Pearl - PLUS SIZED CUT： 25 Minutes of Fat Woman Hate

00:00:00.160 wanted so badly to be a girlfriend that it turned him away no he wanted you to lose weight and that

00:00:05.120 that's the thing the men won't ever tell you a lot of times you're in the f only category because

00:00:08.560 you're too fat what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are going to show the end result 0.91

00:00:13.040 of feminism so there is a woman who got rejected twice at a bar obviously um she was not hot 1.00

00:00:18.240 because if she was hot she was hot she would have um not she would not have gotten you know rejected 1.00

00:00:24.880 um but clearly she doesn't know her place in the marketplace because hot guys are banging her 1.00

00:00:29.200 um so now she approaches hot guys in public and they're rejecting her the loneliness epidemic is 0.99

00:00:34.560 real i went to two bars not just one two bars and i got rejected by not one but two guys

00:00:45.440 now i usually don't go out like this but i was feeling like i was starving for affection

00:00:51.680 and i just wanted somebody to make me feel pretty like my mother once told me sometimes

00:00:57.040 you go out not because you want to have fun yeah if you want to feel pretty go to the gym um it's

00:01:03.040 time to get 10 000 steps 1200 calories a day but you want just one person to make you feel special

00:01:08.740 and uh i did that tonight and maybe just maybe it was out of desperation not that i don't have

00:01:16.840 a lot to live for i have plenty but i went out hoping to just feel a raw connection with somebody

00:01:23.820 and i got rejected by two people and i felt so terrible that i ended up walking home alone

00:01:30.060 to sober myself up because this was not the night that i planned out for myself

00:01:34.620 the lonely epidemic the loneliness epidemic is so so real and it's such a raw experience for me

00:01:42.840 um and for yeah this is choice this is a choice now a lot of women they're going to phrase this 1.00

00:01:47.120 as this is the loneliness epidemic blah blah blah but she's actively done things to make

00:01:51.740 herself unattractive like she's overweight um she's got these big glasses on a chest tattoo 1.00

00:01:57.240 you don't have to be lonely um just stop dressing like a hooker and you can even keep the hooker 0.99

00:02:04.760 just be thin for a lot of people now i mean hooker dressing you know i mean they still get 0.99

00:02:09.420 wifed as long as they're thin it's not that i don't have i feel like i am a pretty pretty girl

00:02:16.300 but um it is not really i'd rate you like a three or four not that i'm looking necessarily in the 0.99

00:02:22.180 wrong places but it is the wrong time and unfortunately no it's that you're fat and 0.88

00:02:27.280 that and that's the real honesty here um you can find your husband at a bar you can find 0.67

00:02:32.340 your husband anywhere but it's the overweightness i have knocked on every door that i possibly could

00:02:41.440 have and every door has come to me to no avail also be careful walking alone at night because

00:02:50.940 i just had somebody trail me um you are not hot enough to get kidnapped i'm sorry you're not

00:02:57.260 it's just look at i mean men don't even really rape women over a certain age i'm sure if you

00:03:02.760 extrapolated that to a weight come on it's it's sad what we do when we when we're starving for

00:03:10.240 affection. The last person that I was spending time with told me that they liked me, but I

00:03:17.200 wanted so badly to be a girlfriend that it turned him away. No, he wanted you to lose weight. And

00:03:24.520 that's the thing the men won't ever tell you. A lot of times you're in the F only category because

00:03:28.400 you're too fat. So lose weight. Tell the men that you want it, but that's the thing. You could say

00:03:33.280 you want to be his girlfriend, but if you're not getting thin, then do you really? Isn't that crazy?

