Pearl - Modern Women and STD’s： HPV (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 Five, four, three, two, one.

00:00:04.560 So there's this clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.

00:00:10.180 Do we need men? 1.00

00:00:12.580 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. 0.99

00:00:18.300 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. 0.98

00:00:21.100 Most young men are single.

00:00:22.780 Most young women are not. 0.88

00:00:24.120 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:28.720 It's a different world now.

00:00:29.740 Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:31.860 Nobody needs men! 1.00

00:00:33.100 The future is female. 1.00

00:00:36.160 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. 0.99

00:00:42.700 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:45.940 We've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:48.640 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:52.200 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:56.280 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:58.760 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:01:01.940 Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married. 0.99

00:01:06.900 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:10.520 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:14.200 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:17.060 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:22.240 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:24.420 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:01:27.860 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:01:30.840 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:01:33.520 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:38.380 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:41.720 You need no evidence.

00:01:42.840 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:46.560 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:49.900 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:52.420 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:54.720 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:56.760 Legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:59.220 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:02:00.680 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:02:02.580 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:02:05.120 Wives are taught to leave their husbands. 0.99

00:02:06.920 And then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:09.260 Family is a foundation of society.

00:02:10.980 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:02:14.160 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:02:18.440 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

00:02:20.440 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:22.260 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 0.99

00:02:23.740 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:26.760 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:31.200 Oh, freeze your eggs. Have an abortion. 1.00

00:02:33.000 What? You're evil. 1.00

00:02:34.260 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:38.120 Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:02:42.200 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:44.960 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:45.880 That's the thing.

00:02:46.440 Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00

00:02:49.640 This is not about happiness.

00:02:51.140 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:53.460 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave

00:02:58.420 when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:03:02.320 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:03:06.060 They think, well, men have all the rights. 0.95

00:03:07.620 They have all the power.

00:03:08.900 Privileged patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:11.160 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.99

00:03:13.800 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:17.020 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:18.940 Men are homeless.

00:03:19.900 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:21.300 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:26.140 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:31.540 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:35.400 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.99

00:03:38.060 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:45.120 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:46.960 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:48.180 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:49.580 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:50.680 What kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble? 0.96

00:03:54.520 So are women everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table said 1.00

00:04:01.000 They wanted a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am I crazy?

00:04:04.720 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man if men make less than women women don't want to marry them 1.00

00:04:10.440 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:14.500 women 1.00

00:04:16.000 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore. I don't want to be a strong independent woman 1.00

00:04:20.220 I'm over it.

00:04:21.220 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:22.220 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:24.220 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:27.220 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:28.220 You simp for men. 0.99

00:04:29.220 No, I think you simp for women. 1.00

00:04:30.220 She's a provocateur. 1.00

00:04:31.220 She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this. 1.00

00:04:34.220 It's already happening. 1.00

00:04:35.220 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:36.220 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't 1.00

00:04:40.220 want a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00

00:04:42.220 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:46.220 future. We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline. Civilization will

00:04:51.580 crumble. The American story does not end well. This is an existential crisis failing young men. 0.78

00:05:04.040 What up guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network. Thank you all

00:05:10.700 for tuning in i know that you as men can bring your time attention and resources anywhere and

00:05:16.580 for some reason you guys grace me with your presence today thank you so much for tuning in

00:05:22.720 and we're gonna uh you you know what today is it's std friday where we do an informative show

00:05:32.680 of stds that are in the market right now but if you guys want that intro video was a fundraiser

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00:05:51.140 that donated yesterday every every show it seems like we get more and more donations with which is

00:05:56.000 awesome thanks to adam anonymous phil and john for the four donations including a 100 donation

00:06:03.300 we're at $35,209 so thank you guys so much all right so today we are talking about HPV

00:06:15.300 so welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily feminism has destroyed the traditional dating 1.00

00:06:21.100 scene in the past women were respectable at least on paper at least there was no evidence 1.00

00:06:26.500 and would demand that men courted and married them before sex. 1.00

00:06:32.280 Now the dating market is a free-for-all with most of the men being left out 0.71

00:06:36.440 and the top men getting sex from women for free.

00:06:39.320 This has led to an increase in the transmission of STDs.

00:06:42.760 Previously, we've covered HIV, herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea,

00:06:46.620 and today we are covering HPV.

00:06:49.160 HPV, or human papillomavirus, is the most common STD.

00:06:54.040 Most sexually active people, around 80% will get HPV at some time in their lives.

00:06:59.440 42 million people are infected with HPV in the United States at any given time, with 13 million new infections being recorded each year.

00:07:08.840 HPV is so common that many people have it and don't have symptoms.

00:07:13.520 Over 100 types of HPV exist, and some go away after one to two years.

00:07:18.640 while some have more serious symptoms, including warts and risks of cancer.

00:07:24.100 It is easier for men to spread HPV to women than women to spread HPV to men. 0.90

00:07:31.720 HPV is the most commonly transmitted through skin-to-skin contact during sexual activity.

00:07:36.800 The first HPV vaccine was approved by the FDA in 2006 and is 90% effective in combating the major symptoms of the disease.

00:07:46.600 While HPV can be acquired at any age, it is most commonly contracted during the teenage years or the early 20s, with the average being 21 years.

00:07:54.240 75% of sexually active people have caught HPV by 31, and 85% have caught HPV by age 40.

00:08:02.100 The worst kinds of HPV to contract are 16 and 18, which HPV 16 is linked to cancer and is the most dangerous strain.

00:08:10.720 It is responsible for 50% of cervical cancers and also causes throat, anal, and penile cancer.

00:08:17.500 HPV18 is the second most common strain that causes cervical cancer at 20% and is also

00:08:22.800 associated with the most aggressive types of cancer.

00:08:34.460 Okay.

00:08:38.460 Oh my gosh.

00:08:39.480 week and every day this week I'm going to be discussing

00:08:42.020 it's STI awareness week and every day this week I'm going to be discussing a different STI

00:08:49.900 today's topic is HPV human papillomavirus which in my opinion is the most misunderstood STI

00:08:58.160 HPV is by far the most common sexually transmitted infection and almost everybody who has ever been

00:09:05.700 sexually active in their life will be exposed to it at one point or another.

00:09:09.780 Now there are hundreds of different strands of HPV and about 40 different

00:09:15.880 types that affect the genitals and throat and that we consider to be

00:09:19.200 sexually transmitted in nature. Now even plantar warts on the bottom of your

00:09:23.520 feet that you can get during a hot yoga class can be HPV. So not every form of

00:09:28.680 HPV is sexually transmitted. This video is going to discuss the 40 or so types

00:09:33.660 that are. Those strands of HPV that can affect the genitals and the throat are stratified into

00:09:39.660 high-risk strands and low-risk strands. Low-risk strands are more likely to cause things like

00:09:46.180 genital warts or anal warts, which are not pleasant, but they're not necessarily harmful

00:09:51.540 to your health. The high-risk strands of HPV are the ones that can lead to cancer, various types

00:09:58.540 of cancers, cervical cancers, penile cancers, anal cancer, vulvar cancer, and various head and neck

00:10:05.560 cancers, including esophageal cancer, tonsil and tongue cancer. Now here's the thing, your immune

00:10:12.180 system can clear HPV on its own. And in fact, the vast majority of HPV infections are cleared by the

00:10:19.420 body on its own. Only sometimes will those HPV infections go on to cause cancer. And it's more

00:10:25.920 likely in people who are immune compromised, such as those with uncontrolled HIV. So how is HPV

00:10:31.600 transmitted? It's transmitted via skin-to-skin contact, so you don't even necessarily have to

00:10:37.000 be partaking in penetrative sexual activity to contract it. It can be transmitted through all

00:10:42.900 forms of sexual activity and also through fingers, hands, heavy petting, touching, that kind of thing.

00:10:49.200 So what do we do with this information? You want to make sure that you're always on top of your HPV

00:10:53.760 related cancer screening so for folks with a cervix that is a cervical pap smear to screen 0.90

00:10:59.280 for cervical cancer and for anyone of any gender who is sexually active in the butt you also want

00:11:05.680 to be getting anal pap smears which are less common less known about but super important so

00:11:10.960 talk to your provider about that if it applies to you i also strongly recommend getting the hpv

00:11:17.680 vaccine. It's called Gardasil, and it protects against the nine strains of HPV that are the

00:11:24.360 most likely to cause cancer. So you can still get HPV even if you've gotten the Gardasil vaccine,

00:11:30.040 but you're less likely to get a strain that will go on to cause cancer. So even if you have

00:11:36.040 previously been diagnosed with HPV, even if it's a high-risk strain in the past, still get that

00:11:41.600 vaccine, as there's some evidence that it can actually also help clear existing HPV. HPV is

00:11:48.240 tricky. It's often misunderstood. So if you have any questions about it, drop them in my comments.

00:11:54.440 All right. So HPV, it seems like based on what I've read, if you're sexually active,

00:12:05.680 most people have it now most people don't from what i understand one night cancer from it

00:12:12.640 that does not seem to be the majority um and i go in to get like a yearly pap like every

00:12:20.480 every woman does and i i was curious you know the real guys that have the answers to how many women

00:12:26.460 have stds are the gynecologists that's who i want to talk to off camera not on camera because

00:12:34.000 they can't they can't be honest when their customer base is the ones paying them do you

00:12:38.760 know what I mean the customer base are the ones that's throwing it back in these streets do you 0.99

00:12:43.820 know what I mean so they can't be super honest and be like yeah these women are whores and they 1.00

00:12:50.240 all have STDs but that would be the interesting question I was thinking about this so I asked 0.96

00:12:59.080 though um the last time i was there what age women tend to get cancer if they get um cancer 1.00

00:13:06.520 from hpv and he said it happens like five years later most of the time it's in their 30s when if

00:13:14.220 women get cancer that's when they get it so alex cooper who's on call her daddy apparently she got 1.00

00:13:20.980 hpv when she was 23 and i'm like you must have been throwing it back from the time you were like

00:13:25.640 15 if you already have cancer at hpv or like on the next stage i was so yeah this is her talking

00:13:32.920 about it i was sitting in my bedroom and i got a call from my women's health center

00:13:42.120 and my doctor told me that my results came back in from my recent yearly exam and

00:13:49.080 And lo and behold, I had an STD.

00:13:54.840 I had contracted HPV.

00:13:59.100 And he proceeded to tell me that the strand that she had was one of the kinds that the vaccine does not protect you from. 0.96

00:14:09.500 So like an idiot, I ignored the diagnosis and I felt so paralyzed by the information 0.96

00:14:23.620 that he gave me about his ex that I basically just accepted that I was going to have this 1.00

00:14:29.420 for the rest of my life and I was screwed and I fucked myself. 0.98

00:14:32.660 and like every single pap smear for the next four years came back hpv positive so and what i 0.99

00:14:44.580 understand about pap smears is because there's so many strands they only they don't test women for 0.97

00:14:51.620 the actual in general they don't test women for the actual strands um because usually it clears 1.00

00:14:57.460 on its own but it's so if she was testing positive that means she had um like the it had taken the

00:15:06.100 next step i think anyways it had taken the next step from being just like a positive test it like

00:15:15.300 the cells must have been different i think oh i went in for this procedure i still hadn't told

00:15:24.260 my mom or any of my friends and most importantly i hadn't told matt yeah so she was throwing it

00:15:32.180 back with hpv and not telling anybody this is why this is why i keep telling you guys uh i'm

00:15:38.820 telling you the people with this stuff they lie they lie and um i i've done in-depth interviews

00:15:47.140 with these people and the way they see it is look i want to have a sex life i want to have a dating

00:15:51.780 life. And I don't get to have that if I'm honest. And the ones that are honest, it killed their

00:15:56.860 dating life completely. So a lot of them just choose to lie. Is it curable? So, um, I think

00:16:03.980 you always, and I'm not a doctor. This is just what I've read. I've seen conflicting things

00:16:09.580 online, but from what I understand, it clears within two years for most people when they're

00:16:15.220 young um however if you get 16 or 18 that's when you're screwed yeah at this point matt and i were

00:16:24.540 starting to get serious and we were dating and for the first time it just sucked because i could

00:16:31.260 really envision a future with a man this is like not what i want to do and i not what i want to

00:16:41.980 bring up but I knew I was going to have to be honest about it so I scheduled my leap procedure

00:16:53.440 and that night I told Matt we were having dinner at his house and I remember like I was so nervous

00:17:01.140 I like went to the bathroom like 10 times like looking myself in the mirror like practicing like

00:17:04.700 how you know when you're doing that though when you're like I need to like I'm randomly bringing

