Pearl - May 18, 2026


The Modern Women That Don't Want Kids!

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Coachella
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Length

15 minutes

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209.32

Word count

3,218

Sentence count

42

Harmful content

Misogyny

28

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Toxicity

14

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Hate speech

24

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In this episode, we are reacting to the women that say they don t want to have kids. We talk about the pros and cons of not having kids, the benefits and the downsides of not wanting kids, and the fear of not being a parent.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 We call women these like nurturing special creatures that just are so mystical and magical.
00:00:05.620 I'm like, where? 0.97
00:00:07.400 Evil.
00:00:08.280 We just are not good people.
00:00:09.920 What's going on, guys?
00:00:10.960 Welcome to my reaction series. 0.99
00:00:12.520 Today, we are reacting to the women that say they do not want children. 0.89
00:00:17.660 I don't want kids. 0.93
00:00:18.240 They always say one of three things to me.
00:00:19.540 One, who's going to take care of you when you get older?
00:00:21.240 I would never bring another human being into this world just with the intention of them
00:00:24.320 caring for me.
00:00:24.880 That feels very selfish.
00:00:26.060 I actually agree with that.
00:00:27.280 I don't think people should have children.
00:00:29.120 so they have somebody to give them company or take care of them when they're older i i actually 1.00
00:00:35.340 100 agree with that because um how many women make terrible life choices and just expect their 0.61
00:00:41.020 kids to bail them out of them and it's like well the kid you're not entitled to the kid's future 0.64
00:00:46.080 i don't doug mpa said that's really common in the black community where um mothers just make
00:00:52.100 these terrible life choices and the daughters can't get married because they have to take care
00:00:55.360 their mom you're going to wake up one day and regret it maybe but i would rather regret not
00:00:59.920 having something than have a child that i don't think that i want and then regret that i agree 0.55
00:01:05.120 i actually 100 agree with that i'm not on this train that everyone thinks that all women should
00:01:10.320 have kids and um i i just probably contradicts things i've said in the past but now that i've
00:01:16.640 realized how many like terrible moms there are i don't think like terrible mothers should have kids
00:01:22.560 for the sake of having kids um if they do they gotta give the kids to the dad we gotta get male 0.94
00:01:29.200 authority back in this country and if we don't have that um i mean the kids are just gonna be 0.92
00:01:34.560 devil kids fat broke losers and number three aren't you scared you're going to miss out on 0.94
00:01:39.280 being a parent i am going to miss out on being a parent i know so many good happy loving parents 0.97
00:01:44.240 that being a parent fulfills them in a way that nothing else could i do not think that that is my
00:01:48.480 she meets a guy hot enough she'll change her mind women she's too young to say if she means it
00:01:53.200 journey and i will never know you cannot miss something that you do not have we all miss out
00:01:58.300 on something yes i am going to miss out on being a parent you're going to miss out on years of peace
00:02:02.500 and quiet and being able to do whatever you want minimal responsibilities and a lot of freedom we
00:02:05.980 are both able to have wonderful different lives and that is okay she'll be fine um i bet she'll
00:02:10.980 have kids a lot of women say that and they have kids anyway her grandkids i don't want kids but
00:02:15.440 if i did i'd want them to know i was hot i had fun and i had really good friends why don't you 0.79
00:02:19.760 want kids i hate kids name five things you hate about kids the most they're small they poop they 0.98
00:02:24.400 talk they cry and you have to be pregnant and that's disgusting you don't want to be yeah this 0.98
00:02:29.320 is again we call women these like nurturing special creatures that just are so mystical
00:02:34.620 and magical i'm like where evil we just are not good people pregnant ever no i don't what if one
00:02:41.500 of your brothers had a kid and then for some reason they had to like go to war or something
00:02:44.680 and you had to take care of their kid what war i don't know what are we talking about i don't know
00:02:48.720 i probably wouldn't okay so uh they're just going to adoption yeah bye dang all right let's see this 1.00
00:02:54.020 lady she looks a little older years old and i don't want kids and i was married didn't have
