bad so if if what you see is like a competent mother who's got her act together who

01:33:30.120 knows that i'm in competition with women who are younger and and and no children right now

01:33:35.860 if they have that self-awareness 1.00

01:33:38.080 of here are the ways I screwed up

01:33:40.240 that can be a really attractive package

01:33:44.220 to a specific man

01:33:45.980 particularly to a man who also has

01:33:48.040 children from a previous relationship

01:33:49.440 and where I see it working the best

01:33:51.280 and this is consistent

01:33:52.520 where he has

01:33:55.980 more kids than she does 0.95

01:33:57.540 this is where I see it

01:33:59.220 so she has one kid, he has two

01:34:01.200 or she has one, he has three

01:34:03.420 or she has two he has four from the previous relationship and then they get together and

01:34:10.100 they then together have the same number of kids that she had from that previous relationship

01:34:16.300 that's single mom math so he let's say he has three and she has one then they have two together

01:34:25.420 he has three they have two they have three together it's a big family situation okay but

01:34:30.480 you know i digress that that i consistently see tends tends to create the best um best outcomes

01:34:36.520 they have they have like the same or you know or she has one and then they have one together right

01:34:40.720 so the same or more they have together that she had from the previous relationship and what that

01:34:45.700 seems to do is it is it seems to sort of recast the identity of the mother with her child from

01:34:54.100 relationship is we're actually more part of this family now with these kids from my husband's

01:35:02.860 previous relationship than we are part of the family that we had with your father. 0.94

01:35:07.420 I know a single mother that the new guy she wanted to be with said a prerequisite was that

01:35:13.520 she gave, they were boys and gave the boys to the father. Said this isn't my problem. 0.93

01:35:19.780 And that was his prerequisite. And she did it actually.

01:35:22.340 huh now another thing to point out is a real concern real concern

01:35:27.540 you know about SIDS right the truth about SIDS

01:35:31.680 SID what is that SIDS you know sudden infant death you know the truth about SIDS right 0.99

01:35:37.400 like what is SIDS really oh is it women killing kids 0.98

01:35:40.780 I've never I've never really I'm surprised I haven't but infant two four months I think

01:35:50.740 the infant mortality rate back in the day it's the same as the abortion rate today so i think like 0.72

01:35:55.380 women have always killed kids so it wouldn't shock me yeah yeah yeah the sudden sudden infant

01:36:00.180 death syndrome kind of the the the reality of that i think is is so horrible we have to sort 1.00

01:36:05.860 of create social lies about what what sudden infant death syndrome really is well we do know

01:36:12.260 that one of the one of the contributing causes is mommy's drunken or drug-addled boyfriend

01:36:18.580 same thing with csa same thing with dv that targets the kids it's mommy's boyfriend

01:36:26.460 right so a single mother who's dating is one of the highest risk traumatic events that could ever

01:36:37.600 happen to a child so that's reality check that's my black pill for everyone well i mean the other 0.51

01:36:46.400 thing too is if you have um a woman like you put the woman on child support and alimony and you're

01:36:52.300 the stay-at-home husband you can have your traditional relationship after you can get

01:36:57.140 your kid right you can get like like let's say you got your kid at 25 by 32 you could find your

01:37:03.060 second wife you know obviously she divorces you or and then you could put her on alimony and

01:37:08.480 child support and now you have girlfriend money yeah the great yeah the yeah the the reframe a

01:37:13.540 child support budget or the girlfriend budget absolutely yeah i think as as there are more and

01:37:19.180 more high profile stories i i ultimately think pearl that the child support system will be

01:37:23.740 abolished but i think it will be as a as a result of enough high profile women going to jail for

01:37:30.120 not paying their child support yeah and it's like oh this is just so not fair and then all of the

01:37:37.160 things that men have been saying for 50 years women will say for like five months and the entire

01:37:42.680 system will be transformed because women organize through the sisterhood in a way that that

01:37:46.840 particularly wasp men you're a white anglo-saxon protestant men just don't do with your rugged 0.99

01:37:52.200 individualism yeah i realized today pearl looks like i don't know who joni mitchell is when she

01:37:57.860 picks up a guitar absolute babe thank you sir you know who joni mitchell is a singer

01:38:04.940 singer songwriter in the 70s 80s maybe

01:38:07.900 i don't know how to take this i'm looking at what she looks like yes but well yeah i think i'm sold

01:38:18.980 single mother because what are your choices today as a man you got the woman with six figures of

01:38:23.720 student debt right you got the single mothers what like what would you as a man what are like

01:38:29.640 the average guys wait what are we thinking six figures of student debt incurable std 0.98

01:38:35.880 yeah yeah yeah let's let's here's here's all the here's the here's the uh the the the lowest

01:38:42.940 common denominator of that's that's available right now yeah so in some cases that might just

01:38:48.360 be the best choice standing i didn't say it was a good choice right but all the choices are bad

