Pearl - Modern Women Who Wait For Marriage Are SCAMMING YOU!

00:00:00.000 oh she's saying there's no pressure to please her husband you are not selling this to the men

00:00:05.120 what up guys welcome to my reaction series so as you guys know we talk a lot about the simps in

00:00:10.560 the church on this channel so there's a new wave of women who are waiting till marriage on their 0.99

00:00:16.160 purity journey making their simp husbands wait while throwing it back for chad and tyrone in 0.82

00:00:23.280 their youth what if you wait till marriage and the sex isn't good you know how many times i've been

00:00:30.080 asked this on my purity journey what if the sex isn't good like do you hear yourself we were never

00:00:35.920 intended to know what is good or what is bad in sex we were never here's the thing women know when sex 1.00

00:00:43.440 is bad even if they've never had sex with anyone else because they know you know it's like imagine

00:00:50.000 you're banging a guy you know we want to be like choked out deep down and even women if they're 1.00

00:00:56.320 banging these like simp guys that are like oh you're so beautiful we're gonna throw up i mean

00:01:01.840 i hate that we're like this i don't enjoy being a woman because we just got so much evil in us but 0.97

00:01:06.240 it just is how it is intended to know that you know why because sex is good it's supposed to be between

00:01:13.760 one man and one wife two becoming one under the nagging tone christ this is literally a gift from

00:01:22.480 god it creates human life i don't know if y'all thought about that but that's powerful so getting

00:01:27.680 asked this question blows my mind because we were never supposed to have a comparison game

00:01:32.160 we were never supposed to have a list in our phone of who's good and who's bad we were never even

00:01:36.400 supposed to have a list in our phone it's supposed to say one and that's it but we have taken

00:01:42.240 yeah she's a former hoe she knows about the list of the phone these are that this is your local 1.00

00:01:47.680 trad way what is good and we've turned it bad and now i get asked these these just ignorant questions 0.98

00:01:54.640 and it blows my mind because sex is supposed to be between husband and wife becoming one under christ

00:02:00.720 so again this idea is good but the challenge is in in modern society just doesn't work anymore

00:02:06.560 waiting till marriage unfortunately for men and for women because what happens is the women we have 0.95

00:02:11.440 access to too many dominant men so what happens is even the virgin girls at church i mean the church

00:02:18.240 guy isn't going to choke her out and you know beat her basically so she's going to say i got bored

00:02:23.840 because the guy on my screen does would do that to me i'm bored i want to divorce it chemically bonds

00:02:30.480 you to another person it is it is beyond powerful it is the most intimate thing two people can do

00:02:36.080 yet we've turned it into a comparison game of who's good and who's bad we've used it as a way to shame

00:02:41.520 people no what the church does is it shames the male and the female sex drive now again i wouldn't

00:02:48.640 have this beef with the church if they provided real solutions but they basically say ignore your

00:02:53.680 sex drives men and women ignore it they say get married is anyone in your church getting married no 0.81

00:02:59.680 sex is good sex is great and you know what god blesses those who honor him no matter where you're 0.93

00:03:11.360 at if you've had sex you haven't you can still make that decision you can honor god with with your sex

00:03:16.960 life i'm sorry she's not hot enough to ask for these prices this is a conversation we're not having with

00:03:23.280 women women if you're a used car we got to talk about the pricing model now if you're really hot maybe 1.00

00:03:28.880 there's a guy at church that'll wait that's half attractive but if you're ugly um i'm so sorry

00:03:34.320 but this just isn't gonna go those who are thinking of okay next we got this woman here let me see 0.99

00:03:40.640 waiting for marriage for someone almost nine years married and still experiences the benefits those who

00:03:45.760 are thinking of waiting till marriage to have sex i'm not gonna give like my whole life story on here

00:03:51.040 but i do want to say that i was not perfect before i met my husband my husband yeah so she threw

00:03:54.880 back for some chad tyrone gavin whoever and now her husband has to wait so now and it's even worse

00:04:00.880 because she could keep it to herself but she's publicly humiliating him so it was not perfect

00:04:06.320 before he met me but when we met each other we had both basically like rededicated our lives to jesus

00:04:12.320 and really wanted to do our relationship with each other god's way and we just saw so much like

00:04:16.800 blessing over our relationship and all that stuff but even almost nine years into marriage i see the benefit

00:04:23.760 that happened when we waited with each other to have sex first of all still even almost nine years

00:04:30.400 into marriage and frequently being with each other in that way we both still feel this like we talk

00:04:37.600 about it sometimes like i can't believe we get to do this because it now again we gotta think about

00:04:41.360 this in actuality not like emotionalism again what is marriage it's a promise to stay with each other

00:04:47.120 for a life too bad women break promises so it means nothing now unfortunately sorry guys um

