Pearl - Modern Mothers Are Broke And Make It Their Daughters Problem

00:00:00.000 well guys as you know modern women have a tendency to make our problems everyone's problems and um 1.00

00:00:06.400 one way that women make our problems um everyone else's problems is they make their kids take care 1.00

00:00:13.680 of them women have their entire lives to save up now that we fought the patriarchy we can work 1.00

00:00:19.680 you can now save for your retirement but do women do that no we have a tendency 1.00

00:00:24.160 we have a tendency to buy botox clothes trips vacations instead of saving and then it becomes

00:00:34.120 the kids problem so this 27 year old woman is stuck taking care of her 68 year old single mother 1.00

00:00:39.940 since the 60s women have had the choice to make their own path they have been free to make their

00:00:44.660 own decisions and suffer the consequences when given the choice women have made decisions that 0.97

00:00:49.360 have left them old alone and broke and this has left the children of these women in the position

00:00:53.720 to have to take care of them when they get older let's look at the story of a 27 year old woman 1.00

00:00:58.000 that is stuck taking care of her irresponsible single mother my mother has financially made a 1.00

00:01:03.900 mess of her life and i'm at a loss of what to do any advice to start i'm a relatively young 27 years

00:01:10.340 of age and i make approximately 45k a year in a lower cost living area it's not terrible but not great

00:01:17.120 either i'm currently saving the majority of my paycheck as i'm still embarrassingly living at my dad's

00:01:22.920 house as it's closer to my work they're divorced but friends evidently whatever that means i've

00:01:28.140 managed to have a very hefty nest egg since graduating college however due to my mother's stream

00:01:34.140 of unwise financial decisions she's made in the past it feels like my life is on hold indefinitely

00:01:40.200 i'm not saying that this is entirely the issue as i have my own problems but it definitely contributes

00:01:45.420 to it my mother is 67 nearing 68 retired and on disability she has numerous physical ailments and

00:01:52.600 from my understanding has very little in the way of retirement social security annuities savings and i

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00:03:39.000 my mother has never been great with money and has made some life-changing mistakes before in the 1.00

00:03:44.160 past like pissing through a lottery winnings many years back this is a very long story but take it

00:03:49.420 for what you will this has been churning for years now but it finally came to a head when we found out

00:03:55.900 her apartment was cutting utilities and increasing rent this has put significant stress on both of us

00:04:01.020 for months now and i'm honestly scared at this point she's currently enrolled in a workforce for the

00:04:05.740 aging prob program or something to help aging individuals gain employment we expect to hear

00:04:11.320 back within the next few weeks again she's very limited on what she can do we've also checked into

00:04:16.240 low-income housing in our area but they're all not only booked but the waiting is closed i've been giving

00:04:23.380 her 500 bucks every month but the last week i gave her 900 as big as big expenses came up i want to be

00:04:31.040 independent move out and hopefully start a family do whatever the hell else a 27 year old should be

00:04:35.880 doing but i pretty much can't my mother literally has no one else but me to rely on my dad is apathetic 0.98

00:04:40.980 towards the whole situation and helps out financially but very sparingly her family is on the opposite end

00:04:46.100 of the country and to be honest i don't think they even care to begin with i'm scared i feel hopeless

00:04:50.660 and at a loss at what to do what should i do about this yeah i would say cut her off and make her deal 0.99

00:04:56.540 with the consequences of her own decisions i don't think you should feel bad in the slightest

00:05:00.800 because she's had her whole life to save and she made the choice to be bad with money and sometimes

00:05:06.500 people got to feel the consequences of their own decisions too many times men and women both enable 0.88

00:05:11.500 toxic family members toxic friends that keep making bad decision after bad decision after bad decision

00:05:17.220 and wondering why they never change of course she's never going to change and of course she's going to

00:05:21.860 take you your time your money for granted because you keep giving it out for free i think men got to 0.86

00:05:26.760 learn the same lesson with commitment and i also would say that to this woman here go live your life

00:05:31.340 um you she is not your problem she's an adult let me know what you guys think in the comments make

00:05:36.320 sure you like the video on your way out please subscribe to the channel and i'll see you next time bye

00:05:40.080 bye

Pearl - July 28, 2025

Modern Mothers Are Broke And Make It Their Daughters Problem

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