Pearl - This Is How 304s React When THEY Are The Ones Getting Ghosted

00:00:00.000 but we need to ask ourselves why are we letting one single man upset us that much what up guys

00:00:07.280 welcome to my reaction series today we are gonna have women explain why you're getting ghosted so

00:00:13.040 let's let's see if they got anything good ghosted you congratulations if a man ghosted you

00:00:18.800 congratulations because you are a very lucky woman hear me out first of all let's get into

00:00:24.640 the reasons why men ghost the most likely reason he's seeing someone else but it could also be he

00:00:30.240 got what he wanted from you and he lost interest yeah here's the thing i know i know guys that go

00:00:35.120 through 100 women a year i know i know them and the woman might think she's taking an l by getting

00:00:40.240 ghosted but these are guys that have like two or three girlfriends at a time and i'm like the real

00:00:45.040 l are the women that he entertained for a year i mean you don't know a lot of times i mean sex comes

00:00:50.240 before relationships you don't know who you're sleeping with so a lot of the times if you get

00:00:53.920 ghosted it could it could be a blessing he has commitment issues and he got scared you asserted

00:00:58.160 your boundaries and he didn't like it he has abandonment issues and wanted to leave before he

00:01:01.680 got i don't like how she's putting it all on them um but left he's not serious about you but reasons

00:01:07.360 a guy might have ghosted you you did something annoying or he thought that might indicate crazy or

00:01:11.840 weird whatever it is number two um you're not hot enough you're just a slump buster three he has a

00:01:19.360 girlfriend uh four he's just not looking for a relationship maybe you seem like a serious a

00:01:24.480 girl that wants something serious he's not looking for something serious so i mean those are all like

00:01:29.440 valid reasons put in the comments the last time you ghosted a woman why wants to try to leave the

00:01:34.400 door a tiny crack open in case he wants to come back it could be any of these things it could be none

00:01:39.280 of these things but the actual answer is it doesn't matter at the end of the day a man who is serious

00:01:45.520 about you and who truly wants the future with you will not ghost you i know being ghosted is an ego

00:01:51.600 blow that can send you into a spiral of overthinking and women here's the thing you cannot have a fear

00:01:56.560 of getting ghosted you just have to understand the dating market now it might happen but women that

00:02:02.480 live in fear of this stuff they're not going to get anywhere um i mean everything that you want comes

00:02:10.560 with risk that's just how it is feeling unworthy but i really need you to believe me when i say

00:02:15.440 this man's behavior says nothing about your value and not necessarily i mean here's the challenging

00:02:22.080 thing about being a woman men don't generally tell you why they ghosted um and we aren't as good at as

00:02:28.400 men at figuring it out like men can kind of say oh i lost frame or i did this like they're kind of

00:02:32.960 reflective or we again she's gonna blame him because this is a mid right six is bang and get in the door

00:02:40.880 with eight eight to tens and that's the ghosting happening everything about his character and how

00:02:45.840 he handles not necessarily i mean i you know again this is a a mid i'm not even like an upper mid so

00:02:55.440 it's just you know it's the it's the game on difficult situations which is by the way in a

00:03:01.360 manner that's selfish disrespectful emotionally immature and probably driven by deep-rooted wounds and

00:03:07.280 insecure it's not i mean honestly men ghosts because they don't care that much it's not deep-rooted wounds

00:03:14.240 he just doesn't want to tell you so you don't crash out securities i love your feelings of hurt are valid

00:03:20.640 and definitely take the time you need to grieve but please hear me when i say that you need to make

00:03:25.760 self-love your top priority right now so you can see clearly that you didn't lose anything in this

00:03:31.360 situation besides a man who was disrespectful unreliable and damaging to your mental health

00:03:36.880 it's not a loss it's a win especially because you weren't gonna let him go yourself and by the way

00:03:42.320 when you feel ready send that man who ghosted you some genuine love from a distance because only hurt

00:03:47.840 people hurt people i do think that even if you get ghosted um i would maintain a good relationship if

00:03:54.240 it's someone you're gonna see or whatever because um you never know like life is long um he could just

00:04:02.880 be seeing someone else he likes better and it you know it doesn't work out with them or maybe someone

00:04:07.280 he's more invested in i i just i would never advise crashing if a man is ghosting you and you are going

00:04:14.320 crazy dear god please please do this when a man ghosts you as a female we have an urge for some

00:04:24.000 reason something's telling us inside that we need to tell them again it women crash out when they

00:04:30.400 get ghosted because he's demonstrating he's more valuable because he doesn't care like this is what

00:04:35.200 i would say she's more of an upper mid that we saw something a little bit more like makeup so hard to

00:04:40.320 say but she she looks like an upper mid saw something with them or we thought that they let us on

00:04:45.360 and we want an explanation that voice is going to make us want to text him call him have any sort of

00:04:51.200 context with him so that we can have some sort of knowledge or explanation for all of this but no

