Pearl - August 16, 2025


STD Friday Recap： Trich Is Actually Not That Bad!？


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00:00:00.000 And that way you can have sex with him, but just know you are going to be the girl that
00:00:04.540 is in the background.
00:00:06.160 It's STD Friday.
00:00:08.200 So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
00:00:11.580 It's Friday, so you know what that means.
00:00:13.840 It is STD Friday, where we at Pearl Daily have the conversations that nobody wants to
00:00:19.920 have, the conversations about STDs in the current dating market.
00:00:24.100 We've gone over HIV, herpes, chlamydia, syphilis, HPV, and now we're going to go over TRIC
00:00:31.600 and uroplasma.
00:00:33.360 Why am I covering these?
00:00:34.660 Because in the current dating market, women are sexually liberated and believe that they
00:00:38.860 can have sex like men.
00:00:40.820 The average 25-year-old girl has way more sex than the average 25-year-old guy today.
00:00:46.280 These women are sleeping with a small percentage of guys, and if one of those guys has a disease,
00:00:51.740 it usually means that all of them have it.
00:00:53.360 Men, you have to be safe out here.
00:00:55.500 Wear a condom and stay away from hypersexual and promiscuous women.
00:01:00.800 Usually, if a woman looks like she's the type of girl that has herpes or gonorrhea, you
00:01:04.900 can't really know because all these hoes have it.
00:01:10.160 Sometimes it's the women you think.
00:01:11.940 Sometimes it's the women you don't, truly.
00:01:14.240 So I first want to talk about TRIC.
00:01:16.500 TRIC is an infection caused by a parasite called Trichomonas vaginalis.
00:01:24.460 It's transmitted through the vaginal, anal, or oral sex and can be spread via shared sex
00:01:30.320 toys as well.
00:01:31.800 The symptoms for women include itching, burning, redness, unusual vaginal discharge, and discomfort
00:01:38.780 during urination and sex.
00:01:40.260 Symptoms for men include men being asymptomatic or burning in the genital area after urination
00:01:51.060 and after ejaculation.
00:01:52.860 It's estimated that over 2 million people in the United States have TRIC at a given time.
00:01:57.520 If including the undiagnosed, that number could go up to 3.7 million.
00:02:02.540 2% of the women in the United States currently have TRIC, while 0.5% of men do.
00:02:09.800 Treatment plans usually include a single dose of an antibiotic.
00:02:15.340 Trichomoniasis.
00:02:16.100 These little critters here that we see swimming across the slide when we do a genital swab
00:02:20.200 looking for STIs.
00:02:21.840 They are mobile little creatures.
00:02:23.740 It's literally a protozoan parasite that loves living in the lower genital tract.
00:02:28.280 It likes to live in the vagina or the front hole.
00:02:30.340 It also likes to live in the penis, not so much the rectum, though.
00:02:34.120 TRIC is super common, but only about 30% of people have symptoms.
00:02:37.640 So even if nothing is going on downstairs, you may still want to get checked out.
00:02:41.640 In a penis, symptoms can be itching, burning while peeing, general discomfort, or even
00:02:45.320 a discharge coming out of the penis.
00:02:46.980 If you have female anatomy and have symptoms, you'll probably have a clear yellow to green
00:02:51.420 discharge, sometimes with an odor, sometimes not.
00:02:54.260 Some people refer to it as a little bit fishy, similar to BV.
00:02:57.080 Also, you may notice irritation and redness of your genitals and pain during sex.
00:03:02.860 If you're suspicious you have it or you want to be screened for it, testing is super easy.
00:03:06.360 You can either get a swab of your genitals or pee in a cup.
00:03:09.180 And treating it is as simple as taking pills.
00:03:11.540 And once you've taken the entire course of medication, the trick goes away completely.
00:03:15.500 It does not live with you forever.
00:03:16.920 It is a temporary infection, not a forever disease.