00:17:09.920 this thing up like what's the good in like what's a good time like when he's cleaning the dishes or

00:17:14.220 like when we're on the couch again like i didn't know um and so i was just embarrassed and i told

00:17:21.360 him mad i'm really embarrassed but i need to be honest with you and i want to tell you something

00:17:26.040 and i told him everything and he couldn't have been more loving and understanding and supportive

00:17:32.860 that's like note to self you guys half the time we think that someone's gonna like judge us it's 0.99

00:17:37.580 like they're actually going to be like okay I'm here for you love you and I'm like oh fuck and he

00:17:42.540 had actually told me that he had gone um for like his yearly stuff and he didn't have anything so I 0.53

00:17:51.200 immediately felt better I was like oh my god thank god I didn't spread this to you yeah they ended up

00:17:57.320 getting married then this is what I mean men are going to adapt to the marketplace um because men

00:18:02.660 aren't in control like doug mpa and i think have talked about this before men are not in control

00:18:08.920 of relationships in my opinion they're not um men if men were in control of relationships they'd get

00:18:19.060 the 22 year old baddies but men have to adapt to what's on the menu and the menu is std ridden 0.99

00:18:25.680 hotties um born again virgins and ex-only fans models and you know men are going to adapt to

00:18:34.300 what's on the menu I don't say this because I'm happy about it right I don't say this in a way

00:18:39.460 that I'm like yes I'm so glad this is happening um men will adapt to taking older women um

00:18:47.080 and you can see this because more men still want relationships than women

00:18:51.880 even with the state of women right so all right here's the next one so many women 1.00

00:19:00.140 yeah you guys are saying men control relationship opportunities i i disagree that's just not what i

00:19:08.240 see um because most men if they hook up with a 22 year old she doesn't want to stick around 1.00

00:19:16.940 she's and the data shows this right so yeah even after sex the 22 year old still has the 1.00

00:19:25.100 leverage because she has like 20 dudes that are going to give her a relationship uh the man not 1.00

00:19:30.500 so much and i'm not saying this to be like i'm happy about it but you know the more i've

00:19:38.700 interviewed men about their experiences it just seems like the the women when they are quality 1.00

00:19:45.860 aren't signing up for relationships in general and they come back when they're not quality so

00:19:52.520 older women no thank you well again like because if men were in control of marriage and relationships 1.00

00:19:59.860 the the women wouldn't be 32 getting married they'd be 22 but they're not so yeah sorry i'm

00:20:09.300 sorry i don't mean this to be like i'm just being honest like i think it almost leads men down like

00:20:14.560 it'll make them go crazy because they'll bang a 22 year old and think, Oh, maybe she'll stick 1.00

00:20:18.800 around. Um, not like, you know, but a lot of women don't. Do you think the, the, this is the 0.58

00:20:26.340 reason biology in men seeks younger women? I mean, it's just less baggage, more, better fertility,

00:20:32.440 more moldable. So yeah. Get HPV. So many women get HPV 80% or four out of five women. If you 1.00

00:20:44.400 need it spelled out because i'm bad at math so i did i've had it twice and because we get it so

00:20:50.340 much i honestly think that the way they should tell us is in a fun way because getting hpv just 0.98

00:20:55.720 means you're cool as fuck because you're fucking instead of being like hey you have hpv i think 0.98

00:21:00.460 that they should call you and use like the nbc little sound but for hpv like hpv oh my god i'm 1.00

00:21:09.360 that's gross um yeah and that's you know like if men were in control of marriage and relationships

00:21:21.660 and men would be the one leaving right but women are the ones leaving 1.00

00:21:25.760 unfortunately you know it's it is what it is all right me and i think

00:21:34.760 men are in control of marriage well again if that were true you guys would be getting the

00:21:42.160 22 year old baddies but you're not marriage starts when the women decide they're ready to get married 0.74

00:21:49.240 and start entertaining the marriage offers sadly

00:21:55.960 me and i think oh wait hold on

00:22:04.760 a big part of that was shame I just want to talk a little bit about Alex Cooper and just her most

00:22:13.420 recent podcast she did on Call Her Daddy about sort of this catfish experience that she had

00:22:19.180 in Paris with a guy she met on Raya I just want you to all know as a gynecologist I

00:22:25.400 I myself have had HPV I'm going to just say that is that crazy to say that on this app

00:22:30.420 about 80% of women who are sexually active, men, women, both, whatever floats your boat,

00:22:37.840 will contract HPV at some point in their sexual life. And there were even studies on nuns who

00:22:44.220 supposedly never had sexual activity who are also testing positive. So I want to take the

00:22:50.260 shame out of this. When you come to the gynecologist and see me, I feel empathy towards

00:22:55.800 you and i feel frustrated that a virus can cause cervix cancer um i don't feel any judgment and

00:23:03.240 no one should judge you for that and just like no one would judge you for getting the chicken pox

00:23:08.020 it's a virus there's literally nothing you can do live your life um go to the doctor and get

00:23:15.020 your smears and get your hbb testing but do not feel shame i'm sorry uh okay all right let's see

00:23:23.460 is next now we're having doctors saying don't feel shame uh okay good morning let's

00:23:34.500 talk hpv everyone's favorite topic oh i got hpv last october after an abnormal path okay so

00:23:42.980 hpv dna high risk detected pap smear positive so hpv testing was done as a sample for cervical cells

00:23:52.580 these results were negative for the highest risk hpv however they did show the presence of high

00:23:57.780 risk hpv cells so i think that means it's like stage two of it so like the cells are different

00:24:05.700 i want to google what is the average age what is the average age women get hpv

00:24:13.940 all right early 20s many women are exposed to hpv the median age of acquisition is 20.6 years old

00:24:32.340 early 30s around 75 percent of women will have acquired a casual hpv infection holy crap only 0.95

00:24:41.780 a small percentage of women will acquire a casual hpv infection after 40. it's important to note

00:24:47.780 that while hpv in common is common most infections are cleared by the body's immune system within a

00:24:52.580 couple of years however some hpv issues can persist or lead to cervical cancer so if women get 1.00

00:24:59.140 average age women my search history has to be so weird women get cervical cancer let's see 0.97

00:25:09.060 yeah 35 and 44 it is rare in women under 20 all right average age women get abnormal cells 0.97

00:25:19.920 um i guess so on average it's 50

00:25:27.780 oh gosh oh okay let me go back um

00:25:35.360 oh i hate fridays i don't like talking about this stuff and it was a high grade high lesion

00:25:44.940 and it had a strain a non-aggressive strain so it wasn't 16 18 or 45 however it was the

00:25:51.820 strain that statistically leads to cervical cancer so we wanted to act on this rather quickly so i

00:25:57.720 got a colposcopy schedule we did a biopsy all incredibly painful you can find lots of videos

00:26:03.220 specifically for colposcopies and a biopsy and you can do your own research on that however i just

00:26:08.340 wanted to say there's different buckets of hpv so if you have an abnormal pap smear first of all

00:26:14.420 do not ever feel a type of way or shame or stigma i am such a hypocrite because i definitely did feel

00:26:22.740 that stigma for sure and i felt like a whore but 85 90 of people have this like this is an

00:26:30.820 incredibly common human virus please do yourself a favor and do not feel bad you could not have 0.88

00:26:38.020 predicted this it's not like you wanted to contract this so get that out of your system

00:26:42.980 however if you do have it here are some things that you can do obviously i am not a health care

00:26:49.140 provider so please take my advice with a grain of salt but i did get my hpv cleared in like six

00:26:55.700 months every case is going to be different but for example again i had a high grade

00:27:01.140 lesion and i needed to act quickly for sure what is a lesion i don't like this

00:27:10.900 all right hpv lesion i take um are abnormal tissues caused by hpv these can be

00:27:18.900 warts flat warts or precancerous lesions

00:27:22.020 um

00:27:24.520 thank you for the ten dollars i do i deserve money today today's the day i'm gonna say give

00:27:33.420 me your money uh i damn near could be a freaking gynecologist with the stuff i know now uh 0.89

00:27:43.540 all right um 0.89

00:27:46.980 i want to see what it looks like but i need you guys to put down the screen because i don't want

00:27:52.520 this to get flagged by youtube hpv so when you guys put it down i'm gonna i'm gonna put it down

00:28:00.500 okay thank you all right

00:28:02.280 all right so if you guys were curious what it looks like it's like um

00:28:13.240 it looks like an open sore basically

00:28:17.720 i'm gonna do like a mild one because i think they put the worst ones on google

00:28:24.060 it either looks like a wart or like a

00:28:27.380 like a bunch of dots a sore okay pretty gross a lot of warts okay let me go back to the asian lady 1.00

00:28:39.020 okay we can put it back up

00:28:43.240 So, since this is a virus, the best things that you can do is get lots of sleep,

00:28:47.620 seven to eight hours a night, and that will just improve your overall health in general.

00:28:51.660 The second thing that you can do, which I didn't do a great job of,

00:28:54.880 but is to manage your stress level. I know sometimes that's not really in the cards for us,

00:29:01.140 but stress can also impact your HPV since it is, again, a virus. The third thing that I think was

00:29:06.540 a really big game changer for myself is I took folic acid by the handful. I got my folic acid

00:29:12.520 from amazon it was like nine dollars but i'm telling you like normally you have to take one

00:29:16.200 a day but i took two take it with food another thing this was advised by my own doctor but i

00:29:22.520 also took a lot of vitamin d so vitamin d folic acid those are going to be your best bet and

00:29:28.040 finally finally this is probably the most important thing that you can do for yourself but get

00:29:32.280 freaking vaccinated if you're over the age of 15 you have to get three doses of Gardasil go to your

00:29:38.360 gynecologist or if you're a guy especially if you're a guy because you're a carrier please 0.93

00:29:42.600 go to your primary care provider go to cvs go to any pharmacy they will administer

00:29:47.640 Gardasil 9 for you so the vaccine is called Gardasil 9 again two doses if you're under

00:29:52.520 the age of 15 three doses if you're over the age of 15. Just go to your doctor and get incredible

00:29:59.160 for vulvar anal vaginal cervical cancers and you guys this is a vaccine that cures cancer like it

00:30:05.400 could eradicate hpv playing a type of way about getting hpv to really take okay all right let

00:30:13.640 me see what is a leap proceed oh no i shouldn't have brought that up my bad okay what is a leap

00:30:20.840 procedure all right a leap is a medical procedure that uses a thin wire heated by electricity to

00:30:31.080 remove abnormal tissue from the cervix it's used to diagnose and treat cervical dysplasia a

00:30:37.720 precancerous condition that can be used to remove early stage cervical cancer

00:30:44.440 oh so they like burn it off

00:30:49.400 okay wait what percent this is a good question what percent of women will wait hold on 1.00

00:30:57.880 get pre-cancerous will oh wait we'll have a leap procedure actually a leap procedure

00:31:08.500 um

00:31:13.120 three to five percent of women undergoing cervical screenings will have pre-cancerous cells

00:31:20.960 um five percent of pap smears will be abnormal but most are not cancerous and pre-cancerous

00:31:28.540 leap is usually performed after for further investigation if your pap is abnormal your

00:31:33.740 doctor may recommend further tests like a colonoscopy and a possibly a biopsy um factors

00:31:40.100 like your age medical history okay wait let's see by the time they are 45

00:31:46.360 um okay the median age of women undergoing leap was 36.3 um 0.88

00:31:59.200 the cervical cancer's uh peaks between the ages of 35 and 54.

00:32:07.080 yeah that's what the gynecologist told me too um

00:32:10.880 um how common is it approximately 10 of women getting undergoing cervical screening will have

00:32:23.740 an abnormal pap and or a positive hpv result but less than one percent will have cancer three to 0.97

00:32:30.280 five so that's kind of crazy so i just want to know is that per year damn 0.96

00:32:36.640 damn okay well 0.96

00:32:44.020 okay the next one we're gonna go 0.99

00:32:50.680 I wanted to share about my positive

00:32:59.060 HPV experience even though right now I'm HPV negative so HPV often heals goes away on its

00:33:06.580 own and so when i was first diagnosed with hpv it was recommended that i get a colposcopy which i did

00:33:12.660 and then everything was still okay they said just get another pap in a year which i did and that

00:33:16.260 was last year and my results last year were hpv positive and l-sil so i got a colposcopy and my

00:33:22.740 results were sin 1 which is a low-grade lesion and then i got another pap um just a few months ago

00:33:30.100 and my results were hpv negative and ascus it's okay if these don't mean anything to you they

00:33:34.980 didn't mean anything to me until my gynecologist like threw me a graph okay because she said i

00:33:40.420 don't need a colposcopy because everything is moving in the direction of normal and away from

00:33:45.620 cancer which is great which is our body our immune system like heals on its own often in so many

00:33:50.900 cases and so yeah now everything's good i just have to do a pap in a year and i'm so happy i

00:33:55.780 didn't waste any time worrying. Oh, oh, we got another one. HPV is not small potatoes. I would

00:34:11.120 honestly rank it up there with HIV, herpes, and gonorrhea. It is the most common STD. Similar to

00:34:17.280 herpes, it causes warts, but something else that it also gives you is cancer. And it's a wild card.

