Pearl - February 05, 2025


Pearl EXPOSES Why Women HATE Men Who Play Video Games | Pearl Daily


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The problem with dating or marrying a simp is that they have nothing else to do but complain about what the men in their lives are doing. Simps have a tendency to fight for what women want and not in the best interest of men and their own gender and society. They do this because they want attention from women, they want to get laid, or they just want their life to be easier so they simp.

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00:00:00.000 let's talk about video games so since we're talking about simps the other thing that simps
00:00:04.640 have a tendency to do is they have a tendency to fight for what women want and not in the best 0.99
00:00:10.800 interest of men and their own gender and really even society they do this because they want
00:00:16.220 attention from women they want to get laid or they just want their life to be easier so they 0.93
00:00:21.600 simp you know they don't want to get fired they're like fine don't care simp whatever i'll say what
00:00:26.980 i have to now the other day i did a show about how women don't have hobbies and we looked at a lot
00:00:31.720 of videos of modern women admitting that they're just boring the problem with dating or marrying one 0.71
00:00:37.500 of these women is that for a man they have nothing else to do but complain about what the man is doing 1.00
00:00:44.000 i mean guys how many times have you been in a relationship with a woman and she's constantly 1.00
00:00:49.100 nagging you to get off of your game council stop going to the gym and just to spend more time with
00:00:54.740 her and you ask yourself what is she doing all day why can't she find something to do to just 1.00
00:00:59.960 leave me alone for a couple of hours i was looking back at this show and i was thinking about how the
00:01:05.780 number one hobby that women don't like when it comes to their men would be video games no other 1.00
00:01:11.240 male hobby is demonized as much as video games you see entire podcasts of women complaining that
00:01:17.020 their boyfriend's husband or partner spends too much time playing video games and it's crazy
00:01:22.040 these women should be glad that their boyfriend is at home playing video games instead of out 1.00
00:01:27.540 sleeping with other women last year liz wheeler a popular conservative commentator put out a chart
00:01:33.280 that showed the least attractive hobbies that a man can have to women and video games were at the top 1.00
00:01:39.020 this started a firestorm online people argued back and forth in the comment section about whether
00:01:44.580 video games were a good thing or a bad thing she says this is a hundred percent true video games is
00:01:49.820 peak unattractive red flag deal blade deal breaker zone doesn't elon musk play video games
00:01:55.520 oh it's not a real chart no well
00:02:00.860 oh let's see the bottom it says there's no source for the reported finding and the percentages
00:02:07.000 are rounded even to the nearest multiple of five which is impossible okay well the point isn't really
00:02:12.960 about the chart the point is the woman nagging right and so she's saying it's a deal breaker so 1.00
00:02:19.420 what i'm hearing from liz wheeler is elon musk is now a deal breaker because he plays video games
00:02:26.240 okay it's weird that so many dudes don't get this imagine i want to see liz wheeler telling elon musk on
00:02:35.520 a podcast that he can't play video games and he's not doing enough imagine okay girl gamer tells women 0.99
00:02:42.540 why their men play video games all day so we got why your man is always playing his damn video games 0.99
00:02:49.300 dear upset significant other i am here to tell you why your man seems like all he does is play his damn 0.99
00:02:56.900 online video games from girl to girl let me tell you it's not you i have been online gaming for many 0.97
00:03:02.960 years although my fiance is not much of a gamer and he had a hard time understanding why i could sit
00:03:08.240 and play a single game for hours on end he would wonder if i even cared about him when there was
00:03:13.560 many times in our relationship i would rather play my game than watch a movie and cuddle i can relate
00:03:18.400 to both sides of the story i feel like men are not good at explaining why they enjoy gaming and women
00:03:24.360 aren't good at understanding because they never got an explanation when asked as a girl and a gamer i'm
00:03:29.840 here to let you know what's inside their brain first off because they game does not mean they
00:03:35.520 don't love you i am going to go into what i love about gaming and hopefully you can understand why