00:03:37.140 I just wanted a connection I just wanted someone to hold me and make me feel like the world wasn't

00:03:43.100 ending and uh I spent all my time trying to make this person feel special so that they wouldn't

00:03:50.380 leave me just for me to say that I was trying too hard and for them to move on it's absolutely crazy

00:03:57.840 um so now I'm just listening to my music going on like a three like a three mile walk

00:04:05.900 this I would not advise to you go on a three mile walk I actually would have advised that that's

00:04:11.400 great that's great honey get the get the three miles I just I was in a funky headspace okay so

00:04:17.020 apparently um what's his face some Anton Daniels and poor man's podcast responded to her what does

00:04:24.580 that mean when a woman said I've knocked on every door that's available to me that means that

00:04:29.580 maybe she tapped on every resource on this or maybe she went to all of the bars that she thought

00:04:36.760 that would make the most sense that she hit the streets and stuff like this to be honest with you

00:04:41.740 I look at this as sad and this was a long time coming because these are the things that I've

00:04:47.840 been warning people about for a very long time and that I've said that hey this is going to be

00:04:53.500 a very very dark time for a lot of people that decided that they wanted to go swimming in this

00:04:59.060 pool that got pissed in it and instead of doing the things that makes the most sense to you know

00:05:06.640 get you guys the best results possible you said you got it you said that you didn't want to hear

00:05:13.420 anything and then a lot of people decided that they wanted to listen to a bunch of people that

00:05:18.120 didn't have results and single and so y'all trauma bonded with each other and now look at you y'all

00:05:23.480 out here seeking and chasing affection in bars and getting rejected by men that got options

00:05:30.200 because contrary to popular belief it's a lot of guys that's been getting a lot of game a lot of

00:05:36.280 insight some don't need it others need uh you know affirmation and then there's a lot of guys that

00:05:42.780 actually just get the insight and the information and they just store it in their back pocket

00:05:46.500 and now they up hi and then this is her response to them my name is lilyana gomez and i've been

00:05:52.540 the subject of scrutiny for over 24 hours i posted a video online that was meant for my close friends

00:05:58.640 and yes i did share it online publicly but i found it to be the topic of a youtube channel with over

00:06:05.320 a million followers cry me a river i mean it's the internet honey you can have a private tiktok

00:06:11.160 account with your friends but you made it public and it was a she wanted sympathy so women post 0.99

00:06:16.220 things we talk about our problems because we want sympathy and we want to know that we're not alone

00:06:19.680 we want other women to come in and say oh like that's so sad um it's kind of just a part of our

00:06:25.800 psyche and yeah but there's consequences to that and she's about to find out personal video that 0.96

00:06:31.740 i did not give permission to be leaked now that being said i was talking about the loneliness

00:06:36.780 epidemic and how it is difficult for anybody of any gender and not any weight uh fit people are

00:06:44.420 not necessarily lonely they find partners at the gym to find themselves in the position where they

00:06:50.680 are rejected when they are looking via dating apps going out in person making friends trying

00:06:57.560 to find someone to connect with and honestly giving up all resorts and going to a bar like i

00:07:04.700 did and just trying to see if i hit it off with somebody that's all all it was just me being single

00:07:09.620 and wanting to hit it off somebody and i got rejected by two men and i posted a video about

00:07:12.400 how frustrating it was not because i got rejected by two men but just because i have been searching

00:07:17.180 for three years hoping that i could find a connection with somebody and that is not wrong

00:07:20.680 that is not wrong but these look at nobody said it's wrong but men have been going through this

00:07:24.840 for millennia um and it's gonna be difficult look at you gotta lose weight hun lose weight

00:07:30.880 keep telling you two the youtubers sourced my video and i'm the third welcome welcome to the

00:07:40.520 atmosphere and talked about how i am not

00:07:45.040 how me as a woman being rejected speaks leaps and bounds for what the dating narrative is

00:07:55.160 and i have been the subject of the scrutiny of many youtubers of over and i bet she's rejected

00:08:01.140 men too i know everyone's like who would she reject promise you god she's on hinge there's 0.99

00:08:06.160 men that are waiting 100 000 people that commented on that video and talked about how

00:08:09.860 there's a big cope with men they're like oh well that doesn't mean that all those men would wife

00:08:14.500 her and i'm like yeah but some would still i am a torta i'm fat i am overweight how the septum

00:08:21.620 theory thank you thank you for admitting that is real and how i hate men when you know that makes