00:03:00.300 kids got divorced got into a new relationship i've been with him now for a few years and we are like 0.65
00:03:05.760 so beyond happy he's the best and i still don't want kids in my regular life i don't ever think
00:03:11.780 about guys are just not attractive enough for her to want kids with them the fact that i don't want
00:03:17.080 kids i don't think about kids period except for when people ask me in interviews or if i'm doing
00:03:22.300 like a solo q a style podcast episode people always ask like no who um who cares about this
00:03:28.900 woman's appearance i think it's kind of weird what people that don't know people are asking about
00:03:33.600 kids you know what i mean it's like i don't i don't know you like i don't i don't really care 0.99
00:03:40.180 if this crazy lady has children that you're in such a good relationship do you want kids and i'm
00:03:44.600 like no i don't know how to describe it other than when you don't want something you don't ever think 0.50
00:03:50.040 about it i don't know how else to describe it anyway if i ever do talk about it i get a lot
00:03:54.280 of backlash from people who say that it's all that i talk about and it's always mom it is a bit
00:04:00.500 of a cope but i'm 40 she has good skin care i don't know if she actually has skin like that i 0.88
00:04:06.340 know these filters I was scrolling on TikTok this morning and I saw this video from a girl who was
00:04:12.280 at Coachella and it was like no kids hallelujah but like a list of things about not having kids 0.99
00:04:17.760 she's obviously just having fun yeah look women would rather do anything else than have your kids 1.00
00:04:23.300 women would rather women would rather go to Coachella women would rather have a useless 1.00
00:04:30.780 hobby. Women would rather play sports. Women would rather do a useless job that makes them 1.00
00:04:38.080 no money. Women would rather be teachers. Women would rather be healthcare workers. Women would 1.00
00:04:43.520 rather work retail. Women would rather do anything else than have kids. And I keep saying this and 1.00
00:04:48.800 we keep saying women are nurturing. I'm like, no, men are nurturing. Women are not.
00:04:53.520 Like who cares? And I was reading the comments and they were so crazy to me because people were 0.60
00:04:58.560 like die alone in a nursing home hallelujah kids are the best thing i ever did people get like so
00:05:03.860 defensive about it as though people who don't want kids are attacking people who do want kids
00:05:08.440 which is not the case like this girl was just having fun and she was literally replying to
00:05:12.440 comments like being a mom is amazing too like as though she owes it to them too yeah do you know
00:05:17.500 what i think a lot of the women that say being a mom is so special amazing and awesome are coping
00:05:21.660 too because if anything having a kid is a responsibility and at some point I'm sure it
00:05:29.080 pays off but there's a reason women go through postpartum depression because they most of the
00:05:34.800 time marry weak men that won't stand up to them validate their experience too it's just so weird 0.83
00:05:41.680 to me attitude that women have towards other women and some men honestly for the life of me
00:05:45.980 can't figure out what it is that makes people lash out and I've said before when people tell
00:05:51.120 me that I'm going to die alone or that I'm missing out on the meaning of life I'm like I know that
00:05:55.020 you don't care about me you don't know me you don't actually care so why are you trying to force
00:05:59.100 it on me women share about their kids all day every day and then somebody says that they don't 0.67
00:06:04.420 want them and it's like you are shoving it down our throats and attacking moms it's just crazy I
00:06:10.140 don't get why we can't just like let people live the way that they want to live I don't know here's
00:06:15.280 think but you're throwing it at everyone's face it's one thing if you're um not telling everybody 1.00
00:06:21.200 and just you know doing your job whatever but you're throwing your personal women throw their 1.00
00:06:25.760 personal life on the internet and then wonder why people ask questions it's like you threw it in our 1.00
00:06:30.320 face saying that i don't want kids and a lot of people were mad specifically men i'm just gonna
00:06:37.840 read some of the comments that i got said she's setting herself up for a tough future choosing
00:06:41.360 comfort and avoiding responsibility now can come back to bite later at the end of the day everyone
00:06:45.440 has to live with their choices but i don't understand turning away from what god intended
00:06:49.120 which is building a family and bringing life into this world i then responded and said how
