Pearl - UNHINGED Feminists ERUPT Over Pearl’s Take On Marriage

00:00:00.000 you don't understand the normal american experience that's not an insult telling you

00:00:04.080 that you grew up with money is factual then how come they're more likely to remarry after divorcing

00:00:08.720 if divorce is so bad as you've stated than women are because men will always do it they're romantics

00:00:13.520 they're romantic so why aren't you married why has no one wanted to marry you the problem is a lot of

00:00:17.760 a lot of liberals um you guys want to have higher status and so you think because you read a study

00:00:24.400 you know something i don't know what and and yeah because i read a study and i retained information

00:00:29.200 i do know something not really i mean it's you're just that's studying not really not really okay

00:00:34.680 well anyways and then to the alimony lawyer who's an expert in a subject knows more than you men

00:00:39.880 skip most of their child support payments right because men do not pay them who pays child support

00:00:46.000 who's put on child support men or women are expected to pay they don't the majority of the

00:00:50.500 time they don't okay that's not true um are who pays alimony men or women alimony alimony is

00:00:57.260 steadily decreasing i studied accounting okay but who pays it men or women what do you mean 0.99

00:01:02.620 are you stupid like who pays it married men are twice as likely as unmarried men to state that 0.98

00:01:07.500 they are very happy and on top of that married men earn 10 to 20 more from their jobs than 1.00

00:01:12.860 unmarried men yeah so the money i would attribute to women's spending habits so women make 85 of

00:01:17.820 consumer buying decisions women also also put their top purchases on their husband's credit card 1.00

00:01:23.340 So that's why they make more money. 1.00

00:01:25.220 They didn't say they have more savings.

00:01:26.700 Then why do they retire with 10 times the amount of savings?

00:01:28.780 No. Happiness is just women taking credit for everything. 1.00

00:01:31.980 So people that get married, you tend to be a happy person. 1.00

00:01:35.500 If you get married, they're selected because they're happy.

00:01:38.140 Good or high earning in the future people.

00:01:40.980 I don't think it's because of marriage.

00:01:42.220 I think they're just that kind of.

00:01:43.100 So where are your sources?

00:01:43.980 So again, I would say I would say that after the marriage,

00:01:47.980 all of the happiness that had during is it kind of goes down

00:01:52.380 Because after men are nine times more likely to commit suicide, they're also more likely to be put on child support and alimony. 0.52

00:01:59.800 And women are more likely to get the house and the children. 0.67

00:02:02.060 So you could you could say that in the beginning, you could say. 1.00

00:02:06.560 Is she just going to. Yeah. Yeah. If we could just let her finish and then you can have.

00:02:10.500 So you could argue that during the marriage, it's good, but it's not offset by the risk of divorce.

00:02:16.740 And I've just seen too many men that have had their lives ruined where they can't see their children.

00:02:21.200 and they're put on absurd amounts of alimony and child support.

00:02:25.400 So especially for men that don't make a lot of money,

00:02:28.380 child support can lead them to be homeless or also addicted to drugs

00:02:32.300 because they get so behind on payments.

00:02:34.280 Now, now, now, oh, sorry, I'm sorry.

00:02:36.420 Why don't you let her respond to what you said already?

00:02:39.240 So what are your sources for this?

00:02:40.920 Do you have any legitimate sources?

00:02:42.700 For which part?

00:02:43.800 For every single part.

00:02:44.660 So you stated specifically that men earn more money

00:02:47.960 because women spend more throughout the marriage. 0.86

00:02:49.520 Then why do they retire?

00:02:50.340 wait wait why do married men retire with 10 times the amount of assets just for just for housekeeping

00:02:55.460 if if i turn it over to y'all just for going forward if one of y'all ask the other person a

00:02:59.380 question you like turn the mic back over to him just going forward so if you're gonna ask a

00:03:02.660 question just make sure you let me know it's rhetorical or if it's a real question but go

00:03:06.260 ahead and finish out your question yes so if married men earn more money because women spend

00:03:11.300 more money throughout the duration of the relationship then why do married men on average

00:03:15.140 retire with 10 times the amount of assets well one women pick men that make more money for

00:03:19.460 marriage i don't think it's because of the marriage so what's your source and two well my

