Pearl - September 28, 2026


Modern Women Are Making Dating IMPOSSIBLE

Mentioned
Pamela Anderson Madewell Rosewood
Modern Women Have TOO MUCH not TOO LITTLE community Women Having MELTDOWNS Over Completely Normal Dates

Episode Stats


Length

16 minutes

Words per minute

209.01

Word count

3,474

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Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

11

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Hate speech

24

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Transcript

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00:00:00 what's up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are going to talk about women um
00:00:07 what's up guys welcome to my reaction series so today we're talking about the female
00:00:11 laziness epidemic so this is an epidemic that has really entrenched our culture
00:00:17 and today we're going to listen to women talk about their horror stories and how much um they
00:00:22 just have a hard time dating and what we know on this channel is usually the date's fine it's really
00:00:26 not that bad and if the men do anything it's just something that women have done to them you know so
00:00:32 anyways uh with that in mind let's listen to what the ladies have to say also i'm doing an event 0.61
00:00:37 next weekend friday saturday um you get to hang out with me tacos and tequila friday 0.99
00:00:42 uh saturday we're gonna go to a gun range and a ufc fighter is gonna teach us how to fight
00:00:48 um so it's gonna be a lot of fun the vip is for the two day um tacos and tequila friday i don't
00:00:53 don't have the event day or um i'll have the invent instructions sent out this week you have
00:01:00 to keep it private for security reasons so i had such a bad date experience last night that i
00:01:05 canceled the date i was supposed to go on tonight because i woke up feeling so icky
00:01:10 dude you made the dinner reservation i didn't even want to do dinner okay she didn't want to
00:01:16 do dinner he does dinner okay i'm also going to share my thoughts on online dating updating at
00:01:21 the end of this because all it takes is one date i'm usually not a dinner for the first date type
00:01:27 of person i would never pick that if it were up to me but i got a sense okay so all right from this
00:01:35 person's prompts on hinge by the way this is the first hinge date first and last hinge i've ever 0.96
00:01:40 been on i got a sense that's what i mean women are such quitters we are such quitters you have 0.98
00:01:45 so many date choices one bad date one bad date and we're just gonna call it that didn't make
00:01:51 you give up on one night stands he didn't drink so i'm like whatever we can do dinner so we go
00:01:57 to this restaurant which by the way my cousin who's like a huge foodie she's in hospitality
00:02:02 was like don't go to this restaurant but i already tried to give one excuse and he didn't
00:02:06 he wasn't quite getting the vibes that i didn't want to go there so i'm like whatever i'm just
00:02:11 gonna be easy okay so you got free dinner we can just never look at the bright side of things
00:02:16 and go there i text him i'm five minutes late why does he text me he's also five minutes late
00:02:22 why are you not already sitting at the restaurant as we're walking into the restaurant he gives me
00:02:27 like an up and down of my outfit doesn't say it he's not like nice outfit he just kind of stares
00:02:31 at my outfit walks inside he almost takes the better seat and i like swerve i'm like no i'm
00:02:36 facing the restaurant you're not sitting there immediately we get into what I do for work which
00:02:41 like I am proud of my work I'm proud that I work for myself but I think there's a bit of nuance to
00:02:48 it like owning a stationary business like it doesn't it's big like you know we're doing like
00:02:54 exciting stuff we just worked with Pamela Anderson and we just worked with Madewell and we're working
00:02:59 with Rosewood and like obviously I don't even know why I'm externalizing to all of these like
00:03:04 outside companies to legitimize it because it's an amazing company that i'm building but
00:03:10 immediately like says i say what i do for work i say that i do social media his response to
00:03:16 all of that is oh i don't have instagram which also wasn't true because later in the night he
00:03:21 was on instagram which i'll get to so kind of immediately just makes me feel like weird and
00:03:26 shitty about my job which okay men don't like this i'll tell you what they call me a pick me for this
00:03:32 this job but i'm telling you guys do not like this job this is not if ladies i promise to god if you
00:03:39 say should i become a streamer to get higher quality men i want you to know that is not what's