00:03:40.880 your man is so into it too being yourself when i first started gaming i found it as a place i could
00:03:46.240 be myself and i didn't have to be serious and mature all the time i enjoy talking to and playing with others
00:03:51.680 who are just like me sometimes you need that place where you can go to have fun and it's a good time
00:03:58.720 every time some people like me cannot stand to having to act like an adult 24 7. the competitiveness
00:04:06.320 if you are with someone who loves to compete well there you go nothing is better than chilling out and
00:04:11.200 showing some people who is boss online gaming are so competitive that there's a rush that comes when
00:04:18.320 you're trying to prove what prove you've got what it takes problem solving now i know what you're
00:04:24.320 thinking wtf but seriously most of the multi-players i know are in i play are involved in lots of
00:04:32.320 strategy i'm always thinking of ways i could have done something better in a match or coming up for a
00:04:37.440 new idea for next time i thought about all these things out at work the hair salon and getting my nails
00:04:43.040 done strategy and problem solving can be so driving it keeps you going back for more gaming friends
00:04:48.960 nothing is better than some gaming friends i have always looked at my gaining friend gaming friends
00:04:53.040 as some of the best friends i've ever had i trust these people with my life well my virtual life that
00:04:58.160 is but still i have met some amazing people and have gamed with the same people for 10 plus years
00:05:03.200 with that being said it's hard to retire the controller so when you have one of your best friends
00:05:07.680 calling you to ask you to f some up with them it's just almost like turning down you turning down a
00:05:13.920 lunch or a coffee date with your bestie just saying relaxation after a long and stressful day there's
00:05:20.320 nothing better than hopping your hopping on your favorite game and focusing on it it's a way of self
00:05:26.640 meditation at least it is to me i could have the worst days and 99 of the time would feel better after
00:05:32.560 i played my video game for an hour it's definitely a diversion from the negative things you do in your
00:05:37.680 everyday life now don't get me wrong i understand if you have a couch potato no job having gamer boy but 0.98
00:05:43.920 my advice is to then drop his deadbeat ass but if you have a hard-working man who pays his bills 0.98
00:05:50.320 and enjoys his games let it go it's his hobby his gaming has nothing to do with not loving you i promise 1.00
00:05:56.000 a girl gamer now there women hate video games so much that there are stories of women 1.00
00:06:02.560 that had to break up with men that played video games he could clock a hundred hours in a week
00:06:10.080 people are sharing heartbreaking stories about how video games became the breaking point in their
00:06:15.200 relationship immersing yourself in a video game is like no other feeling it's exciting to step into
00:06:22.560 someone's shoes and live a life full of drama thrills and suspense however the fun hobby can turn into an
00:06:29.280 addiction when somebody begins to control lose control over the amount of time that they spend
00:06:34.960 gaming it negatively impacts their self-care schooling and relationships reddit user the god the goddess
00:06:42.880 pluto i'm sure she is stable a woman who broke up with your with someone due to video games what was your
00:06:49.920 breaking point it was definitely interesting to see the range of stories from people prioritizing gaming over
00:06:55.760 their partner two cases of addiction that were sad for everyone involved one i dated a man who never
00:07:03.600 seemed to have a problem with video games until well into the relationship every day he started choosing
00:07:09.280 games over being intimate or sleeping next to me i left shortly after that i don't want to okay so if
00:07:15.120 your guy let me get this straight if your guy wanted to play video games over having sex with you that might 1.00
00:07:21.200 be a you problem let me continue none of the not the sole reason but definitely started the end of
00:07:28.000 our relationship we were living with his parents while we waited for an apartment i would get up
00:07:32.000 drive an hour to work just to make no money as a server come back exhausted and he would be gaming
00:07:37.200 unemployed obviously he had stopped but he had stocks what if he was like rich and she didn't know it
00:07:42.640 were the stocks okay i literally begged him just to make the bed for a week straight he would continue to
00:07:48.480 play the game after i was home see this is the thing guys that don't understand women what they'll
