Pearl - May 29, 2025Most Women Under 30 Have Slept with 70 Men or More! w⧸ @JesseSteele_BrandonHayes
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In this episode, we talk about how to get laid more often, what to look for in a woman, and how to figure out if someone is a good hoe or not. We also talk about height and hygiene.
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So the average guy you're working with, he's getting laid like once every three months.
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Yeah, some, some, I would say from three dates a month, one of them, he gets laid three dates.
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Yeah, basically. Okay, because I asked the first question I ask guys when they call or when they
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when they contact me is, are you looking for something casual or something long term?
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Right? Well, something casual. When's the last time you got that? Most common answers is around
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the three month to over a year. What percent are looking for casual versus long term?
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So the answer, the most common answer is I want something casual that develops into something
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long term. Well, yeah. Yeah, that's what they want. I mean, isn't that kind of what people
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are doing? Yeah, that's what people want. But it's, it's kind of, it's almost like a trick
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question in a way. But yeah, that's the most, 80% of guys are like, yeah. And then I would
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say maybe. I find that guys want relationships more than women. Nowadays, yeah. Yeah.
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A lot of days they do. It's too much free shit for being a single girl. Yeah. A ton. But
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a lot of guys struggle with that. You know, they struggle with hooking up, let alone having
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a relationship. Yeah. So, yeah. But so your average guy, he's getting laid at once every
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three months. And is it once, twice? Once, twice a year. Holy shit. That's like nothing.
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Yeah, it's nothing. You got to keep in mind, I talked to probably messaging, right? On Instagram,
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right? They're, they're always messaging. Probably like 100 to 200 guys. Okay. Out of
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those, maybe four or five had a hookup within the last couple of weeks. Just think about
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that. Yeah. The rest has been over three months or over a year. It's, it's rough.
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And so the guys that are doing really well, what's their like? The guys that are doing really
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well. Like, what would you say is someone doing really well? I mean, right? If the average
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guy's getting two, three lays a year, right, you double that, that's really well, right?
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Yeah. You're doing really, you're getting laid once every two months. Getting laid once,
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twice every month. You're doing extremely well. But the more well they do, the better position
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they are in the genetic pool. And it's, it's the direct correlation. It's kind of like common
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sense. So those guys never, they don't need help with women.
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Yeah. Right? It's the guys that are like normal guys that want to go from like a five
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to an eight or like a five to a seven. Exactly.
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Exactly. It's like, they're not going to be selected if they don't have good hygiene,
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good, where everything has to be. Where if a guy's like a Chad, it's like you can do anything
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in there. Yeah. And the easiest way to tell if you're a Chad or not is to go on, on Hinge
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or on Tinder. Yeah. Right. The number one filter on Hinge is height. Yeah. Can you just
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lie? If I was a guy, if I was a guy, I would just lie. But then what? You see her? But
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if she's like five, like women don't know height. Um, yeah, but like if you're five, five, you're
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not going to know the difference. Right. So how much that's, let's do a little test. So how
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much would be acceptable for you to lie about? I mean, I would, I would just go all the way.
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I would just put it to six if I was a guy. Six. If he was how tall? Like five, six?
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Like five, eight. Four inches, right? Yeah. How tall are you? I'm six. Right. Say the
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guy was six. He shows up. He said he was six, four. You'd be able to tell right away. Most
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girls are five, eight. But I'm tall though. That's different. No, but most girls are a five,
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eight, five, what? Five, six, five, six. Let's say most girls are five, five, five, five.
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Yeah. Right. If he says five, nine or he's five, five, he says five, nine. The problem
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is the guys that, that have to lie if they did to get more matches are not average height.
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Average height is not a problem. It's below. It's super short. Right. So the height, it
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doesn't work. Right. The average guy, sure. He lies, but he didn't have to lie in the first
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place because it's like average height. It's okay. Like five, 10 to six, one. Exactly.
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That's fine. Yeah. Yeah. But if you're, would you suggest they lie though that much? You might
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as well, right? No, for guys, five, 10, the best, the best thing to do, if I was a guy,
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you just round it up. You could round it up, right? But they have all the filters at six.
