Pearl - March 06, 2026


Men Are Supposed to Love Women Like God Loves Humans (Free Will)


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

163.9658

Word Count

2,199

Sentence Count

29

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

18


Summary

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Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.160 What up guys, welcome to my coffee dogs. Today I have coffee and I have half and half with sugar-free syrup.
00:00:07.520 That's the new coffee order. This month you're just going to get me to and from the gym.
00:00:11.600 I'm training for a half marathon so it's going to be fun.
00:00:15.340 Alright, so I was talking about last time how there's actually a sense of freedom in getting black-filled.
00:00:21.900 Now imagine you were born in the 70s or the 80s, right?
00:00:25.320 and i recently went to an eagles um i thought i was going to an eagles game and i was taking
00:00:30.200 to an eagles concert and this concert actually made me feel robbed um because the eagles is a
00:00:36.920 band i guess from the 70s and 80s and i went to this concert and it was these phenomenal guitarists
00:00:44.160 like the musicians on that stage were all almost dead i think one of the guys had his son playing
00:00:50.120 because he was dead right um they were like halfway in the grave they all look like grandpas
00:00:56.240 and grandmas and they're rocking out harder than anybody my age I'm like I was I was cursed with
00:01:04.040 fucking Taylor Swift that was my where was my Michael Jackson where was my prince right and I
00:01:11.560 was thinking out of the 70s and 80s must have been a great time to be alive because people still fell
00:01:16.860 in love. It was mostly white country, you know, and let's just be honest. I love the Latinos. I
00:01:23.660 love black people, but you guys bring a certain set of problems. Okay, you do. And if you want
00:01:29.120 to deny it, you can gaslight these other white people, but you're not gaslighting me. You are
00:01:34.380 not gaslighting me. So anyway, it's about this concert. It's all white people. Everyone back
00:01:43.080 then was probably in shape probably hot and I was just thinking the way that you guys lived life
00:01:49.620 like you had three meals cooked by your mom um you had like community like I grew up I didn't
00:01:56.880 have community where I lived nobody played like sports with the uh with the neighborhood that
00:02:02.860 just didn't happen um like I mean I got social media when I was in eighth grade um I had a smart
00:02:11.120 I had a cell phone when I was 12 so anyways whatever I felt robbed and now what if you were
00:02:16.320 born in the 70s and 80s and conservative commentators um conservatives told you it was
00:02:20.800 going to get better and you just slowly watched like society decline you know all this immigration
00:02:26.280 has completely changed the country and it's never going back you've watched sex work become
00:02:33.220 normalized you know you've watched all of um everybody get divorced leave their husbands and
00:02:39.340 wives you know and um you know I bet the country that you guys used to know I bet it's gone you
00:02:48.160 know and imagine if you got emotional about it you probably did at one point but there's like
00:02:52.740 a sense of freedom that there is in acceptance where you say do you know what this is kind of
00:02:59.180 the way the country's going if and when I have kids they're probably going to go to school with
00:03:03.500 sex workers we'll have to think of a plan for that because there's nothing I can do about it
00:03:07.480 nothing you can do and really i was thinking about this in a religious sense now i've never
00:03:16.400 been that religious no do you know what sorry when i was younger i was raised catholic and i
00:03:23.520 did believe that pretty strongly but what changed my mind and made me less religious i guess
00:03:31.720 is just watching people um use jesus for money use it to make friends like they use jesus for
00:03:39.320 things that have nothing to do with god and it's just kind of disheartening right but i i can never
00:03:44.700 say that i know what i believe because i have the experience of interviewing people much smarter than
00:03:49.660 me um i've interviewed people that have been studying the bible the allah all this different
00:03:55.180 like the book of mormon whatever for years and all of them have different conclusions so in my
00:04:00.320 humble opinion I just don't know I don't there's some you know questions in life I don't have the
00:04:06.740 answer to and I don't know I do believe in God right I think it's silly to think that nobody like
00:04:12.960 created this you know but I I just when it comes to that topic I just don't know
00:04:19.880 but I like the story of how and I'm probably butchering this please super bible thumpers in
00:04:28.720 the chat. Do not, don't nag at me a nitpick, but I know that God gave us his son, right? And God's
00:04:38.200 love for us, I was always taught in school, there's a sense of freedom. God wants us to love him
00:04:45.020 freely, right? He wants us to choose to love him. And when you think about it, that's like the best
00:04:52.700 type of love. It's the type of love where, you know, I always got that from my father. I talk
00:04:58.360 about my dad a lot on this channel my dad is like the least controlling person ever he does not
00:05:04.540 control you um but when he does something nice for you it's never to get anything out of you
00:05:11.580 like he doesn't use it later to hold it over your head if you don't help him back he just says fine
00:05:17.320 um my dad like the type of love that he has for his kids and just people in general it's a very
00:05:24.920 freeing type of love he doesn't expect anything from you um he doesn't want to control your
00:05:30.880 decisions he just says I love you and you know what you do I don't know if that makes us what
00:05:38.640 you do is your choice um you know I think you know my dad would have his preferences on how
00:05:45.680 each of his kids lived lived our lives but he was never one to you know my dad's never drank
00:05:51.920 in his life and he never was one to like shove that down our throats does that make sense does
00:05:55.840 that you guys i don't know if you're following but regardless regardless and i was thinking