00:07:53.120 do is they'll think if they do these things that she'll be happy the guys that have dated a lot they
00:07:57.520 know it doesn't matter he could have made the bed every day it wasn't the bed it was she didn't like
00:08:02.400 something about him or whatever i came home and i tried to show him the energy that i didn't have he
00:08:06.880 could clock 100 hours a week without thinking anything was wrong with it very happy with my current
00:08:11.680 partner doug in the chat guys if you want your chat read go dub to the www.theaudacitynetwork.com
00:08:18.640 the link is in the first link in the chat and we have it on both app stores what doug says well into
00:08:25.600 the relationship means she got that and started nagging him ron dolfo says doug you're savage he is
00:08:34.560 all right we hadn't gone on a date in weeks we finally had a weekend free where we were both going to be
00:08:39.600 free he said to leave my day open because we were going on a date and he was planning it on the day
00:08:44.480 off i woke up and he said he wanted to sleep in i said fine and five minutes later he said that his
00:08:48.800 friends called him to play a game in three minutes he was ready and heading out of the house he said it
00:08:54.000 would just be a few hours and he left he didn't come back until that night but i was busy he left and i
00:09:00.400 took myself out to breakfast and decided to be done by the time he got home none of his things were in
00:09:05.040 our bedroom he tried to tell me i was exaggerating and blowing things out of proportion i told him
00:09:09.360 fine he should go play friends the games at his friend's house again our lease was ending in the
00:09:14.400 next few weeks so i took the following weekend to find a new place and he was in shock why would you
00:09:19.840 go see a place and sign a lease without me why are you asking that question it's over like i'm just
00:09:27.040 when i'm confused is why why are you okay i made more money than him so i paid for everything
00:09:33.680 see i don't think it's the video games i think it's the mud like that's they're they don't say 0.66
00:09:39.440 why they're really breaking up with the guy because if a woman likes a man she likes his nerdy hobbies you 1.00
00:09:45.440 know like anyways i am going to change i promise you want me to get rid of my gaming system what a
00:09:53.280 sam oh my gosh this is an epidemic i haven't done anything wrong and i told him we were done we
00:10:00.240 hadn't we hadn't had sex in over a year oh my god so they didn't have sex in over a year and he was
00:10:06.640 begging for her back why look at the hierarchy i want you guys to be honest it happens it happens to
00:10:14.000 the best of us where when was the last time where were you at in this hierarchy i mean this wasn't a
00:10:19.760 wife but if they're living together and not sleeping with him i mean it might as well be a 0.69
00:10:23.680 wife we hadn't had sex in a year i was tired of feeling single so i wasn't making it official and
00:10:28.400 it wasn't my concern anymore where he lived he tried to make me feel crazy and that he was the victim so i
00:10:33.920 moved out early and blocked him on everything best decision ever doug is going to say i can guarantee
00:10:39.920 pearl's never going to say renaud doleful's right just accept it it's not no it's not that's fair doug
00:10:46.800 my girl was getting a little blessed and she started working out because i lost weight oh wait
00:10:52.240 where did i think i missed something okay ike said she broke up with him because she found somebody else 0.97
00:10:58.080 at work that would make more sense that really would pearl she wanted to nag at him over breakfast and
00:11:03.760 dinner for no reason she broke up with him but she found somebody else at work she eventually learned
00:11:10.160 fritto pie and so i couldn't lose hope well i bought a year from youtube ads so
00:11:16.320 youtube paid you lol thank you t-carb pearl she wanted to rip his soul out and women who do this 1.00
00:11:24.480 get kicked out for life damian says being an emotional bonds is extremely painful for men who
00:11:30.080 are continually who are continually busy with the real cares of life women want total focus to validate 0.97
00:11:37.360 their emotional needs men want to i think he's typing the next part how many of you would beg for a
00:11:43.440 woman to stay that wasn't sleeping with you please put a one i want i want a one in the chat if you've 1.00
00:11:49.120 done it be honest be honest please i don't want i am you guys cap sometimes and i don't need that
00:11:58.320 i don't you can put a two if you haven't and i'll allow a three if you've done it before but you've
00:12:03.440 you're reformed you're a reformed simp one said he's done it if she's paying for the bills that's a 0.98
