Pearl - April 19, 2026


The Hidden Truth About ARRANGED MARRIAGE


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00:00:00.000 but guys are daunted to have kids you know they have less leverage it's very stressful
00:00:06.800 uh it's not like back in the day where a kid would actually be helpful for you on the farm
00:00:10.880 and it wouldn't actually take an arm and a leg to provide for them well what my point was more
00:00:15.840 i just think conserve like i think a lot of conservatives are on birth control like
00:00:20.000 like everybody else but they play pretend and denounce it yeah that's that's a nice yeah yeah
00:00:25.760 we're exactly we we're fine with birth control we do you know i know i think that's an anti-catholic 1.00
00:00:30.300 position but you know like uh but yeah we think that's responsible you know this is the shit 0.99
00:00:35.160 we're not very popular for this dance but we don't think bringing more babies into a shit 0.99
00:00:42.540 situation is going to fix the situation yeah tim katt says having babies is going to solve the 0.99
00:00:46.560 problem and no it won't like like uh conservatives keep having babies and the problem's not getting
00:00:50.400 solved it's getting worse right so here's what happens like if you have babies number one oh my
00:00:54.860 gosh, then you're going to be put through the wringer. Like we talked about all the single
00:00:57.240 time. She's going to sue your kids and then your life's going to be devastated and you're going to
00:00:59.820 unalive yourself, you know, like, uh, but if you have kids now, all of your time and energy and
00:01:04.660 money is dedicated to raising those kids, right? Oh my gosh, they're breaking something or I got
00:01:08.380 to teach them or like, you know, um, so you can't actually dedicate your time and your energy and
00:01:13.140 your money towards actually like fixing this problem. Yeah. Right. All, all of your focus
00:01:17.860 is on the kids. Now you're not gonna be able to fix the problem. And then also to the left
00:01:21.420 controls every major institution in this country they're right they're gonna they're going to
00:01:25.220 groom the kids to be leftist that's the other thing i'm like jordan peterson's daughter's a 0.99
00:01:28.760 whore what what do you guys have exactly exactly exactly so i so i exactly yeah yeah so so these 0.98
00:01:35.120 are these are the solutions to this problem just to make sure like i fit in it okay okay so um 0.93
00:01:39.280 number one if this is the cowardly way if guys would be cowards and not be men uh this is what
00:01:43.880 they can do they can wait till another economic collapse for over 35 trillion dollars in debt so
00:01:47.360 that's actually going to happen pretty soon it'll be worse than the great depression and at that 1.00
00:01:50.960 point all of the fluff girl jobs will be gone and they'll want to do the easy jobs at home and the 0.99
00:01:54.740 guys will be doing the hard labor jobs. Why don't you predict that will happen? I'm actually surprised 0.99
00:01:58.900 it hasn't happened already actually. You know so like I think things became too late actually
00:02:05.060 with Obama. That's when the death started skyrocketing really high. I know it started a
00:02:08.920 little bit before that with Bush like in Iraq and everything but that's when it really really
00:02:12.540 started going up. You know unfortunately like and it's just got even worse. Okay so economic
00:02:17.600 collapse to um like the next world war you know that just like seems to be a ruin um at that
00:02:23.680 point they're like oh no i'm sorry we're oh we said we were strong independent no more we can
00:02:27.320 depend we'll stay at home we're not gonna fight that war right so uh a war or or men could actually
00:02:33.020 be men and fix the situation in advance and so we wouldn't have to gain their own personal privilege
00:02:39.260 and power in the moment right they're not thinking about what's best for everyone what's best for
00:02:43.180 the man what's best for the kids what's best for other women and they're not they don't even realize
00:02:47.200 how what they're doing right now is going to hurt themselves later on in their own life right that's 1.00
00:02:50.220 why they sleep around their teens and 20s and think they're going to marry a prince charming 1.00
00:02:53.140 later on so it's a waste of time to talk about women but but that's okay because women don't 0.97
00:02:57.740 have any actual real physical power it all boils down to physical power right and the liberal men
00:03:02.960 are women as well they're they're not strong men so they they actually don't have any physical
