Pearl - November 04, 2025


MEN Are Breaking Up With WOMEN NOW!？

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Pros Steve Harvey
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Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

184.01

Word count

1,828

Sentence count

246

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

23

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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This is a compilation of women who got dumped by their boyfriends and how they handled the situation. This episode is about how to deal with a breakup and what to do when a man decides to move on from you.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 You know, I do think for women, a rite of passage is one crash out. 1.00
00:00:04.240 What up, guys?
00:00:05.080 Welcome to my reaction series.
00:00:07.080 So for all of millennia, women have been the ones that are dumping men. 0.91
00:00:11.660 But recently, men have been getting tired of women's BS. 0.78
00:00:16.760 And here is a compilation of women that got dumped by their boyfriends.
00:00:22.100 My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a month ago to work on himself.
00:00:29.400 And I just found out that he's already dating someone new. 1.00
00:00:33.620 Translation, you're an evil bitch and I don't want to be with you anymore. 1.00
00:00:36.580 Sorry, ladies. 1.00
00:00:38.000 I feel like a lot of women have experienced this heartbreak and have had the same thing happen to them.
00:00:43.380 So instead of being silent about my experience, I want to share it in case it could help one of you.
00:00:48.660 Yeah, men, they don't want you to crash out.
00:00:51.560 So they might give you a different reason than the one that they actually meant.
00:00:55.180 And that's why we never really get honesty from men like ever.
00:00:58.060 I was very supportive of him and his mental health.
00:01:02.960 And I knew that he was in a very low spot.
00:01:05.860 I was taking care of him most days.
00:01:07.460 I was financially supporting him.
00:01:09.060 It was really hard for me.
00:01:10.880 Oh my gosh, you got dumped by a guy you were taking care of and financially supporting.
00:01:17.240 Shout out feminism. 1.00
00:01:18.580 To let go of him and say, you know what?
00:01:21.260 I want you to work on yourself, even if it's apart from me.
00:01:23.900 And when you make a choice like that, it is so difficult to find out that there really was just someone else the entire time.
00:01:32.620 I just hope that any woman watching this hears me when I say, I know it hurts that he has moved on. 0.96
00:01:40.480 It is a fucking blessing that they are no longer in your life. 0.95
00:01:45.300 Continue believing in love because of the way that you love, not because of the fact that they will never know how. 0.99
00:01:50.900 All right, let's see.
00:01:53.220 Ladies, I know what to do if a man breaks up to you. 1.00
00:01:56.040 Now we need guides because we're just so bad we're getting dumped.
00:01:58.420 Ladies, I know you being well, but when a man did something to you, you don't have to do all those subliminal messages on Instagram or making videos of you getting all emotional and crying. 0.96
00:02:10.140 Yeah, because he does not care.
00:02:11.940 He does not care.
00:02:12.480 You know, I do think for women, a rite of passage is one crash out during a breakup. 0.99
00:02:18.540 But like when we're young, you kind of do.
00:02:20.900 I mean, it's kind of a rite of passage.
00:02:22.340 You don't know what to do with all that emotion. 0.99
00:02:25.240 Y'all want to take women's virginities until you see until you take a crazy woman's virginity. 1.00
00:02:29.860 You know what I mean? 1.00
00:02:30.580 That's called a crash out.
00:02:31.620 And all that's going to do is get you talked about in the group chat and that's going to make him feel like he's special.
00:02:37.040 Even if you're not saying it, your whole aura should give off that nigga fumbled me. 1.00
00:02:43.560 If any man fumbled me, it's something wrong with that nigga, not me.
00:02:48.340 Because you have certain men that get...
00:02:51.880 I just wouldn't even think about it.
00:02:53.140 Move on.
00:02:54.320 Off on a woman crying and sad and...
00:02:57.620 Yeah, well, because it shows emotional investment.
00:03:00.560 So, you know, if she crashes out, that means she pretty much liked you.
00:03:05.140 Losing herself.
