Pearl - April 11, 2025


Modern Women Are LOSING IT Over Men Who Don’t Take Them Seriously

Mommunes — Men, You’re Cooked. She Blames Her Kids for Ruining Her Career

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12 minutes

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2,291

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Misogyny

26

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode of my reaction series where I react to the foolishness of modern women on the internet, we are going to look at some of the women complaining about the dating market. Women have changed the rules of dating and they don t like how men are responding. They are modern women that expect men to date them in a traditional way like courting men have listened to women say that they are strong, independent and don t need a man that they can pay for their own food and that they don't owe men their bodies or their time. Along with this toxic rhetoric, these same women have raised their standards as they like to say.

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00:00:00.000 and i asked a lot of men you know what are the girls like in your country what's it like to date 0.98
00:00:04.520 here and the thing that i kept hearing over and over is that the women in their country are very 0.99
00:00:09.460 difficult and hard to please i also noticed men in these countries will put so much more effort
00:00:15.740 so it's a country as simps she probably talked to a simp look women are women don't let them sell 1.00
00:00:20.780 you the dream of there's these women somewhere else that are not the same women act in their 1.00
00:00:26.160 environment so maybe in that environment they're a little different but you bring them to america
00:00:30.860 they do the same thing welcome to my reaction series where i react to the foolishness of modern
00:00:36.400 women on the internet today we are going to look at some of the women complaining about the dating 1.00
00:00:42.000 market women have changed the rules of dating and they don't like how men are responding they are 1.00
00:00:48.980 modern women that expect men to date them in a traditional way like courting men have listened 0.88
00:00:55.040 to women say that they are strong independent and don't need a man that they can pay for their 0.62
00:01:00.440 own food and that they don't owe men their bodies or their time along with this toxic rhetoric these 0.69
00:01:06.460 same women have raised their standards as they like to say now this has left the average man out of 1.00
00:01:12.660 the dating market and given the top 10 of men all the choice and the options this has led to so many
00:01:18.660 bitter women going on social media to complain about their experiences and the way men navigate
00:01:25.300 their current dating pool let's take a look dating in new york is really really bad right now like look 0.99
00:01:32.880 i look sexy as fuck mid sexy af well but you look like a normal woman let's just and not a single soul 0.98
00:01:41.340 not a single soul has looked in my way in my direction my directional pattern like you look 0.99
00:01:48.560 okay let's let's not gas this up to you i'm like if i knew no one was gonna stare at me or like give
00:01:55.220 me at least a compliment like i would have just worked out at home yeah here's the thing women have 1.00
00:02:00.680 ruined the gyms right so they went to the gym they they got naked men approached them and then they
00:02:05.340 said hey i'm just trying to work out therefore men stopped doing that they said hey we don't like
00:02:11.140 cat calling stop doing that and so the men said fine we're done and now now the women are mad yeah 0.91
00:02:17.440 like there's no need for me to be in a sports bra and nobody's asking me out on a date or like to 0.99
00:02:22.400 leave my house with me like i can't i can't also like yeah i'm not an emrata type bitch like feminist 1.00
00:02:29.580 type bitch like there's a reason i'm wearing a sports a tiny tiny sports bra there's a there's always a 1.00
00:02:36.020 reason this is the problem i don't think men can really feel bad for us when we get 0.98
00:02:41.080 a dating app and we download download it and get like 5 000 matches now you might not like all the
00:02:47.920 matches but out of 5 000 there's got to be someone i'm in a shitty mood because i'm a 30 year old
00:02:52.840 trying to date and it's just painful i need something i'm feeling rather annoyed right now
00:02:57.180 whenever i feel annoyed i feel like i need to pop off on something and that something is usually
00:03:00.500 tiktok so i feel like when it comes to dating i've been very chill and calm when it comes to
00:03:06.540 my old like set of standards that i held for myself i'm like okay i need like what the
