Pearl - “Single Moms Keep Bringing ABUSIVE Men Around Their Children” @JustPearlyThings

00:00:00.000 to one of my abusive stepfathers today and it was fucking weird the universe just decided to throw 0.94

00:00:06.480 me a curveball because i was supposed to go to therapy but had to reschedule because one of my 0.70

00:00:11.200 wife's family members ended up in the icu so we were going sorry but however i had to stop and get

00:00:15.920 gas these gas prices and as i was walking into the quick trip this old man on this little miniature

00:00:21.520 motorcycle came riding past me and we locked eyes and he recognized me so he turned around

00:00:27.520 growing up i knew this guy is i love dave because my mom dated a lot of dave's

00:00:32.720 which is really weird there was like a fat dave a machinist dave this is what i mean

00:00:36.400 it's rotating men in and out of these kids lives it's not good for the children and it's confusing

00:00:41.040 like and you know i can just really excited nannies and it wasn't good for me as a kid to

00:00:45.680 have these like rotating caretakers in and out of my life it was really sad you either love them or

00:00:50.720 you hate them if you love them you're so sad when they leave if you hate them then it's like hell 0.53

00:00:55.760 on earth like your every day at home is hell on earth waiting for this nanny to leave dave there's 0.54

00:01:01.520 a lot of daves but this one specifically used to be a meth head and he beat the out of me 0.70

00:01:07.440 i'm talking broken nose which is what that scar is from and why my nose lays over like that

00:01:12.240 he went to prison for trying to kidnap my mom knife point not a nice guy and i had such a weird

00:01:18.080 flooding of emotions standing there talking to him about nothing a lot of memories came back

00:01:25.760 It was just really weird because I wasn't afraid of him anymore.

00:01:29.780 I actually felt sorry for him because he's 76 years old and he's borrowing somebody's

00:01:34.680 miniature motorcycle.

00:01:36.540 He still lives in a trailer park.

00:01:38.820 He still does tattoos out of his kitchen.

00:01:41.120 His teeth are rotting out of his head and he just seems unhappy.

00:01:45.620 So I guess he got the light. 1.00

00:01:47.060 I mean, that's the type of woman that we pick. 1.00

00:01:49.300 They always say women want six, six, six, but yet we pick meth heads. 1.00

00:01:53.420 Don't listen to us.

00:01:54.460 We're not serious people.

00:01:55.760 if that he deserved and i do feel bad for him but i feel happy for me because i don't live like that

00:02:02.960 anymore and i don't live in fear my children live in a nice home with a present father who loves 0.98

00:02:10.300 them you don't think the cycle of abuses i think that it's an asshole father or stepdad that beats 0.98

00:02:16.200 the f out of the mom and is just awful to the mother so then the kids identify with the mother 0.98

00:02:21.500 even though a lot of times the mother brings out the evil out of the father so then but all the 0.67

00:02:25.920 kids believe the mother and they feel bad so then a bunch of super simps are raised and that's how

00:02:29.740 that's how that's the society we have is before the mothers weren't were beat you know maybe the

00:02:35.480 men were allowed to beat their wives and it was better for the kids but then um the you know the

00:02:40.160 kids saw the mom get beat and they thought the dad was bad but really she probably deserved it

00:02:43.940 where now um we wish that our mothers got beat a little bit it would have made everything more

00:02:49.020 peaceful you know so anyways

Pearl - September 26, 2026