Pearl - Red Pill Coach Gets ATTACKED for Saying Dating Is Transactional

00:00:00.240 so this is men are in love women are in business we are back to the same prompt women are in

00:00:04.880 business men are in love uh cj if you'd like to kick us off okay hi coach greg so happy to be

00:00:12.320 here i'd like to let everyone know i have been patiently waiting and i am incredibly um unprepared

00:00:20.000 but excited to be here a woman being unprepared just prove the red pill right every day just keep

00:00:26.400 proving it right women are in business men are in love uh that's a very interesting concept

00:00:34.800 uh i do agree with the um what is it that the dating is transactional there was something said

00:00:42.960 earlier on the podcast um by another lady she was wearing the pick me no it wasn't lala it wasn't

00:00:50.080 another lady she said that i don't or maybe you said it was said during your conversation that

00:00:55.040 you don't think uh dating should be like everybody should be dating or dating should be first seen 0.57

00:01:01.600 okay all right what if if women are in business and men are in love and dating is only for young

00:01:09.840 people then how do we arrive anywhere i guess i'm personally asking what is your definition

00:01:16.640 of dating and why would you say it's only for young people i love that question i appreciate

00:01:21.280 you for bringing that up um when dating no no no when dating first started it was very taboo

00:01:29.120 okay people typically courted women didn't go out with strange men they didn't know typically this

00:01:35.500 was not something that they would do but because we became more metropolitan oriented you know you

00:01:40.720 have a lot of movements if you will what women started to do was take their independence take 0.91

00:01:45.680 the mate selection onto themselves which has been pretty much a failure all right but that's neither 0.88

00:01:49.500 here nor there what happens is when women took a date with a man and date just means calendar date 1.00

00:01:56.700 that's what the word comes from she's just filling her dates doesn't mean love doesn't mean marriage 0.99

00:02:01.720 it's someone that has evolved into that of picking your mate but date specifically comes with a woman 0.59

00:02:06.920 filling her dates but also it came with the idea that the man was paying with gifts money whatever 0.91

00:02:15.980 And I often have a conversation that says dating has stemmed from prostitution because a lot of people would get busted. 0.90

00:02:22.820 It's true because back in the day, I mean, love has always been had power involved in it.

00:02:29.460 Men are the only ones willing to do love with no power. 0.99

00:02:33.500 But back in the day, like women came with a dowry. 0.74

00:02:36.180 Like if anything, the men were paid. 0.58

00:02:37.680 The women weren't for dating. 0.99

00:02:39.300 They would get busted for taking a woman out on a date and then taking her to the hotel for free sex. 1.00

00:02:46.740 You know who also didn't like that? 1.00

00:02:48.480 Prostitutes. 1.00

00:02:49.300 Because those women were undercutting the prostitute by eliminating the aspect of direct payment. 1.00

00:02:55.100 The payment went directly to the restaurant. 1.00

00:02:57.380 Okay. 1.00

00:02:57.780 You're saying dating stems from prostitution.

00:03:00.460 It was considered almost similar to this gray area of prostitution historically.

00:03:05.860 And people would get arrested. 0.74

00:03:07.600 There was a time where you cannot take these women and check them into a hotel because she was not your wife.

00:03:12.260 So it was a very taboo type activity. 0.97

00:03:15.900 OK, I want to do the fact check.

00:03:17.880 Yeah, hold on.

00:03:18.960 I just had it.

00:03:20.700 Now that they're taking my statement.

00:03:22.920 All right.

00:03:23.120 So it kind of like acknowledges where to go.

00:03:26.820 I'm going to freeze that too broad, as stated historical sources say early American dating was sometimes conflated with prostitution and that some dating practices grew out of the work.

00:03:37.020 class treating and commercialized courtship but dating itself did not simply originate from

00:03:43.440 prostitution okay so I see what you're saying you see what I'm saying prior to her father or her

00:03:49.800 brother selecting a mate who would inevitably already be in the social circle already a member 0.67

00:03:56.700 of the same church yes okay that are paying to play basically interests so that would be called

00:04:02.880 what would that be called oh my god that was so good mate selection by your father or brother 0.52

00:04:09.920 okay yes oh look at him cook look at this man a lot of women will say now bring back courting

00:04:16.480 courting with where you're chaperoned is that what you're okay okay you would have a date that

00:04:21.320 wasn't transactional you would meet at the family porch the man would be introduced to the family

00:04:25.980 the brother the father the the scenario so that would be courting she's not dating in secrecy

00:04:30.420 Well, I would argue in apologies for the interruption, but I feel like we can go back and forth.

00:04:35.380 OK, yeah. The I would argue that even sitting on the porch is transactional.

00:04:41.100 I'm on the side of transaction. I'm on the side of transaction.

00:04:44.680 And I I am not triggered by that use of transact, the word transaction.

00:04:49.760 And I wish that we would have more open conversation like this so that we could give less power to like one little word.

00:04:59.120 Because in my opinion, it is a transaction because these people are trading time and time is more important and more valuable than money because you can never get your time back.

00:05:09.660 Now we're on the same page. We see eye to eye on this one because we can read between the lines.

00:05:13.640 I've often found that when you put the money transaction up front, if those people agree, they actually have a better time.

00:05:21.620 I would agree with that, although people are incredibly uncomfortable talking about money.

