Pearl - Modern Women Are Making Dating IMPOSSIBLE

00:00:00.240 what's up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are going to talk about women um

00:00:07.600 what's up guys welcome to my reaction series so today we're talking about the female

00:00:11.520 laziness epidemic so this is an epidemic that has really entrenched our culture

00:00:17.200 and today we're going to listen to women talk about their horror stories and how much um they

00:00:22.480 just have a hard time dating and what we know on this channel is usually the date's fine it's really

00:00:26.720 not that bad and if the men do anything it's just something that women have done to them you know so

00:00:32.960 anyways uh with that in mind let's listen to what the ladies have to say also i'm doing an event 0.61

00:00:37.600 next weekend friday saturday um you get to hang out with me tacos and tequila friday 0.99

00:00:42.960 uh saturday we're gonna go to a gun range and a ufc fighter is gonna teach us how to fight

00:00:48.160 um so it's gonna be a lot of fun the vip is for the two day um tacos and tequila friday i don't

00:00:53.520 don't have the event day or um i'll have the invent instructions sent out this week you have

00:01:00.560 to keep it private for security reasons so i had such a bad date experience last night that i

00:01:05.760 canceled the date i was supposed to go on tonight because i woke up feeling so icky

00:01:10.380 dude you made the dinner reservation i didn't even want to do dinner okay she didn't want to

00:01:16.400 do dinner he does dinner okay i'm also going to share my thoughts on online dating updating at

00:01:21.360 the end of this because all it takes is one date i'm usually not a dinner for the first date type

00:01:27.300 of person i would never pick that if it were up to me but i got a sense okay so all right from this

00:01:35.220 person's prompts on hinge by the way this is the first hinge date first and last hinge i've ever 0.96

00:01:40.140 been on i got a sense that's what i mean women are such quitters we are such quitters you have 0.98

00:01:45.580 so many date choices one bad date one bad date and we're just gonna call it that didn't make

00:01:51.500 you give up on one night stands he didn't drink so i'm like whatever we can do dinner so we go

00:01:57.420 to this restaurant which by the way my cousin who's like a huge foodie she's in hospitality

00:02:02.420 was like don't go to this restaurant but i already tried to give one excuse and he didn't

00:02:06.800 he wasn't quite getting the vibes that i didn't want to go there so i'm like whatever i'm just

00:02:11.220 gonna be easy okay so you got free dinner we can just never look at the bright side of things

00:02:16.220 and go there i text him i'm five minutes late why does he text me he's also five minutes late

00:02:22.160 why are you not already sitting at the restaurant as we're walking into the restaurant he gives me

00:02:27.060 like an up and down of my outfit doesn't say it he's not like nice outfit he just kind of stares

00:02:31.780 at my outfit walks inside he almost takes the better seat and i like swerve i'm like no i'm

00:02:36.740 facing the restaurant you're not sitting there immediately we get into what I do for work which

00:02:41.720 like I am proud of my work I'm proud that I work for myself but I think there's a bit of nuance to

00:02:48.580 it like owning a stationary business like it doesn't it's big like you know we're doing like

00:02:54.460 exciting stuff we just worked with Pamela Anderson and we just worked with Madewell and we're working

00:02:59.940 with Rosewood and like obviously I don't even know why I'm externalizing to all of these like

00:03:04.380 outside companies to legitimize it because it's an amazing company that i'm building but

00:03:10.700 immediately like says i say what i do for work i say that i do social media his response to

00:03:16.220 all of that is oh i don't have instagram which also wasn't true because later in the night he

00:03:21.820 was on instagram which i'll get to so kind of immediately just makes me feel like weird and

00:03:26.060 shitty about my job which okay men don't like this i'll tell you what they call me a pick me for this

00:03:32.220 this job but i'm telling you guys do not like this job this is not if ladies i promise to god if you

00:03:39.640 say should i become a streamer to get higher quality men i want you to know that is not what's

00:03:46.540 in the cards for you um you get access to higher quality but i will say you do get access but like

00:03:53.900 you get in the room i guess with more like famous guys or whatever but they're looking for the girls

00:03:59.040 without social media so I already have been doing so much work to like not feel that way for 15

00:04:06.340 years that whatever so I'm like I'm just gonna brush that off the waitress comes over she's so