00:12:08.640 little i actually think the ultimate alpha is a guy that gets women to have sex with them and pay 0.99
00:12:15.040 their bills because who else is getting more out of a woman who has more gain there's too many twos in 1.00
00:12:23.120 the chat stop it i i need i need more ones i don't believe you i've seen too much i really have men want
00:12:31.760 to fulfill this need but are limited by the concerns of life rich says i never had that problem
00:12:37.600 never brian on the website says two he's never done it come on none of you were in high school high
00:12:43.600 school girlfriend okay anyways i've had two exes that i felt prioritized video games and twitch
00:12:50.960 streaming over the relationship i love video games too but it has not gotten to the point gotten in the
00:12:56.560 way of spending in real time with people or obligations my first boyfriend won't talk to me
00:13:01.840 when i had put my sick dog down because he was too busy playing video games with his friends now
00:13:07.680 number one i would argue that social media is more detrimental to women than video games are to men
00:13:14.400 and more women go out of real life interactions to go on social media than the other way around in a 1.00
00:13:20.960 two-year relationship i lost count of how many jobs he lost because he kept showing up late from
00:13:26.800 playing video games all night who are you guys dating like okay my next boyfriend would often
00:13:31.920 lie about going to bed so he could game with his lady friends well into the night and he would blow
00:13:36.800 off social occasions with me or my family so he could stick to his stream schedule well okay you guys
00:13:43.840 realize that men don't really want to hang out with our families they're not really dying to go to all
00:13:49.120 these events on the weekends i think that women like this is a working theory i have so you guys
00:13:54.960 you guys we can bounce together i think that women want a backup plan so what they do is they never 1.00
00:14:01.840 like we need more power in case the relationship goes south i mean that's kind of what feminism is 1.00
00:14:08.560 it's like if you're doing behavior i don't like i want to be able to leave and go sleep with the guys i
00:14:12.880 do like and the thing is they have to keep close family ties and also women have power in groups 1.00
00:14:19.680 because women's power tends to be manipulation we can manipulate way better than men and that's like 1.00
00:14:25.840 why we like the cities why men like the country because they see the problems that come with groups 0.91
00:14:31.760 usually problems it's it's groups that women are in like you know when it's an all-male group there are 0.97
00:14:37.440 problems but men kind of sort themselves out a little better i mean they'll beat up a guy if
00:14:42.240 he's acting up enough you can't do that with women unfortunately you can't just clock somebody 1.00
00:14:47.920 not that i know it's not legal to do it to a guy either but i mean they're less likely to press
00:14:52.880 charges a woman she's vindictive i mean you you just poker she's going to the police 1.00
00:14:58.480 now anyways i i have a working theory that women need their families involved in their marriage and 1.00
00:15:05.360 relationships and they do that to have a backup plan and a way of enforcement to the man because
00:15:12.800 they don't want to listen to the guys so they have to have the dad get involved or the friends get
00:15:16.720 involved or whoever get involved to get what they want because women are too lazy to learn communication 1.00
00:15:22.880 and we want other people to enforce things working theory i'm going to do a show on this when i flushed
00:15:28.960 it out more but if you guys have thoughts on that topic put them in the comments please
00:15:33.520 my boyfriend would go to work late in the morning or early afternoon do his job while the boss was
00:15:39.360 there and then as soon as the boss left he started playing video games and wouldn't stop many times
00:15:43.680 i'd call him and tell him i was going to go ahead and eat dinner then call him and say i was going to
00:15:48.160 bed then around midnight i'd call and say please don't miss the last bus he'd wake up in the morning
00:15:52.720 under his desk and look presentable when his boss walked in i finally got fed up and left him rich on
00:15:58.160 the website says one holiday dinner i ate dinner with 40 of her family members of friends in the
00:16:04.080 basement once okay doug says too many men think you think our alphas are alphas everywhere except in 0.93
00:16:12.240 their house so true they're afraid of their wives it's pathetic oh my god it's like make it end 0.95