00:06:52.880 is not having children setting me up for a tough future who's gonna take care of you when you're
00:06:58.400 in your older years you're having a child to take care of you when you're older this man then went
00:07:04.000 out of his way to dm me a reel of a girl talking about how much she loves motherhood that's like
00:07:09.280 me saying, I don't, I don't want to be a doctor. And then people are upset that you don't want to
00:07:15.160 be a doctor and they start sending you real. I don't think we should be upset at all. There's
00:07:19.280 a ton of women that should not be mothers. They are terrible people. So self, like you have to 1.00
00:07:24.480 understand, I interviewed women that would just leave their kids at home while they come on my
00:07:28.700 show at like 10 o'clock at night. And I'm just thinking, who is watching your children?
00:07:34.880 in who's watching them you know what i mean who is watching your kids of doctors saying that they
00:07:42.780 love being a doctor yeah some people are meant to be doctors why a lot of people turn away from
00:07:49.380 religion because people weaponize the bible to only prove their point specifically so here's
00:07:55.160 some scripture verses that he didn't mention i wonder better is for childless with for immoral
00:08:00.800 is the memory of virtue for behold the days are coming when they will say blessed are the barren
00:08:06.120 and the wounds that never bore and the breasts that never nursed huh joy and hope for the
00:08:12.460 childless sing oh barren one who did not bear break forth into singing and cry aloud uh you
00:08:22.180 who has never been in labor for the children of the desolate one will be more than the children
00:08:27.960 of her who is married okay well i'm gonna need to know put in the comments if these are real
00:08:34.460 verses these christian women you just never know it's like they'll take i don't know they just 1.00
00:08:40.540 take the bible and make it say whatever they want why if not having children was such a sin
00:08:46.940 wouldn't jesus himself have i think it's more important to find purpose in a man
00:08:51.680 rather than kids that's my opinion children do you think he just because then the kids are
00:08:57.460 gonna watch the woman torture the man if you're not in his frame forgot god gave you a uterus for 1.00
00:09:03.620 a reason that's your only okay well god put you know what in your you know what what's the reason 0.99
00:09:10.200 for that like oh god gave us a hand that can ball up a fist that means i should go and punch my
00:09:15.140 neighbor god gave me a liver that can help me filter out toxins so that means i should be an
00:09:19.620 alcoholic god also gave you a brain and free will please use it um also there has been a few people
00:09:31.380 that have tagged me and like kid videos or mom videos they're like oh how do you not think this
00:09:35.660 is cute i do think it's cute i think they're adorable i also think baby tigers are adorable
00:09:41.000 if somebody right now was like here's a baby tiger keep it you're gonna be like oh whoa no like to me
00:09:46.960 i just find it really funny how men will go out of their way to shame a woman regardless like if i
00:09:52.480 ended up having children i wasn't the perfect mother would have been shamed if i ended up being
00:09:56.640 a single mother would have been shamed for that too now that i'm saying i don't want kids at all
00:10:01.520 i'm getting shamed for that too you just gotta stop caring what people think um people can feel
00:10:06.480 how they want i don't know why hey that's what i'm saying like i know i know why i don't want kids
00:10:11.760 well i don't get through like a million reasons okay one i'm a very busy person and i don't want
00:10:16.320 want to make the time to have kids i don't want to make the time so i'm very selfish i also don't
00:10:20.160 want to have kids just because i don't want to get old one day because that's not a reason to
00:10:22.780 have kids to have them who's going to take care of me when i'm old who's going to do this we're
00:10:26.120 going to like that's not a reason to have kids that's being selfish i'm not i don't want to have
00:10:29.520 kids because society's having kids and they're telling me to have kids i actually agree with
00:10:32.540 her then she shouldn't have kids if you're too selfish of a person to put another person's needs
00:10:37.160 before you stay out of the dating market stay away from all of i mean i hate it when people 0.59
00:10:43.120 try to convince women that would be terrible mothers to be mothers it's like no she just saved 0.78
00:10:49.020 you just let her have that opinion oh no oh no no no you're a woman and i don't want them because