00:03:46 in the cards for you um you get access to higher quality but i will say you do get access but like
00:03:53 you get in the room i guess with more like famous guys or whatever but they're looking for the girls
00:03:59 without social media so I already have been doing so much work to like not feel that way for 15
00:04:06 years that whatever so I'm like I'm just gonna brush that off the waitress comes over she's so
00:04:12 lovely she recommends a few dishes for us and he doesn't drink but I'm like I clearly need a glass 0.98
00:04:18 of wine for this situation so I get a glass of wine he orders everything all right I think women
00:04:23 we gotta master the art and I'll tell you what as a girl if I ever feel myself getting offended by
00:04:28 something a guy says you got to learn to just say nothing because usually if you let him talk
00:04:34 it's not as bad as you think it's just your interpretation yeah our minds we interpret
00:04:39 things in the most insecure way we possibly can and you just got to overcome it and that she
00:04:43 doesn't recommend also doesn't consult me which goes back to if you ruminate on it it's the female 0.98
00:04:48 laziness epidemic you need something else to do one thing i say is i don't want anchovies and he's 1.00
00:04:54 like I think I'm in a fish mood which um okay what makes you think that I would want that from
00:04:59 saying the one thing I don't want on this menu is anchovies proceeds to order like fish dishes
00:05:03 whatever the waitress says this is like no food you guys should order another entree or at least
00:05:09 a small dish are you are you guys hungry he goes no I'm not hi hi you invited me to dinner do you
00:05:17 care to even ask me if I want to eat so I look at the waitress I'm like we'll add the tomato dish
00:05:22 it sounds lovely so she walks away and oh he gets a spark a huge bottle of sparkling water which i
00:05:29 might forget to add this detail at the end of the dinner the entire thing is done he goes that was
00:05:34 the best water i've ever had you want to try some um oh the drop at the bottom i'm fine thank you so 0.91
00:05:40 much for offering okay so then this okay where is the ball dropping bitch do you know what i've been 0.98
00:05:47 through do you know what it's like i mean honestly i'll hear these women's dating stories and i'm 1.00
00:05:54 like i promise to god i've had worse and i'm not even gonna get into it on the internet but like 0.54
00:05:59 dude get the fuck out of here the waitress goes away and he goes oh i just was about to send 0.91
00:06:05 something when you got here do you mind if i just send something on my phone so i'm like 0.99
00:06:08 yeah that's fine he proceeds to spend at least five minutes i'm not exaggerating it probably 0.96
00:06:13 with seven minutes on his phone and i'm not bringing my phone out like why the fuck would
00:06:18 i bring my phone out at dinner so i'm just like looking around this restaurant and at one point 0.76
00:06:22 i just start looking at him because i'm like this is unbelievable that i'm just sitting here and 0.99
00:06:26 he's on his phone he's also not giving me any explanation and women do this all the time women
00:06:30 we're on our phones 24 7 so like apologies he's just sitting on his phone so after i was like
00:06:38 what were you doing on your phone and he said he was looking for a file to send to someone but he
00:06:43 can't find the file so also I'm going to forget to bring this up but later in the dinner when
00:06:48 there's food on the table he does this again with the phone I really hope that this video gets to
00:06:56 the waitress because I was mortified to be like associated with this man and I just need her to
00:07:00 know I'm sure she does but that this was a first date and it gets so much worse okay so he's a
00:07:06 horrible conversationalist he's seven years older than me he has like a really interesting job he
00:07:12 owns a business which also i'm like okay you own your own business you should at least recognize
00:07:17 like okay i'm hustling too we have things in common that we can talk about the food starts
00:07:22 coming down he's not talking about anything he's he's bringing up these things that he has like
00:07:26 really interesting he's like traveled a lot he's done all these things i'm asking him about it
00:07:30 one of the things he says he's like i've been to burning man six times okay red flag obviously and
00:07:37 i go oh my gosh i've never met anyone who's been to burning man like can you tell me about it he
00:07:41 goes oh there's an hbo documentary you should just watch it dude we're on a date like help me out i
00:07:47 actually don't give a shit about burning man but like we need to talk about something say something 0.92
00:07:52 he's obviously not asking me any questions yeah you know maybe he's trying to test how well you 0.98
