Pearl - More Women Should Follow in Hayden's Footsteps (Give Yo Kids To the Dad)

00:00:00 what is up everybody welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network uh

00:00:09 today's kind of a chill stream day um wanted to go through a couple milestones in my life because

00:00:16 it's kind of weird um you know it's funny people just seem to be so invested when i i update them

00:00:26 on my little project so i'm like it i will um i've recently switched my diet to trying to get

00:00:33 150 grams of protein a day mostly because um i'm trying to see if that'll get rid of i get like

00:00:43 like extreme hunger sometimes so anyways this has been my breakfast recently

00:00:48 this is like this with a protein shake is in 90 grams so i don't know if anyone cares but

00:00:56 i'll update you guys on the results of this i i may like it i may not so far i can't believe how

00:01:05 much less i overeat i think but i think i got to do this for a few weeks before i keep you updated

00:01:11 i gained a little weight back not a lot but like seven eight pounds so i'm trying to i'm trying to

00:01:17 get it off so um this is my splits training so i'm trying to get the splits and i didn't do a

00:01:27 lot of warm-up before this but i was like do you know what i post my mobility updates on twitter

00:01:33 and really for me the splits is like way harder than anything

00:01:39 any physical activity like i think a marathon was easier than trying to get the splits i'm not even

00:01:49 kidding uh yeah if you guys want to donate feel free um i'm kind of going broke so if you want

00:02:00 to keep the channel alive i gotta you're gonna see it up uptick in content because yeah this

00:02:07 channel's not doing good so if you want to donate feel free um 1.00

00:02:11 oh apparently Brittany Venti I don't like to say her name because this chick is like she kind of 0.99

00:02:18 scares me she's so crazy like she's so insane um and you know Chrissy I think is less insane but 1.00

00:02:26 still a little bit insane Chrissy Meyer uh but she surrounds herself with a lot of insane people and 0.90

00:02:32 now she's like surprised that insane people are crashing out on her it's like chrissy you saw her

00:02:39 crash out of me you saw her crash on all these people like i don't know what you expect

00:02:45 oh abba and preach abba got exposed i guess he bullies women into abortions

00:02:51 um so recently all of my enemies have been taking out themselves so for those of you that don't

00:02:57 know there are people that have made hit pieces on me over the years and just um you know ruthlessly

00:03:05 relentlessly attack attacking me and it's so crazy because they're all involved in such weird stuff

00:03:12 they're all involved in like it's just stuff i'm not trying to be holier than thou because

00:03:19 i mean i just gotta be honest here it's not like i'm a saint

00:03:24 but my god you know i don't think i'd bully someone into getting an abortion you know what i

00:03:32 mean i'm like you knocked up two women i have never been on birth control and i've never been

00:03:40 pregnant you can write that down you can whatever never been on birth control never had an abortion

00:03:46 it's really oh i'm sorry i was on birth control for like a year but i meant

00:03:51 i i think the last time i was on birth control i was like 19 or 20 and i was done maybe 21 i don't

00:04:00 know so i was on it and you know it's crazy i didn't have any side effects from birth control

00:04:05 i actually felt fine um but what happened was um i just felt like i just felt like birth control

00:04:16 would give me problems later like even back then i'm like logically thinking i just feel like there

00:04:22 is going to be issues if i stay on this for a while and i remember my friend at the time was

00:04:28 like making fun of me because i said this and then now like a decade later she was talking

00:04:33 about her hormonal issues and i'm like dude i told you that this was gonna happen um

00:04:46 yeah so i understand none of this girl drama but this is just kind of funny to watch my enemies

00:04:51 eat each other so i'm just gonna pull it up yeah and you said there was conflicting things right

00:04:59 that melanie was saying like oh it's a nothing burger essentially right but nina two weeks had

00:05:04 told you otherwise so if you're saying that you had her on anyway because there was a confliction

00:05:08 then that kind of that doesn't make sense to say that therefore you didn't know but even if we did

00:05:12 assume that right and it's like you know you just didn't remember from two weeks ago even though

00:05:17 it's serious like i think that would be something to remember when he's saying he's gonna go after

00:05:20 me and he's already deplatformed people i think that's on your responsibility especially because

00:05:27 we've known each other a long time and we worked together a long time take something like that

00:05:31 seriously and when nina's telling you as your friend like it's just the nagging and these are 1.00

00:05:36 women that have done like these long ass live streams on me it's just funny i don't really care 1.00

00:05:41 because I'm just not bothered by these old hags. 1.00

00:05:44 But it's just kind of funny to watch them eat each other. 1.00

00:05:55 I said Happy Mother's Day to all of the aborted babies,

00:05:59 from all the aborted babies, you know.

00:06:05 This was Diabolical by Michaela Peterson.

00:06:08 Diabolical. 1.00

00:06:11 why are your tits out in a picture with your baby 1.00

00:06:14 like look i'm not a prude i don't even really have a problem with her posting this picture by 1.00

00:06:27 herself but it's just pick a lane like you can't tits out with baby tits out with baby and it's 0.99

00:06:36 just kind of crazy the white knighting like it's so um it's so crazy the amount of um people in 1.00

00:06:47 the comments girl you don't have to live like this okay now okay that's something else the tits 1.00

00:07:00 are not out you're a hypocrite it's just it's like look i don't really have a problem with 0.99

00:07:07 women looking hot online i really i mean that's kind of what women are there for um 0.95

00:07:17 look at this guy even if they were out how would you feed a baby i don't know off camera

00:07:24 i'm like do you guys hear yourself making this kind of micro criticism of other people doesn't

00:07:30 feel great and well adjusted in your own soul like this is a trad conservative account here

00:07:39 what is the world coming to even the conservatives defend female sexuality like 0.99

00:07:46 am i going crazy you have some good takes but this ain't it women are going to dress

00:07:50 aren't going to dress like pilgrims anymore this is average and didn't raise any red flags like

00:07:56 it's just the fact that guys will defend women they're not even sleeping

00:08:02 do you realize how you sound talk about letting everyone see your bias

00:08:15 this world is going to hell in a handbasket oh i was considering getting marpy i really want my

00:08:30 jaw issues to go away and i'm i really would love to hear from someone um that has had marpy but

00:08:39 there aren't a lot of comments so if anyone's had it feel free this video is coming out um i went

00:08:45 oh, okay. So I went to a church that people call a cult here, but I can't remember the name,

00:08:53 but I said it in the video because they told me right before I'm bad with names. And

00:08:57 I just asked the question, should Christian women obey their husbands? 0.51

00:09:03 And I was thinking about it and I'm like, 1.00

00:09:06 shouldn't this be an easy answer but it was kind of crazy just like um

00:09:16 how many you know supposedly christian women answered like yes but or no so anyways

00:09:28 people were nice though nothing against them oh my god probably did not

00:09:36 so okay all right I need to tell you about this submission so during the during the interview you

00:09:43 guys will see I asked the women um I said doesn't it say that women like I think I asked a question

00:09:52 like should women lead a bible study and I said doesn't it say that women shouldn't speak and be 0.84

00:09:57 they should be in the back of the church and then the woman was like well do you know the context of

00:10:02 that. And I'm like, tell me the context. And she's like, well, you're cherry picking. And I'm like,

00:10:09 yup, I'm doing lots of cherry picking. I hate it when women are like, they don't know how bitchy 1.00

00:10:13 they are. Right. I think I'm just like, I'm like, lady, you're just trying to tell me that I don't 1.00

00:10:18 know what I'm talking about. And so if you know what you're talking about, then just tell me.

00:10:22 Great. You Bible thump better than me, you know, go ahead. And the woman, she says, well, the women

00:10:29 were wicked at the time you know she's saying at the time this was taken um what is the context

00:10:36 and I'm I'm thinking and she's saying and I'm thinking so I asked her I'm like

00:10:42 are you saying the women are good now

00:10:45 so then I go I have a I have a Christian friend so I asked him I'm like what do I need to know

00:10:56 about the context. Like, why do they always say it's up to interpretation of the Bible?

00:11:03 And so I'm like, you know, why, like, you know, cause I haven't read the whole thing. I'm not

00:11:08 going to cap. I'm so tired of people capping. And, um, he said that it's because you send, um,

00:11:24 like I guess Paul was sending letters to a specific city you know so I have to keep in

00:11:29 context that you might talk to one person one way and another person another way and another

00:11:33 person another way and I said well isn't that just kind of lying like I'm not going to pretend

00:11:40 like I don't talk different in different situations but isn't it because I'm afraid

00:11:45 to be myself and the consequences that come with it like I like to talk about Pajit I like to talk

00:11:51 about black people. I like to talk about racism, sexism, how women can't do shit. That's me being 1.00

00:12:00 myself. And I have to edit myself sometimes, but it's usually because the person is, I do my best

00:12:14 to overcome this. As I've gotten older, I've gotten better. But there was a few years ago

00:12:18 where this ex-friend of mine was like, Pearl changed. She changed. And I'm like, do you know

00:12:24 what? I think you just don't realize how insufferable you were because everyone knew

00:12:28 you would get offended easily. So like, I just didn't really share my conservative beliefs with

00:12:34 you because I kind of had to run a cost benefit analysis and I'm like, eh. And then later when

00:12:41 I'm like talking about conservative stuff in a microphone, she's all mad.

00:12:48 See, I'm like, well, another one bites the dust.

00:12:57 So then I talked to, I have people I bounce stuff off of.

00:13:00 I talked to my other friend and my other friend's an atheist.

00:13:02 And I'm like, if you have to interpret the Bible, can't the person interpreting it just use it to manipulate you? 0.84

00:13:12 because

00:13:16 like

00:13:20 can't you just say it says anything if you need a middleman

00:13:26 and then I thought about it more and I'm like doesn't that make it a problem

00:13:30 because the bible's translated so then you deal with

00:13:34 translations anyways I don't know I was just sitting

00:13:38 there and I'm thinking about it and I'm like huh

00:13:40 black people in the chat um i asked the question do dominicans get an n-word pass 0.67

00:13:51 let me know that's why it's important you read the bible yourself i mean 0.85

00:13:59 yeah but i'm a woman so i'll probably just read the passages i like

00:14:02 and stop on the passages i don't like so i try you know maybe the guy should um interpret the

00:14:10 Bible. You know what I mean? Um, the other thing that was kind of blackpilling this week

00:14:17 was how much white knighting we had for objectively overweight women. Um, I think I 0.99

00:14:24 talked about this before, but like, um, there's a woman saying 170 pounds isn't fat or something.

00:14:33 and um then all these fat women started tweeting themselves at 170 pounds

00:14:42 and then i'm like look um you're mid you're not hot i'm mid i'm not hot like it's just you know

00:14:49 and everyone was getting so angry at me

00:14:58 you explain why people need pastors just now i don't think so because

00:15:06 i think women need a man to interpret it for them but a pastor i don't know

00:15:11 because the pastors the incentive structure ah stop it stop my dog is the past like the

00:15:21 incentive structure is just not great because, I mean, they're usually lazy guys that just don't

00:15:36 want to work and get a real job. So they just bang the women in the congregation. So they just 0.99

00:15:41 put single women in church so they can hook up with the women in the congregation. And then the 1.00

00:15:47 women will just either hook up with him or emotionally vomit on him. All right. All right. 0.96

00:15:58 Let's get into the show topic. So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. Thank you guys

00:16:07 for being here. You might see my dog in the background trying to chew that again. If she

00:16:11 he does it again. Don't you dare. Don't you dare. Yeah. Give up. That's what I thought.

00:16:26 So today's not a religious talk. Um, there'll be a street interview and into the next few days,

00:16:32 please stop Bible quoting. You guys are like cults. Okay. Um, so there's a woman, um, who I 0.97

00:16:40 saw growing up named named hayden leslie pan pan attire something like that she's an american

00:16:47 actress and singer um she starred as claire bennett and nbc superhero series heroes kirby

00:16:54 reed in the slasher horror franchise scream juliet barnes in the abc cmt musical series nashville

00:17:01 um i remember in that dancing movie i can't remember the name um it earned her two nominations

00:17:08 for the Golden Globe Award for Best Supporting Actress. Now, she's a very accomplished woman.

