Pearl - Modern Women Taking L's On TikTok ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.

00:00:05.540 Today, we have another special show talking about the ladies taking L's. 0.77

00:00:11.580 As you guys know, we just do not do it too well.

00:00:15.020 But before we start, I have a special guest on the show.

00:00:19.000 Why don't you introduce yourself to the people?

00:00:23.220 Hey, people. Adam Bryan-Dotta here.

00:00:24.860 I am a serial entrepreneur, angel investor, and executive film producer in Chicago and across the country.

00:00:33.340 And I have my roots in the red pill movement.

00:00:36.360 I call myself a yellow pillar now.

00:00:38.740 So I'm more focused on entrepreneurship, getting guys out of the grind, out of the 9 to 5,

00:00:45.400 building something for themselves, and building their brand.

00:00:49.420 And you were on the original forums back in the day.

00:00:53.420 So how long ago was that?

00:00:54.860 this is kind of crazy but i was on red pill forms back in the 1980s okay before the internet holy

00:01:01.100 crap yeah there was something called usenet which was uh mostly dorks okay i was a teenager and my

00:01:09.420 uh my mentor as a kid he was a red pillar before we knew what red pill meant of course we didn't 0.97

00:01:15.660 know it was red pill uh it started in the uh seduction movement of the 70s okay and then in

00:01:22.060 the 80s i thought that was neil strauss no what was it what was it who was the guy back then wow

00:01:26.940 that's a great question put the mic a little closer yeah yeah that's a great question i uh

00:01:31.580 i couldn't remember i'll have to look into that but there were guys writing books in the 60s

00:01:36.060 okay and uh it was about seduction suaveness and that wasn't really for me i didn't have

00:01:41.500 a problem dating when i was young okay i had you were a natural i was my dad was oh your

00:01:46.860 My dad was a natural. And he taught me the key tenants of red pill growing up when I was really

00:01:54.760 young. And then I wanted to know about success. I didn't want to be like my dad. He's still around,

00:02:01.820 but you know, he worked nine to five. He grinded, made other people rich. I didn't want that. And

00:02:07.260 one of the sides of red pill was at the time was how to be your own man, not going your own way.

00:02:14.160 It wasn't like that. It was how to be your own substance, your own brand.

00:02:20.260 And this was in 1989. So I was legitimately...

00:02:24.000 Are you talking about like mental point of origin?

00:02:26.320 Yeah, you can call it that now. Sure.

00:02:28.620 And the amazing thing was is through all my career in the red pill,

00:02:33.380 I always used my real name. Always.

00:02:35.820 I never once hid behind a pseudonym.

00:02:38.660 If you deep dive into Google and look me up,

00:02:42.200 you can go back to the 1980s 1990s i never hid behind anything it never hurt my career it never

00:02:48.320 hurt my dating life it never well hurt my friendships well it's becoming harder to do

00:02:55.500 that now to hide behind like a pseudonym and play a character on the internet it's not

00:03:00.840 because people start to come at the advent of tiktok which is today's topic

00:03:05.460 um did you guys have the simp problem back then yeah so basically it wasn't as bad

00:03:13.200 what we had back then um we had guys we didn't have atms when i grew up that was before i was

00:03:21.260 before an atm machine so guys didn't have the ability to put something on their credit card

00:03:27.720 take a girl shopping you know drool over her all that stuff but we had guys who basically chased

00:03:33.700 women thirst they were thirsty we didn't call it thirsty we just called them dorks you know we 1.00

00:03:38.700 didn't call them incels we didn't call them thirsty we didn't call them simps we just had

00:03:43.400 guys who literally chased women my dad in the 1950s when he you know started his his uh his

00:03:51.800 dedication to seduction yeah uh he had a lot of friends who were from asia and europe immigrants

00:03:58.200 who were simps in the 50s amazing did you know i have been on the front lines fighting the simp

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00:05:36.680 disclaimer before we start the show when i do talk about the topic today i'm going to make

00:05:41.960 generalizations but as you guys know this never applies to every single person when i say modern

00:05:48.040 women it does not mean every single woman out there but i do talk about the trends that i

00:05:52.040 personally have seen in my life and one trend that i have seen is that us ladies do not know 1.00

00:05:58.200 how to put the phone down so last week we talked about the potential ban of tick tock and whether

00:06:05.000 it's a good or bad thing now that really depends on who you ask some people think it's a good thing

00:06:09.960 some people think it's a bad thing personally i always assume that if women want something 1.00

00:06:15.240 we have a tendency to get it how has the pro-life movement done getting rid of abortion the last

00:06:21.640 50 years not a nothing nayski and this is coming from someone that's very very very pro-life as you

00:06:28.120 guys know you know my family has dealt with adoption personally so it's something that i

00:06:33.160 think is wrong but some in some instances you are just not going to win i am predicting that with

00:06:40.120 tick tock now many ladies are losing their mind over this and this is not a good position to be 1.00

00:06:47.160 in. You do not want to be in the position where you are so reliant on a social media app that it

00:06:52.700 completely destroys your business and ruins your entire life. But watching this meltdown has been

00:06:59.140 extremely entertaining. I have had a very good time. And I would argue that there are no apps

00:07:07.940 that modern women waste time on more than TikTok. So what are they going to do? I think we'll find 1.00

00:07:14.820 out in the next couple of days but like i said on monday the best thing about tiktok is these ladies 1.00

00:07:23.140 cannot keep their mouths shut so you know back in the old days grandmas you don't think the grandmas

00:07:29.060 were 304s i mean his your your your dad was screwing somebody right they play innocent but

00:07:35.540 they were doing the same thing absolutely and but the thing is back in the day there was no

00:07:40.820 evidence there was no proof the plausible deniability they will take all of the things

00:07:49.440 they did to their graves but now there is a digital footprint and so i really hope it doesn't

00:07:56.040 happen because i will have no women to make fun of on my show and you guys keep me employed 0.97

00:08:00.140 shout out to the 304s the only fans whores and the crazy women out out there because i would 1.00

00:08:06.700 have nothing to talk about if you guys were acting right now there are women making tiktoks 1.00

00:08:14.180 about tiktok leading them to get divorced losing friendships and getting fired from their jobs and

00:08:22.060 today we are going to look at some of the l's that modern women have taken from posting on tiktok 0.96

00:08:29.600 what is crazy to me is that i don't quite understand what a lot of these ladies were 0.92

00:08:35.500 thinking before they uploaded now to be fair there's a lower barrier to entry when it comes

00:08:42.300 to tick tock on other apps you know we have a whole production here that we had to put together

00:08:47.020 you have to learn how to edit shorts and tick tock you can literally click one button and post

00:08:53.500 anything um it's the same problem we're getting with live streams like there have been murders

00:09:00.780 recorded on live now we are gonna look at a woman losing a hundred and ninety thousand dollars

00:09:11.660 a year job from posting on tick tock so this is from business insider i got fired from my

00:09:18.540 a hundred and ninety thousand dollar a year job at meta for posting on tick tock but there wasn't

00:09:23.740 much real work for recruiters like me to do so she had a 190 000 a year job doing nothing doing 1.00

00:09:33.340 nothing nothing doing nothing and you know men they have to toil to get to that salary they have to

00:09:40.540 fight we're just giving it now she said i was so excited when i started my job as a recruiter in

00:09:48.540 meta at meta in 2021 i love social media and meta made me an offer i couldn't refuse 60 000

00:09:56.540 more a year than what i was making at my job at microsoft my total compensation at meta

00:10:02.060 was 190 000 a year crazy starting out the onboarding process was really high quality

00:10:11.580 but things when things started to get messy i joined my new team everyone was doing what

00:10:16.460 everyone was new including my boss no one knew what they were doing everyone was confused and

00:10:20.540 there was no guidance there wasn't enough work to do at meta after onboarding we were supposed

00:10:25.340 to start sourcing new talent but there wasn't enough to do my job involved recruiting android

00:10:30.780 developers for meta but there wasn't enough of them out there so we were all reaching out to

00:10:35.340 the same people our days were filled with training sessions and meetings and our only goal was to

00:10:40.300 reach out to 50 people at microsoft i was reaching out to 500 or a thousand people a week my team had

00:10:48.060 days where we just didn't do anything at all at one point i had to switch teams because i felt

00:10:52.860 like i wasn't doing enough work but hr told me i couldn't move for at least a year i hadn't recruited

00:10:57.980 anyone so i was nervous i wouldn't get paid my bonus but a co-worker reassured me that i shouldn't

00:11:03.340 worry they haven't hired anyone in two years and still got their bonus before working at meta i

00:11:08.700 wasn't active on TikTok. I had only posted three videos but I started seething at all of the clips

00:11:15.420 of people who worked at tech companies showing off the cool perks in their office. Since I worked

00:11:20.860 remotely for Meta I decided to make videos about Meta's great benefits package. It happened to go

00:11:27.340 viral and a lot of people at Meta reached out to tell me they had seen the video. It was nothing

00:11:32.780 but good feedback because I was speaking very highly of the company. I decided to post about

00:11:38.380 meta again this time talking about a company program specifically designed to introduce

00:11:43.100 candidates to a career in recruiting i thought it was a really great opportunity as most of my

00:11:48.540 followers were diverse candidates so i wanted to share it this didn't go well my boss called me

00:11:54.140 and told me hr wanted me to take it down i was so scared i didn't want to break the rules so after

00:11:59.180 that i decided not to share anything about meta anymore i was scared straight i continued to post

00:12:05.580 on TikTok though I posted general resume tips and shared which companies were hiring or which

00:12:13.420 companies helped with salary negotiations. It got human resources attention and in January they

00:12:19.320 brought up my TikTok again. This time I was put I decided to put my notice in and quit but they

00:12:25.500 fired me the next week. They said that my posts were a conflict of interest. After leaving Meta

00:12:31.120 in 2022, I got a job offer from LinkedIn the following week. It was a lovely company with

00:12:36.580 great culture and amazing benefits, but my TikTok had grown so much that I decided

00:12:40.720 to create my own reverse recruiting business instead. In April 2022, I quit my job in LinkedIn

00:12:47.120 to focus on my business. Now I use the experience I gained working as a recruiter at Microsoft

00:12:55.960 meta and LinkedIn to advise people on their career strategy resumes and LinkedIn optimization I had

00:13:02.620 a team of seven people and as part of our services we apply for to jobs for our clients and help them

00:13:08.480 get interview prep and salary negotiations now it now it feels like I get to help people and

00:13:16.040 genuinely change lives so I'm wondering your take there is a trend on women leaving high paying jobs 1.00