00:04:12.640 lovely she recommends a few dishes for us and he doesn't drink but I'm like I clearly need a glass 0.98

00:04:18.600 of wine for this situation so I get a glass of wine he orders everything all right I think women

00:04:23.340 we gotta master the art and I'll tell you what as a girl if I ever feel myself getting offended by

00:04:28.860 something a guy says you got to learn to just say nothing because usually if you let him talk

00:04:34.020 it's not as bad as you think it's just your interpretation yeah our minds we interpret

00:04:39.280 things in the most insecure way we possibly can and you just got to overcome it and that she

00:04:43.540 doesn't recommend also doesn't consult me which goes back to if you ruminate on it it's the female 0.98

00:04:48.880 laziness epidemic you need something else to do one thing i say is i don't want anchovies and he's 1.00

00:04:54.460 like I think I'm in a fish mood which um okay what makes you think that I would want that from

00:04:59.440 saying the one thing I don't want on this menu is anchovies proceeds to order like fish dishes

00:05:03.800 whatever the waitress says this is like no food you guys should order another entree or at least

00:05:09.920 a small dish are you are you guys hungry he goes no I'm not hi hi you invited me to dinner do you

00:05:17.180 care to even ask me if I want to eat so I look at the waitress I'm like we'll add the tomato dish

00:05:22.280 it sounds lovely so she walks away and oh he gets a spark a huge bottle of sparkling water which i

00:05:29.400 might forget to add this detail at the end of the dinner the entire thing is done he goes that was

00:05:34.060 the best water i've ever had you want to try some um oh the drop at the bottom i'm fine thank you so 0.91

00:05:40.560 much for offering okay so then this okay where is the ball dropping bitch do you know what i've been 0.98

00:05:47.320 through do you know what it's like i mean honestly i'll hear these women's dating stories and i'm 1.00

00:05:54.120 like i promise to god i've had worse and i'm not even gonna get into it on the internet but like 0.54

00:05:59.060 dude get the fuck out of here the waitress goes away and he goes oh i just was about to send 0.91

00:06:05.040 something when you got here do you mind if i just send something on my phone so i'm like 0.99

00:06:08.320 yeah that's fine he proceeds to spend at least five minutes i'm not exaggerating it probably 0.96

00:06:13.960 with seven minutes on his phone and i'm not bringing my phone out like why the fuck would

00:06:18.420 i bring my phone out at dinner so i'm just like looking around this restaurant and at one point 0.76

00:06:22.700 i just start looking at him because i'm like this is unbelievable that i'm just sitting here and 0.99

00:06:26.680 he's on his phone he's also not giving me any explanation and women do this all the time women

00:06:30.800 we're on our phones 24 7 so like apologies he's just sitting on his phone so after i was like

00:06:38.560 what were you doing on your phone and he said he was looking for a file to send to someone but he

00:06:43.720 can't find the file so also I'm going to forget to bring this up but later in the dinner when

00:06:48.240 there's food on the table he does this again with the phone I really hope that this video gets to

00:06:56.020 the waitress because I was mortified to be like associated with this man and I just need her to

00:07:00.780 know I'm sure she does but that this was a first date and it gets so much worse okay so he's a

00:07:06.580 horrible conversationalist he's seven years older than me he has like a really interesting job he

00:07:12.020 owns a business which also i'm like okay you own your own business you should at least recognize

00:07:17.360 like okay i'm hustling too we have things in common that we can talk about the food starts

00:07:22.520 coming down he's not talking about anything he's he's bringing up these things that he has like

00:07:26.580 really interesting he's like traveled a lot he's done all these things i'm asking him about it

00:07:30.920 one of the things he says he's like i've been to burning man six times okay red flag obviously and

00:07:37.360 i go oh my gosh i've never met anyone who's been to burning man like can you tell me about it he

00:07:41.300 goes oh there's an hbo documentary you should just watch it dude we're on a date like help me out i

00:07:47.340 actually don't give a shit about burning man but like we need to talk about something say something 0.92

00:07:52.740 he's obviously not asking me any questions yeah you know maybe he's trying to test how well you 0.98

00:07:57.460 sit in silence he asked me where i grew up and where i go to school and then he starts making

00:08:02.060 like generalizations about both of these places the food starts to come and he is not touching

