Pearl - November 19, 2025


When Modern Women CHOOSE To Be Single Moms You Know Something Is Wrong


Episode Stats

Length

5 minutes

Words per Minute

186.83435

Word Count

1,035

Sentence Count

104

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I mean, if you're going to be a single mom, I mean, you might as well get a hot guy to just
00:00:03.360 you. What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So many women make terrible choices every day
00:00:09.420 when it comes to money, our careers, our education, and our choice of who to reproduce with. But now
00:00:16.640 women are actually going public and admitting our poor decisions. And today we actually have
00:00:22.080 a woman admitting why she's choosing to be a single mother. So let's, let's see what she says.
00:00:27.640 Great question. I would love to tell you. All right. So white woman shit. I've talked about
00:00:31.780 black women shit on this channel and it's like ghetto shit. White woman shit is anything that
00:00:36.820 we do with money. Like when there's too much money and time on our hands, like feminism.
00:00:41.800 I mean, even abortion. I mean, why did Margaret Sanger have the time to think about eugenics?
00:00:47.600 Do you know what I mean? Like she should have been busy doing something. IVF is like,
00:00:52.680 that's another one, you know? Great question. I would love to tell you.
00:00:57.340 I'm not saying this is like sperm donor. So a lot of single moms say this wasn't by choice.
00:01:02.480 And I sort of feel the same way. I am 41. I am just at a great time in my life and career where
00:01:10.460 I have the financial capacity, the time and space. I've been designing my business for five years now
00:01:17.260 to be able to have my business run from home and to have free time. But I think the biggest reason
00:01:24.580 is that I come from a divorced family and we had a really hard, messy divorce between my parents
00:01:30.120 and I just never wanted to go through a custody battle with a man. So that was a big driving force
00:01:36.360 for me. I've been dating. Okay. Translation. I want complete control and I cannot fathom giving
00:01:43.040 anyone control. I've been dating obviously since I was 16 and I just never found someone that I felt like
00:01:48.600 I wanted to spend the rest of my... Translation. I shot too high, got banged out and I took an L.
00:01:54.640 My life went and I was raised by a single mom. And honestly, when my parents got divorced,
00:01:59.400 our household ran so much better when it was just my mother. My mom taught me to hate men
00:02:03.600 and I do now hate men. We didn't have to go to mom and dad to ask for permission for stuff.
00:02:09.120 He let us do whatever we wanted after the dad was gone and there was no structure and I loved it.
00:02:13.200 And now I have an unstructured life. There were no arguments about what was, who was doing what
00:02:17.280 or healthcare issues. It just was very streamlined. Another factor is like I could just decide to do
00:02:23.200 it on my timeline. I wasn't really... People really want freedom. And I will say that men and women
00:02:28.300 really want freedom. Willing to wait anymore at 41. And I just felt really ready intuitively.
00:02:35.320 I also just firmly believe that having children and having the right partner can be totally separate.
00:02:41.880 It might be that I have multiple partners between now and 90. And I just didn't want to have like
00:02:47.720 the two things have to be the same thing. Yeah, this is white woman shit. I mean,
00:02:52.440 if you're going to be a single mom, I mean, you might as well get a hot guy to just nut in you.
00:02:56.440 I mean, and just say, Hey, I want nothing from you. If you want to be around, you can come. If not,
00:03:02.040 it's okay. It could be for my next child. Hopefully I have another one that I want to co-parent you.
00:03:06.420 Oh my God. I mean, you're 41. How many? All right. Situation. I don't know, but just this baby,
00:03:12.560 it was so intuitive. The choice for this donor that I went with. Um, it was...
00:03:19.300 Women are sharing men even in sperm donor form.
00:03:22.300 Like almost two years in the making where I felt very led and aligned at every single step to have
00:03:28.080 this child particularly. And so, yeah, nothing has really gone wrong. Everything has gone pretty...
00:03:34.160 This is going to keep happening. And it's so interesting because conservatives,
00:03:37.880 whenever a man does this, like he gets a surrogate, everyone crashes out. But women do this all the
00:03:43.940 time. And there is not an equal crash out. And men are better parents. Women are the ones that raise
00:03:49.000 criminals, drug dealers, and all these bad kids. Men raise pretty good kids. And even when you see
00:03:54.300 like gay guys, um, getting surrogates, I honestly think I would trust gay men more than single women.
00:04:00.340 I understand they're a little bit perverted or whatever, but you know, I just think on a balance
00:04:08.840 of probabilities, that's who I'm picking. Because at least they're a man. At least they have that
00:04:13.960 goodness in the... I understand they're like a perverted man, but at least I'm going to pick
00:04:18.420 the gay guy over the single woman. I really am. Um, because the single woman, she's going to have
00:04:22.980 all these men in and out. Um, she's going to be irresponsible. The gay guy might think about
00:04:28.060 the best interest of the kids. So you're right. I will make a part two about like all the
00:04:33.340 considerations. All right. All the considerations. Let's, let's see. Where's the part two. Oh
00:04:39.020 my gosh. Oh my God. That is a cute baby. I won't lie. But I mean, these women treat these
00:04:52.780 kids like pets. This is going to be more and more common. Uh, we don't call women losers
00:05:00.700 enough. We need to really increase the number when we call women losers. Okay guys. Um, if
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