00:16:19.200 t carp says i've talked to my friends about this if their wife isn't sleeping with them they have to 1.00
00:16:24.800 argue that they can't make life comfortable and let it be known and we are talking about alpha men
00:16:30.880 that group where they're in the military they would just i think they would just bow down and never
00:16:36.160 argue with women you have to be able to hold your own in an argument yeah you know it's so crazy it'll 1.00
00:16:41.760 be like military men it'll be like men that are you know there'll be like kickboxers or like men you
00:16:49.920 never would think would allow somebody like they would never accept that from a man like 0.99
00:16:56.000 i've seen men simp that literally beat people up for a living like that is their job and they would 0.70
00:17:03.760 never like if a guy said the wrong thing to them they would beat the out of him but
00:17:08.480 they're afraid of a woman i'm like why pretty scary you know at least women are vindictive i think 1.00
00:17:15.200 most men would take a punch in the face over a woman trying to destroy their reputation for years
00:17:20.480 right i mean put a what let me know what you guys would prefer i'm not saying you have to pick but
00:17:24.960 if you had to pick getting knocked out like a stone cold knockout but you don't die and you have a no no 0.95
00:17:31.120 brain injuries but it hurts like a bitch or two a woman that you went you dated and it went bad and 0.99
00:17:40.160 she went into all of your social circles and tried to ruin your life put one if you take the knockout 1.00
00:17:46.960 too doug says the former ufc fighter john fitch talked about his ex-wife it was nuts she was a 0.97
00:17:53.520 psychopath yeah see all the guys are picking one yeah okay all right he would play for hours and hours
00:17:59.840 we're talking eight to 12 hours a day what's your screen time what is your screen time i used to be a
00:18:05.840 gamer and even worked at gamestop when i was in my early 20s he made me hate video games i tried to
00:18:11.280 play with him but he's such a sore loser he would throw tantrums and constantly complain
00:18:15.680 calling the game a cheater saying it was glitched he would get upset if my character did better
00:18:19.840 or had a superior class set up skills artifacts compared to his own when i started having dreams
00:18:25.360 about destroying his gaming council with an axe i realized that my current scenario was unhealthy for
00:18:30.720 both of us i realized that my my current boyfriend plays games and is judicial about the time he spends
00:18:37.760 on it and it would and will absolutely turn it off if i express a desire to do wait hold on let me read
00:18:45.040 that again when i started having dreams about destroying his game council with an axe i realized
00:18:50.320 my current scenario was unhealthy for both of us my current boyfriend plays games but is judicial about
00:18:56.240 the time he spends on it and will absolutely turn it off if i express a desire to do something together
00:19:02.800 he wouldn't answer his phone for hours at a time like three to five hours because he was on the game
00:19:07.520 even in the midst of something important happening it all came to a head when i was supposed to meet
00:19:12.720 him somewhere he knew i was on the way driving from an hour away i didn't have the address when i was
00:19:18.880 meeting him and he wasn't responding to any calls or texts because he was on the game i ended up breaking up
00:19:23.600 with him because i couldn't be in a relationship with someone i saw as a child if your main priority
00:19:28.160 seems to be video games and not the adult human woman in your life you're a child to me okay these
00:19:33.440 women sound nuts let me see what else people are saying one everyone's saying one in the chat on the 1.00
00:19:38.720 website you guys are missing out the chat on the website's way cooler no offense guys but if you're on 0.68
00:19:45.600 the make sure you hit the like button there's 600 of you in here let's make sure there's over 600 likes
00:19:52.160 the like is free i have a friend that hates trump and he was in the marines for 30 years i couldn't
00:19:57.680 figure it out plus he lives in ohio which is a republican state richard i've been stone called
00:20:04.080 knocked out and i've been attacked by a scorn woman and both damaged me doug says the things that
00:20:10.800 i disagree with on trump about i think he's going to do a good job kamala would have been a disaster t-carp
00:20:17.280 i think most of our dads mine included were that 90s christian dad taught to be a servant leader
00:20:22.880 we are doing what we were taught and waking up after we see 30 to 40 years of that in our culture
00:20:30.240 i know all right next we're going to talk about women what to do if he's heavily into video games 0.81