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Wouldn't you want to be, you could tell me you're the coach. Yeah. Um, well, this is what
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guys should do, right? Guys should approach in person first and use hinge tender as a secondary
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tool. And the way I tell guys to run it is go get your main girls from doing your approaches
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at your meetups during the day when you go out and out with your buddies, whatever.
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That's where you're going to meet majority of the women that are going to date you, right?
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Because they're correlating to your lifestyle, but use tender and hinge to kind of practice,
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right? Maybe set up a date or two Monday through Wednesday, right? So it's just a secondary tool.
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It's not your end all be all, right? So there's, if it's your secondary tool, I don't see the
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point in lying and just getting comfortable with yourself. You know what I'm saying? Because
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really, you, you know, by doing it during the day, during the night, during your
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meetups, right? Wherever you go for whatever events, you know that you're enough when you
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approach these girls. Well, I'm five, 10. When I approach these girls in person, I know
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I'm enough as a guy. So you'll, you won't feel the need to lie, you know, cause you're
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proven to yourself. I'm the guy. Um, but if you want to lie about it, you can go ahead.
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It's not going to hurt you. But if the girl does, there's a problem when the girl does say
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something, what is he going to say? Oh, I freak out. Oh no, it's a, I'm six foot with this
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or whatever. Breaks his frame. Now he's like, like awkward. So if you're going to lie, be
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a goddamn good liar. Right? Cause then, cause then she's going to say, yeah, no, I'm six
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foot. What are you going to do? Yeah. Move on. Right? No, it's the truth. So if you're
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going to do it, don't be all, you know, pits pandering around, um, when she asks you and
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you have to stand up with it. Yeah. Yeah. So how long does it take? Like, I know you said
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a virgin can lose his virginity in three. How long does it take for a guy to go from
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like nothing to expert level? I guess three months, three, really three months, three
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months. No way that quick. Yeah. That quick. So, I mean the way I, I run it. Right. So
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you got to think about it like this. They want to know why they shouldn't just rent the women
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like buy them like hookers. Cause that's just a slippery slope. Right. Yeah. I mean, I think
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if you're willing to buy hookers, you have a deeper problem. Yeah. It's a deeper problem
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with that. Um, I mean, it depends on, on your goal too. Right. Right. If you want
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a family, buying hookers is not the way to go. I wouldn't recommend that, but I'm not
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here to, it's not the way to go. Um, being, being transactional with women is not the way
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to go. There's a difference between an emotional financial transaction. Yeah. At least when there's
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an emotional transaction, she's doing some emotional investment into you as well. Right.
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And so the loss, if there is a loss, it's, it's parity. Why do you think guys spend so much
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time on women that clearly don't want them? Like why? Like, cause sometimes I'll just watch
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I'm like, why are you, she doesn't like you. Yeah. You know what I mean? Like, like there'll
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be guys that'll wait like months to have a girl sleep with like the biggest one that I've
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seen these guys that they think the girl's like different or special. And she's like waiting
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for sex. And I'm like, dude, no, you're being, you're naive. Yeah. You're naive. You're a naive
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young boy. And it's crazy because the guys, you think like, Oh, what, when you think of a naive
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man, what, what age range do you think of? I think a two, I think of either under 27 or very
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religious and just hasn't partaken in anything. Right. The average guy who's not really, the
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average guy is not religious. Yeah. They're naive up until their late thirties. Cause I've talked to
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guys when I messaged them, right? Whatever. They're like, I'm still trying to get with this girl.
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I've known her for a year or two. How old are you? 37, 38. No way. Yeah. So men are so naive
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nowadays. Right. And to answer your question, they get so hung up on one girl that doesn't
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want them because that's the only girl that gives them time, that gives them attention
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because guys, they don't realize this, but guys do need emotional reassurance as well. Almost
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right. They do need emotional attention almost. Right. And that girl's the only one that talks
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to him. And so in his mind, it's like, that's the only opportunity that I have to make anything
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happen. Cause I don't know any other girls. That's the only girl I know. And that's the
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only girl that talks to me. And so they approach it from a scarcity mindset because they don't know
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any other girls. And so they're so hung up on her. They come to me. There's no, no other, none.