00:17:15 Okay. She's a very accomplished woman. And recently she has gone viral for giving up

00:17:21 custody of her kid. Now, Doug MPA called me this morning and said, imagine if that was a man

00:17:28 bragging about giving up custody of his kid. Imagine that, right? Imagine if a man

00:17:36 Everyone was bragging about giving up custody. 0.89

00:17:41 Everyone would crucify him. 0.99

00:17:44 And I said, Doug MPA, you know, that is true. 0.99

00:17:48 That is true to some extent.

00:17:49 It is a double standard.

00:17:52 It is a complete double standard.

00:17:55 So we're going to first watch the clip that went viral or the,

00:18:03 let me put her in YouTube.

00:18:06 Wait, hold on.

00:18:09 The clip that went viral.

00:18:21 All right, so we're going to share my screen.

00:18:36 a powerful line in the book that you share where you say you grieve not being this was at that

00:18:51 time you grieve not being the mother you thought you'd be and i wanted to ask you how do you hold

00:18:57 that grief without letting it define the mother you are today the grief has definitely gotten

00:19:04 the best of me many times many many many times um but it's transformed from grief it was grief in

00:19:13 the beginning um but because of the relationship that i do have with with her and how things

00:19:21 ultimately uh played out i'm incredibly grateful to to her she has an incredible father an incredible

00:19:31 family um and i i no long i i don't feel it even though it's not what i wanted to happen

00:19:42 and it's not what i hoped motherhood was gonna be or what it would look like i'm so lucky to that

00:19:53 it turned out the way it did and that she is um safe and and yeah i think it was around this same

00:20:00 time negative way so because I know also you talk about how like when you finally did talk

00:20:06 about it explain to me the the complexity of and I asked this from the perspective of

00:20:12 having so many friends who've gone through postpartum depression here we go hold on let

00:20:23 Let me get this.

00:20:27 Find the clip in the other one.

00:20:30 Here we go.

00:20:33 The idea that anybody would think

00:20:37 that I would just give away my child

00:20:40 and be okay with it is heartbreaking.

00:20:43 Couldn't be further from the truth.

00:20:46 You know, as you said, I was struggling

00:20:50 was mental health and anxiety and the postpartum and having to act my way through it and just

00:21:00 feeling like i i i completely lost myself a misconception is that i have been in the past

00:21:09 forced into treatment when in fact i have been the one who has sought it out who who was saying

00:21:19 i desperately need help i don't i you know i know this is gonna look terrible but i am i

00:21:26 i cannot live like this anymore i have an incredible relationship with her i go i travel

00:21:34 as much as as i can i see her i do spend a lot of time on facetime with her um but we talk about

00:21:41 really deep things so we have a really intense incredible bond and I'm very grateful for that

00:21:52 and I know that she knows that she has two parents who would do anything in the world to make sure

00:22:00 that she is happy and healthy mentally emotionally physically spiritually and she in no way feels

00:22:09 abandoned okay so doug mpa he calls me um and i think this is his sentiment in the chat she's a 0.99

00:22:16 quitter and a loser and to some extent doug mpa is right she is a quitter she is a loser she quit 0.97

00:22:24 being a mother but i gotta play devil's advocate today wouldn't the world be a better place if 1.00

00:22:33 more women quit being mothers and just gave the kid to the father and to her credit i was watching

00:22:39 more of the interview she gives what happened was as she was going back and forth they were doing

00:22:44 international co-parenting it was hard on the kid and she never talks bad about the dad she said

00:22:50 he's an amazing father and she gave him the kid so the kid you know the kid now is like a young

00:22:56 woman right it was like five languages according to her who knows could have been anything

00:23:02 now doug mpa had a really good argument for this he said um

00:23:07 if a man did that he would be laughed at and you know she gets the softball interview

00:23:14 this is a complete double standard

00:23:17 and to that i would say i agree but we gotta start clapping i actually think we need to make hayden

00:23:25 a saint. Put a one in the chat. If you wish your ex-wife just accepted that she was a terrible

00:23:37 mother. One in the chat. One in the chat. Put it in the chat. Put it in the chat right now.

00:23:47 One in the chat. If your life would have been easier, if your ex-wife said, do you know what?

00:23:52 I am a terrible mom. 1.00

00:23:55 Take the kid.

00:23:56 I'm going to go to another country.

00:24:00 I'm going to leave you guys alone.

00:24:04 Doug at PA, we cannot shame this.

00:24:09 We cannot shame this.

00:24:11 We need to normalize. 1.00

00:24:12 We need to normalize letting women do what they want and give the dad the kids. 0.97

00:24:22 Now, look, I hear what you're saying. 1.00

00:24:24 But Pearl, but Pearl, women are so nurturing. 1.00

00:24:30 Have you learned nothing from this channel? 1.00

00:24:35 Women have aborted an eighth of the world population. 1.00

00:24:40 An eighth. 1.00

00:24:42 Women are not nurturing. 1.00

00:24:48 Women are not nurturing. 1.00

00:24:51 women do not care about them kids so you got two choices right 1.00

00:24:59 we could say oh she's a loser who she's a loser who's a bigger loser 1.00

00:25:10 the woman that you know figured out she couldn't do it and she was a terrible mother 1.00

00:25:17 or the woman that pretended she could do it right and traumatize that child.

00:25:47 now there's women that commented on this judging her saying i would never give up custody 0.99

00:25:52 i love my kid no you don't you don't because if you loved your kid you would give your kid to the

00:25:57 dad yup if you loved your child you would give the child to the father you're right that you

00:26:08 wouldn't give up custody because you're too selfish of a person you care more about looking

00:26:14 good in yourself than the kids that woman cared more about the kid than looking good

00:26:24 i think i think we should put her on the wall of the saints with the only fans like guys can you 0.69

00:26:30 imagine how awesome your childhood would be if your mother just kick rock kicked rocks

00:26:37 if they just bounce and got the f out of there gave the dad the kid look at because fathers this

00:26:46 is what let's compare mothers and fathers fathers give their kids guidance fathers give their kids

00:26:51 routine mothers make the kids grow up in total chaos they don't know what they're going to eat

00:26:58 every day they don't know what they're going to do every day fathers men love routine you know

00:27:03 funny you know it's funny i was talking to um someone and i said i think women crave variety

00:27:09 sexually more than men and this person was like no like do men men don't want to eat the same

00:27:16 thing every day like sometimes you want to eat out sometimes you want to eat in and i'm like 0.52

00:27:21 men literally eat the same thing every day men literally eat the same thing every single day

00:27:31 i'm like i i know this is probably contradicted what i said before but upon my observations

00:27:37 i'm like men love routine

00:27:41 even if even with their hose

00:27:52 yeah i know i know so i'll keep going dads give their kids guidance

00:28:02 Fathers are fun.

00:28:04 Men get a genuine joy from their children. 1.00

00:28:07 I have never seen from a woman.

00:28:09 Oh, but Pearl, I'm so different and special.

00:28:12 I care about my kid.

00:28:13 I give my kid a great life. 1.00

00:28:15 Bullshit. 1.00

00:28:17 You can't. 1.00

00:28:17 You're a woman. 1.00

00:28:19 Give that kid to the father. 0.95

00:28:23 But Pearl, but Pearl, I really do.

00:28:26 The more you try to convince me, the more I think you're a terrible mother.

00:28:28 If you were a good mom, it would just show.

00:28:32 I would just see it.

00:28:41 Men love passing knowledge to their children.

00:28:46 They love teaching. 1.00

00:28:49 Women love passing trauma to their children. 0.97

00:28:53 and i need to stop with this cope that the women of the past were better 0.96

00:29:02 they were not better they had less opportunity to be terrible women have always been women there

00:29:08 have been books written about female nature since adam and eve and it's simping in a way 1.00

00:29:14 to say there's some special woman somewhere mothers give the kids nagging self-esteem issues 1.00

00:29:24 they make the kids angry over nothing by telling them their problems they yell at the kids for 1.00

00:29:29 having fun they gossip to the kids they lie to the kids and worst of all they turn the kids

00:29:35 against the father they were not better if you believe that i might kick you out of the chat 0.97

00:29:42 i mean that's just a dumb i mean i just need a higher intelligence chat you know what i mean 0.82

00:29:51 so i say make this woman a hero 0.98

00:29:56 make this woman a hero a saint rather 1.00

00:30:04 saint hayden sure you are a selfish loser but you decided to be a selfish loser and ruin your 1.00

00:30:11 own life instead of your kid's life. That's the most selfless thing I've ever heard a mother do. 1.00

00:30:21 That is the most selfless thing I have ever heard a mother do. 1.00

00:30:41 all right we're gonna watch nine celebrity mothers that gave the kids to the father

00:30:53 i gotta turn off the music i think hold up i don't know if this is a good copyright

00:31:07 Britney Spears the singer and her ex Kevin Federline like imagine if the kids had to

00:31:13 grow up with Britney Spears and he should put her on alimony

00:31:16 he should because again I you know more men need to take alimony from women and the reason being is 1.00

00:31:27 um you're gonna do better with the money than she will like you're she's gonna have a crazy 1.00

00:31:39 you're gonna have a crazy person in control of her own money which is most women or you 1.00

00:31:44 have a man in control who gives an f what the world says put that woman on alimony 1.00

00:31:50 she lost custody

00:31:58 do you know how hard it is to lose custody

00:31:59 Courtney Love

00:32:15 I guess lost custody

00:32:17 yeah see that kid crying on set the fathers just want to do the same thing every day

00:32:30 they want to have fun oh the i guess they deleted it as we were talking okay well 0.99

00:32:38 the fathers they want to do the same thing every day here's the problem with women women um we 1.00

00:32:45 don't finish tasks. We're chaotic. We're rude. We don't watch what we say. And there's a million 0.99

00:32:57 reasons, you know, just observing day to day. We don't get joy from children. We find them annoying.

00:33:02 Men find them like they get joy out of it. And to me, I was thinking about it. I almost think

00:33:11 that a man staying home and this is kind of an idea i'm toying with but i'm like okay if you 0.60

00:33:17 got a super chad and he gets a bunch of like fat women to work for him while he raises and watches

00:33:23 the kids i almost think in a way that's more patriarchal because the women are giving the men

00:33:30 the paycheck then he can be in control of the money and in control of the kids where like a 0.93

00:33:37 guy that's working a lot cannot really be in control of the kids because the mother is going

00:33:44 to be the one um ruining them i don't know if that are you following because like if the father's

00:33:59 working like 60 hours a week now the kids have 60 hours to be tortured by the mother

00:34:03 but imagine like you just get to chill with your dad at home

00:34:12 and all the stuff you would learn all the things you'd be taught

00:34:18 the mothers hate the kids anyway send them to work have them give you the money 1.00

00:34:25 so you know my take today and i think doug mpa i think we gotta name this woman a saint

00:34:38 i think we gotta make her a hero because what is what is the other option here the other option 0.99

00:34:46 is she kept custody maybe she left her job right let's say um she left her job 1.00

00:34:54 to watch this kid, 1.00

00:35:05 but she's an alcoholic crazy person. 1.00

00:35:08 Like, just because she would stop working, 0.99

00:35:11 it doesn't make her not an alcoholic crazy person. 0.98

00:35:19 It still makes her a crazy person. 1.00

00:35:24 So, really, I think more women should follow in our footsteps. 0.82

00:35:29 And honestly, ladies, to the single moms, the, like, the two women that watch me, if you're a single mother, it's going to help you in dating.

00:35:40 Like, okay, if it didn't work out with you and your ex, you give the kids to the father.

00:35:45 They're going to be happier, right?

00:35:47 Now, you don't have to torture them.