00:03:06.140 She even got fat, hair all crazy, nails not done. 0.96
00:03:10.600 He's going to feel like, yeah, I did that.
00:03:13.720 And that's going to boost him up even more.
00:03:17.080 But when you kind of pop out, and he might not have seen you in a few months or whatever. 0.99
00:03:23.040 You pop out, that's going to make him be like, damn. 0.99
00:03:27.240 Even if he said it to his homeboys or even to himself, that's going to make him feel like, damn. 0.99
00:03:31.580 However, he had to give a damn... 0.99
00:03:32.920 Yeah, because if you don't crash out, then he's more likely to regret it. 0.83
00:03:38.060 He's not going to regret it if you crash out.
00:03:39.920 He's going to be like, thank God, right decision.
00:03:41.860 But either way, you don't want to look pitiful. 0.95
00:03:45.620 You want to look like you bossed the fuck up, not sitting here sat under a cover crying yourself to sleep at night. 0.80
00:03:53.160 Even if you are doing that, do not show it. 0.97
00:03:58.500 I even tell myself that.
00:04:00.280 Do not show it.
00:04:02.320 Be indifferent as much as you can.
00:04:05.100 I actually agree with that for the most part.
00:04:07.420 I don't know about the boss up or whatever.
00:04:10.120 Most men don't regret their decisions.
00:04:12.000 But when I have seen a man regret it, it's because the woman was very calm when he broke up with her.
00:04:17.300 All right, let's see this woman. 1.00
00:04:18.820 Oh, wait.
00:04:19.360 I'm going to turn this on.
00:04:20.000 Relationship anymore.
00:04:20.900 Then he breaks up with you because he told you he doesn't want a relationship anymore.
00:04:24.600 Then you find out that he just got into a relationship with another girl.
00:04:27.860 Maybe it's even a girl that he told you you'll never have to worry about. 1.00
00:04:30.860 You call him up, you curse him out, tell him how much of a piece of shit he is. 1.00
00:04:34.120 It's like he's just laughing on the phone. 1.00
00:04:35.780 He doesn't even care how hurt you are.
00:04:37.720 So you call his new...
00:04:38.840 They don't care.
00:04:39.780 Just like we don't care.
00:04:40.600 When you're done with someone, you're done.
00:04:42.500 Girlfriend.
00:04:42.920 And you tell her what he did to you.
00:04:44.480 You're hoping that she's going to have your back.
00:04:46.280 Instead, she goes and calls her boyfriend.
00:04:48.460 And she says, hey, your ex-girlfriend keeps calling me. 1.00
00:04:50.940 Just tells her that you're crazy. 1.00
00:04:52.600 To ignore you. 0.99
00:04:53.660 So instead of believing you, she believes him.
00:04:55.580 Just when you were hoping to be heard, you get denied again.
00:04:58.620 Now you're really broken.
00:05:00.060 Then you get to a point where you realize there's nothing more I can do.
00:05:02.860 You cry to your friends and you hurt.
00:05:04.580 You're hurting.
00:05:05.100 They're in this beautiful relationship.
00:05:06.940 A year goes by.
00:05:08.000 They're still together.
00:05:09.080 They look happy on social media.
00:05:10.680 But every day that they're fighting, that girl's crying.
00:05:12.840 In the back of her head, thinking about what you said.
00:05:15.180 At this point, now he's her problem.
00:05:17.180 Eventually, they break up.
00:05:18.540 The breakup that you were hoping for months ago.
00:05:21.040 This finally happened, but now you don't care.
00:05:23.100 Yeah, that alphas, right?
00:05:25.560 That's how women behave with alphas. 1.00
00:05:27.740 If women don't care after a breakup, she never really liked you. 1.00
00:05:30.560 He never gives you the satisfaction to tell you that you were right.
00:05:32.940 She doesn't need to because you know she knew.
00:05:34.960 And he calls you randomly a year later and apologizes.
00:05:38.400 Now you're laughing on the phone.
00:05:39.900 Just like he was.
00:05:40.880 Because what goes around, comes around.
00:05:44.280 All right, next.
00:05:45.460 We're here.
00:05:49.200 I'm going to start talking.
00:05:50.240 Because if I don't start talking, I'm going to go crazy.
00:05:52.380 Because I'm alone in this house.
00:05:54.680 You know what?
00:05:55.140 You, girl.
00:05:55.680 Like six.
00:05:56.560 Today, my boyfriend broke up with me.
00:05:58.700 Broke up with me.
00:06:00.500 And you know what I did?
00:06:02.480 I just looked at him.
00:06:04.460 I said, okay.
00:06:05.980 That's your decision.
00:06:06.900 I respect that.
00:06:07.580 That's the best thing you could do.
00:06:11.920 That's how she did it. 0.99