01:38:52.860 yes i think i think what is what is really particularly for a man who already has like

01:38:59.660 you know two three four kids i do see this and i see it working where like this the first wife has

01:39:05.320 a kid and she's 15 years younger she's 12 years younger she's 19 years younger right so it's like

01:39:15.320 where they don't have value to people in their same demographic let's say they can add value to

01:39:23.600 to one another and be compatible even in that in that in that regard particularly if again if they

01:39:30.480 have more children which is equal to or greater than the number of kids she had from her marriage

01:39:34.960 there i think so tl swan also talks about this like i like her content that covers this concept

01:39:39.760 of ownership another subject i'd like to discuss a sense of she says women want to be owned 0.72

01:39:46.640 and bros like i've been telling you that for but this is what teal says

01:39:53.760 yes so teal will talk about how how women want to want to be owned and feel owned in that

01:40:02.160 holistic sense as a whole person being owned by their by their band and the funny thing is like 1.00

01:40:08.640 she's she's like in the liberal zone and uh lives just like eat up her content feminists just like 1.00

01:40:14.960 or like it's it's it's wild how she can teach that message to like leftist women and and they 0.99

01:40:20.800 just like love her for it it's great um but with this sense of us a concern that a concern that a

01:40:28.320 lot of men have with the single mother question is you know she will never love you her new husband

01:40:33.920 as much as she loves her child from her first marriage.

01:40:36.980 That is a thing that I hear a lot.

01:40:39.040 I also hear this, she'll always have first loyalty

01:40:44.100 to her baby daddy because that's who she has

01:40:47.420 the first child with.

01:40:52.440 Manifesting proper ownership of her

01:40:56.060 and of this blended family can come through you now

01:41:00.800 to having another child together.

01:41:02.280 so now your siblings share siblings or rather rather the siblings share a half sibling let's say

01:41:10.640 done blindly of course or just you know as some good poon okay so we're gonna date our kids are

01:41:19.460 gonna do stuff together maybe it's gonna work out maybe it's not i don't know the more self-awareness

01:41:25.060 that you have in any of of any corner of the dating market the better off you're gonna be

01:41:29.840 knowing what your score is knowing your green check marks knowing your red x's being honest

01:41:39.780 having that self-awareness genuinely rare but the post not clarity that is postpartum can wake up

01:41:46.400 a lot of women and also like where they maybe really screwed up with their baby daddy or

01:41:52.120 had they really made a mistake and and procreating with this real sob here you know why would they 1.00

01:41:58.340 assume just because she had your first like she had your kid first what i mean didn't a woman have 0.98

01:42:03.880 your kid first and like how many men have had their woman have their kid first and she wasn't

01:42:08.300 loyal to any of you so why would you assume loyalty at all you know what i'm saying like

01:42:14.340 yeah we don't we don't yeah we don't but like loyalty is unenforceable now yeah so why would

01:42:18.500 you even assume just because she had your kid first she's not going to be loyal anyway she

01:42:22.860 wasn't loyal to the first guy so like he's not there so yeah i think a lot a lot of the reasons

01:42:28.420 that men resist the resist answering the single muscular question in the affirmative is the same

01:42:35.040 is the same set of reasons that marriage in the current year is a risk across the board and this

01:42:42.020 is why i point out that some of the concerns like you know okay so you marry in this married

01:42:46.460 marry this beautiful naive doe-eyed virgin bride and then she has a kid and it's completely

01:42:53.020 different personality you know i have that dad chat pearl right i i asked them in like when did

01:42:57.660 you when did your wife completely change now some of them i got real big trouble for a lot to tell

01:43:02.780 you about this privately i got in really big trouble for sharing one of your posts where you

01:43:07.340 said something like girlfriend rather than wives changed my mind i got so much trouble for that i'll

01:43:11.740 i'll tell you about that later but that's obviously true because of the peter principle

01:43:15.260 right the peter principle is you're promoted to your maximum incompetence or rather your maximum

01:43:21.100 competent where you become incompetent that's it that's another thing but throughout when i asked

01:43:24.840 in the dad chat i guess i got several dozen answers so it's a it's it's a sample size of

01:43:29.120 something the most common was was was not after we got married it was after the first kid

01:43:34.720 personality it was 180 she went from exuberant joyful enthusiastic in bed to frigid and asexual

01:43:44.240 and ballooned and did all these sorts of things and lost interest in her own hobbies and i thought

01:43:50.100 well maybe she's not attracted to me anymore but then she just got bitter with her friends and

01:43:54.640 and and family and she cut off her sister cut off contact with her sister you know these sorts of

01:43:59.920 like transformations after having after having a child when it's a woman who's already been through 0.83

01:44:05.160 that you what you see is what you get what you see is what you get so it's like a single mother

01:44:14.640 has a carfax report and you can talk to the when do you get an option to talk to a woman's ex you