00:13:22.560 i've seen women leave doctor professions i've seen women really high engineering jobs to post 1.00

00:13:32.000 on tiktok now as someone that works in media you know it works out for some people absolutely

00:13:38.320 however for every one winner there are like 50 losers corpses so what do you think about this

00:13:47.760 tried? Well, first of all, what she's doing obviously is a market form of hypergamy. So 1.00

00:13:56.380 instead of marrying up in a man's world, we want to get the most income that gives us the most 0.83

00:14:04.520 stability. That's the latter. The most income that gives us the most stability. When women, 1.00

00:14:09.920 hypergamy, branch swinging, as you might have heard, they're always looking for more than just 0.88

00:14:13.960 the income what can they do to make their friends from high school and college jealous what can they

00:14:19.460 do in their careers that would make them feel like they're the superior person in the group

00:14:24.540 because in the old days it was the prettiest women with the widest hips who could cook and 1.00

00:14:31.720 nurse babies that got the winners right but the winners today isn't getting a man you don't need 0.99

00:14:37.100 no man so what's the win for the woman the win for the woman is looking at their friends from

00:14:42.700 high school, their alumni friends, who's ahead of the pack there. Now, if you don't marry a 0.99

00:14:48.840 billionaire, what do you have? Career, doctor, lawyer, whatever the case may be. But they quit

00:14:55.480 it. They don't stick it out. That's the thing. So you've got marry a billionaire, which is great,

00:15:00.380 but it's okay. Yeah. Right. Socialite is okay. Then a step down is doctor, lawyer. I mean,

00:15:06.140 a step up is be a doctor, be a lawyer. Now you don't need a man at all. What's better than being 0.99

00:15:10.440 a doctor or lawyer is someone who's beloved by millions. And TikTok, you know what a million

00:15:16.140 on TikTok means. It means like $1.18, right? When you get a million, maybe a little bit more than

00:15:22.000 that on one video. Yeah. If they get brand deals, it can be a lot. But if they don't,

00:15:28.660 it's $1.18. It's very an unstable career. But do women on TikTok care about the $1.18 or do they 0.74

00:15:34.360 care about the 1 million likes on their video? They care about the likes. Right. Yeah. So this

00:15:39.540 is this is business hypergamy for a woman the billionaire husband used to be the win but it's 0.98

00:15:45.920 not anymore so a woman would rather be a doctor than marry a billionaire today yeah that's true 0.96

00:15:51.280 and a woman would rather have a million likes on tiktok than be a doctor so at the top is social

00:15:58.060 media influencer that's like and then second is be a doctor right and third is marry a billionaire 0.99

00:16:04.480 Well, I think at the top would be being like a CNN talking head above social media.

00:16:12.040 Maybe not anymore, though.

00:16:13.780 What about a makeup and beauty blogger?

00:16:16.220 So only if there's drama.

00:16:20.220 Okay.

00:16:21.360 Now, I don't watch a lot of makeup and beauty bloggers, but the ones that have the most drama are the ones that are top tier. 0.97

00:16:28.160 They get the most engagement.

00:16:29.500 So like the TikTokers that are fighting with each other? 1.00

00:16:31.600 Right.

00:16:31.960 Oh, my gosh.

00:16:32.360 They all fight with each other.

00:16:33.500 They start businesses with each other. 0.95

00:16:35.160 They have a token gay man in every brand.

00:16:37.560 They totally do.

00:16:38.640 They do.

00:16:39.200 He has glitter.

00:16:40.660 Yeah. 0.96

00:16:40.860 And then they fight with the token gay man for taking all of their branding.

00:16:45.100 It's amazing. 0.90

00:16:45.880 But that's.

00:16:46.620 And then they get robbed by a guy that's smarter.

00:16:49.280 Correct.

00:16:49.680 Yeah.

00:16:50.120 Correct.

00:16:50.680 But again, it's not about the dollars.

00:16:52.360 No, it's not.

00:16:53.440 It's about the views.

00:16:54.260 It's the same thing with Only.

00:16:54.860 Ooh, what's.

00:16:55.660 Is OnlyFans.

00:16:57.500 Because Kim Kardashian's worshipped and she's.

00:17:00.260 You know what I think it is?

00:17:01.220 the female fantasy is to be able to do the most degenerate thing and still get a high value guy 1.00

00:17:07.820 at the end absolutely so it's like kim kardashian still got kanye she still dates high level men

00:17:14.360 and she did a porn yeah that was her beginning yeah she did a porn with some athlete or film

00:17:19.740 i think it was i i missed it i didn't even see the porn i heard it was pretty good i didn't see it

00:17:25.640 i've just heard the i've just heard about it right but it was before my time but the thing is like

00:17:31.040 I think a lot more guys especially the simps they're forgiving yeah they are they're just

00:17:35.640 happy that they're getting sloppy thirds or fourths or fortieths and the thing is simp isn't

00:17:40.280 about money or stat you know it's crazy a guy could be so smart so intelligent when it comes 0.99

00:17:47.500 to business and I'll explain to them I'll say you know this marriage contract is pretty stupid to 0.99

00:17:52.760 sign and they're like no it's about commitment and I'm like it's how is it about commitment 0.98

00:17:58.680 that person's divorced that's correct that person's divorced like what do you get out of marriage

00:18:03.200 that's correct and they'll die on like I could have every stat they don't have an answer they 0.59

00:18:08.160 have no answer they have no answer it's not sex unless she wants 10 kids then you have sex 10 1.00

00:18:13.380 times maybe if you're lucky 10 20 times yeah you know and those women they're hyper fertile when 1.00

00:18:19.760 they are when when they want to be but they're not hyper fertile for the guy so it's even worse

00:18:24.700 for him she blames him for not giving her a baby and then she doesn't want to have sex for a year

00:18:30.180 ivf yeah yeah and it's so crazy because there's like a difference between female intelligence 1.00

00:18:39.280 and intelligence like intelligence with women and just straight intelligence well i mean women are 1.00

00:18:45.240 designed for hypergamy it's not they're not designed to be doctors and lawyers they of course

00:18:49.880 can be absolutely yeah anyone who studies can be a doctor or lawyer that's a license yeah right

00:18:55.900 it's not about intelligence it's about being able to dictate what's in the book but when it comes to

00:19:00.940 a woman's survival versus a man's survival she's the protector of the egg right yeah that's the 1.00

00:19:06.860 key element there how does that transfer to tiktok you're going nuts all right we're going to show

00:19:13.600 the next one. She lost a tech job because of TikTok. So I got fired. Yeah. My big, uh, six

00:19:24.140 figure remote tech job. Yeah. They canned me. She had a six figure remote remote men would never

00:19:33.660 give this up. No, no way. No way. What do you need me to do? I'll do it. And, um, you guessed

00:19:40.960 it. It was because of a TikTok. Yeah, last month, I took a very quick video. I had forgotten to put

00:19:49.420 my mug underneath my Keurig one morning. And so my coffee spilled all over the place. And I took

00:19:56.940 a quick little snippet of the coffee everywhere. I turned around my face. I said, I hit stop

00:20:03.400 recording and I uploaded and I did not use my big giant brain to think about the fact that in the

00:20:10.220 background of that video you could hear my chief product officer talking oh oh no oh that's bad

00:20:21.560 i can't imagine the chief product officer what he was thinking or she you know it's crazy we had

00:20:29.180 all these women saying we work so hard and we have all these bad work conditions but we telling 0.78

00:20:33.520 ourselves right away because they'll show you know it's the same thing with the women that say 1.00

00:20:38.520 being a mom is the hardest job and then you see a vlog of a day in my life as a mom of seven you're

00:20:43.740 like are you kidding me you have time yeah i'm like this like it's not easy but it doesn't if

00:20:50.600 you have time for recording i can't think during my day of when i have time for recording well i'm

00:20:54.460 like you realize there's a guy a week that dies on a fishing boat in alaska to give us crabs correct

00:21:00.340 and the his wife back home doesn't find out sometimes for weeks or months no way they're 0.91

00:21:07.040 gone they take the boat and then they when they come back that's when they know they're alive

00:21:11.120 there's no internet no text messaging no wow yeah that's why i hate it when i hear conservative 0.99

00:21:18.800 commentators say like men aren't doing enough because it's such bullshit because there's so 0.97

00:21:23.800 many men that do such difficult jobs true it's just like really really hard draining jobs to 0.98

00:21:30.440 give us the food that we have do you think they should say urban men aren't doing enough 0.51

00:21:35.840 what are urban men doing what do you mean like city guys yeah well i mean there's still guys

00:21:43.960 that run the infrastructures in the city there's garbage man yeah okay i can appreciate that i

00:21:48.660 mean i've ran the numbers once around half of men have an infrastructure job so that's the

00:21:53.400 it's a little bit over 50 percent sure and that's not including like if you would say finance like

00:22:00.320 you would argue isn't in it but that's still an important it's still an important job yeah that

00:22:03.540 makes sense i can appreciate that every time i go into the city i see a lot of guys who aren't doing

00:22:07.580 anything so when i don't really say men aren't doing anything but if i do hint at it it's because

00:22:13.800 those guys aren't doing anything they're basically living like girlfriends well i think the incentives

00:22:20.720 just aren't there anymore you have to like the guys have to ask like what's in it for right and

00:22:25.680 if they're not going to provide for a family and kids why are they going to do it and a lot of dads

00:22:29.980 a lot of dads today are just giving allowances to their sons into their 30s and 40s. I've seen

00:22:36.620 it with friends of mine. No jobs for five years. I was like, how are you surviving?

00:22:42.240 And they're like, oh, you know, dad's paying my rent. Strange.

00:22:47.800 It's a weird time to be alive. Let's keep going.

00:22:50.720 Because I was in a meeting. Yep. It was about 430 in the morning. I was in my weekly team

00:22:59.040 stand-up meeting they were having a conversation that had absolutely nothing to do with me so i

00:23:04.900 went off camera took the 20 second video and hit upload and i did not think anything of it until

00:23:11.040 the next day when i got called into it it's so funny i just think it's so funny to think their

00:23:17.840 boss is in the background they're tick-tocking while they're working and now she's talking about

00:23:25.240 it more right so what's the next employer gonna think like i think sometimes we think things are

00:23:32.940 funny and maybe they are but it's not you shouldn't put it online no because the next person is gonna

00:23:39.700 look at that and see it and see the proof a meeting with hr and my chief product officer

00:23:46.260 and they said hey somebody sent us this video and we are immediately dismissing you from the

00:23:52.800 company for gross negligence and i said that's a woman who sent the hr the video probably right 0.97

00:23:59.560 yeah competition mostly yeah competition yeah wow i've only been afraid that i'm gonna get beat

00:24:06.680 by women i've never felt that way about a guy right yeah right wow yeah and someone i dated

00:24:14.360 was like accused of like stuff like that yeah i know later i mean i don't think it was real

00:24:19.760 But I was like, if he did it, you did something to piss him off.

