Pearl - November 07, 2025


The Only Solution to Feminism is More Feminism ｜ Women HAVE RUINED NYC

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red-pilled journey cities benefiting women feminism manipulation men women
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Allie Beth Stuckey Candace Owens Brett Cooper Michael Knowles Zoran Mandami Donald Trump Matt Walsh Equinox Botox
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In this episode, I talk about the stages of getting red-pilled, and why traditionalists are worse than feminists. I also talk about why women in traditional marriages tend to have better sex than women in the modern era.

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00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to my coffee thoughts, except today, it's kind of late, so I just have coffee.
00:00:08.180 So, I was thinking about how there's kind of stages in getting red-pilled.
00:00:14.280 And one of the stages in getting red-pilled is realizing that the only solution to feminism is actually more feminism, 1.00
00:00:22.340 and in a way, traditionalists are worse than conservatives.
00:00:25.960 So, when you start on the red-pilled journey, you realize that woke is bad, right? 1.00
00:00:34.460 LGBTQ is bullshit, BLM is a scam, liberalism is a disease, etc., etc. 1.00
00:00:41.200 And I think you could call that, like, low-hanging fruit. 1.00
00:00:44.340 Men can't be women, divorce is bad, whatever, and it's just low-hanging fruit. 0.70
00:00:52.560 And when I was in college, that's really where I started.
00:00:56.800 I guess, for women, it's like high-hanging fruit, because we're very liberal. 1.00
00:01:01.140 But for me, I first was exposed to, like, Daily Wire conservative content in college.
00:01:08.140 And that and conversations with my father really solidified my belief.
00:01:13.200 But in the beginning, I really thought that going back to traditionalism was the answer, you know?
00:01:21.060 And you see these stats, and the stats just seem like a cut-and-dry, like, thing, you know? 0.93
00:01:26.360 You see divorce is bad, and how much it ruins society, how much whores are, you know, ruining everything. 1.00
00:01:34.240 Married people have better sex lives, etc., etc.
00:01:36.800 But what you don't realize is a lot of the people in those stats were just born, one, in a different time.
00:01:42.920 And two, it's not really what it seems, because a lot of those married people are kind of putting on a show.
00:01:51.240 Most of the time, even in more on-paper traditional marriages, it's not really traditional, because the woman runs the show. 1.00
00:01:59.500 And a lot of times, in some really subtle ways, you don't really quite understand, I guess.
00:02:05.360 Like, you might not notice at first, but for example, you know, Allie Beth Stuckey says she's this conservative woman, for example. 0.97
00:02:13.740 But I saw a video of her and her husband, and she's always talking before her husband.
00:02:17.700 She doesn't look to him.
00:02:19.300 Now, you might think that's subtle, who cares?
00:02:21.240 And I don't care at all, but it's just really obvious she's not traditional.
00:02:25.420 And I say this, I point out women like Allie Beth Stuckey, Candace Owens, Brett Cooper, because I really grew up around women like this.
00:02:32.920 Like, women that were just convinced they were traditional. 0.90
00:02:36.040 But half the time, the kids get to be like 12 or 13, and you realize that your mom's insane. 1.00
00:02:41.560 You know, the moms are nuts. 1.00
00:02:43.380 And the dads are really cool. 0.98
00:02:45.480 But the dads have no say.
00:02:48.300 So, I'll come back to that.
00:02:50.040 So, you realize that this was really a different time, and there's no way to have a traditional relationship in 2025.
00:02:59.100 Because, at the end of the day, women will always have the leverage in marriage. 1.00
00:03:05.540 And if anything, by getting married, you are convincing men to go into an untraditional relationship.
00:03:11.940 And you see that all the time.
00:03:12.940 Men say, my wife was really great before we got married, and then she got married. 1.00
00:03:17.140 And now she's a bitch, you know. 1.00
00:03:22.140 So, real life kind of hits. 1.00
00:03:24.680 You know, what you want to be true, and what, you know, your religion, like, taught you was true.
00:03:30.560 When you go into the real world, it's just not true.
00:03:33.100 Like, the Christian men aren't really getting the nice young virgins. 1.00
00:03:36.640 It's the players that are getting them.
00:03:39.020 Virginity isn't this bonding thing that we originally thought.
00:03:42.120 Because why aren't women with the men they lost their virginities to? 0.98
00:03:45.440 So, if it was so bonding, why don't, aren't they with it?
00:03:52.020 Traditionalists are also worse than feminists because they sell solutions they didn't use themselves and would not work in 2025. 1.00
00:03:58.420 So, for example, Donald Trump, to become a billionaire, he had to be really cutthroat.
