Pearl - July 11, 2025


Modern Women Make For Terrible Mothers


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

179.63873

Word count

1,621

Sentence count

180

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

8

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Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode, we re reacting to the women that don t want to be mothers anymore. We re talking about why women are choosing not to have kids anymore and why it s so hard to be a single mom.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we're reacting to the women that don't 1.00
00:00:05.200 want to be mothers anymore. Women have no idea what they want. Let's face it. Women don't even 1.00
00:00:11.260 know what they want to eat. Let alone what they want in life. This has led to women making life 1.00
00:00:17.780 changing decisions without considering the consequences. That's why so many women want 1.00
00:00:22.520 to get married but don't want to be wives. And this is especially true when women have kids. 1.00
00:00:27.500 They want to have kids but they don't want to be mothers. Women that are mothers are openly saying 1.00
00:00:32.320 on social media that they don't want to be mothers anymore. These women already have kids. 1.00
00:00:37.900 They are on here talking about how they want to abandon them. Let's take a look at what these
00:00:43.580 women are saying. Can you imagine being a kid and you're like scrolling through TikTok and you just 0.96
00:00:50.600 see your mom talking about it. She doesn't want you anymore. There's this thing. There's like this
00:00:57.400 if you damn it. I thought so fucked up saying this but there's this agency. You could give 0.99
00:01:02.680 them $3,500 and they just take your kid and like that's it. Like that's it. That's it. That's it.
00:01:08.040 That's it. $3,500? Yeah it's like a one-time fee and then they take your kid and then you're good.
00:01:13.780 Like take him as in. Like you sign them over. And it's done. It's done. Wash my hands clean.
00:01:21.200 Yeah like that's it. You don't have to talk to them. You don't have to see them. Like it's like
00:01:25.000 you're done. Really? I know. And you'll have like a you know a new mom in any day? 1.00
00:01:32.260 They'll be new. Yeah. They'll be different. Oh my gosh. It won't be you.
00:01:39.480 Shit. So it'll be peaceful like because I remember you always tell me like you miss this and you miss 0.99
00:01:44.640 that. You miss like how shit used to be. Can you imagine you're like 12 and you see your mom 0.98
00:01:49.120 contemplating on TikTok? It would be just like that for you. Like don't don't really think about
00:01:55.760 it for for Kwon. Like fuck Kwon. I'm sorry. That's your child. All right let's see who's next. 1.00
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00:03:17.660 I'm not bitter. I'm just burnt the fuck out. Hi, I'm Sylvie Marie, single mom one living in the
00:03:23.940 suburb. Y'all love to call single mama bitter like we just. All right, what's the. I'm mad for fun.
00:03:32.080 Nah, baby. I'm exhausted. I'm overstimulated. I'm doing everything on my own. And I'm not going to
00:03:37.440 sit here and lie. Some days I don't even want to be a damn mom. I went through my whole pregnancy 0.99
00:03:41.700 by myself. She, okay. Well, whose fault is that? Do you know what I mean? It's like, whose fault is
00:03:47.700 that? Every appointment alone, every kick, every craving, every scare alone. There was no we in
00:03:54.460 that situation. It was just me. Why did you get pregnant by a guy that doesn't want to be a dad? 0.96
00:03:59.460 My baby. Now fast forward, I'm still doing everything alone. Like there's no strong villager
00:04:05.300 that I have. My mama, she helped when she can, you know, I appreciate her, but let's be real. My son is
00:04:11.400 a lot and I can't just drop him off with any and everybody because he's on the spectrum. He got.
00:04:17.140 Yeah. Okay. So now she's got an autistic son. Oh my gosh. And she's talking about, she doesn't 0.90
00:04:24.100 want to be a mom anymore. That's so bad. He's on the spectrum. He got different needs and that takes
00:04:29.240 patience, love, and time. And guess who's giving him all that? Me. I pay for speech therapy. It's
00:04:34.620 really crazy because men have so much harder of jobs than being a parent and they never complain 0.99
00:04:41.100 ever. I pay for occupational therapy. I pay for childcare, every dime out of pocket,
