Pearl - June 26, 2026The Courting and Cracking of Instagram
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Summary
In this episode of my reaction series, we are reacting to insta where we re reacting to a video that my sister and I sent in to dougmappa. This video is about a woman who wants commitment before sex, she wants exclusivity before sex and she wants to be exclusive before sex.
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why do women want so much credit for just giving birth i mean dogs give birth do we worship them
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what's up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to instagram is not a real place
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where we react to videos that doug mpa and i send each other on instagram if you guys have requests
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join our discord and you can put them in there link is in the description i did my connection
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with two different men this weekend and i told you about one of them already so i want to tell
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you about the other one now so this was a man that i went on five dates with and we had a really
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beautiful connection i i let him hit translation i was really enjoying being ported by him he picked
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me up for all of our dates he planned them he opened my car door he paid for all of our meals
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he was super thoughtful and attentive and on our fifth date he made me dinner and we
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explored a little bit of a physical connection then i could feel after the date that i
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didn't want to go deeper with him physically oh if we weren't committed I guess okay so she wants
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commitment before sex or exclusive and I good luck yeah you're old you can't do that didn't
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feel a desire to be exclusive with him so I let him know that next time he talks with me
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and share that in a voice note and he said thank you for your honesty let's talk about it when we
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get together so we had a final final date and yeah we just talked it sounds like a humiliation ritual
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about it and for him it felt important to have a sexual connection which i so understand and for me
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it feels important not to have a sexual connection unless i am committed or women make themselves
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feel better about their poor life choices in the past by trying to raise the price in the future
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and it's not a great strategy moving towards real commitment and devotion with a man and really
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feeling that desire with him and i wasn't feeling that desire with him so he had a need for sexual
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connection and activity understandable i had a need for exclusivity and commitment in order to
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be sexual and so we had differing yeah see men aren't stupid so they know that if you're making
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them wait you're letting another ninja hit so needs and so we lovingly and respectfully honored
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each other and acknowledged each other i thanked him for all of his generosity and love and care
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and how he's courted me and in this yeah this is why men um hate us because she's saying thank you
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so much and not giving him sex so you're basically saying f you that's how men take it we're the
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ninja that you know um treated you like you let him hit over and over again and for life eating
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experience and he thanked me he's like you've changed my life like you've shifted me into
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such a different paradigm and expanded me in beautiful ways and wait who is this yeah we
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hugged and just oh my god okay all right let's see this we got um some brunette okay let's see
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is my wall of shotties everyone who comes over to my place takes a polaroid oh no they sign it
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very cute very fun if you're a man and you act up and you abuse your wall privileges you go to boy
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jail and you don't want to go to boy jail it's really cold in there oh girl we got this is oh
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no you do not because that means that this is how men are going to see it you let nine ninjas hit
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and even if you did uh you don't want that on the wall you know what i mean it kind of repulses men
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no treats to sit in there with all the other guys who have messed up and you have to think about what
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you did forever two ways you get into boy j is you either make me cry or you waste my time i think
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those would be two pretty easy rules but women are okay with wasting years of men's lives um
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follow but once again men have proven that time's gonna go by i don't like the idea of wasting time
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because time is gonna go by anyways they will continue to defy all odds once you're in there
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you don't get to come out stay in there forever talking a life sentence no parole whatsoever i'm
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gonna watch okay let's see let's see who's next okay wait all right so she's got 18 deal breakers
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and now she's decentered men and romance men and romance number one he says female gone two he
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negatively compares modern women to his mother and grandmother okay yeah that to me is just a
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delusional man who thinks that women were different in the past when um i have old women talking about
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how they hoard on tiktok and yet they'll still gaslight so my mom's different uh-huh gone three
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he loves to play the devil's advocate gone four he pressures me into sex in any way gone five he
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uses violent and aggressive language gone six he doesn't initiate communication about how he feels
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towards me gone seven he brags about how busy he is gone eight he talks shit about his ex especially
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if they have a kid together gone nine he posts slutty fitness thirst traps women will call their
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ex's narcissist it's like oh now she's saying thirst trap we're gonna check her instagram
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it's online for validation yeah you're posting on tiktok for validate ma'am gone 10 he makes me
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feel like an afterthought gone 11 he talks at okay so women that have these lists like this
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have broken like people that talk about how high their standards are um she's crawled through the
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night to bang a man before you know what i mean like she's crawled through some married guy's
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back door to suck on his you know like women that talk like this are full of me not with me
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gone 12 he leaves shit out for me to clean up gone 13 he downplays my emotional or physical
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experience at any point of my cycle gone 14 he expects me to leave my calendar open for him to
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make last minute plans with me gone 15 he watches porn gone 16 he makes me the butt of all of his
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jokes to his guy friends gone 17 he's up my ass when i'm out asking me when i'll be done when i'll
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be home so she wants to be able to go out but he can't post a thirst on 18 he doesn't follow
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through on his word women love men that don't follow through on their word let's see um
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okay so again she's dressed i honestly feel like the okay you can't see in that one but she's in
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like a a workout set that's pretty scantily clad and then complaining like here that the men
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are you know like you're doing the same thing okay whatever all right let's see this woman
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so many married women tell me let's so many married women tell me that they wish
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they could be living my lifestyle right now dating openly having lovers yeah just so you know most
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women have a desire for extreme promiscuity um whether they act on it depends some do some don't
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The same way that men have a desire to bang a bunch of hot women, women always have the
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Living on my own, having autonomy and freedom to do as I wish with my time.
