Pearl - June 04, 2026


Orthodox Man Says He Needs To Be Told What To Do By His Wife!


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Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

174.85

Word count

1,263

Sentence count

44

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Misogyny

12

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Toxicity

11

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14

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and discuss a topic that has been on their minds for a while now. Should women be allowed to tell their husbands what to do? And should men submit to their wives?

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00:00:00.000 okay so what do you think about a wife telling her husband what to do if i'm thinking about this
00:00:05.120 from from like if i'm the husband sometimes i'm not the brightest bulb sometimes i need to be
00:00:11.120 told what to do i like to see the best in people you know i mean it's like adam talked things out
00:00:16.720 with eve how'd that go on the internet so i ain't saying nothing that's gonna get me in the in the
00:00:22.020 doghouse in any future relationships so i am but i'm treading carefully here really why not
00:00:29.120 like you wouldn't you wouldn't be if you think if you believe it right you wouldn't be afraid
00:00:34.360 to tell your wife it right it's there's a difference between like believing and not
00:00:38.120 being afraid to say it and like knowing that i should say it tactfully because i don't want
00:00:43.040 any future problems i think men worry too much about how women are going to perceive things 0.78
00:00:49.760 i'm just you know the women will never be happy gonna kill me yeah this is gonna kill me i don't 0.98
00:00:56.940 I don't want to deal with the nagging I've learned to just sometimes just let it be like if I'm right 0.99
00:01:04.720 just let it be I've learned that okay so what do you think about a wife telling her husband what to 0.62
00:01:09.580 do if I'm thinking about this from from like if I'm the husband sometimes I'm not the brightest 0.99
00:01:16.420 bulb sometimes I need to be told what to do a woman when it comes to things of like getting 1.00
00:01:24.860 ready and like remembering stuff yeah i'm kind of forgetful okay uh you're more forgetful than a 0.99
00:01:31.000 woman this is the thing nowadays is this whole gender war stuff you can't put women down as
00:01:38.860 much as people like to nowadays right it's like i disagree i think we put i think we bring we bring
00:01:44.640 women up nowadays it's it's in vogue and it's this weird overreaction to like the feminist types
00:01:51.660 Where now people want to say 1.00
00:01:53.700 Oh women are dumb 1.00
00:01:55.660 Only belong in the kitchen 1.00
00:01:57.440 You think they're smart? 1.00
00:01:59.140 I think women are as smart as a woman can be 1.00
00:02:02.240 I think 1.00
00:02:03.460 Nowadays it's just so
00:02:05.700 But like comparatively
00:02:06.600 Comparatively? 1.00
00:02:08.600 I've seen plenty of smart women 1.00
00:02:10.080 I've seen plenty of dumb men 0.98
00:02:11.460 I don't think it's one of those things where you can really 1.00
00:02:13.600 Judge
00:02:15.280 On a completely
00:02:17.420 Flat basis
00:02:19.580 I mean people aren't animals right
00:02:20.900 You look at one tiger, you can get everything you need to know about every tiger ever in history.
00:02:25.540 Right.
00:02:25.980 You take that with, like, one person, you've got to think about individualism.
00:02:30.980 One person is not going to give you as good of a sample size as, like, one bird or one squirrel. 1.00
00:02:37.960 Okay, so if women are allowed to tell their husbands what to do, wouldn't the... 0.84
00:02:43.000 Again, I didn't say that. 1.00
00:02:44.640 I said, I'm saying that sometimes a guy's got to listen to a lady when it's her expertise.
00:02:50.900 okay okay not not saying that you know men should submit to their wives because that's just okay 0.96
00:02:57.280 the concept in general i'm not saying you're saying that but some people have said yes right
00:03:01.380 so you know wouldn't that mean bosses get more obedience than husbands because women would never
00:03:06.820 tell their boss what to do well that's that's a big problem that's if oh if your wife is giving 1.00
00:03:14.260 more respect to her like boss than she is to you that becomes something you should probably talk
