Pearl - June 18, 2026Why Do ＂Trad＂ Women Act The Way They Do
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In this episode of the podcast, I'm joined by social media strategist, social media influencer and blogger, to talk about her new book, Should Christian Women Obeidre Their Husband? and why she thinks so many women say they want traditional men while rejecting traditional expectations for themselves.
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Why do you think so many women say they want traditional men while rejecting traditional
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expectations for themselves? But why wouldn't they? They get all the benefits without having
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to do anything. And this is a perfect lead-in for this. I want to talk a little bit more about
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the work you did, which I thought was brilliant. You ask really hard-hitting questions of people
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in church, they did not like it. They didn't like it at all. And you were really just referencing
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scripture when you were talking about it. And they threw you off the property.
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And I noticed they sent the men out there to do that.
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And I think it was the fat woman. I think that's who's behind it.
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They do. Oh, there was women behind that scene. I promise you.
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Yeah. Yeah. So sorry. What was the question? Well, one, did you ever get anything that
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resembled an honest answer to the question, should Christian women obey their husbands?
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Yes. Out of some, yeah, not most of them, I would say no, like most of them weren't really honest,
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but there was one or two that came up that said yes with enthusiasm, integrity, and like you
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could tell they really meant it i actually interviewed a nigerian couple today and it was
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the most um because usually when you ask you do should women obey your like what i do for the
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audience if you don't know i go to churches i bring a sign that says should women oh should
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christian women obey their husbands um again i don't um i'm not saying you have to believe this
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but if you claim to adopt a christian worldview i would argue that's part of it so today i actually
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had a nigerian woman with her husband and she came up and she's like yes and then i'm like where's the
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butt like there's no you were waiting for it and it didn't come and i'm like so if the pastor and
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your husband disagree who are you asking who are you listening to and she's like my husband
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and i'm like that's like the first time in probably i don't know 30 or 40 people that
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i've interviewed that question that it was that simple because you think it was an accident that
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she wasn't white i've actually noticed that white guys are the least red-pilled on women
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and white women are certainly least red-pilled of all at least in my experience yeah uh but i
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i also see that uh my black friends don't exactly have it easy with their women either
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well yeah because if they get soft they'll get beat so yep it's true yeah i actually think that's
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why black guys are a little bit more um red pilled on that is because they had crazier moms like
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white women crazy and black women crazy are just a little different black very different yep just
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like more in your face where white women like they'll destroy you too but it's just on the back
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end. Yeah, they'll slide a knife in your back when nobody's looking and then say, oh, are you
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bleeding? Black women are more honest. They bring it up front. Fair enough. I want to shift gears a
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little bit here again. I've seen this before in your work. As a matter of fact, I saw it today.
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You did a short video about how you went from red pill to black pill. And you referred to yourself
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as a mid, assumingly referring to physical attractiveness. But here's what I want to ask
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you. By all appearances, you really appear to be a driven woman with a very solid work ethic
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and common sense thinking. If we're evaluating women not just on sexual attractiveness,
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but maybe with a dowry ethos and stable pair bonding in mind, wouldn't that put you much
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higher than a mid? Oh, yeah, if we count the dowry and that stuff, which is not really how
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the world works. Well, I don't mean by dowry, I mean a dowry ethic, the expectation that you have
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material value to bring to a pair bond and responsibility to bring to a pair bond. Wouldn't
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that put you a good bit higher up on the scale in overall attractiveness? Yeah, then I could be a 10,
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right well i i think there are probably men out there that would see it that way yeah yeah i
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really like that idea of bringing a dowry into marriage um i think that's one of the better
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ideas that you guys have had obviously it's not new but you know no it's not new and and i don't
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think even uh shah or peter writer myself or any of us are saying that women need to show up with
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the lump sum here's the dowry you know from your father or wherever you got it but the need to show
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up part of the problem that men are dealing with now is that women show up and say well here i am
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i have a vagina yeah my job is complete yeah i totally agree women are so lazy oh my god women
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or it's it's bad there's a laziness epidemic yeah i don't see that pendulum swinging back
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but what like why would why would especially young women be hard working they have so much
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power people just do everything for them so you got to look at the incentives there's no incentive
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to work hard and i think that's more of that common sense thinking because what i hear and
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what you're saying is that this does go back to men yeah no it totally does that's i'm i'm to the
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point in um i don't know black pilled red pilled i don't know but recently it's just i just i keep
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asking myself there's like men that are married like why are you allowing your wife to do this
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like why are you you got to walk away i understand it's it's tough but you gotta walk away because
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Otherwise, she's just going to make you live with zero self-respect.
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And what do you tell guys, because I've seen this a million times, that they will make
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excuses for not walking away or for even having boundaries.
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That sort of mentality of powerlessness pervades men these days.
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And it's something that most of them don't appear to be capable of walking out of.
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Well, then you're going to be enslaved to her poor decisions and bitchiness for a lifetime.
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And if you want to be tortured, that's on you.
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And until men start accepting that, they're going to continue to live with misery.
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unless they get very, very lucky in who they choose.
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What motivated you to pick on the Catholic Church
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Then I go to their church, and then they say,
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well, you interviewed the wrong women from my church.
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it's like dude what the are you're not allowed to stand with a sign outside my church why would
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you go to a place of worship you didn't interview in the right way it's i just wanted to prove that
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the women are the same and that i don't like being lied to so i went to the churches um i am open to
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being proven wrong so if you go out and if i go out and all your women say yes we obey um but i
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think it's disgusting that these churches are lying about god like they're lying about what's
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in the bible because there's people that actually believe in the bible and it's your job as the
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preacher or the priest or whatever um to tell the congregation what's in the bible and they don't
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talk about any of the verses that have anything to do with female behavior so i really think that's
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disgusting i witnessed it a lot growing up um i remember we had chastity speakers and the girl
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was always run through the guy was always a virgin and they would say be like us and i'd
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never heard about obedience and i went to catholic school for i don't know 20 years
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so how did i go through 20 years catholic school and you never once talked about the verses on
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obedience and i just know i know women that actually do believe in being obedient to their
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husbands and they do believe in this stuff and i i think it's disgusting when people larp the
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religion that's one and two i think it's disgusting when you take money from people
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that really have a true faith and you're lying to them by not being honest about what's in the
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scripture so yeah okay so this wasn't you're just a rebellion against the catholic church from your
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catholic upbringing you're you're applying this across the board because i see it in protestant
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churches all the time they will not talk about scripture and obedience and about women's behavior
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and all what they'll do is get up in the pulpit and bash men and tell them they need to step up
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man up do a better job uh caution them against porn cautioning them against even thinking
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thoughts about other women and telling them that they better just suck it up and provide
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and it's crazy because half those women are fat so it's like obviously he's watching
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porn because you're fat like what's he gonna do no i went to um the first church i went to was
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non-denominational then i did catholic then i did orthodox i tried to do mormon this sunday but we
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got rained out so this next upcoming oh that would have been interesting yeah that's it's coming