00:35:50 You can live in a cute little apartment in, like, a nicer area or whatever. 0.99

00:35:54 and then um when you get remarried if that's your goal or if you want to whore around which 1.00

00:36:02 you know women usually do you could um put an apartment next to wherever hot guy hot guys live 0.99

00:36:06 and then you could whore or hear me out hear me out 1.00

00:36:10 she says i'm not a single mom not yet not yet sorry um or right if you want to 0.97

00:36:24 to get remarried it's like it's way easier to get remarried as a single mom if the dad knows that

00:36:32 the like he doesn't have to take care of the kids that is like a way easier sell how many dads would 0.98

00:36:40 consider like if the woman was hot enough and young enough a single mom if they knew right i'm

00:36:45 just devil's advocate i know no single moms no single but let's just let's just you know let's 1.00

00:36:49 just toy with this idea. As a guy, if you knew the kids were with the dad, she didn't put him 0.94

00:36:55 on alimony, she didn't put him on child support, and she gave him the kids, and that is most likely 1.00

00:37:02 what would happen if you wifed this girl up. That would be a much easier sell. 1.00

00:37:10 You know, there's some women that keep getting pregnant by high-status men, and I'm telling you 1.00

00:37:14 that's wise. They don't ruin it with their exes. They keep good relationships. They don't ruin 0.97

00:37:19 their life and the men they view it as like a lower risk they're like yeah it's just my turn but

00:37:25 i'll take a turn

00:37:27 so all right doug mpa i'm gonna bring him up um and i'm just gonna tell me he's wrong we need 0.82

00:37:40 to make this woman a saint and i want to see if i've convinced him can we make her a state doug 0.99

00:37:47 mpa okay okay so let's first recognize the disgusting double standard and if you put on 1.00

00:37:57 the the tiktok i put there you it goes into the the double standard because

00:38:04 men get no sympathy when they walk away none and they always find a way well we have to understand

00:38:13 where she's coming from postpartum she she's addict men don't get this now i can agree with

00:38:21 you well you've shown multiple times on your channel that men do better and a lot of guys

00:38:27 i hate this thing where women say well how could a single father even make it guys if it's anything 1.00

00:38:33 a single mother can do a single father can do better times a thousand but the stupid thing 1.00

00:38:40 where a single man wouldn't know how to 1.00

00:38:42 raise a child. Come on 0.61

00:38:44 now. So yes, I think that

00:38:46 I can agree with you. I want

00:38:48 to see more of an example 1.00

00:38:49 of women walking away. 1.00

00:38:52 But I want women to be held

00:38:54 accountable of the same that men 0.95

00:38:56 are. Two things

00:38:58 can be true at the same time. 1.00

00:39:02 Women should give kids to the fathers 1.00

00:39:04 but until men 1.00

00:39:06 aren't called scumbags for 0.98

00:39:07 not wanting to take care of a child 1.00

00:39:10 women should be called scumbags too a child needs both a mother and a father not true 1.00

00:39:16 yeah on this channel we disagree with that yeah they don't they don't need us at all 0.99

00:39:22 if anything actually we ruin them hold on i need to rant for a second i'll bring you back up

00:39:27 um we ruin the kids because we're chaos so even if you help a man just know that he could do it

00:39:36 better than you. Like it's almost nice of them to let us help. It's nice of them to let us help

00:39:47 because like, imagine the guy, he already knows breakfast, eggs, and bacon, lunch, sandwich,

00:39:53 dinner, steak, done. And the women are like, can we do carbs? Can I make cookies? Can I do 1.00

00:40:00 the stuff is how the project isn't finished it's left on the counter there's stuff all over the

00:40:08 house the food is so chaotic we i don't know what i'm eating one day the kids are fat and it's all

00:40:17 because of the mom the dad says we're going to do the same thing every day

00:40:22 so yet they don't need us at all

00:40:28 and if anything if you don't listen to the dad and obey right

00:40:45 it's going to be chaos in the house

00:40:47 so i'm going to respond to what doug mpa said then i'll bring him up i need to rant for a second

00:40:57 um oh wait actually i'll bring them up i'll bring them up so my response to you now that i'm done 1.00

00:41:03 with that rant women ain't shit um is that the reason that we um look down upon men that don't 0.99

00:41:14 want to raise their kids is because men make great kids and women make terrible kids so it's 1.00

00:41:21 completely different outcomes right so like if a woman leaves it's great for the kid

00:41:28 if a man leaves it's hell on earth for the kid so that's why i view it different um i would view 1.00

00:41:36 that yeah so it's like worse um i don't want to say worse because there are like if a woman is a 1.00

00:41:42 kid against your will i mean i don't you know but i don't know i think that the bar like women have 1.00

00:41:48 been robbing men of their kids for so long i you know i'm gonna put her on a pedestal today let's 1.00

00:41:53 put her next to the only fans guy just for this just for this month we're gonna call her a saint 1.00

00:42:00 ladies give up your kids and then go whore out like imagine your your whore career is just we 1.00

00:42:08 all know single mothers are sluts right the men know it i know it we all know it but your whore 1.00

00:42:14 career it's going to be cut short like timmy is going to be like mommy who's that 1.00

00:42:24 mommy who's here and then now your baby daddy is going to be pissed it's a whole headache just 0.73

00:42:32 say you know here's the kid the dad at least whores out responsibly like he'll get a hotel 1.00

00:42:38 he'll you know you know what i mean like um and like plus if the if the mother if the whoever he 0.71

00:42:44 brings around the kid tries to do something to the kid he can just like beat her to death

00:42:49 you know or something you got nothing when it's another man so um yeah they said she's no saint 0.85

00:42:57 hey it's 2026 and do you know what the bar is so low that we're gonna recognize that any woman 0.67

00:43:04 that admits she cannot do something like raising kids we need to like i'm like look at we can't 0.53

00:43:10 shame this behavior we all know like then women want to look they want to look good so we need

00:43:17 to socially reward and say it looks really good for you to give up the kids ladies you're a great

00:43:25 person you're a great person if you say if you're leaving him it's okay you're still a good person

00:43:33 just give him the baby diane diane give him the baby give him the ch give give him but i don't

00:43:41 want it no get give him the child oh and then we're just all gonna clap and say yay you spoke 1.00

00:43:48 your truth because women are stupid so we just got it we got to manipulate them into giving the dad 1.00

00:43:56 the kids what do you think doug yeah so just saying is the the reframing of of giving your 1.00

00:44:07 kids away as heroic so when you put it that way okay i can see that i can see it i can see it

00:44:13 because we we need to do anything we can to make that a regular thing so yeah yeah let's paint it

00:44:18 as the most heroic thing you can do the only biggest sacrifice you can do besides your body

00:44:25 from giving birth would be giving the child to the father but make the ultimate sacrifice ladies 0.83

00:44:32 yes ladies speak your truth and have your hot girl summer we want to assist you in your hot 1.00

00:44:39 girl summer yes um just no alimony no child support and you know what 1.00

00:44:45 i think a lot of dudes would literally pay for an apartment a shitty one right just to get you 0.57

00:44:54 to leave them alone actually a doug mpa i'm gonna i'm gonna throw some scenarios by you go for it

00:45:02 so uh would you be would you take a single mother seriously if it was the situation i said 0.74

00:45:09 where she said and it wasn't because of drugs or alcohol she said it was best for my kids

00:45:15 to give them to the father okay and now she's a single mom she goes and sees her kids right

00:45:22 on a butt you don't have to take care of them at all um they she goes there if she goes to see them

00:45:29 they don't go to her house would you it's okay if it's no but i'm just curious would you be more 0.87

00:45:34 willing to take a single mom seriously uh no no sorry ladies so you know i'm in my mid-40s and 0.94

00:45:44 guys in the chat what did your what do your mom and dad say about a woman who's lost custody of

00:45:51 their children or give it in a way that they're crazy right so i don't know if i could untrain

00:45:58 myself from thinking that a woman who doesn't have custody of her children there's probably

00:46:03 a reason why and i don't translate her being hell on wheels in a relationship well i guess

00:46:10 doug isn't the guy for you single mama's in the chat i tried to help you ladies out but someone

00:46:19 will do it it might not be doug mpa but i promise you okay all right hear me out doug mpa okay um

00:46:28 wait um

00:46:32 what if

00:46:39 uh

00:46:44 okay what if she 0.97

00:46:49 looked like

00:46:54 okay what if she looked like this on the right okay so 1.00

00:47:02 here okay okay okay if she were if she were in her mid her mid-20s let's say she had a kid when 0.98

00:47:12 she was like 18 or 19 or something like that and her kid was like seven and she's 25 and she's that 1.00

00:47:18 hot because yeah i she'd have to have youth and she'd have to have beauty on her side 1.00

00:47:27 10 15 years younger yeah because youth would have to be a flex her looks would have to be a flex 1.00

00:47:35 and then there'd have to be no kids in her custody yeah hold on this is what i mean ladies whenever 1.00

00:47:41 men say they have standards it just means you're not hot enough for them to overlook it yeah 1.00

00:47:47 you are just not that's when they say like this is a deal breaker 0.89

00:47:51 just you know just take that and be like you are too ugly for him to overlook that 1.00

00:47:57 if she looks like ana de lama i ain't going for it it's what they say ladies but i've seen the 1.00

00:48:09 best men fold i've seen the best men fold anyways welcome back i knew this woman and she was in uh

00:48:19 she was a nurse that went into medical sales and this girl she was a filipino descent but she was

00:48:26 born in the united states and she was a solid nine solid nine right and she married this guy

00:48:34 Who was worth

00:48:35 A couple million dollars

00:48:37 But there was an age difference

00:48:39 They had two kids

00:48:41 And she ended up divorcing him 0.98

00:48:43 And she would run all 1.00

00:48:45 She stayed in tip top shape 1.00

00:48:47 Had this beautiful hair 1.00

00:48:48 Beautiful face 0.96

00:48:50 And she married another guy

00:48:51 Who she met in the gym

00:48:54 Who was also a millionaire

00:48:55 And then she had two kids with him

00:48:58 In her early 40s

00:49:00 No late 30s early 40s

00:49:03 back to back and so this girl i i'll show you a picture of her offline probably she's a solid 1.00

00:49:14 nine the the kind of girl that that could get kids from two millionaires solid nine 1.00

00:49:20 so you you're 100 correct if a woman's hot enough guys will overlook a lot of it

00:49:28 men would rather take a mid girl with a meek spirit now look at men say this

00:49:33 um but they don't mean it okay um at ladies i just kind of want to i gotta be real here

00:49:41 they always say pearl you're so on about looks you're so on about looks it's like well if you're 0.95

00:49:47 not hot enough you're not even going to get into the room for him to see your meek spirit

00:49:52 like you're not even going to get on the date if you're ugly it's just not it's not going to happen

00:49:59 for you so um men they go down and looks after they've been burned they they look when men are

00:50:12 young if there's a hot girl and a mid girl they go for the hotter girl pretty much 90 percent of

00:50:18 the time. Then they get burned by the hotter girl. Men learn faster than women. They might 1.00

00:50:24 get burned once. They might get burned twice. Then after they get burned, they then go for

00:50:31 the mitts and settle with the woman that's been in their fuck zone for a while and it's 0.99

00:50:37 been the most loyal. But I'm telling you up front, they pretty much always go for the 0.99

00:50:42 most attractive. Oh, I'm so different, Pearl. I did that from the jump. Uh-huh. I choose

00:50:56 personality over looks. Uh-huh. Go on a date with a fat chick. Go on a date. Go, do it.

00:51:05 some men look for mind and spirit well after you learn to look for that

00:51:13 looks fade yeah you notice that after they start fading you know what i mean

00:51:19 so it's just my i'll bring doug mpa up welcome back

00:51:31 even the mids are horrible at this point so you might as well get good genetics

00:51:37 you might as well let your kids mog you know what i mean

00:51:40 i am going to 1.00

00:51:49 i'm going to send you a picture of this woman i'm talking about and you can give her a rating live 0.98

00:51:57 okay or are you sending you texting it to me yeah I'm texting to you on your phone

00:52:04 okay okay let's make sure to like the video and subscribe to the channel if you haven't already 0.99

00:52:13 and hit that super chat button because all super chats will go to the divorce

00:52:21 documentary and we really appreciate it. Okay. Also, um, you, um, there's a call in link. You

00:52:31 guys can call in, please be respectful. Don't be autistic. And, um, you could, if you have 1.00

00:52:39 something to add to the conversation, you can bring it up. I'll probably just ask if I crazy

00:52:44 for making her a saint um these dating coaches gotta go and people need to go meet people

00:52:51 um yeah it's not gonna happen so i don't know like uh

00:53:00 that's not a nine men always overrate women maybe when she was younger but

00:53:07 i wouldn't i'd put i'd put her like a seven okay i'm gonna see one more picture 0.88

00:53:13 Sevens can still get millionaires pretty easily, though.

00:53:16 I mean, I consider, like, eight plus.

00:53:18 You have to be, like, Hollywood beautiful.