00:24:26.420 Absolutely. 0.99

00:24:27.420 That's why I realized that some women deserve to get hit. 1.00

00:24:32.940 Because there's someone I dated. 0.99

00:24:34.420 I can name one.

00:24:35.600 I was like, you must have been doing something crazy.

00:24:38.720 He was never like that with me.

00:24:41.520 Was he simping you, though?

00:24:42.800 No.

00:24:43.440 What?

00:24:43.800 Was he a simp for you?

00:24:44.920 No.

00:24:45.800 Maybe.

00:24:46.360 I don't know.

00:24:47.160 Okay.

00:24:47.360 but uh anyways the point is some it was either false or she did something she did something yeah 0.96

00:24:56.780 um i said it was great working with all of you and i hung up the call and i said holy shit 0.84

00:25:08.900 this is gonna be perfect for my memoir come on oh my gosh this is so bad does she have a mirror 0.81

00:25:19.740 does she have a mirror because that's not memoir material right there i'm sorry

00:25:23.520 it's not you gotta do more interesting things than getting fired to get a memoir

00:25:28.200 you know what that's the problem when jada smith has a memoir it's always you know what

00:25:34.280 It's all these average women that just get crazy above-average results. 1.00

00:25:39.540 Like, nobody cares when, like, Amy Winehouse was really famous.

00:25:45.240 Sure.

00:25:45.700 But no one really contested that too much because her voice was phenomenal.

00:25:49.260 Correct.

00:25:49.440 Even Adele.

00:25:50.440 Yeah.

00:25:50.940 But Taylor Swift, guys, hey, because it's not that she's a bad singer.

00:25:57.040 No.

00:25:57.800 It's just she shouldn't be as famous as Michael Jackson.

00:26:01.300 That's correct.

00:26:01.900 Michael Jackson

00:26:03.180 like he was she can barely

00:26:05.840 dance well I mean Taylor

00:26:07.960 Swift is the masculine father figure for

00:26:09.980 a lot of teenage girls and pre-teenage girls

00:26:11.960 she is the masculine 0.94

00:26:13.420 father figure for

00:26:15.840 tens of millions hundreds of millions

00:26:17.720 of teenage girls whose fathers are not being

00:26:20.040 the masculine father figure for them

00:26:21.640 what do you mean masculine father

00:26:24.060 figure she's a leader

00:26:25.300 she's daddy

00:26:27.680 she's literally daddy

00:26:29.140 and she's such a

00:26:31.720 it's the female fantasy it is i think she's gonna win i think she's gonna get 1.00

00:26:37.500 yeah travis kelsey to give her a kid i think so too i mean she's a she's the princess of america

00:26:42.200 she's the disney dream yeah and i think it might work out too everyone thinks it won't i could be

00:26:47.900 wrong but i think he's more like alpha than most of the because she dated musicians before and

00:26:54.220 actors horrible yeah so they're kind of softer creatives yeah not bad but no no it's like it's

00:27:00.940 not bad but in touch emotionally yeah and so she's gonna get then travis kelsey who's like a

00:27:08.720 football player he's macho super bowl champion yeah i could see it working out i could see it

00:27:13.740 working out too but the question is is she gonna want to spend her billions share her billions with 1.00

00:27:18.100 them yeah that's the question that's gonna be a great see that's gonna be a memoir who was the

00:27:22.520 last taylor swift like of 20 years ago uh the the african-american lady who died of an overdose

00:27:28.160 Whitney Houston

00:27:29.760 Really? You would have put her like

00:27:32.900 the same as Taylor Swift? Oh yeah

00:27:34.420 No way

00:27:35.200 But guys liked Whitney Houston because she was 1.00

00:27:38.440 pseudo hot

00:27:39.500 She acted

00:27:40.800 I mean I don't think she was hot 0.98

00:27:43.440 Whitney Houston

00:27:44.600 She was skinny, she had a nice body 1.00

00:27:47.700 She had a great smile

00:27:49.580 Beautiful eyes, great hair

00:27:52.320 Was she always into drugs or did she just do that? 1.00

00:27:55.180 Because I don't think Taylor Swift's

00:27:56.720 into like drugs or anything no but if you tour that hard back then you needed to take drugs

00:28:02.920 painkillers mostly for what it's brutal on the body you're in tour buses you're not in private

00:28:09.580 jets you're sleeping in tiny beds in the tour buses going city to city it's much easier today

00:28:16.780 to not be a painkiller addict uh michael jackson died of painkillers prince died of painkillers

00:28:22.180 no way oh yeah she is beautiful wow i didn't realize she was that she was she had a great 0.94

00:28:27.640 body she was petite and i don't know if there's any pictures of her smiling but her smile 0.99

00:28:32.340 she was in that movie the bodyguard and she was um she was lovely in that she basically played

00:28:40.100 herself oh wow yeah everyone wanted to be whitney houston so you think she'll die of an overdose 1.00

00:28:46.760 I don't think so she has a private jet and she's got dietitians what do you 0.90

00:28:51.860 think her future is gonna be she will probably age gracefully and I think

00:28:57.980 she's gonna pull one of those disappearing acts for a while how much 1.00

00:29:01.080 more money do you think she needs really I mean she's a billionaire right yeah I

00:29:04.280 think she's gonna raise kids I'm not kidding you I think she's gonna disappear 0.97

00:29:07.160 for like six to ten years raise kids what more do you need yeah you know but

00:29:13.160 She needs that husband, and Kelsey's probably the guy. 1.00

00:29:16.340 He can be, so he's going to finish his career as a player.

00:29:19.500 Then he's going to be an announcer.

00:29:21.720 Then he's going to be a coach or assistant coach.

00:29:24.940 Then he's going to be a coach, and then they've got the money to buy a team.

00:29:30.000 That's smart.

00:29:31.260 I didn't think about, yeah.

00:29:33.380 Yeah.

00:29:33.780 Do you think she'll divorce later? 0.96

00:29:35.120 She has dated, I think public exes are like 20.

00:29:40.160 the game plan for me if I was her would be to have a lot of breakups leading up to a planned 1.00

00:29:45.820 marriage that was stable okay because remember her audience will age with her

00:29:52.260 and at some point they're going to want to see her be a success in every stage of her life when

00:29:58.320 she was a little teenager writing her music right doing her music videos her audience was like wow

00:30:05.260 she's so talented now she's owns all these you know brands and businesses and whatnot oh wow 0.98

00:30:11.660 she's so amazing the next step is going to be marriage and kids she's not going to be like that 0.96

00:30:15.800 british princess who threw it all away markle markle she's not going to be like that yeah

00:30:21.520 she's going to have a successful story and it's probably been planned 10 years in advance i would

00:30:25.340 guess yeah she's not gonna be like eilish what what happened to her she could have been taylor

00:30:31.280 swift yeah i think billy was just too mentally unstable correct like taylor just seems i mean

00:30:38.740 she's a little you can tell she's a little crazy but she's a woman right but the thing is taylor

00:30:43.540 is feminine billy is masculine truly masculine yeah right she wears pants taylor wears dresses 0.98

00:30:48.900 yeah billy wears sneakers taylor wears heels yeah i mean for like a front-facing person yeah right

00:30:55.720 that's like um there's levels but what's going to happen when taylor gets married and has kids

00:31:01.100 Are all the girls who follow who are going to want to do that next? 0.98

00:31:03.500 Is it going to be a field day for simps?

00:31:06.560 I don't think so.

00:31:07.520 You don't think so?

00:31:08.580 No, I don't think anything can stop this strain.

00:31:11.100 How many quarterbacks are there in the world?

00:31:14.980 I don't see the birth rate going up.

00:31:18.280 I don't think so either.

00:31:19.140 I just think it'll keep.

00:31:19.940 Yes.

00:31:20.740 Yeah, going down.

00:31:21.640 It's a bad thing.

00:31:22.480 I just kind of do an argument the other day with some, not an argument,

00:31:26.580 but like they were asking me and saying well how can you do this content like we got to fight

00:31:33.340 against it and i'm like i'm not gonna lie and say and sell hope you know what's gonna save it right

00:31:40.700 what the w1b visa not the h1b visa the w1b visa the wife visa women will not let that happen you 1.00

00:31:50.260 don't think so no the lithuanians and the polish okay yeah let's say they start doing that number 0.71

00:31:57.920 one the the passport girls become modern very fast very fast so my mom was a passport girl my 0.92

00:32:06.640 dad's second wife passport girl okay you know and they became modern oh man yeah brutal and i've 0.98

00:32:13.560 heard the women i interviewed when i was in london i interviewed a lot of women from those countries

00:32:18.700 and they would all tell me their moms told them to be modern so even the traditional mothers like

00:32:26.000 they tell their daughters to put put off marriage go to school all that be independent like yeah

00:32:31.900 there's no stopping this train sorry guys I can't I could lie but you know it would be so much

00:32:38.180 easier to be a conservative talking head and just say you know what let's let's bring families back

00:32:44.360 it's just it's not gonna happen what's the next video what do we got hold on i gotta finish this

00:32:49.300 one because it's too funny um yeah honestly do i think that i should have been fired i mean nobody

00:32:57.000 ever thinks that they should be fired but honestly no um they weren't really talking about anything

00:33:03.440 super confidential you could honestly barely hear them in the background but alas they found it to

00:33:09.120 be a fireable offense and so they canned me and i have nothing left to do except for accept it i 0.97

00:33:16.440 mean shit i fucked up it was an oversight i 100 accept that they canned me i can't do anything 0.98

00:33:24.360 about it so of course i thought well what would any college dropout who got fired from their job 0.99

00:33:33.500 do next i'm gonna start my own company

00:33:38.480 they all do what with what what what network does she have none none none okay let's go to the next

00:33:50.260 one so we got was she h no she wasn't hr she was the hiring she was hiring in tech oh she was in

00:33:58.760 tech that's right remote work next the woman got fired from GameStop because of a tick so I got 0.95

00:34:05.840 fired from GameStop um for tick-tock oh my god I'm dying um yeah my DM came set up his computer

00:34:18.740 um and was like hey can you come in the back and I'm like oh god am I in trouble he's like just 0.99

00:34:23.120 come in the back I'm like oh fuck and there's this white lady on this white HR lady's like you 1.00

00:34:28.440 know do you have any idea why we want to talk to you i'm like no i'm like but i'm scared she goes 0.99

00:34:33.940 oh we should be scared and then she's like you know do you do you make do you do anything at

00:34:39.520 work i'm like i make tiktoks she's like oh blah blah blah i'll get to this in a second basically 1.00

00:34:44.300 you're don't be scared but you're fired um basically they didn't like that i was disparaging 0.97

00:34:52.420 certain products, like calling things stupid. They didn't like that I was making fun of 0.97

00:35:01.320 certain customers, and they didn't like that I showed the safe in one video of it back

00:35:05.940 with stickers. Apparently, that's a safety hazard.

