Pearl - February 05, 2025


Pearl EXPOSES Why Women HATE Men Who Play Video Games | Pearl Daily


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28 minutes

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Word Count

5,760

Sentence Count

5

Misogynist Sentences

40

Hate Speech Sentences

22


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00:00:00.000 let's talk about video games so since we're talking about simps the other thing that simps
00:00:04.640 have a tendency to do is they have a tendency to fight for what women want and not in the best
00:00:10.800 interest of men and their own gender and really even society they do this because they want
00:00:16.220 attention from women they want to get laid or they just want their life to be easier so they
00:00:21.600 simp you know they don't want to get fired they're like fine don't care simp whatever i'll say what
00:00:26.980 i have to now the other day i did a show about how women don't have hobbies and we looked at a lot
00:00:31.720 of videos of modern women admitting that they're just boring the problem with dating or marrying one
00:00:37.500 of these women is that for a man they have nothing else to do but complain about what the man is doing
00:00:44.000 i mean guys how many times have you been in a relationship with a woman and she's constantly
00:00:49.100 nagging you to get off of your game council stop going to the gym and just to spend more time with
00:00:54.740 her and you ask yourself what is she doing all day why can't she find something to do to just
00:00:59.960 leave me alone for a couple of hours i was looking back at this show and i was thinking about how the
00:01:05.780 number one hobby that women don't like when it comes to their men would be video games no other
00:01:11.240 male hobby is demonized as much as video games you see entire podcasts of women complaining that
00:01:17.020 their boyfriend's husband or partner spends too much time playing video games and it's crazy
00:01:22.040 these women should be glad that their boyfriend is at home playing video games instead of out
00:01:27.540 sleeping with other women last year liz wheeler a popular conservative commentator put out a chart
00:01:33.280 that showed the least attractive hobbies that a man can have to women and video games were at the top
00:01:39.020 this started a firestorm online people argued back and forth in the comment section about whether
00:01:44.580 video games were a good thing or a bad thing she says this is a hundred percent true video games is
00:01:49.820 peak unattractive red flag deal blade deal breaker zone doesn't elon musk play video games
00:01:55.520 oh it's not a real chart no well
00:02:00.860 oh let's see the bottom it says there's no source for the reported finding and the percentages
00:02:07.000 are rounded even to the nearest multiple of five which is impossible okay well the point isn't really
00:02:12.960 about the chart the point is the woman nagging right and so she's saying it's a deal breaker so
00:02:19.420 what i'm hearing from liz wheeler is elon musk is now a deal breaker because he plays video games
00:02:26.240 okay it's weird that so many dudes don't get this imagine i want to see liz wheeler telling elon musk on
00:02:35.520 a podcast that he can't play video games and he's not doing enough imagine okay girl gamer tells women
00:02:42.540 why their men play video games all day so we got why your man is always playing his damn video games
00:02:49.300 dear upset significant other i am here to tell you why your man seems like all he does is play his damn
00:02:56.900 online video games from girl to girl let me tell you it's not you i have been online gaming for many
00:03:02.960 years although my fiance is not much of a gamer and he had a hard time understanding why i could sit
00:03:08.240 and play a single game for hours on end he would wonder if i even cared about him when there was
00:03:13.560 many times in our relationship i would rather play my game than watch a movie and cuddle i can relate
00:03:18.400 to both sides of the story i feel like men are not good at explaining why they enjoy gaming and women
00:03:24.360 aren't good at understanding because they never got an explanation when asked as a girl and a gamer i'm
00:03:29.840 here to let you know what's inside their brain first off because they game does not mean they
00:03:35.520 don't love you i am going to go into what i love about gaming and hopefully you can understand why
00:03:40.880 your man is so into it too being yourself when i first started gaming i found it as a place i could
00:03:46.240 be myself and i didn't have to be serious and mature all the time i enjoy talking to and playing with others