00:03:20.560 Yeah, so in my research on these, I don't think the, like, you know, I'm not one to pick
00:03:26.980 STDs.
00:03:27.780 Obviously, you want none of them.
00:03:29.840 But like, you know what I mean?
00:03:32.600 Gun to my head.
00:03:34.460 If I had, out of the ones we've covered, if I had to get one, I think these are the ones
00:03:43.160 I would pick, to be honest.
00:03:45.600 Now, obviously, you want none.
00:03:48.340 But like, if there was a gun to my head, yeah, I think these two I would pick.
00:03:53.360 They don't seem, and I'll get into why.
00:03:56.320 Okay, so if you guys are following my...
00:03:58.000 Yeah, maybe you could call it and tell me.
00:04:00.100 If you had to have an STD, which one would you get?
00:04:02.940 A story, then you know that I got diagnosed with, shit, what's it called, trichomonas,
00:04:09.580 whatever, trich, people call it.
00:04:12.740 It's an STI, sexual transmitted infection.
00:04:16.560 You can also catch it from, like, moist places, like pools, things like that, they say.
00:04:21.360 But I know that I got this.
00:04:24.100 I'm pretty sure that I got this three years ago or, like, in 2020 during my relapse.
00:04:30.340 And that's why I've been so fucking sick this whole time.
00:04:34.880 I just felt like something was off.
00:04:36.400 But this is my question.
00:04:39.420 If you guys ever had an infection or something like that, can that make you totally on edge?
00:04:45.840 Like, the last couple years, I've totally changed.
00:04:48.020 I have no patience.
00:04:49.140 A lot of things, I just don't feel well, ever.
00:04:51.160 I thought there was mold in the house.
00:04:52.480 And now come to find out this.
00:04:54.320 So until the infection's cleared up, like, could it make me act a certain way or whatever?
00:04:58.800 Like, um, I don't know.
00:05:01.740 Let me see what they say.
00:05:04.380 I feel like that all the time.
00:05:06.360 Um, but it's because I've been on methadone.
00:05:11.160 I feel like long-term methadone causes some other health issues and infections.
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00:06:56.540 Hey, I work in sexual health, and I can definitely speak to TRIC in public restrooms.
00:07:03.180 So TRIC is a protozoan parasite that likes to swim around in warm, moist places.
00:07:07.940 It is passed around through schmizual activity, and that is why it's considered an STI.
00:07:13.480 TRIC's not going to hurt you in a serious way, but it does make your underbits mighty uncomfortable,
00:07:18.680 especially if you are natally female.
00:07:21.040 Now, for people with penises, it's much less uncomfortable, and often they don't have any symptoms.
00:07:26.200 Although it is true that theoretically, TRIC can be passed in a non-stimensional way,
00:07:31.180 like through wet towels and moist toilet seats, like not dry ones, but moist ones,
00:07:36.460 I work in a stimensional health clinic, and I sit on the same toilet seat as my patients
00:07:41.400 who are coming in to be treated for things like TRIC, like chlamydia, like gonorrhea.
00:07:45.720 And I have never had this infection.
00:07:47.960 Obviously, this is anecdotal.
00:07:49.940 However, that's how not worried I am about this.
00:07:53.600 Every patient I have ever seen and diagnosed with TRIC could trace it back to a specific partner.
00:07:59.780 So I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.
00:08:01.340 Go out there, use public restrooms, don't hold your pee in until you get home,
00:08:05.060 because that's way riskier than being on...
00:08:07.560 Yeah, I don't know who believes that you could get a sexual STD from like a public restroom.
00:08:18.160 That's kind of crazy.
00:08:20.120 Oh, wait.
00:08:20.800 Infections or supposedly have recurrent yeast...
00:08:22.440 A lot of women that have recurrent yeast and BV infections or supposedly have recurrent yeast
00:08:25.680 and BV infections are misdiagnosed when they actually have TRIC.
00:08:28.900 TRIC is short for trichomoniasis, and it is an STI, and it's parasitic.