00:07:57 sit in silence he asked me where i grew up and where i go to school and then he starts making
00:08:02 like generalizations about both of these places the food starts to come and he is not touching
00:08:08 the food he maybe gets like one little piece of chicory salad and he puts it on his plate and he
00:08:15 goes i'm so full they hustled us they hustled us we're at a wine bar these plates are literally
00:08:21 this big okay she's just nitpicking everything i want to see if there's any men in the comments
00:08:26 oh my god he goes i just had like a huge lunch at four i go did you not think about the fact
00:08:33 that you had a dinner reservation at eight tonight he goes no you just like go to these
00:08:38 restaurants every restaurant does this now where they always say that you should order more i'm
00:08:43 like dude there's no food on the table then he goes all like this is probably 3 000 calories 0.78
00:08:48 what you did not just fucking bring that up and also i was talking to my cousin she's like you 0.83
00:08:54 don't know what relationship people have with food like don't say that i say to him i'm like 0.95
00:09:00 you have to help me okay do you know what that's helpful 3 000 calories that's helpful with this
00:09:04 that's something i would do i don't like give him give him my number leaving restaurants with so
00:09:10 much food on the table feels very wasteful so then he picks it up salad and takes it and eats it
00:09:16 oh my god dude you made the dinner reservation i didn't even want to do dinner everybody says
00:09:22 sorry this happened to you and this isn't bad at all why are you not eating anything at some point
00:09:29 i like motion to the waitress and i'm like i think we're all set here even though there's
00:09:33 so much food on the table i feel horrible about this even though i've been eating like everything
00:09:37 that i can despite him saying how many calories i'm eating so she takes the food away she brings
00:09:43 the check over and he goes can i pay with apple pay why don't you have your wallet you're a grown
00:09:48 man anyways whatever he pays with apple pay and we're sitting there and i'm like okay i think
00:09:56 let's like head out whatever i'm not paying attention to like the bill of it all because
00:10:00 that's not my responsibility in this situation we go outside we're waiting for probably like
00:10:05 three minutes for both of our ubers to come guys this is the worst part the waitress comes out and
00:10:12 she goes oh like i'm so sorry i think you maybe forgot to like sign he didn't leave a tip he
00:10:17 didn't leave a tip and i gave him the benefit of the doubt for the first like 30 seconds and then
00:10:22 i was like oh my god this man has been saying that we've been hustled all dinner this was intentional
00:10:27 that was the worst part of the whole day and then his uber came mine was a minute away wow 1.00
00:10:34 this wasn't that bad i mean this is what i mean women it's a female laziness epidemic we're just 1.00
00:10:38 so fucking soft we're so soft get over it this is what i mean women are just brats all right let's 0.98
00:10:45 let's see this one ever heard i just have to share this and this is why you have to be careful when 0.99
00:10:50 you hook up with people when you're traveling to a foreign country oh no girl we're just gonna i'm
00:10:56 just gonna call her natalie i'll just use my name so natalie was traveling to i don't say the name
00:11:00 of the country but she traveled overseas from america and he was in this country for only a
00:11:06 few days and she ended up meeting this guy at a bar we're gonna call him sam so sam and natalie
00:11:10 headed off and they go to multiple dinners together where i was told that natalie said that
00:11:16 he was constantly feeding her like insane amount of food at each dinner it was her last night with
00:11:20 sam and she still hadn't gone back to his place and he was really adamant about her coming back
00:11:24 home with him and kept asking her at dinner like oh you're gonna come back home right you're gonna
00:11:28 come back home with me like you'll be tomorrow Natalie got a little bit creeped out by it and
00:11:32 she ended up calling her sister because her and her sister were on the trip together and she left
00:11:36 the dinner she didn't go back she's like oh my sister needs me I gotta go blah blah blah and
00:11:39 she said like Sam was blowing up her phone anyways she gets on her flight she goes back to
00:11:43 the United States and she develops can't even say it she develops a rash on her back so she goes to
00:11:51 dermatologist well the dermatologist hey like i just came back from this country like i developed
00:11:55 this rash not sure what this is test for it and then you know let me know what comes back
