Pearl - The Christian Circle of Gaslighting

00:00:00.000 What's up guys? Welcome to my YouTube channel. Today I want to explain to the well-meaning

00:00:04.280 Christians on this app why you guys are particularly insufferable. So my background 1.00

00:00:10.520 is that I interviewed a thousand women in London in my 2023 YouTube show and I interviewed women

00:00:17.160 of all denominations and backgrounds and one thing I came to find out was that women are women.

00:00:22.980 Women's life choices are not necessarily different or better no matter the cultural background,

00:00:28.520 the socioeconomic background or the race however a lot of times men are the problem in this eternal 0.96

00:00:35.560 gaslighting because men have a vested interest in an ego investment in believing that their wives

00:00:44.120 daughters mothers are not big fat horse when all women regardless of the background have a little

00:00:51.560 big fat in them some more some less but there's really no guarantees in this economy 0.56

00:00:58.520 So anyways, moving on. One thing I noticed was that when I had a generalization that was made

00:01:04.640 about women, there would be these things called white knights that would come to their defense.

00:01:10.760 Now, a white knight is somebody that is defending a woman for no reason that he's not related to, 0.93

00:01:16.760 and he doesn't even get sex out of. It's a man with no self-respect. 0.99

00:01:21.700 Now, there's a woman's circle of cope. I wrote the church circle of cope because that's what 0.94

00:01:26.460 this video is about, but we're going to go through the woman circle of cope first. So again, men have

00:01:32.960 this ego investment. So the first thing they do is they discredit the interviews that I did. They

00:01:37.980 say a thousand women, that is not a big enough sample size. Those are just the women on your show. 1.00

00:01:44.460 And they kind of have this, um, this cope where they go through, it's the race of the women, 0.85

00:01:50.480 the social class of the women. It's the questions you're asking the women. It's just the women that

00:01:54.980 go on podcasts. And when I say, Hey, uh, it's not just women. I interviewed, I interviewed normal

00:02:00.160 men that were just fathers and dads. And they all have pretty much come to the conclusion that most

00:02:06.060 women are big fat, slut whores, disobedient. Um, especially if they're over a certain age, 1.00

00:02:10.940 they've been red pilled. Right. Then they try to discredit me. So they say you're unmarried,

00:02:16.160 or if it's a man saying some of this stuff, they call them an incel. Um, you know, they'll say,

00:02:22.160 you know it's just attack my looks attack the way I say it yada yada it's they'll just try to

00:02:30.340 discredit me in some way then they point me to women that are in fact better than the women on

00:02:37.060 my shows they try to it's very sad they try to show me their wife and say look at my wife she's

00:02:42.680 so special and different uh-huh you know how many men have told me that their wife is special and

00:02:48.760 different. And then she does the same thing. It's just incredible. And then women complain and then 1.00

00:02:54.420 law enforcement gets involved. So I get dragged to court. I get demonetized on YouTube. And this

00:03:02.920 is the circle of cope for women. Now, church people, you guys have a similar circle of cope

00:03:08.460 because a lot of you guys want your religion to be right. And you want your religion to be right

00:03:13.240 so bad that you almost won't even like listen to anything that could possibly discredit the

00:03:19.920 religion. And that's where I come in. So I go to churches and I ask churches if they believe that

00:03:27.140 women should obey men, um, or women wives should obey their husbands. And now to me, this is the, 0.91

00:03:33.840 um, antithesis or the culmination or whatever. I can't say words, excuse me, of feminism. So

00:03:42.440 to me, it's feminism really is saying that women and men are equal and have equal authority 0.91

00:03:48.160 starting in the home when women are subordinates. And to me, a church that cannot say loudly with

00:03:55.740 its chest that women are below men, that women should be obedient to men. It's not a real church 0.71

00:04:02.200 and they're lying. The reason I think this is because, well, you're supposed to go to your

00:04:08.240 church for the truth and if the church is more worried about their reputation about money if

00:04:14.480 they are not even brave enough to give an answer on camera then i have to um i have to conclude that

00:04:22.640 they're a bit bunch of um i don't want to say the p word but you know you know jesus and the

00:04:28.160 apostles from what i understand um they said the truth with death as the potential other side and

00:04:36.240 many of them did die for their faith and to me you're not really a real christian if you don't

