Pearl - The Modern Woman Lifecycle： Dating Over 50 (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.000 Good afternoon, good evening, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another episode of Pearl's Daily

00:00:23.940 here on the audacity network i am your host pearl and today we're going to be talking about a range

00:00:30.980 of topics was i muted yeah i thought it was it's all right good afternoon good evening everybody

00:00:36.740 welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network i am your host pearl and

00:00:40.820 today we're going to go through a range of topics um talking about women dating over 50. as you

00:00:49.140 guys know it's a cold hard world out there with for women with the kids money debt and being fat

00:00:56.340 and that tends to be women over 50. now before we get into that topic i have a couple prerequisites

00:01:02.580 as you guys know i've been out of town the last couple of days and um when i'm out of town

00:01:09.460 there's just some stuff in the news cycle that i can't look over you know we have our regular

00:01:14.180 programming and there's just some stuff i can't overlook now as you guys know i have had a battle

00:01:22.420 online with the traditional conservative media so as you guys know there is an only fans model

00:01:29.620 to christian conservative pipeline and conservatives are just eating it up they

00:01:33.700 want their religion to be right so bad they're willing to willing to accept anyone and everyone

00:01:39.300 that gets their head dunked in water gone are the days where you have to do real work character

00:01:45.220 change stop seeking attention and you know really grow in who you are as a person instead in 2025

00:01:51.620 in the modern church you can just say sorry that you didn't meet it dunk your head in water

00:01:56.900 and you are fully accepted and allowed to do pretty much anything and nobody can question you

00:02:05.300 Now, I have been at war with Michael Knowles.

00:02:08.160 Now, as you guys know, I'm a fan of Michael Knowles.

00:02:09.980 I think he's a nice guy.

00:02:11.500 However, I do think he is either a moron or selling out, and I don't know which one.

00:02:17.100 Because he had a former prostitute on his show who decided that she was going to be a ho-no-mo.

00:02:26.700 she was going to quit hoeing you know and she was going to dunk her head in water and

00:02:33.480 change now by the way we are here for people that really do want to redeem themselves and

00:02:38.560 really do want to be better people however when you're raising your only fans prices after you

00:02:45.560 got dunked in water and your only fans is not deleted makes me question your sincerity if

00:02:51.520 you're still selling nudes on the side makes me question your sincerity but you know for months

00:02:57.320 i've been on twitter crying and saying guys guys guys this is not sincere but i can't save the

00:03:05.300 simps i really can't do it which by the way guys if you guys want to save yourself from simping

00:03:10.280 we have chad mode now chad is for the ultimate chad mode is for the ultimate alpha male the

00:03:16.160 link is in the description this is pre-workout you can put in your water you shake it up and then

00:03:22.660 you um you drink it and it's like this nice lemon flavor i did it before my marathon

00:03:27.740 and um yeah you guys if you want to support the show feel free to get it it's the second

00:03:34.780 link in the description and it's going to help cure your simping which michael knolls needs to

00:03:39.400 cure um because michael knolls essentially not only did he have nala on he doubled down

00:03:46.680 a year later after she raised her only fans prices still has nudes on the internet still

00:03:51.820 is doing sexual things online he doubled down he said this whore is saved she saved you idiots

00:03:59.320 that's what he said he might not have said that word for word but it may as well have been that

00:04:05.680 Now, finally, the Christian conservatives are catching on.

00:04:08.920 So there's a woman named Mary Morgan.

00:04:10.340 Now, Mary Morgan is a girl that goes on TimCast.

00:04:12.460 Her thing is, I am a virgin, virtue signal, virtue signal.

00:04:15.940 Now, we all know, do we believe virgins in 2025?

00:04:20.520 Do you believe that virgins have not gotten fingered,

00:04:24.260 blown somebody, or done anything?

00:04:27.240 I mean, I'm just being honest here.

00:04:30.360 I'm just being honest.

00:04:31.720 But I don't really care about that.

00:04:33.220 But that's like her thing.

00:04:34.220 It's like Virgin Mary.

00:04:35.200 cool now she a couple of months ago was dying on the hill of this whore

00:04:42.800 she wants me to forget she wants me to forget that she was dying on the hill and saying

00:04:48.080 oh i'm so happy for this horse salvation guys anyone who questions her is just a bad person

00:04:55.680 and that's what i got for months i got pearl you're a bad person you're not a real catholic

00:05:01.600 because you questioned a whore and um now the truth is coming out

00:05:10.320 now apparently the chat's down on the network i think we're working to figure it out

00:05:17.280 you know it we might have some tech difficulties today you got to bear with me

00:05:21.840 which by the way guys the audacitynetwork.com has my full debate of i had a feminist in here

00:05:28.720 last week and we went one head to head but some of the topics i can't touch on youtube so if you

00:05:33.440 want to see that that is the first link in the description and if you want um a show sponsorship

00:05:38.960 is 100 bucks if we get one show sponsor every show um then we have all of our you are all of

00:05:45.760 our expenses covered to keep this amazing production on so for the year okay so now we have

00:05:54.000 we have mary now this is she says anyone else think something is off about this just me okay

00:06:10.320 i can't hear it fly me to the moon oh i might need to mute it because i don't know so hold on guys

00:06:20.320 i'm gonna mute this but so now she's doing i mean this is what we see the the trad life

00:06:25.600 baking content and look at i'm not against a little trad life i mean fellas in the chat one

00:06:31.920 if you want your wife to act like a porn star and bake who would be okay with that one in the chat

00:06:40.000 one in the chat if you'd be i'm not against it right but i want to see what do you guys notice

00:06:46.320 about this what do you notice so here we go okay now we got the baking

00:06:54.880 nothing wrong with this so far nothing wrong with this okay now we got

00:07:03.440 she's spanking the breath another one

00:07:06.480 baby kiss me now i mean i'm just gonna ask what do you guys notice now wait for it the best part

00:07:17.220 is coming what's that's not that's not even the best part i'm just saying can we call this what

00:07:28.600 it is okay what was that like what is that face i mean

00:07:36.300 if you guys haven't seen that face before i have some bad news for you fellas i don't know who your

00:07:47.020 wife is cheating with but it's somebody okay wait next that's not it though you might think oh pearl

00:07:56.180 it's just a face you're too cynical let's see

00:08:06.900 now she's licking the finger you guys know what she's doing but that's not the worst part

00:08:13.620 did she just

00:08:19.140 oh but okay let's let's keep going now wait for it

00:08:26.180 she does a handjob motion on the freaking roller you cannot take these women out of the streets you

00:08:37.080 can't now a lot of people have said pearl it's not like you want her to go back to doing corn

00:08:43.900 yes yes i do that would be more of a service than subpar baking trad content at least when

00:08:56.240 she's doing the corn i mean there's some guy not getting laid in his marriage he could use that i

00:09:04.560 mean or his wife got obese you know there's some guy that could benefit but what benefit is this

00:09:10.000 to society you know hookers have always served a purpose what annoys me is when the hooker is

00:09:15.980 pretending she's not a hooker you're a hooker doesn't mean you're a bad person

00:09:19.800 i prefer hookers than to hookers pretending they're not hookers

00:09:26.460 anyways so now the trads are coming on and i will be on a twitter space tonight around 10 15 p.m it

00:09:34.680 starts at 9 30 but i'm fashionably late as usual um where i am gonna be accepting apologies from

00:09:41.960 all the trads we'll see who shows up there's a lot of people that said some nasty words about me

00:09:49.800 nasty words

00:09:54.280 and i would like some apologies so the next thing we're going to show you guys is i'm going to be

00:09:58.760 reacting to the feminists that came on the show last society would crumble if women's jobs

00:10:09.000 disappeared tomorrow if you guys want to watch the full video of this it's on www.theaudacitynetwork.com