00:08:33.020 When I go into the doctors, I don't know if this is like standard, I assume so,
00:08:37.460 because it's happened to me with every single doctor,
00:08:39.460 but I am immediately tested with my urine for chlamydia, gonorrhea, and TRIC.
00:08:44.260 In this stage of my life, with all the problems that I'm getting,
00:08:46.680 I am negative for all three of those, including TRIC, so that's not my problem.
00:08:50.740 However, if you are having all the symptoms of like...
00:08:53.800 Yeah, they don't normally test you for uroplasma or TRIC.
00:08:58.240 So if you do get tested, guys, I have heard there are free STD clinics.
00:09:04.780 Personally, I think you just go to Quest.
00:09:09.480 It is expensive, but you know, ladies, for the men, I mean, who cares, right?
00:09:15.380 We're the ones that have to suffer.
00:09:17.680 I know you guys could get some stuff, but like if I was a guy,
00:09:21.140 I'd just get tested once a year and call it a day.
00:09:23.520 But, you know, being a girl, three to six months in a relationship outside of a relationship,
00:09:29.380 I would just include that in your budget.
00:09:31.460 If you're poorer, I mean, twice a year is probably fine.
00:09:37.740 I mean, it doesn't seem like any of the STDs are going to make you infertile for...
00:09:42.860 It's usually longer.
00:09:44.620 Maybe if you sleep with someone really sketchy, as we do, you know,
00:09:49.400 maybe then you do it quarterly, or if you're a really big whore,
00:09:54.560 you know, you're sleeping with like a couple guys at the same time.
00:09:57.360 I'm not here to tell you how to live.
00:09:59.900 Obviously, the women that want to be whores are gonna.
00:10:02.940 If you're a big whore, I would really recommend quarterly.
00:10:06.700 I would.
00:10:08.700 If you're less of a whore, maybe twice a year.
00:10:12.340 If you're fat, I mean, you shouldn't be having sex.
00:10:16.280 You should be on the treadmill.
00:10:17.360 Well, that's where you should be.
00:10:19.800 So, do you know what I mean?
00:10:21.540 Like, if you're fat, I don't...
00:10:23.680 Like, why are you even going on dates?
00:10:25.620 You're gonna go on dates to eat and drink?
00:10:32.720 I guess, do you know what?
00:10:33.880 If you're gonna go on dates as a fat chick,
00:10:36.080 what I would do is I would tell you to go sleep with a guy that's in shape
00:10:41.600 and understand, right?
00:10:44.320 Because you gotta have sex.
00:10:45.500 Otherwise, you're gonna get kind of weird over time.
00:10:48.640 Like, you're gonna be, you know.
00:10:50.300 So, and obviously, you're a woman.
00:10:54.420 If you're listening, you're probably a whore anyways.
00:10:56.340 So, you're not a virgin.
00:10:57.520 So, if you gotta have sex with somebody,
00:10:58.820 this is what I would do strategically.
00:11:00.820 I would go find a guy that's in pretty decent shape and eats well, right?
00:11:05.320 And that way, you can have sex with him.
00:11:06.840 But just know you are going to be the girl that is in the background.
00:11:10.940 Like, he's not gonna take you out in public and you just gotta be okay with that.
00:11:15.080 But maybe you could ask him for advice.
00:11:17.320 Like, maybe sleep with a personal trainer or, like, a biker.
00:11:21.740 You know what I mean?
00:11:22.280 Just a guy that knows how to eat well, maybe a chef.
00:11:25.400 And then you can learn from him for, like, six months
00:11:28.440 while you get ready for your husband.
00:11:31.300 Yeah, that's what I'd recommend.
00:11:32.520 That's, that's what I would tell you.
00:11:36.940 Because, honestly, if you're fat, like, there's just, why are you going on dates?
00:11:41.740 I mean, unless you plan on staying fat.
00:11:44.520 Okay, well, then it's time to just go.