00:04:57.120 answer is an answer no response is a big response let that sink in you are not his mother and you are

00:05:05.440 not there to tell him and teach him what he likes and what he wants of course it's normal to feel like

00:05:11.440 you're not good enough and you want that validation from someone but we need to ask ourselves why are we

00:05:16.320 letting one single man upset us that much one single man when there are billions and millions of men on

00:05:23.760 this earth we all have a choice and that man had a choice he had a choice to either explain to you

00:05:30.000 that he is cool yeah there's no point i would say you can reflect say is there something i could have

00:05:34.560 did different and if you did your best just move on there's no point in dwelling it in it and like being

00:05:39.920 sad and uh whatever to go ghost that something's happening in his life that you are not the one

00:05:44.960 whatever that reason may be for his ghosting he had a choice to tell you that and be a man

00:05:50.160 but he chose that easy way out he chose okay but women have been ghosting forever i mean how many men

00:05:55.600 have bought us dinner and we just say no thanks goes to just ghost you and never respond and what on

00:06:00.240 earth does that say about him him not respecting your time him not giving you any explanation to anything

00:06:06.400 him choosing the easy way out yeah but you were not owed anything you're not owed an explanation

00:06:11.360 this man has clearly some sort of issue without being able to be a man and step up to the plate

00:06:16.640 and explain himself explain himself physically emotionally whatever that may be

00:06:20.640 but this would happen sooner or later in the relationship if you ever get there

00:06:25.120 he would take these not necessarily again it could be timing met a lot of with men a lot of times it's

00:06:31.520 timing way out maybe he'd take the easy way out and do something stupid maybe he would take the easy

00:06:36.960 way out again and then ghost you further down the road if you hop back in into that conversation and

00:06:41.920 says hello after used to have community right and the community would kind of come when a woman took an l

00:06:48.480 and say okay get the feedback from him and then she can at least do better next time now there's no

00:06:54.960 community we wanted to date on our own and now we're getting stds and ghosted a month's time or

00:07:01.840 after a year's time please girl do not let him waste any more of your time because if he's choosing the

00:07:07.680 easy way out now without respecting you he's gonna do it again okay let's see next okay wait let's do

00:07:14.080 there's only one there's only one reason that men will go there's a lot of reasons let's do there's only

00:07:19.120 one i don't care what you say you could try and convince me otherwise but i guarantee

00:07:23.520 whatever you say i can boil down to this one reason so if you're being ghosted by a man right

00:07:27.840 now or you've ever been ghosted by a man listen up a man will only ghost if he has the inability

00:07:34.480 to properly commute they always they never look inward a lot of times you just don't know but

00:07:41.280 it's never like an inward i could have did this better indicate his feelings i i'll tell you what

00:07:49.200 when i was dating is tough because i just say a lot of racist and sexist stuff

00:07:55.760 and i think men think that's crazy but i just can't help it i can't this is who i am you know i

00:08:01.920 just i can't help it oh i just didn't like her that much okay why didn't you communicate that to her i

00:08:08.720 was just scared i didn't know what to do okay why didn't you communicate that because women crash out

00:08:14.480 you literally cannot give me a reason that men will ghost that isn't a lack of the ability to

00:08:20.960 communicate they don't have time right now they're not that interested they don't want to be in a

00:08:25.840 relationship okay these are all valid reasons that can be communicated instead of ghosting we live in

00:08:32.640 a world that's teaching men that the best solution is just yeah but most women have ghosted disappear

00:08:37.680 ghost not talk about it when in reality ghosting can be really harmful to people is just not a good skill

00:08:44.080 for men or for women to be honest so let's like ideally it would be but 2025 getting attached is

00:08:52.480 just not a good skill to have to communicate it's not a good like you really can't get attached to

00:08:57.520 people okay use our words share our feelings it all boils down to a lack of communication try and

00:09:04.560 convince me otherwise i dare you try and convince me otherwise i would convince you again this is a mid

00:09:10.880 this is like not an upper mid it's a lower mid let's see did she peak the girl i used to be

00:09:16.960 2017 i'm kind of fat honestly i hardly recognize

00:09:25.600 okay she was fat she's still fat

00:09:29.840 yeah okay she's fat she's gonna get ghosted a lot oh no let me figure out which one of these dresses i'm

00:09:34.400 gonna wear to an event that i have to wear a dress for pretty much just live and work out clothes

00:09:38.800 these days so dresses it it's been a minute you got a weight loss okay chica mid with a good body

00:09:46.720 all right all right i'm impressed i'm impressed used to be fat okay guys um let me know what you

00:09:51.680 think at the comments so what is the last time what is the last time you ghosted someone and what was

00:09:57.040 the reason did she know what the reason was anyways make sure you like the video subscribe to the channel

00:10:01.920 and i'll see you next time

Pearl - November 19, 2025

This Is How 304s React When THEY Are The Ones Getting Ghosted

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