00:03:51.680 who are just like me sometimes you need that place where you can go to have fun and it's a good time
00:03:58.720 every time some people like me cannot stand to having to act like an adult 24 7. the competitiveness
00:04:06.320 if you are with someone who loves to compete well there you go nothing is better than chilling out and
00:04:11.200 showing some people who is boss online gaming are so competitive that there's a rush that comes when
00:04:18.320 you're trying to prove what prove you've got what it takes problem solving now i know what you're
00:04:24.320 thinking wtf but seriously most of the multi-players i know are in i play are involved in lots of
00:04:32.320 strategy i'm always thinking of ways i could have done something better in a match or coming up for a
00:04:37.440 new idea for next time i thought about all these things out at work the hair salon and getting my nails
00:04:43.040 done strategy and problem solving can be so driving it keeps you going back for more gaming friends
00:04:48.960 nothing is better than some gaming friends i have always looked at my gaining friend gaming friends
00:04:53.040 as some of the best friends i've ever had i trust these people with my life well my virtual life that
00:04:58.160 is but still i have met some amazing people and have gamed with the same people for 10 plus years
00:05:03.200 with that being said it's hard to retire the controller so when you have one of your best friends
00:05:07.680 calling you to ask you to f some up with them it's just almost like turning down you turning down a
00:05:13.920 lunch or a coffee date with your bestie just saying relaxation after a long and stressful day there's
00:05:20.320 nothing better than hopping your hopping on your favorite game and focusing on it it's a way of self
00:05:26.640 meditation at least it is to me i could have the worst days and 99 of the time would feel better after
00:05:32.560 i played my video game for an hour it's definitely a diversion from the negative things you do in your
00:05:37.680 everyday life now don't get me wrong i understand if you have a couch potato no job having gamer boy but
00:05:43.920 my advice is to then drop his deadbeat ass but if you have a hard-working man who pays his bills
00:05:50.320 and enjoys his games let it go it's his hobby his gaming has nothing to do with not loving you i promise
00:05:56.000 a girl gamer now there women hate video games so much that there are stories of women
00:06:02.560 that had to break up with men that played video games he could clock a hundred hours in a week
00:06:10.080 people are sharing heartbreaking stories about how video games became the breaking point in their
00:06:15.200 relationship immersing yourself in a video game is like no other feeling it's exciting to step into
00:06:22.560 someone's shoes and live a life full of drama thrills and suspense however the fun hobby can turn into an
00:06:29.280 addiction when somebody begins to control lose control over the amount of time that they spend
00:06:34.960 gaming it negatively impacts their self-care schooling and relationships reddit user the god the goddess
00:06:42.880 pluto i'm sure she is stable a woman who broke up with your with someone due to video games what was your
00:06:49.920 breaking point it was definitely interesting to see the range of stories from people prioritizing gaming over
00:06:55.760 their partner two cases of addiction that were sad for everyone involved one i dated a man who never
00:07:03.600 seemed to have a problem with video games until well into the relationship every day he started choosing
00:07:09.280 games over being intimate or sleeping next to me i left shortly after that i don't want to okay so if
00:07:15.120 your guy let me get this straight if your guy wanted to play video games over having sex with you that might
00:07:21.200 be a you problem let me continue none of the not the sole reason but definitely started the end of
00:07:28.000 our relationship we were living with his parents while we waited for an apartment i would get up
00:07:32.000 drive an hour to work just to make no money as a server come back exhausted and he would be gaming
00:07:37.200 unemployed obviously he had stopped but he had stocks what if he was like rich and she didn't know it
00:07:42.640 were the stocks okay i literally begged him just to make the bed for a week straight he would continue to
00:07:48.480 play the game after i was home see this is the thing guys that don't understand women what they'll
00:07:53.120 do is they'll think if they do these things that she'll be happy the guys that have dated a lot they
00:07:57.520 know it doesn't matter he could have made the bed every day it wasn't the bed it was she didn't like