00:04:03.820 He had to, you know, he probably had to do things that were immoral to get what he wanted.
00:04:07.660 A lot of people in traditional marriages threw it back before marriage.
00:04:12.080 And they say, don't do what I did.
00:04:14.340 It's almost like they kicked the ladder out from under them. 0.98
00:04:16.920 A lot of these women used sex to get what they want and tell young women not to use sex. 1.00
00:04:22.120 I think it's like a mating strategy. 0.92
00:04:25.220 I think it's a mating strategy because in 2025, most men that women find attractive just are not going to wait for sex.
00:04:33.160 They're not.
00:04:33.560 On occasion, it happens, but it's just not normal.
00:04:40.100 On the other hand, if men are traditional and get a stay-at-home wife, you know, there's places like California, Illinois, you're subject to lifelong alimony. 0.94
00:04:48.860 You're telling the man, even though women can work easy jobs in today's society, that he should take on more risk and he's somehow immoral if he doesn't and not, you know, a real man if he doesn't pay all the bills.
00:05:03.720 Even though women aren't holding up their end of the bargain, they're not a virgins on their wedding days. 1.00
00:05:10.160 We have all these easy jobs, you know, and I was thinking about this.
00:05:13.520 I'm like, in a middle-class family, a woman could work as a teacher on the same schedule as the kids and graduate the family, I don't know, 20 years early. 0.59
00:05:22.020 And we're going to say there's something, like, you shouldn't do that.
00:05:29.180 If you date traditionally as a man, you are dedicating, in general, if you do the wait till marriage, you're dedicating your life to someone who threw it back for another guy.
00:05:40.320 And these guys that took these L of a deals, they keep selling this to other men and the other men are like, uh, you know, like they keep saying that women deserve traditional treatment, but women are not traditional.
00:05:56.860 Why should men protect and provide for women that are offering one to two kids? 1.00
00:06:00.440 And there's all these easy jobs women can do in this economy that women fought for. 1.00
00:06:05.460 Traditionalists, in a way, are the worst simps because they say, even though, um, traditional, sorry, traditionalists, in a way, are simps because they say these are not traditional women.
00:06:22.880 Like, they say to give traditional treatment to non-traditional women.
00:06:27.240 These women have the power of the state, the power of the media, the power of an unfair job market, and yet they say, let's give the women more power. 1.00
00:06:35.460 Here's the power of alimony on top of it.
00:06:38.880 Here's the power of, here's kids.
00:06:40.860 You know, again, in order for men to have power, women have to relinquish power. 1.00
00:06:45.860 It's not fair to say to men, relinquish more power, even though the women have relinquished none. 0.87
00:06:52.020 But yet they say, do it anyway, do it anyway, do it anyway.
00:06:56.720 They say you're not a real man if you don't have children.
00:06:58.820 Um, and it's usually elitist men.
00:07:01.740 Like, if you look at the Daily Wire, these are elite men telling the middle-class working men to take these bad deals that the elite men have the money to fight for, right?
00:07:11.000 You know, if, God forbid, if Matt Walsh or Michael Knowles got divorced, I mean, they could afford an attorney.
00:07:17.380 A lot of these men can't.
00:07:18.760 They don't have the time or the bandwidth to fight these battles.
00:07:21.900 Um, and it's usually the elitist men asking low-class men to take bad deals to supplement their standard of living or secure a better future for their children.
00:07:32.000 So, a lot of these people have kids and they want a better future for their kids.
00:07:36.440 But, why do other people have to secure your children's future?
00:07:44.180 That's not fair.
00:07:45.180 And, when you realize, when you boil it down, it's a lot of rich men that want middle-class men to take the plunge to essentially make a better world for their daughters and their sons.
00:07:57.640 And, I realize this, you know, the last, I guess, stage of feminism is the only solution to feminism is for more feminism. 1.00
00:08:05.500 Um, a lot of conservatives sell dreams of some movement changing things.
00:08:09.360 But, in my opinion, the only way women will say, you know what, we're going to give up power is when women are treated like men are. 1.00
00:08:16.480 You know, men are fined $250,000 if they're not enlisted in selective service.
00:08:23.220 Where women are fined nothing at 18 if they want the right to vote. 0.98
00:08:29.200 I say, fine the women. 1.00
00:08:30.780 Make women draft like the men are drafted. 0.98
00:08:33.100 And then, if there's a war, women might say, you know what, we'll give up the voting rights. 1.00
00:08:37.680 We were just kidding, we were just kidding.