01:44:21.340 could actually get a side of the story because yeah you know like yeah most guys don't want to

01:44:26.920 it's like an ego thing but maybe you should the other thing too i was thinking anecdotally

01:44:30.960 four um worst divorces i'm thinking of off the top of my head one um was a passport bro

01:44:40.700 slash orthodox woman stole his kid to another country that was uh was that michael knowles

01:44:46.640 church yeah michael knowles church was one of the worst other one was a doctor who transitioned

01:44:52.680 ended up transitioning to kid oh yeah i know that guy's story that's that's one of the worst ones

01:44:57.660 i've heard and the other two elijah might be right up there and he had a virgin crowd crowder is the

01:45:04.020 other one those two guys both had virgin yeah they they did it they did it right let's say 0.99

01:45:08.260 yeah with regard to who they chose oh we want to hate on rachel wilson but she's still kicking my

01:45:13.700 ninjas she's still yes so so so what rachel so i think i think her story is that she's had the

01:45:19.060 three kids from three different men right yeah yeah so she is she is one of the most credible

01:45:25.960 women on the internet who speaks about this issue because of two words self-awareness yeah

01:45:33.280 self-awareness when you can say hey i screwed up don't become like me here's how i've decided to

01:45:42.780 dedicate my life to doing it different and i'm owned by my husband like what a flex i mean just 0.55

01:45:48.020 would have flex right single mothers always leave to do better you could be better king

01:45:52.500 yes yes oh i have a 5 p.m eastern that's waiting for me here i'll tell him just give him i'll ask 0.98

01:46:00.540 him to give me a minute uh have we satisfied your curiosity pearl is there anything that's missing

01:46:05.560 from the single mother questions answer the one maybe if really quick i saw a tweet where you

01:46:10.560 said you need to go for women a little bit older than you i don't know i saw a tweet of yours that

01:46:16.660 said a lot of guys are going for women like it was like two to five years older just trying to

01:46:22.140 get a kid in there because they're like ready for the kid I don't know do you remember that tweet

01:46:27.220 I can't I can't pull it up so I don't remember but I remember seeing it and thinking wow I've

01:46:31.780 never thought about that I had this conversation yesterday actually with with um with a woman who

01:46:38.400 who was, I would say, in a demographic that, let's say, she was concerned about the contents

01:46:48.900 of her carton. We'll put it that way. And I personally believe that the purpose of marriage

01:46:58.060 is children. That's like an ancient view, apparently. You know how we say, like,

01:47:05.180 we're dating with intention which is like you know you're dating around to find the absolute

01:47:10.780 best one that you can before before the clock runs out we know what you're doing here playing

01:47:15.180 field as a lady or you're like i'm dating for marriage which is a way of saying i have a really 1.00

01:47:20.940 high body count i'm not going to tell you about and your ass is going to get sarah stocked 0.98

01:47:25.740 and then there's the best how would you know to date for marriage that means you didn't date 0.99

01:47:31.420 for marriage before oh yes oh yes oh yes it's like that and that's like very little self-awareness

01:47:36.780 like just enough self-awareness to be dangerous but not very much and then there is

01:47:43.100 what i i will attempt to practice what i preach so i'm gonna put this out there accountability

01:47:47.820 time for joshua lysac then there's dating for children dating for children it's close to like

01:47:57.260 relationship-based eugenics where the idea is okay compatibility and and sexuality etc i said okay

01:48:05.020 that's fine but like i am looking for a person to spend the next 20 years of my life with raising

01:48:10.460 the absolute best genetic material we can let's say between myself and the and and the other what

01:48:15.900 we have available that's a level of seriousness that that's not that funny is it well i love it

01:48:25.180 That's great.

01:48:26.260 All right.

01:48:27.000 So that's, I want more children.

01:48:31.120 I want them to be like 6'5", 6'.

01:48:32.160 I'm 6'3", right?

01:48:33.300 So my mother was like 5'9", 5'10".

01:48:38.420 And it was so much fun. 1.00

01:48:39.640 She was like, she would always mog other women. 1.00

01:48:41.760 She would hype mog other women. 0.98

01:48:42.820 It was so much fun. 1.00

01:48:44.040 I wish she had longer hair though.

01:48:46.540 I'm, what is this, what is this saying?

01:48:51.260 I don't know what the saying is,

01:48:52.260 but there's a saying there for what I just said somewhere.

01:48:54.520 And in any case, dating for children, this is where, like, if you go a little bit older with the women who are, like, buzzer beater baby, okay?

01:49:03.700 Like, if that's what you want, that's what she wants more than literally anything else. 0.58

01:49:10.900 And to quote Pearl Davis, that can be you, King.

01:49:16.800 That can be you, King.