00:34:23.820 it's like hpv or herpes what would you rather have

00:34:32.700 i think herpes is more of a death sentence on the dating market but it doesn't seem as bad

00:34:38.060 as hp um i don't know because you could get cerebral cancer vulva cancer bad cancer cancer

00:34:47.020 cancer mouth or throat cancer like you don't know what you're going to get from it the lady 1.00

00:34:51.820 from desperate housewives who play breathe in a camp has cancer from hpv this is just not something

00:34:57.980 to play around with you do not want to risk your life for this disease the good news is there is

00:35:02.460 a vaccine and you should have taken it in three doses when you are either in middle school or

00:35:06.620 high school i took it in middle school the bad news is the vaccine only protects you from nine

00:35:11.100 types of hpv as you can see above there are over which ones all right let's see what kinds of hpv

00:35:20.220 does the vaccine protect you from all right let's see all right um 6 11.

00:35:35.580 all right 16 18 31 33 45 uh 52 and 58.

00:35:44.220 all right so it looks like the worst ones i think are 16 18 on here so i guess get the vaccine all

00:35:55.120 right 200 types of hpv most people don't know that they have it because you can be asymptomatic

00:36:00.340 for a very long time like years you might never experience warts and then boom cancer everyone

00:36:06.000 just please be careful while you're out there get tested consistently and women please please please 1.00

00:36:11.720 please get your annual pap snare this is why they say as soon as you're sexually active as a woman 1.00

00:36:16.200 you need to be getting pap smears on a regular basis and stay away from ran through men if you 1.00

00:36:20.440 value your life oh and wear a condom they have condoms now that you can barely feel

00:36:25.320 like there's no excuse you need to be more intentional about having safe sex

00:36:31.640 all right what's next uh all right this one 1.00

00:36:35.320 It took the STI from my pussy and deep throated it. I think I've had an HPV infection in my 1.00

00:36:44.320 throat for the last year and that's why I've been having throat issues and we didn't figure

00:36:46.940 it out. Meanwhile, we're chopping precancerous cells from the HPV infection in my pussy and I 0.99

00:36:50.740 was just thinking about it last night. I was like, well, my mouth is still available and then I'm 0.99

00:36:54.480 like, wait a... I looked up the symptoms. It's exactly why I got a thyroid ultrasound in September.

00:37:05.040 my doctor came back normal and he was like oh it's probably nothing uh yeah or hpv

00:37:20.640 what if that's why i've had a sore throat since january

00:37:31.040 all right this is disgusting um all right guys we're going to do a call-in show as we do on 0.59

00:37:39.280 fridays have you ever had hpv did you know anyone with hpv what symptoms did you have 0.99

00:37:45.600 while you're at it hpv or herpes what are you picking gun to your head gun to your head

00:37:52.360 did you ever confront the person you gave it to you and have you ever given someone hpv 0.98

00:37:57.760 call in doug mpa hey this is quite the subject and if i had to choose gun to my head i'd choose

00:38:09.100 hpv man the herp derp i mean i think i think i'd pick it too because it seems like it's like the

00:38:19.300 herp if you get that you have to have all the symptoms now if i get cancer it says on average 0.61

00:38:24.300 i'd get it at 50. i mean women's second half of life sucks anyway take me out 1.00

00:38:32.940 and you know can you imagine you know you you're a very active person you know can you imagine if

00:38:39.180 you're if you want to go on a hike or you want to do something and you you wake up with the

00:38:43.100 herp derp in the morning and uh like give me what if you have to like ride a bike or something you

00:38:48.140 know oh yeah give me cancer i'll take that yeah so hpv i mean it seems like okay what are your

00:38:58.220 odds it's kind of crazy i was trying to interpret the results that it said three to five percent of

00:39:03.100 women get it um like abnormal paps so does that mean three to five percent like of all women ever 1.00

00:39:09.820 or every year three to five percent and i couldn't i don't know i i wasn't sure oh well atv you know

00:39:20.700 i i mean i would assume i mean they say most women have gotten in and i i think that most

00:39:28.220 you i guess most people have it it's just like do you have the kind that just goes away on its own

00:39:33.340 and i don't know man like they don't test guys for it do they no because i don't think you guys

00:39:39.740 have like i don't think you guys can get tested for it yeah what percent of women 1.00

00:39:46.700 get cervical that's probably the better question what percent of women get cervical cancer let's 1.00

00:39:53.580 see i'm asking grok um one to two percent in some regions but it's only point six percent of women 1.00

00:40:05.180 yeah let's give me the hpv all right what percent of women have an abnormal pap smear 1.00

00:40:15.740 at some point in their lifetime

00:40:23.100 let's see oh my god that's so high guess what percent it is um 30 75 of women will have at 1.00

00:40:33.500 at least one abnormal pap smear in their lifetime according to data from the women's healthcare in

00:40:38.280 Amsterdam however estimates vary by region and study for example a 2004 study reported that 20

00:40:44.640 percent of women had experienced an abnormal pap okay that is not helpful that's the thing with

00:40:51.620 STDs they're never gonna be super honest do you know what I mean because like what's the incentive

00:40:58.340 to be honest women are the customer base um most abnormal results are not cancerous often stemming 1.00

00:41:05.420 from hpv infections inflammation or benign causes many may resolve without intervention

00:41:11.300 yeah if i had to pick it and i think hpv is another one of those guys the hotter the girl

00:41:17.420 the more likely you are to get the herb derp and hpv dude come on well okay i have a question i

00:41:23.800 want to think through this a little bit so if you're really hot wouldn't they have to be like 0.76

00:41:30.920 i would argue that hotter women have lower body counts but with more chads so like because if 1.00

00:41:38.140 you're hot um you don't have to like men will wait a long time for a hot chick they're not 1.00

00:41:46.040 waiting that long for a mid you know what i mean so to compete mids are sluttier i would say 1.00

00:41:53.360 and the pi we had on also agreed with that because he's like hot girls can get more resources without

00:41:59.860 putting out but i would say hot girls are going to bang the chads more so yeah i would well okay 0.89

00:42:07.820 so i'm just thinking through this but i want to i want to think through it more okay wait okay so

00:42:12.800 the mids are going to get passed more so yes i agree because but by the chads but the hot chicks 0.98

00:42:22.000 you're more likely to get an std over time like the people that i interviewed that had herpes

00:42:30.000 and gave it to a partner they said most of the women that got it it was like not from one hookup 0.99

00:42:37.920 because you're only shedding like 20 of the year so do you know what i mean if you hook up with a

00:42:42.800 girl once odds are she's not going to get it but if you hook up with a girl for two years straight 1.00

00:42:49.040 I think the average that I spoke to was about a year of hooking up before they

00:42:54.380 got it. Does it matter? You following? So by this logic,

00:42:58.620 the hot girls may be more likely because they would be hooking up with the Chad 1.00

00:43:02.600 for a year where the mid would be pat. I don't know. I don't,

00:43:06.200 I'm just trying to anyways,

00:43:08.480 what are your thoughts when we're thinking through this?

00:43:10.960 So the mids are sluttier because they, 1.00

00:43:14.080 they use sex to try to get the achievement to get the outcomes that hot women get but then 1.00

00:43:21.180 hot women are only sleeping with guys that have a lot of options yeah they're not gonna so that's 1.00

00:43:26.980 true the guys that have a lot of options odds are they have more diseases because they're sleeping

00:43:31.840 with so the hot women are sleeping with less men but they're sleeping with the men that have more 1.00

00:43:37.740 options and therefore be exposed to more and they're doing it for longer like the the hot women 1.00

00:43:46.460 they're gonna like the the mids will be passed after like a one or two nights where the the hot 0.78

00:43:51.420 women will be with the chat like they could hook up with a celebrity for a year where like a mid 1.00

00:43:56.620 would more likely just be like once in a blue moon does that make sense i'm thinking yeah makes sense

00:44:02.620 to me and then okay how about this question pearly pearl okay who's more likely to require a chad to

00:44:10.300 use a condom a hot girl or a mid i'd say a hot girl because she can like i would say the hot girl 1.00

00:44:17.340 but but but i would say the mid because the mid wants the genetics right away ah that's true yeah

00:44:24.460 because she wants to she's more willing to do something desperate like get pregnant by the hot 1.00

00:44:30.380 guy by the chad or the powerful guy to be able to stay in his life and wait okay so i don't know

00:44:39.260 it could go either way i'm trying to yeah i'm just gonna stick to my original thing i think

00:44:45.420 that um the beautifuls have more i think that yeah because they only date guys that smash a bunch of 0.97

00:44:52.060 of women cool well i mean mids aren't gonna sleep with nba players uh hot girls are and i'm sorry 1.00

00:45:02.520 but a hot girl can sleep with one nfl player or one nba player and then get every single std 1.00

00:45:08.700 under the sun all at once yeah and the hot girl can go to multiple nba players where the mid

00:45:15.680 do you know i'm saying like the hot they might get a chance at one yeah like like take let's 0.97

00:45:19.960 britney renner where i would say she was beautiful when she was young like look at all the all the

00:45:27.640 men she had access to and i would put her at an eight when she was young would you agree or no 0.63

00:45:32.120 britney yeah britney really was a solid eight yeah and what this comes back down to is

00:45:38.040 she could have won we've said this multiple times on this channel there's nothing more infuriating

00:45:42.680 i would imagine for a woman than seeing a woman that could have won but just fumble it it's the 1.00

00:45:49.080 same as when we have a guy we see a guy who was business savvy but never got to open a business

00:45:56.840 who could have been an athlete but got some girl pregnant and had to stay at home and work at the

00:46:03.000 mill or something like that it's just the waste for men it's the waste of potential 0.98

00:46:08.680 and for women it's the waste of beauty and opportunity it's the worst yeah okay so is 0.99

00:46:15.080 anyone on the line yeah make sure to like the video if you haven't already subscribed to the

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00:46:33.240 go to the audacity tab and read one of the pro reads okay i think before we get into the calls

00:46:38.760 yeah let me refresh it hold on i'm gonna say also guys when you guys come when you guys come on the

00:46:44.120 calls um um make sure it's on topic please don't come on and tell me your life story if it has

00:46:54.360 nothing to do at the top i hate i hate having to interrupt you guys when you're really passionate

00:47:00.840 about something it makes me feel like an so just please don't put me in that position where

00:47:04.920 we just got to kick you uh pearl reed be careful with those searches nothing else can stop you 0.89

00:47:10.260 they might get you for bioterrorism i know do you know what i'll look at my search history for these 0.96

00:47:15.640 shows sometimes and i'm like i'm like this does not look good older women are now spreading stds 1.00

00:47:22.960 like wildfire because they know they can't get pregnant i have a good friend who is a scientist

00:47:28.200 and expert in stds hpv is no joke and young men need to be wary joe will send him this chat it'd

00:47:34.620 great if he could call in we would love to talk to an expert um because really the only guys with

00:47:40.700 the answers of how slutty women are are the ones doing pap smears that is the only men that really 0.99

00:47:47.340 know what's going on and they have to have done it for a decade in my opinion the people at the 0.84

00:47:52.860 clinics because no study is going to be overly honest what do you think about a male gynecologist

00:48:01.980 and a female gynecologist i think um i've gone to both before i just take whoever's free because

00:48:10.700 they're at the same place but um i i think when i talk to the guy he's a lot more these are the

00:48:18.700 facts this is what it is you know where the woman is more like willing to like come like i don't 0.62

00:48:24.660 know she's more willing to like i don't know i feel like like when i was asking what about like

00:48:30.960 birth controls and stuff the i felt like the woman was lying to me more 0.99

00:48:35.120 because when i wanted to go off of it she was like are you sure like there's no side effects

00:48:40.640 and i'm like i think there's side effects and i just just like yeah i don't know she she was

00:48:48.020 doing the oh when you want to end your membership at a gym or somewhere and they're like do you

00:48:53.080 really want to end your are you sure i was sure look at all these girls have we're sad you see 0.91

00:48:58.380 It was sad to see you leave.

00:49:00.000 It's going to a female gynecologist 1.00

00:49:01.860 like trying to,

00:49:03.460 you know, those unsubscribe

00:49:06.040 buttons on your email.