00:08:02.400 something about him or whatever i came home and i tried to show him the energy that i didn't have he
00:08:06.880 could clock 100 hours a week without thinking anything was wrong with it very happy with my current
00:08:11.680 partner doug in the chat guys if you want your chat read go dub to the www.theaudacitynetwork.com
00:08:18.640 the link is in the first link in the chat and we have it on both app stores what doug says well into
00:08:25.600 the relationship means she got that and started nagging him ron dolfo says doug you're savage he is
00:08:34.560 all right we hadn't gone on a date in weeks we finally had a weekend free where we were both going to be
00:08:39.600 free he said to leave my day open because we were going on a date and he was planning it on the day
00:08:44.480 off i woke up and he said he wanted to sleep in i said fine and five minutes later he said that his
00:08:48.800 friends called him to play a game in three minutes he was ready and heading out of the house he said it
00:08:54.000 would just be a few hours and he left he didn't come back until that night but i was busy he left and i
00:09:00.400 took myself out to breakfast and decided to be done by the time he got home none of his things were in
00:09:05.040 our bedroom he tried to tell me i was exaggerating and blowing things out of proportion i told him
00:09:09.360 fine he should go play friends the games at his friend's house again our lease was ending in the
00:09:14.400 next few weeks so i took the following weekend to find a new place and he was in shock why would you
00:09:19.840 go see a place and sign a lease without me why are you asking that question it's over like i'm just
00:09:27.040 when i'm confused is why why are you okay i made more money than him so i paid for everything
00:09:33.680 see i don't think it's the video games i think it's the mud like that's they're they don't say
00:09:39.440 why they're really breaking up with the guy because if a woman likes a man she likes his nerdy hobbies you
00:09:45.440 know like anyways i am going to change i promise you want me to get rid of my gaming system what a
00:09:53.280 sam oh my gosh this is an epidemic i haven't done anything wrong and i told him we were done we
00:10:00.240 hadn't we hadn't had sex in over a year oh my god so they didn't have sex in over a year and he was
00:10:06.640 begging for her back why look at the hierarchy i want you guys to be honest it happens it happens to
00:10:14.000 the best of us where when was the last time where were you at in this hierarchy i mean this wasn't a
00:10:19.760 wife but if they're living together and not sleeping with him i mean it might as well be a
00:10:23.680 wife we hadn't had sex in a year i was tired of feeling single so i wasn't making it official and
00:10:28.400 it wasn't my concern anymore where he lived he tried to make me feel crazy and that he was the victim so i
00:10:33.920 moved out early and blocked him on everything best decision ever doug is going to say i can guarantee
00:10:39.920 pearl's never going to say renaud doleful's right just accept it it's not no it's not that's fair doug
00:10:46.800 my girl was getting a little blessed and she started working out because i lost weight oh wait
00:10:52.240 where did i think i missed something okay ike said she broke up with him because she found somebody else
00:10:58.080 at work that would make more sense that really would pearl she wanted to nag at him over breakfast and
00:11:03.760 dinner for no reason she broke up with him but she found somebody else at work she eventually learned
00:11:10.160 fritto pie and so i couldn't lose hope well i bought a year from youtube ads so
00:11:16.320 youtube paid you lol thank you t-carb pearl she wanted to rip his soul out and women who do this
00:11:24.480 get kicked out for life damian says being an emotional bonds is extremely painful for men who
00:11:30.080 are continually who are continually busy with the real cares of life women want total focus to validate
00:11:37.360 their emotional needs men want to i think he's typing the next part how many of you would beg for a
00:11:43.440 woman to stay that wasn't sleeping with you please put a one i want i want a one in the chat if you've
00:11:49.120 done it be honest be honest please i don't want i am you guys cap sometimes and i don't need that
00:11:58.320 i don't you can put a two if you haven't and i'll allow a three if you've done it before but you've
00:12:03.440 you're reformed you're a reformed simp one said he's done it if she's paying for the bills that's a
00:12:08.640 little i actually think the ultimate alpha is a guy that gets women to have sex with them and pay