01:49:19.320 I just, I don't think. 1.00

01:49:21.200 because the young woman you'd have to wait like a decade maybe you want a kid now yeah and she's 0.99

01:49:26.420 like i'm just not ready yet i'm not ready yet and it's like mother fuck i'm 35 years old 0.98

01:49:32.160 i haven't had i've i haven't had a serious boyfriend in this many years and 0.99

01:49:37.060 there are cases where the women are like actually turbo celibate for a very very very long time 0.99

01:49:43.360 where they become like locked in and kind of like nun mode with their work or their hobby or their

01:49:48.320 family or whatever. And it's not like they're lying about it. It's like, oh, okay. So you

01:49:51.820 never had, you haven't had a boyfriend in 10 years, but you've had a hundred men in bed, right?

01:49:56.460 Not all, not all, not all. Okay. But I think that there's a lot of high, relatively, I'll say

01:50:04.000 relatively else. I'll write it. There are, there are a number of relatively high value, high quality

01:50:08.420 women or potentially high value women who are in categories that are often deemed undesirable. 0.57

01:50:13.960 but if you're but if you're you're 50 and your kids are you know like in high school or whatever

01:50:20.280 like at the bar on a thursday night is a 24 year old smoke show with a six-year-old you can have

01:50:29.000 three more kids with you can have a second family you can be fruitful and multiply multiply my guy

01:50:34.580 what are you doing being on tender with 50 year olds and then they say like oh well but you're

01:50:41.800 not special and she had someone else's kid. It's like, well, she could have had someone else's

01:50:45.900 abortion, right? So, hey, you don't know. You won't know if the girl you marry had an abortion

01:50:51.560 or not. That's true. That's true. Yes. Oh, I would know. Yeah, right. What incentive does 1.00

01:51:00.120 she have to tell you? Oh, but I would know. Get the fuck out of here. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So,

01:51:07.360 so again the risk profile of the single mother is it can be either worse or better than just your

01:51:16.000 your your your given woman who um uh who doesn't have who doesn't have children and then and then

01:51:22.720 women oh if you're over 25 oh it's too late it's too late i'm telling you guys there are some

01:51:28.480 incredible women over 30 over 35 even and they don't have a carousel count of over 500 my guy

01:51:37.360 maybe you you would be shocked the number of women over 35 who've had two partners her in 1.00

01:51:43.680 in her entire life you would be shocked yeah because they're lazy so they're too lazy to go 1.00

01:51:48.900 out and meet men right well they're they have been second way feminists their entire life 1.00

01:51:54.860 because they had in a lot of cases it was like okay you got to provide for yourself it was 1.00

01:51:58.560 drilled into usually by their mother never rely on a man never have to rely on a man you know you

01:52:02.060 get your master's degree you get your you get your md you get your phd you get your psi d you know

01:52:05.860 and it's like she hasn't been on a date in seven years oh yeah right she hasn't had a boyfriend

01:52:11.180 in her 30s this is again this is this is not uncommon no not uncommon they get ghosted like

01:52:16.720 once and they just can't take it because they're so spoiled they've been given everything their

01:52:20.500 whole life and never been disappointed they get ghosted once and it's like five years of celibacy

01:52:25.800 that can that can be a thing that can be a thing yes i think the l is too hard it's too difficult

01:52:33.840 well they go into they go into nun mode yeah they go they go into nun mode like the monk

01:52:37.720 mode right for men men do have a nun mode that can get turned on get ghosted you guys just have 0.99

01:52:41.600 to keep going ask another bitch out ask a single mother out somebody's gonna say yes 0.94

01:52:48.080 but yeah eventually eventually get a yes yes but like they're just not built like you guys you 1.00

01:52:53.840 guys keep trying we try once and just give up and the men are like here's hinge you can get 0.91

01:53:00.220 dick to your door ladies you don't want to do that you know he can take you to dinner you can 0.96

01:53:05.880 do sugar and then we're like oh it's too difficult no don't do sugaring don't do sugaring no no 0.96

01:53:11.100 yeah he's like it fellas fellas you you go into monk mode you become a degenerate playboy

01:53:19.300 or you date for children you date for children you know you know that you know that couple with

01:53:29.120 the weird glasses you know what i'm talking about they're like they're so adorable together they

01:53:33.680 have like seven kids i think now i don't know four five six seven i don't know but they have

01:53:37.200 weird glasses they look like liberals but they're not they live in new england maybe it's just the

01:53:40.500 culture but they're just like an adorable little couple oh wait i've seen them the technology ones

01:53:46.900 right uh yeah like she has these like they both they both have like the biggest black frame glasses

01:53:51.520 you've ever seen and they're both adorable i love their i love their stuff like they're super base

01:53:55.220 but they're not like like um cringe about it you know there are a couple there are a good example

01:54:01.980 of like dating of dating for children they like their their relationship and i think that's like

01:54:08.760 you know the the was it broke dating for love woke dating for compatibility in quotes bespoke

01:54:14.640 dating for children dating for eugenics purposes like that's uh i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna tap

01:54:20.600 my whiteboard for that one folks yeah tapping the whiteboard for love what are you women 0.95

01:54:25.220 well see but see if you're dating for children then there's a set of expectations already in 1.00

01:54:33.140 place that means you're dealing with a serious person particularly with a woman who actually

01:54:37.520 wants to be a mother i think that's very important fellas and if you and if she's already single

01:54:43.180 mother and then you can see how she's with her kid what she sees what you get you don't have to

01:54:47.200 we don't have to worry about this postpartum postnet clarity thing where she becomes where 0.87

01:54:50.300 Her personality 180s, and she becomes the people of Walmart overnight.

