Pearl - Modern Women Are LOSING IT Over Men Who Don’t Take Them Seriously

00:00:00.000 and i asked a lot of men you know what are the girls like in your country what's it like to date 0.98

00:00:04.520 here and the thing that i kept hearing over and over is that the women in their country are very 0.99

00:00:09.460 difficult and hard to please i also noticed men in these countries will put so much more effort

00:00:15.740 so it's a country as simps she probably talked to a simp look women are women don't let them sell 1.00

00:00:20.780 you the dream of there's these women somewhere else that are not the same women act in their 1.00

00:00:26.160 environment so maybe in that environment they're a little different but you bring them to america

00:00:30.860 they do the same thing welcome to my reaction series where i react to the foolishness of modern

00:00:36.400 women on the internet today we are going to look at some of the women complaining about the dating 1.00

00:00:42.000 market women have changed the rules of dating and they don't like how men are responding they are 1.00

00:00:48.980 modern women that expect men to date them in a traditional way like courting men have listened 0.88

00:00:55.040 to women say that they are strong independent and don't need a man that they can pay for their 0.62

00:01:00.440 own food and that they don't owe men their bodies or their time along with this toxic rhetoric these 0.69

00:01:06.460 same women have raised their standards as they like to say now this has left the average man out of 1.00

00:01:12.660 the dating market and given the top 10 of men all the choice and the options this has led to so many

00:01:18.660 bitter women going on social media to complain about their experiences and the way men navigate

00:01:25.300 their current dating pool let's take a look dating in new york is really really bad right now like look 0.99

00:01:32.880 i look sexy as fuck mid sexy af well but you look like a normal woman let's just and not a single soul 0.98

00:01:41.340 not a single soul has looked in my way in my direction my directional pattern like you look 0.99

00:01:48.560 okay let's let's not gas this up to you i'm like if i knew no one was gonna stare at me or like give

00:01:55.220 me at least a compliment like i would have just worked out at home yeah here's the thing women have 1.00

00:02:00.680 ruined the gyms right so they went to the gym they they got naked men approached them and then they

00:02:05.340 said hey i'm just trying to work out therefore men stopped doing that they said hey we don't like

00:02:11.140 cat calling stop doing that and so the men said fine we're done and now now the women are mad yeah 0.91

00:02:17.440 like there's no need for me to be in a sports bra and nobody's asking me out on a date or like to 0.99

00:02:22.400 leave my house with me like i can't i can't also like yeah i'm not an emrata type bitch like feminist 1.00

00:02:29.580 type bitch like there's a reason i'm wearing a sports a tiny tiny sports bra there's a there's always a 1.00

00:02:36.020 reason this is the problem i don't think men can really feel bad for us when we get 0.98

00:02:41.080 a dating app and we download download it and get like 5 000 matches now you might not like all the

00:02:47.920 matches but out of 5 000 there's got to be someone i'm in a shitty mood because i'm a 30 year old

00:02:52.840 trying to date and it's just painful i need something i'm feeling rather annoyed right now

00:02:57.180 whenever i feel annoyed i feel like i need to pop off on something and that something is usually

00:03:00.500 tiktok so i feel like when it comes to dating i've been very chill and calm when it comes to

00:03:06.540 my old like set of standards that i held for myself i'm like okay i need like what the

00:03:11.420 i need like really high standards like i have high standards and i do but i feel like with dating like

00:03:17.340 i've kind of like realized to calm down a little bit in certain areas where i've been so high and

00:03:21.600 mighty and tight with like certain things you need to have and i like been relaxed on that and i'm still

00:03:26.680 just like not seeing or like feeling how i feel like i'm supposed to be feeling and it's just like

00:03:31.180 kind of upsetting because i'm like okay not that i'm lowering my standards i just feel like i'm

00:03:37.060 like opening up a little bit more and like growing up realizing that maybe certain things that i used

00:03:42.420 to think were like yeah so this is like the epiphany phase so she's getting close to the point she wants

00:03:48.000 kids she's got to go away from her type that's that's what she's saying she's mourning right she has

00:03:53.660 her type and now she's mourning that she has to go away from her type negatives are actually

00:03:57.860 positives and i don't know how to navigate it i'm in this weird limbo of like trying to grow

00:04:03.140 trying to learn and you know when you make excuses for someone in your head and then you kind of calm

00:04:07.880 yourself down and then you're like do i need to be making those excuses i'm just feeling defeated

00:04:13.560 because it's really hard to like start over that's called taking an l i just moved into this new sublet

00:04:18.880 in tel aviv isn't it beautiful anyway today i want to talk about an observation that i made about

00:04:24.240 dating cultures outside the u.s and why we are really failing as a society in america i was

00:04:31.020 traveling for like a month in greece italy dubai and israel and because i'm a dating app founder i

00:04:36.340 always ask people about their dating experiences and i asked a lot of men you know what are the

00:04:41.740 girls like in your country what's it like to date here and the thing that i kept hearing over and over

00:04:46.520 specifically in italy and israel is that the women in their country are very difficult and hard to 1.00

00:04:52.160 please in israel for example a woman will never have sex on the first date maybe the third maybe

00:04:58.440 the fourth first date not a thing i also noticed men in these countries will put so much more effort

00:05:05.680 into taking girls out on dates into actually getting to know them so it's a country of simps 0.98

00:05:12.240 right because that's what happened she probably talked to a simp look women are women don't don't 1.00

00:05:19.240 let them sell you the dream of there's these women somewhere else that are not the same women act in 1.00

00:05:25.140 their environment so maybe in that environment they're a little different but you bring them to

00:05:31.000 america they do the same thing and they're more open to having serious relationships and in a lot