00:35:09.540 Why would that be a good idea?

00:35:12.420 These companies spend a lot of money for product placement in the store, the video game companies.

00:35:18.140 the employees at the store have no idea what those companies are investing to be

00:35:24.020 at eye level or whatever and that's what keeps the stores open it's crazy to

00:35:29.960 disparage any any client any amazing I just when she said I was disparaging

00:35:39.500 the product why would that be a good idea well I think people confuse critics

00:35:45.200 with criticism

00:35:46.780 critics are told

00:35:49.460 what to criticize

00:35:50.380 they're not

00:35:53.260 criticizing to the degree that

00:35:55.040 you and I might

00:35:56.520 professional critics know the limit

00:35:59.580 right what's allowed by

00:36:01.420 the brands it's okay

00:36:02.920 she was giving criticism

00:36:05.180 what

00:36:06.740 oh

00:36:08.980 okay

00:36:13.420 um there was no comment on you know that i talk about warranties pro trade uh price matching any 0.99

00:36:24.440 of that there's none of that no it's just you know here's what you here's how you fucked up um 0.98

00:36:31.380 i'm sorry i think i have one shift i have one shift left it was on friday they're like 0.99

00:36:37.900 you're terminated immediately give your keys like holy shit 0.95

00:36:43.960 anyone who works at gamestop knows that there are some stores who do some very sketchy 0.98

00:36:51.360 illegal shit um which i will talk about probably next week i was given i i will talk about it next 0.97

00:37:00.180 week let's just say that um some sketchy illegal shit uh and i'm really glad women have the 1.00

00:37:07.760 tendency to like hold things in an arsenal to attack you late i see this in divorce cases a lot 0.98

00:37:14.240 where they just keep like a notepad of every bad thing you've said a mental yeah yeah every bad

00:37:21.900 thing you've done like even when i started coming out like with more right-wing content sure i when

00:37:27.980 i was in volleyball i some of my friends were left and i just didn't tell them right because

00:37:32.360 you guys are terrorists why would i tell you of course they're gonna bury you over i know i'm like 0.80

00:37:36.440 This was during the first Trump election, which was super contentious. 0.93

00:37:42.940 So I'm not trying to have problems at volleyball.

00:37:45.560 I didn't talk about politics.

00:37:46.740 That was the Hillary election.

00:37:48.460 Yeah, I know.

00:37:49.180 It's almost more important to say that because so many of the left thought it was a lock.

00:37:54.840 They didn't even know that women existed who weren't pro-Hillary. 0.98

00:37:58.580 I remember sitting in my car with another girl from volleyball, and she was just bitching about what Trump winning.

00:38:06.980 I hate Trump supporters, and I'm sitting like.

00:38:10.060 Keeping quiet to yourself, because she would hold it against you forever.

00:38:13.900 Yeah, well, and it wasn't even, I just, at the time, I'm trying to get better at volleyball.

00:38:19.860 That was the priority.

00:38:21.420 Yeah.

00:38:21.760 I don't need.

00:38:23.360 External pressures.

00:38:24.520 I don't need.

00:38:25.140 Well, volleyball is a full-time commitment, more than a full-time commitment.

00:38:28.340 it's a life commitment at the time and that was it was a d3 school but it was really competitive

00:38:33.080 we were like top 20 in the country for division three yeah and so it was focused yeah it was like

00:38:39.520 four-hour practice you know so it was i mean it was crazy i mean for d3 but freaking um did you

00:38:46.460 have any friends who were right conservative at least yeah i mean there was some but we all like

00:38:53.460 the conservative girls i feel like we knew but we're not gonna wear the hat or wear the pin or 0.90

00:39:00.120 talk about it especially not that maybe not even talk to each other about it because you don't know

00:39:04.140 which one of you will tell us yeah exactly and later she like made a video about me and was like

00:39:09.540 disparaging me and like that's perfect no i it was crazy all pr is good pr i guess but but my

00:39:17.480 point is i was like she was talking about stuff i said like years ago and i'm like i don't even

00:39:23.720 remember that don't even remember but she's holding it in her brain the whole time rent free i'm like

00:39:29.160 i haven't even talked to you in like four years in her head that's crazy and this gal was a key 1.00

00:39:34.120 holder she wasn't just this girl here on the video she wasn't just a clerk she was a key holder she 0.75

00:39:39.800 was managing and opening the store and talking garbage about brands it's incredible yeah where

00:39:47.080 where is her dad to tell her don't do this yeah no where's her Taylor Swift to

00:39:53.800 tell her don't do this she's gonna be like what would you say mid 20s mid 20s 1.00

00:39:57.580 but hints of autism yes mentally she seems like 14 she does yeah which is

00:40:03.400 fine which is fine it's interesting that it's still online because she's gonna

00:40:07.260 want to get back into retail strange that GameStop corporate felt the need to

00:40:13.780 reach out to me regarding Tik Toks and that you know social media is just you 0.74

00:40:20.980 know really harming the company and I'm just I'm so sorry about that I'm really

00:40:27.280 glad that this was at the top of their agenda and not the myriad of other

00:40:32.440 illegal things that people way above me are doing oh I was curious if I could

00:40:40.240 get fired for tick tock and i did good thing saturday was supposed to be my last shift but

00:40:47.700 i guess i got a saturday off uh oh my gosh okay so painful i know next on the agenda we have a

00:40:57.200 middle school teacher who got fired because of her tick tock story time about how i got fired over a 0.85

00:41:05.320 TikTok. You currently work with me? No, you don't. Keep scrolling.

00:41:15.280 Okay. So, at the beginning of the school year, I worked for a subbing agency.

00:41:22.640 The subbing agency had me placed at a long-term assignment at a middle school.

00:41:29.020 It's not my first year in middle school. I spent all of last year in a middle school. However,

00:41:33.040 i moved and needed to go to a different school district so i had posted a tick tock regarding

00:41:40.960 unhinged things that middle schoolers say if you know a middle schooler or you love a middle schooler

00:41:49.040 they're the most unhinged people on the planet and i couldn't love them more for it

00:41:54.480 so i posted the video and it received a lot of feedback it received a lot of likes it received

00:42:00.320 a lot of views i was so excited about it i had never had a tick tock go viral

00:42:06.480 i'm also a stand-up comedian so performing and being able to make people laugh

00:42:11.440 really meant a lot to me and i was very excited about it and then uh monday morning i got a text

00:42:18.400 from the subbing agency that said do not go into work due to the tick tock i had not posted where

00:42:25.520 i worked i had not posted the city i worked in so she was making fun of the kids she's making

00:42:30.400 fun of the kids the customer the paying customer i know and they're thinking how does this happen

00:42:37.840 what did you think was gonna happen it's curious to me like again where is the dad like who didn't

00:42:43.040 who raised her to to do that to your paying customer that's the king but even if it's a

00:42:49.200 dad how often is it a simp dad that will like no it's always a symptom i mean how often do you see

00:42:54.160 like an underage 0.99

00:42:56.460 daughter dressed like a hoe 1.00

00:42:58.000 and the dad does nothing.

00:43:00.780 And the dad's driving her to 0.95

00:43:02.400 wherever she's hoeing out. 0.99

00:43:04.700 Yeah. Yeah, it's incredible.

00:43:06.320 They can't say no.

00:43:08.120 My dad at a young age told me

00:43:10.360 the customer is king. He told me that.

00:43:13.120 You know, the golden rule.

00:43:14.560 He who has the gold

00:43:16.160 makes the rules. No wonder we're

00:43:18.460 in a sympademic.

00:43:19.280 Because women are most of the customers. 1.00

00:43:22.020 That's true now.

00:43:22.500 and i am not new to education i know better than to ever post a child's name face voice

00:43:29.860 or anything of the like so i didn't um i offered to take the tick tock down and they said yes

00:43:37.460 take it down i did they made me wait a day to hear back and still fired me

00:43:46.180 um there's a teacher shortage in this country and even more so a teacher shortage there's

00:43:52.260 a sub shortage uh every day you go to school and there are kids being shuffled into different

00:43:57.620 classrooms there are kids being uh just put in the gym because they don't have a substitute

00:44:04.980 i love my job i love teaching i'm actually in school to be a full-time special education teacher

00:44:13.540 it's my passion so to be let go over that was absolutely heartbreaking

00:44:17.540 and to have to choose between my love of performing and my love of education.

00:44:25.060 Okay.

00:44:25.820 Men know that they have to choose, that you can't do it all.

00:44:30.020 Yeah, men understand it.

00:44:31.880 But there are some careers you cannot be in and have a stable 9 to 5.

00:44:37.100 This is such an important topic, Pearl.

00:44:39.160 I mean, what you're putting out there.

00:44:40.560 Yeah.

00:44:40.920 This is such an important topic for young girls to witness.