01:54:57.100 It's all risk.

01:54:58.520 It's all risk management. 0.98

01:55:00.480 Scott Adams did the single mother thing. 0.90

01:55:03.500 Oh, yeah?

01:55:04.160 Scott Adams did the single mother thing. 0.99

01:55:05.780 Was that the first wife or the second wife? 0.98

01:55:07.560 Both. 0.99

01:55:08.500 They're both single moms? 0.99

01:55:09.820 Yeah. 1.00

01:55:10.560 That second wife, everyone was like, oh, she took his money. 1.00

01:55:13.620 I'm like, that was worth every penny she was doing. 0.91

01:55:17.560 That man had plenty of money. 1.00

01:55:19.440 that man had plenty of money he did not regret that bitch 1.00

01:55:23.140 you know there was there's one there was one there was one there's one time it was like it 0.99

01:55:29.080 was the great the greatest subtle flex i've ever heard was with scott adams somebody it was on it

01:55:33.500 was in locals i believe yeah somebody said somebody said to him like you and christina

01:55:39.760 you're like 30 years older than her and he and she's like what do you even have to talk about

01:55:44.700 nothing and scott adam says well when she comes over we don't talk a whole lot

01:55:51.640 hey yeah it's they're like oh no it was a transactional relationship you think he didn't

01:55:58.180 know that every relationship is a transactional relationship now and and and the the only good

01:56:04.980 transaction in my opinion that that can work long term is i would like to trade my sperm for your 0.95

01:56:11.380 eggs. Okay, deal. Dating for children. I like this. Dating for children. That's what I'm all 0.98

01:56:18.580 about that life now. I'm all about dating for children. Eugenics. Eugenics. What would happen

01:56:26.240 if all men stopped serious relationships with modern women if they engaged in hookup culture 0.92

01:56:30.600 and only married virgins with dowries? They want to know your take. Nobody would get married anymore.

01:56:35.520 extinction species extinction level event is that what you want that's so funny

01:56:44.280 okay um all right well i think i've i've satisfied my curiosity i don't okay your morbid your morbid

01:56:51.900 curiosity yeah i had to know i'm like what was i'm with it get you a single mother kings get you

01:56:58.980 all the options are terrible you might as well take a terrible option that benefited you benefits

01:57:04.120 it's you your ex-wife stole your house get you a single mother that's still another man's house

01:57:09.200 get in there it's all it's all it's all pragmatic and i think the biggest thing is what you see is

01:57:14.640 what you get what her personality now that she's post kids she is post personality change you can

01:57:21.160 see how she is with the child what is the child like in compatibility that's a problem you guys 0.75

01:57:27.580 see that the woman's a terrible mother and you still marry her that's why you say don't date 0.81

01:57:31.300 single mothers you guys date these single mothers that are obviously terrible parents

01:57:35.440 it's like right in front of you but you guys love them too much you're like oh but she's my terrible

01:57:39.920 parent all right thanks joshua come back anytime all right you bet my pleasure take care all right

01:57:49.060 man man all right give me one second one second y'all i'm gonna play my commercial i'm gonna do

01:57:58.300 a shameless plug please donate to my divorce documentary go to the audacity network.com

01:58:04.320 um i have to do like a ten thousand dollar payment this week and um you know it's just

01:58:11.860 hurting me spiritually you know so if you want to help me you know i'm gonna i'm gonna play this

01:58:22.800 right and then i'm gonna mute it on the screen again

01:58:27.520 this clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question 0.98

01:58:34.960 do we need men most answered very quickly no because men are useless

01:58:41.840 this headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young women are not 0.61

01:58:49.340 young men have fallen faster than any demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different 0.87

01:58:54.380 world now like we don't need men the way that they used to the future is female 0.99

01:59:01.500 men and women are drifting further apart and society is crumbling because of it 0.69

01:59:08.220 a fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage you've kind of got the trad 0.81

01:59:12.300 con versus red pill thing this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way

01:59:17.500 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

01:59:21.620 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

01:59:24.240 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you. 0.97

01:59:27.260 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married. 0.99

01:59:32.200 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things. 1.00

01:59:35.840 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet. 0.98

01:59:39.500 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

01:59:42.300 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

01:59:47.500 Gee, what could go wrong there? 1.00

01:59:49.640 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.99

01:59:53.300 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.54

01:59:56.160 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

01:59:58.860 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

02:00:03.820 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

02:00:07.020 You need no evidence.