00:03:24.020 source is women saying they want to make married men all the sources trust me bro your source is

00:03:28.740 literally just he said she said well the average earning you just said that men earn more like

00:03:32.980 women are the ones picking them for me yeah but my source is the general social survey the institute

00:03:36.420 for family studies and you know that you know the source name congratulations okay well what i'm

00:03:42.500 what i'm saying is that well it's it's developed from census data they get the they get the um

00:03:47.700 incomes of married men. But all of your arguments revolve around divorce. You're talking about

00:03:52.200 divorce as if it's this inevitability of marriage. Well, it's about half. The prompt is marriage is

00:03:56.140 a bad deal for men, not divorce is a bad deal for men. Well, it's about half. It's not about half.

00:03:59.480 It's actually steadily declining. As of last year, it's 40%. Right, because less people are getting

00:04:02.980 married. That's not necessarily true. Of the percentage of people who get married, only 40%

00:04:07.820 could divorce. One at a time, please. One at a time. The marriage rate is lower than it's been

00:04:11.420 since the Civil War. So that's based on census data. Okay, so your argument is that marriage

00:04:15.640 is a bad deal for men because of women. Is that what you're saying? I'm saying that marriage is

00:04:18.920 a bad deal for men because of the risk of divorce, alimony, child support, and losing everything they

00:04:23.320 worked for. Yes. And all of those things you attribute to women? Women are the ones enforcing

00:04:27.760 those laws. Yes. Marriage is a better indicator of happiness in men than regular sex, than income 1.00

00:04:33.060 and education. This is proven by the General Social Survey. You said earlier that sexless

00:04:37.400 marriages are a large portion of why men watch porn, why men do all of these things, when marriage

00:04:41.680 itself is a better indicator of happiness for them than what you stated but then men are nine

00:04:45.700 times more likely to commit suicide after divorce yeah but divorce one at a time well it's about

00:04:50.840 half but you talk about divorce as if it's an inevitable part of marriage that's not true

00:04:55.260 well it's again if i push a drug and um let's say a quarter of people have side effects if you push

00:05:02.000 marriage there's going to be a percentage of men that get a really bad deal out of it and they

00:05:05.520 should know what they're signing up for so i'm not here to say do it or don't do it that's up to you

00:05:10.000 as a man you get to decide are you drawing a comparison between marriage and drugs as if

00:05:13.440 that's a legitimate comparison well yeah what i would say is that i've seen men that have lost

00:05:18.220 everything and um it's actually affected the way i view it a lot because there's just how do i put

00:05:26.420 it there's like a death in a man's eyes when he's lost his children and he's been put on a lot of

00:05:31.660 child support and alimony and until you've really seen that and interviewed those guys i don't think

00:05:36.160 going to have the same point of view um and if you run the data about what percent of men are

00:05:41.840 on child support there's a significant portion that do pay a lot so i think you should and it's

00:05:47.440 about it's about okay i interview women all the time but i think you should interview women in

00:05:52.880 place of men because if you talk to their experiences right there's probably also death

00:05:56.400 in their eyes when they talk about how they were abused and they had to divorce and it was a good

00:05:59.920 option for them so i don't know why you're talking about divorce as if it substantiates your claim

00:06:03.920 at all when your claim is that marriage is a bad deal for men not of course well men are nine times

00:06:08.480 more likely to commit suicide after divorce when i've and i've interviewed a lot of guys that were

00:06:13.360 on the brink of it like i interviewed on terrence pop 30-year veteran and he after being overseas

00:06:18.640 the way that the law is set up um because he was deployed um it automatically assumes that the

00:06:25.920 woman is the better caretaker and that's not really fair to him because he was doing what he

00:06:29.360 was supposed to do for his country and he was on the verge of committing suicide and there's a lot

00:06:34.160 of men that that's happened to and the data indicates that so you can take it or leave it

00:06:39.840 it's fine but um i would say if you're going to get married you should look at the laws in your

00:06:44.640 state where do you find these men who you're interviewing um the last one i got from a

00:06:49.200 homeless shelter so i went to homeless shelter and asked what percent are on child support

00:06:53.760 so i'm i'm assuming that when there's thousands of men right i'm operating under the well you

00:06:57.840 We used to save 500 men from suicide.