00:10:14.960 the full link is the first link in the description our own society would be fine oh really who's

00:10:20.900 going to raise all the children women aren't even raising kids now who spends more time with your

00:10:26.680 kids their teacher daycare workers nannies for some of you or the mother can we be honest here

00:10:33.800 can we be honest do you think society discriminates more against men or women or do you think it's

00:10:41.320 equal i think that they discriminate more against women but i don't that's not to say that men

00:10:46.120 aren't discriminated oh it looks like the chat's up now in the on the website if you guys want to

00:10:50.920 go you do get unlimited chats 80 80 bucks a year 10 bucks a month unlimited super chat

00:11:00.380 pearl why can't you play the music bed that was sinatra okay well dane it's because i don't want

00:11:08.440 to get copyright well i guess it doesn't really matter i'm demonetized anyway i think it's it

00:11:13.400 not live on the website or no is it am i on there oh no i am okay i'm good against um in some aspects

00:11:21.720 okay how are women more discriminated against um as i've said before um in my own personal

00:11:27.480 experience and so now she's about to cry me a river about complaining now i'd like to say

00:11:35.320 i got nothing against you personally she's a very nice person i got nothing against her personally

00:11:39.720 But I do need to dismantle in real time how stupid this worldview is.

00:11:45.480 And she's totally welcome to do the same.

00:11:47.580 I don't care.

00:11:48.620 Can we do something other than just people say mean words to me?

00:11:52.940 That's the big problem feminists deal with.

00:11:57.080 People say mean words to me.

00:12:01.300 Fellas in the chat,

00:12:02.520 have you ever had somebody say a mean word to you put a one in the chat if that's ever happened

00:12:14.100 because men by the time they're 22 somebody said a mean word to them usually it's a woman

00:12:21.020 so anything other than somebody said something i don't like abortion bans can you name a law

00:12:28.520 that controls what men can do and access health care

00:12:32.420 and the health care that men can access?

00:12:34.440 Is there any laws that control men's health care access?

00:12:37.440 Well, if you want to talk about men's body,

00:12:39.520 men are required to go into selective service.

00:12:42.320 So if there is a wartime, they are required to be drafted.

00:12:45.940 Yeah, and I think that the draft should be abolished.

00:12:47.520 So this is the funny thing.

00:12:51.560 Like, feminists, this is what they have a tendency to do.

00:12:54.920 So women like, and Maggie,

00:12:56.620 like to give credit to maggie the substitute teacher for this she talks about this how women

00:13:02.220 like they don't like to learn we like the awards so we you know men learn things to like do the

00:13:11.260 thing right we like to learn things for the credit it's why women go into stem they become a doctor

00:13:18.380 and then for the rest of their life they'll say i was a doctor even if they never really practiced

00:13:22.220 same with lawyers they'll practice for like a year and be like i'm a lawyer

00:13:26.300 bitch for law there's a law there's a way that women's bodies aren't protected there's a way

00:13:31.900 men's bodies aren't protected no so it's actually uh my question was different my question was can

00:13:35.820 you name a law that restricts men's access to health care that restricts men's access to health

00:13:42.620 care no not off the top of my head so there you go that's one discriminatory women restricted

00:13:48.940 access to health care you can drive to another state and get an abortion i know i should have

00:13:53.340 said circumcision you know sometimes sometimes i should have said it i didn't you know i yeah

00:14:03.020 i know i know i know i know i know i couldn't think of it off the top of my head i i know i

00:14:08.220 should have said i get it i get it i know well then that's also not taking into account like

00:14:15.340 socioeconomic factors right because not every person has the ability or the funds or the time

00:14:21.260 to be able to just cross state lines to gain access we shouldn't have different health care

00:14:26.540 access in different states your your geographical location should not determine your access see this

00:14:31.980 is should and by the way conservatives get into this trap too and i even have gotten into this

00:14:38.700 trap i used to sell t-shirts with this trap i can't say this anymore but blank shouldn't

00:14:45.340 vote, I used to say.

00:14:47.900 I can't say it on YouTube anymore.

00:14:52.080 What I've learned is that should is just a wish list.

00:14:55.980 It's I wish it didn't happen this way,

00:14:58.820 instead of talking about what does happen.

00:15:02.520 So, for example, even conservatives will say abortion,

00:15:07.060 should it be legal?

00:15:07.980 Well, it is.

00:15:10.460 And guess who's in charge of who's born?

00:15:13.360 The ladies.

00:15:15.340 that's to a human right okay well again luckily for women we have access to birth control

00:15:23.320 abstinence and even you can even track your cycle and not get pregnant so i think there's

00:15:29.560 plenty of options beforehand that it really is an excuse if you have an unplanned pregnancy

00:15:36.140 so actually about 50 percent of unplanned pregnancies used protection and so that's just

00:15:42.580 well then you should then you should learn to use it better and the other and the other the other

00:15:46.920 thing is after the kids born you could argue that it's an equally irresponsible move when men and

00:15:53.400 women have unprotected sex or there's some problem with the birth control fine equally irresponsible

00:15:59.020 but after the woman has more control she has the right to get she's the only one who gets to decide

00:16:04.920 if she takes a plan b she's the only one that gets to decide to put them on child support or alimony

00:16:09.600 if they're married um men don't have a right to their wallets after the kid is born yeah so

00:16:18.240 pregnancy involves your body and your internal organs and that is where do you hear that that's

00:16:24.300 the world's smallest violin i am so you know i know there's rumors which is a little offensive

00:16:33.740 i'm not pregnant i don't know who's saying that on the internet but i find that offensive it's

00:16:38.640 like you have a big lunch and they're like um but i we need to stop putting this on a pedestal

00:16:48.360 dogs give birth yep bitches female dogs

00:16:54.860 mice give birth it's really not this and conservatives do it too they'll be like

00:17:04.320 it's the most special amazing and awesome thing and it's like a woman screaming

00:17:07.900 you know i'm not saying it doesn't suck but men put their bodies on the line to build society

00:17:17.460 right more than any money yeah but that's okay that's nine months a year what about the rest

00:17:25.900 of the time what about 18 years after right and so then there's like two years after that that

00:17:31.040 you're breastfeeding and then there's the unequal division of child care and domestic labor so it's

00:17:37.440 much more than nine months but to but to go back we cannot minimize that nine months having your

00:17:43.200 body be not your own for nine months is nine months too long yeah but there are men dying

00:17:49.680 when they go then don't do it go get a hysterectomy done cooked done done you can go live like a man

00:17:58.880 i honestly think that if men could give birth they would do it like if they honestly i swear

00:18:04.640 to god if there is a pill that tomorrow men could give birth and have that terrible like a terrible

00:18:10.800 nine months but they wouldn't have to deal with family court and the kid could actually be theirs

00:18:18.320 i really i mean 18 years is a long time i think men would do it put a put a one in the chat if

00:18:25.120 you would do it i mean you could you could disagree but i don't know i i think i if they

00:18:30.720 could just not have to deal with a bitter ex-wife not have to like men are trying to find artificial

00:18:37.600 wombs to not deal with us i don't know if it'll work but there are rich men paying for surrogates

00:18:45.920 to not deal with this they would do the pregnancy um response responsibility is emotional abuse and

00:18:54.720 neglect we don't want kids or mothers or kids pearl can you say xx chromosomes shouldn't

00:19:01.440 you're trying to get me in trouble dane i hate cuckservatives and left hard simps

00:19:08.560 do you guys if i made shirts that said end simping or like reformed simp

00:19:16.560 no you guys probably wouldn't wear that that's kind of embarrassing isn't it

00:19:20.880 it's like guys know but they don't want to say it right

00:19:25.040 i was thinking of what t-shirts i also was thinking about making t-shirts

