Pearl - June 18, 2026


Why Do ＂Trad＂ Women Act The Way They Do


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10 minutes

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1,733

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53

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17

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Toxicity

22

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18

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00:00:00.000 Why do you think so many women say they want traditional men while rejecting traditional
00:00:04.580 expectations for themselves? But why wouldn't they? They get all the benefits without having 1.00
00:00:10.000 to do anything. And this is a perfect lead-in for this. I want to talk a little bit more about
00:00:16.360 the work you did, which I thought was brilliant. You ask really hard-hitting questions of people
00:00:24.780 in church, they did not like it. They didn't like it at all. And you were really just referencing
00:00:31.040 scripture when you were talking about it. And they threw you off the property.
00:00:39.120 And I noticed they sent the men out there to do that. 0.99
00:00:44.860 And I think it was the fat woman. I think that's who's behind it. 0.97
00:00:48.500 They do. Oh, there was women behind that scene. I promise you. 1.00
00:00:52.680 Yeah. Yeah. So sorry. What was the question? Well, one, did you ever get anything that
00:00:59.580 resembled an honest answer to the question, should Christian women obey their husbands? 1.00
00:01:05.440 Yes. Out of some, yeah, not most of them, I would say no, like most of them weren't really honest, 1.00
00:01:13.880 but there was one or two that came up that said yes with enthusiasm, integrity, and like you
00:01:19.460 could tell they really meant it i actually interviewed a nigerian couple today and it was
00:01:25.120 the most um because usually when you ask you do should women obey your like what i do for the
00:01:31.380 audience if you don't know i go to churches i bring a sign that says should women oh should
00:01:35.460 christian women obey their husbands um again i don't um i'm not saying you have to believe this
00:01:41.740 but if you claim to adopt a christian worldview i would argue that's part of it so today i actually
00:01:48.760 had a nigerian woman with her husband and she came up and she's like yes and then i'm like where's the
00:01:54.440 butt like there's no you were waiting for it and it didn't come and i'm like so if the pastor and 0.71
00:02:00.520 your husband disagree who are you asking who are you listening to and she's like my husband
00:02:05.400 and i'm like that's like the first time in probably i don't know 30 or 40 people that
00:02:10.360 i've interviewed that question that it was that simple because you think it was an accident that
00:02:15.640 she wasn't white i've actually noticed that white guys are the least red-pilled on women
00:02:24.840 and white women are certainly least red-pilled of all at least in my experience yeah uh but i 0.96
00:02:33.080 i also see that uh my black friends don't exactly have it easy with their women either 0.98
00:02:38.680 well yeah because if they get soft they'll get beat so yep it's true yeah i actually think that's 1.00
00:02:48.080 why black guys are a little bit more um red pilled on that is because they had crazier moms like 1.00
00:02:54.700 white women crazy and black women crazy are just a little different black very different yep just 1.00
00:02:59.420 like more in your face where white women like they'll destroy you too but it's just on the back 1.00
00:03:04.200 end. Yeah, they'll slide a knife in your back when nobody's looking and then say, oh, are you 1.00
00:03:10.720 bleeding? Black women are more honest. They bring it up front. Fair enough. I want to shift gears a 1.00
00:03:19.860 little bit here again. I've seen this before in your work. As a matter of fact, I saw it today.
00:03:24.580 You did a short video about how you went from red pill to black pill. And you referred to yourself
00:03:31.200 as a mid, assumingly referring to physical attractiveness. But here's what I want to ask
00:03:39.100 you. By all appearances, you really appear to be a driven woman with a very solid work ethic 0.52
00:03:46.060 and common sense thinking. If we're evaluating women not just on sexual attractiveness,
00:03:52.560 but maybe with a dowry ethos and stable pair bonding in mind, wouldn't that put you much
00:03:59.140 higher than a mid? Oh, yeah, if we count the dowry and that stuff, which is not really how
00:04:06.300 the world works. Well, I don't mean by dowry, I mean a dowry ethic, the expectation that you have
00:04:11.960 material value to bring to a pair bond and responsibility to bring to a pair bond. Wouldn't
00:04:19.340 that put you a good bit higher up on the scale in overall attractiveness? Yeah, then I could be a 10,
00:04:25.540 right well i i think there are probably men out there that would see it that way yeah yeah i
00:04:33.380 really like that idea of bringing a dowry into marriage um i think that's one of the better
00:04:39.420 ideas that you guys have had obviously it's not new but you know no it's not new and and i don't
00:04:46.100 think even uh shah or peter writer myself or any of us are saying that women need to show up with
00:04:52.640 the lump sum here's the dowry you know from your father or wherever you got it but the need to show