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I don't really want to make this like a man versus woman problem or like a man problem
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because it's not that all husbands are bad.
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women have to be different people in order to get into relationships and we resent that
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or that men don't know what they're if women are honest with men they can't they're doing
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a lot of them don't but a lot of them do i think this is more about women just wanting to be free
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from all of these labels and responsibilities that we've been made to hold our our
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purpose women are kind of waking up to just wanting to explore what else life has to offer
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what if what if we do want to love multiple people what if we do want to just depend on
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ourselves well women are doing that and then our bad choices will catch up to us some women if
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they're hot enough then they won't what if we do want to be married again what if we don't want to
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what if we want to just take a handful of lovers and do our own thing well that's what women are
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doing okay let's let's keep going you got this woman she looks like she's screaming or something
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why are these men such bitches here okay do you notice how she says why are these men such
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bitches but she's being very masculine she's swearing i'm not judging i swear too she's
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swearing she's yelling she's nagging it's like that that voice drives men to suicide there's
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a list of things that men are doing that are fucking gay complaining as you know i can't
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stand the gayness it's too much i don't like it it irritates me it aggravates me and it pisses me
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to fuck off starting off strong as a man why are you waiting for a woman to initiate things
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i'm waiting for you're gay you're literally gay you want to follow her lead you're the prize a
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man who thinks he's the fucking what why are you the prize can you birth a human men that are okay
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number one men that are prizes um they women approach them all the time two uh why women
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want so much credit for just giving birth i mean dogs give birth do we worship them can you grow
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human can you birth a human why are you the prize why are you as a man the prize you think you're
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a prize tell us why you get a pregnant no i mean we can both play that game as a grown man why are
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you throwing yourself a birthday party those aren't for you your girlfriend sure your daughter
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the women um yeah because okay men can't even have a little birthday party oh my god she's a
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for sure a woman in general sure as a grown man has the age of like literally 16 why the
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fuck i threw my dad a birthday party growing up i've thrown my boyfriend a birthday party
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are you throwing yourself a birthday party okay men standing on the dj booth behind the dj booth
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on any elevated surface in public pisses me the fuck and she gets uglier over time she resents
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the men that are still in the game and getting to bang young hot women that you know cycle that's
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for girls remember the girls men want to be in female dominated areas spaces events things why
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why are these men such bitches the last one of this round is men getting lipo what what the fuck
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i was in a store last week and this insecure rich loser as i need to tell you guys you guys like
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hype rich guys up a lot of them are fucking losers the money cannot unlaying you i just can't deal
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with this nagging oh let me keep going which one of you banged a woman like this the only reason
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she's online is because somebody's banging her oh that's so many tattoos all the time women being
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like he was a master manipulator and i'm sorry but i don't think most men are that smart nine
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times out of 10, you are in fact manipulating yourself. Like he hasn't texted me back in six
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hours. I know he's trying to test me when all that's going on in his brain is like, should I
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have ground beef and sweet potato for dinner again? I had it six nights in a row, but like it could be
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seven. Common one I'll hear is he hid who he was at the start. No, men stay the same. Women
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project that because women hide who we are at the start because men can't take it. So yeah,
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it's projection. And like you just hadn't gotten to know him yet. He wasn't necessarily trying to
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hide certain qualities you just had not discovered these qualities or you didn't notice because
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you're dignified that you don't like yet or those qualities were completely transparent and you just
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ignored them because you liked him i have videos about how my ex was just filthy and it's one of
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the reasons that we broke up and i get comments all the time of like he was using weaponized
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incompetence against you and i'm like no he was never gonna clean these things big piles of food
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and shit that i was cleaning up would have stayed there to rot forever so it's not weaponized
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incompetence he was actually just that lazy and didn't care if he did it or if i did it or if
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anyone did it a narrative i can't believe the chest tattoo woman actually is saying something
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that makes sense sometimes i stand corrected you know that you've created about someone is not
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always accurate my ex wasn't utilizing weaponized incompetence he was incompetent person you were