00:49:09.540 They're sending you junk mail.

00:49:10.760 You try to hit unsubscribe

00:49:11.800 and they say,

00:49:12.860 are you really sure you want to unsubscribe

00:49:14.840 to this email?

00:49:18.460 Oh, man.

00:49:20.580 Okay, let's bring up

00:49:21.840 a new name.

00:49:23.840 I haven't seen it before.

00:49:24.640 Papal, Papalon, Papalomon Master?

00:49:31.500 Sure.

00:49:32.420 Bring him up.

00:49:36.860 No.

00:49:37.520 Papal, Papalomon Master? 0.78

00:49:40.360 Are you there?

00:49:41.460 I'm probably butchering it.

00:49:46.480 Papalomaster?

00:49:49.080 Papalon Master?

00:49:50.640 Going once.

00:49:52.180 Going twice.

00:49:53.240 You're on mute.

00:49:53.840 i'm putting you back in hey hey sorry here sorry hey how's it going uh hey doing just fine uh can

00:50:01.440 you guys hear me i can hear you so what's going on you got hpv or what uh around five years ago

00:50:10.020 i had a girlfriend loved her a lot uh something ended up happening i guess she cheated on me

00:50:15.800 we broke up uh around 2020 and about a month afterwards uh I suddenly got uh some little

00:50:24.180 warts no way no no it was not it was not nice it started itching I'm like what's happening

00:50:30.760 I inspect myself and uh yeah I went a little bit crazy I went to three doctors they all went like

00:50:37.000 yep you got HPV I'm like oh yeah that's great uh who like was this recent and they're all like no

00:50:44.220 not at least recent because i've been with like two or three girls at that point

00:50:47.720 after the breakup and i go so how how recent is this and it's like oh you got this months ago

00:50:53.700 you just didn't know it i'm like oh oh oh but the the symptom it was months not years that's

00:50:59.840 interesting yeah no it took like uh it took like a solid month uh suddenly out of nowhere i just

00:51:05.540 started itching a lot i'm like oh i'm fine now thank god what do you know what strain it was

00:51:11.120 um no because again you can't uh you can't test for yourself all i could do was uh i had to do

00:51:19.860 the walk of shame call all the girls be like hey this happened to me blah blah uh i i eventually

00:51:26.320 confronted my my ex about that and that turned into a whole gaslighting experience but yeah

00:51:31.740 she said it wasn't her uh no i'm i'm almost sure it was her because i hadn't cheated on her

00:51:37.940 nothing like the doctor said hey it was you got this months ago all three of them did one of them

00:51:43.060 kind of snickered at me when i when i told him i was i had like uh like my reality was kind of

00:51:48.180 breaking down i'm like what and he kind of how did you um did you use protection with the other two

00:51:55.860 girls or no uh i gotta be honest i was a bit depressed after the breakup and i just kind of

00:52:01.940 went into whirlwind of meat uh i didn't really just dove right in i'm not i'm not judging i know

00:52:07.700 i know most people don't like i'm not i'm not naive um okay so how long did you have it till

00:52:15.540 it went away did they give you medication what was it like so uh my only uh well i went to like

00:52:23.140 the free clinic essentially and they were like oh yeah we're just gonna burn this off i'm like uh

00:52:27.860 okay they burned it off it left me some very tiny scars but i was overall fine like i was over it

00:52:34.580 by like a month i was i felt kind of nasty though i will say it kind of gives you this it kind of 0.84

00:52:40.260 gets into your head like wow you're you're a nasty little uh 304 right now like and uh and that's 0.95

00:52:47.220 about it like they just burned it off and where sorry it's kind of awkward but where is it like 0.88

00:52:53.380 towards the top the bottom like where did it where do they come in it was it was where the

00:52:58.440 condoms did not protect oh okay exactly so it doesn't matter if you're wearing a condom

00:53:04.060 uh actually right after that i started doing research on like what's the best way to protect

00:53:08.180 yourself and i came across these boxer briefs that were made it was it was a condom plus boxer

00:53:14.560 brief combo and the whole thing was latex i'm like am i really gonna wear this for every single

00:53:18.920 but yeah no it was essentially at the base uh that's where the condom doesn't protect so so

00:53:26.720 that's where i got it and i really should have noticed uh because she started acting kind of 1.00

00:53:30.480 weird in the last uh four months that we were together she was just being really nasty and 1.00

00:53:35.380 mean and uh probably should have you know noticed that yeah women project a lot when they do 1.00

00:53:43.260 when they do horrible things in a relationship

00:53:46.460 no she was 0.95

00:53:48.220 nasty nasty nasty she said 1.00

00:53:50.400 things that I kept on trying to 0.97

00:53:52.420 mend the relationship

00:53:53.060 but looking back at it now like there really

00:53:56.300 is a point of no return

00:53:57.260 where you're just

00:53:59.120 if you notice something completely off

00:54:02.240 just get out because it's off

00:54:04.120 like your instincts are telling you something if it's off

00:54:06.280 it's off just get out

00:54:07.620 there's no saving it

00:54:09.980 yeah

00:54:12.360 I agree

00:54:13.160 so how old were you when you got it uh i was dang uh i was 27 and how old was she

00:54:24.100 26 around there yeah no i was gonna hey no the cool part about this is that if you you

00:54:31.340 i was really truthful about with my friends and like people around me i i i i'm an open book when

00:54:37.820 it comes to the search and uh you'd be surprised the amount of people that will tell you like the

00:54:42.180 scds that they got from x thing once you tell them that you got something so yeah i found a lot

00:54:52.900 on a date if you want to figure out if someone has something tell them that you do just to see

00:54:57.220 what they say and then be like look look look i don't i don't i have a clean test here i have a

00:55:04.660 a clean test but it actually works though yeah but i just wanted to make sure

00:55:11.060 be like oh yeah you know i have i have i have herpes oh i do too you have herpes

00:55:19.000 no no for real though for real though if you're with someone that you suspect is

00:55:24.360 loose uh i suggest uh you know telling the hpv thing they will tell you everything they will

00:55:30.920 give you the whole history uh i caught a couple of them uh by doing that uh and i saved myself a

00:55:37.120 couple more papillomons that's what i call them i don't want to be a papillomon master i really

00:55:42.300 don't what did um what did what so what were the stds people told you about and was it from people

00:55:48.300 that you would expect to have one or no uh most of them i kind of expected it only maybe once

00:55:55.180 that i was i ever like floored like really uh at least amongst my male friends i can i can

00:56:00.700 definitely say that uh one of them was like hey so you know that time uh with that girl that was 0.86

00:56:05.100 gonna marry and i even bought the ring and everything and then it turns out she cheated 1.00

00:56:08.180 on me like three guys from the army well uh she gave me uh she gave me herpes she gave me a world

00:56:13.640 herpes i'm like oh my god and i you know that's been my secret between me and him ever since

00:56:19.740 um regards to the girls um pretty much all of them have told me in some way shape or form that

00:56:25.220 they also had HPV no way no yeah and but we're talking like like they were insane uh like they'll

00:56:33.340 also tell you like their body counts and stuff if you give them something juicy they'll give you

00:56:37.080 juicier stuff in return this one time she told me oh yeah I've I've been with like a hundred plus

00:56:42.740 guys uh like that sort of thing like and I don't and I don't feel pleasure from it anymore I'm like

00:56:48.440 oh okay and she's like so you have HPV oh that's not a big deal I've had HPV before it's really

00:56:54.360 not a big deal and honestly talking there actually kind of made me feel better but i did not i did

00:56:59.400 not hit that i did not hit that i ran away you got the okay um do you got anything else for him doug

00:57:07.960 mpa yeah you know uh hpv is not the worst one to get at least you know you didn't get the herb derp

00:57:14.600 or hiv man you know i know i i let's just we already established at the beginning of the show

00:57:20.360 if i had to get one it would be hpv yeah i'm trying to think wait wait would you rather have

00:57:26.280 dug mpa oral herpes or hpv what are you picking like the cold sore one uh

00:57:35.720 that's tough wait wait so are we talking about like the wart hpv or or oral herpes so like hsb1

00:57:43.400 or or or warts on your job this yeah what this guy got what you pick it oh that's a tough one

00:57:50.360 man holy crap no man just just just just take the take the take the hpv i i recommend it

00:57:56.840 has to do all sorts of things like if he has a flare-up he essentially has to go into his cave 0.99

00:58:04.620 and never not come out like that it's no i'm i've had a regular sex life even after the hpv thing

00:58:10.720 i just kind of tell them like ahead of time like hey i got this it's pretty common uh i i got

00:58:16.640 symptoms but you may not if something happens and i was only for like two years after that you know

00:58:21.260 i'm pretty much i've never had a flare-up i've been good for you know i i think i'm cured at

00:58:26.540 least like maybe i'm crazy but i think it's easier to believe that right it's it's it feels nicer

00:58:33.840 that way you got any other questions for him he's come to peace with it so we should too

00:58:41.360 he recommends it i've never had someone recommend an std 0.99

00:58:51.600 in the long games of stupid prizes that you can get from playing stupid games this is the biggest 0.99

00:58:57.840 slap on the wrist ever uh ever since then i've taken more of a 0.99

00:59:03.680 uh quality uh over quantity certain deal in my sex life and uh that's about it i i kind of you

00:59:10.880 know obviously you know i don't know if they're taking it that way with me but i i tend to i tend

00:59:17.360 to be more selective with the people i'm with i tend to vet them a lot more which i i sincerely

00:59:22.000 think most men don't do so yeah to me it got me vetting them that's that's enough for me that

00:59:28.160 that's a that's a good so the the ex that gave it to you would you have expected that from her 1.00

00:59:34.720 like did was she like did she look like because there are women that you i mean if a woman looks 1.00

00:59:42.720 enough like a you pretty much assume that she has herpes or something like that 0.96

00:59:47.120 was it a woman that looked like she had enough sex to have a hpv and give you warts um so as 1.00

00:59:54.080 as far as looks goes one like they might consider her in a mid uh because she was she was you know 1.00

00:59:59.920 on the chubbier side i really liked how she looked but i knew i was her simp for like 0.97

01:00:04.720 10 years so i knew everything she went through and i was surprised when she told me she was

01:00:09.080 clean and but she showed me all of her exams and stuff she honestly me knowing her past she was

01:00:14.800 kind of a 304 but um what would you say her body count was her body count oh oh uh so she lied to 0.99

01:00:23.940 me at one point uh she or rather she didn't correct me she uh said she was 15 when we started

01:00:29.060 dating. Uh, and, uh, like two years into the relationship, she suddenly goes, ha ha, I lied

01:00:35.420 to you. It was actually 20. I'm like, you're disgusting to me. And she's like, what, but I'm

01:00:40.060 the same person. I'm the same person. So, you know, the whole trick, the whole, uh, like take

01:00:45.840 her body count or whatever she tells you she has multiplied by two and then add 30 or something

01:00:49.920 like that. I'm assuming her body count would have been in the thirties. Okay. Uh, that's my personal,

01:00:56.620 uh because again she she lied about it and uh that was just funny to me because she's like oh

01:01:02.860 no it doesn't matter but then you lied to me about it so what so it does matter

01:01:06.280 if you're gonna lie why would you pick 15 to 20 do you know what like what 15 20

01:01:13.140 i mean i guess where i'm gonna lie why would she go to college like if you're gonna lie 1.00

01:01:18.420 what did you say like seven or something yes she did she was a nice uh uh god-fearing 0.93

01:01:25.140 yeah christian girl went to college got one class from a from a lib uh leaning uh professor and

01:01:33.380 the rest is the rest is history she was somehow convinced uh that it was now okay to be a a a

01:01:39.940 three or four well yeah because if they've gone to major university i mean 30 plus at least and

01:01:45.700 And I'm not, I'm not saying it's good for her to lie.

01:01:48.100 I'm just saying, if you're going to lie, like, why would you do 15 to 20?

01:01:51.720 Like, why wouldn't you do seven?

01:01:53.260 Like, you know what I mean? 0.96

01:01:55.260 So I was kind of dumb about it.

01:01:56.980 I, I asked her like, and I just went like, how much you have?

01:01:59.860 Like, cause it's something I used to do back when I was single.

01:02:02.480 I would like kind of go like, how much do you, could you possibly have?

01:02:05.400 Like what?

01:02:05.880 10, 15.

01:02:07.080 And she just went like, yeah, yeah. 0.87

01:02:08.760 I'm like, oh, okay.

01:02:10.400 Yeah.

01:02:10.540 Well, Hey, that that's fine.