00:12:15.040 their bills because who else is getting more out of a woman who has more gain there's too many twos in
00:12:23.120 the chat stop it i i need i need more ones i don't believe you i've seen too much i really have men want
00:12:31.760 to fulfill this need but are limited by the concerns of life rich says i never had that problem
00:12:37.600 never brian on the website says two he's never done it come on none of you were in high school high
00:12:43.600 school girlfriend okay anyways i've had two exes that i felt prioritized video games and twitch
00:12:50.960 streaming over the relationship i love video games too but it has not gotten to the point gotten in the
00:12:56.560 way of spending in real time with people or obligations my first boyfriend won't talk to me
00:13:01.840 when i had put my sick dog down because he was too busy playing video games with his friends now
00:13:07.680 number one i would argue that social media is more detrimental to women than video games are to men
00:13:14.400 and more women go out of real life interactions to go on social media than the other way around in a
00:13:20.960 two-year relationship i lost count of how many jobs he lost because he kept showing up late from
00:13:26.800 playing video games all night who are you guys dating like okay my next boyfriend would often
00:13:31.920 lie about going to bed so he could game with his lady friends well into the night and he would blow
00:13:36.800 off social occasions with me or my family so he could stick to his stream schedule well okay you guys
00:13:43.840 realize that men don't really want to hang out with our families they're not really dying to go to all
00:13:49.120 these events on the weekends i think that women like this is a working theory i have so you guys
00:13:54.960 you guys we can bounce together i think that women want a backup plan so what they do is they never
00:14:01.840 like we need more power in case the relationship goes south i mean that's kind of what feminism is
00:14:08.560 it's like if you're doing behavior i don't like i want to be able to leave and go sleep with the guys i
00:14:12.880 do like and the thing is they have to keep close family ties and also women have power in groups
00:14:19.680 because women's power tends to be manipulation we can manipulate way better than men and that's like
00:14:25.840 why we like the cities why men like the country because they see the problems that come with groups
00:14:31.760 usually problems it's it's groups that women are in like you know when it's an all-male group there are
00:14:37.440 problems but men kind of sort themselves out a little better i mean they'll beat up a guy if
00:14:42.240 he's acting up enough you can't do that with women unfortunately you can't just clock somebody
00:14:47.920 not that i know it's not legal to do it to a guy either but i mean they're less likely to press
00:14:52.880 charges a woman she's vindictive i mean you you just poker she's going to the police
00:14:58.480 now anyways i i have a working theory that women need their families involved in their marriage and
00:15:05.360 relationships and they do that to have a backup plan and a way of enforcement to the man because
00:15:12.800 they don't want to listen to the guys so they have to have the dad get involved or the friends get
00:15:16.720 involved or whoever get involved to get what they want because women are too lazy to learn communication
00:15:22.880 and we want other people to enforce things working theory i'm going to do a show on this when i flushed
00:15:28.960 it out more but if you guys have thoughts on that topic put them in the comments please
00:15:33.520 my boyfriend would go to work late in the morning or early afternoon do his job while the boss was
00:15:39.360 there and then as soon as the boss left he started playing video games and wouldn't stop many times
00:15:43.680 i'd call him and tell him i was going to go ahead and eat dinner then call him and say i was going to
00:15:48.160 bed then around midnight i'd call and say please don't miss the last bus he'd wake up in the morning
00:15:52.720 under his desk and look presentable when his boss walked in i finally got fed up and left him rich on
00:15:58.160 the website says one holiday dinner i ate dinner with 40 of her family members of friends in the
00:16:04.080 basement once okay doug says too many men think you think our alphas are alphas everywhere except in
00:16:12.240 their house so true they're afraid of their wives it's pathetic oh my god it's like make it end
00:16:19.200 t carp says i've talked to my friends about this if their wife isn't sleeping with them they have to
