Pearl - September 26, 2026


UNHINGED Feminists ERUPT Over Pearl’s Take On Marriage

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00:00:00 you don't understand the normal american experience that's not an insult telling you
00:00:04 that you grew up with money is factual then how come they're more likely to remarry after divorcing
00:00:08 if divorce is so bad as you've stated than women are because men will always do it they're romantics
00:00:13 they're romantic so why aren't you married why has no one wanted to marry you the problem is a lot of
00:00:17 a lot of liberals um you guys want to have higher status and so you think because you read a study
00:00:24 you know something i don't know what and and yeah because i read a study and i retained information
00:00:29 i do know something not really i mean it's you're just that's studying not really not really okay
00:00:34 well anyways and then to the alimony lawyer who's an expert in a subject knows more than you men
00:00:39 skip most of their child support payments right because men do not pay them who pays child support
00:00:46 who's put on child support men or women are expected to pay they don't the majority of the
00:00:50 time they don't okay that's not true um are who pays alimony men or women alimony alimony is
00:00:57 steadily decreasing i studied accounting okay but who pays it men or women what do you mean 0.99
00:01:02 are you stupid like who pays it married men are twice as likely as unmarried men to state that 0.98
00:01:07 they are very happy and on top of that married men earn 10 to 20 more from their jobs than 1.00
00:01:12 unmarried men yeah so the money i would attribute to women's spending habits so women make 85 of
00:01:17 consumer buying decisions women also also put their top purchases on their husband's credit card 1.00
00:01:23 So that's why they make more money. 1.00
00:01:25 They didn't say they have more savings.
00:01:26 Then why do they retire with 10 times the amount of savings?
00:01:28 No. Happiness is just women taking credit for everything. 1.00
00:01:31 So people that get married, you tend to be a happy person. 1.00
00:01:35 If you get married, they're selected because they're happy.
00:01:38 Good or high earning in the future people.
00:01:40 I don't think it's because of marriage.
00:01:42 I think they're just that kind of.
00:01:43 So where are your sources?
00:01:43 So again, I would say I would say that after the marriage,
00:01:47 all of the happiness that had during is it kind of goes down
00:01:52 Because after men are nine times more likely to commit suicide, they're also more likely to be put on child support and alimony. 0.52
00:01:59 And women are more likely to get the house and the children. 0.67
00:02:02 So you could you could say that in the beginning, you could say. 1.00
00:02:06 Is she just going to. Yeah. Yeah. If we could just let her finish and then you can have.
00:02:10 So you could argue that during the marriage, it's good, but it's not offset by the risk of divorce.
00:02:16 And I've just seen too many men that have had their lives ruined where they can't see their children.
00:02:21 and they're put on absurd amounts of alimony and child support.
00:02:25 So especially for men that don't make a lot of money,
00:02:28 child support can lead them to be homeless or also addicted to drugs
00:02:32 because they get so behind on payments.
00:02:34 Now, now, now, oh, sorry, I'm sorry.
00:02:36 Why don't you let her respond to what you said already?
00:02:39 So what are your sources for this?
00:02:40 Do you have any legitimate sources?
00:02:42 For which part?
00:02:43 For every single part.
00:02:44 So you stated specifically that men earn more money
00:02:47 because women spend more throughout the marriage. 0.86
00:02:49 Then why do they retire?