00:19:29.520 for everyone in my life that i could just say pearl was right and so you know when they say

00:19:35.520 pearl that sounds crazy and i say wait here's a t-shirt put it on the day you realize when do their

00:19:41.680 jobs and they're not complaining about it they can get it no because men understand that somebody

00:19:47.600 has to do it yeah they don't they they understand well that's why it's admirable that they do it

00:19:54.160 anyway and they don't they said pearls jealous of mary i'll tell you my beef with mary she's

00:20:03.520 made a bunch of tweets psychoanalyzing me so if you're gonna psychoanalyze me i'll say

00:20:09.200 psychoanalyze you right back yeah yeah i mean and two women that virtue look

00:20:17.600 i'm not gonna say i've never virtue signaled i probably have but it was probably annoying when

00:20:25.280 i did it and i find it equal like i just conservatives they just love to virtue signal

00:20:35.040 and it just drives me crazy it'll be like people that talk at a microphone for a living telling

00:20:40.720 men to man up bitch go pave the roads by you complain and that's what i keep going back to is

00:20:49.360 what feminists tend to want is they want all of the credit and they want to over exaggerate their

00:20:54.560 problems so i would actually like to go back to the comparison you made of pregnancy and men going

00:21:00.880 to work do you think those two things are the same i think that a man going to a dangerous job is far

00:21:08.240 worse than a woman being pregnant and do you think that the majority of far far more dangerous i'll

00:21:13.440 say that's more accurate better and good is like it's subjective right yeah and as i've said before

00:21:19.920 i think that we should have better safety should should should calls and we should improve the

00:21:26.000 safety of all workers so i think that that should be addressed but also the majority of it isn't

00:21:31.360 right like are you arguing for it to be i here's the difference okay so feminists have a tendency

00:21:38.560 to think that if we complain things will just happen and i'm more realistic where i know that

00:21:45.280 just because we say oh it should be better well guys i'd finish this but we got to go in today's

00:21:50.720 today's topic the la the link to the full video is on the website it's the first link in the

00:21:57.040 description you can pay 10 bucks a month to get access or like 80 100 a year i think you can get

00:22:08.800 like 20 off or something i don't know um okay next thing

00:22:16.400 guys my guy trump you know okay so over the years i've always said there's not much you're

00:22:23.280 you're going to get me to protest over. Now, there are some issues that I'm very passionate

00:22:28.960 about. But overall, I don't see protesting as overly effective. And to be honest, there's not

00:22:34.300 many issues that are going to get me on the streets at a protest. Like, for example, if there

00:22:38.720 was one over family court, I'd be willing to go to that. But outside of, you know, that, I'm not

00:22:43.760 really going to spend my Saturday protesting over abortion. These hoes want to kill their kids. You

00:22:49.880 just got to let them you got to let them do it you can't stop them but there is one issue that

00:22:54.360 i've always said that i would spend weeks protesting and as an avid coffee drinker

00:23:00.960 it is paper straws i remember when paper straws were introduced on the scene about 10 years ago

00:23:09.140 and it was the worst day ever i went to starbucks and they gave me a sippy cup and i said what the

00:23:16.100 hell is this we've banned plastic straws get imagine color me shock and I thought and at first

00:23:25.760 this was in the city and then it slowly came to the country and Starbucks all over and Trump has

00:23:31.280 officially signed an executive order banning plastic straw or paper straws this is the best

00:23:43.020 day of my life you know what my guitar teacher works for a pita and we're pals he's been on the

00:23:50.540 show and i want to call i half of me wants to call him and brag because i'm so happy

00:23:58.700 i'm so happy keep your straws keep them plastic plastic plastic president donald trump on friday

00:24:08.380 raged against eco plastic paper straws promoted by his predecessor joe biden and pledged that the

00:24:15.180 united states would return to plastic ones the move is latest on green issues since returning

00:24:19.980 to power after pulling out of the paris climate change agreement and ordering deregulations as

00:24:25.820 part of the drill baby drill agenda if you guys want to be an alpha male like trump go get chalk

00:24:35.100 second link in the description pre-workout with testosterone anyways

00:24:41.580 next um on the website i have it now birthing people shouldn't vote

00:24:50.380 dane you're gonna get me in trouble justin who need a simp coach shirt for guys who need simps

00:24:56.060 to grow a pair ooh maybe we can make a shirt for like you guys to send with to your simp friends

00:25:03.900 you know when they white knight maybe you can get like uh we could design a white knight t-shirt

00:25:09.020 that you could send to your friends that white knight for women they don't know or

00:25:17.580 like a simp recovery shirt robert i would i want all marriage and family law the courts

00:25:24.220 to end let people figure it out themselves no more court exchange of money damn i would

00:25:28.380 love to take this girl to work and she can tell me how to make my job safer wait

00:25:33.900 justin on the website where do you work can you dm me i might be able to set it up

00:25:38.080 it's better if you're in washington that would be pretty funny pretty funny okay

00:25:42.960 all right um and last on the agenda kanye west is back on x guys and i can't read all of these

00:25:55.240 because of youtube i'm also not going to say the n word not that i'm like i'm one of those

00:26:02.580 moralists that's gonna like you know crack on people for doing it it's just not really in my

00:26:08.880 vocabulary elon stole my

00:26:13.380 i can't even say this my not nazi swag i think i could say nazi i'm not for it youtube i'm not

00:26:23.820 for it i'm just reading the kanye elon stole my nazi swag at the inauguration yo my guy get your

00:26:30.940 own third rail n-word newsflash white people and jewish people are different you can get money with

00:26:39.440 jewish people but they always going to steal and invite you over to their house on friday white

00:26:45.640 people do not fuck with with n-word they leave that to the jews if you think you getting money

00:26:54.080 wow all white people are racist

00:26:59.840 oh this is so funny

00:27:05.600 okay wait all you broke ass n-word bitches honky

00:27:12.040 jews it's whatever i know n-words thinking he talking all that shit on the internet

00:27:20.420 but he won't say it to my face why the f would i ever let you talk to me you broke dumb ass retards

00:27:27.840 okay this is i don't need or want celebrity support every celebrity is broke talking to you

00:27:40.160 can't do shit but lose me money i don't give an f how many people you killed or went to jail

00:27:46.520 going to jail is a very achievable goal n words sold all the drugs and it's still

00:27:51.960 and they still have to rap for a living i say whatever the f i want

00:28:03.160 am i allowed to talk let's see if y'all give that money back i love

00:28:12.200 wow

00:28:16.520 okay well

00:28:19.640 that is crazy um i'd like to say to the youtube rep that is watching this

00:28:28.200 i think kanye is funny i'm not necessarily agreeing i'm just i think he's a funny guy

00:28:35.540 okay now we're gonna get to today's topic um first i'm gonna read the chat with which if you

00:28:43.560 guys want to participate one yearly membership sponsors a show if we get one each show I think

00:28:49.780 I'm going to read the ones recently that we've had join new subscribers to the network we got

00:28:55.340 Justin Tom Marcel David Arvin I always read first names don't worry guys I will not read your last

00:29:03.440 names. Thank you for signing up and watching. Okay, next on the agenda. So I've talked about

00:29:14.680 the modern woman life cycle on multiple shows the last couple of weeks. And just to recap,

00:29:22.400 to get into it. The modern woman life cycle is that modern women will go to a high-priced

00:29:28.860 institution to get a degree that nobody cares about, put themselves into a whole bunch of debt.