00:06:12.800 I think she's capping.
00:06:13.780 What I did, I got up.
00:06:15.480 Went to Walmart.
00:06:16.380 Bought a suitcase.
00:06:17.400 Came back.
00:06:18.440 Packed my things.
00:06:19.480 Looked at him.
00:06:20.160 I said, I'm going to go buy a car.
00:06:22.080 Look on this man's face.
00:06:23.940 He was shocked.
00:06:25.040 He didn't expect this.
00:06:26.960 I'm like, I'm going to go buy a car.
00:06:28.620 Three hours later, I come back.
00:06:30.340 He wasn't there.
00:06:31.620 Packed all my things up into this car.
00:06:33.840 And he got back as soon as I was done packing.
00:06:38.120 He walked to that house.
00:06:39.540 I know he saw the car.
00:06:40.640 I saw him from where we saw that car.
00:06:42.740 The look on his face.
00:06:45.440 The look on his face.
00:06:47.080 Honestly, I was surprised.
00:06:48.280 He looked upset.
00:06:50.540 And I looked at him.
00:06:52.260 I said, I'm done packing.
00:06:54.900 And he goes, okay.
00:06:58.360 And I said, okay, bye.
00:07:01.380 And I walked out.
00:07:03.180 And I walked out.
00:07:04.520 And that was the first time in my life that I never got to say my last words.
00:07:10.620 Because usually they're really petty and spiteful.
00:07:13.340 And that's why.
00:07:14.800 But I, guys.
00:07:19.860 You didn't really like him.
00:07:21.780 What did Steve Harvey say?
00:07:23.020 Never let a man tell you he don't want you twice or something like that.
00:07:26.160 Like, really.
00:07:29.580 Like, you're sitting there.
00:07:32.720 Look at me in the eye.
00:07:34.160 In the place that we lived together.
00:07:35.860 On the couch we picked out.
00:07:37.320 And the blankets we picked out.
00:07:39.220 And the wall color that we picked out.
00:07:41.580 And you're telling me you think we should separate.
00:07:45.060 Like, okay.
00:07:47.800 Like, I don't have anything to say.
00:07:49.280 I respect you telling me the truth.
00:07:50.840 You know?
00:07:51.100 But all I can say is, okay.
00:07:53.000 And leave.
00:07:54.300 You know?
00:07:54.720 I'm not going to sit there and beg someone to choose me.
00:07:57.600 Women are learning the things that men had to learn. 0.96
00:07:59.760 You know?
00:07:59.900 Because men.
00:08:00.440 You know?
00:08:01.360 When we were younger.
00:08:02.700 I think people crash out more.
00:08:04.580 And you kind of get more in control of your emotions the older you get.
00:08:07.380 But.
00:08:08.840 Yeah.
00:08:09.960 You know?
00:08:10.840 I used to be that way.
00:08:12.160 Not anymore.
00:08:12.920 I know my worth.
00:08:14.300 Like.
00:08:14.420 She's been banged out.
00:08:15.780 Yeah.
00:08:16.560 The emotion's gone.
00:08:17.560 You know?
00:08:18.300 Pros and cons.
00:08:19.300 Pros and cons.
00:08:20.020 There's some men that actually like high body count women.
00:08:22.140 You wouldn't think so.
00:08:23.220 But it's because there's like dead in their eyes.
00:08:25.220 And they don't crash out.
00:08:26.060 Women with a lot of emotion still. 1.00
00:08:27.580 They crash out.
00:08:28.940 Women have been banged out a couple times. 1.00
00:08:32.060 Can't be bothered.
00:08:33.260 And my guy friend was like, wow.
00:08:35.160 Like, you walked out on him.
00:08:36.740 Like, you didn't even fight.
00:08:38.640 Fight for what?
00:08:40.060 Like, what?
00:08:41.620 I'm not going to lose any more dignity.
00:08:43.420 I'm going to fight for someone to, you know, want to be with me.
00:08:47.820 You want to live up to my standards.
00:08:49.220 You don't live up to my standards.
00:08:50.220 That's fine.
00:08:51.420 That's okay.
00:08:52.180 Go find someone with lower standards.
00:08:54.700 There's plenty of girls out there who will be with you just for your money and have no standards. 1.00
00:09:01.240 Translation.
00:09:02.400 Yeah.
00:09:02.820 She was probably just nagging him to do a bunch of stuff.
00:09:05.000 He found it annoying.
00:09:05.840 So he dumped her.
00:09:07.040 Like, I have standards.
00:09:09.100 Like, okay.
00:09:11.280 So.
00:09:12.320 All right.
00:09:12.920 So.
00:09:14.480 Now women are actually getting dumped. 1.00
00:09:16.600 Let me know in the comments, what is the craziest way a woman's broken up with you? 1.00
00:09:19.620 Has she ever crashed out?
00:09:20.780 How did that go for her?
00:09:22.360 Like the video.
00:09:23.200 Subscribe.
00:09:23.820 And let me know what you think in the comments.
00:09:25.240 I'll see you next time.
00:09:26.060 I'll see you next time.