00:16:24.800 argue that they can't make life comfortable and let it be known and we are talking about alpha men
00:16:30.880 that group where they're in the military they would just i think they would just bow down and never
00:16:36.160 argue with women you have to be able to hold your own in an argument yeah you know it's so crazy it'll
00:16:41.760 be like military men it'll be like men that are you know there'll be like kickboxers or like men you
00:16:49.920 never would think would allow somebody like they would never accept that from a man like
00:16:56.000 i've seen men simp that literally beat people up for a living like that is their job and they would
00:17:03.760 never like if a guy said the wrong thing to them they would beat the out of him but
00:17:08.480 they're afraid of a woman i'm like why pretty scary you know at least women are vindictive i think
00:17:15.200 most men would take a punch in the face over a woman trying to destroy their reputation for years
00:17:20.480 right i mean put a what let me know what you guys would prefer i'm not saying you have to pick but
00:17:24.960 if you had to pick getting knocked out like a stone cold knockout but you don't die and you have a no no
00:17:31.120 brain injuries but it hurts like a bitch or two a woman that you went you dated and it went bad and
00:17:40.160 she went into all of your social circles and tried to ruin your life put one if you take the knockout
00:17:46.960 too doug says the former ufc fighter john fitch talked about his ex-wife it was nuts she was a
00:17:53.520 psychopath yeah see all the guys are picking one yeah okay all right he would play for hours and hours
00:17:59.840 we're talking eight to 12 hours a day what's your screen time what is your screen time i used to be a
00:18:05.840 gamer and even worked at gamestop when i was in my early 20s he made me hate video games i tried to
00:18:11.280 play with him but he's such a sore loser he would throw tantrums and constantly complain
00:18:15.680 calling the game a cheater saying it was glitched he would get upset if my character did better
00:18:19.840 or had a superior class set up skills artifacts compared to his own when i started having dreams
00:18:25.360 about destroying his gaming council with an axe i realized that my current scenario was unhealthy for
00:18:30.720 both of us i realized that my my current boyfriend plays games and is judicial about the time he spends
00:18:37.760 on it and it would and will absolutely turn it off if i express a desire to do wait hold on let me read
00:18:45.040 that again when i started having dreams about destroying his game council with an axe i realized
00:18:50.320 my current scenario was unhealthy for both of us my current boyfriend plays games but is judicial about
00:18:56.240 the time he spends on it and will absolutely turn it off if i express a desire to do something together
00:19:02.800 he wouldn't answer his phone for hours at a time like three to five hours because he was on the game
00:19:07.520 even in the midst of something important happening it all came to a head when i was supposed to meet
00:19:12.720 him somewhere he knew i was on the way driving from an hour away i didn't have the address when i was
00:19:18.880 meeting him and he wasn't responding to any calls or texts because he was on the game i ended up breaking up
00:19:23.600 with him because i couldn't be in a relationship with someone i saw as a child if your main priority
00:19:28.160 seems to be video games and not the adult human woman in your life you're a child to me okay these
00:19:33.440 women sound nuts let me see what else people are saying one everyone's saying one in the chat on the
00:19:38.720 website you guys are missing out the chat on the website's way cooler no offense guys but if you're on
00:19:45.600 the make sure you hit the like button there's 600 of you in here let's make sure there's over 600 likes
00:19:52.160 the like is free i have a friend that hates trump and he was in the marines for 30 years i couldn't
00:19:57.680 figure it out plus he lives in ohio which is a republican state richard i've been stone called
00:20:04.080 knocked out and i've been attacked by a scorn woman and both damaged me doug says the things that
00:20:10.800 i disagree with on trump about i think he's going to do a good job kamala would have been a disaster t-carp
00:20:17.280 i think most of our dads mine included were that 90s christian dad taught to be a servant leader
00:20:22.880 we are doing what we were taught and waking up after we see 30 to 40 years of that in our culture
00:20:30.240 i know all right next we're going to talk about women what to do if he's heavily into video games
00:20:38.000 how many people i wonder do you guys think this woman's going to advise to just let him play