00:04:53.920 now for the women 1.00

00:04:57.840 she'll say oh i experience all these benefits uh i mean yeah you got lifelong protection and

00:05:04.160 commitment without having to put out that's pretty beneficial but they never say it's always the benefit

00:05:09.440 for the woman and the man's just going to agree he's like yes honey i want to keep getting laid 0.63

00:05:13.760 seriously was something that we held off on for so long that it just still even almost nine years

00:05:19.760 into marriage feels like so special that we're allowed to do it you know what i mean like that we

00:05:24.720 have this permission to enjoy this thing with each other and it feels so like sacred but also

00:05:30.240 i feel so safe because we morally have our own like convictions with god where because we're both convicted

00:05:38.480 we aren't like only not cheating on each other because the other person is pleasing us perfectly

00:05:45.680 and is the perfect spouse we are not cheating on each other because of our convictions to god and we

00:05:52.080 also aren't cheating on each other because sex outside of marriage is something that we have both been

00:05:57.360 convicted that it's wrong and so even like if we had temptation outside of marriage like we have these

00:06:03.760 like back up back up back up convictions of like okay cheating is wrong but also sex outside of

00:06:08.880 marriage is wrong even thinking of like if we ever he has convictions right now that doesn't mean she'll

00:06:15.200 always have those convictions and really i gotta beat this into the church guys you know she's got 0.93

00:06:20.480 her tits out in this what convictions god forbid like left each other for you know some reason it's like 1.00

00:06:30.000 we would still have to date somebody and like marry them before we would have sex with them she's 1.00

00:06:35.440 already uh thinking of her backup plan there's some other guy in the church or at work or something so

00:06:40.800 it's not like we would go experience this grass is greener on the other side like quick fix with

00:06:46.880 somebody else we would still want to wait with that person and waiting is super super hard to do and

00:06:54.800 our bodies are just wanting to express the way we feel with each other and to be able to have

00:07:02.720 the freedom to do that in your marriage after not allowing yourself to before has been seriously like

00:07:11.040 the best decision ever and i don't know why i've been thinking about it lately but i think i'm just living

00:07:17.840 in like the blessings of it even nine years into marriage where maybe when you're newlyweds and you

00:07:23.600 waited with each other it might be like okay like cool that we waited we obeyed god whatever um but i

00:07:30.880 don't know you're gonna still feel like you're gonna feel even more as time goes on that you're so thankful

00:07:36.880 that you did that and you're going to feel this pressure release from you when it comes to being the

00:07:42.800 perfect woman in bed so that your husband doesn't find somebody else oh she's saying there's no 1.00

00:07:50.480 pressure to please her husband you are not selling this to the men but the women will sign up they're

00:07:55.760 like oh i don't have to do anything that sounds amazing because your husband has shown you that he

00:08:01.600 can restrict and restrain himself for years with you and now she'll also restrict and restrain him after

00:08:08.400 marriage have any of you dated a born again virgin how did that go and so he's not only going to

00:08:13.440 restrict and restrain himself in person but he's also going to do that online too because sex outside 0.77

00:08:18.720 of marriage also is just sex in your nagging about porn or mind with somebody else looking at somebody

00:08:25.200 else naked like all that stuff outside of marriage is a sin and so if you have that conviction and you

00:08:33.280 follow god with all your heart like you just have this beautiful like cushion around you of not

00:08:39.360 being afraid in your marriage and i don't know if that's what i say marriage again it removes the

00:08:45.280 burden of performance for women you know because when women have a burden of performance that means we 1.00

00:08:50.720 have to be nice and that's tough for us but when you give marriage women have the sense of security 0.88

00:08:57.360 and then we become bitches it's gonna ruffle feathers but i just really want to say this 0.91

00:09:01.600 for anybody who even if you already slept with your boyfriend and you guys want to stop like 0.98

00:09:07.680 i'm telling you oh my god the boyfriends are like do not watch this woman's tick tock no no no 1.00

00:09:13.600 there are so many other benefits other than the fact that god is just going to be so pleased and like

00:09:19.360 bless you guys and repentance is all he cares about like he does not care about perfection he cares about

00:09:25.600 hearts that are repentful and i'm just super super super thankful that i have a husband that has

00:09:32.400 moral convictions in his sex life and um that he showed that to me before we were married it makes

00:09:39.600 me feel so safe so secure and i just notice the words that she's using safe secure i mean she beta bucks

00:09:46.320 right and she'll be back to alpha fucks in her 40s so see you at 45 with your first divorce ma'am 1.00

00:09:52.320 like literally couldn't recommend following god's ways enough because he is a mastermind he created 0.87

00:09:57.600 us and there's a reason why he has boundary lines and when we look at a world where everybody's