00:02:50 wait wait why do married men retire with 10 times the amount of assets just for just for housekeeping
00:02:55 if if i turn it over to y'all just for going forward if one of y'all ask the other person a
00:02:59 question you like turn the mic back over to him just going forward so if you're gonna ask a
00:03:02 question just make sure you let me know it's rhetorical or if it's a real question but go
00:03:06 ahead and finish out your question yes so if married men earn more money because women spend
00:03:11 more money throughout the duration of the relationship then why do married men on average
00:03:15 retire with 10 times the amount of assets well one women pick men that make more money for
00:03:19 marriage i don't think it's because of the marriage so what's your source and two well my
00:03:24 source is women saying they want to make married men all the sources trust me bro your source is
00:03:28 literally just he said she said well the average earning you just said that men earn more like
00:03:32 women are the ones picking them for me yeah but my source is the general social survey the institute
00:03:36 for family studies and you know that you know the source name congratulations okay well what i'm
00:03:42 what i'm saying is that well it's it's developed from census data they get the they get the um
00:03:47 incomes of married men. But all of your arguments revolve around divorce. You're talking about
00:03:52 divorce as if it's this inevitability of marriage. Well, it's about half. The prompt is marriage is
00:03:56 a bad deal for men, not divorce is a bad deal for men. Well, it's about half. It's not about half.
00:03:59 It's actually steadily declining. As of last year, it's 40%. Right, because less people are getting
00:04:02 married. That's not necessarily true. Of the percentage of people who get married, only 40%
00:04:07 could divorce. One at a time, please. One at a time. The marriage rate is lower than it's been
00:04:11 since the Civil War. So that's based on census data. Okay, so your argument is that marriage
00:04:15 is a bad deal for men because of women. Is that what you're saying? I'm saying that marriage is
00:04:18 a bad deal for men because of the risk of divorce, alimony, child support, and losing everything they
00:04:23 worked for. Yes. And all of those things you attribute to women? Women are the ones enforcing
00:04:27 those laws. Yes. Marriage is a better indicator of happiness in men than regular sex, than income 1.00
00:04:33 and education. This is proven by the General Social Survey. You said earlier that sexless
00:04:37 marriages are a large portion of why men watch porn, why men do all of these things, when marriage
00:04:41 itself is a better indicator of happiness for them than what you stated but then men are nine
00:04:45 times more likely to commit suicide after divorce yeah but divorce one at a time well it's about
00:04:50 half but you talk about divorce as if it's an inevitable part of marriage that's not true
00:04:55 well it's again if i push a drug and um let's say a quarter of people have side effects if you push
00:05:02 marriage there's going to be a percentage of men that get a really bad deal out of it and they
00:05:05 should know what they're signing up for so i'm not here to say do it or don't do it that's up to you
00:05:10 as a man you get to decide are you drawing a comparison between marriage and drugs as if
00:05:13 that's a legitimate comparison well yeah what i would say is that i've seen men that have lost
00:05:18 everything and um it's actually affected the way i view it a lot because there's just how do i put
00:05:26 it there's like a death in a man's eyes when he's lost his children and he's been put on a lot of
00:05:31 child support and alimony and until you've really seen that and interviewed those guys i don't think
00:05:36 going to have the same point of view um and if you run the data about what percent of men are
00:05:41 on child support there's a significant portion that do pay a lot so i think you should and it's
00:05:47 about it's about okay i interview women all the time but i think you should interview women in
00:05:52 place of men because if you talk to their experiences right there's probably also death
00:05:56 in their eyes when they talk about how they were abused and they had to divorce and it was a good
00:05:59 option for them so i don't know why you're talking about divorce as if it substantiates your claim
00:06:03 at all when your claim is that marriage is a bad deal for men not of course well men are nine times
00:06:08 more likely to commit suicide after divorce when i've and i've interviewed a lot of guys that were
00:06:13 on the brink of it like i interviewed on terrence pop 30-year veteran and he after being overseas
00:06:18 the way that the law is set up um because he was deployed um it automatically assumes that the
00:06:25 woman is the better caretaker and that's not really fair to him because he was doing what he
00:06:29 was supposed to do for his country and he was on the verge of committing suicide and there's a lot
00:06:34 of men that that's happened to and the data indicates that so you can take it or leave it
00:06:39 it's fine but um i would say if you're going to get married you should look at the laws in your
00:06:44 state where do you find these men who you're interviewing um the last one i got from a
00:06:49 homeless shelter so i went to homeless shelter and asked what percent are on child support
00:06:53 so i'm i'm assuming that when there's thousands of men right i'm operating under the well you
00:06:57 We used to save 500 men from suicide.