00:53:27 Oops. 1.00

00:53:38 Well, she's hotter there. 1.00

00:53:40 Is she younger there? 1.00

00:53:42 uh looks like older in the second one 1.00

00:53:47 when was that really good body i mean i i'd still put her at like a seven

00:53:53 um maybe yeah i'd put her at a seven yeah that was in 2019 yeah she's really cute but but i just

00:54:02 i don't really put her like above like in the angelina jolie category margot robbie you know

00:54:08 i'd put her just under that but still really good looking so sevens can make it in the 1.00

00:54:16 in the millionaire class so yeah uh just to reiterate i do want to see more more mothers 1.00

00:54:23 just give up their their children to the father because we one it'll be it'll save the kids from

00:54:30 all this headache guys remember mothers write a check that you as a child are going to have to

00:54:36 cash the day that you're born and they will not be afraid to cash it your whole life mothers feel

00:54:46 honestly believe that you owe them something for for birthing them fathers do not feel that way

00:54:53 about their kids number one and then just guys think about all the emotional verbal abuse that 0.99

00:55:01 all came from your mom there's too many scumbag mothers in america now you may be saying oh doug 1.00

00:55:08 mpa what about your mom my mom was a scumbag too and i'm pretty sure yours were too guys honestly 1.00

00:55:14 take the rose colored glasses off especially all the black people in the chat your mom is probably 1.00

00:55:21 a scumbag in america it is okay for mothers to treat their children like absolute garbage 1.00

00:55:29 so give the children to the i want to see more of that mothers you can't do it 1.00

00:55:35 i think we need to get more comfortable in life with saying you know what i can't do this 0.99

00:55:41 and single motherhood you literally cannot do those kids will be tortured they will have no routine

00:55:47 um they're going to live with your chaotic emotions when you're on your period they're 1.00

00:55:53 going to have to deal with it um disciplining the kids uh women don't pay attention so fathers pay 1.00

00:56:01 attention to the kids they can sense when something's off with the kids or they correct 0.97

00:56:05 their kids mothers do not pay attention so um yeah i think i think we just got to normalize

00:56:12 not being able to do something so my mother tried her best no she didn't um and we got to stop this

00:56:20 get out of jail she didn't try that hard um because she didn't try humility by giving you 1.00

00:56:26 to the dad you know see see i women are never gonna admit that that they're not able to do 1.00

00:56:33 to do something so we have to reframe this pearly we have to show that them giving up

00:56:40 their children is them doing the best thing you remember that they are doing something the best

00:56:48 thing for the child that the best thing for society is in giving their father giving the

00:56:55 child to the father they're never gonna say that they can't do something in mass i already know

00:57:02 where mark stands on this welcome to the show are you there yeah i'm here what do you think

00:57:07 about mothers i'm giving up custody i think more should do it what do you am i crazy can i make

00:57:15 or a saint what are you thinking a saint no a role model yes i like that a role model 0.99

00:57:24 yeah we should hold her up as a role model say hey women you absolutely can practice humility 1.00

00:57:30 you can accept the fact that you are not the best possible choice to parent your child and you can 1.00

00:57:36 surrender custody for the benefit of the child you can suffer the blow to your ego for the benefit

00:57:41 of the child they won't kill you my dad fought for weekends and got them yeah clive well oh did

00:57:52 he leave okay well i was gonna bring up one other person um have you seen a mother that

00:58:00 gave up custody ever i've never seen one in my personal experience no i know my ex should have

00:58:09 like the single mom you dated or your kid uh it wasn't my kid and she did end up giving up custody

00:58:19 but it took a lot for her to do that what was the point it got to when she decided to

00:58:28 she had to go through ego death life had a smacker

00:58:33 how'd that happen i don't want to go on the details okay okay to respect her privacy but 1.00

00:58:42 she had to go through ego death i did their own one 1.00

00:58:46 in my experience uh it's what pearl was saying women are emotional terrorists 1.00

00:58:53 that they will punish the family for their own emotions especially the children if the child 1.00

00:58:59 does something and the mom doesn't know how to hold the child accountable makes the mom feel a

00:59:04 certain way so she punishes the child for making her feel that way instead of holding the child

00:59:08 accountable for their actions and then going in private and dealing with her own emotions that's 0.55

00:59:13 what i've seen i'm gonna share we're gonna react to the tiktoks together that doug mpa put up okay 0.82

00:59:24 it's a black woman of course okay noticing that more and more women are actually starting to

00:59:35 give their children over to their fathers and put themselves on child support and they're going on

00:59:41 about their life now before i get into what i'm gonna say i just want to say i am not judging

00:59:45 any woman that has decided the other thing too i bet you men are so kind that honestly men that

00:59:52 like it would not shock me if a guy put his ex on child support and saved like money for her for

00:59:59 later i could like absolutely see a dude because here's the thing when women have money we just 0.84

01:00:03 blow it men are so much better with money so like a lot of guys don't want to put their ex on child 1.00

01:00:08 support but it's like she's just gonna blow the money so like i bet you if you put a girl on child

01:00:14 support you could have money for the kid money for you if if it was a significant amount and money

01:00:21 that you could save for her for later if you really wanted to be like um you know because

01:00:25 some guys feel guilty about it well so first off 90 of men it's like 89 of men who could get child

01:00:34 support from the next don't file number one and then you you know you know that i have to say this 1.00

01:00:39 because of what's on the screen guys american black women are the scum come on now um and then 1.00

01:00:46 black mothers, American 1.00

01:00:48 black mothers are the worst mothers on the 1.00

01:00:50 planet. That's not Pearl's 1.00

01:00:52 views. That's not Mark's views.

01:00:55 They're mine.

01:00:56 It doesn't help that they're literally

01:00:58 putting their kids in the oven.

01:01:01 I saw that.

01:01:03 This mother, she 1.00

01:01:04 literally burned her kid to death.

01:01:07 Did you see

01:01:08 the one... I think half

01:01:10 have had an abortion. 0.92

01:01:12 Did you see that mother?

01:01:14 I think it was in Baltimore. 0.96

01:01:16 who literally left her kids alone in a townhome for years and she'd come by once a week

01:01:23 and drop off food for them and so they ended up breaking down the door and there was freaking

01:01:30 pee and poop everywhere and food wrappers everywhere and freaking rodents and rats and

01:01:37 all sorts of stuff in there and she'd been doing that for like two years 1.00

01:01:40 awful what do you guys think of the dynamic where the woman works and the guy stays home

01:01:49 uh i'm never gonna be okay with that um it's better for the children but it's not good because 0.95

01:02:00 now she's gonna have power over him yeah and remember like women they're gonna couldn't she

01:02:08 put him on child support or he put her on child yeah it's happening more and more wouldn't you 1.00

01:02:15 have like power over her legally yeah it says guys current society women reserve the right to change 1.00

01:02:24 their minds about anything and men children and society have to facilitate so a lot of women 0.99

01:02:30 are fine with maybe stay at home dads until they're not fine with it they said she won't 0.99

01:02:36 respect the man but she's not going to respect the man anyway like the disrespect 0.79

01:02:44 don't have to facilitate the delusion it's the simps who do because they don't have the courage

01:02:51 to say no well well no but it's more than that because it's not just in relation i'm talking

01:02:59 change their minds about all things mark a woman wants to work and have a career until she doesn't 1.00

01:03:06 want to anymore then she wants to quit and change industries you know women are lawyers and they 1.00

01:03:11 they want to quit like women can we're in the great experiment where women want to try stuff 1.00

01:03:19 and then change their minds and like society you know the government everything just facilitates 0.99

01:03:27 them changing their mind not just simps everybody yeah i agree so we got to hold the government 1.00

01:03:33 accountable get the simps out yeah i agree all right let's um see what this black woman has to

01:03:40 say you know what i mean do so for whatever reason you made that choice and that's what you felt was

01:03:46 best but also i ain't even mad at y'all i just want to go ahead and say that as a single mom

01:03:51 i'm not even mad at y'all now do i feel like i could be one of those women to stand in that line

01:03:58 and do so no however i'm not even mad at y'all because it's one thing to now i get it one night

01:04:08 i really think that women that give up custody love their kids more because they love their 0.74

01:04:15 kids enough to look bad because it is embarrassing like i i mean let's just be honest nobody a woman

01:04:22 that doesn't have custody is definitely looked at funny because most women have custody so it's 0.71

01:04:26 kind of like what did you do but a woman that cares enough about the kids to you know look bad

01:04:32 which to women is like death to us we hate looking like bad people so i think you know those kids

01:04:39 those mothers love the kids more i agree because in my mind love is not an emotion it's a behavior

01:04:47 that is demonstrated through actions so the greater the sacrifices she's willing to make

01:04:51 for the children the greater she actually loves her children if she won't sacrifice her ego to

01:04:56 give up custody she doesn't actually love them no my mom lost custody i didn't say no no no there's

01:05:03 a distinction i didn't say lose custody i said give up custody lose implies there's a fight 1.00

01:05:13 you're fighting no no no no i'm saying ladies don't fight just give him the kids

01:05:21 love's an action word yeah i agree i like i like your take and i knew since your first

01:05:27 your first panel you were here to cook situationships things happen okay but when you're in

01:05:34 a relationship with a person and men can just abandon ship just jump ship mid-pregnancy or

01:05:42 this man changes mid-pregnancy and now this this person isn't who you want to be with anymore 0.84

01:05:47 and before y'all get started in my comments imagine those women who are married and they

01:05:53 have three and four and five kids and the man just abandoned ship so before y'all you need to

01:05:59 be married no it's a lot of women who are married and they tired too it's so many things that can

01:06:05 happen that do happen during pregnancy and um i ain't even mad it's such projection because

01:06:13 women are the ones that change during pregnancy men literally stay the same like their whole life 0.98

01:06:20 I mean I like some of them become less simpy over time but like their general personalities 1.00

01:06:27 decently consistent women have eras it's like the hoe era the not hoe era the divorce era 1.00

01:06:34 the fitness era the I mean yeah again women like chaos men like routine anything to add 0.99

01:06:43 you too men become more protective when the woman is pregnant and the the men also become 0.94

01:06:49 more protective when they have their own children yeah i agree with mark the despite what women say

01:06:59 when a pregnancy occurs even even if the guy doesn't even want to be with the woman

01:07:04 most of the time the man works more and the woman works less

01:07:08 it's still the case yeah it activates in us our paternal instincts and we want to be an 1.00

01:07:16 even better provider for the children yep i agree i agree i'm not i'm not and then some women get 0.99

01:07:28 tired of doing it alone it's hard some women get tired of doing it alone some women get tired of 0.97

01:07:35 begging for help some women have no village now granted i do you know i asked a housewife this

01:07:43 that i know there's one housewife from my hometown that actually did obey her husband um and i could

01:07:49 vouch for that um and i asked her do you think it takes a village to raise a child and she said no

01:07:56 it just takes a woman paying attention because i kept hearing these influencers talking about

01:08:02 they need a village i'm like is it true have you really had a village like what if the village just

01:08:07 be your other kids helping out like when they get to a certain age i don't know maybe that's

01:08:14 and like you say pearly well women of the past have like seven eight kids you have one child one

01:08:21 yeah my girl you need a village because the village like it would be like when the kids hit

01:08:27 seven or something ish now they can help out on the farm so that was their village it was like 0.88

01:08:33 the other kids i don't know it takes a village to restrain women to hold her accountable so no

01:08:44 one simps yeah that takes a village oh it's funny sean welcome to the show what's up what's up um

01:08:53 what are your thoughts on women giving up custody excellent i think that more women should definitely 0.98

01:09:01 sign up and do it i think it's an excellent thing that they do and shout outs to them and i don't

01:09:06 mean any disrespect when they actually do it i'm actually genuinely serious um i think mark earlier

01:09:13 said and you just said bro it takes a lot because we know just in culture people will just be like

01:09:18 damn what's wrong with that lady she had to give up her kid you get so net net it takes a lot for

01:09:24 somebody to do that but making that good choice i think it's a good choice the statistics prove 0.99

01:09:30 that right so the common denominator for a kid to be healthy is the father period that is the

01:09:35 common denominator single father good odds a single mom bad odds two-parent household good

01:09:43 odds but i would say that's still reduced because you got the woman in there so net

01:09:47 that's always going to cause issues um so i've conceded i think maybe a saint is too far 0.99

01:09:54 i guess you can't call an alcoholic a saint whatever um but a role model or i think she

01:10:01 was on i don't know but she had issues whatever um but what do you think about her being a role 1.00

01:10:07 model for women yeah i mean shout outs to that that aspect that behavior that she recently did 0.95

01:10:15 But overall, because I think the discrepancies that you were just mentioning about her as a person overall, I mean, it just makes her a human, it humanizes her.