01:02:12.060 You know, I just wanted them to be straight with me, you know?

01:02:14.180 uh because i was never gonna happen i was a three or four in training i really wanted to be one

01:02:19.660 because i had been i'm a serial like dater like i'm with a girl for three years three years three

01:02:25.100 years three years so i've only been single in total in my whole life like two and a half years

01:02:31.500 so whenever i was single i really wanted to you know hit the ground running so yeah i i would

01:02:38.760 always vet them but i guess i was vetting them incorrectly i would i would i would put more

01:02:42.800 stock into what they told me rather than what i saw them do and that was a huge issue so for the

01:02:49.360 what was the most common answer you got from women when you were single when you asked them their

01:02:53.280 body count um usually it was 15 uh 20 around us what age what age pretty much at the time i was

01:03:07.840 23 24 okay and i dated a lot but here's the thing i had a good luck chuck situation with a whole lot

01:03:15.840 of them where for whatever reason like i'd get ghosted after like a week or so of uh hitting it

01:03:22.320 uh and uh they would always inevitably like right after me like within six months get pregnant so

01:03:29.440 follow your instincts that's all i gotta say in that regard just just follow your instincts if

01:03:34.560 if they seem like if there's anything in your psyche telling you this person's a little bit

01:03:40.160 too well traveled oh my god thanks for calling in this was great call anytime man that was awesome

01:03:51.800 hey thank you uh but yeah that's all that's all thank you so much have a good one we've been

01:03:58.280 getting some really good calls lately man thanks for being such great calls everyone yeah that was

01:04:02.740 great all right um who we got next we got our good friend glenn what's up man hey what a new

01:04:13.460 glenn today we're talking about hpv oh damn i know a few with that you got it

01:04:24.100 i got the shot so um we're asking the question if you know anybody that at hpv

01:04:29.940 or whatever what was their experience having it um and like did they spread it like what what

01:04:39.240 i'm sure they spread it pearl um we got a hundred dollar super chat disturbing and educating show

01:04:45.900 thank you pearl thank you okay look i i think these these topics are important i really really

01:04:53.880 do um yeah unfortunately i want to go back to the cold store no we'll go back to the cold store

01:04:59.640 question cold sore or hpv hold on hold on glenn um unfortunately um nobody in the red we don't

01:05:07.080 really talk about std so i just thought every friday we're gonna do um std update so thank

01:05:13.320 you so much for donating and i really appreciate it go ahead glenn so we're gonna have gonorrhea

01:05:18.760 friday oh we did that was last week you missed it i was like i'm good gonorrhea and chlamydia 0.95

01:05:27.480 oh mickey clap yep so um all right so do you know anybody that had it and my wife got it damn um

01:05:39.960 so what what happened or like what like what was the result so she was in the navy so she she

01:05:47.720 went out to see and she came back and she's like oh my gosh uh my pap sphere came back

01:05:52.440 normal and like well i haven't been you for like the last nine months so um

01:05:57.960 did she try to gaslight you and blame it on you at first yeah she caught to it so no no no she

01:06:03.400 she didn't come to that she didn't cop to any of it and so i went and got tested and there's really

01:06:10.680 not a test for men right but i got the pr at the time it wasn't the test for men they gave me the

01:06:15.800 shot the preventative shot right so you can't you know can't be spreading no nasty so

01:06:22.280 and i never had a flare my nothing nothing nothing and did she have um did she have to

01:06:28.440 get surgery did she get cancer what happened no so she had uh she had cervical uh pre-cancerous

01:06:35.640 like for cervical cancer she had to do like a whole bunch of like scrapages on the pap smear 1.00

01:06:41.720 i don't know like the whole cervix thing but did it go did it go away or what i don't know i ain't

01:06:50.920 no more oh it's an ex oh okay i was just asking um did you know anyone else that had it and what

01:06:57.780 happened like anyone no no no that was the only person i know that that um that had it okay but

01:07:04.260 you know it is the gift that keeps on giving but think about it if you had to have hpv for a dude

01:07:09.020 because you could be a carrier and never have any symptoms right um or a cold sore yo i'm taking

01:07:15.780 the hpv like hands down like i don't want no bum bump on my lip bro that's what i like i'll take 0.75

01:07:21.920 that yeah even even though like the cancer stuff i'm like well it says the cancer most likely

01:07:27.340 wouldn't come till i'm 50. i mean you're most likely gonna get like skin cancer anyways you're

01:07:33.080 It's so fair.

01:07:34.080 I know.

01:07:35.080 That's my thing.

01:07:36.080 I'm like, by that point, it's like, and the second half of life isn't great for women 1.00

01:07:41.160 anyway.

01:07:42.160 So you can just take me.

01:07:43.160 It's fine.

01:07:44.160 It's fine. 0.96

01:07:45.160 Like, like, like, I dug MPA like, okay, you know, you black, so you got them lips, right? 1.00

01:07:53.160 So you're telling me this HPV or cold sore, tell me which one you're trying to avoid. 0.89

01:08:00.700 Okay. So, you know, I've been looking at pictures of like warts, right? And there are people that

01:08:06.960 where this stuff looks like freaking corn on the cob, bro. You know what I'm saying? 0.60

01:08:12.160 Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I mean, I mean, if it's like one, if it's one and done, like homeboy,

01:08:18.220 if they called in, that's fine. But you know, I've been, I've been looking too over here and

01:08:23.840 I'm seeing some crazy stuff. You know, if you only get one and done, but I told you, I see some people

01:08:28.300 it looks like alligator scales

01:08:30.840 on their stuff.

01:08:32.620 But which one were you going to go with?

01:08:37.620 I mean,

01:08:38.560 I would go with the HPV only

01:08:40.840 because... Exactly, because you don't want no bump

01:08:42.660 bump on your lip.

01:08:45.020 That's true.

01:08:46.060 I guess you can keep getting them frozen off,

01:08:49.780 but

01:08:49.940 you'd have to hope

01:08:52.900 it was only one and done.

01:08:54.280 What if it's all over the place?

01:08:56.000 I don't know, man.

01:08:56.680 just neither how about that neither no no you gotta pick one you gotta pick one i'll go for the

01:09:01.800 hpv exactly exactly be like but you didn't get that for me because i got it okay okay let's do

01:09:07.240 another one would you rather have hpv or gonorrhea hpv really i'd pick gonorrhea that's like done

01:09:14.280 after one shot right yeah yeah that's true i mean you're done i don't want the itching and the

01:09:19.880 burning and nah i don't know that either no half of it you should have been here last so see most

01:09:24.600 most people don't even know that they're carriers of hp because you could be yeah non-symptomatic

01:09:29.880 so you may not even know you have it and you have it i know you still get the chance of cancer

01:09:34.600 gonorrhea it's like as long as you catch it early you can just get the shot and it's gone that's

01:09:39.560 true and then guys have more um who has more of a chance of showing scent don't guys show more

01:09:47.720 symptoms when they have the clap than women do you guys will no guys will have like a i've never 0.99

01:09:56.780 gotten them for i don't know but like i would imagine that you're more likely to know if you

01:10:01.000 have chlamydia sooner than you would hpv right i like you wouldn't know you wouldn't know unless 0.93

01:10:08.120 like the girl that you're with you know she ain't fucking around right and then she get it and then 0.99

01:10:15.040 and you'd be like, oh shit, how does she get it? 0.99

01:10:16.660 I don't know how many guys were chilling 0.99

01:10:20.660 and then to go cheat on them

01:10:22.320 and then gave them something

01:10:23.620 and then they get gaslit

01:10:25.220 and to be like, oh,

01:10:27.220 because women would never take accountability. 1.00

01:10:30.320 I've seen videos of women 1.00

01:10:31.880 where the guy gets a DNA test

01:10:34.060 and the woman is still denying it. 0.86

01:10:35.880 She's like, well, the test ain't right.

01:10:37.700 You think that they're going to own up to getting an STD?

01:10:40.820 Come on now.

01:10:42.660 You see those videos, right,

01:10:44.720 where the guy comes up you are not the father well yeah the test is wrong the interesting thing too

01:10:50.900 is that like guys because i can't remember who said someone said this to me in the last few days

01:10:56.140 where it's like you deserve it if you like you get it and i'm like half the guys that get these stds

01:11:01.660 are from their wives like yeah you can get married do the right thing and then still get herpes sorry 0.89

01:11:09.000 fellas yep i believe that 100 it's a cold world i'd say half the other half are irresponsible

01:11:15.480 that's how i would like i i say if you're even in a relationship still get tested about every

01:11:19.800 three months yeah i'd agree especially if you're a girl because gonorrhea and chlamydia that can go 1.00

01:11:25.800 um that can make you infertile in a few months so yeah it's not bad if if you get it treated right

01:11:33.080 away you'll be fine but like unless you're like me and you want to be infertile okay 0.98

01:11:41.400 because i already got kids i don't need no more kids okay okay well yeah ladies if you don't 1.00

01:11:47.880 want to have kids i got good news um all right who wants to come on next all right we'll keep

01:11:57.480 going here yeah you can hold that on i'm gonna go throw some axes i have an ex tournament to be at

01:12:02.120 right now okay have fun thanks for calling i was gonna talk to anybody have a good one

01:12:09.320 all right we have remedios

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01:12:40.200 remedios are you there

01:12:43.720 remedios going once remedios going twice okay i'm gonna put him in the waiting room because up next

01:12:51.800 we have our good friend

01:12:56.440 dustin yet who is it dustin what's up may

01:13:02.920 dustin dustin i know he has a lot to say about this i bet he does destiny there

01:13:12.040 dustin going once dustin going no i'm here can you guys hear me yeah i can now what up dustin

01:13:22.140 why is it so hard to do this hey oh sorry it's definitely my fault but hey pearl how are you

01:13:27.160 good how are you uh what's what's going on you got hpv or nah

01:13:31.660 what a question um

01:13:37.500 i have uh i was thinking about this what oh okay what do you want

01:13:45.280 okay here sorry about that um is your daughter there while we're talking about is your daughter

01:13:52.920 they're talking about it where we're talking about hpb hey it's only appropriate she's got

01:13:59.280 to learn but she's in her car seat so it won't get too crazy um uh so like the last time we talked

01:14:09.520 there was the std thing and uh i took my daughter on vacation to the east coast and my one of my

01:14:16.880 in-laws is a practitioner like um i know

01:14:22.300 you you're breaking up dustin but you can't really test for it uh-huh

01:14:32.980 oh you're going in and out dustin yeah dustin we got to drop you i can't hear you

01:14:40.760 yeah we'll bring try to bring you back in later or drop out and come back yeah try to

01:14:46.060 um go somewhere where this may be better signal like on wi-fi or something i can't hear you

01:14:50.940 um we're gonna try remedios again

01:14:56.940 it's coming in in a second

01:15:01.020 i mean in the second still joining while we're doing that let me thank everyone in the audacity

01:15:08.380 yeah everyone's saying look at it's this is part of the game it's like

01:15:16.620 i mean it's if um remedius are you there we can see you

01:15:24.220 but we can't hear you sorry bro i didn't mean to interrupt but his camera's on remedios are you there

01:15:31.180 yeah thank you you have to hit connect with your computer audio when you call in because we can't

01:15:41.020 hear you can't hear you all right i'm gonna drop you back down guys all right test your audio when

01:15:49.340 you come on so you can you can test on the zoom your audio and your video before you get up go

01:15:55.820 let me thank everyone in the audacity chat ovni man joel valencia is always in here js good to see

01:16:06.620 you who else is in here i said joel already thank you for being part of the audacity chat tonight

01:16:12.940 really appreciate it next up we have our good friend sean sean what's up may she was good my

01:16:23.740 audio works pearl amazing welcome to std friday you got hpv or what

01:16:33.660 shoot man praise the god i don't shout outs to that man great show great show i think it's very

01:16:42.060 informative so shout outs to both of you guys out here on the front lines making sure everything's

01:16:46.460 good. So do you know anyone that has it or no? Yeah. So I do like, so for me, when I actually

01:16:55.280 have a lot of partners before I even get involved with them like that, I get tests. I ask them to

01:17:00.880 get tested. And most of the time you got to command everything. So it's up to you guys to

01:17:06.700 arm yourself with information. You got to do everything because surprisingly, Pearl, people 1.00

01:17:12.220 don't know nothing about getting tested i'm are you are you surprised about that no no

01:17:21.100 especially go ahead i'm sorry i don't think they want to know it's not really sexy to be like oh

01:17:26.220 my i was about to say that yeah that's a thing too my chance of getting hpv from like i don't

01:17:31.580 i think women like like it's not fun to think about you know your chance of getting an std 1.00

01:17:38.220 from a certain person or whatever so it's just easier women just like block it out 1.00

01:17:43.980 because they want to do the fun things they want to do the fun thing but no they don't

01:17:47.660 want to think about the consequences so we just avoid um so do you want to tell people

01:17:53.820 how to ask a woman for an std test like is that something you do before you guys have even hooked

01:17:59.420 up yeah i do that before we even hooked up and you got to be very very gentle with your approach

01:18:07.180 now most here let's go yeah so most of the time okay go ahead so most of the time we sit down

01:18:14.220 okay pearl we're gonna have a talk what are we talking about yeah yeah let's let's okay what are

01:18:21.020 we talking about this is going great how are you doing today i'm doing so good i had the best day

01:18:27.420 ever how are you i'm doing super good and you know this is still going to be a fun conversation but

01:18:34.700 but I want to have one of our serious conversations with you real quick.