02:00:08.140 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

02:00:11.740 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

02:00:15.200 I interview them on the other side.

02:00:17.500 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

02:00:20.040 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

02:00:22.180 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

02:00:24.540 Before you know it, you're homeless.

02:00:25.960 You're literally just thrown out onto the street. 1.00

02:00:27.880 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

02:00:30.300 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, 1.00

02:00:32.200 and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

02:00:34.560 Family is the foundation of society. 1.00

02:00:36.300 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

02:00:39.460 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole 1.00

02:00:41.920 of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

02:00:43.800 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

02:00:45.660 we tell women to date as many guys as possible we tell them to put off family into marriage 1.00

02:00:49.260 you are allowed to leave your perfect husband you are allowed to end a relationship with a really 0.96

02:00:55.340 great boyfriend oh freeze your eggs have an abortion what you're evil i don't think there's

02:00:59.980 anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail right like if you have the 0.97

02:01:04.300 mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be 1.00

02:01:08.780 that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to 1.00

02:01:13.020 leave marriages because they're not happy. This is not about happiness. The most important thing 1.00

02:01:17.860 is the children. And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings

02:01:23.420 leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids. This myth that we live in an

02:01:29.540 age of male privilege, where's my male privilege? They think, well, men have all the rights. They

02:01:33.000 have all the power. Privilege, patriarchal system that we have. Why doesn't our society care about

02:01:38.180 men's rights. I have no friends. No wife and no social life. Men are alone in this situation. 1.00

02:01:44.260 Men are homeless. Men are thinking about eating guns. I've seen so many men on the brink of

02:01:49.200 suicide and they didn't do anything wrong. How are you equal if the men are the ones that have

02:01:54.620 to fight and die to defend the country? The men are the ones that build and maintain all the

02:01:59.540 infrastructure. Women are helplessly dependent upon men. The so-called deaths of despair from 1.00

02:02:05.200 suicide overdose to alcohol three times higher among men than among women culture is telling

02:02:11.100 men you are no good you got to get your act together i think men have failed themselves

02:02:14.900 what kind of a man are you what kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble 0.84

02:02:19.760 so are women everybody knows this is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it every

02:02:24.920 single woman at the table said they wanted a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is

02:02:30.660 really set up against you to fail as a man. If men make less than women, women don't want to marry

02:02:35.500 them. So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men? Women. I don't want to be 0.99

02:02:42.220 an independent woman anymore. I don't want to be a strong independent woman. I'm over it. When is 0.50

02:02:47.320 it going to be my turn? Where are we meeting the men that don't stop? I can't keep having these

02:02:51.320 same conversations. The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men. No, I think you simp

02:02:55.580 for women. She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff. But Pearl is right about this. It's already 1.00

02:02:59.900 happening it's just not out in the open yet now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy

02:03:04.120 tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband the future if everybody

02:03:09.500 follows your path is there is no future you're going to population decline and our economy goes

02:03:14.540 into decline civilization will crumble the american story does not end well this is an

02:03:20.760 Existential crisis, failing young men.

02:03:29.320 What up, guys?

02:03:30.720 So the time has come where we are finally...

02:03:33.360 All right, hold up, hold up.

02:03:39.640 All right, we're back.

02:03:41.500 We're back, we're back.

02:03:43.440 um

02:03:48.680 all right so i think i'm gonna react to a little bit more of the cga debate

02:03:58.640 to end the show because i kind of got i kind of got through my single mother live stream

02:04:07.560 i don't know do you guys want me to react to a show i guess we've been going two hours we could

02:04:15.140 call it but oh you know what i'll show you guys i just switched the domain to just pearly things

02:04:21.140 dot com i'm gonna i'll show you what i'm doing with my website all right so issues we've had

02:04:28.400 over the last year with the website i don't know if i even want to go into it but this is our

02:04:32.960 website right now okay so right here we have you can make a donation and if you go here you can

02:04:40.000 put in your username your password or you can just donate and you can put in the amount so if

02:04:46.580 anyone wants to donate ten thousand dollars you can donate it there uh do i need to beg flash tits

02:04:54.380 what do i gotta do i gotta all right anyways so i made this platform mostly because i wanted one

02:05:01.880 platform where I could have everything on it so I wanted to be able to put my events on here

02:05:06.180 um I wanted to put all my content that got like taken down or whatever on here um I wanted to

02:05:14.220 I'm gonna have a statistics page here a blog here um I have like one blog where I talk about how I

02:05:21.500 stumbled into the red pill I'll eventually make enough blogs that it's a book um the website's

02:05:26.460 working it's just a little clunky now like some of the stuff is kind of but it right now i have a

02:05:32.680 discord um attached here but i've thought about uh possibly just switching it to a communication