00:03:06.720 power either so the real power lies with the conservative men so 25 of the population i know
00:03:11.520 we're not going to get them all but if we could get half of conservative men to unify this is
00:03:15.140 this is the thing that this is one of guys like flaws right they just won't unify they're too
00:03:18.840 stinking darn like independent and like they're too stubborn and independent right so like where 0.57
00:03:24.340 women realize that they have no power unless they unify right and they terrorize the men which is 0.97
00:03:28.360 what they did 1920 1916 2010 so if we can just get half of conservative men so 12 of the total 0.88
00:03:34.500 population that's 41 million men we could change everything 41 million men unify online go down to
00:03:41.520 dc change the laws that's how we could do it without a great depression or or world right
00:03:46.960 so what do you so didn't they kind of try to do that and i don't know the ins and outs so i could
00:03:52.200 be wrong but didn't they try to do that with january 6th uh no they were no they were almost
00:03:59.660 all of them were just peacefully protesting outside just like hey we know the election was
00:04:03.240 stolen we're not okay with it we know it and uh so you're saying like what would they do at this
00:04:09.220 like what would the conservative men do how would they get them to change the
00:04:13.640 laws they would just stand there or what they'd like force them yeah you know
00:04:18.460 they literally could go to the Congress building say hey we're changing the laws
00:04:21.160 you know these are harmful this is not for the Jennifer well this is not for
00:04:24.280 the general general welfare of the people and it literally is constitutional
00:04:27.520 what laws would you change okay awesome we're gonna we're gonna abolish
00:04:31.240 alimony no alimony at all the way you get money from your husband is if you're
00:04:34.580 married to him and you do him good not evil all the days of his life and you're
00:04:37.340 if you want your man to protect and die for you um what are you gonna do in return for him you 0.74
00:04:42.620 have to do something you have to obey him do domestic chores have sex alone exactly it's so 0.98
00:04:47.660 crazy how abominable is the fact that a woman can literally legally steal and extort money from a 0.91
00:04:53.740 husband like she could commit adultery with another guy while she's married marry that guy and the 0.92
00:04:58.300 other and her current husband that she cheated on still has to pay him out prayer alimony in some 1.00
00:05:02.380 cases she steals his kids and he has to pay child support that would be that's just as abominable
00:05:08.860 is if a man cheated on his wife marries that new woman and then literally is able to legally force
00:05:14.620 the former wife to do everything that she was doing in the marriage she's got to come over 1.00
00:05:18.060 and be the major domestic chores he still gets to have sex with her whenever he wants and then 0.99
00:05:21.420 she still has to bam it's crazy right they would never stand for it it's it's it's so freaking 0.99
00:05:25.820 wrong it's absolutely wrong so so like the only people that are getting raped in this country are 0.95
00:05:29.900 are men men are getting like great across the board they're literally treated as second-class
00:05:33.580 citizens yeah they don't have they're treated second-class citizens they they um they'll get
00:05:38.060 looked over because they were born the unlucky gender whether it comes to college or it comes
00:05:41.660 to jobs etc like um women just are are naturally seen as they own the children men don't even have 1.00
00:05:46.380 50 rights to their children right like you know like like women women can can literally kill the 1.00
00:05:52.700 baby um and uh but if the guy wants it he's gonna take care of it she can she can walk away he can't 1.00
00:05:58.140 make her have the baby right and so if she tricks him and says oh yeah i'm on birth control or oh
00:06:03.180 yeah i'm not ovulating right now or blah blah blah blah blah and so if she knows that he's
00:06:07.660 just in it for the sex and since she says she's not ovulating or whatever or she says she's on
00:06:11.820 birth control um you know and most guys don't verify that that's just that's just the point
00:06:15.900 and so he was just in it for the sex she knows that but she wants a baby and she's going to get 0.77
00:06:19.660 it at all costs she can have that baby the guy never wanted to be a father and then she can 0.99
00:06:23.340 extort him for money for the next 18 years like it's a grift like it's a scam they know what 1.00