00:06:59 So he actually runs a nonprofit where men are saved from suicide.
00:07:03 Okay, and that's a great story for him, but that's not supported by any legitimate data, right?
00:07:07 Like, the topic is about marriage, and you're pivoting to these points, these anecdotal examples about divorce.
00:07:13 Who's put on child support, men or women?
00:07:15 Who's put on child support?
00:07:17 Who's put on child support, men or women?
00:07:17 Is the topic, is child support bad for men?
00:07:19 Is that the topic?
00:07:21 Hold on, one at a time, please.
00:07:22 Go ahead.
00:07:22 I'm answering her question.
00:07:23 No, you're right, you're right.
00:07:24 She's not answering mine.
00:07:24 Yeah, yeah, that's fine.
00:07:25 Like if she's not gonna who's put on child support at men or women? Well, we're not talking about child support right now
00:07:30 We're talking. Yeah, if you if you don't mind answer because she has answered a few of yours
00:07:32 If you who's put on child support, what do you mean? Who pays it? Who is put on child support?
00:07:37 Men or women children are put on child support. What do you mean?
00:07:40 I think she starts referencing in regards to like divorce, you know, who generally ends up having to pay child support men
00:07:45 Or women men skip most of their child support payments, right?
00:07:48 Because men do not pay them
00:07:50 Who pays child support who's put on child support men or women are expected to pay?
00:07:54 they don't the majority of the time they don't okay that's not true um are who pays alimony men
00:08:01 or women alimony alimony is steadily decreasing i studied accounting okay but who pays it men or 1.00
00:08:07 women what do you mean are you stupid like who pays it are you stupid let's try not being so 1.00
00:08:12 compliant battered here let's get back the question i'm asking are you so angry yeah let's just go 1.00
00:08:16 yeah we go back to the video yeah let's let's let's just take it back one more try here a little bit
00:08:20 one more notch here before we go off the deep end i mean i'm answering her question sure yeah
00:08:25 if you if you don't mind answer the question she has answered a few years she said who pays alimony
00:08:30 yeah the majority of the time men expect women expect men to pay alimony okay who pays child
00:08:36 support we just majority of the time men do but they don't okay okay who gets custody of the kids
00:08:42 who gets custody of the children the majority of time the women get custody okay so therefore therefore
00:08:47 who gets kicked out of the house what are you who gets to keep the house and most divorces 0.91
00:08:51 probably the women because they're taking care of the children right like this is like pretty
00:08:54 common sense okay so if you get married that is a risk that you don't get authority over 0.97
00:09:00 your own children that you're going to be put on alimony you're going to be put on child support
00:09:03 and you're going to lose the house that you um that you bought and so i just think it's 0.68
00:09:09 disingenuous to not say that is a real risk but that's so what what do you think men get out of
00:09:14 marriage what do i think men get out of marriage what do they get out of it they live longer as
00:09:18 i've already stated they earn more money they retire with 10 times the amount of assets and
00:09:23 they're more likely to be happy okay companionship if the average marriage is seven years do they get
00:09:27 that that's not the average marriage i looked up that statistic because you've used it before
00:09:31 the average marriage that ends in divorce is seven to eight years the average marriage is 20.
00:09:35 okay so but if it still ends do they get that if it still ends do they get what companionship
00:09:41 No, but 68% of men who get divorced, remarry.
00:09:44 That's more than the percentage of women who get divorced and remarry.
00:09:46 Okay, so going to money, if they're put on child support... 1.00
00:09:48 We have to let her respond now. Go ahead. 0.99
00:09:50 Yeah, if marriage is such a bad deal for men,
00:09:52 then how come they're more likely to remarry after divorcing
00:09:54 if divorce is so bad, as you've stated, than women are? 0.97
00:09:57 Because men will always do it. They're romantics. 0.50
00:09:59 They're romantics. So then why aren't you married?