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They come to me and they say, yeah, well, there's a girl I really want her. I've known her for six
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years. And I, the first question I asked them was, well, how many other girls are you talking
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to? Zero. Yeah. Why? Cause I'm scared. The real issue is not that you can't get her. The real
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issue is that you can't get anyone, you know? And so that's, that's the mentality that these guys
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have. And it's really a scarce mentality, right? It's kind of like going fishing and then looking
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for one fish, even though there's a thousand fish out there, but no, I want that one. Right. Cause
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that one is the only one that bites my bait. What are you talking about? It doesn't make
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any sense. So that real problem is that they can't get anyone, that they can't build attraction,
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that they're afraid of failure, right? They're afraid to get rejected. A lot of, a lot of stuff.
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Well, do you think that, cause you ever see guys, like, even though they have other choice,
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they still hyper fixate on like one. Yeah. When you're in love. Yeah. Yeah. But it's like,
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sometimes like the simping is just, the simping is different. Yeah.
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Right. Simping is, should be illegal. It should be illegal. Simping should be jail time. Cause think
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about it. And what did I, what did I tell you yesterday? What did I say? I said, if you have
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social media as a guy and you're not monetizing it, right. Or you're not proactively. Yeah. What
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are you doing? If you're not proactively working to make, make it good. Right. And I mean like make
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a presence on social media. I mean something meaningful, not just good pictures and shit, but
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if you're not doing those two things, delete it. Why? Cause you're brain rotting, watching dumb
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stuff and you're liking pictures of girls that don't even know who you are. Yeah. Right. And
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so that's how the simping starts. Even though you might not be a simp, right? You might not be that
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simpy. You, you like one picture of a girl a week. That's enough. Cause that adds up, right? There's a
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million men that are single, you know? Yeah. And I guarantee you a lot of them aren't doing it. If you go on
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the average guy's explore feed, what are you going to see? Probably a bunch of girls. Do you know what?
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I heard that even when men downvote the stuff, it's still like goes on there. Yeah. Cause social
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media is like, it's either you hate it or you like it. Yeah. And so we're only going to show you
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either. Yeah. Right. And so if you go walk down the street, this would actually be a cool video.
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Walk down the street and see, let me see your explore page. Most men will have some sort of ass on
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there. Yeah. Right. So, um, I say delete it. If you're not monetizing it, if you're not working
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on it, delete it and go find women the right way. And that will bring balance back to the dating
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space. Do you see like a lot of guys using their phone as like a crutch for like the lack of female
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intimacy, especially with like Gen Z becoming more online? Is that a problem for you? Like
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antisocial guys? Yeah. So, I mean, right now the guys that I'm working with a lot, right? I think Gen Z,
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either coming into the picture, right? The youngest guy we're working with is 19. Okay. A very smart
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19 year old guy. Right. Cause he's already like, I want to figure shit out. Right. Yeah. So he's
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very smart, you know, Gen Z, but the average age we deal with is 25 to probably 40. Okay. That's a good
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range of guys that we have on the calls. But I do think that the more prevailing social media gets,
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the better it is as disguising your lack of communication skills, right? Your insecurities,
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all these things. Um, and so I think it'll, it'll come to light. We'll see how it materializes. But
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right now, Gen Z is like up and coming. They're like coming for the guys. Yeah. They're coming
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into the dating scene. And I think Gen Z girls are even worse in, in social media spaces.
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Oh yeah. Right. Social media is way worse on women. Yeah. Yeah. And so these Gen Z guys are,
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they're in for a rude awakening because all those Gen Z girls, they've been on OnlyFans for a while.
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They're getting snatched up by, you know, the older guys who don't want anything serious. Now
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they, they're in their thirties, financially stable. They're having fun. They're like, I made it.
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Right. This girl's 22. She's super hot. Right. And she cares about status and stuff. I could take
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her out over here. And so that's kind of what we say. Oh, actually, I'm curious what you think of
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the stat where it's like twice as many women under 30 are in relationships than men under 30.
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Do you think it's because the women are dating the same guys or because they're dating older or both?
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So you could be both. I'm just, I'm just curious your thought being like in the field.
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Yeah. I think they're dating older. Yeah, for sure. Um, it's really hard for,
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I think once a girl leaves, excuse me, once a girl passes age 22, 23, dating within your age group
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leaves the picture because what happens with girls in college, right? They're still,
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you're still in college around that time. And if you stay in the same city, your college group will
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still be to a degree like the same, right? Same with high school sweethearts and stuff.