00:06:27.740 what they're doing right you know like uh that's that's crazy okay if a woman wants to do that 0.53
00:06:32.280 okay uh that's unethical and immoral fine but you should not be able to legally steal from a guy
00:06:37.140 like you're on your own and so okay so then abolish child support yeah that it's so crazy
00:06:42.180 the trap the conservatives were both like oh no we love child support that's literally making this
00:06:45.800 problem continue and worse all right so no child support um like uh i would out out just like just 0.97
00:06:51.320 like the bible says uh women aren't allowed to divorce with that with that freedom they just 0.91
00:06:55.080 divorce all the time like i felt like a divorce so so 70 of the divorces file are done by women
00:06:59.960 and 80 of their file 76 of their reason filed is irreconcilable differences it's not because of 0.92
00:07:05.880 abuse it's not because of addiction it's not because of all this other crap one percent's
00:07:09.320 because of abuse uh four percent's because of of addiction and it's like uh 19 is because of
00:07:14.300 adultery and usually that's the woman actually question do you yeah like would you and we would 1.00
00:07:19.660 and and uh take away the 19th as well yeah so so and then we would yeah outlaw women working 0.97
00:07:25.580 and work for so they can do work just not for money so you know what do you think about um 1.00
00:07:31.100 maybe get rid of women's bank accounts too yeah yeah yeah yeah because my dad has access to mine
00:07:37.740 i'm like i would not even care if my dad like whatever but um okay but for the divorce like 0.93
00:07:44.780 my thought the only pushback i would have is as a guy why would you want a chick there that doesn't
00:07:49.980 want to be well like like like it says in the bible that like people never read like if if 1.00
00:07:54.620 if the woman's being rebellious and she's not doing anything she's supposed to do as a wife
00:07:57.660 the man's allowed to put her away oh okay so that's just exactly and then and then back then
00:08:02.220 exactly yeah yeah so so so basically separate from her and then she didn't she didn't have all of
00:08:07.900 society catering to her protecting and providing for so it would suck so the guy actually had 1.00
00:08:11.980 leverage if the woman was I yeah so if the woman was being an evil bitch the 0.99
00:08:16.060 guy's like okay you're not getting my protection my provision my love okay 0.98
00:08:19.320 then you're not getting that and so and she's like oh my gosh I'm outside this
00:08:22.960 freaking sucks okay sorry you know I want your protection provision in love
00:08:26.560 okay sorry I'll be good you know you know like just so you guys as an example 0.99
00:08:32.320 so if you decided tomorrow I'm doing I'm not doing shit around the house you 0.62
00:08:38.260 would get kicked out in this scenario and then would she be divorced then um 0.69
00:08:44.260 so yeah yeah yeah right I catch you um yeah yeah that okay so like uh so I'm
00:08:54.760 obviously we divorce her yes he would have to initiate it yeah oh cuz the men 0.99
00:08:58.960 wouldn't be bitches anymore yeah like so here's here's our other solution to 1.00
00:09:03.320 like when it comes to like dating the marriage so with the way the current 0.99
00:09:06.280 situation is like um number one all men that can't should go big town like preferably don't have
00:09:12.060 anything to do with women whatsoever like their their lifeblood is is your attention and and women
00:09:16.100 need your protection like they need men's protection so not only do they want men 0.98
00:09:19.840 without men's protection they they just die right like and without their provision they do that too 0.83
00:09:24.220 right you know like if you look at naked and afraid like women can't survive on their own
00:09:27.520 like any poor men are doing it too yeah yeah so so so mctow first and foremost like now if you if
00:09:34.240 you can't emotionally do that okay well then i have the game video for that right so um in like
00:09:39.020 a a very outfitted like domineering fashion like vet her initially and i'll have to talk with her 1.00
00:09:44.160 too say that like obedience is required you know like in the dating process and if at any time she 0.99
00:09:48.860 reneges and that's not then you're you're going to break up with her or divorce her so and if you
00:09:53.260 exactly and if you do get married don't get married by the state so like that just allows
00:09:57.720 her to legally extort you but if you're not legally married by the state then you can't
00:10:01.700 They didn't have legal state government marriage throughout all of history.