00:03:11.420 i need like really high standards like i have high standards and i do but i feel like with dating like
00:03:17.340 i've kind of like realized to calm down a little bit in certain areas where i've been so high and
00:03:21.600 mighty and tight with like certain things you need to have and i like been relaxed on that and i'm still
00:03:26.680 just like not seeing or like feeling how i feel like i'm supposed to be feeling and it's just like
00:03:31.180 kind of upsetting because i'm like okay not that i'm lowering my standards i just feel like i'm
00:03:37.060 like opening up a little bit more and like growing up realizing that maybe certain things that i used
00:03:42.420 to think were like yeah so this is like the epiphany phase so she's getting close to the point she wants
00:03:48.000 kids she's got to go away from her type that's that's what she's saying she's mourning right she has
00:03:53.660 her type and now she's mourning that she has to go away from her type negatives are actually
00:03:57.860 positives and i don't know how to navigate it i'm in this weird limbo of like trying to grow
00:04:03.140 trying to learn and you know when you make excuses for someone in your head and then you kind of calm
00:04:07.880 yourself down and then you're like do i need to be making those excuses i'm just feeling defeated
00:04:13.560 because it's really hard to like start over that's called taking an l i just moved into this new sublet
00:04:18.880 in tel aviv isn't it beautiful anyway today i want to talk about an observation that i made about
00:04:24.240 dating cultures outside the u.s and why we are really failing as a society in america i was
00:04:31.020 traveling for like a month in greece italy dubai and israel and because i'm a dating app founder i
00:04:36.340 always ask people about their dating experiences and i asked a lot of men you know what are the
00:04:41.740 girls like in your country what's it like to date here and the thing that i kept hearing over and over
00:04:46.520 specifically in italy and israel is that the women in their country are very difficult and hard to 1.00
00:04:52.160 please in israel for example a woman will never have sex on the first date maybe the third maybe
00:04:58.440 the fourth first date not a thing i also noticed men in these countries will put so much more effort
00:05:05.680 into taking girls out on dates into actually getting to know them so it's a country of simps 0.98
00:05:12.240 right because that's what happened she probably talked to a simp look women are women don't don't 1.00
00:05:19.240 let them sell you the dream of there's these women somewhere else that are not the same women act in 1.00
00:05:25.140 their environment so maybe in that environment they're a little different but you bring them to
00:05:31.000 america they do the same thing and they're more open to having serious relationships and in a lot
00:05:36.660 of countries outside the u.s if you go on just a few dates with someone it is automatically assumed
00:05:41.120 that you're exclusive you don't even have to talk about it in the u.s a man can swipe right on a
00:05:46.720 dating app meet with a girl that same day who does that more men or women remember this is projection
00:05:51.740 and get into her bed that night who does that more men or women so why would he ever want to commit
00:05:57.300 he has thousands of girls at his disposal who has thousands of the opposite gender at their disposal 1.00
00:06:04.140 men or women what man gets thousands of matches on a date is that your dating app experience fellas 0.79
00:06:10.180 how many men get that that he can have sex with i totally believe that a woman has control of what 1.00
00:06:15.780 she wants to do with her body i believe sexual experience is very important but at the same time 0.99
00:06:20.640 i think we are totally shooting ourselves in the foot by being so supportive of sexual liberation
00:06:27.100 and this goes both ways man woman gay straight the more sexual options you have the less likely you are
00:06:33.020 to commit the more likely you are to flake to ghost to not be serious about someone so yes the women 0.76
00:06:38.440 in these countries might be more difficult to please but what's the opposite of difficult easy is that
00:06:43.540 what we want to be in the u.s i don't know now this is the old we want to raise the price on a bad
00:06:50.280 product to charge high prices you got to have a good product again this is a mid wanting eight plus
00:06:56.480 treatment unfortunately you know the mids got to know their place so here's a woman who's crying in 1.00
00:07:02.680 her car because of dating this might be dramatic i'm not saying that this is not is anyone else just
