Pearl - Single Moms Are Forever Stuck With An L

00:00:00.000 mom life is hard now you're at the gym but it's like if you're at the gym why aren't you working

00:00:04.700 i thought what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to single mothers

00:00:10.420 living in poverty so america has gotten so expensive that you really i don't want to say

00:00:15.240 you need two incomes but if you're in a like major metropolitan area it's pretty difficult

00:00:20.440 to not survive on two incomes and really this is normal for all of history most women

00:00:25.100 they always did work um peasants worked like 10 12 hour days um but for some reason now women

00:00:32.200 believe they're above it you know and on top of that single women are in poverty because you need

00:00:38.580 two incomes so anyways let's i don't want to cry i don't want to cry brian on the end means she's

00:00:45.020 for sale a single mom to one toddler i got no sympathy so crazy to say don't no sympathy give

00:00:52.920 in a second oh goodness gracious cry cry like my life is crashing down right now and sometimes you

00:01:02.080 need a little crash out give me this is the morning after our conversation and i spent most

00:01:08.540 of the night just filling out a ton of job applications because i've been a stay-at-home

00:01:12.960 mom and previous to being a mom i was a stay-at-home wife so i've tried to put him in daycare in this

00:01:18.260 area before and it just did not work out it was it was honestly horrible so i'm limited to jobs

00:01:25.200 i filled out jobs where i could either work from home and you can stay home so i've done nanny jobs

00:01:29.480 i was a nanny for a little bit and i was able to bring my son with me to work which is which would

00:01:33.960 be great that's actually a great it's a great gig actually if you're a single mom if you can just

00:01:39.860 give suggestions and like like job suggestions yeah it's usually women's problems usually it's

00:01:46.340 not making it's usually spending too much not making too little you know what i mean yeah i

00:01:52.560 can't even believe i'm doing this right now like i'm making a video like this any advice that you

00:01:57.240 guys have would be awesome all right spend less money okay who's next i'm gonna do a quick story

00:02:04.900 time and reply and get with your baby get back with your baby daddy you know i said this message

00:02:11.080 right here quick story time eight years ago i was diagnosed with terminal cancer my husband

00:02:17.960 of 16 years at the time um three months later filed for divorce and emptied our bank accounts

00:02:25.800 he left me with 25 to my name and told me to go get a job while i was battling terminal cancer

00:02:32.800 and i had a son to take care of what did you do to make him men are typically benevolent so when

00:02:38.500 women women tell me a horror story like that i'm like you must have been a real piece of work

00:02:43.460 for him to be driven to that so my message to you is just because you're currently going through

00:02:52.020 this difficult time in this season of your life it doesn't mean that you have maxed out

00:02:58.660 or you have reached your final destination so keep going the the video that i posted is about

00:03:04.980 keeping the energy moving around even though i was going through all that in my mind my pockets were

00:03:11.780 in shambles right i couldn't even afford to pay attention but in my mind i knew if i could just

00:03:20.260 get over that hump that i would be okay that everything that i lost would be restored and more

00:03:26.820 and it was um so keep going keep moving around it's not about spending money it's about going

00:03:36.320 outside letting the sun recharge your batteries go ground go get some fresh air go take a walk

00:03:42.220 around your neighborhood go on a hike go work out go lay in your backyard sit on your porch

00:03:47.460 in a rocking chair and just think and write down your plan on how you're gonna get out of the

00:03:53.720 situation that you're in, manifest the life that you want. I like how it's manifest the life that

00:03:58.420 you want and it's never work harder, do more. So keep going, get the energy moving around

00:04:06.980 and you're going to be okay. You're going to be okay. I'm going to do it. All right, let's see

00:04:11.880 who's next. What up guys? My name is Pearl Davis. I have a YouTube show and I'm a cultural

00:04:17.360 commentator. If your wife, girlfriend, or situationship is acting up, you can hire me

00:04:22.760 to make a personalized video to break the news. I can tell her to lose weight, stop being a bitch,

00:04:27.960 stop spending too much money, get back in the kitchen, or stop being a whore.

00:04:31.960 Is your buddy simping for an overweight mid? I will tell him to stop contributing to Hoflation

00:04:37.800 today. Find me on Shoutout. For only $2.99, you can put your wife in her place today,

00:04:43.800 and you can get your friends to stop simping. Homeless single mom. I survived.