00:03:18.900 with your priest your pastor a marriage counselor maybe because that's that's not good yeah okay
00:03:26.240 one thing is you should never give any
00:03:28.560 any manager any respect that's coming from a manager so never never give us respect we don't
00:03:38.200 deserve it um really no we we sit around all day and we uh we we abuse our power at least that's
00:03:47.620 what i do oh really no i'm kidding i'm kidding i don't i don't get you i don't get the vibe you're
00:03:52.840 a power hungry guy of course not no no but you know it's so being more respectful to your like
00:04:03.140 let's say a woman's being more respectful to her her boss that that is a red flag to me you see that
00:04:10.180 that seems off okay so one of the issues that people tend to have with religion is they feel
00:04:18.520 um there's a line of thought that they feel it's not about that it's it's the respect level there's
00:04:24.340 more respect for what he says people nowadays are putting too much sexual energy into respect 0.57
00:04:30.060 it's got like with the verbiage of cucked it's there's no reason that you cucked emasculated
00:04:36.560 by a priest or a pastor why that's even coming into your thought when you should be thinking
00:04:42.180 of the pastor as a reflection as like speaking for for god and lack of a better word but people
00:04:49.140 are people but people but people are flawed right and so you can't expect him to be flawed but 0.99
00:04:55.360 they're not that flawed you know this comes to the thing of you got to give people are idiots right 0.91
00:05:00.540 but i've interviewed pastors like and priests and authorities and churches that completely go 0.98
00:05:06.460 against the husband what he says so sometimes the husband look again like you said people are
00:05:11.440 flawed sometimes the husband's wrong people need to this is the problem with uh with i'm gonna go
00:05:18.100 a little scientology here with psychiatrists is that they were trying to replace priests and
00:05:22.720 pastors and religious authorities religious authorities are here to help people you know
00:05:28.660 navigate the harder aspects of spiritual life and marriage is part of spiritual life right so
00:05:33.500 So, to defer to a priest is not giving up your place in the marriage, if you're a man.
00:05:42.580 Right, but I've never met two men ever that agree on everything.
00:05:45.680 I've never, it's just never happened.
00:05:47.260 Like you said, people are...
00:05:48.140 You're not going to meet two people who agree on everything.
00:05:50.080 I agree with you.
00:05:51.440 But what I'm saying is, so if the priest and the husband disagrees,
00:05:56.660 and they go to the priest instead of the husband,
00:06:00.340 doesn't he have more authority than the husband?
00:06:04.500 I mean, yeah, because at the end of the day, it's God's authority.
00:06:07.560 It's not the priest's authority that he's wielding.
00:06:09.920 It's God's authority.
00:06:11.000 Right.
00:06:11.840 Right, but people are flawed.
00:06:13.480 I think that's just, it's a general thought.
00:06:15.440 There's plenty of, I mean, I've dealt with flawed priests before.
00:06:19.180 And that's one of those things where you have to use discernment.
00:06:23.780 Discernment, right?
00:06:25.260 But like nine times out of ten, you should listen to the priest.
00:06:29.060 Heck, I'd say almost ten out of ten.
00:06:32.380 Like, not even nine out of ten times.
00:06:35.280 I've only ever dealt one time where a priest has made a big error.
00:06:42.260 What was the error?
00:06:45.260 That's more of a personal thing.
00:06:46.660 I don't want to.
00:06:47.340 That's okay.
00:06:47.740 You don't have to.
00:06:48.480 Because he's a good priest.
00:06:49.820 I'm a good guy.
00:06:51.480 It was just one mistake.
00:06:52.800 He's a flawed person.
00:06:54.260 It's fine.
00:06:54.420 Flawed people.
00:06:55.020 But nine times out of ten, you've got to trust the priest.
00:06:59.940 He knows what he's talking about. 0.99
00:07:00.680 But your final answer, yes or no, should Christian women obey their husbands? 0.98
00:07:04.740 I'm going to be in the doghouse for the rest of my life, but yeah. 1.00
00:07:08.440 Okay, perfect. Thank you.
00:07:09.920 Oh, no.
00:07:10.480 That was great. You were awesome, so thank you.
00:07:12.940 God bless.