00:20:38.000 how many people i wonder do you guys think this woman's going to advise to just let him play
00:20:42.800 and not try to control what he does hey renee i hope you're doing well i'm an avid fan and you
00:20:48.880 and david become a cuter couple with every video oh that's a red flag i mean she runs it usually if 0.94
00:20:54.320 they're public facing and they do couples content usually the woman runs it you can tell if you watch
00:21:01.200 close enough but that's usually how it goes my struggle is this recently i've been a bit estranged
00:21:06.880 from my man because he feels i don't understand his love of video games and wishes i did i do my
00:21:12.480 best to not make him feel controlled letting him play when he wants to what do you mean letting him
00:21:17.520 he's an adult i mean you know it goes both ways the men think they somehow have control like
00:21:22.800 they're like oh i'd never let my woman do that you can't nobody can they're adults they can do what they
00:21:28.880 want it's just they're single now like that's it okay and with his friends but having him need to
00:21:36.240 see me and appreciate the depth inspiration and heart he feels some games have given or have is
00:21:43.520 going too far for me he even wishes i would play a bit so that i would stop assuming he's doing
00:21:47.840 something shallow and meaningless is it not enough that i can leave him alone when he's playing and not
00:21:53.600 complain after i'm silent i'm not silently seething either i've come to accept his need to play
00:21:58.880 but now i feel controlled and unappreciated simply for not seeing gaming the way he and his buddies do
00:22:05.040 i am not his buddy i'm a woman and his lover i have no interest in his games is that an adequate
00:22:10.560 way of thinking and i want to flip it for a second do you think she forces him to be a part of her
00:22:16.080 hobbies like telling him about celebrity gossip or whatever bs you know we follow every day should
00:22:23.600 i try harder to understand his hobbies or am i wise and staying out of his interests i feel many women
00:22:29.520 struggle with men who love video games a lot i don't know if dad david loves gaming but most women
00:22:35.200 i know whose men love it love it it is frequently a struggle for her in some way would you like me to
00:22:40.960 answer directly or answer it in a post up to you but i would love to share your insights on how women 0.97
00:22:47.520 should handle men and their love sometimes obsession with gaming it can be an extremely delicate subject
00:22:54.480 for men making them put up their defenses easily so it's not easy to deal with the issue thank you
00:22:59.520 for your time renee i appreciate all you do you contributed to helping mike and i stay as strong
00:23:05.840 as we do don't worry we're still madly in love thanks for your email okay all right thanks for
00:23:12.560 your email and yes i can relate to this i laughed when you said he wants you to appreciate the depth and
00:23:17.200 heart that some video games have years ago david used to play video games a lot sometimes until late and
00:23:23.600 he had to wake up at 6 a.m the next day for work i feel it was his way of escaping from his job when
00:23:29.360 he felt trapped in and hated you've obviously struggled with this in the past way before you
00:23:34.000 emailed me what i'm saying is you've struggled to understand why on earth he has to be so involved
00:23:38.640 and distracted by video games and can't give you the deep love you want to you as a woman most video 1.00
00:23:44.160 games are not full of depth or heart i understand you see depth in terms of human interactions and
00:23:49.920 relationships so you'd rather he come over to you and give you his presence and love you deeply
00:23:54.880 you don't know which way is up or down when i first wrote this article 10 years ago i was in
00:24:01.520 of belief that the masculine soul video games are a superficial way to meet your needs i think
00:24:07.520 intuitively us women assume that video games are a shallow way of expressing their masculinity and 1.00
00:24:12.400 feeling successful after all you have to turn the game off and get back to real life somehow
00:24:17.760 yet after being married to my game loving husband and having three sons with him i've come to
00:24:21.680 appreciate certain things about video games i will discuss these things very soon but i wanted to first
00:24:26.800 quickly address your need to not be around him when he plays them for a lot of women we'd rather not be 0.98
00:24:31.760 around our men when he plays video games because we'd rather see him doing something more constructive
00:24:36.880 even if our man is already successful and constructive out in the real world it still hurts to be around
