Pearl - Men Are Supposed to Love Women Like God Loves Humans (Free Will)

00:00:00.160 What up guys, welcome to my coffee dogs. Today I have coffee and I have half and half with sugar-free syrup.

00:00:07.520 That's the new coffee order. This month you're just going to get me to and from the gym.

00:00:11.600 I'm training for a half marathon so it's going to be fun.

00:00:15.340 Alright, so I was talking about last time how there's actually a sense of freedom in getting black-filled.

00:00:21.900 Now imagine you were born in the 70s or the 80s, right?

00:00:25.320 and i recently went to an eagles um i thought i was going to an eagles game and i was taking

00:00:30.200 to an eagles concert and this concert actually made me feel robbed um because the eagles is a

00:00:36.920 band i guess from the 70s and 80s and i went to this concert and it was these phenomenal guitarists

00:00:44.160 like the musicians on that stage were all almost dead i think one of the guys had his son playing

00:00:50.120 because he was dead right um they were like halfway in the grave they all look like grandpas

00:00:56.240 and grandmas and they're rocking out harder than anybody my age I'm like I was I was cursed with 0.97

00:01:04.040 fucking Taylor Swift that was my where was my Michael Jackson where was my prince right and I 0.97

00:01:11.560 was thinking out of the 70s and 80s must have been a great time to be alive because people still fell 0.99

00:01:16.860 in love. It was mostly white country, you know, and let's just be honest. I love the Latinos. I

00:01:23.660 love black people, but you guys bring a certain set of problems. Okay, you do. And if you want 1.00

00:01:29.120 to deny it, you can gaslight these other white people, but you're not gaslighting me. You are 0.97

00:01:34.380 not gaslighting me. So anyway, it's about this concert. It's all white people. Everyone back 0.99

00:01:43.080 then was probably in shape probably hot and I was just thinking the way that you guys lived life

00:01:49.620 like you had three meals cooked by your mom um you had like community like I grew up I didn't

00:01:56.880 have community where I lived nobody played like sports with the uh with the neighborhood that

00:02:02.860 just didn't happen um like I mean I got social media when I was in eighth grade um I had a smart

00:02:11.120 I had a cell phone when I was 12 so anyways whatever I felt robbed and now what if you were

00:02:16.320 born in the 70s and 80s and conservative commentators um conservatives told you it was

00:02:20.800 going to get better and you just slowly watched like society decline you know all this immigration 1.00

00:02:26.280 has completely changed the country and it's never going back you've watched sex work become

00:02:33.220 normalized you know you've watched all of um everybody get divorced leave their husbands and

00:02:39.340 wives you know and um you know I bet the country that you guys used to know I bet it's gone you

00:02:48.160 know and imagine if you got emotional about it you probably did at one point but there's like

00:02:52.740 a sense of freedom that there is in acceptance where you say do you know what this is kind of

00:02:59.180 the way the country's going if and when I have kids they're probably going to go to school with

00:03:03.500 sex workers we'll have to think of a plan for that because there's nothing I can do about it 1.00

00:03:07.480 nothing you can do and really i was thinking about this in a religious sense now i've never

00:03:16.400 been that religious no do you know what sorry when i was younger i was raised catholic and i

00:03:23.520 did believe that pretty strongly but what changed my mind and made me less religious i guess

00:03:31.720 is just watching people um use jesus for money use it to make friends like they use jesus for

00:03:39.320 things that have nothing to do with god and it's just kind of disheartening right but i i can never

00:03:44.700 say that i know what i believe because i have the experience of interviewing people much smarter than

00:03:49.660 me um i've interviewed people that have been studying the bible the allah all this different

00:03:55.180 like the book of mormon whatever for years and all of them have different conclusions so in my

00:04:00.320 humble opinion I just don't know I don't there's some you know questions in life I don't have the

00:04:06.740 answer to and I don't know I do believe in God right I think it's silly to think that nobody like

00:04:12.960 created this you know but I I just when it comes to that topic I just don't know

00:04:19.880 but I like the story of how and I'm probably butchering this please super bible thumpers in 1.00

00:04:28.720 the chat. Do not, don't nag at me a nitpick, but I know that God gave us his son, right? And God's

00:04:38.200 love for us, I was always taught in school, there's a sense of freedom. God wants us to love him

00:04:45.020 freely, right? He wants us to choose to love him. And when you think about it, that's like the best

00:04:52.700 type of love. It's the type of love where, you know, I always got that from my father. I talk

00:04:58.360 about my dad a lot on this channel my dad is like the least controlling person ever he does not

00:05:04.540 control you um but when he does something nice for you it's never to get anything out of you

00:05:11.580 like he doesn't use it later to hold it over your head if you don't help him back he just says fine

00:05:17.320 um my dad like the type of love that he has for his kids and just people in general it's a very

00:05:24.920 freeing type of love he doesn't expect anything from you um he doesn't want to control your

00:05:30.880 decisions he just says I love you and you know what you do I don't know if that makes us what

00:05:38.640 you do is your choice um you know I think you know my dad would have his preferences on how

00:05:45.680 each of his kids lived lived our lives but he was never one to you know my dad's never drank

00:05:51.920 in his life and he never was one to like shove that down our throats does that make sense does

00:05:55.840 that you guys i don't know if you're following but regardless regardless and i was thinking

00:06:02.420 about how in general mother's loves tend to be very controlling like if they do something nice

00:06:08.440 for you later they say oh all i all i did for you you know they constantly remind you they're 0.99