00:11:46.940 I mean, but then you're just gonna marry, you're just gonna marry a fat guy.
00:11:50.940 And you guys are just gonna be fat together.
00:11:53.380 And then you're gonna have these fat, you're gonna pass on.
00:11:56.520 It's almost selfish for fat people to have children.
00:11:59.660 I really believe this.
00:12:00.720 Like, I mean, honestly, because if you can't stop eating,
00:12:05.140 like, why do you deserve to reproduce?
00:12:07.700 Do you know what I mean?
00:12:08.100 Like, it's like, and I've always felt like when I was younger,
00:12:11.880 I literally, I felt like this when I was in my early 20s
00:12:14.960 because I couldn't get myself to stop eating.
00:12:17.760 So I'm not even saying this in a judgmental way,
00:12:20.120 but I always felt like I needed to figure out that problem of mine
00:12:24.820 before I brought anybody else into this bullshit.
00:12:27.680 Because I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna, let me get this straight.
00:12:32.200 I'm gonna raise a daughter and make her fat too.
00:12:34.900 I'd rather kill my, like, or a son.
00:12:38.400 And now they get to have the same problem.
00:12:42.680 Really?
00:12:43.240 Yeah.
00:12:43.420 As a fat person,
00:12:44.360 I would just focus on losing weight.
00:12:46.620 And just know as a woman,
00:12:48.720 if you're in a situation ship,
00:12:50.020 you're probably too fat.
00:12:51.580 And if your friends say that you're not fat,
00:12:54.320 you are.
00:12:55.240 I mean, unless,
00:12:56.140 if your dress size is a six or smaller,
00:12:59.040 you might be fat at a six with the way,
00:13:02.040 they just make the clothes sizes bigger.
00:13:04.220 So a six these days is basically a 10.
00:13:06.580 Yeah, so that would be really my recommendation is to lose weight,
00:13:13.720 go to the gym,
00:13:14.640 get your steps in.
00:13:18.280 Um,
00:13:19.460 I don't think this is the same thing as a eugenics mentality.
00:13:23.660 Um,
00:13:24.240 because I'm not against dumb people existing.
00:13:26.940 I'm really not.
00:13:28.020 I mean,
00:13:28.300 I think that's like the eugenics mindset.
00:13:30.340 I'm really,
00:13:32.200 I'm not against dumb people existing.
00:13:35.200 I'm not against like,
00:13:36.320 I want all races to reproduce.
00:13:38.680 Um,
00:13:39.560 I'm not into the like bloodlines,
00:13:41.860 you know?
00:13:42.360 So I don't know.
00:13:43.620 I mean,
00:13:43.900 maybe I'm a eugenic.
00:13:45.240 I,
00:13:45.600 I don't think so.
00:13:47.820 I don't think so.
00:13:50.400 But I just think if you're fat,
00:13:52.980 like,
00:13:53.780 okay,
00:13:54.120 you're basically saying that what you're communicating to me,
00:13:57.340 if you're fat,
00:13:58.140 okay,
00:13:58.380 you're communicating that I am so,
00:14:03.540 um,
00:14:04.160 I am so weak as a person that I just cannot put the donut down.
00:14:08.740 And look,
00:14:09.020 and I'm not judging.
00:14:09.720 There was a point where I couldn't put the donut down either.
00:14:13.140 Um,
00:14:14.220 but you're,
00:14:16.000 you're basically saying,
00:14:17.060 and you're saying,
00:14:17.760 I,
00:14:18.380 let me bring a child up and I'm going to teach them my terrible habits.
00:14:23.580 And then they're going to have the same life I had.
00:14:28.380 Which is going to be having to have sex with ugly people or nobody at all.
00:14:33.340 Or as a woman being the side chick,
00:14:35.820 you're going to be like third in the rotation.
00:14:38.420 Yeah.
00:14:38.860 And ladies,
00:14:39.600 if you are in that situation shit box with the hot guy,
00:14:44.300 you got to make it very clear that you understand your position.