00:08:08.700 the food he maybe gets like one little piece of chicory salad and he puts it on his plate and he

00:08:15.140 goes i'm so full they hustled us they hustled us we're at a wine bar these plates are literally

00:08:21.280 this big okay she's just nitpicking everything i want to see if there's any men in the comments

00:08:26.620 oh my god he goes i just had like a huge lunch at four i go did you not think about the fact

00:08:33.140 that you had a dinner reservation at eight tonight he goes no you just like go to these

00:08:38.240 restaurants every restaurant does this now where they always say that you should order more i'm

00:08:43.020 like dude there's no food on the table then he goes all like this is probably 3 000 calories 0.78

00:08:48.100 what you did not just fucking bring that up and also i was talking to my cousin she's like you 0.83

00:08:54.680 don't know what relationship people have with food like don't say that i say to him i'm like 0.95

00:09:00.040 you have to help me okay do you know what that's helpful 3 000 calories that's helpful with this

00:09:04.600 that's something i would do i don't like give him give him my number leaving restaurants with so

00:09:10.620 much food on the table feels very wasteful so then he picks it up salad and takes it and eats it

00:09:16.480 oh my god dude you made the dinner reservation i didn't even want to do dinner everybody says

00:09:22.600 sorry this happened to you and this isn't bad at all why are you not eating anything at some point

00:09:29.740 i like motion to the waitress and i'm like i think we're all set here even though there's

00:09:33.340 so much food on the table i feel horrible about this even though i've been eating like everything

00:09:37.980 that i can despite him saying how many calories i'm eating so she takes the food away she brings

00:09:43.340 the check over and he goes can i pay with apple pay why don't you have your wallet you're a grown

00:09:48.220 man anyways whatever he pays with apple pay and we're sitting there and i'm like okay i think

00:09:56.220 let's like head out whatever i'm not paying attention to like the bill of it all because

00:10:00.300 that's not my responsibility in this situation we go outside we're waiting for probably like

00:10:05.340 three minutes for both of our ubers to come guys this is the worst part the waitress comes out and

00:10:12.060 she goes oh like i'm so sorry i think you maybe forgot to like sign he didn't leave a tip he

00:10:17.980 didn't leave a tip and i gave him the benefit of the doubt for the first like 30 seconds and then

00:10:22.380 i was like oh my god this man has been saying that we've been hustled all dinner this was intentional

00:10:27.100 that was the worst part of the whole day and then his uber came mine was a minute away wow 1.00

00:10:34.040 this wasn't that bad i mean this is what i mean women it's a female laziness epidemic we're just 1.00

00:10:38.760 so fucking soft we're so soft get over it this is what i mean women are just brats all right let's 0.98

00:10:45.200 let's see this one ever heard i just have to share this and this is why you have to be careful when 0.99

00:10:50.300 you hook up with people when you're traveling to a foreign country oh no girl we're just gonna i'm

00:10:56.380 just gonna call her natalie i'll just use my name so natalie was traveling to i don't say the name

00:11:00.860 of the country but she traveled overseas from america and he was in this country for only a

00:11:06.060 few days and she ended up meeting this guy at a bar we're gonna call him sam so sam and natalie

00:11:10.780 headed off and they go to multiple dinners together where i was told that natalie said that

00:11:16.140 he was constantly feeding her like insane amount of food at each dinner it was her last night with

00:11:20.620 sam and she still hadn't gone back to his place and he was really adamant about her coming back

00:11:24.540 home with him and kept asking her at dinner like oh you're gonna come back home right you're gonna

00:11:28.340 come back home with me like you'll be tomorrow Natalie got a little bit creeped out by it and

00:11:32.160 she ended up calling her sister because her and her sister were on the trip together and she left

00:11:36.020 the dinner she didn't go back she's like oh my sister needs me I gotta go blah blah blah and

00:11:39.640 she said like Sam was blowing up her phone anyways she gets on her flight she goes back to

00:11:43.960 the United States and she develops can't even say it she develops a rash on her back so she goes to

00:11:51.340 dermatologist well the dermatologist hey like i just came back from this country like i developed

00:11:55.900 this rash not sure what this is test for it and then you know let me know what comes back

00:12:00.140 so she was on campus when she got the call from her dermatologist and her dermatologist

