Pearl - April 27, 2025Modern Single Moms Went Full DELUSIONAL Thinking Men Still Want Them
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Summary
Since 2020 and the introduction of YouTube personalities like the late, great Kevin Samuels and the Fresh and Fit podcast, the truth is out on men dating single mothers. As more and more men avoid women with children, there is no benefit to raising another man s child. None. Some single mothers have gotten the hint, but many have not.
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You mean how I am supporting two kids, a dog, and myself on one income in this economy?
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You mean how I still look like this after having two children?
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I work a full-time job. I have two side businesses.
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If you were really doing that much, we would all know you were doing that much.
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Like Instagram shop and their TikTok account. Those are their businesses.
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Today we're talking about single mothers are still delusional and think that men want them.
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So since 2020 and the introduction of YouTube personalities like the late, great Kevin Samuels and the Fresh and Fit podcast,
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Stepdaddy season is officially over as more and more men avoid women with children.
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There is no benefit to raise another man's child. None.
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Some single mothers have gotten the hint, but many have not.
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The delusion runs deep with these baby mamas.
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Let's look at single mothers coping because no men will date them.
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I guess I shouldn't say no men. I should say there's always someone, but no men that they want.
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Let's talk dating as a single mom because this is a question that I get asked very, very frequently.
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As much tea as I'd like to give you guys, I'm currently not dating, but I don't know.
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My mindset with dating is like very, very relaxed.
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I kind of flip-flop back and forth between wanting something serious and then wanting something fun.
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I don't know. It seems like a really weird topic to talk about because I'm super private when it comes to all of that.
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I know exactly what I want and I know that I don't want to...
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She said, I flip between wanting something serious and something fun.
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Settle for anything because the way that I look at it is if I didn't settle for my kid's dad,
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why would I settle for another man that isn't their dad?
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I feel like now that me and the other parent are, you know, co-parenting here and there,
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But I will say that even if I start dating, I would keep it super private just because that's just the way that I am.
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One thing that I do know for certain, 100%, is that I will never bring a man around my kids.
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I'm just really protective of my kids and I never want to bring anyone around them that isn't going to be in their life.
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I get this question a lot, so I figured that I would make like a quick little video just kind of going over my mindset on things.
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If you're a single mom and you're currently in the dating field, let me know what you guys think.
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I mean, I am a doomer, but I'm like blackpilled to the point where I'm like, if a porn star can find love,
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I mean, obviously, like they're going to have to go down a level of caliber of men.
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Like, let's not pretend that the men with all the options.
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There's less Gen Z women being born, right?
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So there's less young women that are even turning 18 every year.
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And also, women are only going for a smaller and smaller percentage of guys.
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So if 80% of men aren't really getting laid like that, somebody's going to do it, right?
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I mean, they're going to have to go down a step.
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But hey, it depends how low their baby daddy was, right?
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Like, if their baby daddy was here, maybe they can go...
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Lately, that broke men are trying to convince single mothers that rich men don't want them.
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And the funniest thing about that to me is the reasons are usually like,
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They're looking at these women as used goods.
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Successful men don't base what they want off of how easy it is to get it.
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In fact, in my experience, when there's a bit of a challenge, it's more exciting for them.
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Like, the men that like a challenge are simps, right?
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Like, they might want a challenge like a flirt, right?
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But they're not going to wait three months for a single mother like they did back in the day.
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Women really got away with murder back in the day.
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I can't believe there was a book written by a man advising women to wait three months for sex.
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They're not going to go with the easiest lay, right?
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They're going to go with someone that's interesting to them.
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And the qualities that make someone a good mother really makes them an interesting person
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I've met a lot of terrible mothers, so I'm not really...
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Women think, like, because they had a child, they're, like, automatically a better person.
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They don't want to do the hard thing of, like, being interested in other people, being nice to other people,
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These broke guys, dusty guys, really shitty guys are going to try to convince you that you're not worth as much
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because they're trying to get a baddie for a discount.
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Guys, I mean, single mothers, they definitely...
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Like, let's not pretend they can't get married.
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But, like, a guy will go to the ends of the earth to please a 21-year-old woman.
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Like, he's gonna drive three hours to meet you if you're 21.
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With a kid at 31, you better be down the street, bitch.
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Like, you better be right there and willing to always meet him on his time whenever he wants.
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And then some women, that's how they pull it off, right?
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They just make it so easy, so convenient, and are so pleasant.