00:44:44.800 and I don't I don't know anyone else who's actually covering this topic right now and

00:44:48.700 that's not me simping for the for you or the topic but this is really like if I was a father

00:44:53.560 of a girl like that I would want them to see failures yeah and they're and not only are they 0.99

00:44:58.560 not accepting the L here they're doubling down on it as it's a win and they're putting more out

00:45:03.520 there she wants to be a teacher of special needs kids a woman who was fired for trolling kids 1.00

00:45:12.480 goes on the air to potentially hundreds of millions of people admits what she did as a win

00:45:19.920 and now says by the way i want to be a teacher still yeah and the thing about social media is

00:45:27.500 a lot of times people only see the winners correct or they pay attention to the winners

00:45:32.300 like back in the day you knew if you wanted to be an actor or a musician you're probably signing up

00:45:36.860 for a life of poverty of course that's that's most likely what it was gonna be correct but now

00:45:42.760 it's they just and it's it's probably hypocritical being in the position i'm in but i'm like look for

00:45:50.280 every one winner there are a hundred losers more than that now yeah more than that but the

00:45:55.140 difference is and the thing we can realize the thing we can we can maybe agree to in this case

00:45:59.620 uh 20 years ago you had a thousand actors who made a million dollars a year let's say okay

00:46:05.900 Right. So 1,000 actors made a million bucks a year. Today, you might have 100,000 influencers

00:46:11.720 who make $10,000 a year. Yeah. And for them, that's a side hustle. They don't have to drive

00:46:16.560 for Uber. They can go on TikTok. So it kind of makes some sense. Like your school is never going

00:46:22.740 to fire you because you drove for Uber. Your school is never going to fire you because you

00:46:26.920 shopped for Instacart. Yeah. Well, to them, the TikTok isn't them. They're not watching their

00:46:32.960 episodes and male content is a lot more information based so if they they if they

00:46:39.280 make media it usually helps their career correct because men go through life where 0.97

00:46:46.000 they have consequences for saying stupid things everything yeah like um if if a woman says 1.00

00:46:54.160 something stupid and she's pretty the guys do not care they don't correct even her husband 1.00

00:47:00.160 yeah even her husband even her dad yeah and and of course all of the guys the white knights who 1.00

00:47:05.440 are defending her they will defend her actions even if she apologizes the white knights will

00:47:10.400 defend her actions so you did nothing wrong correct on these tick tocks are the majority

00:47:16.000 of the comments are they from women do we ever look at this one says i'm sorry you got fired

00:47:21.760 but when one door closes another one opens god has more in store for you that's a woman tiny 0.94

00:47:27.600 tiff said i subscribed to you today because i saw your video earlier than when this one came

00:47:32.400 across my for you page i'm so sorry this girl says you need to contact a lawyer you did nothing

00:47:38.160 wrong right yeah there you go that's insane you never showed faces or nothing i'm so sorry this

00:47:44.740 happened come to detroit this is a guy come to detroit this is unbelievable yeah he's trying to

00:47:52.380 get with her yeah what you know what are you up to kind of comment that's so messed up you did

00:47:58.080 nothing wrong yeah and so but she feels this now she feels like she did nothing wrong so she's

00:48:04.600 going to double down on it it's crazy to see and not in any of those comments is there a single

00:48:09.480 father figure not one father figure to say hey hon hey little girl let's back off let's take a

00:48:18.760 break I'm trying to find any that said I can't find any that are telling telling

00:48:30.380 her to log off it's incredible not a single father figure completely missing

00:48:37.720 from the discussion and I mean from a red pill or from a conservative or from

00:48:43.840 old-fashioned perspective there always was a dad to say it's okay you made a mistake it's okay

00:48:50.240 let's let's try to make it right let's talk through this we no wonder we don't know how

00:48:55.980 to apologize we don't yeah my dad made me yeah when i would go and beat kids up or bully them

00:49:01.900 i was bullied first then i would turn it around and because i was a foreign looking kid i would

00:49:08.420 get in trouble with the teachers so then my dad's like look you got that punch in you won now in

00:49:15.300 front of the teachers now in front of other students go and apologize and he even told me

00:49:20.580 it doesn't really mean anything but you're doing it for show you're doing it for the client you

00:49:25.240 know we don't have that anymore and it's pretty incredible actually yeah guys if you want your

00:49:30.560 if you have a comment question or concern go to the audacity network.com sign up for our yearly

00:49:35.900 monthly memberships i'm going to read um the chat right now normally you pay for every single super

00:49:42.060 chat um when you're you know on normal channels but here you can just go on the website we are

00:49:47.420 demonetized so it does help so doug says ask the guest what decade was peak symptom

00:49:52.700 i would say the 1990s with r b music and the sitcoms well that's a great question um

00:50:00.380 um so in the in the 80s when i first started dating um guys were guys i mean we wore jean

00:50:09.480 jackets and leather coats and greased our hair and we would go out together so it definitely

00:50:15.260 wasn't the 80s in the 2000s it was a lot of dot-com money okay a lot oh and you don't simp

00:50:23.240 when you have money in the 2000s because a lot of guys who were dorks were all of a sudden heroes 0.97

00:50:29.200 Dorks, like, for example, Nine Inch Nails, Trent Reznor, he was a dork. 0.98

00:50:32.900 He was in, like, marching band, right? 0.98

00:50:34.880 All of a sudden, he's got money, and now he's a cool guy, marries a supermodel.

00:50:39.460 So I would say the 90s is probably correct.

00:50:42.660 There was a lot of that R&B, a lot of that making, we used to call women queen. 0.99

00:50:48.720 I didn't.

00:50:50.020 I didn't, but it was the beginning, my queen.

00:50:52.660 So it probably was the 90s, and I would think a lot changed at 9-11.

00:50:58.400 A lot changed then where men, where strong masculine men started to become more valuable. 0.63

00:51:04.800 And I'm not saying 9-11 did that, but leading up to the late 90s, oh, yeah, definitely peak simp.

00:51:11.600 Got it.

00:51:12.860 They want to know how old you are.

00:51:14.560 I'm 50.

00:51:15.460 I'll be 51 in a couple of weeks, I think.

00:51:18.600 I don't really celebrate birthdays, but, yeah, I'm 50.

00:51:21.700 Doug says the average male CEO is in his position for five to seven years.

00:51:27.140 The average female C-suite employee is three to four years. 1.00

00:51:31.580 50% of women in STEM fields quit after they have a baby or around the age of 43. 0.99

00:51:36.340 Attention is currency to modern women. 0.99

00:51:38.260 They'd rather have status and title than money.

00:51:40.300 47% of men in the country do infrastructure jobs.

00:51:44.020 He had it wrong with Whitney Houston.

00:51:45.660 After she married Bobbi Brown, she wasn't that woman anymore.

00:51:50.160 Billie Eilish destroyed her chances when she decided to they-them it. 1.00

00:51:54.100 he says um taylor swift is masculine um then she he says she is feminine doug mpa you didn't hear

00:52:02.380 him right he said that taylor swift is the masculine role model right he puts out her

00:52:06.300 ideas and music women are taking it in as the masculine role model even the great kevin samuel 0.99

00:52:11.720 said he wasn't responsible for how people consume his content right um micro said just because

00:52:19.000 you're passionate about something doesn't mean that you're good at it oh a passion is the worst

00:52:23.900 never do what you're passionate about passion is for your hobbies passion is for your loves

00:52:28.580 I don't do what I'm passionate about for an income I do what I'm really good at what I'm

00:52:32.580 efficient at it's not really acceptable to shame or correct women you don't know that well

00:52:37.460 yeah I guess that's true but if they're posting in the public the next one we have is a woman 1.00

00:52:45.920 said she found her voice in her marriage because of tick tock so she lost her marriage show of

00:52:53.240 hands did tiktok end your marriage too oh no but around the time he left me i started seeing videos

00:53:00.980 of women being treated just so much better and i started speaking up and he didn't like that

00:53:09.560 so like i'm pretty sure he left because i got my voice because of tiktok and uh recently my girls

00:53:18.840 told them i was back on tiktok because i took a break and he didn't seem happy about that so

00:53:24.540 tiktok thanks let's see the comments i want to know what her body count was before she got married 1.00

00:53:34.800 tiktok may have ruined your marriage but it saved you it was definitely a heavy contributor i found

00:53:40.880 my voice and discovered more about my queerness getting your voice because of tiktok was so real

00:53:45.940 I found out he was cheating for five years when I was one month postpartum.

00:53:49.320 I might have stayed if I didn't have a community to give me hope. 0.98

00:53:53.240 Mine had passed before I got here, but this app helped me avoid so much shit. 0.90

00:53:58.360 Yes, it opened my eyes to see how bad things are. 0.87

00:54:02.240 It's not the thing that ended my marriage, but it definitely helped.

00:54:08.000 Well, they said community, though.

00:54:10.180 Yeah.

00:54:10.700 So they don't have church, of course, which is fine.

00:54:12.900 Not everyone wants that.

00:54:13.940 and they don't have other moms because the kids don't want to play at the playground they want to 1.00

00:54:21.900 be at home on video games yeah right when I was a kid my mom had community she had other moms at 0.99

00:54:27.880 the playground and they did stuff other than child rearing right they literally did things

00:54:33.340 together my mom was in a bowling league with other women women who were raising kids so they had this 0.99

00:54:40.220 community and today they don't I don't know it's not always church the community they have is at

00:54:46.260 work where they're all competing with each other yeah right uncool or what online or it's like a

00:54:53.720 salsa scene or like like whatever the girl's into like an anime scene but that's all online though

00:54:59.820 isn't it mostly yeah a lot I mean how many times do people go out anymore kids don't go out at all

00:55:05.520 not much the playgrounds are empty in the summer by my place and I have a nice playground they're

00:55:09.860 empty it's so crazy yeah it's crazy the kids don't ride bikes we have a

00:55:14.360 beautiful private street where I live and the kids don't ride bikes and my

00:55:17.900 neighborhood is all young kids they're all at home playing video games the moms 0.99

00:55:21.140 are at home actually I asked my sister if she didn't have social media would

00:55:25.220 you be left out and she said yeah she said if we like I wouldn't get invited

00:55:29.720 to anything yeah I wouldn't know about anything that's wild to me that's why

00:55:33.660 there's no solution for parents either because i mean they all communicate with snapchat

00:55:41.260 public school kids do no that's private really no that's catholic that's catholic school i have

00:55:47.500 some friends on social media real real life friends but we follow each other on social

00:55:51.260 media and their kids are unschooled and the kids are out beekeeping like the nine-year-old is

00:55:56.940 lifting weights the thing is though even with the homeschooled ones like once once they hit 18 you

00:56:03.340 you don't know what they're going to do.

00:56:04.800 So some of them go nuts.

00:56:07.060 Like Rum Springer for the Amish. 0.99

00:56:09.080 Yeah.

00:56:11.460 They're going to do what they're going to do.

00:56:13.080 You can't really control it fully.

00:56:14.640 There's stuff that can help, but you can't.

00:56:17.480 I mean, I've seen good dads with daughters on OnlyFans.

00:56:20.340 Oh, no.

00:56:20.900 I mean, that's normal, though.

00:56:22.160 That's normal.

00:56:22.840 Good non-simp dads I've seen have OnlyFans. 1.00

00:56:26.480 I was explaining this to my cousin the other day.

00:56:28.760 I'm like, look, I know you have kids, and this is scary.