00:06:02.420 about how in general mother's loves tend to be very controlling like if they do something nice
00:06:08.440 for you later they say oh all i all i did for you you know they constantly remind you they're
00:06:15.800 gonna die someday it's like bitch we're all gonna die we are all going to die all of us
00:06:22.060 um if they do something nice they'll hold I think I said that before um it's like in a manipulative
00:06:31.200 it's almost like an evil type of love and I I see this in all women um I see this in myself at times
00:06:38.060 I see this in every single woman I've known ever I don't I don't know if I've ever met a woman
00:06:45.800 that has that freedom kind of love that men can it just seems to be something that it's
00:06:52.200 it's a love i try to emulate but i fall short constantly constantly right so
00:07:02.040 but we all know that the most freeing type of love is the best one
00:07:08.920 people that like if you leave for two years and come back like that's like male friendships right
00:07:13.720 they'll leave for two years come back and they're best friends women it's like why didn't you call
00:07:18.280 me if you leave a guy um anyway so what i was thinking is when men love women they copy women's
00:07:27.720 type of love because women's love is like very controlling right and when men fall in love with
00:07:33.960 women it's like they copy the worst aspects of the way women love you know if you leave sometimes
00:07:41.480 they freak out um they can't stand the thought of you with someone out like that's like a female
00:07:47.560 like mental does that make sense so i was thinking the reason i don't see jesus and most religious
00:07:54.140 people is because they don't have god's type of love their type of love is really controlling
00:08:00.520 it's why the pastor's daughter always whores out because she hates the feeling of being forced
00:08:05.460 being controlled and I realized I think that men are meant to love women the way that God loves us
00:08:13.680 so Jesus right gave the most free type of love to his apostles right Jesus gave the most free type
00:08:22.360 of love to the world right he preached in the world and the world killed him you know not um not
00:08:28.820 to say that men are Jesus but in a way I think all men I've just noticed like men have Jesus in
00:08:37.160 them like it just seems like they have God like in them like every single man has God in I know
00:08:43.200 that sounds crazy but that's just what I see um but it's when they emulate like women that's when
00:08:52.020 they become evil i don't know i'm kind of i'm kind of spitballing so anyways i was thinking
00:09:00.840 about it and god even jesus himself went to the world and was very nice to the world and they
00:09:06.760 destroyed him um one of the apostles can't remember which one denied him like said he
00:09:12.220 didn't know jesus when he was about to die they crucified him you know um and that's a lot of
00:09:18.520 times that's what happens when you give someone the most free type of love and I was thinking
00:09:23.120 about how before societal constraints gave women not a like free type of love and now
00:09:33.640 the world has given women the most freedom where they said women do whatever you want we find out
00:09:40.480 most women are evil most women don't like their husbands as much as we thought you know most
00:09:45.960 women aren't good people and God found that out with humans right that most people are cowards
00:09:52.520 most people would crucify him most people um would do the wrong thing I don't know does that make
00:10:00.400 and I was thinking about how men are supposed to love women I think I think this is this is just
00:10:08.940 coming from within me this isn't coming from like a book or anything it seems like men are supposed
00:10:13.700 to love women the way that God loves us a very free type of love where you can come or go um
00:10:21.340 there will be consequences right but most of the consequences you'll have to suffer on your own
00:10:27.140 um you know when Eve bit the apple she had to deal with the consequences more than anyone else
00:10:34.780 and when women leave men and destroy a man a lot of times the women have the worst consequences
00:10:41.600 and I think the problem in society is men keep loving they keep copying the way women love
00:10:51.100 especially when they're young it's very controlling um they can't stand if the woman leaves um
00:10:59.960 they want to like own the woman and ownership is not love like control is not love
00:11:07.820 the most pure type of love is when both people want to be there like they both want to it's not
00:11:15.560 forced and I think that's what God wants from like men and what men want from women
00:11:23.420 but unfortunately if Jesus couldn't save these hoes neither can you
00:11:28.940 so i don't know i and i think that's why a lot of times um i don't know how to articulate when
00:11:38.600 something feels off but that's always what feels off about a lot of very religious people is
00:11:44.800 they're very controlling um and controlling you know taking away women's even women's like right
00:11:55.260 to have an abortion even though that's disgusting right so be okay kill your kid you'll have to deal
00:12:01.580 with the consequences later you know um okay you guys want to destroy society good luck
00:12:07.640 anyways i don't know this is just my two my two cents my coffee talks please don't judge me this
00:12:17.940 is not coming from a book most of my coffee talks are literally coming from just observing
00:12:23.680 you know the world because most religious men i think religious men more so
00:12:30.900 than the general population fear women more and how can you get how can you fear god if you fear
00:12:38.820 women fear her leaving fear her destroying you you know taking your kids whatever like
00:12:45.560 i think like it seems like fear i guess i'm gonna keep going it seems like fear
00:12:51.940 like that's actually the devil. I don't know. I don't know if you're following. It seems like
00:12:59.180 fear is, um, like women are the ones that fear a lot of things. And when men emulate fear,
00:13:11.900 they become women anyways. I don't know. All right, guys, let me know what you think in the
00:13:15.940 comments. I'm kind of spitballing. So sometimes when you guys leave a comment, it, it gets me
00:13:21.220 thinking so let me know in the comments like the video and I'll see you next time