01:10:24 And then she still made this decision at the end, which is making that smart decision to say, OK, here's a responsible parent.

01:10:32 This is what we want people to do. People, period. Right.

01:10:36 Even if a father is bad and terrible, we don't want him to be, you know, influencing the kids.

01:10:40 So, but, you know, this is something we should encourage and support.

01:10:45 not shame or joke about because once you start doing that you're saying that you you want this

01:10:50 to happen and at the same time joking against those people who make those decisions so shout

01:10:55 out to her this is somebody trad cards need to actually promote right here promote this lady

01:11:00 right here making that decision and giving the kids back to the father also um you guys are saying 0.85

01:11:06 like you know there's a lot of mother alcoholics out there that drink like wine every night i know 1.00

01:11:13 i i could think of like three off the top of my head women that are borderline alcoholics 1.00

01:11:18 a lot of single mothers um that are alcoholics get custody of their kids 1.00

01:11:23 like it's it's i can't remember if that was her issue um i don't know but regardless like it's 0.97

01:11:31 you know the alcoholism or whatever um that's not that uncommon especially for middle-aged moms go

01:11:36 ahead sean no i was saying what's interesting about that because people are hard to actually

01:11:41 detect that type of abuse coming from a mother and i think women have actually identified what

01:11:48 they call love bombing when they actually deal with men and they say he love bombed me right 0.80

01:11:52 like that's some type of oppression or abuse um this is what mothers do to their children they

01:11:58 love bomb and they love bomb so much that is their tool of manipulation over these over the

01:12:03 children forever and ever is the love bomb the love bomb was created not by some man trying to 0.64

01:12:09 love bomb a woman that's random nah it's actually from women love bombing their children if you see

01:12:16 it like in anything they do they're always like you know i love you i mean you could be talking 0.99

01:12:21 about trying to solve an algebra problem and start to break down and be like man i'm getting

01:12:25 confused they'd be like honey just know that i love you the most okay like they always love

01:12:31 so that is their greatest manipulation technique so that's why when people always talk about love

01:12:37 love love i'm like love can be abusive it could be toxic it could be damaging it could disable you 0.74

01:12:43 like love is not just a good thing across the board it could be very dangerous and so women 0.82

01:12:49 use it and that's their leverage that's their they're the original terrorists of love bombing 1.00

01:12:56 they're the al-qaeda they're the ices of the game i wonder if single father kids will eventually

01:13:04 raise better kids than two-parent homes because in a two-parent home the mother is still terrorizing 0.59

01:13:10 everybody like that's what i always say i just always say like the mother is the bad part pearl

01:13:15 the mother is watch this how many times have you seen a father trying to fight to father

01:13:22 always tell people just because you had a father doesn't mean when you were being raised you were

01:13:26 being fathered meaning you weren't being held accountable the mother probably had more power

01:13:32 in the relationship. And her idea of how children should be raised was the overall arch of how the

01:13:39 kids were supposed to be raised. The woman decides if the father gets to punish the kids and how he's 1.00

01:13:45 going to punish the kids and what he's going to do. So most of the time, even with a two-parent 1.00

01:13:50 household, you're getting mothered across the board. And the mothers are the ones that drag 1.00

01:13:55 you to stuff you don't want to go to. The mothers are the ones that tell the whole town your

01:14:00 business the mothers are the ones that um are nagging the mothers are the ones when you're 0.73

01:14:07 having fun just like have to ruin it like when you're having a grand old stop running in the

01:14:12 house stop doing this doing that the dad's like run with you you know what i mean like you know

01:14:18 my dad he built our whole house to have extra staircases so we could play search and rescue

01:14:24 which was like a game to get from the top floor we had three stories in my house and to get from

01:14:30 the top floor to the basement without him getting like tagging us was a game we would play and so

01:14:35 my dad the contractors were so mad at him because he demanded extra staircases so he could play this

01:14:42 game like that's only something a dad would do you know what I mean it's like the dads are like

01:14:49 they're fun and the mother's just hell on earth they get irritated and agitated easily so you

01:14:57 don't know what's going to piss them off it's like every day you go downstairs and it's like

01:15:01 are we getting happy mom mad mom you just don't know like which goes back to just ability go ahead

01:15:09 you learn to just avoid the mom because you don't know her mood and she's probably going to guilt

01:15:13 trip you for her feelings common tactic my mom used to use i carried you i nursed you i brushed

01:15:20 change your diapers they love that one she won't let that go was like hold on i'm not that baby

01:15:27 anymore i'm an adult so why are you still trying to mother me instead of being a coach

01:15:34 i gave up so much for you it's like i didn't ask to be here i keep telling you guys mothers write

01:15:42 a check that a child has to cash at the moment that they're born fathers don't do that and women

01:15:48 will collect and mothers will which will collect on that check whenever they want emotional verbal

01:15:55 abuse and terrorism dude i rarely see a dad like waiting at the draft pick for his house

01:16:03 like his guaranteed house it's often the mothers that are waiting for some payback

01:16:08 and some investment on their kids the dad is usually like oh you bought me a truck

01:16:12 you know when i'm freaking like 60 or 70 oh thanks you didn't have to but it's the mother's

01:16:18 definitely like where's my package there are people that i do trust that do help me when i'm

01:16:27 really in need and when i really have something to do that's the other thing i'm gonna add thing 0.84

01:16:32 single mothers leave their kids with damn near anybody they'll let anybody want this idea that 1.00

01:16:37 single mothers are like protective over who gets fathers are protective over who gets to watch 0.95

01:16:42 their kids the mothers like i i go to this gym um or i did i went to this gym at like lifetime and

01:16:49 they have a daycare there and there was like a i don't know something happened where one kid

01:16:54 touched another kid inappropriate i don't know something like that but i was thinking i'm like

01:16:58 you guys don't even know who you're leaving your kids with you'll spend like hours at the throw

01:17:03 your kid in the daycare being watched by god knows who probably so they can bang the trainers or

01:17:08 something i don't know but it's like but when you could just work out at home a dad would just make 1.00

01:17:14 a home gym you know what i mean it's like women just can't they would just rather do anything

01:17:19 than watch their kids so they'll leave the kids i interviewed a guy who the mom's new boyfriend

01:17:27 was literally convicted pedo that was a new boyfriend nothing that nothing the dad could do

01:17:34 dads will sometimes involve the children in the workout to count for them so that way the child

01:17:42 feels like they're involved like they're actively participating oh that's so true

01:17:47 there's videos of that on tick tock oh it's the cutest thing that's so true and like when the

01:17:54 dads bring their kid to work they take the time like mothers don't want to take the time to teach 0.75

01:17:58 their kids anything because they don't get joy from teaching you know so like if a mother brings

01:18:05 the kid to work you just like sit there but if the dad like the dad gives you things to do

01:18:11 dad knows it's going to be slower he won't get as much done but he doesn't care because he gets to

01:18:16 spend the time with his child dad will make up for the child to do so the child feels like

01:18:22 they're actively working with their father oh that's like the cutest observe that's so true

01:18:27 that's like the cutest observation ever it's no need for me to go through the line of those 1.00

01:18:33 people y'all know who y'all are and i love y'all dearly women just simply can't handle it 0.56

01:18:39 so i'm not even mad at y'all i'm not i'm not a lot of women are just she talks about how 0.95

01:18:47 stress she is but you have the time to get acrylics like that's like a five-hour appointment 1.00

01:18:53 every two weeks and that long beautiful weave on her head yeah that takes time and money yeah

01:19:01 i mean that's the that's the biggest reason i don't get acrylics is i'm not trying to sit

01:19:06 there all day sliding those children onto their fathers and putting themselves on child support

01:19:11 and um yeah that's what we have now and that's good they they love their kids more than you do

01:19:19 let's see what this woman so she's advice from the non-custodial parent give that man his kids okay

01:19:26 so i am now in my second week of being a mother who have given her kids to their father and

01:19:37 i am reflecting on this journey over the past two weeks um i'm a nurse i am a mother a bw nurse

01:19:47 kids are one is an adult the other one is almost an adult and I have a 70 year old and a five year

01:19:56 old and it is and was very hard for me to be able to maintain a nurse's schedule and to kind of just

01:20:05 do all of the things as a mother for all of these children in different age brackets so I decided to

01:20:12 give the kids to their father, their youngest two kids to their father. So anywho, I am on week two

01:20:20 of being a mother who is the non-custodial parent. And I will say that I am less stressed.

01:20:31 I have more time to think about the things that I need to do to successfully set us up

01:20:39 for the future. And I don't regret it at all. I don't. I miss my babies. Yes. But in two weeks,

01:20:47 we are going on a cruise. We will be gone for 10 days and they are going to have a mother who is

01:20:55 there, who is intentional, who has the mental capacity to take care of them and who can love

01:21:01 on them without the stresses of how am I going to do this? How am I going to do that? How am I

01:21:06 to pay this how am i going to pay that they are going to be able to have a mother who is refreshed

01:21:11 mentally and physically so to all of them i like how she didn't talk about any of the benefits the 0.95

01:21:15 kids get just her but you know we'll take it you know like it's you know ladies ladies even if

01:21:22 that's the reason we're still gonna let's applause you know you gave up the kids yes yes the reasons 0.99

01:21:30 why we don't have to get into you can shut up you know but we can we can yeah we can we can 1.00

01:21:36 can applaud that so here's my take yeah she sounds selfish she is she's a b-dub mark what do you think 1.00

01:21:47 this is part for the course dude literally and and i guarantee you so we know that the the the 0.99

01:21:55 two youngest kids have the same deb i guarantee you the oldest kids have two separate dads i mean 0.98

01:22:00 a beat up nurse is really your worst nightmare dude nurses in general my mom got worse after 1.00

01:22:08 she started working as a nurse oh wow sorry man well think about it it's a bunch of feminist women 1.00

01:22:16 poisoning other women to become feminist that's why so many of them have relationship issues at 1.00

01:22:22 home because they're listening to each other's poison they gossip they slander they criticize

01:22:26 the men and because they're making money they think they can uh hack it in this world by themselves

01:22:33 so it's a mars nurses nurses are heroes didn't you know that

01:22:40 hold on hold on how many nurses are getting into nursing not because they want to help people but

01:22:46 simply because they want the money and then they get upset that they actually have to do patient

01:22:50 care yep 100 true

01:22:52 the other the other thing too

01:22:58 actually never mind i forgot i was gonna say i'll play the rest moms who are out there like i just

01:23:07 have to be that custodial parent if you have a father who is ready willing and able girl 1.00

01:23:13 give that man his kids that's all i gotta say for now

01:23:17 yes i did give the kids for the to the dad am i wrong no you're right so that's wrong i don't

01:23:30 want you to be right honey you're a queen you are amazing special awesome it's a tough pill to

01:23:40 swallow when someone tells you not to have any more kids or you shouldn't have kids or whatever

01:23:45 it's a very tough pill to swallow especially when you have bipolar disorder and the only happiness

01:23:53 and your only reason to do is your kids like if it weren't for my kids i would not be here

01:24:00 because they're the only reason that i'm still here because i'm not selfish and i know i'm not

01:24:06 selfish because i gave my kids up to their dad for their best interests because i knew

01:24:11 that they were better off

01:24:14 and I never deny that

01:24:16 but I still deserve time with my kids

01:24:18 and I always stand on that

01:24:20 I love my kids

01:24:22 very much

01:24:23 I did a very selfless act

01:24:26 and gave my kids to their dad

01:24:27 and I did it because it was

01:24:30 in their best interest

01:24:31 but it's hard

01:24:34 don't tell me not to have kids

01:24:36 or have any more

01:24:37 see that's exactly how this needs to be framed just like that you you're making the greatest

01:24:45 sacrifice ever ladies you deal with what was best for your children and society is going to

01:24:51 recognize you for the heroic actions just go ahead and do it join the club of the most heroic women

01:24:57 that ever existed by giving their children up to their fathers and it's actually true i mean there

01:25:02 could be you know doctors lawyers you could have the next inventor that i mean how many how many

01:25:08 how far would so many kids have gone in life if they didn't have to deal with the trauma their

01:25:13 mother put on them like how many how many you know i bet cancer would be cured by now if it

01:25:20 weren't for mothers holding their sons back in life now you know even even just like the mother's

01:25:26 bad decisions how often does the does the kid have to take care of his mom because she made a bad

01:25:33 choice she doesn't have money for retirement now he's got to deal with it she got fat and can't