00:56:31.520 you cannot fully prevent it right if your daughter decides like they're young but i'm like when

00:56:39.540 they're older can't stop it if she gets in the wrong group of friends gets on the wrong content

00:56:44.980 there is like love and be open for them to come back yeah the prodigal son there's only i knew

00:56:52.400 one girl who i mean she was just so sexual from such a young age her mom there was nothing else 1.00

00:56:59.940 her mom could have done she took away her phone she would like she she tried so hard to like 0.99

00:57:06.720 prevent her from like doing crazy stuff and she would go buy a burner phone at Walmart just to

00:57:12.000 yeah I have a guy would like hide it in the like in the bushes and just grab grab it when she needed

00:57:17.780 I have a guy I worked for in the 90s ex-client corporate guy rich guy yeah and he called me a

00:57:23.460 couple years ago and said his daughter was doing OnlyFans and I told him have the mom talk to her

00:57:29.100 and say you know we don't support this but if there's ever a problem you need to talk to someone

00:57:35.160 we're here for you we're not going to judge you we're not going to get angry you the girl did

00:57:38.880 OnlyFans or whatever for like a year year and a half put away a million dollars and then came home

00:57:43.720 because she was burned out she was exhausted she hated herself and they helped her invest that

00:57:50.580 money and she was one of the lucky ones but she talked about I've talked to her since she talked

00:57:55.480 about dozens of girls that she collaborated with and all of them are on drugs face tattoos the 1.00

00:58:00.620 average amount is 250 bucks they don't make money no a month unless you're like top top top tier and

00:58:07.320 good marketing yeah you know it's crazy to think about i mean that's why they crucified tate was

00:58:13.080 because they don't like it when men benefit off of women's sexuality even though the women were 0.72

00:58:17.480 willing participants right they just it's men cannot monetize women's sexuality that's such

00:58:22.960 a strange idea because i mean i owned bars when i was younger right and we monetized women's 0.98

00:58:28.440 sexuality yeah right my bars friday night 8 p.m happy hour for women come in it's free for women

00:58:34.640 yeah that was men monetizing women's sexuality yeah you know let's see what's next here

00:58:41.980 oh here's another one i am literally still in shock that my husband just came home one day

00:58:50.900 and decided that he's going to up and leave the family

00:58:53.080 and has left me in a position

00:58:54.320 where I have to find a way to save my house.

00:58:56.360 But here we are.

00:58:57.080 I'm going to tell you the story.

00:58:58.180 But here's the deal.

00:58:59.340 I am in the creator fund.

00:59:00.900 And if 35 million people watch this,

00:59:03.840 TikTok will pay to save my house.

00:59:05.780 I know that's ambitious.

00:59:07.200 You've already watched long enough.

00:59:08.680 But if we can get a large amount of views,

00:59:11.820 I can figure something out, okay?

00:59:13.440 What did you do to drive him away?

00:59:15.640 Women leave for no reason. 1.00

00:59:17.200 Men don't. 0.98

00:59:18.640 I'm not kidding.

00:59:19.200 if I date a girl and she does that to me 1.00

00:59:21.160 I think that's it

00:59:21.940 I think that's pure laziness at that point

00:59:24.920 most guys are not leaving over the bun

00:59:27.100 I would

00:59:27.540 I know you would

00:59:28.480 but the average American male

00:59:30.600 it takes a lot

00:59:31.500 can you do a video on the bun at some point in the future

00:59:34.320 the hairstyles and outfits

00:59:40.160 that you're wearing

00:59:42.000 to signal to your husband

00:59:45.160 you want to leave

00:59:46.080 that's the one

00:59:46.820 the sweatpants

00:59:48.800 I mean, sweatpants can be kind of hot around the house, a little bit, a little bit.

00:59:54.040 The bun is it would be game over.

00:59:55.600 But yeah, what did she do?

00:59:56.460 What did she do? 0.80

00:59:58.060 Here's the deal.

00:59:58.980 My husband comes home from work one day and says, I don't really like you anymore.

01:00:03.380 I'm not happy here.

01:00:04.940 I need to leave.

01:00:06.180 And we have our conversation and it basically ends with, don't stay if you don't like me.

01:00:10.940 That's not something that's going to change because I'm not changing, right?

01:00:14.200 but if this is something that can be figured out if it's because of other things that are happening

01:00:20.200 that could maybe be shifted then let's talk about it let's try and work it out he says okay we'll

01:00:25.640 try and work it out but he's going to nashville on a work trip the next day so that really gives

01:00:30.200 it a couple of days to simmer right well wild twist of fate his dad also ends up being on a

01:00:36.060 work trip in nashville something that he didn't even know about until he was already there they

01:00:40.940 don't work for the same company. It was just this wild twist of fate. After he talks to his dad,

01:00:45.420 I don't hear from him at all the rest of that trip. We had been talking before that. He had

01:00:49.940 called me a couple of times and then radio silence, not even a text. Comes home and basically just

01:00:55.260 says, okay, well, I'm leaving. I can't stay here. I don't want to be here. So not much I can do

01:01:00.940 about that, right? It has been less than two weeks. He has already rented an apartment and

01:01:05.420 he is moving out tomorrow. Like I am looking at his boxes over there that are waiting for him to

01:01:09.420 grab tomorrow so i would love to keep my house i have 200 pound dogs that were really his but i'm

01:01:17.100 keeping them because he works 12 hour days and at this point yes i'm desperate if you want to hear 0.94

01:01:23.980 more i did block his ass so i will talk more about it how many views how many views yeah i was just 0.86

01:01:29.600 about half a million likes well that's pretty good though that's really good she's gonna be 0.98

01:01:35.360 able to pay for some of the dog food but it tanked after yeah engagement I mean

01:01:40.940 she doesn't have an engaging look to her bad production quality where is it when 1.00

01:01:48.740 we were young divorce is worth it don't trust the not all men guy not all men 0.97

01:01:56.780 what a gal I don't see where it is but look at her but okay when her hair was 1.00

01:02:02.240 down she actually looked more feminine yeah i know she's he's working 12 hours 12 hour days 0.99

01:02:08.160 done i don't agree with republicans so basically he probably branch swung which is really rare for

01:02:14.640 a guy i bet his dad told him to get the f out or if he's close to his dad that's a good father again

01:02:20.640 there's the father figure where's her dad in all of this you know nowhere oh my gosh

01:02:26.640 where is it I can't see I can't find the one like how far back is this I just

01:02:33.240 want to know how many views it got oh you have to I don't know probably it's 0.97

01:02:37.680 okay I'm not a big tick tocker so oh my gosh and she's got the gay do you think 1.00

01:02:43.560 that I find that women go gay after a bad relationship always they don't mean 0.99

01:02:47.700 it it's New York a do you hear you know New York a no there's no guys to date in

01:02:52.260 new york so they became new york lesbians you hear britney griner or whatever the basketball player 1.00

01:02:59.940 she thinks her ex-wife didn't get pregnant from the ivf yeah she got knocked up by her ex is her 1.00

01:03:06.580 ex hot i don't know because i mean i don't know but that sounds fun to me she's about to get

01:03:11.860 paternity tested so how would that work i would be all about it for me no i meant for her because 0.99

01:03:18.180 it wasn't her kid anyway biologically correct so she can't force it so is she on child support or

01:03:24.340 no she would have child support because of the marriage that's a mess that happens to guys who 0.94

01:03:29.700 whose wives cheat yeah all the time and then the guy has to pay child support for 18 years because 1.00

01:03:34.980 they accepted fatherhood of the kid yeah but i would still do that i mean i wouldn't want to 0.99

01:03:39.620 but i would still do it because a father is a father is a father i randomly met a woman on

01:03:43.620 on a plane once that was the daughter of a dad that did or of like yeah and she said she could

01:03:49.320 not figure out her whole life why she wasn't like her other siblings that's amazing she never felt

01:03:53.840 like her other siblings were the same and so because she was the oldest right and so her mom

01:03:58.980 was sleeping with two men and she hit it and so she told the one that would be a better dad married 0.96

01:04:04.000 the simp yeah married the white i would do the same yeah if i was a woman yeah and so then she 1.00

01:04:11.660 had two kids for the guy after they stayed together is the crazy thing even though it all

01:04:17.420 came out later yeah but the thing is like a good dad is a good dad whether or not it's blood or not

01:04:22.780 i don't want to raise another guy's kids but i would adopt happily i would adopt yeah and if

01:04:28.180 if i mean i probably would step out on her though if that happened yeah um let's see now we got one 0.66

01:04:37.420 that's losing friends on tiktok i have lost friends since starting tiktok what's with that

01:04:42.200 accent because i'll be honest it's not something i was really expecting when i started it would

01:04:48.340 start off with them being kind of unsupportive so i could see them watching my posts but they

01:04:53.140 wouldn't engage or even like acknowledge it and that's fine whatever like you don't have to like

01:04:58.100 my post nobody's under any obligation to like my content especially if it's something that

01:05:01.980 they're not actively interested in fine fair enough whatever but then over time it would

01:05:05.820 turn into like little snide remarks or little jokes with the jack so if we were going out

01:05:10.200 somewhere they'd be like oh are you vlogging this even though i don't do vlogs or if i'm showing

01:05:14.040 something i bought they'd be like oh hashtag sponsored so do you think she was being annoying

01:05:19.220 or the friends were the friends were jealous they're jealous she's awesome i would watch her

01:05:23.440 she's fantastic the glass the little glasses the fairy eyes she's got because i'm looking at her

01:05:29.280 page she's awesome and i thought maybe she's big though right i thought maybe she was over 0.99

01:05:33.380 no not even i thought maybe she was over sharing or something i was like maybe that's why they

01:05:38.760 dumped that's jealousy no but this is um all it is is it's tick tock growth strategies like this

01:05:46.980 is actually a professional looking one it looks great i'm looking at it over your shoulder here 0.99

01:05:51.260 and it looks fantastic yeah i was like wonder why no it's jealousy it sucks it sucks to be a

01:05:56.860 successful woman turn into less contact less replies to messages to the point where like i'm 1.00

01:06:04.360 not getting invited places with them or like they're just not talking to me at all just really

01:06:08.940 weird and i would love to know if that's having other people and why you think that is i don't

01:06:12.780 want to be really reductive and be like oh they're just jealous because i don't think it's as simple

01:06:16.600 as that but i would love to know what it is that triggers people i guess i don't know it's just

01:06:21.600 it's very odd also i will say and yeah my hair's in stock curls now but yeah i will say i have

01:06:26.580 made more friends from doing tiktok so that is a benefit i guess but yeah it's just no i would

01:06:32.260 love to know what other not real no not real friends no there are people climbing the ladder

01:06:38.020 yeah that's coattails the posse the posse you learn that really really fast yeah my friends

01:06:44.980 are not even on the internet like my real life friends they're the most stable people correct

01:06:49.780 yeah but we don't see each other every day or every week yeah you know but they don't freak

01:06:54.180 like women it's kind of weird if you don't contact them for a while they get really mad 1.00

01:06:57.860 is there an app for that what is there a real life instead of social media is there a real life app

01:07:04.020 what do you mean a real the app doesn't actually you can't interact on the app but the apple will

01:07:09.180 remind you oh hey reach out to pearl it's her birthday hey reach out to pearl it's the day

01:07:13.920 that facebook used to be good for that but there won't be an app it would just be reminders

01:07:18.820 Let's see, we got a flight attendant

01:07:21.380 Oh no, that one

01:07:22.700 Yeah

01:07:23.360 There is a twerking flight attendant

01:07:26.080 is fired from Alaska Airlines

01:07:28.120 over a viral video filmed

01:07:30.780 while waiting two hours for a pilot

01:07:32.840 A California flight attendant

01:07:34.780 was terminated from her job

01:07:36.240 after she posted a now viral clip

01:07:38.500 of her twerking while waiting

01:07:40.280 for a pilot

01:07:42.380 on an empty flight

01:07:43.880 Nellie Dialla

01:07:45.840 a former flight attendant for Alaskan Airlines

01:07:48.660 was terminated from her dream job after a video she posted to TikTok of her twerking

01:07:54.040 on an empty plane went viral.