00:06:59.760 So he actually runs a nonprofit where men are saved from suicide.

00:07:03.620 Okay, and that's a great story for him, but that's not supported by any legitimate data, right?

00:07:07.860 Like, the topic is about marriage, and you're pivoting to these points, these anecdotal examples about divorce.

00:07:13.380 Who's put on child support, men or women?

00:07:15.740 Who's put on child support?

00:07:17.200 Who's put on child support, men or women?

00:07:17.680 Is the topic, is child support bad for men?

00:07:19.800 Is that the topic?

00:07:21.080 Hold on, one at a time, please.

00:07:22.460 Go ahead.

00:07:22.920 I'm answering her question.

00:07:23.760 No, you're right, you're right.

00:07:24.540 She's not answering mine.

00:07:24.860 Yeah, yeah, that's fine.

00:07:25.460 Like if she's not gonna who's put on child support at men or women? Well, we're not talking about child support right now

00:07:30.200 We're talking. Yeah, if you if you don't mind answer because she has answered a few of yours

00:07:32.780 If you who's put on child support, what do you mean? Who pays it? Who is put on child support?

00:07:37.700 Men or women children are put on child support. What do you mean?

00:07:40.180 I think she starts referencing in regards to like divorce, you know, who generally ends up having to pay child support men

00:07:45.560 Or women men skip most of their child support payments, right?

00:07:48.740 Because men do not pay them

00:07:50.740 Who pays child support who's put on child support men or women are expected to pay?

00:07:54.820 they don't the majority of the time they don't okay that's not true um are who pays alimony men

00:08:01.380 or women alimony alimony is steadily decreasing i studied accounting okay but who pays it men or 1.00

00:08:07.220 women what do you mean are you stupid like who pays it are you stupid let's try not being so 1.00

00:08:12.900 compliant battered here let's get back the question i'm asking are you so angry yeah let's just go 1.00

00:08:16.260 yeah we go back to the video yeah let's let's let's just take it back one more try here a little bit

00:08:20.740 one more notch here before we go off the deep end i mean i'm answering her question sure yeah

00:08:25.380 if you if you don't mind answer the question she has answered a few years she said who pays alimony

00:08:30.100 yeah the majority of the time men expect women expect men to pay alimony okay who pays child

00:08:36.260 support we just majority of the time men do but they don't okay okay who gets custody of the kids

00:08:42.340 who gets custody of the children the majority of time the women get custody okay so therefore therefore

00:08:47.540 who gets kicked out of the house what are you who gets to keep the house and most divorces 0.91

00:08:51.780 probably the women because they're taking care of the children right like this is like pretty

00:08:54.820 common sense okay so if you get married that is a risk that you don't get authority over 0.97

00:09:00.020 your own children that you're going to be put on alimony you're going to be put on child support

00:09:03.540 and you're going to lose the house that you um that you bought and so i just think it's 0.68

00:09:09.620 disingenuous to not say that is a real risk but that's so what what do you think men get out of

00:09:14.900 marriage what do i think men get out of marriage what do they get out of it they live longer as

00:09:18.980 i've already stated they earn more money they retire with 10 times the amount of assets and

00:09:23.060 they're more likely to be happy okay companionship if the average marriage is seven years do they get

00:09:27.940 that that's not the average marriage i looked up that statistic because you've used it before

00:09:31.620 the average marriage that ends in divorce is seven to eight years the average marriage is 20.

00:09:35.380 okay so but if it still ends do they get that if it still ends do they get what companionship

00:09:41.940 No, but 68% of men who get divorced, remarry.

00:09:44.860 That's more than the percentage of women who get divorced and remarry.

00:09:46.480 Okay, so going to money, if they're put on child support... 1.00

00:09:48.700 We have to let her respond now. Go ahead. 0.99

00:09:50.020 Yeah, if marriage is such a bad deal for men,

00:09:52.320 then how come they're more likely to remarry after divorcing

00:09:54.660 if divorce is so bad, as you've stated, than women are? 0.97

00:09:57.060 Because men will always do it. They're romantics. 0.50

00:09:59.860 They're romantics. So then why aren't you married?

00:10:01.500 Why has no one wanted to marry you?