00:20:42.800 and not try to control what he does hey renee i hope you're doing well i'm an avid fan and you
00:20:48.880 and david become a cuter couple with every video oh that's a red flag i mean she runs it usually if
00:20:54.320 they're public facing and they do couples content usually the woman runs it you can tell if you watch
00:21:01.200 close enough but that's usually how it goes my struggle is this recently i've been a bit estranged
00:21:06.880 from my man because he feels i don't understand his love of video games and wishes i did i do my
00:21:12.480 best to not make him feel controlled letting him play when he wants to what do you mean letting him
00:21:17.520 he's an adult i mean you know it goes both ways the men think they somehow have control like
00:21:22.800 they're like oh i'd never let my woman do that you can't nobody can they're adults they can do what they
00:21:28.880 want it's just they're single now like that's it okay and with his friends but having him need to
00:21:36.240 see me and appreciate the depth inspiration and heart he feels some games have given or have is
00:21:43.520 going too far for me he even wishes i would play a bit so that i would stop assuming he's doing
00:21:47.840 something shallow and meaningless is it not enough that i can leave him alone when he's playing and not
00:21:53.600 complain after i'm silent i'm not silently seething either i've come to accept his need to play
00:21:58.880 but now i feel controlled and unappreciated simply for not seeing gaming the way he and his buddies do
00:22:05.040 i am not his buddy i'm a woman and his lover i have no interest in his games is that an adequate
00:22:10.560 way of thinking and i want to flip it for a second do you think she forces him to be a part of her
00:22:16.080 hobbies like telling him about celebrity gossip or whatever bs you know we follow every day should
00:22:23.600 i try harder to understand his hobbies or am i wise and staying out of his interests i feel many women
00:22:29.520 struggle with men who love video games a lot i don't know if dad david loves gaming but most women
00:22:35.200 i know whose men love it love it it is frequently a struggle for her in some way would you like me to
00:22:40.960 answer directly or answer it in a post up to you but i would love to share your insights on how women
00:22:47.520 should handle men and their love sometimes obsession with gaming it can be an extremely delicate subject
00:22:54.480 for men making them put up their defenses easily so it's not easy to deal with the issue thank you
00:22:59.520 for your time renee i appreciate all you do you contributed to helping mike and i stay as strong
00:23:05.840 as we do don't worry we're still madly in love thanks for your email okay all right thanks for
00:23:12.560 your email and yes i can relate to this i laughed when you said he wants you to appreciate the depth and
00:23:17.200 heart that some video games have years ago david used to play video games a lot sometimes until late and
00:23:23.600 he had to wake up at 6 a.m the next day for work i feel it was his way of escaping from his job when
00:23:29.360 he felt trapped in and hated you've obviously struggled with this in the past way before you
00:23:34.000 emailed me what i'm saying is you've struggled to understand why on earth he has to be so involved
00:23:38.640 and distracted by video games and can't give you the deep love you want to you as a woman most video
00:23:44.160 games are not full of depth or heart i understand you see depth in terms of human interactions and
00:23:49.920 relationships so you'd rather he come over to you and give you his presence and love you deeply
00:23:54.880 you don't know which way is up or down when i first wrote this article 10 years ago i was in
00:24:01.520 of belief that the masculine soul video games are a superficial way to meet your needs i think
00:24:07.520 intuitively us women assume that video games are a shallow way of expressing their masculinity and
00:24:12.400 feeling successful after all you have to turn the game off and get back to real life somehow
00:24:17.760 yet after being married to my game loving husband and having three sons with him i've come to
00:24:21.680 appreciate certain things about video games i will discuss these things very soon but i wanted to first
00:24:26.800 quickly address your need to not be around him when he plays them for a lot of women we'd rather not be
00:24:31.760 around our men when he plays video games because we'd rather see him doing something more constructive
00:24:36.880 even if our man is already successful and constructive out in the real world it still hurts to be around