01:07:56.320 The video went viral overnight, but instead of love and support for it,

01:08:00.440 it brought unexpected scrutiny, she added.

01:08:04.260 She captioned the video, which garnered over 72,000 views. 1.00

01:08:08.320 Ghetto bitch till I die. 1.00

01:08:10.780 Don't let the uniform fool you. 1.00

01:08:13.640 Wow.

01:08:14.640 What a gal. 1.00

01:08:15.120 So is twerking is simp magnetism?

01:08:18.660 Yeah.

01:08:19.140 There's no way a man of value would even.

01:08:22.020 No.

01:08:22.560 No way.

01:08:23.180 No.

01:08:24.320 I mean, like if you were dating a guy and he was paying attention to girls twerking, you would lose respect really fast, right?

01:08:30.680 Yeah, especially she's so mid. 1.00

01:08:32.720 She really is.

01:08:33.580 I'm looking at her.

01:08:34.220 I mean, if you're going to simp over a girl twerking, I expect her to be an eight or hot. 1.00

01:08:38.340 Yes.

01:08:38.840 Yeah.

01:08:39.000 Then I'm like, all right.

01:08:40.420 Yeah.

01:08:40.560 36, 24, 36.

01:08:41.880 Yeah.

01:08:42.720 All right.

01:08:43.500 I get it.

01:08:44.160 She's really attractive.

01:08:45.200 i was celebrating at the end of probation and making it out of a hard upbringing in san francisco

01:08:51.780 something many people in the industry can't relate to although it was a poor decision on my behalf

01:08:57.040 it would cost me my dream job she wrote oh my god you know it's crazy men when they take else they

01:09:03.020 don't make excuse i saw a man i was watching a video the other day of a guy in prison for child

01:09:08.280 support yeah and he was making no excuses even though like you the system is so unfair with that

01:09:15.560 so i work with a lot of guys as a consultant uh and um i tell everybody blame me just blame me

01:09:23.320 for everything if anything goes wrong put the blame on me and i will accept it right away and

01:09:27.320 then i move accepted and move on and it actually gives me value clients like that i take the take

01:09:32.680 the bullet for my guys for my employees my crew i always tell them even if it's their fault you

01:09:39.000 know you get caught smoking weed in the bathroom just blame me say adam said it was okay even if

01:09:43.480 i didn't just blame me taking the l is professional yeah she can't take an l oh my gosh and also i

01:09:52.280 think she might be a economy class flight attendant what do you mean i i doubt she's a first class

01:09:59.480 flight attendant oh no her celebration was short-lived as alaska airlines terminated her 0.95

01:10:05.480 employment just six months into her contract so she went to school for two years i explained that

01:10:10.920 the video wasn't intended to harm anybody or the company but they didn't want to listen

01:10:15.400 it's incredible without warning they terminated me no discussion no chance to defend myself and no

01:10:21.560 chance for a thorough and proper investigation what is there to investigate you're in uniform

01:10:28.120 getting paid on company time just start an only fans just do it either there's got to be a ton

01:10:34.900 of only fans flight attendants i'm sure there i'm saying like you're twerking and you just 0.82

01:10:39.080 start an only fan you got the you got the clout from this it's time to get naked i had a lyft 0.89

01:10:44.600 driver who had her only fans qr code in her car holy crap yeah i didn't scan it i mean i scanned

01:10:50.960 it because i didn't know what it was it didn't say only fans it had the logo but i didn't know

01:10:54.060 the logo was what percent of attractive women do you think have done some sort of sex work 1.00

01:10:58.860 attractive women eight or higher i want to see if you say what the pi said 1.00

01:11:06.700 it's probably one in five twenty percent i think he said 40 yeah of attractive i mean you can't

01:11:13.180 say you didn't do like if you're fat it's like no one was gonna buy anyway no no the kink market is 0.98

01:11:18.300 much smaller than people realize much much the kink market are the guys that you know in your 0.87

01:11:22.540 your neighborhood if you're a fat girl and you got a couple of sims in your neighborhood they'll pay 1.00

01:11:26.620 to see you naked but there's no way some guy in new york is going to pay for some fat girl in 1.00

01:11:30.760 los angeles not happening no dalla has since reposted the twerking clip with a new caption 0.95

01:11:38.420 can't be yourself anymore without the world being so sensitive what's wrong with a little twerk

01:11:43.520 before work she reposted people act like they never did that before the footage was posted

01:11:49.220 along with the hashtag discrimination is real i never thought a single moment in my life would

01:11:54.600 cost me everything she wrote on the fundraising page which has received 646 of its 12 000 goal

01:12:02.280 as of thursday losing my job was devastating she added now dialla intends to devote more attention

01:12:10.380 to her lingerie and dessert which by the way guys if you want to donate to some a good cause we have

01:12:17.520 the GoFundMe for our divorce documentary.

01:12:20.040 Yes, that's a great cause, actually.

01:12:22.480 We have the right crew now, so we just have to raise the money.

01:12:26.200 So we already have them for the first month, so, you know, good.

01:12:30.500 And that's something men actually need to pay attention to.

01:12:32.480 You know what's amazing about this flight attendant? 1.00

01:12:34.780 So a flight attendant is one of the greatest opportunities for branch swinging hypergamy 1.00

01:12:40.220 that exists because you're meeting, of course, you're meeting a lot of broke guys, right,

01:12:45.740 who fly once every 10 years but you're also meeting the road warriors right and these are

01:12:49.840 guys who have money and you're right in front of that i mean you literally have an opportunity to

01:12:56.520 meet more men you're not a bartender you're not a massage therapist if you could go to first class

01:13:01.360 do you know what's crazy i want to tell you the biggest l i've ever seen a woman take 1.00

01:13:05.260 yeah so my dad is a friend who has box seats at the bowls sure and so we went to the game

01:13:11.560 and yeah and so we like it was i don't know if you've seen bend in one but it's it's like you

01:13:17.920 have your own box of course i have clients with access yeah and so they they'll go around and

01:13:22.680 bring you food of course and there is a woman that brought us dessert and i'm thinking that

01:13:26.840 is such a great opportunity if you're if you fit pretty makeup you're like you're bringing the

01:13:33.620 dessert like who's not who's unhappy to see the dessert she's like 300 pounds she was so fat and 1.00

01:13:41.020 it doesn't make sense yeah again where's the father where's the mother you could be you could

01:13:46.080 you could generational wealth in in literally one three-hour sport game you could build generational

01:13:52.700 wealth one time one meeting bring some dessert to the players you want to go for like the the

01:13:57.520 athletes yeah there's i mean what's the thing is a lot of guys who so i have a lot of owners

01:14:01.760 i have a lot of clients who have box seats and let's say it's 50 50 between alphas and dorks

01:14:08.260 Right, so tech dorks who have box seats, those are the guys that you want to get with

01:14:13.540 because they're not sleeping around, they're not running around, you know, they're ready.

01:14:18.560 Yeah.

01:14:19.060 They're ready.

01:14:19.660 They want to meet someone pretty.

01:14:20.760 They're going out, they're buying box seats so they can meet pretty girls. 0.83

01:14:25.220 And you're 300 pounds.

01:14:27.380 All you had to do was not be fat.

01:14:30.200 You know what?

01:14:30.660 I'm very big on working with, if the woman has a type, right? 1.00

01:14:35.300 Yeah.

01:14:35.540 I was thinking about this the other day.

01:14:36.920 If you like pookies, that's your thing.

01:14:39.260 You know how the women can't get away from pookies? 1.00

01:14:41.900 Fine. 0.63

01:14:42.160 We've got to just find a pookie with a job. 1.00

01:14:44.440 With a job that's stable enough that it'll work.

01:14:46.460 If you like rich guys, go work for the box seat place.

01:14:49.940 Right.

01:14:50.460 I agree.

01:14:51.320 I mean, there are pookies with good jobs.

01:14:53.720 There are.

01:14:54.240 They are out there.

01:14:55.640 I said athletes, or not, sorry, coaches.

01:15:00.100 Coaches.

01:15:00.420 So you could get, like, if you're not that attractive, go down to the retail level.

01:15:04.860 Right.

01:15:04.960 i have a friend who's a pookie and he's a manager he manages um 1.00

01:15:09.440 forklift operators in a warehouse oh and he is totally a pookie 1.00

01:15:13.520 and he makes a ton of money i think he makes like 250 a year

01:15:16.800 yeah that's a ton of money and i mean the right girl 0.98

01:15:22.000 i mean he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat maybe at work

01:15:25.360 no he cheats with everyone every new girl that comes through there

01:15:29.600 yeah i think he told me he got four notches in a week with new girls after

01:15:33.200 the training after the internship he's gonna get in trouble no they might sue oh no no no he's

01:15:38.820 he's he's masculine he's got charm i don't know they've been taking down a lot of masculine guys

01:15:45.900 lately i mean joy taylor is gonna take down all of them i heard that yeah i'm like you better be

01:15:51.860 careful oh my gosh i just can't believe this woman doubled down all right next we got um 1.00

01:16:00.440 apparently i'm supposed to mute this because of the copyright so wait okay wait there oh there

01:16:06.180 this is it oh no is that the original video yeah that's supposed to be attractive

01:16:16.760 wow

01:16:19.680 i just why who are the guys who are chasing this why would you think that would be a good idea

01:16:30.440 No, I will never fly Alaska again.