00:10:02.940 Let's keep the personal here out of this, please, if we can.

00:10:05.160 If she doesn't, we can't do it.

00:10:06.300 Yeah, if you do it again, I will have to end. 1.00

00:10:08.100 She's going for personal attacks. 1.00

00:10:09.020 Yeah, I don't want to have any personal attacks.

00:10:10.800 I hate to have to make this announcement.

00:10:12.200 Let's kind of focus on the topic I can, if we can, if we don't mind.

00:10:15.820 So that's last warning on this one.

00:10:17.400 Okay, you said money.

00:10:18.440 If he loses money after divorce, is he richer?

00:10:21.220 If he loses money after divorce.

00:10:22.340 If he's on child support and alimony after, is he richer?

00:10:25.160 But why are you talking about divorce as if, I'm saying this again, as if it's an inevitability of marriage?

00:10:29.940 Because a percentage of men will get divorced.

00:10:31.720 Yeah, less than half.

00:10:33.400 Not by much.

00:10:34.800 40% of men will get divorced, but you're talking about it as if it's a part of marriage.

00:10:38.000 Are you saying 40% is a substantial risk?

00:10:40.200 but then they get remarried pearl 68 of them do so so what's the point like if your argument

00:10:45.800 revolves i'm not telling men not to get married then what are you telling them it's a bad deal

00:10:50.040 it's favorable to women so your sources trust me bro why would they take it's favorable it's

00:10:54.520 i don't give them advice but this is advice when you say i'm saying it's a favorable contract to

00:11:00.040 women and you agreed because you said that women are the ones that are getting child support

00:11:05.160 alimony and custody no that's favorable divorce divorce often that's favorable to women divorce

00:11:11.480 not marriage the prompt is marriage and not correct and so so if we're talking about marriage

00:11:15.540 specifically it is incredibly beneficial for men okay a percentage of marriages get divorced though

00:11:20.680 correct a percentage so you're extrapolating a small roughly half roughly half get divorced

00:11:26.220 correct roughly half roughly 40 let's be specific 40 and 50 is a big difference it is a big difference

00:11:33.260 OK, so the majority versus the minority, not by much.

00:11:36.340 So 40 percent get divorced. 0.71

00:11:38.640 And again, men are the ones paying child support, alimony, and she gets the house and the kids. 1.00

00:11:44.280 So it's favorable to women. 0.98

00:11:45.600 So your argument is, right, don't get married because 60 percent of the time you'll live longer. 0.85

00:11:51.280 You'll earn more. You'll retire with more money and you'll be happier.

00:11:53.620 But 40 percent of the time I might lose everything. 0.98

00:11:55.980 I think that's that women take credit for everything because you are assuming that the men make money or happier and live longer 0.97

00:12:03.060 because of the woman and i was i would say that the man is um women pick men that do that anyway 0.55

00:12:09.700 so okay so my arguments are contingent on research your arguments are contingent on

00:12:14.100 generalizations okay are you just here are you just here to insult me no i think that's why

00:12:17.940 you are you just don't like me it's fine i'm here to ask you for your i don't really get that vibe

00:12:22.820 i don't really get that vibe i'm gonna go ahead worry about it that time anyway why don't you go

00:12:26.420 ahead you have a closing if you want to give it then you have a final response okay no nothing

00:12:29.940 else? No, I'm good. All right. Any final thoughts? That's all I got. All right. Thank you so much.

00:12:35.320 I would say that marriage is a bad deal for anyone. I think it's a bad deal for men and

00:12:39.180 women both involved because and not the idea of marriage, right? Like the idea of two people

00:12:44.060 being committed to each other forever to have a good life together. I believe that's beautiful.