00:06:15.800 gonna die someday it's like bitch we're all gonna die we are all going to die all of us 1.00

00:06:22.060 um if they do something nice they'll hold I think I said that before um it's like in a manipulative 1.00

00:06:31.200 it's almost like an evil type of love and I I see this in all women um I see this in myself at times 0.98

00:06:38.060 I see this in every single woman I've known ever I don't I don't know if I've ever met a woman

00:06:45.800 that has that freedom kind of love that men can it just seems to be something that it's

00:06:52.200 it's a love i try to emulate but i fall short constantly constantly right so

00:07:02.040 but we all know that the most freeing type of love is the best one

00:07:08.920 people that like if you leave for two years and come back like that's like male friendships right

00:07:13.720 they'll leave for two years come back and they're best friends women it's like why didn't you call

00:07:18.280 me if you leave a guy um anyway so what i was thinking is when men love women they copy women's

00:07:27.720 type of love because women's love is like very controlling right and when men fall in love with 1.00

00:07:33.960 women it's like they copy the worst aspects of the way women love you know if you leave sometimes 1.00

00:07:41.480 they freak out um they can't stand the thought of you with someone out like that's like a female 1.00

00:07:47.560 like mental does that make sense so i was thinking the reason i don't see jesus and most religious

00:07:54.140 people is because they don't have god's type of love their type of love is really controlling

00:08:00.520 it's why the pastor's daughter always whores out because she hates the feeling of being forced 1.00

00:08:05.460 being controlled and I realized I think that men are meant to love women the way that God loves us

00:08:13.680 so Jesus right gave the most free type of love to his apostles right Jesus gave the most free type

00:08:22.360 of love to the world right he preached in the world and the world killed him you know not um not

00:08:28.820 to say that men are Jesus but in a way I think all men I've just noticed like men have Jesus in

00:08:37.160 them like it just seems like they have God like in them like every single man has God in I know

00:08:43.200 that sounds crazy but that's just what I see um but it's when they emulate like women that's when 0.99

00:08:52.020 they become evil i don't know i'm kind of i'm kind of spitballing so anyways i was thinking

00:09:00.840 about it and god even jesus himself went to the world and was very nice to the world and they

00:09:06.760 destroyed him um one of the apostles can't remember which one denied him like said he

00:09:12.220 didn't know jesus when he was about to die they crucified him you know um and that's a lot of

00:09:18.520 times that's what happens when you give someone the most free type of love and I was thinking

00:09:23.120 about how before societal constraints gave women not a like free type of love and now

00:09:33.640 the world has given women the most freedom where they said women do whatever you want we find out 0.99

00:09:40.480 most women are evil most women don't like their husbands as much as we thought you know most 1.00

00:09:45.960 women aren't good people and God found that out with humans right that most people are cowards 1.00

00:09:52.520 most people would crucify him most people um would do the wrong thing I don't know does that make

00:10:00.400 and I was thinking about how men are supposed to love women I think I think this is this is just

00:10:08.940 coming from within me this isn't coming from like a book or anything it seems like men are supposed

00:10:13.700 to love women the way that God loves us a very free type of love where you can come or go um

00:10:21.340 there will be consequences right but most of the consequences you'll have to suffer on your own

00:10:27.140 um you know when Eve bit the apple she had to deal with the consequences more than anyone else

00:10:34.780 and when women leave men and destroy a man a lot of times the women have the worst consequences 1.00

00:10:41.600 and I think the problem in society is men keep loving they keep copying the way women love 0.98

00:10:51.100 especially when they're young it's very controlling um they can't stand if the woman leaves um

00:10:59.960 they want to like own the woman and ownership is not love like control is not love

00:11:07.820 the most pure type of love is when both people want to be there like they both want to it's not

00:11:15.560 forced and I think that's what God wants from like men and what men want from women 0.99

00:11:23.420 but unfortunately if Jesus couldn't save these hoes neither can you 1.00

00:11:28.940 so i don't know i and i think that's why a lot of times um i don't know how to articulate when

00:11:38.600 something feels off but that's always what feels off about a lot of very religious people is

00:11:44.800 they're very controlling um and controlling you know taking away women's even women's like right 0.99

00:11:55.260 to have an abortion even though that's disgusting right so be okay kill your kid you'll have to deal 1.00

00:12:01.580 with the consequences later you know um okay you guys want to destroy society good luck 0.99

00:12:07.640 anyways i don't know this is just my two my two cents my coffee talks please don't judge me this

00:12:17.940 is not coming from a book most of my coffee talks are literally coming from just observing

00:12:23.680 you know the world because most religious men i think religious men more so

00:12:30.900 than the general population fear women more and how can you get how can you fear god if you fear

00:12:38.820 women fear her leaving fear her destroying you you know taking your kids whatever like 1.00

00:12:45.560 i think like it seems like fear i guess i'm gonna keep going it seems like fear

00:12:51.940 like that's actually the devil. I don't know. I don't know if you're following. It seems like

00:12:59.180 fear is, um, like women are the ones that fear a lot of things. And when men emulate fear,

00:13:11.900 they become women anyways. I don't know. All right, guys, let me know what you think in the

00:13:15.940 comments. I'm kind of spitballing. So sometimes when you guys leave a comment, it, it gets me

00:13:21.220 thinking so let me know in the comments like the video and I'll see you next time

Pearl - March 06, 2026

Men Are Supposed to Love Women Like God Loves Humans (Free Will)

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