01:16:34.780 Oh, there's a guy's comment.

01:16:35.980 Well, where Nellie Dialla is working, I will.

01:16:39.500 Oh my gosh, that would be if someone did like titty planes.

01:16:43.080 Like a topless plane.

01:16:46.040 Actually, Hooters had an airline.

01:16:47.880 No way.

01:16:48.960 They sure did.

01:16:50.520 Hooters had an airline and they hired very large breasted women as their flight attendants. 1.00

01:16:54.380 No way.

01:16:54.900 Wearing the tight white Hooters tank top.

01:16:57.880 I'm not kidding you.

01:16:59.200 It didn't last long.

01:17:00.720 It probably died in the 90s, but you're going to have to look that one up.

01:17:05.880 But simps would love that.

01:17:07.480 I mean, the flight attendants used to be hot.

01:17:10.060 What happened?

01:17:11.420 They're not hot anymore.

01:17:12.760 So what happened was the flight attendants union.

01:17:14.700 By the way, flight attendants work really hard.

01:17:16.180 So I'll never put down someone who works as a flight attendant.

01:17:18.700 But the flight attendants union kept women in the job much longer than it used to. 1.00

01:17:25.340 And again, it's a career, right?

01:17:27.200 Women wanted to work until their 40s and 50s and 60s, so the union protected them. 1.00

01:17:31.760 In the old days, pre-union, the airlines would cycle them.

01:17:36.020 They used to be a great American Airlines flight attendant training center in Elk Grove Village.

01:17:40.200 Fantastic.

01:17:41.040 It was all young girls, fresh off the bus, right, from St. Louis and East Dubuque and Jackson Hole.

01:17:49.620 Never been in a big city before.

01:17:52.320 And they were all beautiful, fit.

01:17:54.700 And they were the bubbly ones.

01:17:57.200 You should be a flight attendant. 0.88

01:17:58.600 They weren't pretty enough to be a model.

01:18:01.220 They couldn't act.

01:18:03.540 Flight attendant.

01:18:04.660 But then the unions came in, and now you see a lot of, and again, not disparaging them.

01:18:08.880 They work really hard.

01:18:10.080 I mean, I fly 140 flights a year.

01:18:11.900 I'm on the flight all the time.

01:18:13.720 I tip my flight attendants, right?

01:18:15.580 That's how much I'm thankful for them.

01:18:17.880 But they get older, you know.

01:18:21.620 Yeah, I guess a lot of them have been doing it for a while.

01:18:24.340 A long time.

01:18:24.880 I see, yeah.

01:18:25.880 And I mean, I respect it.

01:18:26.880 for me i don't want hot flight attendants i just don't know i don't think i could not could do that

01:18:32.640 job and not get really fat like it'd be so hard to be have like a proper nutrition there's no

01:18:38.160 nutrition they don't eat anything good yeah like you can't cook ever nothing i'm sure i'm sure some

01:18:44.800 of them have figured it out there if there's a will there's a way but for me i fly with a flight

01:18:49.440 attendant united she's so fit she's so beautiful she's married she eats healthy and i've talked to

01:18:56.240 story about it before and she just told me that it's a it's literally a job for

01:18:59.780 her to stay fit yeah like she lands random cities all the time she's got a 1.00

01:19:04.040 Planet Fitness membership or whatever she goes to the gym she doesn't eat the 1.00

01:19:07.880 airport food yeah you know it's a lot of discipline a lot of discipline and I'm

01:19:15.200 sure they all party and I was gonna say she she gets invited to the bars yeah 0.85

01:19:19.160 right at the hotel that the airport put airplane airline puts them up in and

01:19:25.460 And then they party.

01:19:26.220 And I used to party with flight attendants.

01:19:27.600 I mean, I was on flights.

01:19:28.520 I still am.

01:19:29.380 I don't party anymore with them.

01:19:30.720 But even, you know, 10 years ago, get off a plane, talking to the flight attendants.

01:19:35.560 Hey, where are you staying?

01:19:37.940 Yeah.

01:19:38.580 And, you know, one time I saw this couple I thought was so cute.

01:19:42.080 And I was talking to them, right?

01:19:43.860 And it was like a couple and they had a friend.

01:19:47.840 Yeah.

01:19:48.000 And the friend told me that there was one was a pilot.

01:19:51.600 And he was cheating with the girl.

01:19:53.360 Yes.

01:19:53.700 I thought it was like the cutest couple.

01:19:55.240 she was a side chick one of my first girlfriends her dad was a pilot and her

01:19:59.860 mom was a flight attendant and then the mom retired and the dad still piloted to

01:20:06.040 Germany yeah and I asked the girlfriend my girlfriend was beautiful I said

01:20:09.880 doesn't your mom care and she said as long as it happens outside of the US

01:20:15.340 they have an arrangement yeah she just accepts it yeah pilots if it's in a 0.96

01:20:21.440 different country he's in a uniform yeah right I mean who's gonna say no to that

01:20:26.000 yeah right in control of 300 lives it's pretty that's catnip that's catnip well

01:20:34.280 what are your final thoughts on the on the women losing their jobs because the 0.82

01:20:39.260 tick-tock it comes down to what I said initially this is hypergamy but instead

01:20:43.060 of women getting a better husband they're just getting more fans and I

01:20:46.400 think women competing with women is a natural aspect you know if you're 1.00

01:20:50.520 beautiful and you can attract top tier guys, then you're going to be competing on marrying up for 0.99

01:20:55.840 real, real hypergamy. This is entrepreneurial hypergamy. The women who had husbands obviously 1.00

01:21:02.240 aren't taking care of their husband's needs, obviously. And they're ignoring their kids, 0.94

01:21:06.200 they're ignoring their students, they're ignoring their friends, they're ignoring whatever it is

01:21:10.620 for the likes. Oh my gosh, that's so true. They ignore, it's so obvious they're not paying

01:21:16.000 attention but it's catnip i mean getting followers is so sexy going from even having a hundred

01:21:22.120 followers going to a thousand followers yeah that's dopamine yeah that really that's a turn

01:21:27.380 on so do you think that the top of the female hierarchy it's clout above getting the best like 1.00

01:21:33.140 the hottest guys so the hottest oh i don't think the hottest guys matters as much anymore i think

01:21:38.960 the richest guys doesn't matter as much anymore i think if you can lock down the hot guy and lock

01:21:44.580 down the rich guy that's clout but followers is more clout yeah because it's not one guy women

01:21:50.940 worship kardashians they don't worship um like lebron james's wife no it's so rare to find

01:21:58.860 celebrities that have been married a long time it really is you know what the only ones women 0.99

01:22:03.120 worship is like george clooney's wife who got him when correct where she like he was done he was

01:22:09.100 done and she was 35 right and yeah she was hot though right she was she was yeah but it's still

01:22:15.580 the female fantasy to like lock him down oh yeah but i mean he was he used to drive around la and

01:22:21.460 it's convertible and the only thing that shared a bed with him was a pig he had a pet pig he would

01:22:28.880 ride in the car with him no no look it up so what okay wait i don't want to i don't want to give

01:22:35.180 away too much uh too much information but i know someone who's a very good friend of his

01:22:39.180 and cluny's to drive around rodeo drive and he was hot then he had the big old bushy eyebrows

01:22:44.980 and he had a pet pig shut up he did look at this and uh brian can you get that up there

01:22:50.980 and um yeah i don't want to give away any of my my my knowledge my friendship base but basically i

01:22:57.840 know someone who's one of his best friends and he would kick girls out of the car when he would go

01:23:03.800 get his pig because the pig went with him everywhere that's so funny isn't that amazing

01:23:11.200 can you imagine being a hot girl i mean he was he still is hot but he was really hot suave you know 0.97

01:23:18.080 good bs-er yeah and she just got lucky but he was ready yeah i mean let me tell you something i'm

01:23:24.460 50 right i still got my drive i still got my cocky behavior but i'm not 30 yeah right 50 is a good

01:23:31.860 time for a guy to settle down i'm not exactly there yet but it's a good time and if i was a

01:23:36.940 george clooney type i probably would be like hey you know what yeah you win yeah right in the media

01:23:42.820 you win is he still screwing around yeah of course i'm sure they have new pills now yeah

01:23:49.760 yeah well thank you so much for coming on thanks bro that was awesome you want to tell the people

01:23:55.800 you got any social media website you want to plug you know not really okay i appreciate that i'm not

01:24:00.520 really not here to promote myself. I'm here because I'm really excited about your documentary

01:24:05.440 that you're working on. And the topic today, I think it's really important. Guys, if you are a

01:24:10.640 dad, don't force this on your daughters, but somehow maybe get them to watch the episode.

01:24:17.380 Because I think this is an important thing to see that women can throw away years of schooling, 1.00

01:24:23.080 years of networking, years of building their reputation. They can throw it away for a TikTok,

01:24:28.740 not even porn or a face tattoo or getting caught with drugs for a tick tock and i think younger

01:24:37.180 girls especially need to know that it's not worth the clout always yeah and be like pearl 1.00

01:24:43.060 plan things yeah before you say them thank you for having me on pearl thank you so much um all right

01:24:49.760 we're gonna read the chat one more time before we go also guys if you want to donate to the

01:24:54.020 documentary there's a link to that in the description uh we're at about like 13 000 or 14

01:24:59.120 last i checked so amazing um our goal is to get to ideally our first goal is like 50 and then at

01:25:06.840 least the basic is covered um if we get a better edit at 75 but um okay so let me read the rest of

01:25:15.880 what also if you want to put a comment or question you can always do it in the chat on the website

01:25:21.020 it's 10 bucks a month 80 bucks a year it's not really acceptable to shame or correct women you

01:25:26.200 don't know well community is gone churches fail gaming and tiktok win women drink free bar that

01:25:32.200 drink free bars are banned now due to equal rights he doesn't understand what a pookie is 1.00

01:25:37.820 a requirement of a pookie is not having a good job tyrone's i can accept tyrone's can have good 0.93

01:25:43.420 jobs pookies don't okay is a pookie a pookie socially that's what i was thinking of pookie 1.00

01:25:51.020 so socially maybe i've been using it wrong maybe we'll define it next show anyways guys make sure 0.82

01:25:56.620 you like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel thank you so much for watch

01:26:00.460 watching i appreciate you and i will see you guys next time

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Pearl - January 19, 2025

Modern Women Taking L's On TikTok ｜ Pearl Daily

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