00:08:27.780 so much sense because i hit on men in the bar and i wanted their company um how my tattoos make me

00:08:32.740 a yeah okay i'll explain it to you hon so the the challenge you have is that you are ruining your

00:08:39.220 feminine beauty you actually have a pretty symmetrical face you could be cute but because 0.99

00:08:44.420 um you got chest tattoos a septum piercing and you're fat like you're not dressing in a way

00:08:49.860 that's appealing to men you haven't taken the time to study what men even like or um so much

00:08:56.180 judgment that i would i would but she doesn't understand men this is how men think they're just

00:09:00.160 not honest they don't tell us that but this is how they think behind closed doors never never

00:09:05.080 dare to presume or dare partake to give to anybody has been put on to me so i decided to take in my

00:09:15.480 own hands to talk about this issue and i reached out to both you i thought you're gonna do to lose

00:09:20.440 weight i thought you're gonna get on a diet plan youtubers and asked if i can make commentary on

00:09:28.040 these videos because i think there's a deeper social implication and i was not given that

00:09:31.720 opportunity not only did they steal that video but they did not include me or even i mean i guess

00:09:38.620 it's already implied but they did not allow me to give permission or comment on it um you don't

00:09:43.460 have to so i'm taking a step further and i am going to the drew barrymore show and i am sending

00:09:48.220 in an inquiry and hopefully she accepts it because i love that woman and i love that show um but

00:09:53.100 yeah and i wouldn't be shocked if she got on a show like that you know because remember they

00:09:59.900 coddle women forever she is never gonna have honesty people are never honest with women 1.00

00:10:08.300 here is what i have put so bear with me i post a video on tick tock about the loneliness epidemic

00:10:15.900 and what it is like to be rejected as a woman who pursues men i am a passionate always vulnerable

00:10:20.540 and earnest individual with a fiery disposition i meant to break a cast a stereotype in the dating

00:10:25.900 scene that implies one misleading narrative and all of its complexities that it isn't okay for

00:10:33.360 women to be lonely and pursue company in whatever form that may take oh now she's making it a 0.93

00:10:38.320 misogyny thing the dating scene has a lot of rigidity surrounding the idea that men are to

00:10:43.000 pursue women and that women who pursue are desperate and less than i don't believe that's 0.96

00:10:48.420 true i like to enable the ideology that i am brave and intelligent and more importantly

00:10:52.880 capable of getting what i want so i pursue men in doing so i have encountered a lot of frustration

00:10:58.840 and rejection when confessing feelings to a small group of friends my video is leaked to an online

00:11:03.540 youtube source and sources that have lamented me for pursuing men and more okay now she's 1.00

00:11:08.720 currently 100 000 about this and i believe i have so much to say i have so much me and dare not i

00:11:14.760 just skip it but yeah dear god give me my proper accreditation hun i just want you to know that

00:11:20.880 insufferable i'm in the nicest way i can you seem like you have a good spirit but yeah you you're

00:11:26.160 insufferable and nobody's going to tell you that um because i can tell because of attitude you have 0.56

00:11:32.000 bad attitude you'll be the victim forever no wonder those men said no help this spread because i i

00:11:38.080 have so much to say i have so much to say and i have how many views did this get did this did this

00:11:42.720 really spread oh it's just 203 000 followers okay yeah i wish you luck hun please lose weight um

00:11:50.960 anyways you can use and it would go viral actually if you you did this you and you took my voice and

00:11:55.680 you said please lose weight and then you actually lost the weight um it would actually go viral so

00:12:00.720 it impacts just the way you think you don't want to do anything because it's like there might be

00:12:05.440 food there oh my gosh i relate what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to

00:12:11.760 to women and men talking about how being fat ruined their childhood. All right, let's see.

00:12:20.000 Being fat will ruin your childhood. If you are younger and you gain weight,

00:12:27.060 it will ruin your childhood. This is coming from a child who was overweight growing up.

00:12:32.600 And it takes years to see what you may have missed out on, the impact that it would have had.

00:12:37.800 i'm telling you when you lose weight the worst part is realizing how many years you spent fat

00:12:43.720 for no reason that's the worst part on your personality and your development your opportunities

00:12:48.680 the way you showed up at school the way you showed up with your friends the way you showed up with

00:12:51.640 your peers if you're a parent and your kid is gaining weight check it because i wish my mom

00:12:59.320 dad had had the knowledge to check it back then and they didn't that's fine i'm not i'm not mad

00:13:05.160 at them for it right i'm an adult now but if you can see that and catch your kids before it

00:13:11.080 is too late you're you're doing them a disservice if you don't in my opinion i agree i wonder how

00:13:17.640 responsible the parents are for the weight of the kid i do think over like 10 ish it starts to become

00:13:24.840 like the kid's fault but under 10 or over 10 wait sorry under 10 it's kind of the parents fault

00:13:34.520 because you're responsible for what they're eating y'all can we just talk about the experience of

00:13:38.520 growing up as a fat kid like i don't think anybody knows how hurtful that experience is

00:13:45.220 i feel like i don't know maybe i'm being biased because yeah like i was a fat kid but i feel like

00:13:51.460 being called fat was like one of the worst things that you could be called and like the only thing

00:13:57.260 like people would result to calling you if they didn't like you so i just feel like maybe it

00:14:04.140 wasn't the most offensive criticism but it definitely was the most occurred and i guess 0.87

00:14:12.480 maybe that still makes it hurtful because it starts to like fuck with your identity and like 0.85

00:14:17.060 your self-esteem hardcore and um i think the even crazier phenomena is like when you go from being 0.79

00:14:25.740 like especially as a woman a woman being overweight i mean it's kind of a death sentence to both men 0.99

00:14:32.580 and women socially i mean because kids are mean right but a young woman being fat oh 1.00

00:14:39.300 because that's like your one job is to not be fat a fat person to like going to being

00:14:47.160 a slim person and you see how different the world is and you see how different people

00:14:51.820 uh treat you and you see like all this like new you know found validation and all of this like

00:14:59.200 like the oyster bar just opened you know what i'm saying um it's so weird because in that moment

00:15:06.560 you feel like you have confidence but you don't realize that the confidence really comes from you

00:15:11.820 like from the inside so like you're basically in a new body but the spirit is the same so you still

00:15:16.800 carry that low self-esteem i'm gonna be real with y'all i feel like if anybody has ever been like

00:15:23.080 fat or like really overweight and then they get skinny like that is a that is a sector

00:15:29.320 of therapy that needs to be explored for like these people because it is such a such a hard

00:15:39.440 and difficult thing to do to grasp like a new reality that fast so i'm just saying like

00:15:46.500 and i feel like another crazy part is like when you actually realize that you're pretty and it's

00:15:54.220 not because you weren't pretty when you were fat you definitely you were not pretty when you're 0.84

00:15:57.540 fat i mean here's the thing you'll still get some attention because you're young young fat women 1.00

00:16:02.760 still get like attention but it's just not it's just there's something about like there's a level

00:16:08.620 of confidence when you get when you're doing the best with what you have like i know when i was 20

00:16:15.140 I probably would get more male attention right because like I'm 29 now yeah I'm like old and

00:16:21.900 used I'm like a used car not too many miles though but at 20 at 20 I know I got more attention even

00:16:31.460 though I was heavier but now like when I'm almost 30 it's weird I would say I'm more confident now

00:16:38.820 shockingly because I know I'm doing the best with what I got like I you can't really change your

00:16:44.160 there's something about that like when you meet a 42 year old woman who's just like in perfect shape 1.00

00:16:49.280 you know she kind of has a level of confidence because what else is she gonna do you know you

00:16:53.600 can't get younger um so yeah were but like the fat trauma just like trumped over like your belief

00:17:01.440 and like anything else being like successful in your physical being so it's like when you

00:17:08.800 finally get skinny then you see yourself as pretty it's like yeah okay let's see this blonde woman i 1.00