00:04:46.140 no copay or no check, no help. The little child support that I do get, I was ordered $418. Do
00:04:52.300 the other parent pay it in full? Fuck no. I'd be lucky on a good day to even get $30 out that 1.00
00:04:57.040 motherfucker. And don't even get me started on work. There's jobs that I want to do as a nurse 1.00
00:05:01.980 that I want to take that I can't because it just doesn't fit his schedule. So yeah, I put my own
00:05:07.660 dreams on pause for my baby. I plan my entire life. Cry me a river. We all got to put our dreams on
00:05:14.640 pause unless you're a woman, but come on. I mean, why do you guys have kids if you're not willing to 0.99
00:05:21.160 sacrifice anything? Break. I don't get to breathe. I don't get me time and y'all still want to call me
00:05:27.920 bitter. I'm not bitter, but I'm tired. I'm human. I'm doing the job of two people every day with half
00:05:34.240 the energy and no support. But guess what? I still show up. I still take care of mine. I still
00:05:39.880 give him love, structure, everything he needs. Even when I got nothing left for myself. So before
00:05:44.940 y'all speak down on a single mama, check y'allself. Y'all don't know what we be going through. We make
00:05:49.160 it look easy, but this shit is heavy. So before you... Okay, you haven't really showed me anything 1.00
00:05:54.260 that hard. You like filled a water bowl. You gave... Like you didn't even make waffles from scratch.
00:06:00.060 You did the easy ones. Do you know what I mean? Like if you're going to say my job's really hard,
00:06:05.120 like I kind of expect some hard stuff in the video. It's just underwhelming. All right, let's see who's
00:06:12.300 next. She says, I don't love being a mom. All right, this woman. I do not love being a mom. My friend
00:06:21.080 recently asked me, she goes, do you love being a mom? And I took a moment to think about it. And I said,
00:06:28.100 I don't think I love being a mom. It's more along the lines of, I love being my son's mom.
00:06:36.560 Does that make sense? Like I love that he's my son. Don't feel like I was born to be a mom,
00:06:41.720 even though I do tend to be a little bit more nurturing. And everyone always calls me mom,
00:06:47.560 like in my friend group. I have friends who like love being a mom, which is great.
00:06:53.080 I personally just don't have that. Like, I'm not like, oh my God, my entire life is being a mom.
00:07:00.300 And I think that's okay. Right? I think that as long as we are just doing our best, I think that's
00:07:08.520 fine. I definitely did feel guilty at one point because I wasn't like them. And I was like, oh my
00:07:13.720 God, I love being a mom. And I love it. It's like my new identity. That's not me at all. I'm like,
00:07:20.320 I love that he's my son first. And then I love that I'm his mother, but I don't love being a mom.
00:07:28.940 Does that make sense?
00:07:29.540 I just, why do you guys put this on the internet? You're supposed to say this to like your girlfriends
00:07:33.900 in a private setting, but you know what? Their girlfriends will tweet about it on the internet
00:07:39.200 these days. So, all right, let's see what else we got.
00:07:43.100 You sometimes not want to be a mom anymore. Sometimes that feeling feels small. Sometimes
00:07:48.200 it's big. You might even be questioning whether or not you love your children. Hey, I've been there
00:07:53.060 and it's actually quite normal. People just don't talk about it. What I really want...
00:07:57.440 And it is normal. I want you guys to believe them. It is. A lot of women don't want to be mothers.
00:08:02.280 And that's proven by the fact that women keep aborting their children. 1.00
00:08:05.560 These feelings are so normal. The bigger issue is that motherhood is undervalued and 0.93
00:08:11.940 undersupported. And that brings up all these feelings for us as we get overwhelmed and we're
00:08:16.560 not seen or heard as mothers and women. And we need to be nurtured for ourselves and for our
00:08:22.220 children. Here's what I do when I feel this way. And I'm here to remind you, there's nothing
00:08:30.420 wrong with you. You are a good, good mom. 1.00
00:08:40.620 Probably not because most mothers are crazy if we're going to be real here. 0.77
00:08:46.640 But let me know what you guys think in the comments. Maybe you had an awesome mother. 0.88
00:08:50.500 Put it in the comments below. Make sure you like the video on your way out and subscribe to the
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00:09:00.420 Bye-bye.