00:12:47.840 I hope it happens for me. I hope it happens for you. But marriage as an institution, I don't think

00:12:52.760 it's good for anyone. When you pay the government and allow them further into your life, I think

00:12:57.240 it's a bad deal for everyone involved except the government um i also believe that if it's supposed

00:13:03.200 to be from this holy matrimony uh religious you know sanctity kind of thing then there's a

00:13:08.600 separation between church and state like i just don't personally think involving the government

00:13:12.680 any further into your lives is a good idea they're already up our twats and at this point it's like

00:13:18.120 no one's going to come out ahead of that except the government and do you even know what your

00:13:22.040 money for when you register for marriage goes to it just goes to public services which that could

00:13:26.920 mean anything and it goes into social security partially actually goes into no it goes into

00:13:32.100 public services and part of it actually goes to domestic violence assistant programs which i

00:13:37.840 think is funny that our marriage licenses goes to that so i don't think it's a good idea for anyone

00:13:42.560 and not again the idea of being with one person forever just the idea of marriage on paper what

00:13:48.420 is the difference from yesterday and today if we'd been living together paying the same bills 0.90

00:13:52.060 doing all the same shit what's changed the government knows now cool i don't think i 0.96

00:13:57.160 disagree i don't think i mean i would say it's more favorable towards women because you hear 0.97

00:14:01.220 the thing though you say that too but i agree with like on paper who there's no dissee but

00:14:05.900 when you're talking about on paper too like i understand the idea of like people wanting to

00:14:09.240 have protections right because you're over here talking about how men are going to lose half

00:14:13.260 their stuff well some women might lose their lives you know we're going to be here for five

00:14:17.100 hours today that means 30 women will die while we're here because every 10 minutes someone is 0.99

00:14:21.240 killed by their former ex-lover. So you're worried about men losing stuff. Women might lose their

00:14:26.040 lives. So I understand protections on paper, but you don't need to register with the government

00:14:30.560 that you're married. You can still write up personal contracts with a notary if you're in

00:14:34.460 that situation where you really feel you need protections. Otherwise, I don't know if you

00:14:39.480 should get married if you feel you need to be protected from this person. Right. But people

00:14:44.620 change after marriage. Yeah, of course they do. All the time. So I don't disagree with the

00:14:48.360 stuff that you're saying. I would still say that because women are more likely to receive 0.70

00:14:52.300 alimony child support. The only reason that is, though, and let me finish. So I would still say 0.93

00:14:57.860 that because women are more likely to receive alimony child support, custody of the children 0.78

00:15:01.760 in the house, that it is still unfavorable to men and more favorable towards women. So 90% 0.76

00:15:06.380 of custody cases are settled within the couple. They decide. Doesn't go to court. And then,

00:15:11.240 go ahead, go ahead. The reasoning for that is because a lot of lawyers tell them to settle

00:15:17.200 because it's going to be so expensive it still costs them like 25 30 000 so you're just saying 0.91

00:15:22.220 stuff there's no stats you're just saying shit that's fine i could say stuff too um but reality 0.90

00:15:27.860 is 90 are settled within the couple and also men pay alimony yeah how many lawyers out of how many 0.98

00:15:35.280 pearl like that's ridiculous but anyway this is kind of what liberals do is they don't want you

00:15:39.280 to believe your eyes so they want they like the problem is a lot of a lot of liberals um you guys 0.85

00:15:45.180 want to have higher status and so you think because you read a study you know something

00:15:49.900 i don't know what and and yeah because i read a study and i retained information i do know

00:15:54.480 something not really i mean it's you're just that's studying not really not really okay well

00:15:59.640 anyways and then to the alimony lawyer who's an expert in a subject knows more than you yeah go

00:16:05.120 ahead and respond anyway but with the alimony 97 of the time it is the men who are going to pay

00:16:10.380 alimony but the reason for that is because since the beginning of time women have been told to

00:16:14.780 stay at home so of course 97 of men but they're not told that now no no but we're but okay but

00:16:21.140 there's still marriages continue like life can take things change but you know now because still 1.00

00:16:27.080 structurally most women are the ones who are going to give up their personal careers and lives to 1.00

00:16:31.340 take care of the children if it was the opposite women would be paying the 97 of that money women 1.00

00:16:35.880 still have the option to not so you don't have to but the people that you can have a stay-at-home 1.00

00:16:40.220 husband now if you want yeah you could so so if they divorced and he was down and out i would

00:16:45.420 assume he she would have to pay him i disagree same way it would be i think if you want to be

00:16:50.620 equal be equal and be responsible for your that's equal if she gave up his life i would say i would

00:16:56.540 say it should be 50 50 custody custody no child support no alimony whatever choice you make

00:17:02.140 you should be responsible for cool so then what do you tell i agree with you take the government