00:14:48.720 If you want to hang out with him more than like twice a month,
00:14:51.680 because really you can see where you're at in the rotation based on how often the guy sees you.
00:14:58.400 Um,
00:15:00.120 now I will tell you some men just do have the time.
00:15:06.100 Some men do,
00:15:07.120 I mean like some men have the time to juggle like five women and they're just on demon mode.
00:15:12.960 And I don't know.
00:15:14.120 They like,
00:15:14.660 so I'm not talking about the exception,
00:15:16.880 like the men that like,
00:15:18.240 the men that really just,
00:15:21.800 I mean,
00:15:22.060 they just have no,
00:15:23.260 their only hobby is women.
00:15:25.640 I mean,
00:15:26.140 then you just took an L.
00:15:27.660 He could convince you he's going to marry you and have a second family.
00:15:30.400 I mean,
00:15:30.620 that happens,
00:15:31.160 but let's take,
00:15:32.480 let's just take a normal guy with a job.
00:15:34.340 I mean,
00:15:35.380 at most there's going to be a rotation.
00:15:38.480 So my player,
00:15:39.960 the player guys,
00:15:40.880 I know they tend to want three side chicks is like they're they up to five.
00:15:49.140 They tend to say that's too much work,
00:15:51.080 but they like five just on tap.
00:15:53.960 So there's like the main,
00:15:55.200 and this is the girl you might go on public dates.
00:15:57.740 He might introduce you to his friends.
00:16:00.060 You might still be a situation ship.
00:16:02.320 I don't know,
00:16:02.880 but you're like in the girlfriend slot,
00:16:05.520 whether he calls you that or not,
00:16:07.500 it depends what he's looking for.
00:16:10.680 Then you got girl number two,
00:16:12.600 right?
00:16:12.780 You got girl number two and girl number two.
00:16:17.800 So girl number one,
00:16:19.280 I would say two to four times a week,
00:16:21.440 depending on the guy's level of time.
00:16:24.040 And if the other girls are in the picture,
00:16:27.320 girl number two is like once a week,
00:16:30.240 once every 10 days,
00:16:31.520 girl number three is one to two times a month.
00:16:34.900 So as a fat chick,
00:16:36.120 you're going to be in one to two times a month,
00:16:38.120 right?
00:16:39.060 But now is your time to gluck gluck.
00:16:45.440 Now is your time.
00:16:47.560 Yeah,
00:16:47.740 I know three is fun.
00:16:48.740 Now is your time to get into spot number two.
00:16:51.640 It's,
00:16:51.860 it's called gluck gluck.
00:16:53.080 It's called being nice and you have to assure him because he's going to be
00:16:57.680 worried that if he spends too much time with you,
00:16:59.940 because he knows where you're at in the rotation,
00:17:02.140 you're at the bottom bitch.
00:17:03.860 You're like 30 pounds away from being hot and he doesn't see the motivation
00:17:09.240 from you.
00:17:09.980 So you're going to have to like accept that,
00:17:14.580 right?
00:17:14.780 You're going to have to like,
00:17:17.460 and you have to assure him that you're not going to crash out and you don't want
00:17:21.680 anything serious either.
00:17:23.980 Now,
00:17:24.500 maybe you could aim for something serious in a year,
00:17:27.700 but at least this way,
00:17:29.040 you know,
00:17:29.260 you can take dating off the table.
00:17:30.900 You can exit the market,
00:17:31.900 the dating marketplace.
00:17:32.820 And when you want to get laid,
00:17:34.980 you can go to this hot guy,
00:17:36.680 ask him for some nutrition tips and then just let him know.
00:17:40.080 You just say like,
00:17:40.920 Hey,
00:17:41.780 I know where I'm at.
00:17:45.540 I know where I'm at.
00:17:47.080 I'm just happy for your time.
00:17:48.880 You know,
00:17:49.140 maybe you could fall in love in a year.
00:17:50.980 You know,
00:17:51.200 some women do.