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And they also have to not get jealous of all the extra work that he's putting in for these young broads, right?
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He's putting in all this work for the young broads and not putting the work into getting you.
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And you have to not be bitter about it and still be there, and that's how they win.
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Or they're really, really hot, and the kids maybe...
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Like, if she had that kid at 15, I mean, do you really care if it's, like, 16?
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When the males use single mom as an insult, because what do you mean?
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You mean how I am supporting two kids, a dog, and myself on one income in this economy?
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You mean how I still look like this after having two children?
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Some women do get, like, below mid after the kids, so I'm happy for you.
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Okay, women sell a couple things on Instagram and then say they have a side business.
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Like, if you were really doing that much, we would all know you were doing that much.
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Women start a TikTok account, and that's, like, Instagram shop and their TikTok account.
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Most of our meals, our fridge is always stocked.
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I always get the girls to their activities.
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I have time to travel with my kids, and I have time to read.
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You mean to tell me that I'm doing all of that while you're leaving hate comments on the
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Like, if someone comes up to me, I don't know, and says something that I know is just
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Like, you guys, sometimes in the comments, you're like, oh, I don't like this or I don't
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Then you go build a channel with 2 million subscribers.
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So, you know, like, then I don't care because it's not true.
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You know, or like, if someone says, Pearl, you're obese.
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Because I don't know about you, but I am the hottest, healthiest, and wealthiest I've
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Because if she were a man, she'd be drowning and put...
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We hate that every breakup, we have to lower our price and you get to raise yours.
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You could not do half of what I do every single day, even once.
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So the next time you want to use single mom, single mother as an insult, please remember
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what single mothers are actually doing and see if you measure up.
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Her business is a certified trauma-informed coach.
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I just want one woman to surprise me and have a real business.
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Why do men hate single mothers and why do single mothers threaten this purple hair structure
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So obviously there are surface reasons that men have given as to why they don't like single
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But I think at the root of all these criticisms is the idea that a woman should need a man.
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And if she doesn't, then she is a threat to the nuclear family structure.
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And therefore, she's a threat to capitalism as a whole.
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And the men who need their dishes washed, clothes cleaned, food cooked, and asses wiped
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So they shame single mothers instead of praising them for being the parent who stayed.
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But how do single mothers threaten capitalism?
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Well, just like women are afraid of men, men are afraid of men as well.
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And if rich men are going to ensure that poor men, aka the overwhelming majority of men,
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aren't going to them, then they need to pacify poor men in order to make them feel just as
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Black people, both in the past and today, have taken the main brunt of placating poor white
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And now that everyone's fallen on some pretty rough times financially,
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the rich, I mean, the U.S. government is going to go to even more extreme methods in order to
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soothe these men and keep them complacent so that they don't strike.
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Single mothers, especially the ones that have formed community with each other,
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are proof that society does not have to be ran the way rich,
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I can just tell she would be cooked even if she didn't have a kid.
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Now, again, I will never say that none of these women will, they're all going to die alone,
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Even grandmas can download Tinder and get a decent amount of female attention.
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And you might think, well, none of them, I mean, we've talked about this.
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You might think nobody will do it, no self-respecting male.
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What was your girlfriend doing before she met you?
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Oh, I, I, this is how the men, they're like, I know, I know mine wasn't.
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You can prove, if I had a dollar, if I had a dollar.
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There's men that prefer not to be with women with kids.
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Like, we get it, we hear you guys, we hear you loud and clear, okay?
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Nah, man don't want any women with kids, you know?
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Like, any man that is so vocal about, I don't want a woman with kids.
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How on earth would anyone want to be with someone like that?
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Like, yes, have your preferences, but don't go and shout down a whole group of people in society
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Just because you don't want to date one, make it make sense.
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And I get it, there's men that prefer not to be with women with kids.
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Like, we get it, we hear you guys, we hear you loud and clear, okay?
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Nah, man don't want any women with kids, you know?
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Like, any man that is so vocal about, I don't want a woman with kids.
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How on earth would anyone want to be with someone like that?
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Like, yes, have your preferences, but don't go and shout down a whole group of people in society
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All right, I mean, I have people say all kinds of things to me.
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If you want to be on the internet, that's a trait you got to have.
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Anyways, guys, let me know what you guys think in the comments.
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Please like the video on your way out and let me know,
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have you dated a single mother before and how did that turn out?