01:18:38.900 Are you available? Do you have the time? Are you in the space right now?

01:18:42.240 Yeah, I'm in the space. Is this after like a first date?

01:18:47.380 Like how long has it been? How long have we known each other?

01:18:49.740 No, no, no. This ain't a first date.

01:18:51.440 This is probably on your third date or something like that when you built the rapport.

01:18:55.080 Because, you know, first date, you don't even know if it's working or it's popping like that, right?

01:18:59.400 So this is probably when you think you're going to get some drift, when you're going to be rounding.

01:19:03.080 what is it second or third base this is where you really start to have the conversation right

01:19:09.320 okay so hey you know a lot of my relationship i just like to keep the conversation open

01:19:14.920 and we can have serious conversations and i wanted to have a conversation about health

01:19:20.280 you know how important health and wealth is with me right yeah i do yeah and i'm worried

01:19:27.720 about both of us i think we're going pretty far with this relationship and i want to make sure

01:19:32.680 we're both armed with information. So one of the things I'm actually looking at, do you know

01:19:38.000 anything or you're familiar with like STDs, STIs, getting checked or anything like that?

01:19:44.460 Are you familiar with that? I don't know anything. Okay. And I get it. And so this is where I'm

01:19:52.500 here as a partner, right? To offer good information, to be very supportive in this

01:19:57.040 relationship. And so for the next stage, I really want us to kind of take that step and get these

01:20:03.900 things checked out and I'll be here to support you. Plus, you know, we got chat GPT. So if you

01:20:08.980 got any questions, we can walk through this together and get this figured out. How does

01:20:13.560 that sound to you? That sounds great. So what now? What do you need? Okay. So we're going to try to

01:20:22.040 find some free time and whatever you think is best. If you want to go solo or if you want me

01:20:27.640 to join you, it really doesn't matter. I mean, just think it over. You don't have to come up

01:20:32.700 with a decision right now. We don't have to further this conversation. You can even sit on

01:20:36.740 some of this information, but we'll both go get checked out. I want to go out here and check out

01:20:42.740 my health and see what's going on. We both go together and just figure this out. I think it's

01:20:47.820 good for us to be armed with information. So after that, we can decide what we want to do,

01:20:52.500 or if there's anything that we need to do to make sure that we're both safe and healthy at the end

01:20:57.420 of the day. Are you calling me a whore? Negative. I'm going to, you know, it's going to be both of 0.99

01:21:05.120 us. We're going together. I'm going to, I'm calling you actually protective of your health

01:21:09.280 your body this is beautiful that's a great so um okay so do you what if she tries to like go home

01:21:18.080 with you first date do you just tell her no no i mean like sometimes like i tell you a lot of times

01:21:25.200 like there's been girls who came home with me and they want to take it to the next stage and i'm

01:21:29.360 just like nah not right now so you can always just shun some coochie shoot if you know anything about 1.00

01:21:34.560 being a male that makes them want you more like what they rejected me you know what i'm saying

01:21:40.000 like i used to have a thing like even sometimes i would invite a girl over i'd be like oh you

01:21:44.240 could come over my house nothing like that i'm not trying to try to make no moves we're just

01:21:48.160 going and just kicking it and then they'll come and then sometimes girls like switch switch up 1.00

01:21:53.600 and be like you know that that makes them feel comfortable right they're like okay he's not

01:21:57.440 really going to try to pressure me it's not like that we go back to the crib and then you know we

01:22:01.680 talk we have a good time and they're like okay i really want to do it though and then even when

01:22:06.880 they ask i'm like hey look i give you my word my word is my bond so i get that you you know kind of

01:22:14.560 change the energy and you really want to move this way but i told you that i wasn't going to do that

01:22:20.080 and this is not what you came back to the house for so i stand on my word so we can revisit this

01:22:26.960 another time but not tonight and then you hit her with the get tested hoe yeah so get out 1.00

01:22:37.440 that's a little bit afterwards but yes yes yes hit the bricks how many how many women have you 1.00

01:22:43.600 asked to get tested i'm just i'm curious how many did you ask to get tested did any come back with

01:22:49.040 a positive result yeah and like what percent come back with something and what percent like ghost

01:22:55.920 what percent yeah like what like if a guy does this to 10 women what should he expect

01:23:01.680 he should expect that most of them are going to come back with these trichos these plasmas 1.00

01:23:07.600 like just the simple stuff because even if it's really whether she's out here or not or whether

01:23:12.640 she's not taking care of herself properly down there she's going to have some problems like that 0.99

01:23:17.360 so they could expect that but for the gyno and chlamydia and hpv and that's they should really

01:23:24.720 not even know what's going on with that they should suspect they have number one

01:23:29.280 that's the kissing one right so they should suspect that they probably already have that

01:23:33.600 but number two uh the odds are lower but you definitely need to go get the right test in

01:23:40.000 order to check for those because some of the clinics a lot of them they'll give you like starter

01:23:44.560 kits right it's the most common stuff so the most uncommon stuff that's the one that really prevails

01:23:51.920 amongst people, because you know what I'm saying? Everybody's going to go get tested and say,

01:23:55.920 oh, I got my test, but they're not really testing for the other things. And so those keep affecting

01:24:02.640 people. Okay. So it's like, what did you say the ones that most of them have? It's like,

01:24:08.720 is it your plasma? Like that sort of thing? Yeah. Yeah. Your plasma. There's different ones,

01:24:13.360 but they all end up with plasma, right? There's like two of them. So the plasma one and the

01:24:18.400 trico one i forgot what it's called trichomania something crazy track is that it yeah trick yep

01:24:24.240 they call it a trick for a short one these are the ones that you could probably be like all right

01:24:28.560 maybe i would say like five five out of ten might have okay and so you should be like okay not

01:24:35.920 surprised and then of course it's up to the man a lot of dudes just make a bunch of compromises

01:24:41.120 i ain't gonna front that they do okay guys i i'm gonna interrupt because we have a woman 0.99

01:24:46.480 waiting in the chat

01:24:48.640 who is getting everyone riled up

01:24:51.220 Maylynn Burke you are talking

01:24:53.260 a lot I see you on the chat here

01:24:55.300 Sean stay on here and let's see

01:24:57.380 what this Maylynn girl has to say

01:24:59.240 Maylynn you are coming in right now 0.82

01:25:01.260 I hope you have that same energy in the chat

01:25:03.080 on your call

01:25:04.460 yeah could I just finish this conversation

01:25:06.720 Doug MPA oh I'm sorry

01:25:08.440 I wanted to get the rest of the stats

01:25:11.180 so half of them will have

01:25:12.600 the plasma ones and then what about

01:25:15.100 the other half and the trick and now less percentage will probably have gyno and chlamydia

01:25:20.720 because you know um they go see their gyno they might suggest that they might get these things

01:25:25.680 done but don't don't bet on that either because the doctors will be like hey it's no problem and

01:25:30.800 then girls really have a mentality like like that girl right she made up a new song and said it 1.00

01:25:35.400 should be cool so they're in a whole different dementia with it so you got to be very uh prepared

01:25:40.860 for that did any come back one of the most go ahead go ahead i was going to ask about herpes

01:25:45.820 if they came back with that any of them yeah so this is this is the biggest thing pearl

01:25:51.900 biggest thing for herpes guys you guys have to get the blood test it's the igg and igm and you

01:26:00.620 got to get both of them and you got to get the ones that distinguishes it one or two

01:26:05.900 that is not what you get when you usually get the test so when you usually go and say hey i want to

01:26:13.420 you know herpes they're like oh it's on the list it's what the sti is what they're talking about

01:26:17.820 is the swap they'll swap they'll do a urine they'll even do a blood but it's not the same so

01:26:24.220 if the herpes is not active right nobody gets it it won't it will go undetected so you think oh i'm

01:26:31.740 good. She clean. That's not what really it is. You have to go get the blood drawn, which is an

01:26:37.140 individual test. And then that would let you know if she has it or not. And it's IgG and IgM. And

01:26:45.440 those distinguish the time period. So even if you get like IgG, then it ends up she got it in the

01:26:51.040 last six months. But if you get the IgM, she had it longer than six months. So it's undetected.

01:26:56.800 so you have to really be proactive on that one but for the rest of them they're usually in the

01:27:02.960 big packages got it that makes sense and what does that cost um like what does that usually cost

01:27:10.640 like do you i don't know okay well it's different over here in thailand right i'm getting it cheap

01:27:17.520 right but if you're back stateside maybe when i was getting like back stateside it was a long

01:27:23.300 time ago 2019 or 2018 i think it cost me like 80 bucks okay that's not bad um okay so what percent

01:27:32.140 would you say are clean out of the 10 i would say i would say like three three out of ten three out

01:27:42.300 of ten will be clean and maybe we can say four and what's your experience with are they are the

01:27:47.320 more attractive or the or the mids are the beautiful women who tends to be more clean 1.00

01:27:51.720 them it oh no no the attractive ones the meds don't oh really so you would say the beautiful

01:27:57.960 women are more clean yeah okay because they're more selective you know they cut men out for 1.00

01:28:04.000 having hats backwards and things they don't like so they could be very very very selective the mids

01:28:09.840 they're kind of just like hey man i'm gonna get it how i live remember they're getting hit by

01:28:13.900 other mids and the upper guys they're getting hit by a plethora of individuals okay um i think

01:28:22.060 that's all my question for the 10 10. yeah three will be clean um mids are more likely to have

01:28:29.420 stds in your experience most are going to have in relationships too the ones in the relationships are

01:28:36.060 big time okay yeah and then um herpes in your experience what percent have herpes

01:28:44.360 well the number is different depending on the country but if you go you could probably put

01:28:51.360 around like 20 to 30 percent and that's pearl that's detected though you get me so that's people

01:28:57.720 who said hey i'm gonna go get tested and then got just tested and then the test center reported it

01:29:02.300 so you're not talking about the people who don't get those tests for IgG and IgM you get me so it 0.62

01:29:08.880 could be more than that but statistically we have to keep to the numbers right and so numbers reported

01:29:13.900 statistically is 30. okay cool um do we want to bring the girl on now is she still in the waiting 0.95

01:29:20.200 room yeah let me see she dropped out but then she came back so let's see if she's gonna come on 0.99

01:29:27.940 then she'll come on which what's her name maylin uh hold on i'm bringing you in maylin you better

01:29:37.160 have that same energy maylin are you there maylin it says connecting to audio what's with people

01:29:48.460 and not connecting their audio before they come in here there's a box with a red button happy

01:29:54.800 std friday only you can prevent stds thanks daniel 30 super chat yeah pay me guys i don't like

01:30:02.160 talking about this i want money thank you hey maylynn welcome to the show hi how are you the

01:30:10.000 audio when they come in here uh make sure your youtube is on in the background you gotta turn

01:30:14.160 that off oh only you can hold on let me press pause on youtube yeah pay me guys i don't like

01:30:22.160 talking about this i want money thank you welcome to the show hey you gotta get there you go hey

01:30:32.080 how are you guys hey how's it going uh what were you saying in the chat i didn't really see it

01:30:37.360 doug mpa was saying you had energy so i don't know what energy i'm supposed to expect

01:30:43.680 i can't even believe i'm on the show honestly i usually watch it when it's not live

01:30:48.080 okay that's all right so i guess i wonder if i'm like one of the only females that watches this

01:30:55.920 show i guess i'm sure you are there's probably like two of you in the chat so that's crazy um

01:31:03.600 so did you have hpv or did you know someone with it or did you have another thought on the topic

01:31:12.160 go ahead i'm sorry no go ahead no no go ahead go ahead

01:31:15.760 um i was just in the chat asking the guys about advice for my son i'm actually married and i have

01:31:24.920 three kids um and i have a son and he's a little kid but he already has girls that like him and it