00:12:04.540 why am i saying it like that her dermatologist was like call me right now so her germ calls

00:12:10.780 her and she's like what are you doing what happened okay it's right now police are going

00:12:15.980 to be here and she's like what's going on she's like come i can't see it over the phone the girl

00:12:20.620 comes to the dermatologist's office and it wasn't even the police it was fbi what the rash was on

00:12:27.180 her back was actually a cream that was put that's used for cannibalism the fbi ended up asking her

00:12:33.740 like who have you met with in the last six months she told him about the guy fbi ends up working

00:12:38.780 with the police in that country they raid the guy's apartment and they found multiple schools

00:12:44.060 and limbs that belonged to several women that were missing he fully intended on killing her

00:12:49.820 and eating her apparently like that's the reason why he was taking her to dinner and trying to 0.72

00:12:53.900 really get her cool he just didn't even know oh my god i'm so shocked right now oh my god okay

00:13:01.980 that's pretty bad okay that's pretty bad oh girl what the who are you dating that's what i mean

00:13:08.700 it's like it's like we have all these dating apps and we still pick the guy on demon time like that

00:13:15.340 you know what i mean okay i already gave up the dating apps but this just let this be a warning

00:13:21.260 to everyone out there who's still on them don't trust anybody i know that sounds crazy and a

00:13:27.740 little cynical a lot cynical but i've now had way too many experiences where i just think it's too

00:13:35.340 easy to be this ideal person on those apps and so many women get caught in these kind of traps

00:13:42.380 where you're already five six dates they're two colors and it's not what you signed up for so i

00:13:49.180 did a guy okay that's women though women men are kind of what they signed up that's the thing

00:13:54.220 everything women say about men is projection it's projection you know last november and i really

00:14:00.540 liked him he was coming out of he was engaged um like six months prior and that's when it well they

00:14:07.980 broke off their engagement like six months before we started dating so he'd had some time to kind of

00:14:12.780 like heal and reflect he told me he was in therapy now still they did it for a long time so i kind of

00:14:18.140 was like proceeding with caution because i knew okay there's no way this man is just fully healed

00:14:23.900 and ready for a serious relationship again which is what i'm looking for but we got along really

00:14:29.180 well he was super funny really cute he we just had so much in common he was so chivalrous i don't

00:14:38.240 know he just did everything right but in the back of my head i was kind of like okay this is going

00:14:42.800 almost too well you know what's the catch so i had doubts but not really any proof to back it up

00:14:50.620 we went on four dates and do you guys want to hear a story i could just feel he was a little

00:14:57.200 bit more distant and i saw that he was still on all the apps and like i mean all the apps he was

00:15:02.500 on like four different dating apps so i just told him hey you know it's been really nice getting to

00:15:07.460 know you i think we're looking for different things here and i'm just gonna take a step back

00:15:11.480 and he just didn't respond i sent like a nice message but i just like i i wasn't getting what

00:15:18.720 i needed back a few months later i see okay ladies so he was dating other people we date

00:15:24.960 other people all the time it's just him on raya or he sees me on raya and he messages me and it's

00:15:31.520 like hey i'm so sorry about the way things ended blah blah i wasn't in a great place hope you're

00:15:36.500 doing well kind of hinting that he wanted to see me and i was just like wish you the best i'm so

00:15:41.500 sorry you were going through a hard time and i hope it's better now but you know don't bring 0.98

00:15:45.700 me into your mess i had posted him in this group i won't reveal the group oh no bitch so let me get 1.00

00:15:51.680 straight this is a horror story for you and you aired him out get the out of here but the girls 1.00

00:15:56.400 that know know um it's a confidential group of women that you can post somebody and see if

00:16:03.680 anyone's had negative dating experiences it's mostly for like you know dangerous guys or like 0.99

00:16:10.160 guys with girlfriends those kind all right so then she posted him in the group and it was hell on 0.90

00:16:15.520 earth um women just made up all right guys um let me know what you think of the comments i love you

00:16:20.640 thank you so much for watching um but let me know in the comments what is your version imagine if

00:16:25.920 you went on dates with this these women what would be your side of the story let me know 0.97

00:16:29.760 in the comments like the video subscribe to the channel and i'll see you next time 0.95

Pearl - September 28, 2026

Modern Women Are Making Dating IMPOSSIBLE

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