00:29:32.920 that will burden them for the rest of their lives all they learn in school is how to be

00:29:37.000 disagreeable and how to use men modern women will get a job that is too stressful and does not care

00:29:42.320 about them in reality the job is not that hard or stressful but women love to take credit

00:29:46.220 and convince themselves things are harder than they are modern women feel entitled to a certain

00:29:51.960 lifestyle when they begin their careers and will buy houses and cars they can't afford or spend

00:29:56.900 all their money on travel while ignoring their student loan debt. Modern women will wake up

00:30:04.200 between the ages of 33 to 37, rush to have kids, find a husband, or both. Modern women will hit

00:30:09.760 their late 30s and early 40s to try and get pregnant by a loser or go through IVF. Modern

00:30:14.960 women will start on antidepressants and become alcoholics, and then they will buy a dog and die

00:30:20.760 alone now modern women usually have gotten to the last two steps by their 50s by the time a woman

00:30:28.320 has hit her 50s she's met the man she was supposed to marry and turned him down maybe gave her life

00:30:34.140 to a career that didn't care about her or make her enough money enough money to retire probably

00:30:40.860 had a kid out of wedlock if she was married she left her husband seven to ten years ago to find

00:30:46.360 yourself and then find found out the streets are cold because men are not trying to date women in

00:30:52.280 their 50s that's we're going to talk about on the show today women dating in their 50s i think it's

00:30:58.460 sad to see women in their 50s try and date pathetic really where men like leonardo dicaprio

00:31:05.460 they're having a great time i mean if a guy's in good shape makes good money and hooks up with a

00:31:12.920 couple hoes he's having a good time in his 50s women on the other hand if this was 50 years ago

00:31:20.360 these women will be married to their husbands and enjoying grandma spending time with their

00:31:25.380 grandkids but now you have 50 year old women trying to thirst trap on instagram and dating

00:31:31.340 apps 50 year old women being out in the dating market is a recent phenomenon the older women

00:31:35.960 think they can compete with 20 year olds on the dating market okay so there's an article about why

00:31:42.100 women see this, why dating in your 50s can be the happiest time of your life. So when I see

00:31:50.740 articles like this, this is called women coping. Dating can often feel daunting and uncomfortable

00:31:59.840 for women in their 50s who are unattached through divorce or bereavement, or even those who have

00:32:05.440 never been married. However, it can and often does turn into the happiest time of your life.

00:32:09.960 The worst thing as a single woman can do in her 50s is to write herself off from dating.

00:32:15.280 Love can and does happen at any age.

00:32:18.520 That's a coat.

00:32:19.660 While there may not be as many dating apps and services for those over 50, as there are for a younger demographic,

00:32:26.980 there are plenty of ways for women to discover new opportunities in romance.

00:32:30.980 Today's 50-plus women keep themselves in good shape, have usually done all their experimenting with their style and grooming,

00:32:37.780 and have reached a point where they know what they look good in plus women in their 50s are

00:32:41.740 wonderfully self-assured with plenty to offer willing suitors even those who have been plunged

00:32:48.160 into the depths of despair through circumstances such as divorce will find muscle memory resilience

00:32:54.220 they have built over the years to pull them back to reality your 50s are probably the easiest time

00:33:00.480 of your life to mentally claw your way back in armed with willpower determination and a little

00:33:06.620 bit of guidance and direction. Mature dating for those after 50 can be willful and life-defining.

00:33:15.060 Six tips for women. You've got to be kidding me. Don't settle.

00:33:25.720 Don't try and model a new potential love on your previous partners. It's good to go through a

00:33:31.140 period of rediscovery, so consider taking a casual lover or two. You will figure out what

00:33:36.300 you need in your next relationship. Remain open-minded. Don't try. Oh wait, hold on. Sorry.

00:33:44.800 Don't let me reread. I messed up. Don't settle. Try to showcase the best version of yourself to

00:33:51.100 the world so that your forever person finds you. There are many people your age who are in search

00:33:55.220 of the perfect mate. Remain open-minded. Don't try and model a new potential love on your previous

00:34:00.840 partners. It's good to go through a period of rediscovery, so consider taking a casual lover

00:34:05.360 or two while you figure out what you need in your next relationship. Don't rush into things.

00:34:10.660 Matchmaker Yvonne Langton from YL Introductions says that many of the couples she has brought

00:34:18.360 together in their 50s have opted to remain in their own accommodation and continue much of the

00:34:23.620 pre-relationship lifestyle. Couples in their 50s have spent too long building up great life for

00:34:29.740 themselves and while it is not wise to expect a new partner just to slot your current into your

00:34:35.140 current life it can current it can be a giant step to giving everything up check out the gorgeous

00:34:40.860 dating directory an updated directory available for singles of all ages including same-sex dating

00:34:48.620 expand your current network this will be one of the most valuable things you can do to introduce

00:34:53.460 yourself to new love prospects and don't get sucked in by smooth talkers in your dating journey

00:34:59.380 there is an army of men especially on apps who pray by what they deem as vulnerable women in

00:35:05.020 their 50s who think they're going to be so desperate that they will be a pushover that's not

00:35:10.300 you so now we have um tick tocks of women giving um who's divorced but giving advice about dating

00:35:21.020 in her 50s? I need to know in the chat. Be honest. Be honest, guys. I don't want you to lie to me.

00:35:34.320 Would you? If you saw her at a bar, would you? If it was easy, she lives down the street. Are you

00:35:45.300 doing it one in the chat if you're doing it two in the chat if you're not doing it

00:35:53.060 everyone's saying no no no no fellas

00:36:01.300 fellas a couple of you have admitted to banging the whales i know somebody's banging the old women

00:36:08.420 nathan thank you for being honest thank you for being honest

00:36:16.180 uh rup says after a bottle of whiskey maybe i thought so i thought so

00:36:24.820 luke he's doing it

00:36:29.380 doug says women over 35 are impossible imagine women in her 50s doug

00:36:37.540 a bottle of tequila you're not doing it really really

00:36:42.020 Forcing in your 50s, here's what you need to know about dating in our demographic.

00:36:49.020 You've been warned.

00:36:51.020 I'm 53 years old.

00:36:52.020 I was married for 24 years, and I've been on my own for the last couple of years.

00:36:57.020 I'm not on the dating apps now.

00:36:59.020 I'm not actively dating.

00:37:00.020 I'm in a relationship.

00:37:02.020 But I've managed to collect enough dating stories that you would think that I dated for 20 years.

00:37:09.020 years and you know people are going to be broken in different ways so i met this guy early into my

00:37:14.780 dating he was on tinder um i i was banned from tinder i can only speak to tinder in really the

00:37:21.820 fall of 2022 and i think um there were some good guys on there and i might have used them all up

00:37:27.980 high quality guy attorney uh lived in my area he we went on a whole bunch of dates and he knew that

00:37:34.300 i was not looking for anything serious um so he said do you want to come to my law firm's holiday

00:37:39.500 party so i was like of course sure asked him what's the dress code and he was like you know

00:37:43.580 holiday festive i'm like okay great so i end up wearing um like an off-the-shoulder black sweater

00:37:50.220 dress like but it's like skin tight to the knee so i had like the lashes my hair looked really good

00:37:55.660 i had the smoky eye i had the right like dangly jewelry the dress like everything was good i was

00:38:00.460 taking pictures i was sending them to my friends i was like look how i look good you know it was

00:38:03.980 exciting again i hadn't dated since like the prehistoric era so it was like exciting for me

00:38:09.100 to like this is why i'm doing this this is why i'm in the streets this is why i'm on the apps

00:38:12.380 for moments like these but like this is the fun stuff so he's late for the date considerably late

00:38:18.860 like i want to say like 45 minutes where i come out of my building thinking like

00:38:23.500 and he gets out of his car and he's wearing khakis so that was great like he was just like casual

00:38:29.420 friday in 1994. i'm all like skin tight stuffed in lashed okay sure holiday party was at one of