01:31:32.540 really freaks me out because they come from like like crazy families we're like i just recognize

01:31:39.000 that their moms are nuts and i'm like man you know just praying that hopefully it finds a good one

01:31:47.340 but it seems like it's pretty hard so well before we get into that because you said something about 0.94

01:31:53.960 men spreading diseases and then like and then like how how how do you guys have this mindset

01:31:59.940 but expect women to keep low body counts oh what i was asking is i get that men have a natural 0.99

01:32:08.080 prerogative to be with women um but you just see how evil women are and how gross women are 1.00

01:32:18.240 and it just makes you think like isn't it dangerous for men to do that you know is it 0.97

01:32:26.360 better to be celibate or yeah i don't know the challenge is sex is a need for men like the part

01:32:34.160 their brain that is true so some guys are going to pick the celibate route there is a good portion

01:32:39.760 of men that do do that whether voluntary or involuntary um but at some point men are just

01:32:46.480 going to do what it takes to get their needs met um so yeah and right now it's like it's like they're

01:32:52.800 kind of looking at what's on the menu you know and if the menu has then that's like that's all

01:32:58.640 all they can really order right now you know that's so sad and scary and also also the way

01:33:05.760 that most women treat men in marriage you're honestly better you're better off gambling with 1.00

01:33:11.540 multiple women who will leave than a woman who hand pecks you and freaking berates you and 1.00

01:33:18.240 and immaculates you in a marriage and you give everything to her and she gives you nothing and 0.57

01:33:23.760 and then she walks out the door with your kids eight years after you get married so i'm actually

01:33:29.840 a stay-at-home wife and my husband he's a he's an entrepreneur he's a multi-millionaire but when i

01:33:34.920 met him he didn't have as much and we have a really great marriage but it's because i am a

01:33:40.640 submissive wife but i'll be honest with you it's extremely rare like all of our friends the moms 0.99

01:33:47.020 stay home you know um we live in buckhead so it's kind of like an upper class community and they're

01:33:54.420 really really terrible like they're they're really bitchy to their husbands and a lot of them are my 1.00

01:34:00.580 friends and these are women who support trump like they vote for trump right they say they're 0.67

01:34:04.880 conservative and they're absolutely tyrants it is so scary i have one friend who she stays home and

01:34:12.940 the husband has a business and she forced him to get her like 401ks and Roth IRAs. And it's like,

01:34:21.200 why do you need that? You stay home, but she has to have her own nest egg. And it just shows me

01:34:28.500 how their relationship works behind the scenes. And it's just humiliating for her husband,

01:34:34.660 but it's kind of crazy how like men just accept that, you know, like I don't know my husband's

01:34:41.920 business or anything and the sad part about it is you're in atlanta so the fact that these women 0.94

01:34:48.100 got married in atlanta anyway and the fact that they're black and well they're not black these 0.85

01:34:53.880 women are white actually yeah i'm i'm mixed i'm black and korean but my husband's white and

01:35:00.880 most of the wives are white i you know what i think there was a time when black women were 1.00

01:35:07.420 more difficult and again i'm my mom is black so i know for sure black women can be super difficult 1.00

01:35:12.940 but i see now that really it doesn't even matter the color they're just all the same right yeah 0.99

01:35:19.180 they're all really terrible what i've known black women put their aggression on the front end 1.00

01:35:24.940 white women exactly girl yeah exactly girl you're so right and white mom yeah go ahead 1.00

01:35:31.500 oh she no she cut no she was giving us game bruv yeah no i was gonna say that white women just do 1.00

01:35:41.100 it on the back end it's like the hillary crowders of the world they look sweet yeah exactly and if 0.98

01:35:46.140 you see i mean you guys can see her her profile click on go to her find her in the chat and click

01:35:53.740 on go to her channel and i mean she she's a pretty woman i'm i'm glad she won i'm she should be with

01:36:01.100 a millionaire if you see her channel food picture she's very attractive like very attractive so 0.92

01:36:10.780 i'm glad she won it's just sad that she's surrounded by a bunch of women that want and 1.00

01:36:14.940 don't know anybody i'm from an upper class community the wives are not so i can think of 1.00

01:36:19.660 one submissive wife where i'm from i can think of one and everyone would look at her like she was 1.00

01:36:25.260 crazy because like her husband would tell her now and she would listen yeah like and i i could

01:36:33.340 literally think of one like out of and i'm from an upper class area oh wow she's beautiful yeah i

01:36:40.880 told you yeah yeah i'm glad you know what i i saw her her chatting and i i totally got the wrong 0.65

01:36:47.340 energy so so that was my fault i'll have to admit when i'm wrong uh but come back up whenever you

01:36:54.160 want to um mylin honestly it was good having you on uh we're gonna try

01:37:00.560 remedios again and like she's half black and half korean i mean but come on she she's black 1.00

01:37:09.880 i don't know she's in buckhead huh i agree with her i don't think there's i think different races 0.90

01:37:17.240 have different strategies but I women are women like black women are just more like aggressive 1.00

01:37:24.460 on the front end I'm not I will always prescribe that freaking black women are the worst women on 1.00

01:37:31.000 the planet sorry I have a lot more experience than like a lot of people and I'm telling you man like 1.00

01:37:38.620 I you can't I will die on that hill American not all maybe 80 percent are the worst no one has 1.00

01:37:44.520 worst women choose from than african-american men nobody does absolute worst now pearl's not saying 0.99

01:37:51.800 that i i'll say it all day i don't know white women do like psychological torture like like 1.00

01:37:59.880 it's like long slow steady psychological torture black women you at least know what you're getting 1.00

01:38:07.480 up front white women it's like the bait and switch we're i think we're the best ones at the bait and 1.00

01:38:11.880 switch. Although I don't know a ton of Asian women. So, you know, Sean could probably speak 1.00

01:38:16.520 to that. Who's better at the bait and switch, white women or Asian women? 1.00

01:38:22.140 White women. White women and have your son turn into a daughter. 1.00

01:38:26.860 Oh, yeah. Remedios, I'm trying you one more time, man. Your audio is connecting. If you 0.99

01:38:34.740 don't connect this time, I'm booting you out. Remedios.

01:38:39.260 Sorry, Amy.

01:38:40.960 there you are yes remedius how's it going yeah sorry sorry my my name is medias it used to be

01:38:51.120 my mother's laptop my mother is remedial excuse me cool you can just use my name go ahead okay

01:39:00.080 okay so what's going on you got hpv or what no no i i i haven't paid attention to this show i just

01:39:08.720 saw the title of your show and I just thought I just wanted to share with you a really different

01:39:16.800 take on STDs if you wanted to hear my take. Go ahead. My take is that STDs don't exist.

01:39:31.280 The inventor of the PCR test, Terry Muller, the prize winner, when HIV came out, he said

01:39:42.280 he thought he saw that people started using his test to test HIV and he said, no, my test

01:39:51.280 is not for testing HIV.

01:39:54.280 What are you doing?

01:39:55.280 This is wrong.

01:39:56.280 said, well, can you show me that HIV exists, he went to a college or went to Anthony Fauci

01:40:03.820 and they said, yeah, everybody knows that and he started researching and he found out

01:40:08.200 that there was no proof to prove that HIV exists and he ended up writing a whole book

01:40:17.000 about how HIV doesn't exist and so he's the Nobel Prize winner for chemistry and the inventor

01:40:25.840 PCL test. I can't understand the word he's saying. Yeah. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, man. I'm sorry.

01:40:33.060 I can't, man. My patience has run out. Okay. So let's let Jake in here. Guys, make sure to like

01:40:43.560 the video if you haven't already. Subscribe if you haven't already. Thank you for everyone.

01:40:48.100 Let's call them. Your calls make this call and show very, very, very enjoyable. Jake, are you

01:40:54.720 there uh yeah i'm here can you hear me i can hear you you got hpv uh no i don't you know someone

01:41:02.900 that's got it or what uh yeah i mean it's a story from like a million years ago though okay that's

01:41:09.280 fine go ahead all right so in high school i dated this girl a couple of times and it was really

01:41:18.480 weird because we were both from out of state and we were both from the same city and we were sitting

01:41:25.640 next to each other in 10th grade English class. And we found that out about each other. And then

01:41:31.520 we went, went out a couple of times, right? Well, she ended up, uh, breaking, breaking it off with

01:41:38.580 me. And, uh, you know, we, we stayed in touch or whatever, like we were kind of cool. Uh, I was

01:41:45.020 hurt but like i suffered in silence and then high school ended and then myspace blew up and you know

01:41:53.180 we eventually crossed paths on myspace and i found out that she was living in our old state in our

01:42:00.060 old city again and she was dating a guy and the guy ended up giving her hpv when we were at 18

01:42:08.300 or 19 like fresh out of high school wow um did she get cancer um i don't think so i i remember

01:42:19.660 she brought it up though that that was something that she was concerned about like we were talking

01:42:24.460 about it over myspace back then um she ended up uh staying with the guy she had a kid at age 20

01:42:34.220 um and then uh like seven years later when i was 27 she messaged me and added me to facebook

01:42:45.580 at four o'clock in the morning on christmas eve

01:42:48.660 okay and i ended up accepting and she sent me a message and she was saying that like you know

01:42:58.200 she always regretted that things ended between us and i'm reading this and i'm like but you're

01:43:04.080 the one who ended it and never really even told me why and then she started like talking like real

01:43:11.780 dirty and like real sexual to me and like telling me that like she needed sex and asked me if i ever 0.94

01:43:19.100 like go back to like our old like you know city because she was still living there 0.96

01:43:23.680 and um i was like wait a minute wait a minute this is kind of like out of the blue what's going

01:43:30.920 on here why are you messaging me like 10 years after high school's over uh like what's going on

01:43:39.380 and I was like because we dated in high school and you broke it off with me after like two dates

01:43:44.120 and I was kind of hurt but like I had to suffer in silence so talk to me what's going on and she

01:43:50.960 was like well you know I have a kid but like my baby daddy's a bum and he doesn't pay child support 0.87

01:43:57.580 and then i realized that on my facebook profile it said where i work and you know she was looking

01:44:05.280 for a bailout guy i didn't know that at the time at the time i was kind of a christian simp okay

01:44:13.760 that'll do it and i was pretty open-minded at the time to dating a single mother i wasn't like

01:44:20.240 looking to do it but i did kind of allow the church into guilting me into it if the opportunity

01:44:27.220 presented itself so i was open-minded okay um but yeah she uh um i still remembered the std i i

01:44:37.360 think i asked her about it and i i didn't know anything about hpv at the time but that's what

01:44:43.040 it was like that's what her baby daddy gave her and uh she told me that she was cured of it

01:44:50.440 okay that's good yeah most of it does clear within two years according to what i read online

01:44:57.600 so that kind of checks out i didn't know that because nowadays i'm on some dating

01:45:03.880 apps and like once in a while i'll scroll past a profile where the woman will admit to having it 0.78

01:45:10.860 and then they'll also throw in most people have it and don't even know it and so like

01:45:17.100 you shouldn't discriminate against it like it's harmless I would say to discriminate but

01:45:23.820 but I according to what I read most sexually people active people do get it so I guess that's

01:45:31.640 technically right according to what they say online I got tested last year and I came up clean

01:45:39.960 so i mean like i haven't had a girlfriend in like over a decade but you know i mean i do date

01:45:48.960 and most of my lays have been like five dates or less so i mean i i don't know like you've been

01:46:00.180 talking about this lately and actually the reason why i got tested last year was because i did have

01:46:06.300 a scare like shortly after a hookup i got a pimple on my upper lip and i got all like freaked out

01:46:13.060 and hypochondriac dick and the same way i know what you better to be safe than sorry yeah so i 0.77

01:46:21.800 went and got tested and i turned out to be okay but i you just told me and i have heard this a 0.99

01:46:28.220 lot that most sexually active people have it well there's no test for men that's the challenge 0.64

01:46:34.640 there's no what for men i'm sorry hpv there's no test for men

01:46:38.860 i uh i listened to like that one caller that you had just a minute ago and he talks about going to

01:46:46.660 get the blood test um he said igg and igm i've never heard of that that's for her i guess but

01:46:53.360 yeah go ahead i i got a blood test and it came up clean so now you're freaking me out again

01:47:00.340 no no no for for hpv but hp you'll be fine hpv doesn't really it doesn't affect men as much

01:47:08.680 um yeah so it's it's just like if you have warts or something then you know that's what you have

01:47:15.020 yeah um but some but like some strands don't have any symptoms

01:47:20.500 oh some strands well it's like over a hundred strands so that's that's what they mean when

01:47:28.800 they say so like when they say everyone gets it that's true but there's only two strands that are