00:17:52.240 And if you lose some weight,
00:17:54.100 a lot of women are like 30 pounds away from commitment,
00:17:57.160 truly.
00:17:59.720 But you gotta,
00:18:00.680 you have to prove you're not crazy because this is like the,
00:18:05.900 the calculation men are doing is how crazy is she versus what do I get out of
00:18:12.400 this?
00:18:12.660 And what do I have to spend?
00:18:14.260 So as a fat chick,
00:18:15.480 you got to make your price real cheap.
00:18:19.900 It's like one drink.
00:18:21.560 I'll be there.
00:18:23.020 I'll be there.
00:18:23.960 One drink.
00:18:25.220 Okay.
00:18:25.580 Let's go to your place.
00:18:26.920 Um,
00:18:28.980 now I would say because you're the fat chick,
00:18:31.620 you're going to want to,
00:18:32.620 you're going to want to use protection because he's definitely sleeping with someone
00:18:38.340 hotter than you.
00:18:39.080 If he's a good looking guy.
00:18:42.300 Yeah,
00:18:42.720 that's what they're saying in the chat.
00:18:43.840 Look at,
00:18:44.320 I've had in-depth conversations with,
00:18:47.480 I had a friend in London and he,
00:18:49.900 I mean,
00:18:50.540 he just always had like three to five women.
00:18:52.600 That was like his baseline.
00:18:53.900 Like he had three and then two.
00:18:56.200 He'd like,
00:18:56.760 they're always taking applications.
00:18:59.620 So they'll have the main three usually.
00:19:02.220 Um,
00:19:02.700 and the third one usually comes and goes,
00:19:04.900 like maybe they'll get into a relationship,
00:19:06.460 but the two,
00:19:07.520 like they're always going on dates and taking applications and the spots are
00:19:11.580 available.
00:19:12.060 So just as the fat chick,
00:19:13.520 you're going to have to know your slot is at the bottom.
00:19:16.380 You're at the bottom chick.
00:19:17.820 So yeah,
00:19:24.340 that's what I'd recommend.
00:19:25.620 I mean,
00:19:25.960 if you need to like get,
00:19:27.660 if you need sex somehow,
00:19:29.120 you can find some,
00:19:30.560 maybe an ex or something,
00:19:31.760 but you got to get to the gym.
00:19:34.520 You got to like,
00:19:35.580 you got to get to the gym,
00:19:36.800 get on the treadmill and eat less.
00:19:39.680 Yeah.
00:19:40.240 So does that make you a beta simp?
00:19:43.380 If you're here on a Friday and not on a date,
00:19:45.300 not necessarily.
00:19:46.180 I don't think so.
00:19:47.040 If you don't want to be on a date,
00:19:48.480 like why not?
00:19:51.180 But if you're fat,
00:19:52.260 I mean,
00:19:52.560 don't watch me get on the treadmill and watch me.
00:19:55.980 Do you know what I mean?
00:19:58.640 All right.
00:19:59.840 The changing of discharge,
00:20:01.260 the odor,
00:20:02.060 um,
00:20:02.300 the itching,
00:20:02.700 the burning,
00:20:03.020 the painful intercourse,
00:20:03.840 whatever it may be.
00:20:05.020 Um,
00:20:05.400 all of those are pretty,
00:20:06.480 like they fit into a lot of diagnoses.
00:20:09.680 And if you haven't been tested for trick,
00:20:12.120 I would definitely recommend to do so.
00:20:15.600 And I know the thought of like,
00:20:16.700 like a parasitic STI is terrifying because,
00:20:19.120 um,
00:20:19.840 I feel the same,
00:20:20.720 but it's actually like a lot more common than you think it is.
00:20:23.060 And I've read research kind of varying with how many cases there are per year,
00:20:26.480 but I think consistently I've read the most.
00:20:28.980 Yeah.
00:20:29.320 And it's great.
00:20:29.940 You could just ask him like,
00:20:31.340 and men love helping you with things.