00:17:05.820 out of marriage okay so then what do you tell a woman though who has been married for 20 years

00:17:09.660 didn't work because she was raising her kids and now he's decided to trade her in for a new model

00:17:13.340 uh so what does she do now get a job just like the men but she's has no work experience has no 0.99

00:17:18.860 resume maybe they're still kids to be raised you don't think that could be a nanny there's uh 1.00

00:17:23.180 gonna be a nanny you could do meal prep for a wealthier family you could do you know what i

00:17:27.420 hear when you talk like that one at a time one at a time go ahead you're someone who grew up affluent

00:17:31.980 you don't understand the normal american experience that's not an insult telling you

00:17:35.980 that you grew up with money is factual okay here we go here we go here's the issue i i don't want 0.99

00:17:41.740 to like dive into anybody's personal lives what the fuck is personal about that you put it on 0.60

00:17:45.820 instagram that you have a slide stop stop stop this is what's gonna happen if we do one more 0.87

00:17:52.220 like first like i like that's it i've said it like five times now that's not i i don't want

00:17:56.540 to talk about anybody's backgrounds that seems to be a trigger issue that's like i got well listen

00:18:01.580 i have to keep peace here just uh yeah like keep it to like a generalized statements not about

00:18:06.780 uh the person specifically please generalized statement uh i saw on your instagram

00:18:13.820 i'm just kidding i'm just kidding but i didn't put it out there okay she did but anyway at the

00:18:18.620 end of the day you do agree with me that it's just a bad idea for anyone especially when you're

00:18:22.540 registering with the government all right all right and i know you think oh men are gonna come

00:18:26.460 out ahead but let's be real here how many women die from the guy that they you're worried about

00:18:31.420 men losing their stuff women lose their lives i don't know what to say there's no danger and

00:18:35.260 risk to everything yeah um i would say that the behavior is so insufferable what behavior um 0.92

00:18:41.420 you're very argumentative and bitchy okay well you can't you can't attack her yeah you can't 0.75

00:18:46.620 attack her no no no no no none of us nobody's attacking each other no listen listen no we're 0.94

00:18:53.740 gonna we're gonna keep it uh professional we're all professionals here let's like try not to

00:18:58.540 attack each other because if you attack her i'm not attacking i'm just feeling your humiliation

00:19:02.220 okay so again you see okay all right i can't imagine what do you all right i'm gonna let you

00:19:08.140 have i'm just asking really quick like do you think it's a bad deal for men because they might

00:19:12.060 have to pay alimony okay 10 of cases go to alimony 10 and that is because she stayed at home to take

00:19:19.420 care of the children there's a reason for alimony also the days uh the laws maybe they're outdated

00:19:24.620 but men wrote the laws a lot of these judges are men like men still are part of i guess the problem

00:19:32.140 if you want to call it that of alimony they're still just as involved i can't imagine the

00:19:37.500 companionship that men get out of marriage based on these conversations from you or me when we go

00:19:43.820 on to the men writing the laws i agree men throw other men under the bus all the time

00:19:48.860 i agree with you on getting the government out of marriage yeah but i think that with you

00:19:53.580 specifically that is upsetting is the fact that you're willing to throw women under the bus just

00:19:59.660 to be a pick me for men and that sucks because reality is you should be all right yeah i'm i'm 0.73

00:20:05.580 calling on that that's another okay i've asked you you have one closing statement and then you're 0.90

00:20:09.580 done all right okay all right all right all right just say you're like you got one minute say your

00:20:18.060 last thing and then i'm i'm ending it for you don't make another personal attack okay you know

00:20:21.900 know what this has nothing to do with pearl fine i have a minute left do not if you are thinking of 0.98

00:20:25.860 getting married do not register with the government it's ran by a pedophilic rapist who's part of the 0.93

00:20:30.380 predator class and you shouldn't listen to anything pearl has to say either there's no statistic here 0.77

00:20:35.460 all right well thank you fan i appreciate it yeah guys i i don't want to end people early because

00:20:40.860 a lot of y'all came from long distances and and this this goes for everybody no personal attack

Pearl - September 26, 2026

UNHINGED Feminists ERUPT Over Pearl’s Take On Marriage

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