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But you get judged if you date outside of your social circle at that age, you know? Oh, he's not
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even the fraternity or whatever. Right. And so it's, it's not as acceptable to date from the outside,
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but once you're in the real world, now it's fair game. Yeah. Right. Like if you go approach girls in
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the college campus, that's fucking weird. Right. Right. But if you go approach a girl at the club
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who just graduated, who's 24, that's fine. Yeah. Right. And so you have these guys and then that's
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kind of like where the competition really begins. So what you see a lot too is, um, these younger
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chicks dating older guys. And I think most girls that we talk to, it's the age range that they date
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is always, I think they cap it at like 10 years. Like if she's 25. That's what I've seen about too,
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about 10 years. 25. Oh, uh, I'll only date over to 35. Yeah. Which is fair. I think that's a pretty
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good range, but yeah. Like when, when I was single, like the cap was 20 and I think I was abnormal.
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Like I feel like girls thought I was weird. Yeah. Like I wouldn't go past 20. Yeah. That's what you
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say. But like 10 is the most common I see. And what do you think about, um, a PI came on and he said
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that he would guess, what was, Oh my God. I can't remember the number off the top of my head.
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He thinks that up to, it was roughly 40% of women under 30 that are not fat have done some sort of
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sex work. If you include things like sugar dating, occasionally having sex for rent, only fans selling
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nudes on Instagram. Do you think that is accurate or do you think he's kind of overblowing it?
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Hmm. I think it's overblowing it. Okay. The thing with these studies that I'll say,
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well, he's, he didn't have a study. It was just, like, cause he vets, his job was to vet girls to
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marry them. Okay. Yeah. So like, it's like, if you had a girl you wanted to marry, you bring him to him
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and he says, so what I would say is trends move fast and societal norms move fast as well. Right.
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Where at it wasn't accepted five, 10 years ago to post a nude online, right? Everybody freaked out
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about nudes. Now they're selling it for $3, right? Do you know what's crazy too? I was just at like,
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um, a UFC, like Jim doing some interviews there and they were telling me, like, I was asking the
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guys, would you date a girl with like an only fan? Like if she had one before and I couldn't
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believe how many of the guys said they would. And I'm like, don't you guys have like other like
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choices? You also got to realize that. And I'm like, it could just be entertainment. Cause I know
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in entertainment, it's like a little different, but I'm like, really? You didn't realize that.
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You didn't realize guys who fight, they, they're not the most normal guys.
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They're not. No, they're totally not. But I just kind of was thinking, I'm like, you guys
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have the ring girls throwing. I'm like, I'm not dumb. Like you guys have, why would you?
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Yeah. They're like, yeah, as long as she deleted it. I'm just going to believe it. Like it's
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gotten normalized so fast, but like, they're like, as long as she didn't have like actual
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sex on camera. So I'm like, Jesus Christ. They're okay with it. And so that's what I'm
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saying. Okay. But like they would accept if you're, you know, they would accept it.
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It's just, it's just becoming a norm. Yeah. And so that's what I mean where it's like,
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if he's vetting these girls, I think it's moving so fast and technology moves so fast,
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right? The innovation levels and that. And I think side of norms go with it, right? The
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good and the bad. And so what you see is, is these things becoming more common and because
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they're more common, what guys end up feeling like is like, if I don't accept it, I'm not
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going to get anyone. So I should come to terms with it. Oh, you know what I'm saying?
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I think there's some truth to it, right? You look at back in the day, what was back in
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the day? Well, I don't want my girl to work a corporate job. She should be a stay at home mom.
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But societal norms catch up. It's like, oh, maybe it's okay for her to,
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to work. Right. And so that's what we're seeing, but it's getting worse. And I think
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as guys, I think, I do think it's, it's their job to put a stop, to be like, no, I'm not
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okay with that. Yeah. I need to stop feeding that machine. And I think it comes down to
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the simps. And I think they're the problem. I think you made a video about it. Yeah, they
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are the problem. So wait, what do you, what do you guys request the most in terms of like
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the types of girls they want? They want, they just want a good girl with, with decent head
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on her shoulders. Um, as far as like body count, all that type of stuff, they want single
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digit body count. Yeah. They're like, and not just single digit body. How would you even
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verify that? So you can, but before I go into that, they want single digit body count and
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they want the, uh, the, the single digits to come from longterm relationships. Yeah. Not
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just a hookup. Yeah. Um, and it's really bad because girls don't count the hookups. They only,
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they only count the guys that they dated that they slept with. They don't count like anal either.