00:20:33.040 Sorry.
00:20:33.340 I know I'm not,
00:20:33.800 I should react to this video,
00:20:35.060 but I just have a lot to say about this.
00:20:37.040 And by the way,
00:20:37.780 this was not a strategy that I personally implored.
00:20:41.420 I I'm just being honest here.
00:20:42.620 This was not a strategy I did,
00:20:44.680 but I was thinking about it and I'm like,
00:20:47.300 that would be a good strategy.
00:20:50.480 Do you know what I mean?
00:20:50.980 This,
00:20:51.320 this one personally,
00:20:52.260 I didn't do,
00:20:53.200 I didn't,
00:20:54.240 but you know,
00:20:55.120 men love helping you with things.
00:20:57.180 They love it.
00:20:58.100 It's like,
00:20:58.500 they're great.
00:20:59.000 Like if you want a man to fall in love with you,
00:21:01.380 just act really stupid,
00:21:03.000 right?
00:21:03.380 You just got to act like men do not like women that know it all.
00:21:07.540 Right.
00:21:07.860 And I know because sometimes I have this like that sometimes I,
00:21:14.840 I,
00:21:15.200 that's,
00:21:15.560 that's a problem I've had.
00:21:17.220 I'll say,
00:21:17.640 but you know,
00:21:19.140 this is what I would do.
00:21:20.260 Even if it's,
00:21:20.800 even if it's something you already know how to do,
00:21:22.640 like,
00:21:22.840 let's say you want to learn,
00:21:25.840 give me something in the chat.
00:21:27.340 Let's say you grew up knowing how to fish,
00:21:29.280 right?
00:21:29.580 And you already know how to fish,
00:21:30.820 but if you go up to a guy and pretend you don't know how to fish and just
00:21:36.580 act really dumb and,
00:21:37.860 give him all the credit for teaching you how to fish.
00:21:41.360 He'll be in love in six months.
00:21:44.180 So if I,
00:21:45.260 if I was fat all over again,
00:21:47.120 I think I would have saved a lot of time.
00:21:50.920 I'm just being honest here.
00:21:52.300 This,
00:21:52.500 again,
00:21:52.680 this was not something I did,
00:21:54.720 but that's something like that.
00:21:59.360 That would be smart to date a trainer.
00:22:01.860 You give him sex,
00:22:03.060 ask him,
00:22:03.460 Hey,
00:22:04.980 could you just help me with this stuff?
00:22:06.620 Can you teach me how to cook a few meals?
00:22:10.300 You know,
00:22:10.760 they got to eat anyway.
00:22:14.000 They got to eat anyway.
00:22:16.180 I was like,
00:22:16.760 I went through all this work of learning this on my own.
00:22:19.080 That's way smarter.
00:22:20.000 It's this how women feel when we expose their game.
00:22:30.180 No,
00:22:30.680 he will think she is too stupid.
00:22:32.300 No,
00:22:32.560 because if you already know about the subject,
00:22:35.260 if you already know about the subject,
00:22:37.300 he's teaching you,
00:22:38.380 he'll think you're a quick learner.
00:22:39.780 he'll think you're,
00:22:45.880 he'll think you're learning so fast.
00:22:48.900 You're like,
00:22:49.560 yeah,
00:22:49.920 baby,
00:22:50.780 you just,
00:22:51.440 you're such a good teacher.
00:22:57.800 I mean,
00:22:58.420 you got,
00:22:58.760 you ladies know,
00:22:59.840 you know,
00:23:00.100 you rub the arm and just say,
00:23:01.920 thanks so much for teaching me.
00:23:03.660 You know,
00:23:07.600 you know,
00:23:08.620 yeah.
00:23:10.840 And I mean,
00:23:13.160 these days men are better cooks than women.
00:23:16.080 Cause look,
00:23:16.940 as a fat chick,
00:23:18.000 you're going to get past,
00:23:18.960 you're going to get smashed and passed anyway.