00:24:43.120 him when he is actively playing video games instead of giving you attention not to mention being asked
00:24:48.560 to play with him it's a bit like who said you can downgrade me to watching you play video games and
00:24:54.160 playing video games with you david used to ask me to play video games as well and since i wanted intimacy
00:24:59.760 with him instead it felt like my needs were being dishonored so i can relate however i can look back over
00:25:05.360 the last 16 years of being with him some of the better times i had with him were when we played video games
00:25:10.960 together only it's just the bond that was nice because i was horrible at them getting good at
00:25:16.480 the game took so much energy out of me i realized that i just didn't come naturally to me as it did
00:25:21.200 to him he loves playing video games with my sons as well and though they don't really spend much time
00:25:26.480 playing games at all whenever they do play games i'm often ushering them off to read a book or go to
00:25:32.320 the playground as soon as i can but it was when he finally said to me that i understood i like my boys
00:25:38.480 playing games because it's good practice for them to learn to solve problems he also mentioned that
00:25:44.480 it helps them read even more outside of their reading they already do because having to read
00:25:49.600 the story in a game or read the instructions in the game gives them an internal motivator to want to
00:25:54.480 read more so even though i really understood whenever a woman says to me my boyfriend plays video
00:26:00.000 games more than he talks to me i can't stand it i am now unable to help her understand that there's
00:26:05.520 something there's a special something about video games that is super important to the men who love
00:26:10.480 them and it's this to men video games do have depth because it's an avenue through which they
00:26:16.080 get to feel express and access their own masculine identity in other words they were able to kill to
00:26:23.200 solve problems that overcome challenges inside of the video game in a way that life may not always
00:26:28.960 really readily provide to them and this way it's not different to us women buying dozens of shoes
00:26:36.160 or dresses when we hardly wear any of them we appear to be wasting our money on pointless but though it
00:26:43.760 seems pointless to men it isn't to us because we get to have the option of wearing shoes that best express
00:26:50.160 our mood and the feminine any energy flavor we are feeling on that day so that to us is the type of
00:26:57.120 abundance it may be excessive in the eyes of our boyfriend or husband and he may not appreciate it
00:27:02.000 but and it may become a bit of an addiction to us but i don't believe we should condemn it because in
00:27:08.000 moderation and it may actually allow us to express our feminine energy so now i'm going to help you
00:27:14.480 understand his need for games and i'll give my thoughts on what steps to take video games are an easy
00:27:19.920 way for men to feel successful it's kind of like women emptying their bank accounts and buy all the clothes
00:27:25.280 and shoes and accessories and makeup they could hardly ever wear in order to feel beautiful and
00:27:30.480 magnify their radiance obviously the best way for women to magnify her radiance would be to become a
00:27:36.080 woman who radiates love from within no amount of clothing is ever a replacement for that all the while
00:27:42.080 her man is getting stressed out and feeling disrespected because she's spending out all the money
00:27:46.400 rather than giving him the love and appreciation he wants which one which would be be one of the secrets to
00:27:53.680 actually making her more beautiful to him in his mind anyway are you wondering why my boyfriend wants
00:27:58.720 me to play video games with him it's because that helps him bond to you as men as men bond with each
00:28:05.520 other by overcoming challenges and engaging in a purpose or mission together that's a masculine way
00:28:10.080 of bonding as for why he wants you to play with them it's a classic case of men wanting to think men
00:28:16.640 wanting their women to think more like them so that they can connect and relate more with you
00:28:21.360 it's no different to women trying to drag their men along shopping with them do you see where i'm
00:28:25.680 going with this on one hand he wants to feel more connected to you because he feels like you don't
00:28:29.840 understand him on his level so he's trying to make you more like him he feels this will make
00:28:34.000 you understand him make you understand him develop a connection and a sense of commodity
00:28:45.040 you