01:47:33.920 particularly bad and lead to like there's more than two strands that you can get cancer from

01:47:40.980 but there's two that cause like 80 of the cancers and that you don't want so that's that's usually

01:47:49.220 when they get it they have one of those strands because they have a symptom what are the most

01:47:55.860 common strands hpv that lead to abnormal pap smears was it 16 and 18 yeah so the ones you

01:48:07.240 don't want are hpv 31 33 45 52 and 58 the most common hpv strands that lead to abnormal paps

01:48:15.680 are high risk types particularly hpv 18 and 16 which are responsible for 70 percent of pre of

01:48:23.400 cervical cancer cases and precancerous lesions other high-risk strains with abnormal pap smears

01:48:29.080 include hpv 31 33 45 52 and 58 those strains can cause changes in cervical cells leading to

01:48:36.080 abnormalities like low-grade squamous lesions basically or high-grade squamous oh my god i

01:48:46.360 can't read this intra-pthelial legions detected on pap smears low risk strains like 6 and 11

01:48:53.720 are less likely to cause abnormal pap smears but they are more likely to be associated with

01:48:58.900 genital warts and cervical dysplasia okay so the guy that called in probably had hpv 6 or 11

01:49:04.740 although there are there is a vaccine though so you can get it and that protects you from the

01:49:10.140 that protects you from wait which of these are covered by the vaccine

01:49:19.180 um nine protects against the warts so 6 11 16 18 31 33 45 52 and 58 um

01:49:29.260 um which if you get the vaccine which strand is most likely to cause you cancer

01:49:40.160 that is not protected again so let's just see what it says

01:49:45.220 um I don't I don't care I I'm booking a doctor's appointment I'm getting back

01:49:52.940 among the high risk strands not yeah it says 90 percent of cancer cases are covered by the

01:49:58.800 vaccine um hpv 35 so that's probably what got alex cooper uh 35 30 or 35 39 59 or 58 but they're

01:50:08.700 less common so good get vaxxed uh there's new diseases every year though so you don't know

01:50:14.120 what's to come but for now you know i'll take what i can get yeah i mean there's nothing you

01:50:21.080 can do without any risk but yeah i mean to be fair i mean that's kind of how i feel about sex

01:50:26.020 at times like you know i'll take what i can get but like i guess i'll apply that logic to the

01:50:31.300 vaccine as well okay um sean like you had there's no test you found for hpv for women right it's 1.00

01:50:41.060 just the pap smears is that what they normally get for you that you tell them to get yeah yeah 0.97

01:50:47.260 yeah that's the one but men are kind of screwed yeah no love

01:50:55.980 all right thanks for calling and calling anytime okay thanks for having me cool and up left we have 0.95

01:51:04.780 ed 2991

01:51:09.340 coming in yeah i hope maylynn calls in again that was a good call uh

01:51:17.260 it says joining doesn't make sure you show like in the video subscribing to the channel

01:51:24.940 keep hitting that super chat button we really appreciate that edge 2991 are you there

01:51:30.700 you're on mute you're on mute edge 2991 he's probably listened to the youtube so he's like

01:51:38.620 14 15 seconds behind i'm here oh there you go what's your name ed edge oh okay edge you got hpv 0.98

01:51:53.260 no but um i had a long time ago okay i was aimed at liz's mom right and uh i was a total dick but 0.93

01:52:00.700 whatever she uh she told me later on which after she dumped me that she had hpv so i got really

01:52:05.740 worried and during that time i was really like broke so i went to a sperm bank to get a free uh

01:52:12.220 you know std test and i was hoping like you know what whatever at least i'll find out if i have it

01:52:17.420 or not and they'll just um they'll like you know reject me from donating sperm and i found out that

01:52:22.620 i'm totally clean and then they ended up taking me and then they uh donating sperm and then they

01:52:27.660 ended up uh testing me every three months and every three months to make sure that i was clean

01:52:32.060 and uh yeah that's pretty much it and i'm grateful that i don't have anything

01:52:35.800 um did she have did she end up getting cancer or no no not that i know of but she was trying

01:52:42.440 to get pregnant again and um i feel really bad that she was not able to oh because of the hpv

01:52:47.440 possibly but it was i just felt bad about that i mean i'm i don't know maybe i got lucky but

01:52:53.460 i'm not sure uh if you can still get it without protection yeah well men are more likely to give

01:52:58.640 it to women than women to men that's interesting yeah so i had no idea that if you wanted a free 1.00

01:53:06.200 scd test all you had to do is go to a sperm bank yeah you can do that in new york like the worst

01:53:13.600 they'll do is reject you men will always find a way to get what they need to get done done won't

01:53:19.260 we yeah and they test you every they test you every three months and if you come up dirty

01:53:24.700 and then you have to pay back all of the money that they paid you for for each deposit because

01:53:29.960 you signed a contract that's a wow i was like is there i was i was like i was like that's kind of

01:53:39.500 nice is there an egg donation one but i was like i don't want to do all that but i was like do you

01:53:45.380 like regularly donate sperm for money right now or was that just back then no just back then i did

01:53:50.600 83 deposits in about three years.

01:53:53.480 Well, you said how many?

01:53:55.700 83 deposits in three years.

01:53:58.880 And do they pay you or is it free?

01:54:01.040 Oh, no, no, no.

01:54:01.920 They pay you.

01:54:02.940 They pay you.

01:54:04.420 Wow.

01:54:04.840 They have to pay you.

01:54:05.480 Yeah.

01:54:07.320 They pay you at the end of every month.

01:54:09.720 And you haven't had any women, any women with kids trying to figure out who you are and

01:54:14.920 trying to come be for child support or anything like that?

01:54:17.560 No, no, no, no, not, not, not that I know of.

01:54:20.220 but you do have choices. You have like a choice where you can sign a contract where you don't

01:54:25.260 get, uh, you don't get any people or any woman or any kids, um, trying to contact you after 20

01:54:30.460 years and they pay you less. If you sign the other contract where they can't contact you after 20

01:54:35.680 years, they pay you more. Oh, cool. All right. Well, thanks for calling in. Uh, now you guys

01:54:44.820 now if you donate sperm you can get a free std test std test thanks buddy have a good one that's

01:54:52.760 funny one in the chat if you're gonna do that next time yikes i don't know if i could donate sperm 1.00

01:55:00.540 dude you know i don't have any children but i don't know if i could handle like having kids out

01:55:05.240 there what if you were like what if you were like 55 it's like you might as well at that point

01:55:10.720 wait but why if you don't need the money oh then you could have a kid out there you could like

01:55:18.300 continue the blood you know all the trads are always like continue my bloodline i'm like go

01:55:22.040 to the sperm bank there you go problem solved yeah but then you know what if you're what if 0.95

01:55:27.860 your kid ends up in the hands of two lesbians or something like that well sometimes people take 1.00

01:55:35.180 else in life yeah yeah but that's everybody cool um well thanks for um thanks for calling in

01:55:48.280 everybody i appreciate you guys being honest about this topic because i know it's kind of

01:55:51.900 embarrassing but maybe we'll have two or three more weeks of std fridays so if you guys have

01:55:57.280 ever had an std feel free to call in uh my final thoughts are i would pick hpv over herpes

01:56:05.320 but i would pick gonorrhea or chlamydia over hpv sean what are you picking

01:56:11.160 oh my god your gun to your head these are the these are the stds we've covered so far

01:56:15.960 my reasoning my reasoning is gonorrhea and chlamydia if it's caught fast 0.96

01:56:21.480 it's a shot and you're done and it's gone forever hpv and herpes are can be for life

01:56:29.640 so i'll take i'll take that first my second choice is hpv because uh you know if i do get cancer

01:56:37.240 from hpv it's going to be at 50 where herpes i'd have to spend the whole life with it

01:56:42.360 so herpes is my la even the cold sores i don't want those either i'm tired of everybody saying

01:56:48.040 that everybody gets cold sores i've never had a cold sore so so some of us did it and i don't

01:56:54.920 want it all right i know you can't pick none there's a gun to your head chat stop being boring

01:57:02.040 all right sean what are you picking nah i would agree with your line of logic same yeah um doug

01:57:11.400 uh yeah uh i would take hp well i take chlamydia and stuff first because you can get rid of that

01:57:18.760 Pills are shot. HPV, you know, I mean, HIV is dead last. And then, you know, if it's either

01:57:26.280 the herb derp or HIV, I mean, come on, the herb derp. Oh yeah, I'll take it. Yeah, true. Add that

01:57:32.520 on there too. Yeah. I'm not, I'm not fighting for my life. Damn. Oh yeah. I'm, I'm undetectable.

01:57:40.600 Yeah. But you still have the high five. So get out of my face. Not, not. It's one of those things,

01:57:46.520 you know it might not be the end not the high five but the herpes it the people that have it

01:57:52.440 say it's not the end of the world but it's like if you don't have it you don't want it i don't

01:57:56.280 even want the cold sores you know yeah that's true that's true but if i gotta face death 0.68

01:58:02.680 and a common cold can take me out negative that one is dumb serious a common cold can take oh 0.63

01:58:10.680 you mean hiv yeah yeah yeah nah i'm good yeah and you know doug we already got low white blood 0.62

01:58:19.480 counts as black so yeah i'm gonna pass i need all my white blood cells did i ever tell you guys my

01:58:26.040 one uh a conspiracy theory about it's one of the only conspiracy theories i believe in and has to

01:58:33.240 do with hiv um it's like from monkeys or something no so where what part of the world is hiv the most

01:58:42.600 prevalent you guys know china or africa africa south africa africa uh uh uh lesotho is a country

01:58:57.640 in south africa and then i think swaziland is too swazi yeah yeah yeah so surprise surprise yeah yeah 0.79

01:59:06.440 so um uh yeah so hiv acts like no other virus you know other viruses don't act in a way to kill the

01:59:18.680 host like you know viruses want to survive but um HIV is the only virus that acts the way that it

01:59:27.320 does right and it came from South Africa and what was going on in South Africa up until the 90s

01:59:33.720 apartheid right i i honestly i honestly believe that white South Africans engineered the high five 0.77

01:59:43.480 and tried to give it to the black population to take him out because like 80 percent no 80 percent 0.94

01:59:52.540 of cases of HIV in Swaziland Lesotho in South Africa are the black population and the white

01:59:58.180 population only has a small percentage of it I don't know if it's true or not I can't you know

02:00:03.400 I can't verify that at all but I mean come on now it's the only it's predominantly in South Africa

02:00:11.200 it's the only

02:00:12.740 virus that acts like that

02:00:15.820 come on

02:00:16.340 I don't know

02:00:19.440 I don't really know

02:00:21.560 but I don't want it

02:00:22.560 ladies if you go on a trip to South Africa 1.00

02:00:27.220 it's time to try celibacy

02:00:29.200 you might want to be celibate

02:00:31.460 on that trip

02:00:32.200 I'm not

02:00:34.980 risking that

02:00:36.320 okay well

02:00:39.640 thank you guys so much for contributing you got any final thoughts on the topic

02:00:45.480 um yeah hpv well the the guy that was on here he said at the best you know um

02:00:55.480 if you're making bad decisions out there you got to get punished hpv is not the worst punishment

02:01:00.200 um but you still want to i think we're coming to a consensus on here that women that look like they 1.00

02:01:10.520 would have herpes probably have herpes and women that look like they have hpv probably have it 1.00

02:01:15.320 so be careful guys um sean you got any final thoughts on the topic yeah i would add on that

02:01:22.800 too, Doug. Women who don't look like they have it, probably have it. So protect yourself at all times. 1.00

02:01:31.700 And use Sean's technique of convincing a woman to get a test before you dive in. 1.00

02:01:39.580 Yeah, that's great.

02:01:40.280 We are getting a test. Even if you got your test already, gentlemen, don't be like,

02:01:44.560 oh, I got my test. You got to go get yours. Go and say, hey, it's us. We're doing it together,

02:01:50.660 pearl let's go yeah we that's great that's a great ladies you too you know what i mean it's 0.82

02:01:59.620 you don't want to catch anything in these streets either you know what do you okay so fast who do

02:02:06.420 you think it are men or women more likely to want to be ignorant of the scd status women women for

02:02:16.500 sure okay for sure i never even heard a guy make up a hey it should be cool and we should have an

02:02:24.740 acronym that says you have hpv like only women would come up with something like that yeah 1.00

02:02:33.060 yeah all right guys um let me know in the comments if you have had experience with hpv

02:02:38.260 um put it in the comment section we'll pin the best ones or the most interesting ones

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Pearl - July 26, 2025

Modern Women and STD’s： HPV (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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