00:38:37.180 the partners in the law firm at his house really beautiful area at his big house it was going to be

00:38:41.820 catered place cards you know chef the whole thing we pull up to the house and it's dark dark like

00:38:49.020 yeah maybe the party's in the back i'm like okay we get out of the car we walk up to the house

00:38:57.020 knock on the door nobody answers now i guess he knows this guy well so he lets himself in because

00:39:03.260 he's like oh maybe the party's like in another room they can't they can't hear up so we walk in

00:39:08.940 dark in the house except for a woman sitting on the sofa bundled in a blanket watching television

00:39:17.820 jumps off the sofa and she's like oh my god oh my god greets him because she knows him he knows

00:39:21.980 her he's the wife of the of the partner and she said nobody told you and i'm like oh my god oh

00:39:27.660 my god oh my god nobody told you we had to cancel the kids were sick they were supposed to call you

00:39:33.340 and he's like no nobody called you so now she's like scrambling so imagine that like you're cozy

00:39:37.340 on your sofa watching like bravo and he's like jackass comes in with his khakis and like some

00:39:43.100 slutty tall date from tinder husband comes like stumbling downstairs he's like oh my god oh my

00:39:48.860 my god they didn't call you they didn't call you no we've established nobody nobody called us

00:39:52.700 that's why we're here we're in your house okay nobody called us so he's like oh i feel so bad

00:40:01.340 can i offer you a drink and i'm like i just want to leave does uber come out here let me just go

00:40:05.960 to dinner let's go to dinner i'm starving and maybe at least i'll get lucky so we go to a

00:40:13.980 restaurant um like 20 minutes away we get there the guys arranged to pay for dinner for us which

00:40:19.140 was really nice and so we sit there and we order food and he looks at me he's like i'm not feeling

00:40:23.500 too well and i'm like what's wrong and he said well i haven't been taking my heart medicine

00:40:29.000 what does that mean god's gonna strike me down by the way i'm not mocking these guys for being

00:40:37.520 broken i'm not perfect okay i have all sorts of all my own stuff like i'm not like look like

00:40:42.920 this isn't like you know supermodel physique but i take care of myself and um i'm like are we

00:40:50.440 like should we go to like an urgent care or to like an er and he's like no so she's going on a

00:40:55.200 date and he's having like health complications in the middle of his date you know i've heard

00:41:00.700 women in their 50s want to date younger i've heard they don't want to date men in their 50s or 60s

00:41:07.820 men in your 30s and 40s they're coming for you who's gonna do it

00:41:13.980 you guys you guys act like i don't know the numbers a third of you haven't been late in the

00:41:18.380 last year i've heard it's higher i think the last study i saw it's like half of men

00:41:24.540 and so you guys are gonna tell me if this woman made it super easy for you you're not doing it

00:41:30.220 really you guys bullshit bullshit bang thank you max thank you max for being honest date no

00:41:41.900 he's 38 my girl just turned 50. with that look and vocal tone no no no jason no the truth is

00:41:50.940 coming out now some guys in the chat are being a little bit more honest that's all i want honesty

00:41:57.740 honesty um i haven't taken i said how long has it been since you've taken your medication he's

00:42:04.600 like you know a couple months i'm like cool um does your doctor know this uh he says no i'm

00:42:12.200 supposed to take it every day i said okay so we end up spending the next like 40 45 minutes

00:42:17.200 with me on ways trying to find a cvs that's open in the countries i was back home in my apartment

00:42:23.840 at 9 30 p.m um and by 9 45 i was sitting on the floor with my polenta fries in front of me

00:42:32.220 and my lash strip oh my gosh guys so when i was in high school i got sent i got in trouble okay

00:42:40.580 my mom i threw a little party and i got my got caught my mom sent me to wisconsin

00:42:46.640 and it really was a little party my mom acted like it was project x

00:42:51.520 it was like 20 people they left me home alone for a month a month i threw 20 people

00:42:58.000 i would do it again uh sorry sorry okay okay so anyway so they sent me to wisconsin

00:43:06.760 as like a punishment to live with my grandma and my grandma was a widow at the time and you know

00:43:13.800 was interesting i remember hearing all the widows talking about dating and this was a problem for

00:43:21.000 them like they were dating in their 60s and 70s and they would start dating a guy and he would

00:43:24.820 just like die because men die before women usually so that was i remember thinking that these 70

00:43:34.740 like 60 and 70 year old women sounded like me and my friends when i was 16. we really don't mature

00:43:41.500 do we my polenta fries in front of me and my lash strips 50 year old woman wearing lashes

00:43:48.960 god help us my polenta fries in front of me and my lash strips on my coffee table you've been

00:43:56.280 warned there are some wonderful guys out there and some wonderful women just remember that we

00:44:02.340 are now going to encounter um a lot a lot of health things that we may not have expected

00:44:07.840 and i've got a lot more a lot more stories i have a guy who the date had to get called short because

00:44:12.540 he had gout i have another guy who's a date had to get called short because the guy had gout

00:44:17.540 after sexy time another guy got a leg cramp and had to leave i can go on again the other advice

00:44:27.460 was go younger go younger and i i tried that for like five minutes and the first guy that i matched

00:44:34.420 with immediately was like oh you were you know you were in high school before i was born and i was

00:44:39.860 like why would you say that to me so i will continue to share these tragic tales along with

00:44:45.980 various pieces of wisdom and advice as you enter into this era of your life or or slowly come out

00:44:53.880 the other side i'm by no means a professional i'm just a jackass who um is also gently worn and

00:45:00.720 and anyone who dates me is also my boyfriend is thrifting with me and i realized that so i'm just

00:45:07.280 letting you know what's out there so stay tuned for the next story there's a lot letting you know

00:45:14.800 yeah so you know she's being more honest and saying look this isn't all sunshine and rainbows

00:45:20.960 ladies i mean how are your exes guys the fellas how are your how are your ex-wives doing now

00:45:26.880 how did their lives turn out

00:45:30.740 all right next we got dating for over 55 is it for the faint of heart

00:45:37.960 a friend of mine thought i should dip my toes into the dating pool so she decided

00:45:45.740 to fix me up with a friend of her husband's and she gave him my number and the conversation

00:45:53.400 started off very nice we talked about his kids and his grandkids and then all of a sudden it

00:46:00.080 feared into a completely different direction he started talking about his gout and his

00:46:08.880 toenail fungus that he's had on his toes for three years and nothing seems to be helping it

00:46:18.060 and his bad back and i thought kill me now oh no i am not ready for this

00:46:26.000 we are five minutes away from depends aren't we

00:46:30.080 yeah you're supposed to be helping with your husband's gout but you decided to die alone

00:46:37.140 instead

00:46:37.760 here's another one

00:46:42.260 stage of life where you just don't care i just don't care i don't care i care enough

00:46:53.400 and this is going to sound harsh and selfish but if it doesn't serve me

00:47:00.300 it's definitely not taking up space in my head it's not

00:47:07.400 it's a beautiful stage of life we i just don't care i don't have the energy

00:47:16.220 or want to take the time to care about the things that don't serve me that don't i feel like she was

00:47:25.700 hot back in the day do you guys see the do you see what i'm talking about like i feel like she

00:47:31.880 was pretty good looking 20 years ago but she stayed out in the sun a little too much

00:47:39.020 but yeah she's basically saying i will not compromise and that's why men don't like us

00:47:45.960 old broads 28 now i'm in the old broad category it had to happen someday fellas

00:47:54.160 I know that there's a lot of you out there feeling the same way and don't feel guilty about it

00:48:04.640 you care about the things that you're supposed to all the other stuff

00:48:09.860 if it doesn't serve you get rid of it sending you my love always I love you whenever they say

00:48:18.560 If it doesn't serve you, get rid of it.