00:05:36.660 of countries outside the u.s if you go on just a few dates with someone it is automatically assumed

00:05:41.120 that you're exclusive you don't even have to talk about it in the u.s a man can swipe right on a

00:05:46.720 dating app meet with a girl that same day who does that more men or women remember this is projection

00:05:51.740 and get into her bed that night who does that more men or women so why would he ever want to commit

00:05:57.300 he has thousands of girls at his disposal who has thousands of the opposite gender at their disposal 1.00

00:06:04.140 men or women what man gets thousands of matches on a date is that your dating app experience fellas 0.79

00:06:10.180 how many men get that that he can have sex with i totally believe that a woman has control of what 1.00

00:06:15.780 she wants to do with her body i believe sexual experience is very important but at the same time 0.99

00:06:20.640 i think we are totally shooting ourselves in the foot by being so supportive of sexual liberation

00:06:27.100 and this goes both ways man woman gay straight the more sexual options you have the less likely you are

00:06:33.020 to commit the more likely you are to flake to ghost to not be serious about someone so yes the women 0.76

00:06:38.440 in these countries might be more difficult to please but what's the opposite of difficult easy is that

00:06:43.540 what we want to be in the u.s i don't know now this is the old we want to raise the price on a bad

00:06:50.280 product to charge high prices you got to have a good product again this is a mid wanting eight plus

00:06:56.480 treatment unfortunately you know the mids got to know their place so here's a woman who's crying in 1.00

00:07:02.680 her car because of dating this might be dramatic i'm not saying that this is not is anyone else just

00:07:07.860 tired of dating i literally just sat in my car for 20 minutes oh this isn't the crying i was promised

00:07:14.280 crying because i'm so tired of point she just got ghosted this conversations and meaningless yeah her 0.99

00:07:21.920 her favorite guy ghosted reactions with people that go absolutely nowhere and by the way no no one has

00:07:27.200 hurt my feelings nothing has happened to trigger this she's lying except for me just realizing like

00:07:33.020 what is the point truly like no one dates with intention and actually wants anything serious and

00:07:40.560 it's just like the guys that she likes don't date with intention constant disappointment and i'm just

00:07:47.200 tired of having that negative energy in my life i also feel like i'm getting older and it's like i have

00:07:51.420 to put some effort into dating or i'm just gonna be alone forever but now i'm just honestly getting to

00:07:56.220 the point where i'm just gonna be the single amp good luck next we got a girl who got ghosted on a 1.00

00:08:01.640 date so welcome to i just got ghosted where do we even begin so to start this one off i really

00:08:10.540 resonated with a girl from melbourne who posted recently that she went on a hinge date was at the

00:08:16.160 restaurant and he never showed up and then he blocked her on everything so for some context i live in

00:08:24.320 queensland on the gold coast i'm originally from melbourne so my family's in melbourne i was down

00:08:30.100 two weeks ago and matched with this guy on tinder and yeah for two weeks now we have been talking

00:08:38.100 every day on the phone voice notes talking non-stop when i said to him you know he kept saying we need to

00:08:48.080 catch up and i was like well do you want me to come down easter weekend he said absolutely i'll book

00:08:54.700 your flights whatnot so today is easter saturday i am in melbourne i landed this morning we've been

00:09:06.040 talking all day i was meant to meet him this evening i got all dressed up and ready to go

00:09:13.560 and at 5pm he sent his last message and found a better option yep amid got ghosted this is this

00:09:25.300 is the life of amid yeah he found someone better that he was running to his mother's place to drop

00:09:33.980 something off and then we would spend the weekend together that was it that was the last i've heard

00:09:40.680 just vanished poof into thin air i've been actively dating on hinge and tinder for maybe six seven months

00:09:50.620 now and let me tell you all my dating stories are absolute disasters but this is the first time i've

00:09:57.040 been i bet she's a catfish she kind of looks like she would be a catfish like the lips the eyebrows 1.00

00:10:03.640 super hot ghosted before actually meeting and yeah i gave up shifts this weekend to come down

00:10:13.340 and spend the weekend with this guy and no excuse just nothing i know in hindsight i just think

00:10:22.060 everything happens for a reason it was that was what it was meant to happen in the universe but like

00:10:28.840 why me i'm just out here trying to find my soul mate and now but it's like what were you doing

00:10:34.520 before be real be honest and i don't know where he is or if he's lost he was in your friend zone 10

00:10:43.460 years ago yeah that's that's where he was i think he's stranded at sea somewhere if he is can the coast

00:10:49.920 guard go and find dating someone hotter sorry this is what it is right it's kind of like when a man gets

00:10:55.780 left like in a marriage or something it's not really a nice reality to think well she's hooking 0.67

00:11:03.080 up with someone better than me right i mean but that's what she's doing and if he's turning down 0.64

00:11:08.860 easy sex it's one of three things he figured out you were a catfish now he doesn't care number two 0.56

00:11:14.120 he found someone better like younger hotter whatever or three he had an opportunity like that came up 0.98

00:11:20.920 and he didn't really think you were worth telling and usually it's an opportunity for sex with someone

00:11:26.720 better so find him and bring him to shore because i moved states to find a man and i'm not finding any

00:11:34.880 in queensland so i thought i'll try someone from melbourne and see he was like yep if i met the right

00:11:45.400 person i would happily move well guys women are not enjoying the dating market too much it's been 1.00

00:11:51.340 rough out there so let me know what you guys think in the comments who has it harder in dating men or 0.98

00:11:56.900 women men it's so obviously men but let me know what you think please like the video on your way out

00:12:02.040 and subscribe and let me know what you want me to react to next time i will see you guys tomorrow

Pearl - April 11, 2025

Modern Women Are LOSING IT Over Men Who Don’t Take Them Seriously

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