00:10:02.480 getting cheated on everybody's um husbands and boyfriends are all addicted to porn and all that

00:10:07.200 stuff like and women are too like you just you just realize that god has rules and boundaries for a 1.00

00:10:14.960 reason and they're for our protection and safety it's for women right these boundaries men don't

00:10:20.640 love like women with boundaries you know it's not like they're like yay i can't wait for a woman with 1.00

00:10:24.960 boundaries so yeah so my husband and i re-waited till marriage so we did not sleep with each other

00:10:30.560 until we were married in our previous relationships we weren't as close to god as we were when we got

00:10:35.440 together we really look when a woman makes you wait for sex the sex is never worth the wait we wanted to 0.98

00:10:42.160 honor god with our relationship and i'm telling you guys it was the best thing we could have ever done

00:10:46.720 like the people saying oh you need to test drive a car before you buy it like do you really want to

00:10:51.200 be with that here's the thing she's a little bit better looking than the other ones so she's gonna 1.00

00:10:55.360 have an easier time selling this um but in general again women the way we know who we like the men are 1.00

00:11:03.760 the men that we sleep with so if you don't sleep with them fast usually they don't like them that much 0.99

00:11:08.000 and then women go on and brag about how they don't like their husbands that in a much indirectly how 0.99

00:11:12.560 sad is that person who needs to test drive you like there's just such like a weird saying that

00:11:18.080 makes absolutely no sense and i feel like if you're both honoring god with your life and you both really

00:11:23.520 want to live for god then really like practicing purity and living like god tells us to live will give

00:11:30.080 you the most peace and giving my life to christ has been the best thing that i've ever done and i'm

00:11:35.520 telling you guys right now the life that god has for you is a million times better than the life that

00:11:40.560 you have planned for yourself and i feel like really stepping into hey god this new plan is like five

00:11:46.960 minutes in she doesn't look that old what do you want me to do with with my life like how can i live

00:11:52.240 for you not just for myself and just having that mindset also like going into dating and like really

00:11:58.720 being devoted to christ together and i'm telling you guys right now if i compare the two before i was with

00:12:04.160 ryan i did not live this way and now being with ryan and waiting to marriage having in marriage

00:12:11.120 how bad is it that women are bragging about being with men that they don't break rules for 1.00

00:12:16.880 we do not understand how embarrassing this is not only did he have to wait he's also getting

00:12:21.520 publicly humiliated the most incredible thing i've ever experienced you can't even compare the two like

00:12:26.240 it's it almost feels like it's not the same thing like honestly you ask people and you're like yeah

00:12:30.960 that's exactly what i felt too also practicing self-discipline like when you're dating is so

00:12:35.680 important later on in marriage like to really have self-control have self-discipline and being

00:12:40.320 with a guy that truly honors god and put puts god first and treats you like the woman of god that you

00:12:46.160 are or even the other way around treating you like a godly man and respecting you as the wife it's just so

00:12:52.240 designed from god he will breathe on your marriage you will breathe on your dating relationship a touch from

00:12:57.440 god and the peace from god you can't even compare to anything that this world can give you i just

00:13:01.680 wanted to encourage you guys if you're out there you're still waiting for the right person you know

00:13:05.600 look for somebody that really wants to follow jesus and and in their heart deep down they just they

00:13:10.880 just want to follow god and they love god it's so different than like you trying to convince him or her

00:13:16.640 you know you want you want somebody who's really running after god and not somebody who you have to

00:13:21.920 like come on like do this with me and yeah i just i just want she gets to use the bible uh against you 1.00

00:13:27.520 so whenever you do something wrong she'll be there to remind you and beat it over your head encourage

00:13:32.400 you marriage even though it's not her place it's like shut up woman it's such a beautiful thing dating 1.00

00:13:37.600 is such a beautiful thing and being with a godly woman or a godly man is life-changing i will tell

00:13:43.360 you it's life-changing because before that i was got enough with this mumbo jumbo um yeah so not only are

00:13:49.040 women making men wait for sex you know men want to be with the girl that can't wait she's like i can't 1.00

00:13:55.040 wait to bang you i don't want to bang any other guy but you you i cannot wait for so it's a little 0.95

00:14:01.120 bit embarrassing when the men have to negotiate desire and like make us like you know do all this 0.89

00:14:06.080 work to make us like you that's a little bit embarrassing but not only do they have to be

00:14:11.760 embarrassed they also have to brag about it on the internet so the man gets double humiliated so

00:14:18.080 anyways guys have you ever been with a woman that wanted to wait till marriage how was that

00:14:21.440 experience please put it in the comments we will pin the best one like the video and i'll see you next

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Pearl - November 08, 2025

Modern Women Who Wait For Marriage Are SCAMMING YOU!

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