00:48:20.840 It's code for, I am selfish and will compromise on nothing.

00:48:32.040 Dayton, when you're older, sucks.

00:48:35.920 Especially now.

00:48:38.800 I've been in the talking stages with every walk of life.

00:48:43.880 a doctor several law enforcement um hard hat guys um just all kinds and nothing

00:48:56.540 ever gets past really the talking state and i now i'm starting to wonder gosh no

00:49:04.260 like is it just me i mean i don't know man just

00:49:09.540 i mean it's all good i'm happy alone i'm fine alone it'd be nice to find somebody

00:49:17.700 to walk through life you know it's so crazy

00:49:20.360 she still could

00:49:23.740 she really still could grow up with and everything you know

00:49:32.300 love the accent i'm in love god damn it guys

00:49:38.020 she might still be fertile oh my gosh

00:49:53.240 you know i think thanks for being honest i i think we've gotten to a point of honesty and

00:50:02.160 and now i'm just trying to figure things out but man am i the problem

00:50:08.880 like really i i don't know like is it me

00:50:14.340 another woman in her 50s saying she's curious and ready to put herself back out there

00:50:26.380 also we're going to put a link in the chat guys i want to know your experience dating women over

00:50:34.540 50 so i'm going to react to a couple of these we're going to put the link in the chat now

00:50:38.380 it's zoom you guys already know the deal camera's on i need to see you're a person if you guys want

00:50:44.820 to be off camera i won't put you on at first and i'll ask your permission to be on um but if you've

00:50:51.060 dated women in their 50s tell me what they're like you know get ready with me as i prepare to go on

00:50:57.640 my first first date in two years so for those of you that follow me you would have seen my previous

00:51:02.820 post where i talked about putting myself back out there partly because i know that i'm ready i've

00:51:08.480 done the work on myself and also well i'm curious we've all heard about we've all talked about how

00:51:13.920 difficult the dating scene is and i want to see for myself especially also guys let's get to 800

00:51:19.980 likes on this video if you can't join the network to support us hit that like button especially

00:51:24.720 when you're 50 something I know that there is this big debate about coffee dates or not to

00:51:30.240 coffee date and whether it's low efforts or not but I've learned especially in those two years

00:51:35.480 which I've had out that dating isn't about nice meals and what you can get it's about getting to

00:51:41.800 know someone and it is a process this time around I am dating with intent and I'm definitely taking

00:51:48.320 things slowly trust me there is no point having a fine dining experience eating your seared scallop

00:51:54.560 across the table from someone that you're not really into and actually for me the process has

00:52:00.740 already started having been in a relationship with someone who had an avoided attachment style

00:52:06.220 I knew that was a mistake I didn't want to repeat again so one of my boundaries was that I was not

00:52:12.260 going to have a texting digital relationship communication talking on the phone was definitely

00:52:17.620 a must for me it's something I communicated right from the start and it certainly helped sort out

00:52:22.340 the wheat from the chaff but if you want to break out the cycle of the good morning text then you

00:52:26.820 have to state what it is that you want right from the start another thing I insisted on and I highly

00:52:32.580 recommend is having at least one facetime call before you meet again this sometimes gets mixed

00:52:39.140 reaction but you know catfishing it works both ways and there is a big difference between seeing

00:52:45.780 someone's face on the screen and just hearing their voice on the phone okay so i have my vintage

00:52:51.220 todd's bag and my scarf to complete the look now if some of you think i am a bit overdressed for

00:52:56.980 a coffee date that's because we are meeting somewhere rather nice which has a dress code

00:53:02.020 of smart casual now of course i'll be taking you with me but don't forget to follow for an update

00:53:07.620 i just want to hear maturity from one of these women

00:53:15.060 all right now this is a dating coach she's not over 50 i don't think

00:53:20.740 looks like 30s um and she says women shouldn't chase unless they're in their 50s

00:53:28.140 i love it when the dating coaches are coming around

00:53:32.300 do we have the link in the chat yet just try to pin it if you can

00:53:37.500 ladies in their 50s are mad at me and we're going to squash that you know why they're mad at me

00:53:42.500 because i said that after you are 50 i give you permission to chase a man now i normally don't

00:53:50.020 clarify what i say because i don't feel the need to but for you my ladies i will because we are a

00:53:54.760 community and it's important to clarify so let's begin the reason i said one of the only times i

00:54:01.880 give you permission to chase a man is 50 plus it's for several reasons it's not just willy nilly i

00:54:06.860 just said it number one you've gained the wisdom to know when a man is worth chasing just for fun

00:54:12.580 because they haven't promised to god they have got a hot body because you want to want to stand

00:54:17.500 with him hence the cougar archetype exists for a woman who is older and knows what she wants

00:54:24.060 and she knows it's just for a sport hence the cougar young women don't have that perspective

00:54:28.980 yet also they have the burden of reproduction however you swing that cat your biology is your

00:54:35.240 biology so when you're at a reproductive age when you are sleeping with that man your body's like

00:54:39.680 oh my god he's the father of my children doesn't matter how you do it however once that burden is

00:54:45.820 off you you can do things with your mind with your logic more they say that women gain a more yang

00:54:53.000 masculine energy perspective on life after their cycle finishes and that's a great thing that means

00:54:58.660 women can succeed in business for longer than men whilst men's testosterone drops and they become

00:55:04.180 more emotionally in tune yes but it's a whole different subject i am not saying that you should

00:55:10.500 i'm not saying that you ought to chase man no no no stay in your feminine be a goddess let him

00:55:16.280 chase you but one of the only times that you can chase a man and you can do whatever you want

00:55:22.720 because you're now the queen chess piece you can you're not a princess anymore you can chase him

00:55:27.640 not chase him you can do what you want because you have enough wisdom and a perspective

00:55:30.600 nope dane says the british black lady is taking things slow because she's old as dirt it's the

00:55:37.200 only speed she has pearl i still date deeter she's 52 does that count no dane your wife that

00:55:46.180 you met when she was like 18 does not count her dane pearl is it just me yes yes it's you

00:55:55.020 only seven in the chat i know rich it's tough out here hormones i'm pretending that you're

00:56:03.120 trying to have babies you can do what you want and if you want to stay in your feminine go for

00:56:07.660 gold if you want to chase the pool boy go for gold that's your freedom time okay

00:56:12.340 yeah women got a chase in their 50s because they have no other choice nobody's chasing them

00:56:19.240 now we got a woman crying I love

00:56:23.540 nobody nobody prepares you for what it's like to date after 50 when you've been married for a

00:56:35.840 really long time how can you be prepared for this I have been single for 14 months

00:56:43.800 and in all transparency I have done very little dating very little you can't do a lot of dating

00:56:51.020 you're fat I'm I'm a firm believer that women can get a man at any age no matter how ugly and fat

00:56:59.460 there's no such thing as a female incel because there's always a simp there just is um however

00:57:08.360 you're making your life a lot harder if you're wailing it especially as a woman

00:57:15.360 I mean the men can get away with it if they're like charming and successful enough

00:57:22.200 but women like guys are pretty shallow they're pretty they're pretty look space initially

00:57:31.900 everyone's saying she's a no way i know there's somebody in this chat there's 827 people in here

00:57:39.220 somebody's gonna do it somebody on a slow tuesday i tried dating apps i wanted to see if i could

00:57:47.560 put myself out there again i was lonely i was looking for some companionship and i turned to

00:57:54.600 the apps. Well, that's a whole other video. One thing I hear from so many people my age

00:58:04.140 is the older you get, the more difficult dating becomes because the less willing you are to

00:58:11.060 compromise on things. Do you guys agree? The older you get, the less willing you are to compromise

00:58:18.580 eyes on things all right and lastly we got this one last one and then we'll take some callers if

00:58:25.480 you've dated women in their 50s call in tell me your experience or maybe no one will call in

00:58:31.700 because they're like hell no we're not doing that i've experienced with real men while dating in my

00:58:39.440 50s there was the real man who asked me out for dinner and then after i'd gotten ready ghosted me

00:58:46.120 which is a really nice way of saying he stood me up. There are the real men who sit there until I

00:58:52.500 pick up the tab. There's the one who sent me profanity-laced text messages after I said I

00:58:58.880 wasn't interested in a second date. There's the one I went out with one time who had served prison

00:59:04.520 time for fraud. There's the other one who left off a very concerning and unflattering detail

00:59:11.400 off his dating profile and also out of our initial conversation over our coffee date

00:59:17.140 that he'd been charged with attempted murder and served prison time what i'm hearing is she likes

00:59:21.960 criminals classic still married there's the one who spent most of our date complaining about his

00:59:29.360 lazy wife but after i got home i looked up their divorce decree online just out of curiosity

00:59:35.220 because he did ask for a second date.