02:05:39.180 on the app pros and cons i don't know i'm very excited i'm also have a sales crm on the back end

02:05:47.740 um i'm really excited for the clunkiness of the website to kind of be worked out

02:05:53.120 because i know as soon as we get all i have a developer working on it but as soon as um

02:05:59.040 as soon as i finish

02:06:01.800 the website i just know that um i'm gonna be unstoppable because if i get this tool built

02:06:14.720 for me i'm we're gonna be raising money we're gonna long term i want to get really good at

02:06:20.460 fundraising for like men's issues and stuff but I don't know I don't want a lot of people involved

02:06:26.200 so I should have merch and polls yeah the polls are going to be added so is the merch but the

02:06:34.940 merch is later I have a t-shirt machine here that I haven't 100% figured out how to work

02:06:40.040 what my cash app isn't accepting money

02:06:43.220 wow

02:06:56.620 um

02:06:57.800 I don't know why it wouldn't

02:06:59.740 um

02:07:11.780 let me see

02:07:13.020 what

02:07:16.840 cash app

02:07:19.060 pearly thinks p-e-a-r-l-y-t-h-i-n-g-s

02:07:43.020 I don't know. Someone else sent me money.

02:07:50.380 You're going to try to send me $5 now.

02:07:52.800 Tell me what it says.

02:08:13.020 Thank you.

02:08:43.020 I'm looking

02:08:48.300 What does it say

02:08:58.200 when you send it?

02:09:05.820 Um

02:09:06.420 Well

02:09:09.780 a lot of you kind of want to react to this guy this i want to react to this guy

02:09:22.660 for love of the game not because i think this video will do well i don't i've been listening

02:09:28.040 to this guy non-stop i really like him um give me your cash app please my cash app is pearly

02:09:35.440 p-e-a-r-l-y-t-h-i-n-g-s pearly things

02:09:39.880 with a number

02:09:43.320 is it different than

02:09:48.100 yeah okay i'm gonna listen to this

02:09:53.780 really seemed to like it when i did that 21 photos that show how awful the job market is

02:10:02.480 and I want to follow up today with 22 photos that show you just how selfish and entitled

02:10:09.180 people have become in 2026 guys like people have just lost all sorts of common decency

02:10:16.340 I think a lot of people see this happening and there's a good chance that a lot of you watching

02:10:22.200 are part of the problem unfortunately because someone's doing this stuff and when you see

02:10:27.100 the pictures I'm about to show you it is just you know sometimes just so all right it says

02:10:32.480 oh I got it see I thought it was working man thank you I appreciate it says love you from

02:10:38.320 jazz thank you so she's not gonna let you crack because you sent money well maybe I will you know

02:10:45.120 maybe it doesn't take that why are you assuming it takes a lot disrespectful or a lack of common

02:10:51.280 courtesy other times just downright disgusting so let's jump into it here's the first one

02:10:56.340 this person decided to pick up a rotisserie chicken and then decided the last second,

02:11:01.760 ah, I don't want it. I'll just leave it here in the soda aisle. I'm not even going to bother

02:11:05.900 to take it back and put underneath the heat lamp. So somebody else might be able to buy it. We're

02:11:10.140 just going to waste this entirely. You know, that shows you how entitled and how much people take

02:11:16.720 for granted the abundance of food that we have today. You know, you just, yeah, I think we take

02:11:21.220 lot of things for granted to rewind human history like 150 years ago or more food was not abundant

02:11:27.940 guys it was difficult to grow food and have access to all kinds of food things were seasonal there

02:11:35.620 was way more shortages than you ever seen compared to today and people had to bust their butts to be

02:11:42.260 able to have three square meals a day but now no one cares now i'm not the one paying for it you

02:11:48.340 I don't care about this. I'm just going to leave it there. It's one thing to leave a bag of chips

02:11:52.260 in the wrong aisle or something like that. That's something that a store employee can pick up and

02:11:57.380 put back in its right spot, and it's not going to spoil. But a fresh chicken, come on. How about

02:12:02.280 this one? You can pay for seats on a plane that have extra legroom, right? And some people are

02:12:10.460 so unaware of their surroundings that they'll go ahead and stand right in front of you in the extra

02:12:16.840 leg room that you paid for, like in this case right here, and stare out the window with their

02:12:21.680 kid. Completely oblivious to the fact that this might be bothering the person who's sitting there.