00:08:41.040 Women should have the same prison sentences as men if you commit a crime like men do. 1.00
00:08:45.260 You should pay the consequence.
00:08:46.900 Women should work like men. 1.00
00:08:49.220 We have a system that benefits women in every single way. 1.00
00:08:52.420 I don't see why women shouldn't work. 1.00
00:08:55.380 Again, we're not having 10 kids like our grandmas.
00:08:58.240 I mean, pick a struggle.
00:08:59.700 10 kids or work.
00:09:02.280 And women will pick work. 1.00
00:09:03.920 It's not like these jobs that we have are super hard, you know.
00:09:09.180 Women have to get pumped, dumped, and ghosted like men do. 1.00
00:09:12.400 Men get ghosted.
00:09:13.280 Men get taken out on foodie dates.
00:09:15.200 And it's not until women understand the consequence of not being married that maybe we will give up power. 1.00
00:09:21.640 And so, you know what, I love being worshipped out there.
00:09:24.760 But this third case of chlamydia just is too far.
00:09:29.160 Women need to be indentured servants to college. 1.00
00:09:34.240 If we took out a college loan, no student loan forgiveness, pay it back.
00:09:37.920 Women should have to defend themselves like men do. 1.00
00:09:40.220 I mean, men invented guns.
00:09:41.940 Women keep taking men to court over defending us. 1.00
00:09:46.580 I mean, there's like a news story every other week.
00:09:48.840 So, why do we not have to defend ourselves the same way men do?
00:09:54.100 Only when women have the same responsibilities that men do will we maybe and only maybe relinquish power. 1.00
00:10:00.820 Women have the right to vote, and it's not going anywhere. 1.00
00:10:03.180 Women have the right to abortion. 1.00
00:10:04.560 It's not going anywhere.
00:10:05.980 I do apologize for selling that dream because I used to sell t-shirts that said that.
00:10:10.980 It was pretty funny.
00:10:11.600 But in all honesty, none of this is going anywhere because it's going to take time.
00:10:18.760 You know, there might have to be, you know, the problem is, like, let's say we tried to get rid of abortion.
00:10:25.380 The men would be fighting on behalf of women's right to abort. 0.80
00:10:30.400 So, bring this to 2025.
00:10:32.620 Women have overtaken New York City. 1.00
00:10:34.400 You know, cities benefit women because they get access to high-value men, men out of our league. 0.82
00:10:43.060 There's more events.
00:10:44.300 There's more free stuff in cities.
00:10:46.540 And if you really look around and pay attention, most cities are just daycare for women. 1.00
00:10:50.960 I mean, I go to a gym, and I love this gym.
00:10:53.300 This is my favorite daycare.
00:10:55.000 And there's literally a babysitting place for the kids, for all these single moms at the gym. 1.00
00:10:59.540 They can just drop off their kid at the gym and bang the personal trainers.
00:11:02.240 There's movies in the park for women. 1.00
00:11:06.480 And cities are kind of, like, babysitting for women, really, truly. 0.96
00:11:11.100 Yoga class.
00:11:11.800 I mean, Equinox.
00:11:12.680 I went to Equinox when I was – I didn't sign up at that gym, but I looked at it.
00:11:17.000 And I'm looking around, and I'm like, there's all these classes.
00:11:19.780 I mean, this is just babysitting.
00:11:21.240 There's med spas where women can get, like, Botox and filler and blah, blah, blah. 1.00
00:11:27.920 So when you look at feminism at its core, conservatives don't realize that the men are actually a part of feminism.
00:11:35.560 Because feminism is women using guilt against men. 1.00
00:11:39.220 It's using men's protector instinct against them. 0.86
00:11:41.540 You know, women say, we don't want to be raped. 1.00
00:11:42.920 And the men say, okay, let me kill all the rapists. 1.00
00:11:45.560 And then, I believe you, honey. 1.00
00:11:47.480 You know, it's women saying, I don't want to – if I'm raped, I don't want to have a kid. 0.94
00:11:51.120 And the men saying, oh, okay, we'll fight for you.
00:11:54.600 Well, I want to vote, you know.
00:11:56.560 And the men saying, oh, you know what, we want you to be happy.
00:12:00.260 Nagging and guilting women doesn't work. 1.00
00:12:02.260 Women will be whores no matter how much you shame. 1.00
00:12:04.140 If anything, the more you shame women, the more we want to do the thing. 1.00
00:12:08.100 It's, like, more exciting.
00:12:09.280 You're like, now we're doing it despite, you know, everyone telling us no.
00:12:14.300 It's like they said, women, you really don't want to work. 1.00
00:12:16.720 And the women say, oh, now I want to do it more. 0.81
00:12:18.520 But guilt works on men, and it's very obvious.
00:12:21.880 And I think that's why Christian men tend to be such a target is because guilt works on them
00:12:27.920 because the guilt of the Bible works on them.
00:12:30.380 Now, I don't have all the answers.
00:12:32.100 I understand I'm not an expert on religion, but I just kind of look at a lot of –
00:12:37.660 I kind of look at systems, and I just see the same thing.
00:12:40.460 Like, the same way churches manipulate men, I see women doing the same thing. 1.00
00:12:48.520 Again, so women want New York City. 1.00
00:12:54.100 Women said, I want to move to New York City. 1.00
00:12:56.460 And now they have literally voted in a socialist.
00:13:01.620 So I don't know how to say his name.
00:13:03.320 I'm probably going to mispronounce it.
00:13:04.840 But Zorhan Mandami, he won the mayoral platform, if you followed me.
00:13:10.900 I'm bad with names.
00:13:12.380 You know, sorry.
00:13:13.740 And he's addressing – his main policies are rent-free forever, free city buses,
00:13:20.180 universal child care, free child care, city-owned grocery stores,
00:13:26.060 millionaires pay zero fares, a 2% income tax surge over incomes over a million dollars,
00:13:34.340 green school buses only, convert the entire yellow bus fleet to electric by 2028,
00:13:40.220 public power, free evasion is over, decriminalization fare evasion completely and redirected.
00:13:49.180 Okay, $150 million NYPD transit budget to mental health teams and free buses
00:13:56.980 and $200,000 affordable public units.
00:14:01.980 So, again, they do this to the women. 0.74
00:14:04.800 They say, women, free stuff. 1.00
00:14:06.140 And we say, yay!
00:14:08.140 And women said, we said we wanted to go to these big cities. 0.90
00:14:10.980 And we keep voting for free stuff, higher taxes, and crime.
00:14:14.000 And the only solution for men is to walk away and say, here you go.
00:14:19.780 The only power men have in this society is ignoring things and walking away with their feet in their wallet.
00:14:28.460 So, women said they wanted to go to the city. 0.92
00:14:30.920 So, men say, fine, live there.
00:14:32.920 Women vote for socialism. 1.00
00:14:34.880 Men say, fine, have fun with the high taxes.
00:14:38.120 Women vote for crime. 1.00
00:14:39.540 Men say, have fun getting murdered and punched in the face. 1.00
00:14:42.780 Women chase chads. 1.00
00:14:44.220 Men should say, have fun getting pumped and dumped. 0.98
00:14:47.660 Women want to nag. 1.00
00:14:48.540 They say, fine, I'll say to ourself.
00:14:50.680 Women want to take men's jobs. 1.00
00:14:52.500 Fine, you can have them and take the scrutiny and the stress that comes with it.
00:14:56.500 You know, and I see this happening with the conservative women. 1.00
00:14:59.540 All these women are in these high-powered jobs that they took from a qualified male. 1.00
00:15:04.140 Candace Owens, Brett Cooper, all these women took these jobs from qualified men. 0.99
00:15:08.040 And now, recently, they're now getting treated like men.
00:15:13.440 And they're not liking it.
00:15:14.640 You'll see the tone policing, the nagging.
00:15:17.000 You shouldn't talk like that, like Allie Best Stuckey.
00:15:20.360 And, you know, toughen up, ladies. 1.00
00:15:22.520 This is a man's world. 1.00
00:15:23.620 If you want to live in a man's world, be in it. 1.00
00:15:25.840 The only solution going forward is for men to be selfish and stop bailing women out. 0.99
00:15:32.240 And, again, that's why chads or these men that run through women, in a way, they're helping things more than the conservative men.
00:15:42.200 Because the conservative men keep bailing women out.
00:15:45.980 Women have the right to vote. 0.99
00:15:47.700 And they have more voting power than men. 0.60
00:15:49.880 Women keep voting for socialism. 1.00
00:15:51.640 Men keep paying for it. 1.00
00:15:52.680 Women keep spending money we don't have. 1.00
00:15:56.120 And the consequences are taxes are high.
00:15:58.420 Everything's unaffordable.
00:15:59.520 Families don't exist.
00:16:00.980 Most people are single parents.
00:16:03.400 One kid's top.
00:16:04.680 Kid tops.
00:16:05.880 And men no longer are going to help women.
00:16:09.460 Most men enable feminism in some way, especially the men who try to be good people.
00:16:14.740 These men are the men that step in and defend women and enable it because those women voted for those policies.
00:16:21.700 You know, these are the guys that defend women that are getting attacked in the streets.
00:16:25.240 But these women voted for it. 1.00
00:16:27.320 These are the men that take care of their daughters and their sisters and enable feminism because there's no need for a husband. 1.00
00:16:33.520 Beta male simps enable feminism by giving females male attention. 0.97
00:16:37.640 And most people are paid by this economy, which means most people's bottom dollar is from feminism. 1.00
00:16:46.180 They're paid by women because women make 80% of consumer purchasing decisions. 1.00
00:16:50.840 And again, I reiterate, the only solution is men walking away.
00:16:55.420 The birth rate's got to drop to zero.
00:16:57.320 Men got to say, we're done giving you guys kids. 0.97
00:17:01.080 You guys can't handle kids.
00:17:02.640 You're not raising them right.
00:17:03.900 No kids for you until you be better people.
00:17:07.540 Men dropping out of the military.
00:17:09.180 Okay, women, you wanted to be in the military? 1.00
00:17:11.000 Have fun.
00:17:11.560 Fight these wars.
00:17:12.920 Men dropping out of school.
00:17:14.120 You wanted to be in school?
00:17:15.560 Have fun getting in a bunch of student debt.
00:17:18.120 Men will stop getting married. 0.85
00:17:19.380 Have fun. 1.00
00:17:20.000 Die alone. 0.99
00:17:21.280 Men stop voting. 0.97
00:17:22.640 They don't see a point.
00:17:23.400 They say, ladies, you have all the political parties. 1.00
00:17:26.440 You want to be Democrat, Republican?
00:17:28.080 Good luck.
00:17:29.360 Men walk away with their feet and wallet.
00:17:32.800 And they have to allow women to fail. 1.00
00:17:36.880 And to be honest, it's the conservative men that keep giving women these bailouts.
00:17:41.600 They keep saying women were tricked by feminism. 1.00
00:17:44.300 They were brainwashed. 1.00
00:17:45.560 It's such bullshit. 1.00
00:17:46.720 Players understand that the women actually want to do these things. 1.00
00:17:50.180 Because beta males never see that side of women. 0.96
00:17:53.400 But women have choice. 1.00
00:17:57.300 And women are responsible for their choices. 1.00
00:17:59.740 I don't like the side of conservatism that says that women are not responsible.
00:18:04.780 Look, even I myself, I've made bad decisions in my life.
00:18:08.660 And I'm responsible for every single one.
00:18:11.480 Nobody tricked you into doing anything.
00:18:15.100 Women vote people into terrible positions. 1.00
00:18:19.780 And we need to see the consequences.
00:18:21.840 Women are attacked in public.
00:18:23.400 We date who we want.
00:18:25.000 And we become single mothers.
00:18:27.340 Start the OnlyFans.
00:18:28.820 If you make a choice as a woman, eat it. 1.00
00:18:32.360 Men have to stop giving women excuses. 0.77
00:18:34.840 Stop saying we're tricked into feminism. 0.68
00:18:36.800 Stop saying that we made these mistakes young and we didn't know any better. 1.00
00:18:39.820 It's bullshit. 0.99
00:18:40.780 If a man makes a mistake young, he's held responsible. 1.00
00:18:44.100 He can't commit a crime at 18.
00:18:45.460 It still goes on his record.
00:18:46.600 If you're a single mother or you make some bad sexual decisions as a woman, you are responsible. 1.00
00:18:51.600 It's not because you were young and dumb. 0.99
00:18:54.500 Again, it's the beta males or, you know, it tends to be conservative men that give women the benefit of the doubt. 0.99
00:19:00.860 They always believe women. 1.00
00:19:03.020 They always believe women selling purity. 1.00
00:19:06.580 Stop giving non-traditional women traditional outcomes. 0.99
00:19:12.120 And that's, you know, because that's just another way to bail women out is giving a woman a traditional outcome that is not traditional. 1.00
00:19:20.180 There are no traditional women until women give up power. 1.00
00:19:24.140 Women want to work, so let them work for a lifetime. 1.00
00:19:26.260 It'll be hard.
00:19:27.740 Women want to jobs they're not qualified for, so let them take them and fail. 1.00
00:19:32.660 And women will only come crawling back, and this stuff will only be fixed when women have consequences, and the traditionalists are actually the biggest sims. 1.00
00:19:42.680 So, if you agree with me, let me know in the comments.
00:19:46.600 Make sure you like the video.
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00:19:48.040 I actually think that traditionalists, in a way, are worse than liberals because they shame, guilt, and insult men for taking deals that don't benefit them and even encourage the men in their lives to take bad deals.
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