00:04:49.160 homeless single mom how'd you get in that situation 145 every two weeks that's why are

00:04:55.720 i just don't understand why are fat women like if you're homeless why are you fat i don't get

00:05:02.580 child support no steady help just me all right well who did you have a kid with i stretch every

00:05:07.700 dollar like it's magic they're always begging for money don't have a village i don't have backup

00:05:13.640 i don't get to fall apart some days i cry in silence because i still have to show up and be

00:05:19.600 strong for my son i wake up and i figure it out all over again even when i have no idea how

00:05:25.380 people scroll past stories like my every day but this is my real life here now she's gonna ask for

00:05:32.040 money it's not just hard it's heartbreaking but i keep going and it's not because i want look at

00:05:39.640 is the point of this tick tock i am so awesome i'm overcoming this terrible thing like people

00:05:46.120 are narcissistic that post stuff like that too but it's because i have to my child is counting on me

00:05:52.680 at the end of the day and quitting too okay again you were irresponsible um like worst case i

00:05:59.720 understand you know having being a single mother sometimes that just happens right it does that

00:06:05.800 does happen um sometimes well-meaning people just cannot get along so anyways now that we know this

00:06:13.480 why are we um like you should have a kid with someone that you know at least would stick around

00:06:19.800 that would help you as long as you're a reasonable person that's never been an option i might be

00:06:24.920 struggling but i'm not done god is still writing my story my god will not save you from your poor

00:06:31.080 decisions he gave us free real free will oh my gosh look at this back the link true for the link

00:06:36.360 to my other platforms i'll go later tick tock i like how she's laying in bed yeah how are you

00:06:43.000 laying in bed like it's just incredible i don't see you working oh my god oh i was like did she

00:06:48.920 did she have a valentine that's incredible get back to the gym life is hard now you're at the

00:06:54.280 gym but it's like if you're at the gym why aren't you working i thought it's just incredible actually

00:06:59.320 this is pretty clean for a black person all right well all right let's see what's next the way i

00:07:04.680 look oh i just saw a new gray hair anyways excuse the way i look this is just what i look like

00:07:11.000 there is no excuse for it i need to vent about something because like there are some people that

00:07:15.720 just really annoy me and i don't i feel like not enough people get upset about this maybe it's just

00:07:21.080 me but i feel like more people should be talking about this if you come from generational wealth

00:07:27.640 um and you can't relate to what it's like to struggle financially i just think as a woman

00:07:35.360 like you can always be a hooker i know it's not ideal like we don't want to be a hooker

00:07:39.700 but men don't get that choice so really we gotta you know we we gotta be honest here

00:07:46.600 that men have it a lot harder so if you're gonna say oh rich people can't say anything well women

00:07:52.220 shouldn't be able to say anything before they can get married you can find a simp you can be a

00:07:56.760 hooker you know love of all things good and holy can you just please stop trying to give people

00:08:02.320 motivational pep talks about reaching their goals or achieving their dream okay i do i i don't think

00:08:10.600 women women are the ones that do that so it's got to be men memes if like you just have to

00:08:16.480 prioritize it people ask me all the time how i'm able to travel it's just because it's something

00:08:21.520 that I prioritize on credit card debt if you can't relate to what it's like to struggle financially

00:08:28.180 okay so for instance if your parents took you on nice vacations if your parents paid for your

00:08:34.180 schooling if your parents paid for your wedding if your parents helped you get a down payment for

00:08:39.900 a house or gave you a down payment for your house if you then got married and you and your husband

00:08:45.280 both had really good jobs and you never had to worry about buying your kids clothes or buying

00:08:50.460 your kid's shoes or paying for music lessons or any extracurricular activity if you ever had to

00:08:58.320 save for a really long time to take a really small vacation if those are not things that

00:09:06.240 you can't relate to then respectfully respectfully shut up okay telling me that that trip to the

00:09:14.240 Bahamas is just there waiting for me if you know I would just drink less iced coffee and nobody

00:09:20.380 is missing out on a cruise yeah that's that's how i feel i actually okay she's flipped me she's

00:09:26.080 flipped me i agree with her it's a lot of women that do that women do not work hard compared to

00:09:31.140 men and a lot of women are influencers say oh just work really hard and it's like you're you

00:09:36.500 talk for a living right i do too i love it but let's let's understand where we're at in the you

00:09:42.540 know the hierarchy of hard jobs because they go to seven brew too much okay she's kind of funny

00:09:48.600 I work with my hands a lot and that means you know my hands and my fingers going into small

00:09:55.180 tight spaces. I work with boxes and small boxes and one of the downsides of that is I get my

00:10:05.560 cuticles get pushed back a lot and you can kind of see right now I have a cut that went into my

00:10:10.260 nail bed and into my cuticle. I get those often and sometimes they get infected and they're swollen

00:10:16.400 and sore and it's annoying so last night i had that my thumb was really bothering me it was really

00:10:22.440 sore and i wanted to put some neosporin and a band-aid on it so i could sleep in it and i

00:10:29.680 realized that we didn't have any band-aids so i went through the thought process like actively

00:10:35.500 thinking okay so next time i get paid i need to remember to buy band-aids so all right she needs

00:10:43.420 gets the point okay yeah i agree with her she's it looks like she likes to cry on camera though

00:10:48.100 look at this yeah so i mean you should grow out your hair and get married so you're you actually

00:10:53.760 have a cute face so you should grow out your hair and you can find a man to help you so so anyways

00:10:59.140 guys um let me know what you think of the comments i love you thank you so much for supporting me

00:11:02.660 all right i'll see you next time

Pearl - March 03, 2026

Single Moms Are Forever Stuck With An L

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