00:23:21.800 So you gotta,
00:23:22.780 you gotta get rid of the ego and just know your place in this.
00:23:27.400 And by the way,
00:23:28.160 just Google your BMI.
00:23:29.660 No,
00:23:30.160 you're not shaped.
00:23:31.040 Well,
00:23:31.280 just Google it.
00:23:32.240 You're fatter than you think.
00:23:34.080 And that's,
00:23:34.640 that's what I really want to say is like,
00:23:36.340 when I look back at pictures,
00:23:38.300 I'm like,
00:23:39.020 I was fatter than I thought.
00:23:40.780 And all the people that like,
00:23:42.320 I show that picture too.
00:23:43.660 And they're like,
00:23:44.140 you weren't that fat.
00:23:44.880 And I'm like,
00:23:45.140 that's cause you're kind of fat.
00:23:46.960 Can we just be honest here?
00:23:48.960 I was young.
00:23:50.000 So,
00:23:50.160 you know,
00:23:50.240 I got it.
00:23:50.560 But I was just thinking,
00:23:52.200 I think that if I implored that strategy,
00:23:54.800 at least the dating,
00:23:55.740 you know,
00:23:56.540 I'm not saying I wish I did because I'm okay with my life out.
00:24:02.240 Outcomes at this point in my life.
00:24:04.160 All I'm saying is like,
00:24:06.700 that would have been that.
00:24:07.980 I think that would have been a good strategy.
00:24:10.220 All right.
00:24:10.860 I'm going to go back to the,
00:24:12.760 I'm going to go.
00:24:13.740 It doesn't even have to be a trainer,
00:24:15.000 but just a guy that's like in shape,
00:24:16.960 you know,
00:24:17.520 he knows a little bit about nutrition,
00:24:19.020 maybe a good cook.
00:24:20.300 Yeah.
00:24:21.820 Yeah.
00:24:22.620 Just about like three to 3.7 million of men and women that have this STI.
00:24:26.900 It's just that it's also not super symptomatic.
00:24:29.860 Like over 70% of people have no symptoms,
00:24:33.300 which makes it really easy to spread.
00:24:35.020 But the number one indicator is a strawberry cervix.
00:24:37.500 And I don't think I'm going to be allowed to put a picture of this,
00:24:41.120 but it'll literally just be your cervix.
00:24:43.100 And it has like little red dots all over it.
00:24:45.560 Which is why it's also so important to get your pap smear,
00:24:48.080 because that's kind of the only way that someone's going to be looking.
00:24:50.960 Thank you for the,
00:24:53.060 thank you for the sign up for the membership.
00:24:55.740 You guys are awesome.
00:24:57.840 Men are better cooks.
00:24:58.660 Yeah.
00:24:58.860 Like honestly,
00:25:01.580 honestly,
00:25:02.440 that would be my recommendation is to women can in fact,
00:25:10.220 sleep their way into relationships.
00:25:13.220 Men,
00:25:13.900 the worst advice I bet is always give it's telling women not to put out.
00:25:18.740 And I know,
00:25:21.260 I know.
00:25:21.740 And like the conservatives,
00:25:22.960 but I'm like,
00:25:23.720 guys,
00:25:24.540 do you not see the things women are getting for having sex?
00:25:28.060 And I,
00:25:28.660 I'm not trying to apply morality to this because some of it I,
00:25:31.780 I do like on a base level,
00:25:33.840 find a little bit repulsive.
00:25:35.360 But if we just want to talk about what works,
00:25:37.520 like sleeping with the boss definitely works.
00:25:42.120 Have we not covered enough stories to be like,
00:25:44.800 yeah,
00:25:44.900 that works.
00:25:45.480 I mean,
00:25:47.720 if we want to say like,
00:25:49.720 you don't think a girl would lose weight sleeping with a trainer if she
00:25:52.600 really wanted to.
00:25:53.400 I don't know.
00:26:02.060 Hmm.