00:10:04.980 This is a recent social construct. 1.00
00:10:06.660 And then even children give her leverage. 0.95
00:10:09.260 And the children belong to the men, if we had to redo that.
00:10:12.400 And that's how it's been for all of history. 0.80
00:10:13.960 The woman was under the protection, therefore he had authority over her.
00:10:19.960 Same goes for the children.
00:10:21.540 The man has the authority over the children. 0.73
00:10:23.960 The children belong to the man.
00:10:25.880 Yeah, I was telling Jill, the irony about these trad cons is that
00:10:31.500 they like in spirit of standing on the fence to hop over what side like they actually want more
00:10:38.940 government they're not even conservatives you guys aren't even conservatives they want more
00:10:44.500 government to enforce manufactured laws to where life doesn't have its consequences you guys want
00:10:50.500 child support that's extra government you guys want alimony that's extra government i thought
00:10:55.060 you said you wanted less government yeah anytime like the government gets involved there is there's
00:11:00.160 corruption and there's waste and people abuse the system right so like before we had all of these
00:11:04.320 like socialist like welfare programs going back to 100 years around world war one is when it started
00:11:08.240 before that everyone was taken care of everyone was fine we actually got less homeless you know
00:11:13.240 we didn't have single moms everywhere you know like there were people starving and dying on the
00:11:16.960 street you know etc so people do it much better on a local level yeah so like okay so like uh
00:11:23.100 basically like churches and also family members were generous if that person deserved it but 0.99
00:11:28.460 that's but if a person is being like um like a total piece of shit the low your family in the 0.98
00:11:33.780 church and your local community would know that and they wouldn't help someone who's who's purposely 0.99
00:11:37.520 being bad so like a woman like right she's being a bad woman to her husband and she just leaves 1.00
00:11:41.620 then the community would be like no we're not we're not taking care of you good woman and he 1.00
00:11:45.200 maybe he just wanted to go screw leave with the hot young secretary and take care exactly so the
00:11:50.060 government's not going to know the details but the local people in the area are going to are 0.99
00:11:53.140 know the details right yep so it's so crazy like in our society like um women's like expectations 0.76
00:11:59.380 keep going through the roof but like everyone agrees that men have to protect and die and they
00:12:03.620 have to slave and work for women and then no one thinks that women have to do anything for men it's 0.73
00:12:07.620 freaking crazy but so so so he has to do that for you and he's gonna do that for someone who's 0.97
00:12:12.500 rebellious who's just gonna like cheat on him and leave him later and steal his money and steal his 0.90
00:12:16.500 kids i'll tell you like you know i'm gonna have to evam i'll tell you what my boyfriend said that 0.90
00:12:20.900 I'd women missed the point he said they'll put on a dress they'll cook 0.98
00:12:25.400 they'll clean and they think that's what we want when all we want is for you to 0.97
00:12:30.280 be nice to us I can cook for myself I can clean I don't I don't really he's
00:12:42.560 like it's nice but I don't really he's like they think it's about the cooking
00:12:47.080 the cleaning but we just want you to be nice yes it is yeah the reason i got rewarded by joel was
00:12:54.040 because i didn't expect anything from him i showed up without expecting anything other than his
00:12:59.560 attention like i didn't expect a ring i didn't expect to stay at home and not work i didn't
00:13:05.400 expect any of that and i was pleasantly surprised when i was rewarded but like the primary thing was 0.97
00:13:11.960 that i wanted his company you know and i didn't feel entitled to his company if i was a bitch and 1.00
00:13:18.360 so like that's uh you know the women are entering with all these lists of demands 0.98
00:13:24.600 and so like i say the more she expects the less she deserves you know you should be grateful for 1.00
00:13:29.960 everything you get and and the women just don't have a grateful like they've been spoiled all 0.87
00:13:34.840 their life i mean this is the most spoiled generation ever and they don't know what it's 0.53
00:13:39.080 like not to have hot showers they don't know what it's like you know or anything like that
