Pearl - May 15, 2026


We don’t call women losers enough


Episode Stats


Length

5 minutes

Words per minute

136.61272

Word count

723

Sentence count

29

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

13

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Hate speech

9

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Summary

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On today's episode of Thick & Thin I talk about a recent encounter I had with a family member and how it made me realize how much of a loser I am. I also talk about the fact that women have a hard time admitting they are losers publicly.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What up, guys? I'm getting my steps. So recently, I went to a family event. It was a couple months ago. And I met, like, I don't know if he was like a second cousin or something, but someone related to me.
00:00:16.380 for those of you that don't know, my mom was one of 13, uh, nine kids. My dad was one of 13 kids.
00:00:23.640 So I just have like a ton of cousins. So this person is not representative of my entire family.
00:00:33.280 Um, it's just, you know, when you have a lot of family, you're bound to have somebody that's done
00:00:37.400 everything. So anyways, I have this cousin and he, um, came up to me. He said he like
00:00:42.460 watched my stuff or whatever um and I wonder I can't remember what exactly he said but it was
00:00:50.600 something along the lines of like um you're so successful like not everybody you know is like
00:00:59.440 a loser like me or it was something something like kind of self-deprecating a little bit
00:01:04.340 and I'm like, oh, you know, why did you, why did you say that? You know what I mean? Like, 0.92
00:01:12.900 that's a little bit, it's a little rude. And so he's like, yeah, well, I was in rehab and then,
00:01:18.980 um, I don't know. He started telling me his life story. Right. And it was pretty loserish. Like,
00:01:24.740 I can't even lie to him. It was like rehab, drug addiction, severely overweight. Um, so I was like,
00:01:31.800 okay well I guess you know you're not wrong you know what I mean that's not inaccurate so
00:01:39.320 but there's something cool about talking to this guy and I think you kind of get that
00:01:46.220 when you talk to men or men that have really messed up their life they're very um humble
00:01:52.280 like there's zero ego and they're very honest about their situation they're like well 0.87
00:01:57.380 I did mess up in life and I am kind of a loser. And then, you know, when you reach that acceptance
00:02:04.780 phase, because I think there's, you know, people can be losers, but there's nothing like a delusional 0.98
00:02:10.200 loser. Like someone who's a loser, but very delusional about it. But I never see that humility 0.98
00:02:17.660 with women, right? I never see women that just admit they're a loser in life. Like, okay, if 1.00
00:02:26.820 you're a divorced, overweight, single mother in a boatload of credit card debt, how could you say
00:02:32.980 you're doing well? I mean, just objectively, you are not doing well in life. And I think women have
00:02:43.760 this like, I don't know, pride in how much of a loser they can be because you see all these 1.00
00:02:52.660 movements that are like celebrating, uh, being a loser. Like there's women with accounts, 1.00
00:02:59.280 you know, what do we call accounts celebrating being in a ton of debt? They call it like 1.00
00:03:07.240 girl math, you know, there's accounts celebrating, um, women being insanely overweight, 1.00
00:03:15.140 like putting their roles on the internet. It's completely disgusting. Um, there's accounts 1.00
00:03:19.400 celebrating women catching STDs and I'm just thinking like you know but if you call them a 0.60
00:03:27.500 loser like they could list out all of the reasons that they're losers right publicly they could list 0.63
00:03:33.800 out you know being fat overweight divorce debt STDs whatever it is publicly 1.00
00:03:41.120 but if you acknowledge and agree and say you know what you are a loser 0.99
00:03:48.160 that's when they get offended 0.98
00:03:52.720 and it's just like men 0.98
00:03:55.380 you know
00:03:56.080 men really
00:04:07.760 they kind of accept their lot in life 1.00
00:04:10.900 but women 1.00
00:04:11.460 it's just cope 1.00
00:04:13.580 so anyways
00:04:16.640 Second thing I wanted to talk about is a little off topic, but whatever.
00:04:24.100 You know, the Daily Wire, I saw that they hired another woman.
00:04:31.220 And this was after Brett Cooper and Candace Owens crashed out and literally like took down their business.
00:04:37.940 So I'm thinking like, why on earth would you hire another woman?
00:04:42.600 like have you guys not learned your lesson you guys are just gonna keep it's kind of like men 0.96
00:04:51.460 that get married like five times it's like how many how many times you gotta do this
00:05:00.980 until you think you know what maybe i've learned my lesson this time around
00:05:06.920 so anyways um let me know what you guys think like the video subscribe and i'll see you next time