00:59:38.000 Turns out she was a highly paid executive

00:59:40.120 and the decree shed light on,

00:59:43.600 well, he'd spent a lot of their marriage not working.

00:59:46.500 I wish it was satire.

00:59:48.360 That's what dating in my 50s has been like.

00:59:55.680 What a time.

00:59:56.780 all right let me let me join the zoom all right guys now it's time to call in

01:00:13.640 have you dated 50 year old women how has that gone for you

01:00:19.160 how is that gone

01:00:22.360 all right let's see I'm muting mine I need one at a time so I need to there should be a waiting room

01:00:32.400 okay let's see

01:00:38.240 put CK up first and then put Sean in the waiting room we'll do him next

01:00:49.160 we're not waiting room okay there we go oh that's fine like that is fine just mute them

01:01:00.320 okay sean we'll bring you up next okay all right well can you bring them up welcome

01:01:07.660 oh no where'd it go it was both of them

01:01:19.160 Okay, can you put it on the screen so I can see it?

01:01:24.680 I don't know.

01:01:25.340 It kicked me out.

01:01:26.920 Like the blessing, that was me.

01:01:39.820 Have you guys ever, in the chat, let me know.

01:01:45.100 Have you ever dated women in their 50s?

01:01:49.160 what's it been like for you okay we got

01:01:56.520 okay i can't hear him i don't know if you can

01:02:02.520 no okay his camera put in the other person then because i don't see him

01:02:08.840 it should you should admit me too because so then i can and then make me a host so i can kick people

01:02:15.320 out the link is in the chat guys we're working through this right now

01:02:27.800 i'm 38 my girl is 50 everything good for the past five years

01:02:45.320 Is no one in the chat anymore, or what happened?

01:03:10.080 Oh, it's not going now.

01:03:15.320 Do you think you can fix it or no?

01:03:28.320 Okay.

01:03:30.320 Well, while we're waiting, guys, we'll just look at more of the Dr. Bronte clip we were

01:03:50.060 watching earlier.

01:03:51.700 We'll go like 10 minutes in.

01:03:53.540 it states when were women allowed to have going to put on their own bank accounts

01:04:03.300 women were allowed to have their own bank accounts in 19 what does that have to do with writing

01:04:10.680 you're changing the topic no i'm not you're changing the topic because i'm right they were

01:04:14.920 allowed to write they were you're the one who brought up female writers that wasn't okay go

01:04:19.440 ahead go ahead so um sometime in the 1900s i can't remember the year yeah it was like in the 1970s

01:04:26.900 is when women were allowed to have bank accounts so when we're talking about what's happened since

01:04:30.960 what's happened since we got bank accounts we own 80 we own 80 of the world's debt there's a reason

01:04:36.520 people did things the way they did you don't think that women should be able to have their own bank

01:04:40.260 accounts i don't think they shouldn't have bank accounts i think everyone should have the should

01:04:45.500 have the right and they do but the re there's a reason i think when we look at the past we have

01:04:51.420 to look at the reason that people did things and one of the reasons is women are very irresponsible

01:04:57.580 with money they own 80 of the world's debt even though they make less money than men

01:05:03.180 so did you know that the majority of household finances are regulated and controlled by women

01:05:09.020 yeah i knew that you got it okay guys if you want the full

01:05:13.580 full one of that um it's on the website first link in the description

01:05:19.020 um it's like an hour and a half two hour back and forth we do it's pretty entertaining if

01:05:24.620 you want to watch it if not it's all right um okay i'm gonna put them on the screen

01:05:33.820 all right yeah they can't their cameras have to be on

01:05:39.340 um we don't put them on like the screen first but i need to see them there

01:05:47.420 like on the tv

01:05:50.380 i don't the other he was able to put it on the tv somehow and like it wouldn't be on screen yet

01:06:02.100 i don't know how but or if you let me in the zoom i can at least see them

01:06:09.140 and uh like you have to the one that says blessing is me there there okay

01:06:16.500 okay now that's muted so i can hear okay you can bring them up are um are you good to be on camera

01:06:27.620 you're talking to me yeah are you good to be on camera yeah i'm good to be on camera

01:06:33.560 okay let's bring him up then

01:06:35.480 welcome to the show sean how's it going hey it's going well pearl uh so yeah i mean the topic is

01:06:51.080 like dating women over 50 uh i have twice actually okay one back in 2014 and that was kind of like

01:06:59.440 free dating apps and things like that i happened to meet her at like a whole foods okay and she

01:07:05.560 looked pretty good to be honest like she kept in shape like she she did all the maintenance that

01:07:10.420 maybe you see let's say older women in new york city as an example who tend to like really keep

01:07:16.120 in good shape uh like compared to like the rest of the country so she looked pretty good for her age

01:07:20.500 i would say uh but she was primarily looking for fun if that made sense like usually when older

01:07:26.700 women are dating younger men they're not looking for anything like long-term or serious so we dated

01:07:32.460 for a few months uh it looked like she was just looking for you know someone servicing her car

01:07:38.100 we'll just call it uh and that was pretty much it and how old were you at the time uh i was 24

01:07:45.200 so she was probably I want to say around 54 55 she was divorced she had kids around my age

01:07:53.480 her husband was out of the picture he went to jail for some sort of like financial crimes

01:07:58.180 and so he's kind of out of the picture so that was kind of how that ended up and then I dated

01:08:06.840 another woman in her 50s this was about a few years ago before I met my current girlfriend

01:08:12.580 and similarly she had kids around my age uh but what I noticed was she was way more entitled

01:08:20.080 uh she kind of had that sort of like mentality of like the reason she divorced her husband was

01:08:26.320 because he felt like he was not ambitious enough and she could kind of do better uh and then I

01:08:31.020 guess post-divorce she's just like meeting guys on the apps just kind of like having a lot of fun

01:08:35.940 if that makes sense with a bunch of different guys and so kind of seeing how it's affected women

01:08:40.500 post social media post you know dating apps coming out I think the behavior has now changed

01:08:47.160 to hook up with as many guys as possible they're not necessarily looking for relationships as they

01:08:54.180 may claim they are at least the one that I experienced was like that okay so neither of

01:09:00.640 them were looking for relationships they both just wanted to have fun but you it sounds like

01:09:04.880 you're saying the second one was a little crazier maybe like she seems yeah she was definitely

01:09:09.240 crazier definitely more entitled and i think that's i think that behavior is now more the norm uh

01:09:15.480 post social media post smartphones and things like that coming out um they may have been looking for

01:09:21.480 something long term but it might just not have been with let's say guys my age yeah uh so that's

01:09:27.320 where i would kind of put them in that that sort of bucket got it got it well thanks for telling