01:25:41 take care of herself now he's got to do it because men just can't oh they just they cannot i don't

01:25:48 think i know all right actually i got three guys on the panel would you let your mother crash and

01:25:55 burn i would i i have i i literally blocked her i want zero contact with her she won't take 0.99

01:26:04 accountability for her behavior and how she treats people so i don't want her in my life because i 0.99

01:26:08 don't want to be like that yep i didn't talk to my mom for like four years one time you gotta you

01:26:14 gotta agree it's rare though right like most guys can't not like take care of their mom

01:26:19 yeah would you agree or no ask question again i'm sorry like it would you agree that it's rare

01:26:26 like most guys can't not take care of their mother yeah it's 100 true yes because they don't

01:26:31 want to deal with society shaming them and guilting them for respecting themselves and for choosing to

01:26:37 not validate bad behavior yep sean what do you think yeah crash and burn for sure for sure

01:26:46 i just love the way that you guys answer the question

01:26:53 we're not gonna lie about it i know i don't know why it's just funny to me um

01:27:00 okay do you think i'll take it a step further yeah go ahead i told my mom why in the world

01:27:07 would i ever want to get married if you are the single biggest example in my life of how 0.68

01:27:11 wife treats her husband and you call yourself a christian savage wait how did she react

01:27:21 she didn't like it i don't remember exactly how but i don't think she quite got the point

01:27:28 yeah the most my mom has ever screamed at me it was when i told her to obey my dad

01:27:35 she's a catholic i'm like are you gonna listen to him 0.92

01:27:41 i was like where's this submission she just can't do it

01:27:46 you were about to answer the question pearl what was it oh um

01:27:52 i don't remember i knew you wasn't gonna remember i was like you can't go remember

01:27:57 oh there you go oh i was gonna ask if you know any examples of people where like their mothers

01:28:06 held them back in life like in their later years where they had to like take care of her because of

01:28:10 bad choices that's the black community in general so like 12 of the population their mothers hold 0.96

01:28:21 them back 12 all of us i increase it to 95 but okay well you know well well i'm just saying 12 1.00

01:28:32 because that's the percentage of the population that's black i'd say mine is probably going to 0.95

01:28:41 try mine is probably going to try and my siblings are probably going to try to guilt

01:28:45 me into doing it or they'll do it themselves yeah i mean i don't know one black guy whose mom didn't

01:28:54 hold them back um other races i don't really see i don't really see asian moms holding the

01:29:01 their kids back even like the asian tiger mom usually doesn't put them put their children in 0.96

01:29:10 a position to have to take care of them because they hold them back though they definitely hold 0.99

01:29:14 them back i think i think most most people's understanding of like you're probably dealing 1.00

01:29:20 with immigrants and so that's a different class of you know people peer pretty like asians or 0.98

01:29:26 whoever nigerians if you go to asia and you go to africa you'll see all the bums like there's there's 0.98

01:29:32 a lot of bums so in asia that's a big thing like even here in thailand they say that's thai for a 1.00

01:29:38 mom to be like hey you owe me five hundred dollars a month when you actually make it because i'm your 0.99

01:29:44 mother and i birthed you so you should just give me money like that's a big thing so they do hold

01:29:49 people back big time did you guys want money speaking of they want a lot of it speaking of 0.93

01:29:56 mothers ruining um their kids lives did you see that shannon elizabeth finalized a divorce from

01:30:02 second husband after only fan success you guys yeah she made like a million dollars already

01:30:08 funny how the divorce came after the success not before 0.99

01:30:13 today isn't about the end of me oh my gosh women's divorce announcements are so funny

01:30:21 today isn't about the end of marriage there are moments in life when you realize that letting go

01:30:25 can be exhilarating that closing one chapter creates space for an entirely new one and

01:30:31 stepping into the fields is incredibly liberating i'm embracing what comes next in a full hot with

01:30:36 a full heart and imagine a renewed sense of purpose that's what she's calling only fans

01:30:42 i've never felt more inspired creative or connected to who i am here's what it sounds

01:30:49 like to me it doesn't sound like a divorce announcement it sounds like an enormous 0.90

01:30:54 hey i don't have to hide that i'm a hoe anymore shoot your shots guys is this her kid 0.92

01:31:00 is she did she have kids i just i just 0.99

01:31:07 is she still a wood for you guys

01:31:12 i don't know who she is yeah they're um 1.00

01:31:17 she was an american pie she earned wait a million dollars her first week she had a kid in 2025 1.00

01:31:29 five at 50 something wait and her husband said welcome a daughter named blythe zerlene what

01:31:40 she had a daughter in her 50s oh my gosh this technology is getting good doug

01:31:48 oh she was like 51 honestly when i was doing the ivf video i know the point of the video was to say

01:31:58 how like IVF um isn't a sure thing and it's not but the numbers were actually a lot better than

01:32:05 I thought for IVF I'm like um because I think over 40 there was like a 10 or 5 chance I'm like

01:32:14 do you know what that's higher than I think it would be like IVF chance of baby by age

01:32:22 42 over 42 you have a four to seven percent chance that was higher than i thought it would be

01:32:32 um wait success rates include increase after multiple cycles women 40 to 41 of a 13 chance

01:32:41 success rate increasing to 25 so they have a 25 chance after 40 of having a kid if they do three

01:32:48 cycles of IVF. That's kind of crazy. That's interesting because I was going to ask how

01:32:56 many times did she have to try? Well, yeah. I mean, obviously this is for rich women. 0.99

01:33:01 Yeah. Yeah. And they don't care. They have a bunch of money. So yeah, that's, I think 1.00

01:33:06 the blackfilling thing about this OF launch is because she doesn't need the money. 0.71

01:33:10 how do you know that um i think her husband has money hold on let me look 0.99

01:33:19 yeah i think he does and i think she made a good amount of money like before but i guess i could

01:33:25 be wrong i think that would be the assumption let's see just because she made it doesn't mean 1.00

01:33:30 she still has it what do you say about women in spending that's true that's your ass you're 1.00

01:33:34 cooking good point um her net worth is is between five to nine million 1.00

01:33:40 i'll do ask her ex-husband net worth

01:33:47 uh oh 500k so he's not one million

01:33:55 okay net worth doesn't translate to cash on hand though so 1.00

01:34:04 so you think she's broke 0.85

01:34:08 i did i think that she got the taste that well because river they were in south africa doing

01:34:16 this wildlife preserve thing and i just think that she she got bored i think because she had

01:34:22 this non-profit thing for a while and she always wanted to do it but now she just doesn't want to

01:34:27 do it anymore she doesn't want to live on a wildlife preserve with her husband it's boring 1.00

01:34:32 she always wanted to try it now she tried it i keep telling you guys women reserve the right 0.87

01:34:37 to change their minds at any time so i guarantee huh the whole me too movement proves it 0.99

01:34:44 yep yeah yeah yeah she can um withdraw consent at any time as her husband just found out when

01:34:53 she opened up only fans actually let's see new reactions list um

01:34:58 what do you guys think of the abba and pre doug mpa can you fill us in on the abba and preach 0.88

01:35:06 stuff because this is too ghetto for me to follow this is just too much ghetto stuff 0.79

01:35:13 so so abba and pre okay so you you guys know that abba and preach that they don't have one 0.87

01:35:21 original video they're like the ultra reaction channel of people that eat off other people's

01:35:27 plates and they really hate red pill guys they do this thing where they'll cover stories where

01:35:33 they should be red pill but they say well i'm not saying that that we have to do this like like they

01:35:39 try to stay on the center right and when fresh from fresh and fit got a girl pregnant that one 0.82

01:35:48 asian chick they're like oh yeah they're this was to be alpha bills and take accountability 0.96

01:35:53 we'll look at him now ha ha ha well abba knew this girl for five months got her pregnant 0.87

01:36:01 right and then of course he wanted okay he says that she didn't want her to get an abortion

01:36:07 but then she released uh recordings of him because guys if you're an influencer if you're anyone

01:36:14 worth a dang and a woman's doing that soft even kill voice and she sounds like you're on speaker 1.00

01:36:22 phone she's recording everything that you're saying right so she rinsed first off she started 1.00

01:36:29 a youtube channel where the only two videos on her youtube channel are her rinsing abba out

01:36:35 saying he's a narcissist saying that he's not the person you know they got pregnant he didn't want

01:36:42 the kid he didn't want anything to do with her so then he did a stream a response where he's

01:36:47 dancing on stream and drinking on stream and stuff and he keeps trying to damage control but then

01:36:53 she did another video and then another woman has come out and said that the apple got her pregnant

01:36:59 at the same time so the biggest problem is that he he was he he craps all over the red pill

01:37:08 he's making fun of fresh and now he got these girls pregnant and now he's learning in real 0.97

01:37:13 time about the nature of women in real time sounds like his hypocrisy is being exposed 0.89

01:37:22 and of course myron is just cooking him dude well well everybody is

01:37:28 that's the thing that's one of the best parts about pearl davis pearl doesn't try to act holier 0.94

01:37:33 than now she pearl is one of those transparent people in this space and on youtube she doesn't

01:37:39 try to have have any kind of moral higher ground pearl admits that she's she's a modern woman she

01:37:46 has certain tendencies it doesn't even try to deny it but she calls like she sees it she's not

01:37:52 like abba where abba literally is throwing rocks at glass houses and now she he's getting rinsed

01:37:59 out it's crazy because all the people that have come for me over the years like they're just

01:38:03 involved in such weird stuff like it's not like a normal scandal it's like uh i got two not one

01:38:13 but he got two girls did you see the second girl came out yep like within six months and

01:38:21 he's like bullying them into getting abortions i'm like look and i'm not even taking the women's 0.95

01:38:28 side because the women are obviously crazy too uh but i don't know i just think there's too many

01:38:36 preventative measures where it's like how do you let that happen i don't know yeah he but twice 0.93

01:38:44 like you made that mistake twice in the same year my guy yeah like i'm like this is just too ghetto

01:38:51 for me like dude

01:38:53 here's my question

01:38:55 is he

01:38:57 gonna take accountability and become

01:38:59 red pill or is he gonna

01:39:01 no dude

01:39:01 his platform depends on him

01:39:05 crapping all over

01:39:06 oh dude

01:39:12 what

01:39:13 so apparently

01:39:16 she got interviewed

01:39:18 here's a quick

01:39:21 little uh i'm gonna put it on the signal thing what she talks about can you share your screen

01:39:27 does that give you that a love does it allow you to hug or no yeah it does but i put it in the chat

01:39:35 so i can bring it up just if you wanted to like control it you're welcome to um

01:39:44 okay so she's been going on podcasts and just rinsing him out 0.51

01:39:50 this is such karma he talks so much shit over the years dude okay montreal was a was a big 0.87

01:39:59 fight too where he had kicked me out of his house and i'm pregnant what did he kick you out the 0.95

01:40:03 house during that visit abba was playing video games for three days and i don't see him very

01:40:09 much and you said he played video for three days he was on his computer for three days

01:40:14 and what is that what do you mean three days like he's on for for 12 hours at a time he would play

01:40:22 video games and then he would work a little bit and then he'd play more video games and then we

01:40:27 would get something to eat and then he would play more video games and then i'm there on my phone

01:40:33 and i'm trying to be uh i'm trying to be like a good girlfriend and kind of like letting him do

01:40:38 his thing but after three days i get upset and then i leave the house and and then i come back

01:40:46 and i was just like a little angry so i went to the coffee shop next door i do come back

01:40:51 and he gets so upset with me we start fighting again because i left yeah and

01:40:59 he got so upset and i was trying to explain to him why i was upset and he just wouldn't hear it

01:41:07 he didn't understand why i was upset or mad when things would escalate i'm trying to explain it

01:41:13 to him he's like no you left you need to get out the house and i'm trying to tell him like why

01:41:19 don't you see why i left in the first place and um and then it would rile up and then i start crying

01:41:26 and then he does the whole mocking and yelling and screaming thing and um he he will literally

01:41:33 see you cry and he will literally look satisfied in you crying i don't believe her for either

01:41:46 but this is you know they deserve each other so she wants to be the victim and the hero at

01:41:52 the same time so what's his side of the story maybe we can actually figure out what actually

01:41:55 happened well well you know what he he's done two response teams he he did the first response and

01:42:01 And then he did not.

01:42:03 Now he's trying to say that he's being blackmail.