00:10:55.640 it's not my calling you know how a lot of people they're like i can't wait to be a mom i can't wait
00:10:59.300 to be a dad like and you know they have like five six kids that was your calling that is beautiful 0.66
00:11:03.980 it's not uh women's calling because when women got the choice they stopped doing that pretty much 0.99
00:11:09.200 beautiful thing that is so beautiful but my calling is not that i don't feel that shit in
00:11:13.460 my bones i know my calling is just to like you help people motivate people make people laugh 0.74
00:11:17.240 take care of my family be the best auntie i could be but to have kids i am too selfish with my time
00:11:21.800 and i know that i don't want them so why would i have them just because i feel pressured by
00:11:24.800 society to have them that's not a reason to have kids i don't want all right let's see what's next
00:11:29.580 you don't want kids here we go you want kids like i genuinely want to know without any judgment
00:11:37.420 because I just want to know I am so curious as to why the younger generation I think like I haven't
00:11:44.080 done research on this it's just you know people that I've been around and seeing videos and just
00:11:49.760 like this trend of the younger generation not wanting kids and I for me for me I have a daughter
00:11:57.560 so I'm speaking from experience I could not imagine a life without her and I understand
00:12:04.620 that maybe these are assumptions there are people out there that don't want kids because of how they
00:12:12.520 were raised the types of parents that they had there's some trauma there and maybe that is rooted
00:12:19.480 in fear and then I feel like there's you know a whole other group of people that they just want 0.94
00:12:25.320 to be free they don't want to be tied down by having to be responsible it's simple women will
00:12:32.240 not reproduce with average men we feel entitled to the highest status men in the entire planet
00:12:38.720 because of social media before we were never meant to meet those men but now we're like peasant women
00:12:44.160 mids meeting you know the highest status men in the world so responsible for another human life
00:12:50.560 and they just want to be able to live out their dreams and live their lives and travel and do
00:12:54.320 do whatever they want to do. And I just, I want to know because for me, my legacy is my daughter.
00:13:03.200 I'm passing all of the things that I am, I'm passing down to her and my legacy lives on
00:13:07.420 through her. The Lord has brought redemption and healing and so many other things through my
00:13:15.380 daughter. And I get to be the mother to her that I didn't really have growing up. And to see myself
00:13:23.420 in her and all of the good attributes and her telling me that she wants to, you know, lead
00:13:29.020 worship with me one day, getting to raise this human, it is the ultimate prize. There's nothing
00:13:37.260 else out there that is as satisfying is raising a child. And I, my dreams might look a little bit
00:13:45.840 different now than what they would look like if I didn't have any children. But, you know,
00:13:51.380 I'm a single mom and I, I run a company and I'm still out here accomplishing all of the things
00:13:57.540 that I would accomplish. Yeah. So she probably, um, hired someone to raise the kid for her
00:14:02.120 because it's like, um, I don't know. Well, or maybe the dad's hot or maybe she really gets joy
00:14:10.480 out of the kid. Why is that so hard for me to believe, you know, women, I hate it when people 1.00
00:14:16.160 act like they're like, Oh, Pearl, why do you hate women? It's like, well, why do women do so many 0.99
00:14:20.140 things to make me hate them? Or just why do I have to observe this behavior? Why do mothers have to 1.00
00:14:25.540 be so awful? Even if I were single, but there's so much more fulfillment in it all because I have
00:14:33.880 someone to, to leave this to, and to pass this down to. And yeah, there are days that I kind of
00:14:40.680 have to put things on hold because my daughter comes first, but I'm still in ministry. I still
00:14:46.700 go on mission trips i get to lead worship and have her there with oh my gosh we have a a single
00:14:51.900 mom leading worship that's incredible you're meant to be in the back of the church me and one day
00:14:57.660 she's going to be able to do all of these things with me if she wants to so i just i want to know
00:15:04.160 like why why these women don't want to reproduce with average men um if i had to look at this 0.65
00:15:09.720 girl's baby daddy i'm sure he's not on there i bet he was an above average man so anyways all
00:15:15.620 right guys um let me know what you think in the comments if you can like the video and subscribe
00:15:18.980 to the channel i love you thanks for watching and i'll see you next time