00:13:43.720 one thing you switched my you made me think about was you said um i think we were talking one day
00:13:49.480 you said hypergamy is bad and i guess i never thought about it like that because i i kind of
00:13:55.400 the way i thought about it was i mean yeah you want a guy that's going to protect you like what
00:14:00.680 yeah i mean get the best you can get but i didn't think about how that never ends you're right it
00:14:06.280 it never ends. It never ends. Exactly. We talked about this for five hours on dating like two
00:14:11.020 years ago. So like the thing is, there's always going to be someone hotter. There's always going
00:14:14.120 to be someone richer, you know, like, so if you, if you keep that mentality going, like you'll
00:14:18.560 never stay married. Like we've been totally lied to you. Like dating is a scam. Like it's a total
00:14:23.900 scam. It doesn't work. Like the only way people actually get married and stay together is if
00:14:28.740 they settle. It's called settling down. Like you will never have a spouse unless you settle down,
00:14:33.680 unless you settle and you continually settle that's what marriage is we're told we're told
00:14:39.520 constantly yeah we're totally we're told constantly that you're not supposed to do that that's evil
00:14:43.680 like you should never settle if you never settle you'll be single for life right because there's
00:14:48.480 always someone better exactly yeah the crazy thing is too is like you know you don't really get to
00:14:53.200 pick like who you marry like you only get to pick from those people that like you back right and
00:14:56.800 it's never going to be that person you're being hypergamous towards well you don't even know what
00:15:00.400 that person's actually like because i think women like the idea like i was even thinking about i did
00:15:05.280 a stream recently about like rich men how women want and i'm like do you guys really know what
00:15:10.320 that comes i mean i don't know most women like we have an attention need you know and i'm like
00:15:16.400 you realize rich men work like a lot yeah like 80 you know they're not gonna have time like i saw 0.99
00:15:23.760 this video that she's exactly this one was talking about marrying an investment banker yeah you want
00:15:30.080 to go overseas where will you be alone if you're going to date dinner trust then finance it's like
00:15:36.400 i was like wow this is not even parody like this girl's being serious i was like this would be
00:15:39.520 parody back in my day this is crazy i know i'm like because my dad were and i'm he doesn't like
00:15:45.600 now i get to see him a lot more but i'm like you realize he would go for like two weeks at a time
00:15:49.840 where you can you be loyal and not talk to other men in that time no i mean most women i think yeah
00:15:55.200 yeah definitely not especially with social media yeah for the yeah for the last 64 years like so
00:16:00.380 if the guy is making more money like the woman wants then he's never home they're not spending
00:16:04.600 time it's so true then they divorce him and leave him because he's not spending enough time with
00:16:08.540 them yeah exactly but then the next guy they go get is a guy that is spending all the time with
00:16:13.740 them that's the that's the guy that they cheated on their their rich husband with and he's spending
00:16:17.020 all the time with them but then they they go ahead and cheat and leave him or it's him because he's
00:16:20.400 not making enough money he's not spending more of his time at work so that means they never get a 1.00
00:16:24.020 husband so this is why women shouldn't be like like they're not logical they're not logical 0.92
00:16:27.820 like i want like okay so so you tell me if women are are men adults or if they're children like uh 0.96
00:16:34.720 this is a women's mentality right here gimme gimme gimme gimme gimme gimme i want this i want that
00:16:40.240 i want that grocery store i want that you want that you know like like so are women adults like
00:16:47.140 men or are they children you know so the thing about hyperbony is like like just like joel said
00:16:52.620 constantly want more and more and that's why arranged marriages was like the key because 1.00
00:16:56.480 that's why but that's why it's a signal of matriarchy because that means women are in 1.00
00:17:01.500 control of who they're dating and they have the leverage when they are hypergamous right 1.00