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Yeah. The Christian girls. Yeah. Um, so going back to your question is like, how do you verify that?
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And I think this is where guys go wrong is if you make her feel judged in any way, shape or form,
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she's not going to be her true self. Right. So you've got to come in and even though it bugs you,
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you've got to learn to have a poker face. I just, I had a show called men's like,
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what's the craziest thing a girl said to you and you to keep a poker face. It was a call and show.
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Yeah. And so that's what happens is, uh, they have to learn to keep that poker face so they could
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learn the truth about the girl. Yeah. And that happens just when you're trying to learn the truth
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about anything, right? The CIA probably does this when they're trying to learn the truth about
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other, you know, nations or whatever and spies. I think when you make her feel comfortable and
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like, you're not judgmental and open-minded, she will tell you a lot more than you don't want.
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Yeah. But women are smart. Like, you know what I mean? Well, yeah, but you know what they are smart,
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but what I will say is most guys cannot keep that poker face. So when they do find the guy that keeps
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it, it's like, Oh, I finally could talk about it with a guy. And then they get, that's true.
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They get excited about it. Yeah. But that's, that's why it's so rare for a guy to be not
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judgmental and keep a poker face. So guys need to learn to do that. If you don't want to play
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yourself. Right. And then obviously private investigators are looking for like marriage
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and stuff. But even the PI said, there's some stuff like, you can't, I mean, you can't know.
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The only way to do it is. That's what I mean. Like single digit, like there's, um, a phrase that
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they have that it's like, assume all women are sluts, but don't obsess. Yeah. Because it's like,
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how would you, it's a saying I say is, uh, every girl's a slut except my mother and my sister.
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So it's like, it's, it's funny. Right. Um, but in hindsight, you have to make her feel so
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comfortable. Yeah. Cause then she's going to open up to you. I've tech girls, right. That I've talked
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to that just out of curiosity, they're bottle girls that they work in the industry and they feel so
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comfortable around me. Right. And I'm like, yo, just out of curiosity, like, like you, you have to
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work up to it. Right. Would you sleep with that guy? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No way. How many have you slept
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with? Right. But they feel so comfortable around me. Like I'm never going to judge them. Right.
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Uh, probably like 70 or 80. No way. That's super dope. Right. In my mind. I'm like crazy. Yeah.
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But once they feel comfortable, think about it like this, if you were her gay best friend,
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yeah, she would open up to you. Correct. Yeah. Right. So they have, there has to be a level of
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comfort to get the actual truth from these women. So what are the numbers you've gotten?
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Hmm. Um, so the ones that I've gotten, right. Cause like how many women have given you these
00:20:06.540
numbers, like roughly a lot. Okay. So, um, right on one end, you have the girls that work in those
00:20:13.400
industries. They're a lot of fun, right? They're gorgeous, but the numbers are high, right? 70,
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80. I talked to one, she, she was a friend of the one that I was hooking up with probably like 90,
00:20:25.220
100. So huge. Right. But you also have girls who are, so what is that like per year? Like,
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is it like, how many dudes does she sleep in with at a time? You're going to find this crazy. It's
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it, they're young chicks. They're like 25, 26, which is why I do the math. I don't know.
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Cause average age, you lose your virgin. That's over 10 years. Right. 16 to I think 25, 26. Yeah.
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So like how many, like when you were talking to her, like how many dudes was she seeing that week?
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Like, I could tell you this, any girl, no, I could tell you this, you probably attest to it.
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Any girl could call a guy at any given point and the guy will answer. Yeah. Right. And girls have
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hormones too. They're not as horny as men, but they have hormones, right? They, they're like,
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I think women are almost hornier at the right time. Yeah. When they're ovulating. Like, I mean,
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if you see women, like they almost like attack male celebrities, like they sneak into their hotel room.