00:05:27.620 mostly the people that don't have any correct or that are very scared um and just kind of live in

00:05:35.240 a scarcity mode which i'm we i don't want to go too far over there okay so were you finished with

00:05:40.560 your you're giving your concept of dating okay let's go to brian because he's kind of a super

00:05:46.640 cook all right for it too you might have to make a sacrifice the earlier you do it the better but

00:05:53.060 if you fight this all the way to 30 and 35 it's gonna be an angry you're gonna be like that dude

00:05:57.440 that stormed out all right anger incel and i don't like angry incels i don't let them go on

00:06:02.400 my show i delete them out the chat so people keep thinking i'm out attacking women i'm i'm mainly

00:06:07.240 trying to challenge men the problem they have is that young women today have instagram they have

00:06:12.880 social media they have friend circles they have more rights they have more ability to support

00:06:18.420 themselves without needing the man and they want the man to have these components emotional 0.95

00:06:22.940 availability shit men never needed historically men have never needed these things to get a woman 0.90

00:06:28.820 or a wife or to even have kids now because women have rights i'm not against this women are looking 0.99

00:06:35.900 for men to come in emotionally what are men saying we don't need to do all that and i'm like okay

00:06:41.860 this is where we are and i'm trying to help the conversation along i think most people get

00:06:46.540 distracted because they can see some sort of misogyny some sort of hate of women and that

00:06:51.340 gets a lot of attention you might even see me with sugar babies right these are the things

00:06:55.440 people get triggered at and they're not even listening they didn't even want to read the book

00:07:00.080 remember my book was toilet paper and i'm like well i mean what do you want me to do you're not

00:07:04.420 even going to open your mind i'm not closed-minded your book is toilet paper you see what i'm saying

00:07:08.960 and i'm like i'm literally explaining if you read it i'm explaining that i'm not attacking women

00:07:13.740 i'm not attacking the institution of marriage i'm not even attacking feminism i have a phrase on my

00:07:19.480 show feminism freed men you should be happy about feminism i think it's a shitty uh agenda

00:07:27.180 but you should be happy because you used to have to marry a woman you used to have to prove

00:07:32.240 something have some land you used to have to meet the parents but now i can go swipe on hinge and 0.61

00:07:37.380 put a rose and have her legs pointed up to the sky in less than 30 minutes that's because of 1.00

00:07:42.640 feminism. You're not, you're not wrong. I would, I would. Let's end on that note. Okay. Thank you 1.00

00:07:49.600 very much. This has been a wonderful day. And you know what? I'm a, I'm a subscribe to your

00:07:53.200 platform transactionally. All right. All right, Brian, take it away. So I think what I'm going

00:08:01.860 to say revolves around all the topics today, including this one. If somebody came up to me

00:08:08.340 today and said that had a hundred followers and had a really shitty podcast. And they came up to 0.55

00:08:14.260 me and they said, Brian, I want to give you advice on how to do a podcast. I would tell them to go

00:08:19.180 fly a kite. You had, you were married to a woman divorced. You had a failed marriage. I don't know 0.97

00:08:25.380 exactly what happened, but why do you think that you should be the authority on telling other men

00:08:30.260 what to do when you had a failed marriage? Why not you do you and let other men do them? My parents

00:08:35.180 have been married for 50 years they're best friends it was not a transactional marriage 0.78

00:08:40.020 what a simp i hate this guy dude i've dated women for many many crazy because after he like switches

00:08:46.400 personalities i can't stand people that have like a second personality for the camera 0.97

00:08:51.780 years i can usually sense after a first or second date if a woman is after my money or wants to use

00:09:00.260 me guess what i don't go out with that woman anymore not every woman is like that the problem 0.98

00:09:04.540 I have with people like you, and now I'm going to generalize, is you make generalizations 0.99

00:09:08.800 about entire groups of people. Every human being is different. Every woman is different.

00:09:13.960 Not every woman is a whore. Not every woman is after your money. 1.00

00:09:16.960 Oh my God, that not all women are like that. 0.99

00:09:19.320 And not every woman wants to use you. I sense in hearing you talk that you've met the wrong woman.

00:09:25.020 You've met the wrong women in your life, and maybe I should be the one that should be mentoring you.

00:09:29.300 not every not every woman yeah but you know men there's general principles that men are similar 0.51

00:09:37.400 to i wonder how cga is going to combat this i think he's a better debater than me woman should 1.00

00:09:40.980 be going up to you and saying do you want to fuck because that woman would be a whore and that's 1.00

00:09:46.140 somebody that i don't want to treat good and that's somebody that i don't want to take out 1.00

00:09:49.380 when i go out i'm 46 years old when i go out with women oh my god you're 46 years old and still a 0.90

00:09:54.300 simp. There's no saving you. That's not all I care about is fucking. Oh my God, there's no 0.98

00:09:59.400 saving you. No women. I want to spend time with them. I want to see if that woman. Oh my God, 1.00

00:10:04.120 he's so cooked. It could be a good friend of mine. Okay. There are women that I've dated in

00:10:08.260 my life and I get the sense you probably don't have a lot of women that you're attracted to,

00:10:11.780 that you're friends with. It's either you're fucking them or you don't hang out with them 0.99

00:10:15.080 at all. And I think I really feel bad for you if that's the case. I have a lot of women that I 0.99

00:10:19.060 have dated in my life for years. I've dated them. Obviously, we've been intimate and I'm friends 1.00

00:10:25.100 with them. I go and I date women. I take them out to nice dinners and sometimes they take me out and 0.99

00:10:30.200 they pay for me. Every woman is different. So my two questions are, why do you want to generalize 1.00

00:10:35.300 an entire group of people in women? Number one. And number two, why should we listen to somebody

00:10:40.260 like you who had a failed marriage? You failed at it. Why should we listen to people like you?

00:10:45.900 And I'll leave it to you whether you want to acknowledge the personal pieces or not.

00:10:50.160 It's totally up to you.

00:10:51.360 You don't have to.

00:10:52.160 Okay.

00:10:52.480 I won't force it.

00:10:53.420 Okay, you're right.

00:10:54.000 Good.

00:10:54.820 Some of the most successful people have been successful because they failed.

00:10:59.960 They learned, and they were able to take those failures into their new endeavors, their new business, their new relationships.

00:11:07.280 Some.

00:11:07.440 Yeah, and they were successful, so they learned.

00:11:10.780 And just because you failed doesn't mean you didn't gather information.

00:11:13.740 So what I did was gather information.

00:11:16.000 I didn't tell men to get married based on my personal relationship.

00:11:19.420 I told them on the aspects of what happens after that, how it becomes business and transactional.

00:11:25.900 In your experience.

00:11:26.760 No, no, no.

00:11:27.080 Let him finish.

00:11:27.880 In general, what happens.

00:11:28.820 He always interrupts this dude.

00:11:30.900 It becomes transactional on all levels.

00:11:34.360 Now, this is what people misinterpret because when you make an assumptions, you know what they say.

00:11:39.240 You made a lot of generalizations as assumptions of me.

00:11:41.580 And you don't.

00:11:42.000 Of course, I've never made any generalizations about you at all, but I want to say this.

00:11:46.340 I don't at all, but I want you to let him finish.

00:11:49.540 I want you to look at your tweets.

00:11:51.560 You make generalizations about all women.

00:11:53.360 What are you talking about? 1.00

00:11:54.720 You're okay.

00:11:55.560 It'll be all right.

00:11:56.680 Listen, you need to mute him.

00:11:58.040 That's the thing.

00:11:58.580 These moderators, you need to mute the guest and say, you will be muted if you do that again.

00:12:04.040 Like all these shows, they never.

00:12:06.920 I'm fine.

00:12:07.520 I think you're not.

00:12:08.340 Listen, it's only 140 characters.

00:12:10.540 I can't write a book.

00:12:11.380 this is why i have books no thank you no thank you sorry i use those as toilet paper you're very

00:12:15.560 closed-minded let's reset hold on stop let's reset we're gonna let him get through his thoughts

00:12:20.240 because he was he was very minded brian he was very respectful when you were doing your opening

00:12:25.520 let's give it back you can't let me flow can i talk so you can understand my perspective you're

00:12:31.680 actually we're proving my point as you were talking it was so beautiful and i couldn't even

00:12:35.640 interrupt it because your face is my point brian not at all let him talk i want to say something 0.99

00:12:40.020 here when i kick him dude kick him follow the rules or get kicked these fuckers say something's 0.99

00:12:45.940 transactional it doesn't just imply money okay and this is where people have a problem with what i'm 0.99

00:12:52.900 saying everything you do requires some sort of energy input and output so most of the time if 1.00

00:13:00.340 a person doesn't want to be used by a whore which whores are valuable i have no problems with whores 1.00

00:13:05.060 They're valuable to the ecosystem, just as good women are. 0.99

00:13:08.760 But what happens is people assume that I'm talking about money only.

00:13:14.580 But I have a thing that I tell people, protect your meat, your money, energy, attention, and time.

00:13:19.780 And one thing I want to hone in to what you said, just maybe if you might be enlightened, I don't know if your ego can handle this. 0.75

00:13:27.140 You said you don't want women to use you for your money.

00:13:31.800 You want to spend time with women. 0.98

00:13:35.900 If you say spend, that implies transaction. 0.99

00:13:40.180 So now you've taken money in the absence of money and you say spend time.

00:13:45.300 Time, most of the time, most people trade time for money in the absence that they don't have money.

00:13:51.340 So they go get a job.

00:13:52.360 I don't have money.

00:13:53.400 What do they trade?

00:13:54.880 Time.

00:13:56.000 That's a transaction.

00:13:57.100 and people who don't want to be used for money most likely are going to over-leverage time.

00:14:03.240 That implies that that is a transaction.

00:14:06.740 Now, you might disagree with that, and that's fine, but I'll give you one more just to do you this.

00:14:11.400 Money, energy, attention, and time.

00:14:13.460 What does the teacher say at the beginning of the class if she wants the kids to stop doing something and focus on the teacher?

00:14:20.780 She might say, hey, class, pay attention.

00:14:24.300 Okay.

00:14:24.600 If I'm paying something, that implies a transaction.

00:14:28.080 Cook! 1.00

00:14:29.160 Cook his ass, CGA. 1.00

00:14:31.120 Cook the super sim. 1.00

00:14:32.540 I have to stop focusing on this and focus on that. 0.99

00:14:35.720 Some guys, in the absence of money and time, will spend time focusing attention on the woman.

00:14:42.020 At that point, that is a transaction because that requires some sort of focus here to there.

00:14:47.780 So my response, I have a lot of responses.

00:14:49.520 Wait, wait, wait, hold on for a second.

00:14:50.280 I wasn't done yet.

00:14:51.400 You just assumed.

00:14:52.180 You went on like a three-minute tirade.

00:14:53.360 Keep on going with your filibuster.

00:14:54.060 Now, I was filibustering.

00:14:56.320 I believe that that was you, sir.

00:14:57.980 I was not filibustering.

00:14:58.840 Go ahead.

00:14:59.460 Go ahead.

00:15:00.080 Go ahead.

00:15:00.900 I thought you were done.

00:15:01.860 Put the rulers away.

00:15:02.960 Yes.

00:15:03.580 Go ahead.

00:15:03.940 Finish your thought, please, Coach.

00:15:05.580 When you exercise, right, isn't that you taking your energy and you're putting it towards your body, you're running, your lungs are going to be taxed.

00:15:16.700 Exercising is not something that you would do for free, even though you can run outside and not pay for something.

00:15:21.880 But obviously you would need shoes and gear and some water or something like that to pay into this particular thing.

00:15:28.440 You expend energy.

00:15:30.500 Energy is a transaction.

00:15:33.140 You're trading this for that.

00:15:35.100 So money, energy, attention, and time, all of these are things that people do to transact something.

00:15:41.440 And most of the time what you said, your strategy was you didn't want a person to use you for the money.

00:15:47.100 But you're now over leveraging time that you could use to make money, right?

00:15:51.880 to actually better yourself in a situation to go with a woman that actually is better for you

00:15:56.520 instead of the women that are that you're going out with because i'm pretty sure if you showed

00:16:00.280 a picture or something i'm just going to assume generalized as you did for me some of the women 0.95

00:16:04.840 that you probably going out with probably look like a muskrat a mole or something like that 0.53

00:16:08.840 and that's why they don't you probably have the results you don't and that's why you're angry 0.92

00:16:12.760 now but go ahead okay so first of all i think the mole is you that's number one number two you're not

00:16:17.400 going to insult people that i've dated you don't know what they look like and i'll tell you what

00:16:20.280 what they look like and I guarantee you, excuse me, excuse me, you're interrupting, because it's

00:16:24.840 a fact, you had a failed marriage and you're making, that doesn't mean, that doesn't mean 0.92

00:16:28.240 anything in terms of, he always insults first, this dude, he's fat, he's chopped fat, yeah.

00:16:35.400 Abraham, let a reset, gentlemen, you're going to peep the mics, are you going to stop talking?

00:16:40.880 You don't call the people, I'm sorry, I'm talking, the both of you are done, the both of you are done,

00:16:46.860 hold on i'm sorry all right sarah you might have been redeemed you're the best moderator so far

00:16:54.220 can i get eyes over here you're the only one that's yeah i've done anything

00:17:00.220 you need a mute button for both 1.00

00:17:04.380 i actually think he wants me to pull stop for a second because he actually likes women guys 1.00

00:17:08.860 the the mics don't even pick you up if you start going over each other 0.86

00:17:12.060 He interrupted me, right?

00:17:12.920 So nobody's...

00:17:13.320 I was responding.

00:17:14.120 Listen, stop.

00:17:14.460 I'm talking. 1.00

00:17:15.700 The mics are going to peek out.

00:17:17.480 Nobody's going to hear all of these amazing insults that you're throwing at each other.

00:17:21.500 It's fun.

00:17:22.580 We're having a great time. 0.99

00:17:23.720 Nobody else can fucking hear it. 0.99

00:17:25.920 Okay. 0.99

00:17:26.340 So can I respond now?

00:17:27.080 Let's go one at a time. 1.00

00:17:28.280 Show your pictures of the lovely ladies. 0.99

00:17:30.260 Okay. 1.00

00:17:30.640 You just said I'm dating women that are moles or rats or whatever you had just said. 1.00

00:17:36.540 Google. 1.00

00:17:36.980 For the rec.

00:17:37.640 Okay. 0.90

00:17:37.940 Are you going to shut up and let me talk, bro? 0.77

00:17:39.680 I don't. 1.00

00:17:40.000 Because you're really just a jackass. 1.00

00:17:41.780 Let me speak, dude. You interrupt everybody. You see, this is what I mean. These guys. Okay. Yes. 1.00

00:17:48.260 I insulted you. Now, the reason why I did that time, I'm being very, no, you weren't. You just

00:17:52.980 insulted the women that I'm dating. I have no fucking idea what they look like. You insulted 1.00

00:17:57.700 my marriage. Oh, he said, I'll give you an opportunity to produce. You did. You insulted

00:18:01.300 me. Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen, listen, my measuring sticks going to always end up being

00:18:09.380 bigger because I get to beat both of you with it. That's enough. Enough. I mean, stop. I'm saying

00:18:16.860 stop. Everybody stop. Hold on. Stop. We're recalibrating. The two of you can figure this

00:18:23.640 out. I know we can. Okay. So I'm going to respond to the stuff he said now and I'll try to ignore

00:18:27.780 some of the most insufferable people get the most mic time. Most insufferable. Theiotic things he

00:18:33.040 said about the women that i date you are so by your go ahead by your standard of what a transaction 0.99

00:18:39.680 is which i think is the dumbest thing i've ever heard in my life this is a transaction i'm giving 1.00

00:18:44.240 you my time which you probably look at oh my god okay you suck his ass cga i do believe hold on 1.00

00:18:50.080 stop interrupting me bro i'm not let me let me jump in let me jump in please listen they can 1.00

00:18:57.680 mute both of your mics back there listen to me listen to me you interrupted him you started it 0.65

00:19:05.540 i hate these people they can mute your mics they can stop you're gonna have a hard i'm not done 0.75

00:19:11.320 i'm not i'm not gonna find out it's a transaction really quickly are you gonna be quiet i know i'm 0.92

00:19:16.320 not very tall but hey listen i can have them just mute mute your mics on either each other's side

00:19:21.720 yeah you can't you can't you gotta just do it so that this way it doesn't even matter if you say 1.00

00:19:26.780 stupid shit in between. It's just going to be locked out. Let's talk about the transaction 1.00

00:19:31.340 thing that you mentioned. By your standard of what a transaction is, you had made the case that

00:19:37.640 if you're spending time with a woman, that's a transaction. What if you're spending time with a 0.89

00:19:41.700 man? What if you want to be friends with a man? What about the wonderful time that we're spending

00:19:46.060 together right now? What about family? So by your own standard of time, you think of time as a

00:19:53.120 transaction. When I'm spending time with a woman, if I'm dating her or if she's my friend,

00:19:58.780 I'm enjoying myself. And I don't think of it as a transaction. I think of it as

00:20:02.320 we're having a fun time together. So your time isn't worth anything.

00:20:05.440 Or maybe we're going out to see a show. Maybe we're going to dinner. Maybe I want to get to

00:20:08.560 know that person. I don't think of everything as a transaction like you do. And I think it's

00:20:13.060 very sad that you think that way. And I would also go as far as to say, you had called me

00:20:19.680 closed-minded you make gross generalizations about all women people and dating yes people

00:20:26.880 okay fine people i don't just okay i don't just talk about women fine people you seem to be the

00:20:31.220 one caping for them well because you tell men and you try you never talked about the tweets 0.98

00:20:35.620 when you when you when you teach men cga cook his ass and how to date and i don't teach men 0.95

00:20:44.180 you try to what are you a coach of what are you a coach you're making an assumption did you do 0.98

00:20:48.160 your research you call yourself coach you did not do your research can i can i i wasn't finished

00:20:52.620 though can i just finish i'll go for it i wasn't i'll fill in the blanks for you so so you don't

00:20:55.920 need to fill in any blanks to me okay well you're close-minded you're close-minded i think you're

00:21:02.000 close-minded okay okay and you make an assumption that somehow i'm dating women that are not

00:21:07.880 attractive because i disagree with you that is the definition of what a close men that think 0.99

00:21:13.800 can act like you tend to get chopped to bitches. It just is what it is. I'm kind of chopped. 0.99

00:21:18.580 So I know it takes one to know what was minded person is you call yourself a coach. I assumed,

00:21:25.080 Oh, does he coach a football team? Does he coach a basketball team? Who exactly is he coaching?

00:21:29.780 Because you had that failed marriage. And because you think that you understand how women think, 1.00

00:21:35.100 and you think you get the dating game, you think that that makes you some sort of coach.

00:21:39.600 it doesn't make you a coach okay doesn't make you a coach at all the fact of the matter is 0.88

00:21:44.200 i don't tell you what to do i don't try to teach you what to do if you want to date sluts or you 1.00

00:21:50.520 want to date women that come up to you and say let's fuck because don't get me wrong you're such 1.00

00:21:54.260 an incredible looking guy i'm sure women left and right just want to fuck you everywhere mr coach 1.00

00:21:58.360 but i don't tell i don't want to date people like that okay that's my choice and i don't tell you 0.99

00:22:04.380 coach i don't say coach you're dating the wrong way let me mentor you let me get you to find

00:22:10.640 better women that aren't going to think everything is a transaction like you do i don't know because 1.00

00:22:14.680 i think that would actually be a better woman the point being i don't tell you what to do

00:22:18.220 i don't tell you what to do okay so was there a question in there yeah i'm trying to no i i didn't 0.99

00:22:24.820 ask you a question i'm responding to all the stupid shit that you just said you want me what 0.97

00:22:29.020 do you want now what do i don't want a transaction if that's what you think i'm asking for i don't 1.00

00:22:33.440 So what do you want me to do?

00:22:34.680 So everything in life is a transaction to you.

00:22:36.600 Is that your point, sir?

00:22:37.780 Very intelligent take. 1.00

00:22:39.240 So every woman that hangs out with a man, it's a transaction. 0.99

00:22:42.520 It can't just possibly be that a man wants to get to know a woman and get to know her and see if they have things in common other than fucking. 0.99

00:22:49.920 Everything in your mind is about money and everything about you is a transaction. 1.00

00:22:56.300 So insufferable.

00:22:57.180 I know.

00:22:57.460 You don't like what I'm saying.

00:22:59.040 Well, hold on.

00:22:59.780 Hold on a second.

00:23:00.660 Let me.

00:23:01.540 I'll fill in the blanks for you.

00:23:02.640 Hold on.

00:23:02.960 Give me one thing that I'll fill in the transactional blanks.

00:23:06.360 So that's what Coach was trying to explain to you, that transaction is not just money-based.

00:23:11.620 He said money, energy, attention, and time.

00:23:13.560 Sure.

00:23:14.120 Meat was the acronym.

00:23:15.460 So he's saying that it's transactional by the very understanding of what transaction is, definitionally, right?

00:23:24.340 So even our conversation right here, this is transactional.

00:23:27.720 Sure.

00:23:28.080 Right?

00:23:29.080 We're transacting business right now.

00:23:30.780 Right. We're all in a transaction right now.

00:23:33.740 If I went out on a date with a guy tonight, that would technically be transactional by definition.

00:23:37.700 Yeah, but this is why I disagree.

00:23:39.100 So this is why I disagree with that.

00:23:40.840 Okay, he's going on for about five minutes now.

00:23:43.380 Can I talk about something?

00:23:44.560 That's probably longer than some of your dates.

00:23:47.400 So, yeah. 1.00

00:23:48.720 But I thought I got attractive women. 1.00

00:23:49.980 I think you wanted to. 1.00

00:23:50.840 No, I think you date moles. 1.00

00:23:51.620 Oh, my God. 0.86

00:23:52.100 I think you wanted to go into the idea of what you coach.

00:23:55.440 Can I see one of these?

00:23:55.960 Because that's what you wanted to.

00:23:57.120 Can you autograph one of these books for me?

00:23:58.640 I can't wait to read it.

00:23:59.620 use it as toilet paper okay so that's what i think about your books and that's what i think

00:24:05.220 about all of your opinions this is good let's let him let's let him explain what he does coach and

00:24:10.960 then we can have a better understanding going for coach me the one thing is it's funny and ironic

00:24:15.640 that you're saying i'm not qualified to coach people but you seem to be qualified to coach me

00:24:20.280 absolutely not how did that happen absolutely now here's let me go back my background did include

00:24:26.080 me being a coach and my name came from that coaching background i never changed the name

00:24:31.440 i had that name on youtube even before i started talking about this so this is my background and

00:24:37.460 that's why they call me coach what's your background if you don't mind me asking i coached

00:24:41.320 athletics all right track and field basketball high school level or high school and i'm just

00:24:45.640 asking so that's where you got the name from that's where i got the name from it's been my name

00:24:50.280 since i was 19 years old okay so i had that website domain since i was 19 since 2007 on youtube i had

00:24:58.760 that as a domain name so that's why it still stood there so you made a lot of assumptions and you were

00:25:04.680 wrong unfortunately what was i wrong about you said that you didn't understand why i would be

00:25:09.300 named a coach and i just cleared that up but when i said you understand that doesn't mean i'm wrong

00:25:13.900 Hold on for a second.

00:25:14.940 Hold on for a second.

00:25:15.780 Let me finish.

00:25:16.460 Let me finish.

00:25:17.520 Going back to the time aspect, Chief clearly was eloquently able to state that this is obviously a transaction in a multitude of ways.

00:25:25.020 Just because it is, that doesn't define the entire relationship.

00:25:29.400 I am getting to know a person, but it's still transactional.

00:25:32.980 So just because I say it's transactional doesn't mean that I'm not willing to get to know the person.

00:25:38.680 Finally, so I can move this forward, there's something called a social battery.

00:25:43.900 That means that when people socialize with someone, they're transacting so much, they may get tired.

00:25:50.280 Some people will get tired earlier.

00:25:52.040 Some people's social battery is longer.

00:25:54.580 This pretty much tells you that when they socialize, whether it's with a man or a woman,

00:26:00.600 your friends, your man and a man, that there is some sort of energy time aspect that is happening here

00:26:06.400 that makes a person tired or less willing to do it.

00:26:09.860 If I'm sitting at home in my pajamas at 9 p.m. and my friend says, male friend, hey, you want to come out?

00:26:17.500 I'm automatically going to go, do I want to be out until 2 in the morning?

00:26:20.580 Do I want to spend time with these people?

00:26:23.300 That puts the transaction in there.

00:26:25.940 That doesn't define the relationship.

00:26:28.040 That doesn't make it negative.

00:26:29.960 But it exists.

00:26:31.500 And I think where you're messed up is that you think that I'm talking about women being some sort of gold digger.

00:26:37.160 When I'm saying that, all aspects of communication in people is transactional.

00:26:42.920 What people think and get offended by is that when I add the woman, you want to put on your superhero cape and go super seance simp and think I'm attacking women.

00:26:51.520 When I'm actually trying to show men that there's going to be a transaction nonetheless.

00:26:56.120 Yeah, so first of all, I'm a simp for him.

00:26:58.260 He's cooking.

00:26:59.160 He's absolutely cooking. 0.98

00:27:00.260 And this guy is lame. 1.00

00:27:01.620 Women beings. 1.00

00:27:02.120 So if you want to call me a simp for both men and women, you can go ahead and do that.

00:27:05.300 I haven't heard you defend me. 0.96

00:27:06.140 Okay, okay.

00:27:06.780 Well, I'm not going to defend you because I don't think you're a man.

00:27:10.540 But with that being said, with that being said, sir, here's what I think.

00:27:15.440 Here's what I think.

00:27:16.100 Can I finish now?

00:27:16.940 Because I'm obviously a man.

00:27:17.760 I don't care what you think about him.

00:27:19.200 Are you going to let me finish?

00:27:20.620 Why are you getting so defensive?

00:27:21.960 All right.

00:27:22.460 I'm defensive.

00:27:24.180 It's my turn now to talk.

00:27:26.640 I can't see your neck with your white beard.

00:27:29.000 You look like Santa Claus. 0.63

00:27:30.140 You got veins pointing out your neck.

00:27:30.820 All right, Santa Claus, calm down.

00:27:32.220 Don't spray out.

00:27:33.560 Look at your face.

00:27:35.140 Look at your chest.

00:27:35.960 Look at your face.

00:27:36.800 Do I look flustered?

00:27:37.460 You're a five-foot-tall Hercules.

00:27:39.220 Be quiet. 0.94

00:27:40.060 Let me tell you.

00:27:40.460 Are we done?

00:27:41.120 Let me tell you.

00:27:41.680 Are we done?

00:27:43.820 I guess you want me to take my clothes off.

00:27:46.040 I guess you want me to take my clothes off.

00:27:47.560 Look at this guy right here.

00:27:48.640 I can just interrupt me again.

00:27:50.420 Look at your chest.

00:27:51.160 I want both of you to look at me for a moment.

00:27:53.580 I know we're having fun.

00:27:54.700 Look at my arms.

00:27:55.600 Look at you.

00:27:55.960 No.

00:27:56.360 You are the most insecure.

00:27:58.220 Is that a beard?

00:27:59.100 All right.

00:27:59.720 All right.

00:28:00.260 All right.

00:28:00.880 Hey, take your hat off. 1.00

00:28:01.860 Let me see that head. 1.00

00:28:03.240 Let me see that.

00:28:04.200 Look at you.

00:28:04.760 All right.

00:28:04.900 All right. 1.00

00:28:04.960 You want to talk about physical appearance, you f**k. 0.99

00:28:06.960 Oh, I'm a what? 1.00

00:28:07.960 Yes, you're a f**k. 1.00

00:28:08.960 You are a f**king douche man. 1.00

00:28:09.960 Excuse me. 1.00

00:28:10.960 You're a mole. 1.00

00:28:11.960 You're a mole. 1.00

00:28:12.960 Look at you. 1.00

00:28:13.960 Look at you.

00:28:14.960 Why are you four feet tall?

00:28:15.960 I'm good.

00:28:16.960 Oh, now I'm four. 0.94

00:28:17.960 Okay, take that hat off and show me your stomach and see what happens. 0.83

00:28:19.960 Why do you want me to take my clothes off?

00:28:20.960 I'm a coach, son.

00:28:21.960 Are you done?

00:28:22.960 Are you done?

00:28:23.960 Let's see how far you can run.

00:28:24.960 Let's see what's going on.

00:28:25.960 I need a bow.

00:28:26.960 Coach wants me to take my clothes off.

00:28:28.960 Hey, look at your beard.

00:28:30.960 Coach wants me to take my clothes off.

00:28:32.960 I have a mustache with your beard.

00:28:34.580 What is this going on here?

00:28:36.500 He would talk to his ex-wife, and that's what simps do.

00:28:41.080 They have no balance.

00:28:42.220 She's with a real man now, isn't she?

00:28:43.980 I don't think so.

00:28:44.460 We have other people.

00:28:45.520 She called you the two-second man. 1.00

00:28:46.940 Let's talk to your ex-wife, Mr. Testosterone. 1.00

00:28:49.420 Let's talk to your ex-wife, Mr. Testosterone. 1.00

00:28:51.500 You want to see testosterone? 1.00

00:28:52.480 Yeah, let me see the mole razzle.

00:28:54.300 Do we just want to?

00:28:55.440 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. 1.00

00:28:57.460 Let me see your stomach. 1.00

00:29:00.580 Let's show me your ex-wife. 1.00

00:29:01.580 this is so retarded hey show me your ex-boy let's go fat boy let's see a picture let's 1.00

00:29:05.740 show pictures listen let me see your stuff no let's just show no hold on you're the one 0.98

00:29:09.900 commenting on my body first no we're just talking about your physical appearance you said i was a

00:29:13.420 handsome beautiful man that obviously that was a compliment that was a compliment not compliments

00:29:17.660 this body look at this guy all right are we gonna get serious now because i'll wait i'll wait until 0.99

00:29:21.900 your ex-wife said your cock is all wrinkled up it's only gonna take one are we gonna oh can we 0.99

00:29:26.060 get back to the serious stuff now i don't even take you seriously okay well i don't take you 0.99

00:29:29.420 seriously thank you we both agree hey but you're here for me just so i can let you know yeah i'm

00:29:33.900 here for 15 minutes bro i never heard of you before today your 15 minutes is over oh really

00:29:37.660 let's go it's not over for me here's why you you said let me explain to you why it's not over for

00:29:41.660 me come on first of all okay my god i've never seen you oh are you gonna let me talk stop it

00:29:47.020 are you gonna let me talk you've been talking the whole time ninja i'm just a woman come on

00:29:51.900 i know you guys are having so much fun and i know it's all good clippable entertainment i'm

00:29:57.180 But it comes to a point where it's, okay, too much, all right?

00:30:02.300 I want to respond to what he said.

00:30:03.700 If we need to just show these pictures now and call it a day, I'm down with doing that.

00:30:07.580 Otherwise, otherwise, get serious because there's other people in line.

00:30:11.400 No, I want to respond to what you said.

00:30:12.280 You should have a time limit anyway.

00:30:13.700 Go ahead.

00:30:14.600 Are you done?

00:30:16.160 Can I respond now?

00:30:17.420 Please.

00:30:17.820 Because every single time I start.

00:30:19.040 Let's get this over with, man.

00:30:19.620 Come on, man.

00:30:20.260 I'm ready to get you out of here.

00:30:21.260 The second I walked, first of all, you're not getting me out of anywhere, bro.

00:30:23.580 You don't tell me what to do.

00:30:24.480 Now you want to stay.

00:30:25.300 You don't tell me what to do.

00:30:26.420 Now you want to stay?

00:30:26.580 i'm in here for i know what it is i'm here for i'm here for 15 minutes and then i'm leaving

00:30:31.340 ladies here want to come in and talk okay so be quiet let me respond you keep interrupting for 0.91

00:30:36.040 you so be quiet shut up question shut up last question okay so first of all let me tell you 0.98

00:30:41.920 what i think is messed up because that's the word that you had used your idea of dating at your age 0.98

00:30:48.020 and i don't know how old you are and i really don't care but i would assume you're older than

00:30:52.120 me your idea of of of dating today is a woman should just go up to a man or a man should just 0.99

00:30:57.860 go up to a woman and say do you want to fuck that's what you just said now you want to talk 0.99

00:31:03.440 to me about the definition of what's fucked up that's the language of a 15 year old guy okay 1.00

00:31:08.580 you're a grown man now if that's just this nagging oh the nagging you're objective and you just want 0.98

00:31:16.120 to fuck it's a free world and with all respect you have the right to do that i wouldn't tell 0.99

00:31:20.300 you would do it that's the kind of woman you want or that's the kind of dating lifestyle you have 1.00

00:31:24.880 do you want to fuck okay congratulations i wish you the best of luck you're not the person that 0.99

00:31:30.240 should be giving other people advice on how to date that's what i think is quote messed up and 1.00

00:31:35.780 it's not a simp as you use the word you're probably myron gains 2.0 coping do you think

00:31:41.340 women are second class citizens do myron okay never put me in this class that doesn't make

00:31:45.140 you better put me in this doesn't make you better than him anyway so the reason why myron looks up

00:31:48.640 to people like you is because you're a misogynist and you like to categorize women as one thing

00:31:55.240 Myron thinks women are second-class citizens. I don't care what Myron thinks. Please move on to

00:31:59.420 me. You're here for me. You're here for me. He looks up to people like you. I'm not here for

00:32:04.060 me. I'm here for my friend Sean. Mike Adams on this board right here. Let me be very clear.

00:32:08.500 I'm here for my friend Sean. He's a good dude. He does a very good show. I could give two fucks

00:32:13.620 about you. I'm not here for you. Now, you can date any way you want to. Thank you. You can end 0.99

00:32:18.780 the story. You can live. Oh, you want to end it now, huh? You want to end it now. The second I

00:32:22.980 walked in, you said put them on a time limit. You're afraid of people like me, Archie. You're a fraud. You're a fraud. You're a fraud. How many books have you sold? How many? Let's go back to what you're talking about. You can go on Amazon. How successful are you? I bet it's a bestseller. It's a bestseller. Listen, listen, listen. All right. Let's go back to what you said. How to be a mole. How to be a mole by coach. Yeah. Here for me. You're here for me. You're here for me.

00:32:43.520 He looks up to people like, I'm not here for you, I'm here for my...

00:32:46.100 Listen, I'm listening. 0.99

00:32:46.900 How many fucking books answer the question? 0.99

00:32:48.920 How many books have you written and read? 1.00

00:32:50.680 None, none.

00:32:51.300 So what?

00:32:52.000 You haven't even read books and you're asking me how many I sold.

00:32:53.280 I'm on national television every day. 1.00

00:32:54.920 Who the fuck are you? 1.00

00:32:55.360 But nobody knows who you are. 1.00

00:32:56.620 Oh, no, a lot of people know who I am.

00:32:58.240 Literally nobody knows who you are.

00:33:00.100 These guys have such big egos.

00:33:01.700 I hate professional talkers.

00:33:04.120 A lot of people know who I am.

00:33:05.280 I'm not here for you.

00:33:05.840 I'm here for my friend Sean.

00:33:06.620 Can I tell you something?

00:33:07.280 Can I tell you something?

00:33:07.760 No, no, you can't.

00:33:08.140 Okay, so why are you here?

00:33:09.020 all right um i think i'm done with this all right guys i love you thank you so much for watching if

00:33:14.420 you can please like the video and subscribe to the channel um bring that notification bell

00:33:19.700 and uh i'll see you next time

Pearl - October 03, 2026

Red Pill Coach Gets ATTACKED for Saying Dating Is Transactional

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