02:12:27.580 Now, if something like this happened to me, guys, I would just say something like, get the hell out

02:12:31.720 of my way. You know, I wouldn't mind getting into a fight over something like this because it's just

02:12:37.420 completely disrespectful and I don't let people treat me like this. But some people are afraid of

02:12:43.380 conflict in that way and they just snap a picture of it instead and deal with it which is kind of

02:12:49.440 crazy but I see this all the time even when I just walk on the boardwalk in Miami Beach back home 0.99

02:12:55.920 it's like so stupid guys it's a big wide boardwalk almost as wide as this street that I'm walking on 1.00

02:13:01.940 here and you'll see a row of people you know all the way across walking all side by side no care 1.00

02:13:09.160 in the world that there's other bikes and other people trying to pass by and then they all just 1.00

02:13:13.740 kind of get out of the way and then they go back to walking like that like how stupid can you be 1.00

02:13:17.580 are you that oblivious to the fact that you're not the only one out here that you walk like that 1.00

02:13:22.740 it's just so infuriating mostly women and black people and they've been you know they've been 1.00

02:13:28.180 uh worshipped for too long so they don't think about anyone else 1.00

02:13:33.000 those people are the same ones who do this stuff on the airplane this one is just absolutely awful

02:13:39.960 as well people who leave the movie theaters like this and it's not just movie theaters either by 0.96

02:13:45.920 the way people leave sporting events like this and concerts and all kinds of things just trash

02:13:52.600 everywhere like somehow because you're in a venue that they clean up after everything is done

02:14:00.800 okay wait hold on i want to watch this i'm sorry i got a crowder track wasn't when this happened

02:14:06.320 yeah i was there uh mr cornell eight mr eight thank you for um thank you for for being here

02:14:12.580 so eight what what does that mean were you um were you there were you present when this happened

02:14:16.800 yeah i was there this is the right okay so crowder this is the eighth guy is this real

02:14:22.920 and what did you what happened did you sleep with her no no uh i tried to but she said no so

02:14:32.440 obviously i didn't

02:14:33.780 so did you did you see what happened with with everyone else uh yeah it seemed like the guys

02:14:41.580 were having a lot of fun uh you know i asked them if they uh i asked them if they had any ketamine

02:14:46.700 but they were all kind of

02:14:48.560 kind of busy

02:14:49.300 no time to

02:14:52.980 throw in any special K number 8's way

02:14:55.300 so you were just

02:14:56.720 you were just there

02:14:58.180 yeah yeah

02:15:00.060 I just watched for a bit

02:15:01.540 then I went downstairs

02:15:04.440 and I have a box of Triscuits

02:15:05.800 watching Storage Wars

02:15:07.040 is this real?

02:15:08.680 this cannot be real

02:15:09.980 no this has got to be a skit

02:15:13.780 and I went to bed

02:15:14.860 overall pretty good night

02:15:16.060 all right well thank you for making the time mr eighth we appreciate you stopping in

02:15:21.400 oh uh do you do you have any special case oh that's enough okay let's get this

02:15:25.760 that's enough mr eight everybody oh my god that's so funny oh my god let's see let's see

02:15:34.180 for the guys in question three only three facts matter for her and really three for the guys in

02:15:44.240 question three questions okay number one was she conscious yes and by the way i'm presenting things

02:15:51.220 that are not in dispute from either side number two did she clearly consent yes we're not even

02:15:58.800 in the conversation where it used to be well consent if it's not super clear very clearly

02:16:03.020 consenting we are all consenting adults number three did she try to continue a relationship

02:16:09.480 with the alleged rapists after the event yes yes man cooked i don't know how much that would hold

02:16:18.200 weight in court but to me it matters because a lot of the time you look at these me too situations

02:16:22.660 and you find out well wait a second he raped you and then you tried to set up two or three more

02:16:27.660 dates only three things only three facts matter for the men on the flip side number one did they

02:16:35.680 get clear consent yes number two did they stop if asked to stop yes these are not in dispute

02:16:42.580 number three were they conscious well not all of them and that's why according to some files

02:16:49.860 obtained by abc one frat member actually told the cornell police that he was too intoxicated

02:16:55.740 to consent and suggested that jane doe actually assaulted him so some people presented this as a

02:17:00.060 countersuit no this is just part of the actual report that was during the original investigation

02:17:04.680 During the original investigation.

02:17:05.920 Yep.

02:17:06.960 So those are the three things that matter.

02:17:10.980 Yeah, cooked.

02:17:12.440 All right, guys.

02:17:13.540 That's all I got for you today.

02:17:15.420 I really love you all.

02:17:18.580 I think you're cool.

02:17:20.200 So, anyways.

02:17:22.000 All right, guys.

02:17:22.840 If you can, like the video on your way out.

02:17:24.940 Subscribe to the channel.

02:17:27.360 See what I want to rant about tomorrow.

02:17:29.060 But I'll be back when I look at this.

02:17:31.180 Every day my schedule is the same.

02:17:32.700 I go to the gym.

02:17:34.680 I do my piano and guitar lesson and then I write my show and sometimes it takes longer

02:17:41.040 and sometimes it takes more. So sometimes between two and eight, I'll show up

02:17:46.760 and you'll take it, right? You'll take it. So anyways, I love you. Thanks for watching.

02:17:53.060 I'll see you next time.

Pearl - October 06, 2026

Making the case for single mothers

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