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Yeah. I mean, like, yeah, they're psychos. Yeah. And so, um, that's what you see, but you also get
00:21:24.100
the other tail end, right? Of girls who did have that one or two relationships that were two, three
00:21:29.380
years long. Right. And I mean, your body counts three at 23 or 24. You do have those type of girls
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for sure. Right. They tend to be more introverted, reserved type of girls. Um, that's kind of like
00:21:43.220
finding a needle in a haystack nowadays, but they're definitely out there, right? You just have to look.
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And when I say you have to look, that's what guys aren't doing. They're not going out there.
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They're not putting themselves out there. What industries would you tell them like
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or places? Would you tell them to look? Yeah, I would. Um, my favorite spot to go to is,
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is usually like coffee shops, right? Coffee shops are huge, especially with the remote work,
00:22:03.800
um, culture going on. A lot of guys work remote, especially if you're doing anything digital.
00:22:08.460
So any remote work, get out of the house, go to the coffee shop. Right. Think about if you have
00:22:14.740
an introverted friend, where do introverts hang out? Right. Cause usually those girls are shy.
00:22:18.500
Yeah. Right. So they won't go up to that celebrity. They won't do it. Even though they
00:22:21.760
might be attracted, they won't do it. Yeah. Right. Cause they're shy. Right. Even if the,
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the hot Chad guy comes and talks to her, she doesn't know how to handle it.
00:22:28.940
I know, but the introverted whores, they do the biggest damage because they don't see it coming.
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Yeah. They don't see it coming, but that's, that's on them. That's on the men. That's for
00:22:36.980
you being naive. I know. I'm like the, the girls that do the most damage are like the introvert.
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Cause the guys do not. Funny you say that the definition of a heartbreak is when a girl behaves
00:22:49.400
in a way that you didn't think she would. Yeah. That's heartbreak. Yeah. Cause you thought she
00:22:54.180
was one person and she was not. And so that matches perfectly, right? That's why they do the
00:22:58.140
most damage. You'd think she's one girl, but she's not. Yeah. Well, okay. How long are they
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going to go between like introverted chicks or, I don't know the girls I meet with really low body
00:23:07.220
count, they recycle X's. That's like their thing. Yeah. They, so it's kind of like, it's kind of
00:23:11.240
like a double wham, right? Would you want to have a, I had one guy say that he likes those girls
00:23:15.960
cause he wants to be recycled. That's so funny. He's like, I'm in for life. He believes in climate
00:23:21.260
change. Yeah. Uh, so that's kind of like the, what you
00:23:28.140
face in the dating scene. Yeah. It's what you face. Um, yeah, it's just, uh, it's just
00:23:33.560
what it is. It is what it is. We're not in Eldon times anymore. No, I was just curious
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cause you said the one girl had like 90. Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah. So like, but how many
00:23:43.420
guys was she banging at the time? Um, I know she had, I mean, she opened her DMs, right?
00:23:49.440
She had, you know, probably what? Like 30,000 followers. One to 10. What was she? Like nine,
00:23:54.380
eight. Oh, she was all done up. Okay. Right. I mean, you take those futures away. It's
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like probably like a seven. Yeah. But, um, guys don't know. Guys can't even tell, but
00:24:02.760
they can't. Yeah. It's even though they say, Oh, I know I can tell, but if you put them in
00:24:07.080
front of, if you put her in front of them, they'll freak out. I'm so tired of men telling
00:24:10.000
me that. I know. They say that all the time. They're like, Oh, that girl's natural. I'm
00:24:13.420
like, yeah. No, she's not. We've ran bootcamps and guys are like, Oh, I don't like that fake
00:24:19.620
stuff. And what I do on purpose is, uh, cause in Vegas you get a lot of those girls. Yeah. And
00:24:25.200
then I introduced them to one of them, to a girl that's all done up. And then I talked
00:24:29.300
to him and I'm like, yeah, cause I know the girl, but pretend you, pretend you like
00:24:32.020
him. Right. Just to see how the reaction is just so they could get a reality check. And
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then I talked to him after I was like, dude, I loved her. I thought you said you didn't
00:24:39.340
like that. So a lot of guys is like, they're okay with it. It's just how they, the girl
00:24:42.580
makes it feel. Right. It's like at the end of the day, it's like they got negative
00:24:45.700
reactions from those girls before. Again, it's a coping mechanism. Yeah. It's the association.
00:24:50.720
Cope harder. Yep. Yep. Yep. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah.