00:04:26.680This is an existential crisis, failing young men.
00:04:38.420what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here of the audacity network thank
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00:06:13.640All right. So today we're talking about female virgins.
00:06:17.060now when i got into the space i have to say i kind of was fooled by this too
00:06:24.160i really was i was fooled by the myth of a female virgin now
00:06:30.220when you think of a female virgin or the trad fantasy of a female virgin
00:06:40.180i always thought these were these women that were like morally superior
00:06:45.460that they just had these great morals and they were just such good people okay that was my
00:06:53.780perception going into the space that was that was what I thought right I thought that these the
00:07:00.500women the very rare virgins that there are just these women that are of a higher quality and of
00:07:05.420great standards you know because it wasn't something I personally as my critics and
00:07:11.140detractors love to love to point out what was able to adhere to right so I thought these women
00:07:18.920they're so moral so then I interviewed a thousand women and you know just when you're doing these
00:07:24.280interviews you meet women that claim to be virgins right you meet these women that they say that they
00:07:30.680are virgins and what I came to realize is that sure young female virgins like 18 to 21 maybe
00:07:38.460I'll believe. But over that age, there's something usually seriously wrong with them.
00:07:45.480It is not this traditional fantasy that these men want, okay? They're usually, they're unattractive,
00:07:54.060very socially awkward, not in a cute way. They're usually, if they are attractive,
00:08:03.680They are building their brand off of their virginity, and they have such a big ego around it that they have a very, like, naive point of view almost.
00:44:52.720want to find a wife and honestly like having somebody come on a boat with me and take girls
00:44:59.440on super adventurous dates like that's my number one priority and i kind of showed that um i am
00:45:04.360alissa i'm 23 years old i'm from arizona uh just a little bit about me i am super talkative and
00:45:11.980social um i love kayaking and like going for a little swig run um and i love i appreciate that
00:45:20.140you said how tall you are because i am um like almost six feet tall so i love that you if he's
00:45:26.260into tall girls that'll be a plus men some men have a thing for tall women so it just it depends
00:45:34.220how the guy views it um she okay i like her vocal tone he's gonna like that mentioned how tall you
00:45:44.080are. Hi, I'm Allie. I'm 20 years old. And I like that you said you like to travel because
00:45:50.820I grew up in Germany. So I travel a lot. And yeah, I love to cook and I'll definitely cook
00:45:55.940you dinner. He's going to pick one of the first two. Dating in Provo has been really
00:46:04.680interesting. I did the online dating for a while. Got lots of dates, not lots of really
00:46:10.420fun people just didn't really find my person um and then i kind of just left it up to chance i'm
00:46:16.340riley you already heard a little about me but i'm 24 and i'm from houston texas but yeah i really
00:46:21.860like to travel and i like doing fun things outdoors and being able to try new adventures
00:46:28.180um and i'm sheridan i'm 24 i'm from utah and just like everyone else i love traveling and i also
00:46:34.340love doing just everything outdoors skiing hiking all the things see my strategy going in i was
00:46:40.020waiting to hear somebody that i thought was super interesting um that i could you know learn more
00:46:44.740about when dakota was introducing himself it just seemed like he kind of had a more chill laid back
00:46:52.820um like vibe about him i like that he mentioned how he has an established career what does your
00:47:00.900ideal weekend look like okay i'm alyssa um i would say sleeping in not too late though because i still
00:47:09.540want to like do things fun with my day maybe like going for a picnic and then um just like
00:47:15.460spending time with friends and family the rest of the day and i'm ally again um i'll say the same
00:47:21.300thing all right we got a super i like this format but i think most of the guys were not super
00:47:28.180serious thanks for your honesty either way thank you uh yeah i mean they're like in their 20s but
00:47:33.860But here's the thing. Men don't look at anything at first that serious unless they have no choice.
00:47:43.840Like and that's that's the problem with the commitment guys up front is there you're basically communicating.
00:47:50.240I have no choice at all. Yeah, I'm looking for this.
00:47:55.380Like that's what when you say like, oh, I'm marriage minded. I'm like, good luck.
00:47:59.180You're looking for predators. You're basically communicating. I want to date 35 year old women who are also that's when we get marriage minded. So it's just not like I see guys list that on their dating profiles. I'm like, I would not do that.
00:48:20.040they're saying all of them are superior to me oh totally totally i mean these are the young this
00:48:28.260is the new this is the gen z new women i would put them above me too that's not that's not here
00:48:33.860nor there but what i'm i'm describing here is you know i'm describing why the men are picking who
00:48:43.000and why the women are picking who so i'm going back to 20 mormons
00:48:48.560yeah so hold on i'm going to continue can't sleep in too much or feel unproductive
00:48:53.260but um yeah hang out outside probably go thrifting um and yeah just make good food
00:49:00.100enjoy time with other people yeah so my ideal weekend i think really depends on sorry i forgot
00:49:05.840i was saying earlier most men are not serious going in they have sex and then they find out
00:49:12.940like three years later they're married with the kids they like wake up they don't you got to give
00:49:18.520men in 2025 you got to give out free trials to make them fall in love because if you don't
00:49:25.120somebody else will i'll tell you what it's yeah season like in the winter on friday nights like
00:49:31.840i want to go skiing and then on saturday i want to spend time like with my friends and with my
00:49:36.100family and like doing anything i think for me i kind of like waking up early on the weekend
00:49:41.180because i love being out when no one else is out and going on like a long run or like a really long
00:49:45.300walk and then i think similar to everyone else i just love being with friends family going and
00:49:50.840doing something fun going to a concert all of that and round one for me i was getting a little
00:49:56.600nervous and people started coupling up no one stood up that first time but it's not like game
00:50:01.680over like i guess it's their loss but they didn't want to get to know me more but i thought might
00:50:05.860as well put myself out there because you never know what's going to happen yeah thanks ladies
00:50:09.420for sharing you guys all sound amazing um i would like to couple up with um
00:50:19.500i think he's gonna pick nine i think he's gonna pick the first one alissa yes i got it