00:10:01 Why has no one wanted to marry you?
00:10:02 Let's keep the personal here out of this, please, if we can.
00:10:05 If she doesn't, we can't do it.
00:10:06 Yeah, if you do it again, I will have to end. 1.00
00:10:08 She's going for personal attacks. 1.00
00:10:09 Yeah, I don't want to have any personal attacks.
00:10:10 I hate to have to make this announcement.
00:10:12 Let's kind of focus on the topic I can, if we can, if we don't mind.
00:10:15 So that's last warning on this one.
00:10:17 Okay, you said money.
00:10:18 If he loses money after divorce, is he richer?
00:10:21 If he loses money after divorce.
00:10:22 If he's on child support and alimony after, is he richer?
00:10:25 But why are you talking about divorce as if, I'm saying this again, as if it's an inevitability of marriage?
00:10:29 Because a percentage of men will get divorced.
00:10:31 Yeah, less than half.
00:10:33 Not by much.
00:10:34 40% of men will get divorced, but you're talking about it as if it's a part of marriage.
00:10:38 Are you saying 40% is a substantial risk?
00:10:40 but then they get remarried pearl 68 of them do so so what's the point like if your argument
00:10:45 revolves i'm not telling men not to get married then what are you telling them it's a bad deal
00:10:50 it's favorable to women so your sources trust me bro why would they take it's favorable it's
00:10:54 i don't give them advice but this is advice when you say i'm saying it's a favorable contract to
00:11:00 women and you agreed because you said that women are the ones that are getting child support
00:11:05 alimony and custody no that's favorable divorce divorce often that's favorable to women divorce
00:11:11 not marriage the prompt is marriage and not correct and so so if we're talking about marriage
00:11:15 specifically it is incredibly beneficial for men okay a percentage of marriages get divorced though
00:11:20 correct a percentage so you're extrapolating a small roughly half roughly half get divorced
00:11:26 correct roughly half roughly 40 let's be specific 40 and 50 is a big difference it is a big difference
00:11:33 OK, so the majority versus the minority, not by much.
00:11:36 So 40 percent get divorced. 0.71
00:11:38 And again, men are the ones paying child support, alimony, and she gets the house and the kids. 1.00
00:11:44 So it's favorable to women. 0.98
00:11:45 So your argument is, right, don't get married because 60 percent of the time you'll live longer. 0.85
00:11:51 You'll earn more. You'll retire with more money and you'll be happier.
00:11:53 But 40 percent of the time I might lose everything. 0.98
00:11:55 I think that's that women take credit for everything because you are assuming that the men make money or happier and live longer 0.97
00:12:03 because of the woman and i was i would say that the man is um women pick men that do that anyway 0.55
00:12:09 so okay so my arguments are contingent on research your arguments are contingent on
00:12:14 generalizations okay are you just here are you just here to insult me no i think that's why
00:12:17 you are you just don't like me it's fine i'm here to ask you for your i don't really get that vibe
00:12:22 i don't really get that vibe i'm gonna go ahead worry about it that time anyway why don't you go
00:12:26 ahead you have a closing if you want to give it then you have a final response okay no nothing
00:12:29 else? No, I'm good. All right. Any final thoughts? That's all I got. All right. Thank you so much.
00:12:35 I would say that marriage is a bad deal for anyone. I think it's a bad deal for men and
00:12:39 women both involved because and not the idea of marriage, right? Like the idea of two people
00:12:44 being committed to each other forever to have a good life together. I believe that's beautiful.