00:17:15.120 wonder what the how fat these people were and that still hurts my heart to think about from growing

00:17:19.680 up fat is story from when i was like seven and i made a whole powerpoint presentation

00:17:25.120 on how i was gonna lose weight in first grade i remember making a whole printout binder to go out

00:17:31.120 you realize it young i remember because i yo-yoed a lot in my life but i remember the first time

00:17:37.280 feeling fat was in fifth grade i don't know how old you're fourth fifth grade it was this one

00:17:42.880 picture of me and yeah it was like my gut was sticking out of my friends um had flat stomachs

00:17:49.520 i was like why is mine not flat in front of my parents and say to them that i was going to go

00:17:55.440 from a one-piece bathing suit because i was wearing the plus size one-piece bathing suits

00:18:00.080 from justice shout out and i was gonna go from a one piece to a tankini to a bikini because in my

00:18:06.880 head that's how it went like if you're big you had to wear one piece if you were like

00:18:11.600 you'd wear tankini because like it still covered some and then when you were skinny you could wear

00:18:16.240 a bikini i was seven i was around other girls in the playground and when it was like their birthday

00:18:22.080 party and they would have like water slides and pool parties i was seriously insecure oh my gosh

00:18:28.080 i i went through the same thing i never wanted to go to the beach i never i mean partially because

00:18:33.760 I mean, the pale, but you don't like it impacts just the way you think you don't want to do

00:18:40.760 anything because it's like, there might be food there. Oh my gosh. I relate in pictures and

00:18:46.200 anything at seven years old. Was I overweight? Yes. Was I fat yet? No. Am I here to promote

00:18:54.480 body? Yeah. But the thing is you like, no, it's coming. I don't know for me anyways, because I,

00:18:59.500 I just knew that the second I stopped playing sports that I would get so overweight and I

00:19:05.740 that's why you cannot work a bad diet but it takes like four hours a day it takes up so much time

00:19:11.680 positivity and promote obesity no it's unhealthy but I am against how much it is put on girls

00:19:20.860 to look a certain way and I still feel it I think about that little girl a lot I like it's kind of

00:19:26.440 ironic she said i don't like how it's put on girls to look a certain way she's like putting 1.00

00:19:31.080 on makeup i mean i know that i'm so ridiculously hard on myself and how i look today but i try to

00:19:39.040 just picture that girl looking at me now and just like being absolutely just astound by the way we

00:19:45.420 look like i'm not here to call myself hot stuff or anything but like i think i look pretty good so

00:19:49.600 all right here's this one i care less if you get offended by this a child should never be obese

00:19:55.040 there is no reason that it is neglect because it's the parent it's the mom not paying attention

00:19:59.200 to what the kids are eating it is neglect to some degree um some of it's out of their control like

00:20:04.420 once the kid's in school um the kid kind of has to make choices but it is partially the mother

00:20:10.660 i should ever see an eight-year-old that weighs as much as i do as a parent you have control over

00:20:14.320 their food especially when they're really obese i mean if it's that bad and you send them to school

00:20:18.460 and they're eating i mean it might be time to go home school or something activity level so if they

00:20:22.900 you're obese. Here's the thing. I know how hard, like I feel like food was just always my like

00:20:28.300 Achilles heel. Like I just did not know how to overcome this thing. And it affected me so much.

00:20:35.400 And I almost feel like I'm at the end of it. Like I still have 10, 15 pounds to lose,

00:20:41.560 but because I did it with diet and slowly this time, I'm just not as worried about,

00:20:45.680 maybe I will gain it back. I don't know. Life's long, but I just, I know I did it different this

00:20:50.180 time um and oh my gosh just when i was younger it was oh my gosh it was just such a pain in the ass 0.97

00:20:56.900 it's simply neglect just think how much harder you're making their life simply because you don't 0.90

00:21:00.180 want to do your job as a parent childhood obesity is setting them up for major health and social

00:21:03.940 problems chances of pretty much every disease skyrocket and not to mention getting bullied in

00:21:07.540 school not saying have them eat 100 healthy food and play every sport imaginable but there's i don't