00:07:07.860 tired of dating i literally just sat in my car for 20 minutes oh this isn't the crying i was promised
00:07:14.280 crying because i'm so tired of point she just got ghosted this conversations and meaningless yeah her 0.99
00:07:21.920 her favorite guy ghosted reactions with people that go absolutely nowhere and by the way no no one has
00:07:27.200 hurt my feelings nothing has happened to trigger this she's lying except for me just realizing like
00:07:33.020 what is the point truly like no one dates with intention and actually wants anything serious and
00:07:40.560 it's just like the guys that she likes don't date with intention constant disappointment and i'm just
00:07:47.200 tired of having that negative energy in my life i also feel like i'm getting older and it's like i have
00:07:51.420 to put some effort into dating or i'm just gonna be alone forever but now i'm just honestly getting to
00:07:56.220 the point where i'm just gonna be the single amp good luck next we got a girl who got ghosted on a 1.00
00:08:01.640 date so welcome to i just got ghosted where do we even begin so to start this one off i really
00:08:10.540 resonated with a girl from melbourne who posted recently that she went on a hinge date was at the
00:08:16.160 restaurant and he never showed up and then he blocked her on everything so for some context i live in
00:08:24.320 queensland on the gold coast i'm originally from melbourne so my family's in melbourne i was down
00:08:30.100 two weeks ago and matched with this guy on tinder and yeah for two weeks now we have been talking
00:08:38.100 every day on the phone voice notes talking non-stop when i said to him you know he kept saying we need to
00:08:48.080 catch up and i was like well do you want me to come down easter weekend he said absolutely i'll book
00:08:54.700 your flights whatnot so today is easter saturday i am in melbourne i landed this morning we've been
00:09:06.040 talking all day i was meant to meet him this evening i got all dressed up and ready to go
00:09:13.560 and at 5pm he sent his last message and found a better option yep amid got ghosted this is this
00:09:25.300 is the life of amid yeah he found someone better that he was running to his mother's place to drop
00:09:33.980 something off and then we would spend the weekend together that was it that was the last i've heard
00:09:40.680 just vanished poof into thin air i've been actively dating on hinge and tinder for maybe six seven months
00:09:50.620 now and let me tell you all my dating stories are absolute disasters but this is the first time i've
00:09:57.040 been i bet she's a catfish she kind of looks like she would be a catfish like the lips the eyebrows 1.00
00:10:03.640 super hot ghosted before actually meeting and yeah i gave up shifts this weekend to come down
00:10:13.340 and spend the weekend with this guy and no excuse just nothing i know in hindsight i just think
00:10:22.060 everything happens for a reason it was that was what it was meant to happen in the universe but like
00:10:28.840 why me i'm just out here trying to find my soul mate and now but it's like what were you doing
00:10:34.520 before be real be honest and i don't know where he is or if he's lost he was in your friend zone 10
00:10:43.460 years ago yeah that's that's where he was i think he's stranded at sea somewhere if he is can the coast
00:10:49.920 guard go and find dating someone hotter sorry this is what it is right it's kind of like when a man gets
00:10:55.780 left like in a marriage or something it's not really a nice reality to think well she's hooking 0.67
00:11:03.080 up with someone better than me right i mean but that's what she's doing and if he's turning down 0.64
00:11:08.860 easy sex it's one of three things he figured out you were a catfish now he doesn't care number two 0.56
00:11:14.120 he found someone better like younger hotter whatever or three he had an opportunity like that came up 0.98
00:11:20.920 and he didn't really think you were worth telling and usually it's an opportunity for sex with someone
00:11:26.720 better so find him and bring him to shore because i moved states to find a man and i'm not finding any
00:11:34.880 in queensland so i thought i'll try someone from melbourne and see he was like yep if i met the right
00:11:45.400 person i would happily move well guys women are not enjoying the dating market too much it's been 1.00
00:11:51.340 rough out there so let me know what you guys think in the comments who has it harder in dating men or 0.98
00:11:56.900 women men it's so obviously men but let me know what you think please like the video on your way out
00:12:02.040 and subscribe and let me know what you want me to react to next time i will see you guys tomorrow