00:12:47 I hope it happens for me. I hope it happens for you. But marriage as an institution, I don't think
00:12:52 it's good for anyone. When you pay the government and allow them further into your life, I think
00:12:57 it's a bad deal for everyone involved except the government um i also believe that if it's supposed
00:13:03 to be from this holy matrimony uh religious you know sanctity kind of thing then there's a
00:13:08 separation between church and state like i just don't personally think involving the government
00:13:12 any further into your lives is a good idea they're already up our twats and at this point it's like
00:13:18 no one's going to come out ahead of that except the government and do you even know what your
00:13:22 money for when you register for marriage goes to it just goes to public services which that could
00:13:26 mean anything and it goes into social security partially actually goes into no it goes into
00:13:32 public services and part of it actually goes to domestic violence assistant programs which i
00:13:37 think is funny that our marriage licenses goes to that so i don't think it's a good idea for anyone
00:13:42 and not again the idea of being with one person forever just the idea of marriage on paper what
00:13:48 is the difference from yesterday and today if we'd been living together paying the same bills 0.90
00:13:52 doing all the same shit what's changed the government knows now cool i don't think i 0.96
00:13:57 disagree i don't think i mean i would say it's more favorable towards women because you hear 0.97
00:14:01 the thing though you say that too but i agree with like on paper who there's no dissee but
00:14:05 when you're talking about on paper too like i understand the idea of like people wanting to
00:14:09 have protections right because you're over here talking about how men are going to lose half
00:14:13 their stuff well some women might lose their lives you know we're going to be here for five
00:14:17 hours today that means 30 women will die while we're here because every 10 minutes someone is 0.99
00:14:21 killed by their former ex-lover. So you're worried about men losing stuff. Women might lose their
00:14:26 lives. So I understand protections on paper, but you don't need to register with the government
00:14:30 that you're married. You can still write up personal contracts with a notary if you're in
00:14:34 that situation where you really feel you need protections. Otherwise, I don't know if you
00:14:39 should get married if you feel you need to be protected from this person. Right. But people
00:14:44 change after marriage. Yeah, of course they do. All the time. So I don't disagree with the
00:14:48 stuff that you're saying. I would still say that because women are more likely to receive 0.70
00:14:52 alimony child support. The only reason that is, though, and let me finish. So I would still say 0.93
00:14:57 that because women are more likely to receive alimony child support, custody of the children 0.78
00:15:01 in the house, that it is still unfavorable to men and more favorable towards women. So 90% 0.76
00:15:06 of custody cases are settled within the couple. They decide. Doesn't go to court. And then,
00:15:11 go ahead, go ahead. The reasoning for that is because a lot of lawyers tell them to settle
00:15:17 because it's going to be so expensive it still costs them like 25 30 000 so you're just saying 0.91
00:15:22 stuff there's no stats you're just saying shit that's fine i could say stuff too um but reality 0.90
00:15:27 is 90 are settled within the couple and also men pay alimony yeah how many lawyers out of how many 0.98
00:15:35 pearl like that's ridiculous but anyway this is kind of what liberals do is they don't want you
00:15:39 to believe your eyes so they want they like the problem is a lot of a lot of liberals um you guys 0.85
00:15:45 want to have higher status and so you think because you read a study you know something
00:15:49 i don't know what and and yeah because i read a study and i retained information i do know
00:15:54 something not really i mean it's you're just that's studying not really not really okay well
00:15:59 anyways and then to the alimony lawyer who's an expert in a subject knows more than you yeah go
00:16:05 ahead and respond anyway but with the alimony 97 of the time it is the men who are going to pay
00:16:10 alimony but the reason for that is because since the beginning of time women have been told to
00:16:14 stay at home so of course 97 of men but they're not told that now no no but we're but okay but
00:16:21 there's still marriages continue like life can take things change but you know now because still 1.00
00:16:27 structurally most women are the ones who are going to give up their personal careers and lives to 1.00
00:16:31 take care of the children if it was the opposite women would be paying the 97 of that money women 1.00
00:16:35 still have the option to not so you don't have to but the people that you can have a stay-at-home 1.00