01:09:32.520 me about your experience sean i'm gonna take the next caller that's good thanks pearl thanks

01:09:39.240 okay we got uh ck next are you good to be on camera thumbs up if you're good good thanks girl

01:09:46.280 thanks okay we got uh ck next are you good to be on i think someone's echoing uh can you hear me

01:09:54.920 all right yeah can you turn off the show in the background yeah my fault sorry about that it's

01:10:01.000 okay are you good to be on camera i'd actually rather not be on camera if that's all right

01:10:05.960 okay that's fine um so women in their 50s um how many of you dated yeah so i did this one time i

01:10:16.760 have one experience um and it's actually similar i think to the last caller um where i was in my

01:10:24.680 early 20s and i tried dating someone that was um i think she was actually 49 when i met her but she

01:10:31.960 turned 50 um the time in the time that we were together and did she want something serious i'm

01:10:38.680 guessing not if you're in your 20s what's interesting is i would probably say yes but

01:10:45.880 i don't know it seemed like her actions weren't really in alignment or like she didn't know how to

01:10:52.440 go about something serious um to be honest i for me it was just a different scenario where

01:10:59.400 she came on very strong um she was never married no kids um it was kind of a weird situation lived

01:11:05.960 alone had like a beautiful condo and i was when i was in my early 20s it was like oh cool like you

01:11:12.040 know it was almost like you know she saw like a motherly role and kind of hopped in as weird as

01:11:18.840 that sounds but i know that she obviously wanted something in return and it got very toxic very

01:11:25.720 fast. It was definitely my worst relationship and the one that, you know, I had a lot of hard

01:11:32.660 learning lessons from, I'll say. Why was it your worst relationship? Like, what went toxic?

01:11:39.920 Wow, that's a great question. So, I had been in a couple other relationships just kind of

01:11:45.340 throughout college and high school, and they were all very, you know, just very, in my opinion,

01:11:52.320 just normal relationships um but this one it almost felt like she had and it kind of came

01:11:58.720 out at the end where she's worded it this way but she had a lot of trauma and baggage from

01:12:03.920 a lot of her dating life um she had been single for i think about almost 20 years i think it was

01:12:11.440 like her early 30s where like her engagement got cut off um but she was living you know the fun

01:12:17.280 single life um in a big city she was very well off financially and also a very attractive woman

01:12:23.520 um so it was like kind of fun something i joked around with with my friends at the time but it

01:12:28.880 quickly became like more and more demands more and more that she wanted to see me um i had her

01:12:34.480 do some of the craziest things um she would throw things at me when she was angry and things just

01:12:39.760 kept escalating very quickly and then i knew i had to get myself out of here she also contacted

01:12:45.120 um when i had left one time because she was acting crazy she had like contacted my sister

01:12:51.140 like it was like stuff i had never seen before just like saying like the craziest things all

01:12:57.260 the time and doing crazy and she was like your mom's i'd imagine she's like close to your mom's

01:13:02.780 age at that point right yeah at that point my my mom was only like i think five years older than

01:13:07.620 her so um i mean when i look back on it now it's kind of like obviously i'm the i'm the dummy but

01:13:14.540 But I do think that, you know, just the fact that she had been single for so long and she talked a lot about her traumas.

01:13:21.540 You know, she she was just getting she had gotten used, I think, to like dating guys that were well out of her league that would never take her serious.

01:13:30.000 And I guess she was just never really to able to land a guy that she could truly respect.

01:13:34.760 So I guess she kind of she got some type of rush, I think, going after a younger guy.

01:13:40.640 i'm curious what kind of stories did she tell you about being single in the city like

01:13:46.280 was she seeing other guys too or was she only seeing you yeah no so it's it's interesting like

01:13:53.180 so during the first few months um well she always lied about it i'll say i did eventually like kind

01:14:00.140 of find out that she was seeing other guys and then that's when she kind of backed me into a

01:14:03.960 corner and was like kind of turned it back on me and was like hey if you basically don't commit to

01:14:10.200 me um you know i am going to continue to see other guys like i didn't know kind of thing um so at

01:14:17.820 that time you know i just i i remember i was busy kind of just starting in my career and i got

01:14:23.300 uncomfortable you know with with with her and i was like yeah whatever that's fine i really wasn't

01:14:27.760 seeing other girls so i just uh i took her up on it and uh yeah i mean she she just eventually

01:14:35.180 opened up about more and more things um and then it just was very evident that she had been with

01:14:40.140 guys um like for example she used to date a guy that played in the mlb professional athletes just

01:14:46.000 guys that you can tell never really took her serious as for how highly she thought of them

01:14:51.600 um and this was when she was in her 30s so it had been it had been quite some time got it so she had

01:14:57.920 dated guys in the major league baseball how cute do you think she was when she was younger like

01:15:03.200 one to ten yeah she was uh to be honest i would say like up until because i had seen pictures of

01:15:10.500 her when she was like in her late 20s i would say she was like definitely above an eight like a

01:15:15.280 really a true eight probably eight and a half um and that's and i'm very conservative i i would not

01:15:20.860 give uh really a lot of girls um an eight like for example a woman like madison beer i know that

01:15:27.220 people freak out about i would give like a nine so she was definitely up there yeah um

01:15:33.180 um so she just stayed in what city was it uh yeah it was in uh baltimore baltimore maryland

01:15:41.280 and did she stay in that city or had she moved from city to city

01:15:44.840 she she actually was in a city before that she was out in uh san francisco and then she had moved to

01:15:52.220 baltimore um i believe after her engagement broke off yeah i find that like the eight pluses go to

01:15:59.540 a big city and then move to a smaller one when they age out so I was just kind of curious if she

01:16:04.540 had the same life cycle yeah seems like that it was uh it was definitely eye-opening yeah

01:16:11.000 what what did she do to afford that lifestyle yeah that's what's interesting and I never really

01:16:17.940 was able to wrap my my mind around it um she I guess long story short she was and this is going

01:16:26.840 to sound crazy, but she was an executive assistant. I did eventually kind of figure out which company

01:16:31.800 she worked for. She never really talked much about it, but I do know her boss was very high

01:16:38.920 up there in terms of what he did. So I assume he just paid her well. I don't know too much about

01:16:44.220 that though. Got it. Cool. So is that your only experience dating a 50 plus woman or a woman that

01:16:52.060 old yeah for the most part i would say in terms of dating i've had my fun here and there um but

01:16:59.740 yeah definitely after that experience it was like i i'm gonna be honest i think the longer they go

01:17:06.540 single it's the the worst worst of a deal you're gonna get to be honest and eventually all of that

01:17:13.500 trauma all of that um just poor decisions honestly for for many decades just kind of gets dumped in

01:17:21.180 on you by the time you hit 50 and then you try to attach with a woman like that so yeah well tell

01:17:27.820 her if you if you talk to her tell her to call in i'm curious about her life so yeah no definitely

01:17:34.300 and uh thanks for bringing me up pearl yeah thanks for coming yep take care

01:17:40.540 okay i think that's all of them i know there's some if they're saying the zoom isn't working

01:17:47.100 on the website i don't know why we'll look into it for next show um we i don't know it's

01:17:56.300 being over 60. does fishing count as dating over 65. well thanks for guys for sharing your stories

01:18:02.460 i always want to hear you guys's experiences dating and um ladies over 50 good luck i wish

01:18:12.540 you well like the video on your way out guys subscribe to the channel and if you want if some

01:18:18.220 nala apologists want to apologize to me in my twitter space it's tonight at 10 30.

01:18:24.620 sorry 9 30 central um and i'll see you guys later bye

01:18:42.540 Thank you.

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Pearl - February 08, 2025

The Modern Woman Lifecycle： Dating Over 50 (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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