01:42:06 So he has exposing my blackmailer thing.

01:42:10 Let me see if I just,

01:42:12 do you know what?

01:42:13 It's like exposing my blackmailer.

01:42:20 Dude.

01:42:27 It's crazy.

01:42:28 I believe in this an hour.

01:42:31 in 20 minutes oh my god i haven't preached fans i think just don't have jobs like and and here's

01:42:38 the thing i gotta give pearl credit because i thought that pearl would be dancing on abba's

01:42:47 grave but you know she's kept it classy you know i like what you said about not you know you you

01:42:53 never should have abba and preach's voices just aren't ones that you shouldn't listen to

01:42:59 in the first place i mean guys like look at these guys do they really look like men whose opinions 0.91

01:43:06 you should like take into account just keep it a butt like it feels like you just got like milked

01:43:15 like why like i don't care either way i mean i just don't i don't think i was ever meant to hear 0.66

01:43:22 what they have to say like there's people like when they talk i think oh i really want to hear

01:43:28 what you have to say like i think like i think like people's opinion who i would value over

01:43:35 abba and preach anybody on this panel's opinion i would think it's more important than abba's

01:43:42 and preaches um my dog's opinion i think would be more important than abba and preaches

01:43:49 um my opinion on that i think a child like if i met a random kid at a preschool

01:44:00 i think i would care about that kid's opinion

01:44:04 more because the kid will at least be honest with you you know you'll be like am i fat to the kid

01:44:10 the kid's like yeah you know um doug mpa whose opinion would you put above abba and preach

01:44:18 um i mean a lot of people man like i just because here's the thing guys i don't know

01:44:27 them personally but i just don't like these kind of people that just eat off of other people's

01:44:34 plates i've never seen an original video on their channel like ever and they they make a ton of

01:44:41 money off of just sitting you guys ever see the muppets back in the day with those two old guys

01:44:47 up in the freaking balcony that just laugh at people that's them and you you have to assume

01:44:55 that most of these con conscient creators are doing something behind the scenes apparently 0.88

01:45:00 priest didn't even know about these two women or didn't even know this pregnancy happened

01:45:05 so he found out when when she started rinsing hit up the business yep when she reached out

01:45:13 to the business one of what one of the things i just kind of well first of all no pearl i can

01:45:19 listen to elon musk i can listen to jensen i can listen to peter lynch warren buffett's old tape

01:45:24 there's a lot of people i can listen to but i never i agree i always looked at that guy's fro

01:45:29 and i said why am i listening to this guy but it'd be one thing if they were just doing financial

01:45:34 advice and then this came out because it kind of wouldn't correlate right like the guy talks about

01:45:40 investment so why are we tripping about what's going on in his personal life but that's not what

01:45:44 they cover they cover these stories about life and it's a lot of virtue signaling what's ethically

01:45:51 and morally right and so this doesn't help at all right that this situation happened that they're

01:45:57 going through this specifically and especially since other people had their issues with people

01:46:02 they're in relationships with and they let on the fire so i think i believe the girl i don't need to

01:46:08 hear of their position and their side of the story, because that's the same thing that they

01:46:12 would do to me. So I'm going to inflict a receptor process on them and treat them as they would treat

01:46:17 me, a hostile. I was thinking about this idea of which opinions should matter. And here's what I

01:46:26 arrived at. People who have accomplishments to back up that they know a thing or two, or they

01:46:31 have failures and they're willing to teach you from their failures. And then the other category

01:46:36 is people who have demonstrated through their actions

01:46:38 that they have sacrificed for your benefit.

01:46:41 If they don't meet those two criterias,

01:46:43 their opinion really shouldn't matter.

01:46:47 Yeah, I agree.

01:46:49 I mean, what I've taken away from this is

01:46:51 I don't have to do a single thing.

01:46:53 My enemies take out themselves.

01:46:56 They take out themselves.

01:46:58 Yeah, and I'm going to say one last time.

01:47:00 I got to give you credit for taking the high road

01:47:02 because, you know, guys,

01:47:04 I'm the most petty person Pearl knows

01:47:06 And she knows

01:47:08 How petty I can get

01:47:10 If I were you

01:47:12 I'd be

01:47:13 I'd be handling this

01:47:16 In the most classist way possible

01:47:19 I mean

01:47:21 I don't know

01:47:24 I just 0.98

01:47:25 I just view them as losers 0.99

01:47:29 Like I just don't care 0.98

01:47:30 Like I just 1.00

01:47:31 Like they're losers 0.99

01:47:33 involved okay that's a that's pretty worse bro 0.94

01:47:37 no that's actually what he says hate and love are the same because you have to care about

01:47:46 something enough to love something or hate something so like apathy is the worst position

01:47:51 when people just don't care and that's because because um elenia says are they really enemies

01:47:58 Elenia, this has always been a one-sided thing.

01:48:02 Like, Abba and Priest have always come after Pearl,

01:48:05 but Pearl's never really responded.

01:48:08 Like, never.

01:48:10 Yeah, look at this.

01:48:12 Like, if I go, if I pull up my name for them, yeah, it's like, 0.99

01:48:17 look at this shit. 0.95

01:48:19 I'll just, just to give you guys context, 0.99

01:48:21 the Pearl that nobody wanted. 0.56

01:48:23 Pearl is disgusting.

01:48:25 Pearl returns. 0.98

01:48:26 Pearl got exposed 0.79

01:48:28 Just Unmarried Things is back 0.88

01:48:30 for war Pearl has always been

01:48:32 a class like these guys have been 0.99

01:48:34 on my ass for years 0.99

01:48:35 like 1.00

01:48:38 I don't know I just kind of 0.98

01:48:40 view them as like losers 0.81

01:48:41 you know I gotta say it again sorry Sean 0.94

01:48:44 it's just

01:48:45 no it's hilarious

01:48:47 like no because

01:48:50 it's just like

01:48:51 I've met Grant Cardone

01:48:54 like I've met really intelligent

01:48:56 like love him or hate him that guy I can tell he's intelligent like I've had um lead attorney

01:49:02 on the show he's really intelligent I've had um law of self-defense you guys are all intelligent

01:49:08 and I know what it's like to talk to somebody that's intelligent and I just can't imagine

01:49:15 those guys do productive things with their day like I can't imagine them going to the

01:49:19 like when she said he was playing video games for three days straight I'm like

01:49:24 he looks like he would do that

01:49:27 and i'm not against guys playing video games i'm like have their fun but like

01:49:36 i could 100 see this girl like thinking she get okay i could just see her thinking she gets this

01:49:43 ambitious guy right she's like oh he's a big youtuber he's a hard you know and she goes there

01:49:50 well she was clout chasing and then she finds out she's pregnant but the clout 1.00

01:50:06 clouded her judgment and she didn't realize she was fucking a loser 0.99

01:50:11 like the only reason they're fake is because we're in this like cloud economy that just 1.00

01:50:20 the stupidest people can get 0.99

01:50:22 and if you look at their content it's a lot of reaction stuff it's easier to react in a slander 1.00

01:50:30 and criticize them to create original content yeah the algorithm rewards them for it honestly

01:50:37 sorry i didn't mean to do that no no i was gonna say actually per what you just said that's a very

01:50:45 interesting point right because if you're let's say the old times you're with somebody who's

01:50:50 accomplished they probably had to go out and do things to become accomplished right um they had 0.69

01:50:57 to build railroad tracks they had to run a steel mill on some carnegie shit right but now you get 0.99

01:51:02 situation in this economy where you can get somebody who yes is a complete loser and has 0.99

01:51:07 millions of losers also following him and then now the girl sees him as okay he's successful 0.95

01:51:13 uh we're gonna be frolicking through the you know ab and we're gonna go shopping we're gonna live a 0.94

01:51:19 high quality life and she pulls up and he's in there in his boxers and his undies and he's playing

01:51:24 video games for that long of a time and she's like wait what the hell i'm with a successful guy

01:51:30 but this is him that's got to be a weird experience in itself too right like that's

01:51:36 a whole different thing where it's like the high performer is now an under performer very

01:51:41 interesting i forgot they copyright struck me i totally forgot they did that they tried to take

01:51:48 out my channel years ago yeah so they can't handle criticism surprise yeah like that's what it looks 0.54

01:51:56 like yeah but you guys see this they've been on my ass for years but yeah when it when they first 0.79

01:52:05 would make these hit pieces it really did bother me because i was like younger and it really did 0.90

01:52:11 like hurt my feelings i'm like what did i do but then i just once i reframed it and i was just like

01:52:17 yeah these guys are losers it was it was actually on me for taking like their opinion seriously

01:52:22 like that was that that was my fault like i should never have um i should never have even 0.97

01:52:30 taken their opinion into account and and that's when you asked me pearl when you were like would

01:52:36 you let your mom crash and burn i felt just like that you understand what i'm saying oh like you 0.88

01:52:43 don't care about her yeah because she's a loser in her real life so i mean it sounds bad but 0.99

01:52:49 like why would you care you know it's the same thing the other one like this girl she's been 1.00

01:52:56 on my ass for years and i don't really understand the beef between 0.95

01:53:01 like this girl all of her top performing videos are like 0.99

01:53:08 yeah yeah it's like all just hater pearl pearl i'm like up here pearl pearl she told everyone

01:53:24 that my boyfriend was a sugar baby i'm like he's got a real job he's just not an internet person

01:53:29 the like um but she just has spread like rumors about me for years and now um like i found out

01:53:38 this girl she lives with cat poop on her floor like there's like pictures of her on the internet 1.00

01:53:46 that with cat poop like she lives her life with cat poop on her floor 1.00

01:53:51 wow can you imagine like if i took the opinion seriously of a woman with cat poop on her floor

01:53:58 like i'm not i'm not i'm not saying i'm the best person in the world right but

01:54:09 i don't have cat poop on my floor yeah

01:54:13 i at least don't do that yeah

01:54:19 yeah so yeah once you know 0.99

01:54:24 this is just one more down pearly uh you know once again pearl's always taking the

01:54:33 the high road well there's only two people that she wouldn't take the high road

01:54:37 for we the two guys who shall not be named but other than that you know i think 0.99

01:54:42 there's two people on my shit list forever two people on my shit list and one came to 0.87

01:54:49 my birthday party that's that's why he's a actually yeah they both they both hung out with 0.99

01:54:57 me and then called me a racist after they're on they're on i'll i'm a woman i'll never let that go 0.99

01:55:03 you're on my shit list forever let the hate flow to you i'm not gonna do anything though 0.99

01:55:13 i will be a hater are you supposed to let it go or are you supposed to hold them accountable for 1.00

01:55:18 being pieces of shit as people well i can't hold them accountable because i can't do anything 0.98

01:55:24 they're adults you know but um and they don't interact or anything either so yeah i've never 0.99

01:55:30 seen them again one of them was such a oh my gosh so okay this guy i worked with i worked with him

01:55:36 for like two years and i thought we were the best pals like not and i guess he didn't think we were

01:55:41 friends and i'm like what you were invited to my birthday party you know what i mean and so he came

01:55:46 out with this hit piece it was like talking about how it was like a colonizer or whatever giving him

01:55:50 a slave contract and it was just this whole crazy thing and it was so crazy because behind the

01:55:56 scenes i'm like can we just talk this out like what's your what's your deal and i went to people

01:56:02 that we like mutually knew behind the scenes to be like okay do you want to just not do this on

01:56:07 the internet and he wouldn't do it i'm like how soft of a man are you but then i find out he

01:56:12 kisses men so it's like well what did i think you know it's like i took the opinion seriously of a

01:56:18 guy who for pay kisses men i mean again these people are always involved in such weird stuff

01:56:26 oh and this other girl's got like nudes on the internet so it's like the the other one i'm like 1.00

01:56:32 how am i going to take these women like these people seriously they're all crazy

01:56:36 so it was my bad for um again taking their opinion seriously in the first place that was my fault 0.99

01:56:44 yeah i don't think you need to hold them accountable especially if they were talking

01:56:48 like that pearl his life is probably going to hold him accountable don't worry about it

01:56:53 his results will yeah i'm not too worried slave contract i never seen that where did you get that

01:56:59 at did you get that legal zoom okay i'll tell you no i'll tell you it was crazy the co the the cost

01:57:06 of running this dude's channel was 10k a month so i like was actually going broke funding these

01:57:13 channels because i was trying to like i was trying to manage talent it just didn't work but