00:04:43.280 put your money where your mouth is and you're afraid of some women complaining at church 0.50

00:04:48.720 so the issue we have in a modern society is women make 85 of consumer buying decisions 0.90

00:04:54.400 now as a business i've experienced this firsthand because i'm honest and i don't pander to women

00:04:59.840 it has cost me millions and millions of dollars i could have an amazing youtube show where i just

00:05:06.080 tell women that he doesn't deserve you you're so special and amazing and awesome and i would make

00:05:11.760 way more money and the churches have really figured this out so they go to the churches

00:05:17.040 they say ladies the men don't deserve you make them wait for marriage make sure he's a real

00:05:22.240 godly man without even requiring or asking if she's a real godly woman how is this any different 1.00

00:05:30.080 or better than call her daddy. I would argue it's not. So the church circle of cope, they mostly

00:05:37.900 care about being right. And they care about being right despite any facts, data, statistic, or real

00:05:44.800 life examples that are different. So the first thing they do is they try to discredit my interviews.

00:05:51.380 So I go to, first they say, Pearl, that's just insert, you know, the Baptist church, or that's

00:05:59.100 just that church or that church, you are not going to the right churches. So then I go to their

00:06:03.800 church and they say, well, you didn't interview the right people from my church. You should have

00:06:08.920 interviewed that person or that person. And to that, I say, you know, if I'm a teacher and I

00:06:13.840 have a classroom, isn't it kind of the person in the front's job to make sure they're learning and

00:06:20.940 they understand it? And if they're not, why aren't you yelling at the teacher? Stop yelling at Pearl.

00:06:27.140 what did i do okay so um they say it's how i did the interviews the race of the people i interviewed

00:06:33.660 the social class or the questions i asked then they go on and this is where christians become 0.98

00:06:40.480 particularly insufferable so they call you a fornicator a degenerate and um an incel or unmarried 0.99

00:06:48.820 even though most of the people calling you that have done the same thing so many times um uh 1.00

00:06:56.280 You know, Christians will call, overweight Christians call fornicators and degenerates, 0.99

00:07:03.040 people that have sex outside of marriage, you know, they imply that they're somehow 0.99

00:07:09.460 more moral when nobody's asking, you know what I mean?

00:07:15.120 They also try to prove they're smart.

00:07:17.960 So they come at you and they pick a random Bible verse and they say, oh, I know this

00:07:23.380 Bible verse.

00:07:24.060 Do you know that Bible verse?

00:07:25.360 blah blah blah blah blah and it's really annoying um because you know they might as well they should

00:07:31.960 just say and this is kind of what they're trying to imply i am better than you that would almost

00:07:38.160 be more honest if they came up to you and just said hey i'm moral you're not moral that would

00:07:44.520 but what instead they do it's like the circle of gaslighting they say oh well are you married oh

00:07:50.180 you're not and then well i'm married i know what i'm talking about or they say well do you know

00:07:54.560 this bible verse oh you don't and it's just a different it's a roundabout way of saying

00:07:58.900 i'm better than you and then the next thing they do is they get law enforcement involved so

00:08:06.780 they try to kick me off church premises even though i'm always on public property

00:08:11.460 they they go on youtube do disinformation campaigns against me saying i'm harassing them

00:08:20.000 um they they go through all of these steps instead of and here's here's the christians i'm giving you

00:08:28.340 guys an answer so you know there's two options here right they could get law enforcement involved

00:08:33.840 say they're better than me in a roundabout way you know they might ask if you're a believer

00:08:37.380 or they could so they could blame pearl double down gaslight so say it's just the churches you

00:08:45.020 go to you're wrong um my church is the one true church even though half of my priests and pastors

00:08:52.060 say things that aren't true right or option a could be admit flaws and maybe get on the get

00:09:01.180 get on the pastors to do a better job you know the people you're paying or b they um blame pearl

00:09:08.620 double down gaslight and call the cops so christians if you were wondering why you guys 0.56

00:09:15.800 are particularly insufferable i mean no ill will i really hope you guys figure it out so 0.62

00:09:21.620 the more normal people can rejoin the church like the video subscribe to the channel ring

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Pearl - June 28, 2026

The Christian Circle of Gaslighting

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