Pearl - May 08, 2024


Modern Housewives are Covert Feminists w⧸ @MohammedHijab


Episode Stats


Length

4 minutes

Words per minute

187.99706

Word count

851

Sentence count

15

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

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Hate speech

6

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss housewives and whether or not they should be allowed to stay at home with their kids. We also discuss why it s important for women to have a job outside of being a housewife.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 what's your view on a housewife because i'm quite confused now i thought you were pro housewife
00:00:04.160 well i have a nuanced go on what's your yeah go on i think that housewives that actually are 1.00
00:00:10.960 committed to being housewives are amazing they're special they're awesome sure that is not what i
00:00:17.600 see as the average american housewife okay the average american housewife has her kids in public 0.99
00:00:25.040 school. It's 1.2 children. They don't typically learn a bunch of recipes for the family. It's
00:00:31.840 a lot of easy bake stuff.
00:00:33.240 Is that a prerequisite? Like she has to know the recipes?
00:00:35.980 No, it doesn't have to be recipes, but there has to be some level of effort, right, to
00:00:41.220 serve your family. And I would say it is more typical and more common that housewives today 0.85
00:00:48.800 tend to, you know, oftentimes are looking for a hand out.
00:00:57.260 Okay, but let's put things in perspective.
00:01:00.480 Do you differentiate between housewives that are looking after kids and those ones who are not? 0.61
00:01:04.180 Say that again?
00:01:05.000 Do you differentiate between housewives that are looking after kids and those who are not?
00:01:11.900 I would say based on what most housewives I know are looking after children. 1.00
00:01:17.560 okay and there's one I'll give you an example there's a woman I grew up around 1.00
00:01:21.160 she had two kids they were in private school but she was like the most 0.70
00:01:24.880 hard-working woman I've ever met in my life she she they lived on like a farm 1.00
00:01:28.460 she made every recipe from scratch like this woman she was she was superhero you 1.00
00:01:34.420 know I'm not talking about women like her but for every one woman like her 0.62
00:01:37.840 there's like five women that honestly are just kind of lazy okay I can see your 1.00
00:01:42.640 criticism here but let's flesh it out a little bit i'm not against housewives yeah you know but
00:01:48.700 i think in the moment that would be odd because no no no no but i'm i'm against lazy i don't like
00:01:54.380 lazy i'm from the midwest we're just a hard-working people out there all right so let's say for
00:01:59.060 example a woman has a couple of kids two kids for the sake of argument right she has to she 1.00
00:02:03.560 she spends the majority of time with them which means that she's going to look after them
00:02:07.100 that's good would that be acceptable yeah that's acceptable yeah okay yeah um okay look i don't
00:02:15.360 think we disagree then in that case look if she's a woman who's looking after kids or looking after 1.00
00:02:19.260 her family whatever then i agree that this would be considered to be yeah but if the kids are in
00:02:24.020 public school i don't think there's a problem with a woman getting a part-time job or a job at home 1.00
00:02:28.320 because most people can't survive on one income now yeah for me like so so and a lot of women 1.00
00:02:35.280 feel entitled to stay at home and my thing is you know if you do the housewife thing the right way
00:02:40.800 which is you know get married at young and you know dedicate most of your time to your family
00:02:45.260 fine but what i am seeing is you know now women want to be housewives and they expect the men to 1.00
00:02:51.720 pay for it while simultaneously taking the jobs that pay well you can't have it all ladies and 1.00
00:02:58.260 no no but with that i don't have a problem with that like you know if so long as she's servicing 1.00
00:03:02.840 the husband because he's getting he's getting something out of this if she's not servicing him 0.99
00:03:07.660 i agree with you well i guess my point is most women won't get it anyways only one out of four 0.99
00:03:13.400 women get to be stay-at-home wives so the majority of women that's not going to happen won't get this 1.00
00:03:19.240 this uh scenario yeah okay well that's what we're trying to change that isn't it well i see i'm a
00:03:25.560 little bit more pessimistic i don't think i can change the world i i think most people that try
00:03:30.640 to change the world to go crazy what's your objective then i like i describe what's going on
00:03:35.840 why i think it's interesting but what's the what's the reason for it what's what's your motivation
00:03:41.920 people have always described what's going on throughout history someone had to write about it
00:03:45.520 someone had to talk about it some people i find it i find it entertaining you know and i i also
00:03:51.680 think it's important that the next generation gets the right information but i'm not hopeful
00:03:56.560 that even if younger women get the right information, they will make better choices. 1.00
00:04:02.160 I think people are people, you know. I asked my dad once if he thought people change.
00:04:07.280 He told me no. He said, if anything, they get worse over time. And if ever anything went wrong
00:04:12.720 in life, I said, you know, if there was a scandal in the town we're from, I'd say,
00:04:16.720 dad, could you believe it that happened or that happened? And say, people are people.