01:57:18 like it was like what i came down to it was the guy didn't know how to do math 0.60

01:57:24 i was about to say math pearl come on don't use european white math on a blackie you gotta you 0.94

01:57:30 You should have had the contract say 0.92

01:57:32 And that would have been better terms

01:57:36 Quick quick quick quick

01:57:37 Dude I'm like you realize

01:57:40 Like in three months I'll be out 30 grand

01:57:43 And you want all of the upside

01:57:45 Like do you see how that's

01:57:46 Basically

01:57:47 And he's like you're racist

01:57:49 I'm like what 0.58

01:57:50 European colonialist contract

01:57:55 Dude

01:57:55 Dude I'm like you gotta 0.99

01:57:58 insane 0.99

01:58:00 oh man

01:58:02 they wouldn't have did it like that

01:58:04 but yeah the whole

01:58:06 Abbott thing you know it's crazy

01:58:08 seeing him backpedal and stuff

01:58:10 and he said on a stream you know

01:58:12 on the exposing my

01:58:14 blackmail you know is this going to affect

01:58:16 my relationship with women

01:58:18 because one person did all this I don't think

01:58:20 so I think I'm going to stay positive

01:58:21 okay there bud

01:58:23 okay

01:58:25 let's see what happens 0.83

01:58:28 it's not that all women will is that all women can

01:58:36 oh this other guy oh my gosh he did the same thing i was on the phone i got

01:58:44 i was on the phone with um he texts me and he's like i had to stop the bleeding

01:58:50 because i was getting canceled by black people and he's like yeah i had to stop the bleeding

01:58:56 and i see he made a hit piece on me because we'd just done a collab like the week before

01:59:01 and i was getting canceled for having nick fuentes on and he was like you know i just had to stop the

01:59:06 bleeding and do you know what was the worst part he used this picture of me that was so ugly on

01:59:11 the thumbnail and it was like it really hadn't circulated on the internet it's from when i was

01:59:16 like 20 and i'm in basketball shorts and i'm like i don't know i was like pretending to be a gangster

01:59:22 or something like because I was like look at my house I don't know it was stupid but 0.61

01:59:26 I'm like why did you have to use that picture where did you find this picture why would you 0.78

01:59:34 do this to me did you go on my personal Facebook this is like 10 years old but anyways so he's 0.79

01:59:41 gonna he's on my shit list forever because that picture circulated the internet and it was just 0.97

01:59:47 so ugly that yeah you were on top of the dishonor because we also like bought him and his friends 0.99

01:59:55 food and alcohol for like a week when he came to do content we filmed so much content for this guy

02:00:01 and then yeah he went back and said pearl um is a colonizer and i'm like you've got to be kidding 0.97

02:00:08 me this is because he had to stop the bleeding those two are my shit list forever he he had to 0.97

02:00:16 out the bleeding with the black people well i'll say as an accredited investor to pearl and anybody 0.99

02:00:24 else out there if you want to invest 30k into me and i get all the upside let me know hit me up 0.99

02:00:30 that's what i'm saying dude a slave contract indentured servitude contact whatever you want

02:00:36 to call it i'll sign yeah because i'm telling you pearl's machine how many subs would you get in

02:00:44 that i saw your machine build someone from 20 to 100 000 subs easy and it's just like but i want

02:00:52 all of the money also it's like why would i do that crazy you know what's crazy the crazy thing

02:00:58 is the one girl that was actually um she did really what i i have nothing bad to say about

02:01:04 this girl she was one of my talents um and she made me a little money but it was just that i

02:01:10 i had too many projects going on i couldn't give her the time and attention she really needed uh

02:01:16 but i let this girl keep her channel and look how well she's doing like i i started this girl's

02:01:21 channel i got her to 100k in a year and like honestly with her views i think she's like

02:01:30 i think she's this is her full-time job i haven't asked but it's like imagine if he

02:01:34 like if she took the contract and she's doing this full time now and it's like you called me

02:01:42 a colonizer and look where you are because i just gave her a channel i didn't make her pay

02:01:46 for it when i left london i had too much going on yeah but it's like imagine the woman doesn't 0.97

02:01:55 betray me isn't that crazy what a change of pace surprise but the blackies did learn your lesson 0.99

02:02:03 Yeah, it's like, imagine a woman doesn't crash out on me. 1.00

02:02:08 Isn't that crazy?

02:02:10 At least you learn these lessons in your 20s instead of your 30s and your 40s, man.

02:02:19 Yeah.

02:02:21 Well, that's all I got today.

02:02:23 That's if anyone cared about who I have beef with.

02:02:25 I have two beefs.

02:02:26 If you don't know who they are, you just haven't been around long enough.

02:02:29 I don't say their names, but those two people,

02:02:31 I will be haters for life

02:02:34 actively hating

02:02:37 if anyone says their name I'll only say

02:02:39 negative things

02:02:40 forever

02:02:41 hold on

02:02:43 why hate why let them live rent free in your head

02:02:47 oh see no

02:02:48 apathy

02:02:49 no Mark see we don't believe that around here

02:02:53 this whole thing if you hate somebody

02:02:54 you're giving them a part of you

02:02:56 that don't work around here bro

02:02:58 hold on

02:03:00 no i agree with you what were you saying earlier i do agree with you me and doug mpa

02:03:04 see this a little differently for me it's just fun yeah they cost me i i'm really not

02:03:13 heard about it now i don't care anymore um but it's just to the like this is a grudge i feel

02:03:20 like holding because at the time i was very hurt so i feel like holding this grudge and i'm gonna

02:03:28 hold it and it's gonna even at the cost of hatred in my heart i just want it there

02:03:37 i'm so proud of pearly because that sounds like something i would say

02:03:43 i'm all about grudges dude because i i try to be a good person and people do bad things to me

02:03:49 so once you see hate to me is is a status of a person like i stamp them that like i hate them

02:03:56 and me hating them it doesn't i don't actively think about them or anything but when they do

02:04:02 come up or if they do cross my path now here's i think that you should leave room if someone wants

02:04:07 to try to to make amends you shouldn't hate someone through them trying to make amends

02:04:12 but until that happens hate them hate them to the fullest extent oh i forgot that this

02:04:22 guy accused me of laughing at his cancer which i didn't do oh my god that was the most deceptive 0.99

02:04:30 stupid reaction piece ever oh my god oh my god i forgot about this i just googled him i have i like 0.93

02:04:41 i uh what do you call it i forgot but yeah he told everybody i'd laughed at his cancer what 1.00

02:04:49 what kind of bullshit was that dude so he was looking for reasons to play the victim 0.95

02:04:56 yeah he like cut he deceptively edited this video to make it seem like i was like laughing at him 1.00

02:05:04 having cancer and i took i wasn't but like um i was like reading a super chat and i laughed at 0.95

02:05:11 the super anyway it was so stupid he and he deceptively edited it so not only did he throw

02:05:18 me under the bus after we all like um he was in our studio for a week and honestly like they were 0.98

02:05:30 the way a lot of them behaved was just like really crazy like unprofessional i'm not going

02:05:36 to get into it but just there's a lot of things i could say and so they come back they eat our food

02:05:43 drink our alcohol whatever we have a good time i'm not complaining it was fun and then he goes

02:05:47 back and when i get canceled he decides to not only pile on but to also like make up stuff about

02:05:55 me and like clip me out of in the out of context in the most like deceptive way possible so yeah 0.69

02:06:01 these two yeah they're on my shit list uh forever um only because i knew them in person like abham 0.84

02:06:08 preach i don't care about but i i don't like like i knew them in real life and i'm like and you guys 0.92

02:06:16 did that like yeah i'm gonna hold that grudge i'm gonna hold it until i don't feel like it anymore

02:06:23 but yeah if anybody asks me about those two yeah i'm gonna reputation destruct yep

02:06:31 reputation destruction yeah so don't care stop being so nice never forget never forgive never

02:06:40 forget no i actually guys i agree with him to be honest like the hatred in your heart i just feel

02:06:46 like keeping this one so i can't argue with that man i'm of the mind forgive but don't forget

02:06:58 that's how you hold them accountable you don't treat them nice until they show you that they

02:07:04 deserve to be treated nice by how they treat you just become indifferent forget they exist

02:07:10 i did she can do that while hating someone though yeah i mean i kind of did forget like i totally

02:07:16 forgot he accused me of laughing at his cancer until i just googled this now i forgot well

02:07:23 i'd say i wish him well but i don't now that's funny

02:07:28 i wish you guys the absolute worst um if you get put on child support i'm totally anti-child

02:07:42 support alimony and all but in this case i wouldn't i wouldn't care at all i wouldn't care

02:07:49 i wouldn't care even a little like i wouldn't even take the time out of my day to do anything

02:07:56 but smile.

02:07:58 May your baby mother keep your 0.65

02:08:01 children and not give it over to you. 0.98

02:08:08 I have a slightly different thing. I don't wish the worst,

02:08:11 but I do wish 1.00

02:08:12 reality would slap them upside the head 0.99

02:08:15 and teach them the hard way since they don't want to learn the easy 0.99

02:08:17 way.

02:08:18 Yeah, but again, it was my

02:08:20 fault for 1.00

02:08:22 taking a guy who kisses a dude's

02:08:25 opinion seriously.

02:08:26 now that's funny also

02:08:31 yeah that was

02:08:35 so anyways that's all i got today not child support i'm telling you in that case

02:08:44 my heart breaks for men that go through child support alimony and losing access to their kids

02:08:50 but in that case i don't care don't care won't won't lose uh do you know what's the worst part

02:08:58 i still want them to get to see their kids you know i can't i can't even wish that upon them

02:09:03 uh you know well that's because you're thinking of the kids not them yeah that's true um okay

02:09:10 guys you want to put any final thoughts um sean you can go first

02:09:14 no shout outs to you know again what the girl did was something that's admirable shout outs to that

02:09:23 and if more people make a decision where they're like hey look i'm a not a problem hey i want to

02:09:28 be a part of the solution for my children and i want to hand them over to the fathers i think

02:09:33 that would be great so please continue to do that if that's you if you think you can make that

02:09:39 not so much sacrifice, but you could devote that type of love to your children to pass over your

02:09:45 child to the father. I say, do it. I'll support you and I'll go to war for you. Thank you for

02:09:51 doing that and being so honorable in your actions. And may those children have a bright, prosperous,

02:09:58 masculine future in their life. Thank you, Sean. Mark, what you got?

02:10:04 here's what i want to say it does not make you a bad person to come to terms and accept that

02:10:12 you're not qualified for a certain job and to say you know what the father is a better person he's

02:10:17 better qualified i'm gonna let the children have the best chance possible it makes you a good

02:10:21 person for having that humility and that self-honesty don't be afraid to do it if that's

02:10:27 what you honestly know to be true and ignore anyone who tries to shame you or guilt you or

02:10:32 talk about your choice thank you mark doug mpa what you got um yeah i think you know i want to 0.88

02:10:41 see more women doing this they're not going to because the female ego is just way too strong 1.00

02:10:48 women would rather see their children suffer than give the women rather give their children to the 0.99

02:10:55 state than give their children to the father right so yeah but you know i think that you know

02:11:01 Hayden Pantieri, she did the right

02:11:03 thing. Her daughter is going to

02:11:05 grow up with one of the glitch killers, so odds are 1.00

02:11:07 she'll learn how to box and be a badass. 1.00

02:11:10 Yeah. 0.93

02:11:11 Men are, and what do you always

02:11:13 say, Pearlie? Most of us are going to be single

02:11:15 parents anyway.

02:11:17 So, 1.00

02:11:18 ladies, you're going to end up a single mom 1.00

02:11:21 most of the time, and if you don't want to deal 1.00

02:11:23 with the children, just give them away to the father.

02:11:26 I agree. Thanks, Doug

02:11:27 MPA. See ya.

02:11:31 yeah someone said good for you for being honest 0.99

02:11:36 i can't say it's good for me to keep them on my shit list 0.98

02:11:43 but i'll be haters of them forever yeah 0.99

02:11:47 so but they're losers and i just didn't realize that when you're young you don't realize like 0.97

02:11:55 when you're young you just don't realize how many people are losers you don't so anyways 0.83

02:12:00 all right guys thanks for watching i love you um if you can leave a comment like the video

02:12:05 subscribe and i will see you next

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Pearl - May 13, 2026

More Women Should Follow in Hayden's Footsteps (Give Yo Kids To the Dad)

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