00:16:40 husband now if you want yeah you could so so if they divorced and he was down and out i would
00:16:45 assume he she would have to pay him i disagree same way it would be i think if you want to be
00:16:50 equal be equal and be responsible for your that's equal if she gave up his life i would say i would
00:16:56 say it should be 50 50 custody custody no child support no alimony whatever choice you make
00:17:02 you should be responsible for cool so then what do you tell i agree with you take the government
00:17:05 out of marriage okay so then what do you tell a woman though who has been married for 20 years
00:17:09 didn't work because she was raising her kids and now he's decided to trade her in for a new model
00:17:13 uh so what does she do now get a job just like the men but she's has no work experience has no 0.99
00:17:18 resume maybe they're still kids to be raised you don't think that could be a nanny there's uh 1.00
00:17:23 gonna be a nanny you could do meal prep for a wealthier family you could do you know what i
00:17:27 hear when you talk like that one at a time one at a time go ahead you're someone who grew up affluent
00:17:31 you don't understand the normal american experience that's not an insult telling you
00:17:35 that you grew up with money is factual okay here we go here we go here's the issue i i don't want 0.99
00:17:41 to like dive into anybody's personal lives what the fuck is personal about that you put it on 0.60
00:17:45 instagram that you have a slide stop stop stop this is what's gonna happen if we do one more 0.87
00:17:52 like first like i like that's it i've said it like five times now that's not i i don't want
00:17:56 to talk about anybody's backgrounds that seems to be a trigger issue that's like i got well listen
00:18:01 i have to keep peace here just uh yeah like keep it to like a generalized statements not about
00:18:06 uh the person specifically please generalized statement uh i saw on your instagram
00:18:13 i'm just kidding i'm just kidding but i didn't put it out there okay she did but anyway at the
00:18:18 end of the day you do agree with me that it's just a bad idea for anyone especially when you're
00:18:22 registering with the government all right all right and i know you think oh men are gonna come
00:18:26 out ahead but let's be real here how many women die from the guy that they you're worried about
00:18:31 men losing their stuff women lose their lives i don't know what to say there's no danger and
00:18:35 risk to everything yeah um i would say that the behavior is so insufferable what behavior um 0.92
00:18:41 you're very argumentative and bitchy okay well you can't you can't attack her yeah you can't 0.75
00:18:46 attack her no no no no no none of us nobody's attacking each other no listen listen no we're 0.94
00:18:53 gonna we're gonna keep it uh professional we're all professionals here let's like try not to
00:18:58 attack each other because if you attack her i'm not attacking i'm just feeling your humiliation
00:19:02 okay so again you see okay all right i can't imagine what do you all right i'm gonna let you
00:19:08 have i'm just asking really quick like do you think it's a bad deal for men because they might
00:19:12 have to pay alimony okay 10 of cases go to alimony 10 and that is because she stayed at home to take
00:19:19 care of the children there's a reason for alimony also the days uh the laws maybe they're outdated
00:19:24 but men wrote the laws a lot of these judges are men like men still are part of i guess the problem
00:19:32 if you want to call it that of alimony they're still just as involved i can't imagine the
00:19:37 companionship that men get out of marriage based on these conversations from you or me when we go
00:19:43 on to the men writing the laws i agree men throw other men under the bus all the time
00:19:48 i agree with you on getting the government out of marriage yeah but i think that with you
00:19:53 specifically that is upsetting is the fact that you're willing to throw women under the bus just
00:19:59 to be a pick me for men and that sucks because reality is you should be all right yeah i'm i'm 0.73
00:20:05 calling on that that's another okay i've asked you you have one closing statement and then you're 0.90
00:20:09 done all right okay all right all right all right just say you're like you got one minute say your
00:20:18 last thing and then i'm i'm ending it for you don't make another personal attack okay you know
00:20:21 know what this has nothing to do with pearl fine i have a minute left do not if you are thinking of 0.98
00:20:25 getting married do not register with the government it's ran by a pedophilic rapist who's part of the 0.93
00:20:30 predator class and you shouldn't listen to anything pearl has to say either there's no statistic here 0.77
00:20:35 all right well thank you fan i appreciate it yeah guys i i don't want to end people early because
00:20:40 a lot of y'all came from long distances and and this this goes for everybody no personal attack