00:12:00 so she was on campus when she got the call from her dermatologist and her dermatologist
00:12:04 why am i saying it like that her dermatologist was like call me right now so her germ calls
00:12:10 her and she's like what are you doing what happened okay it's right now police are going
00:12:15 to be here and she's like what's going on she's like come i can't see it over the phone the girl
00:12:20 comes to the dermatologist's office and it wasn't even the police it was fbi what the rash was on
00:12:27 her back was actually a cream that was put that's used for cannibalism the fbi ended up asking her
00:12:33 like who have you met with in the last six months she told him about the guy fbi ends up working
00:12:38 with the police in that country they raid the guy's apartment and they found multiple schools
00:12:44 and limbs that belonged to several women that were missing he fully intended on killing her
00:12:49 and eating her apparently like that's the reason why he was taking her to dinner and trying to 0.72
00:12:53 really get her cool he just didn't even know oh my god i'm so shocked right now oh my god okay
00:13:01 that's pretty bad okay that's pretty bad oh girl what the who are you dating that's what i mean
00:13:08 it's like it's like we have all these dating apps and we still pick the guy on demon time like that
00:13:15 you know what i mean okay i already gave up the dating apps but this just let this be a warning
00:13:21 to everyone out there who's still on them don't trust anybody i know that sounds crazy and a
00:13:27 little cynical a lot cynical but i've now had way too many experiences where i just think it's too
00:13:35 easy to be this ideal person on those apps and so many women get caught in these kind of traps
00:13:42 where you're already five six dates they're two colors and it's not what you signed up for so i
00:13:49 did a guy okay that's women though women men are kind of what they signed up that's the thing
00:13:54 everything women say about men is projection it's projection you know last november and i really
00:14:00 liked him he was coming out of he was engaged um like six months prior and that's when it well they
00:14:07 broke off their engagement like six months before we started dating so he'd had some time to kind of
00:14:12 like heal and reflect he told me he was in therapy now still they did it for a long time so i kind of
00:14:18 was like proceeding with caution because i knew okay there's no way this man is just fully healed
00:14:23 and ready for a serious relationship again which is what i'm looking for but we got along really
00:14:29 well he was super funny really cute he we just had so much in common he was so chivalrous i don't
00:14:38 know he just did everything right but in the back of my head i was kind of like okay this is going
00:14:42 almost too well you know what's the catch so i had doubts but not really any proof to back it up
00:14:50 we went on four dates and do you guys want to hear a story i could just feel he was a little
00:14:57 bit more distant and i saw that he was still on all the apps and like i mean all the apps he was
00:15:02 on like four different dating apps so i just told him hey you know it's been really nice getting to
00:15:07 know you i think we're looking for different things here and i'm just gonna take a step back
00:15:11 and he just didn't respond i sent like a nice message but i just like i i wasn't getting what
00:15:18 i needed back a few months later i see okay ladies so he was dating other people we date
00:15:24 other people all the time it's just him on raya or he sees me on raya and he messages me and it's
00:15:31 like hey i'm so sorry about the way things ended blah blah i wasn't in a great place hope you're
00:15:36 doing well kind of hinting that he wanted to see me and i was just like wish you the best i'm so
00:15:41 sorry you were going through a hard time and i hope it's better now but you know don't bring 0.98
00:15:45 me into your mess i had posted him in this group i won't reveal the group oh no bitch so let me get 1.00
00:15:51 straight this is a horror story for you and you aired him out get the out of here but the girls 1.00
00:15:56 that know know um it's a confidential group of women that you can post somebody and see if
00:16:03 anyone's had negative dating experiences it's mostly for like you know dangerous guys or like 0.99
00:16:10 guys with girlfriends those kind all right so then she posted him in the group and it was hell on 0.90
00:16:15 earth um women just made up all right guys um let me know what you think of the comments i love you
00:16:20 thank you so much for watching um but let me know in the comments what is your version imagine if
00:16:25 you went on dates with this these women what would be your side of the story let me know 0.97
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