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dating was probably not a master manipulator they just didn't care very much and they had qualities
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you didn't like they're all the time women being like okay let's see who's next all right we got
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this older mid further proof that marriage is a crock of all of the happily married women in my
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comment section who are saying i love my husband but if something were to happen to him i would
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never do this again what is it telling us okay women don't like men that we don't like anybody
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that much but women would rather just torture ourselves let's break it down she is separating
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him out from the institution of marriage and from men as a whole and saying i love him and i'm having
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a good experience but if i had to do a repeat i would choose not to now maybe this is the love of
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her life or maybe it's because men benefit more from marriage there are some married men i'm sure
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who would agree i would argue are they happily married because you know who's missing from the
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conversation the happily married men you know why because they would do it again why not they had a
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great experience because men are positive people and women are negative people so women will always
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find a reason to complain and men will always make the best out of even a situation that's not great
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first time of course they're gonna wife up again because they're benefiting but the women who are
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happy and love their husband are saying if i had to do a repeat i wouldn't do it they would choose
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not to that says a lot about marriage yeah um a lot of men said they wouldn't do it again too
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though especially if they had a bad divorce kill let's see the young guy i saw for a long time on
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and off was my sexual liberation these are the women that were supposedly different
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he gave me confidence back because when we first started seeing each other i was a i was a much
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bigger girl and he didn't mind and he didn't seem to care that made me feel so much less yeah
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because i'm sure you didn't make it too hard for him and men don't mind the discount rack as long
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as they aren't paying they aren't overpaying conscious consider men will in fact um wife up
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old fat whatever women they do it all the time but they just can't overpay for it otherwise they
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get a bitter england he was 21 years younger than me and a personal trainer and in phenomenal shape
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he was also just an incredibly nice guy so when we hung out it was a lot of fun there was no
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pressure but it wasn't it wasn't a wham bam thank you ma'am which was a nice balance if you're
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considering writing your own milf memoirs an important thing to consider is it's really
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difficult if you catch feelings so try not to catch feelings because the reality is even if you like
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the person even if you would make a wonderful couple and have a fantastic relationship the
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world around us doesn't really recognize that and when your friend tells you that and they're
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gonna want kids that she knows your young guy's parents it's it's a little terrifying if their
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sons were at school together it's a little bit of a wake-up and i don't have to say it was consensual
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i wasn't being a predator the word cougar does feel rather predatory and i don't feel like i'm
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predatory the young guy i saw for a long time all right let's use the next
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women are equal to men yeah they say men are trash because the alphas um hurt their feelings
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essentially that's just what it means i've been hurt before so unpopular opinion but i should be
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able to go to the grocery store in this in the doctor's office i should be able to i'm pretty
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sure you can i mean what if you get a kroger they're really gonna stop you show up at a family
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reunion in this i should be able okay now now now now we're getting entitled it's do you know what
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i mean it's like you give an inch they take a mile to see a professional ballet in this oh my gosh i
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should and this is what i should be allowed to wear okay so are you not hot enough that anybody
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is going to be that attracted to you so i don't know what you're complaining about okay there's
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this guy how many bbws can i crack in 30 days okay let's see i'm going to be doing an experiment to
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see how many bbws i can crack in 30 days and if you know anything about bbws they have become
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extremely selective due to hypergamy so i'm most likely going to have to fraud max especially if i
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plan on pulling the hot ones so i'm just gonna find an aesthetic picture just like this of a
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model that the bbws are already drooling over and have ai replace his face with mine so i can upload
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these to my dating apps i just use regen for this by the way i should have a date later tonight with
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sarah but i'll keep you guys updated on the results i'm gonna be doing an dude so he is how
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many bbws can i crack how many freaky midget what is this guy's page how i'm cracking freaky crack
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heads until i get hi this has to be trolling how many freaky cougars can i crack okay this this has
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to be i think he's just selling this app all right well it's kind of a funny idea all right guys um
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