00:21:12.420 think sports help because it just kind of pro it kicks the can down the road because if you're

00:21:17.780 overweight the problem is overeating and you need to retrain yourself to not overeat and that's going

00:21:23.620 to include learning to cook healthier meals weighing your food being able to ballpark when

00:21:29.060 you're out how much calories something is it's a skill and these are skills you're probably lacking

00:21:34.260 cleaning up while you're cooking so it's not a big mess and it's this big hassle um and for me

00:21:38.740 because i was in sport it was always really difficult um like there's just certain life

00:21:43.540 skills i didn't have no reason they should be eating fast food for breakfast lunch and dinner

00:21:48.500 and then sit on an ipad as soon as they get home from school for the rest of the day a child should

00:21:52.280 have to suffer the consequences of obesity because of the poor choices their parents made if this

00:21:56.740 offended you i don't care there's yeah no he's he's completely correct um again it's it's the

00:22:03.080 parents making poor choices and the kids kind of having to deal with it i tried switching doctors

00:22:09.220 I tried how the doctors are like, you're fine. And they're like, no. What up guys? Welcome to

00:22:15.100 my reaction series. Today we are reacting to women talking about why they can't lose weight 1.00

00:22:20.640 postpartum. Mom's struggling to lose weight postpartum or just extremely fatigued. I've

00:22:26.740 really bad brain fog. Can't sleep well. You might want to listen to this. My postpartum journey

00:22:31.780 with my second son has barely been a complete 180 than it was with my first. I did not lose

00:22:38.480 any baby weight minus just the the actual weight of my baby and the extra blood flow in my placenta

00:22:45.600 i just knew something was off not only did i not lose any weight but i actually gained 20 pounds

00:22:50.720 postpartum your mom like you understand how depressing it is i mean it's kind of hope

00:22:57.120 it's kind of they kind of make up all these copes when it's just like i ate too much this new body

00:23:01.920 that you feel uncomfortable in one of your clothes fit then you're out looking for clothes and new

00:23:08.160 clothes don't even fit right it's just this awkward new body so i went to the doctors oh my

00:23:13.000 doctor everything that's going on with me and what does she do she pretty much tells me to kick rocks 1.00

00:23:18.180 they tested one of my thyroid panels i guess my tsh results came back and my results were four

00:23:26.020 times higher yeah so they blame it on thyroid but thyroid conditions are caused by bad eating a lot

00:23:32.520 of the time because i know that like i had a thought like i got it tested too i know what

00:23:37.160 she's talking about and for me it went away when i ate less sugar i mean that's when i have ever

00:23:41.340 been right away i'm like oh yeah i know something's off i i think i have hypothyroid she tells me that

00:23:47.440 she's seen worse and my levels aren't that bad and to come back in a couple i tried switching

00:23:55.060 doctors i tried uh how the doctors are like you're fine and they're like no i am not fine listen to

00:24:01.960 me to get a full thyroid panel done and nobody would do it at kaiser my husband and i decided

00:24:07.560 to switch insurances i found a naturopathic doctor first thing she did when i told her all of my

00:24:12.780 issues that i was having was do a full hormonal panel and what did we find out i have hashimoto's

00:24:18.860 hypothyroidism i think they just make up conditions to make women feel better about being fat and 0.95

00:24:24.780 lazy the relief that i had after just having a doctor listen to me and this is what i think it

00:24:31.480 is i think the medical industry preys on women's i don't say praise because we're willing but 0.92

00:24:36.580 they understand will women's neuroticism that we always think we're sick and we love spending 1.00

00:24:43.480 money to fix problems instead of doing work and they can just diagnose us with stuff and then like

00:24:48.740 make us pay for visits it's been so amazing pretty much the point of me making this is to

00:24:54.600 tell other moms that it's not normal you're not crazy for thinking something's wrong with you when 0.67

00:25:00.720 you feel completely off and to advocate for yourself and don't stop pushing for your doctor