00:05:00.500 up part of the problem that men are dealing with now is that women show up and say well here i am 1.00
00:05:07.300 i have a vagina yeah my job is complete yeah i totally agree women are so lazy oh my god women 0.99
00:05:16.200 or it's it's bad there's a laziness epidemic yeah i don't see that pendulum swinging back 1.00
00:05:23.700 but what like why would why would especially young women be hard working they have so much 0.99
00:05:29.740 power people just do everything for them so you got to look at the incentives there's no incentive 0.98
00:05:35.440 to work hard and i think that's more of that common sense thinking because what i hear and
00:05:41.360 what you're saying is that this does go back to men yeah no it totally does that's i'm i'm to the
00:05:47.980 point in um i don't know black pilled red pilled i don't know but recently it's just i just i keep
00:05:54.900 asking myself there's like men that are married like why are you allowing your wife to do this
00:05:59.280 like why are you you got to walk away i understand it's it's tough but you gotta walk away because 0.70
00:06:06.520 Otherwise, she's just going to make you live with zero self-respect.
00:06:11.240 And what do you tell guys, because I've seen this a million times, that they will make
00:06:17.320 excuses for not walking away or for even having boundaries.
00:06:23.080 If I say no to her, it'll just get worse.
00:06:26.020 That sort of mentality of powerlessness pervades men these days.
00:06:31.460 And it's something that most of them don't appear to be capable of walking out of. 1.00
00:06:38.720 Well, then you're going to be enslaved to her poor decisions and bitchiness for a lifetime. 1.00
00:06:43.260 And if you want to be tortured, that's on you. 1.00
00:06:45.360 Good luck. 0.64
00:06:46.520 Some guys will never learn.
00:06:48.160 Some have to learn the hard way.
00:06:50.740 I'm going to give an amen to that one.
00:06:54.020 There are no victims, only volunteers.
00:06:56.400 And until men start accepting that, they're going to continue to live with misery.
00:07:01.460 unless they get very, very lucky in who they choose.
00:07:05.780 What motivated you to pick on the Catholic Church
00:07:09.400 and asking them about the obedience question?
00:07:13.360 I'll tell you what.
00:07:14.440 I didn't just pick on the Catholics. 1.00
00:07:16.360 I picked on. 1.00
00:07:17.400 But do you know what?
00:07:18.180 I was really tired of going on these shows.
00:07:20.480 And there's a circle of gaslighting they do.
00:07:23.260 They say not all women are like that.
00:07:24.800 My church is special.
00:07:25.880 Then I go to their church, and then they say, 0.93
00:07:28.960 well, you interviewed the wrong women from my church.
00:07:31.340 it's like dude what the are you're not allowed to stand with a sign outside my church why would
00:07:37.020 you go to a place of worship you didn't interview in the right way it's i just wanted to prove that
00:07:42.940 the women are the same and that i don't like being lied to so i went to the churches um i am open to
00:07:50.700 being proven wrong so if you go out and if i go out and all your women say yes we obey um but i
00:07:57.580 think it's disgusting that these churches are lying about god like they're lying about what's
00:08:02.540 in the bible because there's people that actually believe in the bible and it's your job as the
00:08:07.500 preacher or the priest or whatever um to tell the congregation what's in the bible and they don't
00:08:13.260 talk about any of the verses that have anything to do with female behavior so i really think that's 0.78
00:08:20.220 disgusting i witnessed it a lot growing up um i remember we had chastity speakers and the girl
00:08:25.340 was always run through the guy was always a virgin and they would say be like us and i'd
00:08:30.940 never heard about obedience and i went to catholic school for i don't know 20 years
00:08:35.340 so how did i go through 20 years catholic school and you never once talked about the verses on
00:08:41.020 obedience and i just know i know women that actually do believe in being obedient to their
00:08:47.100 husbands and they do believe in this stuff and i i think it's disgusting when people larp the
00:08:52.780 religion that's one and two i think it's disgusting when you take money from people
00:08:58.300 that really have a true faith and you're lying to them by not being honest about what's in the
00:09:02.220 scripture so yeah okay so this wasn't you're just a rebellion against the catholic church from your
00:09:09.260 catholic upbringing you're you're applying this across the board because i see it in protestant
00:09:14.940 churches all the time they will not talk about scripture and obedience and about women's behavior
00:09:21.980 and all what they'll do is get up in the pulpit and bash men and tell them they need to step up
00:09:26.940 man up do a better job uh caution them against porn cautioning them against even thinking
00:09:34.220 thoughts about other women and telling them that they better just suck it up and provide 0.97
00:09:40.220 and it's crazy because half those women are fat so it's like obviously he's watching 0.99
00:09:44.140 porn because you're fat like what's he gonna do no i went to um the first church i went to was 0.99
00:09:53.820 non-denominational then i did catholic then i did orthodox i tried to do mormon this sunday but we 0.99
00:09:59.800 got rained out so this next upcoming oh that would have been interesting yeah that's it's coming