00:24:43.120 him when he is actively playing video games instead of giving you attention not to mention being asked
00:24:48.560 to play with him it's a bit like who said you can downgrade me to watching you play video games and
00:24:54.160 playing video games with you david used to ask me to play video games as well and since i wanted intimacy
00:24:59.760 with him instead it felt like my needs were being dishonored so i can relate however i can look back over
00:25:05.360 the last 16 years of being with him some of the better times i had with him were when we played video games
00:25:10.960 together only it's just the bond that was nice because i was horrible at them getting good at
00:25:16.480 the game took so much energy out of me i realized that i just didn't come naturally to me as it did
00:25:21.200 to him he loves playing video games with my sons as well and though they don't really spend much time
00:25:26.480 playing games at all whenever they do play games i'm often ushering them off to read a book or go to
00:25:32.320 the playground as soon as i can but it was when he finally said to me that i understood i like my boys
00:25:38.480 playing games because it's good practice for them to learn to solve problems he also mentioned that
00:25:44.480 it helps them read even more outside of their reading they already do because having to read
00:25:49.600 the story in a game or read the instructions in the game gives them an internal motivator to want to
00:25:54.480 read more so even though i really understood whenever a woman says to me my boyfriend plays video
00:26:00.000 games more than he talks to me i can't stand it i am now unable to help her understand that there's
00:26:05.520 something there's a special something about video games that is super important to the men who love
00:26:10.480 them and it's this to men video games do have depth because it's an avenue through which they
00:26:16.080 get to feel express and access their own masculine identity in other words they were able to kill to
00:26:23.200 solve problems that overcome challenges inside of the video game in a way that life may not always
00:26:28.960 really readily provide to them and this way it's not different to us women buying dozens of shoes
00:26:36.160 or dresses when we hardly wear any of them we appear to be wasting our money on pointless but though it
00:26:43.760 seems pointless to men it isn't to us because we get to have the option of wearing shoes that best express
00:26:50.160 our mood and the feminine any energy flavor we are feeling on that day so that to us is the type of
00:26:57.120 abundance it may be excessive in the eyes of our boyfriend or husband and he may not appreciate it
00:27:02.000 but and it may become a bit of an addiction to us but i don't believe we should condemn it because in
00:27:08.000 moderation and it may actually allow us to express our feminine energy so now i'm going to help you
00:27:14.480 understand his need for games and i'll give my thoughts on what steps to take video games are an easy
00:27:19.920 way for men to feel successful it's kind of like women emptying their bank accounts and buy all the clothes 1.00
00:27:25.280 and shoes and accessories and makeup they could hardly ever wear in order to feel beautiful and
00:27:30.480 magnify their radiance obviously the best way for women to magnify her radiance would be to become a 1.00
00:27:36.080 woman who radiates love from within no amount of clothing is ever a replacement for that all the while 1.00
00:27:42.080 her man is getting stressed out and feeling disrespected because she's spending out all the money
00:27:46.400 rather than giving him the love and appreciation he wants which one which would be be one of the secrets to
00:27:53.680 actually making her more beautiful to him in his mind anyway are you wondering why my boyfriend wants
00:27:58.720 me to play video games with him it's because that helps him bond to you as men as men bond with each
00:28:05.520 other by overcoming challenges and engaging in a purpose or mission together that's a masculine way
00:28:10.080 of bonding as for why he wants you to play with them it's a classic case of men wanting to think men
00:28:16.640 wanting their women to think more like them so that they can connect and relate more with you
00:28:21.360 it's no different to women trying to drag their men along shopping with them do you see where i'm
00:28:25.680 going with this on one hand he wants to feel more connected to you because he feels like you don't
00:28:29.840 understand him on his level so he's trying to make you more like him he feels this will make
00:28:34.000 you understand him make you understand him develop a connection and a sense of commodity
00:28:45.040 you