00:25:06.780 to. Yeah, but I don't see you thin. Like if you came back thin, then I know you fixed the problem

00:25:11.840 that you need to get done. Now I'm on a whole thyroid healing journey. I know how it feels to

00:25:17.700 not even wanting to go to social gatherings or family functions because you're so embarrassed

00:25:23.480 of your weight and how you look, even though you're doing everything you can to try to lose

00:25:27.880 the weight so discouraging and it's really depressing and lonely you guys want me to share

00:25:32.940 things that i'm doing on my journey like eating what i'm doing to put my thyroid into remission

00:25:38.680 yeah um okay let's see the next one normalizing my body that's two years postpartum and i didn't lose

00:25:45.760 i'm gonna tell you why you can't lose weight after having kids why you might still have a mom pouch

00:26:08.160 let's get into it sometimes some mamas don't snap back post-pregnancy and they always wonder 1.00

00:26:13.920 why did they gain a lot of weight why do they still have to be reasonable she looks thin she 1.00

00:26:18.800 might be reasonable and give us some good mom pouch and it won't go away let's talk about why

00:26:23.880 you're not losing weight first there's a few different both of the women i reacted to were 1.00

00:26:27.520 obese and things for that one your hormones can be out of whack a lot of mom's hormones don't 1.00

00:26:33.060 always go back to normal post-pregnancy and that could affect your weight loss making sure you get

00:26:38.420 check for pcos diabetes thyroidism check all of it because your hormones are not yeah yeah blaming

00:26:46.340 hormones for bad choices that's just always the go-to not regulated anymore but always ask your

00:26:52.320 doctor for a blood panel to check all your hormones another reason your diet maybe you're

00:26:57.200 not eating a lot during the day maybe you're not eating a lot making choices that are not so healthy

00:27:02.540 making sure you're eating clean whole foods high protein each day will help you lose weight

00:27:09.100 another reason a lot of breastfeeding mamas think that just by doing breastfeeding they can lose 1.00

00:27:14.700 weight that's not always true if you're consuming high calories especially foods that are not good

00:27:20.940 for you that are more processed and sugary and sodium still are going to have trouble losing

00:27:26.860 weight. So making sure you opt for whole foods, fruits, vegetables, lean proteins in your diet

00:27:33.900 to help you lose weight. And could be genetic. Some people gain more weight than others post

00:27:39.460 pregnancy. Now let's talk about why you could have a mom pouch. First, it could be ab separation. 1.00

00:27:46.940 Why does this happen? When your baby grows, your transverse abdominals have to separate to give 1.00

00:27:51.880 Yeah. Okay. Nobody's, here's the challenge. Nobody's really faulting moms if they have

00:27:56.320 stretch marks or like something down low. It's just when you're like 50 pounds overweight and

00:28:01.360 you're calling it postpartum. You just got fat. Just accept it. For the baby to grow.

00:28:06.020 Your transverse abdominals actually protects your organs. That's why we have it. That's why we have

00:28:10.160 abs. And when the baby is out and your body starts going back to normal, sometimes that gap doesn't

00:28:17.060 clothes that's why a lot of moms they look pregnant post-pregnancy for a while have that round 1.00

00:28:22.980 appearance because they still have separation if you have body fat or loose skin in addition

00:28:29.140 obviously it would be worse but let's say you've tried everything you've died you've done it all

00:28:34.340 and you're still having that pregnant appearance and the only way of getting rid of it is doing 1.00

00:28:39.860 ab separation exercises to help close the gap or surgery and if you don't have ab separation

00:28:45.940 you probably just have body fat and you just have to go on a diet.

00:28:49.940 Okay. I knew she would be the most reasonable one. It's always the women that are the most 1.00

00:28:54.540 reasonable, reasonable or the thinnest. They become unreasonable real fast when they get fat.

00:29:00.280 Um, let me know what you guys think of the comments. Um, have any of you ladies been

00:29:03.540 pregnant and then lost weight? Um, how did that go for you? Make sure you like the video,

00:29:07.340 please subscribe to the channel and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - January 08, 2026

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